Im writing you, just ti let you know, I thank you so very much for truth. Im 62 and had my first date being a Widow for 18 years. Because of your teaching, I collected data, I watched, and prayed. He was a Deacon and every body kept saying God sent him, but my Spirit was never at ease. I found out he was not healthy emotionally or psychologically and he was a narcissist which I would have never seen the red flags, I had not studied your videos so again I thank thank you for teaching me as a middle-aged Woman who has never dated but one man and I married that man and we were Married 28 yrs until death. Thank you man of God, as a Woman of God we are all still learning, but I refuse to be vulnerable, or thirsty. Thank you for sending me a LIFE LINE

"If he's not wearing a diaper, you can't change him". Unknown Author

💯No premarital sex but he definitely had a plan for “me to work and him to stay at home”. Oh no! I take care of NO grown man! But I wish I thought of asking that. I feel bad when I doubt people. I’ve learned/learning. Don’t feel bad, trust the intuition God has given me.

Congratulations pastor! 25 yrs. Married. Boy do I end up with ALOT of 1st. Dates only. It is extremely difficult to date in this day...no matter what your age. My goodness....men WANT sex on the 1st date EXPECT it by the 2nd. People DON'T want to get to know each other ANYMORE...smh! I will be GLAD when I am done dating...and be like you...lol. I love your dating videos!!

You’re the father I never had! I wished I grew up with more men like you in my life! Your fatherly touch should be taught in public schools!

The only problem with interrogation is people lie. And turn into Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hide. I say ignore what people say and pay attention their actions. Start there and that will save a lot of time.

Pastor this needs to be a series you need to do several sessions.....THIS WAS SOOOO GOOD....I hit the thumbs up

1. Does God approve? 2. Does this person want out of life what I want? 3. What does this person expect of me? 4, Is this person healthy psychologically and emotionally? 5. Are they interesting on all levels: spirit, soul, body? Basically, does this person really fit into my future?

I'm blown away with the accuracy of your message, RC Blakes! I sure wish I could have heard your messages 10 years ago! Oh, well, I'll take the lessons at this time in my life and, like you said, "...ease on down the road"! 🚗💨...👋

Yep, inner peace is important! If you don’t have peace about it keep it moving...Pastor your advices are on point...

Men don’t like when women ask them questions. I found that out a long time ago

Pastor, How extremely fortunate I am to experience being schooled by such a cool and honest man! Sitting at your knee learning, growing and lovin' on ME! Thank you, thank you, thank you!!

Nice hat Pastor Blakes!

Dating is recreational while courtship has the intention of marriage.

My pastor told me to hold off on the wedding, I knew I should have, and I didn't listen. I should have took heed, but thank God it's over.

FLAGS ON FIRE!! Yesssss

First dates are so revealing, damn if I listen to my gut I would have been in a so much better place, I guess.

Words cannot describe how powerful this message is. I thank God for this video as its keeping me accountable to God and myself when it comes to dating.

I’ve been a Christian for years and I never understood when people over spiritualize erthang. 🙄. Even Paul said not to be so heavenly minded and no earthly good.. That’s not rocket science to understand..🙄

This is a great discussion on this evening. It would be good to write dating guide along with questions to ask during the dating process.

Omg! I'm annoyed I missed this live. Somehow I came across your videos recently and I've honestly been watching everyday since. Thank you! And I appreciate you Black King. I agree with your words and wisdom. Continue being the light you are that brightens our life's journey. Now I'll go watch the video lol.

💯% on point Pastor Blakes!!! Listen to your intuition please!!! I met a narcissist who mirrored my wants, dreams, goals, etc.. My intuition (Godly Father) was telling me, "No." 5 years later, I should have listened. Lesson learned, moving on and listening to God with every step!

Yes!!! Absolutely Correct!!! One needs 2 RESPECT ONE ANOTHER IF NOT THEY NEED NOT BE A PART OF ONES LIFE!!!! R E S P E C T ‼️‼️‼️ I AGREE WITH YOU WHOLEHEARTEDLY ‼️‼️‼️‼️ THANK YOU!!! ASK TALK ABOUT ONE ANOTHER, SHARING INFORMATION IS CARING ‼️‼️ ONE MUST BE TRUTHFUL‼️‼️‼️ 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

It's always AlWAYS warning before destruction take heed to it

This teaching is so necessary in the world 2020!! I wish I knew you 20 years ago!! Could have been saved from a lot of heartache, pain and loss!! Thank you so much for your teaching. God bless you!! 💜💜

Hi Mom and Dad Blakes, I just got discharged from hospital. I love you both.

😂@ "Im ignore the fact that something aint right upstairs?!". So true

This information is worth gold. Thank you with much appreciation & gratitude. Your channel has helped me heal mentally, emotionally, & spiritually. May God continue to bless you & your family.

1.Does God Approve *Listen to your spirit 2 Does this Person Want From Life What i Want *"a wrong wedding will cost you your entire life" * Amos 3"3 *"Better cancel a wedding /relationship than Go through a divorce 3What Do you Expect Of Me *Proverbs 4"7 4 Is This person healthy Psychological and emotionally *Watch there behavior on the street, with family, problem solving @ home etc *Don't hinge your life to some one unstable *proverb 22: 24-25 5,Are they Interesting on all levels Spirit Body Soul

I didn't have inner peace but I continued in the relationship. I could have saved myself heartache. THIS TIME I AM WAITING ON GOD!

THIS WORD WAS THE TRUTH BISHOP!!!!!! Just when I thought I've heard your best word you take it up another notch. Looking forward to hearing part 2

You are so inspirational

Its very important in the dating process , that you also sit back observe learn the person, that your dating. Began to see how they handle personal situations in there lives like there finances, etc.

This is why my daughter is married. I taught to get to know yourself and ask yourself what do you want out of life and how you want to design it. Once you find that out then you begin dating men. You have to find out if they want what you want out of life. One thing about my daughter is that, she knows game. I truly love my daughter, she cared enough to listen to her mother who has made enough mistakes in life. My life is much better. I don’t deal with men of color because they can’t stand being asked questions and they don’t want what I want in life. End of storytelling

So true!!! Thank you so much for your Wisdom!!!❤️😘🙏🏽

I don't come form a dating culture; it's not common in Europe, but I'm living in one now in North America. I still don't quite understand how it works, but sure, I quickly fell for a narcissist before I vetted him properly. Now, I know better.

Your messages keep me grounded. So refreshing and comforting.

This message was great!! Thank you so much!

Thank you so much for your wise words, wisdom, and humor :) I appreciate you

Thankyou Pastor, this is very helpful. I prayed alot for a good husband and when a man came along, I would think 'this is it', thank you God! I was badly influenced and went along with the man, finding out what he liked. I felt uneasy, as I am not into sin or idolatry, sport, tv, movies, fantasy, waste of time, worldliness. I have decided to date a man who will do things God's way, follow and serve Jesus. So this is great advice, get to know the person and be aware of what God's Spirit is telling me.

This is a plan book for dating! Thank you so much for this! 🙏🏼

Great message! You are a God sent! You’re over 2k 👍🏾 now great job community!

Bishop! You are on point throughout this video! Thank you.

Thank you for this message Pastor RC Blakes I'm grateful. This wisdom is much needed. 💎💎💎

This is so deep! I agree with your wife! He needs to know my expectations! I just had this conversation with my boyfriend! I just asked these main questions.

Thank you for the lesson. Very helpful

All your videos make so much sense. I cant believe how lucky we are to have an elder sharing wisdom with us on KZfaq. Thank you!!!

Your teaching is always awesome praise God for the wisdom he's given you to share!! 🙌🏾

Thank you very informative and profound... as always... Blessings

I thoroughly enjoyed this and learned a lot. Thank you for allowing Him to use you!

"Get ya lil grip and move on down the road"... indeed. So excited about "Kingology"!

Thank you for making your videos, I love watching them and I am learning a lot. Indeed it is always the struggles we overcome that teach us the most. At least there is a prize for over coming it all! I need to hear what you have to offer. I also love when you pray for us, and I can feel it. Thank you and God Bless You Each.

Hey Bro Blakes. Happy 2020. Now to the term matsa. It also means in my bible lexicon to attain without intentional search. The whole man pursuing a woman is a western tradition. The culture was different under the Old Testament or Judaism. For example arranged marriage and levirate marriage since the law was different. Plus they did not marry for love in the Old Testament, they married out of sense of duty to family and clan. The principle though remains the same. Husbands love your wives. Wives submit to your husbands. Submitting to each other in the fear of the Lord.

Poppa Blakes... Thank you for all your spiritual and practical wisdom. You stand as a Father to many... especially me... Many blessings to you and Lisa

So much valuable insight! Love all your sessions! Thank you for the golden nuggets! You are so generous with knowledge and wisdom! ❤

I love listening to you. Thank you for sharing your experiences and knowledge with us. This really helps, as I'm in the beginning stages of getting to know someone right now. 🙏❤

You are amazing ... your knowledge is so true and important in people’s lives

Hello pastor thank you for your time and effort, very much appreciated 🌈

Dating is to gather data!!! I love it.... I pray more men listen and are blessed by your teachings!!! You are a blessing 🙌🏽

You are so right, RC Blakes

Thank you pastor. This is so true😍😍

Beautiful video .I'm inspired..❤❤❤

Thank you so much for your love.

PLEASE SHARE DATING IN YOUR 50's!!

Another awesome teaching

Number five is the money shot! This point is not taught enough.... love it. Thank you pastor for making these points powerful and fun 👍🏾

How heavy. How exciting! Pastor, I am actually impressed and amazed by your new partnership decision. I cannot wait for whatever your narcissism product is. I think it's one of my top three favorite subjects you discuss. The partnership seems good simply because you chose it. I believe that most of what you touch now turns to gold. The interesting thing is that it's for real. I believe you have legitimate favor with God and he just blesses your head off. It is exciting to watch and to imagine when I reach that level although I'm certainly pointed that way. You can be blessed enough to be stressed out and have to think about it for a while. It can take an adjustment. Pastor, I am so happy that you are alive. You just touch my life in such an effervescent and sunny way. Thanks for being you. 🙂👍🔥💥❤

This was great Good Sir. Confirmation.

Yes - please make another video with more tips! These are great.

Love This Video, Thank You!!! I'm going to Share this with All 5 of our children and others. So Blessed Indeed You Are Pastor RC. and 1st. Lady Lisa Blakes, I Love You Much, and Thanking God So Much For You!!!💞 😇😇😇

Am loving this! U r really talking the reality of so many pple....thnx Pastor

Good morning pastor another good one add to the collection

Thank you Pastor RC Blakes for the information and inspiration you help me and have learned and changed so much. I'LL ask these questions on my next date. God bless you and everyone. God is so amazing. 🙏🙏🙏☺👍👍👍👍👍

Pastor Blake…. Soooo good. Please keep the content coming. Bless you.

RC Blakes....you are speaking to me. I’m glad God put this video and your channel in my path.

I love you, Pastor Blakes! 🙌🏻

this is sooooooo good!

Thank you for this video😥🥺speaking truth and dropping knowledge

You are the only person talking about this. Much needed!😊🎀🙏

Awesome, mighty wisdom for real life!!!!

Not stuff is gonna fall down 😂😂😂 I love how truthful and real you speak!! Keep it real Pastor!

Looking sharp as a tact Pastor Blakes 😁

Im one of those agnostic people who listen to you and get great knowledge from you i believe in my goddesses for spiritual guidance 🥰😇 i have 3 ,please keep doing you much love

Just hit the thumbs 👍🏾 up!!

This is it!!! The best by far advice on dating before relationship hands down!! From delivery, tone, and words. This ain't about being sexy people!!

God bless you sir thank you for this wisdom.

Really appreciate this...😀👍👍👍

Amen 🙏 good word!!

It really is a Blessing to have you as a Father or Uncle figure,Because you speak the Truth with the utmost Respect.God has Blessed me to find you while I was going through a Divorce from a Narcissist you have changed my entire life for the Better.Keep enlightening the women.

Thanks for the Blue print!

Thank you Pastor, Godbless you!

If it was possible to give you a thousand thumbs up I would. Great teaching!!!

MOG YOU REALLY BE TEACHING A GOOD TEACHING AND I DO APPLY IT TO MY LIFE THANK YOU SIR

2nd time listening to this at about 26 minutes and forward Bishop had me cracking up describing the red flags, I love his teaching. Such a real blessing, I often refer back to them and sometimes when he explaining these men and how he explains it, 🤣🤣 makes me feel like I am learning good things from my dad. We truly appreciate you and your wife!

This is very good Bishop, I've been very hesitant to date. My marriage was with someone my father chose for me because we could not marry outside of our religion.

You teaching this thang!!!👏🏿

You are awesome!

Tuning into your channel has really helped my relationship develop. We have a long-distance relationship but our relationship is based much more than on just physical attraction and we are continuously growing in love with each and we see each other as the blessing we never knew we needed.

Thank you for your MESSAGE God bless you🙏🙏🙏

You are so funny!!!! I absolutely enjoy watching you Bishop. Keep spreading the goodness.