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Do u think ias aspirant women care if they want to wear saree or not they do not care they only want the job I have never seen any ias even talking about this matter even after getting job u need to wear saree or salwar and they without compain wear it .

​@@football_Zx Just because They don't say it publicly, the matter doesn't go away

@@doodlymation if u don't even talk about it publicly how this matter does not go way ??? Many does not even know there is a matter like this . Even if they know why they wear it ???

@@doodlymation just saying, few of my friends who went for interview, they love wearing sarees most of ias aspirants dont have issue with it so idk why making small issue so big.

Arehhh.... Obviously you can wear suit/ kurti . Interview nehi dekhi kya ?? Ma'am bhi keh rahi he ki suit can wear. Sab ke liye kuch rules regulation he usko manna hoga. Agar koi kisiko nehi manega toh desh kese chalega. Saree/ suit acha hi he tumko shorts pehne he kya interview me bhi. Agar ek din bhi koi interview me yeh nehi kar sakte toh woh IAS jese pado ke liye kabil hi nehi

Actually dress depend too , it shows respect and dignity

Don't judge a book by it's cover, is the appearance of a person, like we shud not term them ugly or beautiful or decide on it, their inner beauty is diff. And definitely dressing matters to show ur maturity.

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Exactly my thoughts, why not dhoti or kurta for men?

Correct.

@@P.S.... sir/ma'am, you're not getting my point. I'm not trying to make it any gender issue or discarding the male officers' dress code. I'm just asking why aren't these dress code on the same standard. Why only for women sari is preferred. On the other hand why dhoti isn't preferred for men? Have you seen any of them saying they prefer male officer with Dhoti? Kindly try to understand what I'm trying to say instead of getting offended.

@@P.S.... I'm not saying dress code is wrong. I'm saying be fair. Have same boundaries for both the genders.

After becoming an officer what would you wear , a hoodie ? 😂 dress code shows the discipline so it's necessary

Your comment shows your childish mindset. Its not faking anything, the interview literally marks the beginning of adulthood and responsibility of the highest order in Indian administration. After landing the job, you wont have the time or energy to focus on such silly issues as spending money lavishly on shoes and clothes, your family will enjoy the benefits, you'll be proud of being able to provide it for them, but wont have enough time to sit back and relax.

As it is said interview is a conversation of lies between two persons😂😂

Why do you hate females embracing their Feminity? Feminity is such a mystical beauty. If you dont want to wear bindi, sure! But dont be too sarcastic over females loving their Feminity.

RIghttt! a sense of maturity and she has the audacity to say it's just what's preferable when in reality they judge the hell out of the person 🙄

Crazy traditions.

Hinduphobic 😂 well honestly bindi actually adds to maturity on face ,if you don't like her advise it don't follow it ,why are you crying in the comments section ,looks like you are really frustrated due to prep !!

​@@snehajagajith6409 yeah wear hijab then

Why not women pay the bills then

@Quicksilver12345 What is the connection between dhoti and bills??

Bcz dhoti is not common in all the states, but saree is

@@Goodlypiru Why?? Dhoti and saree are our culture.

@@pallavigupta2934 you are not getting my point. Dhoti is not worn in all the states. Men's traditional attire is different in different states. Dhoti is worn in different styles also it will be difficult for all the men to wear dhoti in a similar style. Kerala Tamil kannada people wear dhoti in different styles, Bengali and Odisha people wear in a different style. Rajasthani men prefer poshak , Maharashtran people wear dhoti in different style. Similarly Northeast States have different traditional attire some do not wear dhoti there, so Dhoti is not common in all the states but saree and salwar is common to all the state .

True Girl for tredition looks and for boy they wears what they want 😂😂😂 nice joke

This is a gender biased rule.Western for boys and traditional for girls.

The dumbest take anyone can have is saying english is western. English language is to be known by every person. It is part of our history too. Accept it and don't mock others for speaking English. The question here is about attire and dressing style. Address that first.

@@gsmagb8257 नहीं, अंग्रेजी हमारी संस्कृति का हिस्सा नहीं है यह पहले थोपी गई थी

@@PreetiSaharan-ly5tq my point still stands. No point in being so defensive and living in such a small world. And yes, it is part of our history. U still haven't accepted it. English is the most useful language we have. But again u can do what u want.

​@@gsmagb8257both Eng and western attires are foreign ..and yeah they've become a part of our culture...wht she wanted to say...that if giving interview in eng is preferable...why ain't western dresses...

Yeah and then don't selected 😂,babe there are certain formal wear that are preferable .

i get that, but why is it so? thats like basically saying "a woman who wears indian is better than a woman in a blazer" but the exact opposite for men. why the double standard? considering the exam, which is a civil service exam, dont you think the interviewee's mindset matters more than what they wear? i understand the need to look professional, but that can be done with both styles of dressing can they not? so why is one "prefered" for the woman, and other for the man?

I think it's not a double standard ... She not said with a hatred .. we have seen women in sarees more official and vibrant in sarees rather than in blazzers But we haven't seen a men in dhotis It's not about culture it is about looks and opinion She not said to wear a blazers If you want to wear ... Just wear it She said it on her opinion

But its not important every women wears saari on interview we can wears what we want Western or tradition main important thing is aur dress-up should be perfect and good for interview with body language and main thing is aur skills and knowledge

@@Neethanbellary2004 I know what every woman wears on interview. I'm asking why men don't wear our traditional outfits in interviews? Aren't they considered formal enough? I mean dhoti, veshti all these carry our culture and heritage, still ethnic wear considered casual or informal in case of men

@@cia1894 true they also wear dhoti kurta

Exactly..

Yes😂

True

Then it should be applied to men only. Hypocrites

In the first lines itself you've made it clear that for a wedding function girls prefer lehenga, gown etc... It is a preference there. Preference definitely becomes their choice. However, asking someone to wear what they don't like to isn't a choice. A person must be judged by his/her character and how good he/she is at his/her work. Not merely by the clothes they wear, despite it being hygienic. This is a kind of conditioning where we correlate formal clothes with discipline and professionalism. Before in Kerala, it was mandatory for govt school teachers to wear saree in the name of discipline, professionalism and so on. But now it has gradually changed where teachers can be in any other attire too. Before it was a must for students to braid their hairs to school, it being the way to showcase discipline. There has been discussions on this issue here in Kerala as braiding was mandatory even if the hairs was wet. The purpose of addressing your senior officers or boss as sir/madam is also being questioned by even some ias officers itself here in Kerala. So yes, the mindset of the coming generation are changing for the good at a faster pace. And there will definitely be a day when society as a whole will start looking at this from a different perspective as that is what we've have seen in the history too regarding various other erstwhile discipline norms❤

@@sandrarhari Read carefully... I have also written that sarees and suits are PREFERRED for interviews... I have never said that they are bound to wear that... And I have also written that if they don't wanna wear saree or suit they can go for formals

@@sshreya0820 I've read through the lines, dear. 'Go on a trip or tour and wear clothes of your choice' 'if they are confident they can wear western formal wear' 'Debating on wearing clothes of your choice is childish' All these are the sentences that made me think and write about. Is it that only when you are on a trip you can be on a clothing of your choice? What is the so-called 'formal' wear? I think it's high time the perspective on putting things unnecessarily into boxes in the name of being formal and decent changes. Once Zuckerburg, the founder of Facebook was criticised for wearing a hoodie to a highly professional business meeting. Yet, he was always the Zuckerburg. From my point of view, this 'wearing formal to meeting or interview' stuff has to change sooner or later. And how can 'debating on why we can't wear clothes of our choice' become childish while you still have people even those ones who are educated, qualified and at higher positions judge others on the basis of their clothing? Even when they say it is not mandatory to follow a dress code, they do judge you and their demeanour will differ accordingly.

Mam mine too ❤

You can use either Hindi or English.

South indians don't know hindi may the panel contains south indians,,,only simple english is enough for interview

An IAS aspirant here, I suggest you stick to your studies till graduation, and then jump into preparation for CSE.. also, a word of advice, don't count your chicks before they are hatched !

@@shivanigoyal2937 the reason why u r still an aspirant is clear

@@vinitatripa7766 I guess I don't need to explain my situation to you. Rest assured, it has been my childhood dream too. And what makes you say that this "still" aspirant might not have cleared the first few stages or is still unemployed .. I might be someone who's already in the services 😂 it's funny how people who literally have no idea on a certain topic find themselves eligible to dish out information. 😂😂 how much do YOU remember of your 6th grade studies after 10 years, would be a question worth seeking answer too, as well. Peace !😂

@@shivanigoyal2937 itna bada para likhne se better hai tayari krlo shyd nikal jae

@@vinitatripa7766girl she is just sharing her opinion and trying to help no need to be rude won’t be a officer with that attitude

Exactly. I think always wearing sarees in such occassions seems inconvenient. Female diplomats should also be allowed to wear suits imo like male diplomats. Standards shoukd not always be put on females.

Saari is also good for girls but in blazer the girl so cool

Suit

Cause you’re going in an interview, you gotta keep it formal.

@@Killformee did she mention anywhere for boys to be in traditional wears ??

True I agree

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Saree is the culture wear of India if u are thinking of becoming ias u are representing india not only arunachal pradesh

I am in class 7 and my dream also to become an IAS officer 💖

Beta ap ap dono pado or khub pado me graduation last year ki student hu mene upsc ki taiyari shuru ki hai avi ..okk so ap dono achhe se pado jo bhi subject lena chahoge 11th standard me ,so I think you can go for social science subject ok and jo bhi ap abhi NCERTs pad rhe hoge bo sab ache se padna bo bhi upsc ka hi part hai use waste nhi samjhna...

ias aspirant does not care about dress they only want job if they aren't comfortable do not go for this job

You can remove it....on the day of interview

Read english books everyday. It definetly helps.

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As long as you are comfortable and like to wear it

Ya offcourse its not restrictions for putting bindi you can put bindi

@@Neethanbellary2004 mujhe small si bindi bhut psnd h but mujhe lgta h ki muslim hone ki wajah s kbhi qus pr qus kre

@@amreenkazmi2637 agar aap saari aur bindi mein obsessed hain toh pehne niye koi zabardasti nahi hain aap saari aur bindi na pehno agar aap bindi laga rahe ho aapke pe religion ko koi fark nahi padega yeh aapki choice hain aap kaunse kapde pehente ho kaise rehte ho kya karte ho kisi ko koi haq nahi aapke choice pe haq jataye agar aapko koi Aisa kahe toh unke baaton pe dhyan mat do

And not indian men?

Then that should be applicable to men too. Men must wear kurta too if he's not comfortable he can wear kurta pajama.

So, Indian men don't represent our culture? That's a ridiculous and sexist (for both sexes) thing to say.

@@Riya77775 obviously they don't. How many men a day do you see wearing dhoti? Almost never. But you will see plenty of women in saree in just a min. It's just hypocrisy of our society and govt

@@Riya77775 come on if you are so concerned then wear a dhoti and go , who is stoping you ?

Aisa tumhe lagta h

@@farhintabassum1789 true facts but against u so u nrv accpt that

First go and learn some basic English grammar 😂 fir aake Gyan batna😂😂