I have that feeling when with my friend. Keeping the friendship until stripped.
@Stoicphilosopherinsights17 күн бұрын
Fact 💯
@Bkmdluli17 күн бұрын
@@carolmack1751 That's why I have no friends anymore, got rid of them. Lessons learnt
@LilAbum74212 күн бұрын
There's a few things I wish I hadn't told anyone about but I have to admit that I've been privileged for sharing with a friend that I have to wear nappies and he has shared his own personal experiences with pooping himself every time he has done so and has said that he really appreciates the fact that he has someone who understands and wouldn't tell anyone else which makes me feel rather special
@emilianocatapang888021 күн бұрын
As an introvert, I always keep it secret to myself so that they don't know what my next moves are😅 "TRUST NO ONE" is the ultimate rule, for me😅😊
@TheyCallMe_TC9 күн бұрын
💎
@indridcold84338 күн бұрын
@@emilianocatapang8880 Trust no one. Depend on nobody. Keep a well defined distance from everyone, and you will be healthier, smarter, far more self-reliant, truely independent and more free than any social person could ever hope to be. In the past, if one was not social, you were destined for a short life. Today, being social is what shortens your life dramatically. It is very unhealthy and dangerous, as compared to isolation. Keep your enemies far and your, "friends," further. If you can avoid making both, you will live a long, prosperous life.
@emilianocatapang88808 күн бұрын
Absolutely right. In my past experience, I used to trust people so easily thats why I always got hurt. Being kind and too nice to them is what I always do for I know that that's the right thing to do but I realized that doing that will never be enough so I started to isolate myself from people. I set boundaries for everyone especially those "toxic entity"😂😂😂
@emilianocatapang88808 күн бұрын
I realized that when we get older, the more that we just wanting to be at peace and doesn't need to please everyone. Live by our own rules, as long as we don't harm anyone ❤️❤️❤️
@magicalindigoadult38388 күн бұрын
That hurts keeping it in I wa t support a d I know u do to people that don’t share look trapped and sad
@kimlogan127821 күн бұрын
2 things I TOTALLY agree with. Never tell anyone about your finances. You could be putting yourself in harm's way.
@anonaka13117 күн бұрын
You can't hide your millions!
@phululwaphungwayo515212 күн бұрын
"Harm's way!?" How so? I need further clarification...😢
@solomonchau772511 күн бұрын
@@phululwaphungwayo5152If they know you have money or good job, scammers will keep trying to contact you via phone, cross connecting, text, What's App, Telegram, social engineering, gaining your trust, grooming, romance scam, sexstortion, kid napping, fake napping, misleading job leads, randsome, phishing emails, cold calls, or just trying to snipe you in broad daylight like Donald Trump.
@deed358311 күн бұрын
That's one thing
@PSYCHIC_PSYCHO10 күн бұрын
@@anonaka131It is possible to hide one's wealth from friends; I am not flash, I don't wear expensive jewellery, only have one item of jewellery, a chunky sterling silver ring, with a large Emerald stone. I don't wear designer clothes or accessories, I don't look stylish.
@georgevavoulis475823 күн бұрын
I never tell anybody 1-Love life ,who you're dating or involved with 2- finances as money make people envious 3-political views on things 4-future plans
@pinkifloyd786718 күн бұрын
I tell myself everything and thats good enough 😊
@michaelkrull333117 күн бұрын
5. Religion, or lack thereof
@lukewilliams702015 күн бұрын
What do you talk about then
@mycouture192210 күн бұрын
@@lukewilliams7020 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 THA.....WEATHER !!!!!! TV - SHOWS !!!!!!!! CARS !!!!! CLOTHES !!!!!! SOMETIMES - NOTHING !!!!!!!!
@Anonymous-tx6ef8 күн бұрын
@@michaelkrull3331you are definitely not a Christian or Jehovah witness. I'm not judging you.
@user-of4iq4vn9mAngel2Jeanie25 күн бұрын
They take our plans and dreams away when we tell our plans or dreams.
@monicanorman468121 күн бұрын
Yes
@Michelle.Wilson20 күн бұрын
For sure
@D225520 күн бұрын
They literally speak it out of existence when you speak it in( behind your back) Life and death in the tongue
@user-qg7xb9pk5x19 күн бұрын
💯@@D2255
@Nzeru-ey1sh18 күн бұрын
@@D2255 exactly.
@sandburgmartin7947Ай бұрын
In this new age of entitlement, envy, and selfishness one needs to know there are many "frenemies" waiting to step on you to look taller.
@stacielivinthedream8510Ай бұрын
Tall-Poppy syndrome!
@donna616523 күн бұрын
Envy…No one talks about it. Except Robert Green.
@Jonas_Albert22 күн бұрын
CHRIST IS KING!!!❤❤❤✝️✝️✝️🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️ TURN TO CHRIST, OUR ONE, AND ONLY LORD, SAVIOUR, AND GOD, AND TURN AWAY FROM YOUR SINS!!!✝️✝️✝️🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️ IN JESUS CHRISTS HOLY NAME I PRAY THAT YOU TURN TO CHRIST, AMEN!!!✝️✝️✝️🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
@R7394921 күн бұрын
That's why i don't make friends at all.
@user-ty2xv6xw8j21 күн бұрын
I made the mistake of sharing when my husband recently passed away only to be ripped off, taken advantage of, and victimized. I learned that the hard way. Cut several ppl out of my life. 😢😢😮❤
@yellowguy400421 күн бұрын
Things you should never tell anyone. Not a damn thing. Trust no one period.
@ColleenLytle-sq8tx18 күн бұрын
It's taken me 68 years, but I've learned to trust - it has to be by watching their behavior over time. I pay attention (not to what they say) to how they show up. Be careful with whom you share yourself with, especially financially - that's what the stinkers are aiming for. The consequences of not paying attention could cost you everything.
@lindas34317 күн бұрын
@yellowguy. Yeah that's me as well. I trust no one.
@KPark-hn8jf17 күн бұрын
Can you tell me this though??. Are you really yellow?!.
@viqtorchewinner17 күн бұрын
What a lonely life
@IamParalegal17 күн бұрын
That’s actually Scriptural.
@patrickchineduikogwe4075Ай бұрын
From personal expieriences,it is very very true. How I wish I knew aboit Stoicism 40 years ago.Thanks a lot.
@Indigochildwithin18 күн бұрын
Patrick..me too,I have always been a chatty Kathy,shared everything to anyone that asked me. Now I keep certain things very close to my chest....if I say anything...its because I want them to know...😅😅 youbtibkniĵ7h97gĝ
@TC-198518 күн бұрын
Same Here..I Wish I Knew This 40 Years Ago Also...
@neurogenesis917920 күн бұрын
This was the perfect voice for the narration. It makes it more serious
@epifanioesmero53622 күн бұрын
Friends are future enemies!!😅
@R7394921 күн бұрын
But some idiots need lessons so they can understand
@katbow592221 күн бұрын
Agreed !! Even the best of friends can become your enemy
@Certez29 күн бұрын
Maybe "the best" yes, but not "the true" one
@katbow59229 күн бұрын
@@Certez2 I agree....true friends are hard to come by
@estrelltungpalan76296 күн бұрын
Agreed..I had my experience very bad so much inggit na Kabayan at kabatch ko pa.God bless them and me LORD.Not only one but many of them.🙏
@maclac4820 күн бұрын
I can relate to what is being said here, & it’s something that I practice regularly. I like to keep my business between me, & the Lord. Everyone doesn’t have your best intentions at heart, & do not want to see me succeed, & they definitely don’t want to see me doing better than what they’re doing. I pray for these competing individuals. 🙏🏿
@jooje10022 күн бұрын
Should never, or, shouldn’t ever! Not shouldn’t never!
@bambina314817 күн бұрын
Yep
@wattycuffee566417 күн бұрын
Yup, double negative.
@kathymayes429013 күн бұрын
Drives me mad, all the grammatical errors nowadays.
@Nosferata13812 күн бұрын
Now you went all triple negative. I don't know what to think anymore...
@coldspell867610 күн бұрын
Now you shouldn’t never say nutin bout dat, ya hear 👂
@motormouthalmighty22 күн бұрын
that voice is so serious and frightening!
@joelfrombethlehem20 күн бұрын
A. I. (Artificial Intellengence)
@JasonMarano19 күн бұрын
Teach u a lesson
@motormouthalmighty19 күн бұрын
@@JasonMarano lessons?that's the only problem.we never learn do we?
@naturalbeauty47345 күн бұрын
🤣😂👏
@twilighttime95223 күн бұрын
The use of the double negative is doing my head in.
@ceceoo321 күн бұрын
Yes! I had to get past that before watching the video😂 but I'm glad I did. .......they need to fix it though lol
@chriper7721 күн бұрын
Actually, 'things you shouldn't never tell anyone' - actually means things you should tell people. It cancels itself out. It should be 'shouldn't ever' lol
@pardonmyfrench476019 күн бұрын
Haha beat me to it! It's so funny when people try to be smart and enlightening, but little things like this makes everyone laugh at them
@clevelandsavage17 күн бұрын
You shouldn't have told anyone about that, now they're going to use it against you.
@deed358311 күн бұрын
Thank you! Thought I was the only one
@karinodendaal527723 күн бұрын
I agree we need to be careful with whom we share
@ingridbergman-vz7go21 күн бұрын
Totally agree. This is the exact advice I give the young ones in my family.
@elenitapangilinan297523 күн бұрын
Yes,I learned from it. Unknown enemies attacked.
@shjh79822 күн бұрын
Don't tell any one your plans ❤ They can't hurt what they don't know ❤ I have finally stopped telling my family and friends my plans. They always ruin it with magic. My step dad got so mad when I didn't tell him my plans that he got so mad and almost switched off the Xbox.
@rc195217 күн бұрын
A child gets to the age of realising they need to keep secrets round 15 on average. It would vary widely. For me it was 15. Pretty average. I knew it was a thing because one parent got angry with me. I was starting to be my own adult person and set up my own personal BOUNDARIES
@gulamahmed477329 күн бұрын
Learned 😂 this the hard way
@dougbrown702322 күн бұрын
Same as of only yesterday. Person I thought I could trust decided that it was their job to speak to someone on my behalf 😮😢. They only stirred the pot and spread discourse and strife instead of letting me speak to the person myself in love and wisdom. I forgave them but will be guarded from now on. Happy 4th of July everyone. Have an awesome day and may God bless you
@GameN3rdz20 күн бұрын
@@dougbrown7023👌🏿
@ssmoothe2000Ай бұрын
So stay to yourself. 😂😂 noted.
@MI6-W4 ай бұрын
Proverbs 16:28 (NKJV) A perverse man sows strife, And a whisperer separates the best of friends.
@asmith889822 күн бұрын
...kind of like expecting the NKJV to not dilute the word of God.
@dalehood184619 күн бұрын
@asmith,. Some Versions of The Bible are easier to read for some people than others. I have read King James and NIV versions. I went back to King James version when I found out missing verses in NIV. For me, I prefer it.
@asmith889819 күн бұрын
@@dalehood1846 it's all english. If one cannot understand kjv then they will never understand the things they need to. People who are slow just need to overcome being slow
@desiree625623 күн бұрын
But yet you STILL do tell and teach so THANK YOU FOR THAT 😌
@lynroyfrederick892817 күн бұрын
So true Never Tell anyone about your personal Thigs That's why I drop all FRIENDSHIP.
@ArnoldTupas-oc3bk19 күн бұрын
I am guilty of it. I was robbed of the best opportunities that came my way. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.
@Stoicphilosopherinsights18 күн бұрын
Another better opportunity will come but this time you are wiser. Guide it jealousy 👌
@yolandaz270624 күн бұрын
Excellent advice🙏 Thank you & God bless you for posting🙏💜🙏💜🙏
@user-bp3wu4uf2m4 ай бұрын
Surely, perfectly said 🏅
@son249520 күн бұрын
Couldn’t be more accurate 🙌 learning after decades of sabotage ❤🙏
@KalyaniKoppala23 күн бұрын
Yes exactly 💯 percentage of correct advice 🙏🙏🙇
@sportzrunner21 күн бұрын
Having studied psychology and sports medicine I can help people by combining them with nutrition to balance their bodies. This is what I do as I feel it’s what I’ve spent many years learning and it’s only right to share it. I only do it when I feel I have experience to help. I enjoy helping but thats my extent I used to be very private but after having identity theft for the past few years do I have any privacy anymore? But it don’t mean to make it worse either. Personal ideas and plans should be kept shared with only those you trust and for me I’ve been cyber stocked for a gray number of years so there goes that. But finally it all has to end sometime! KABOOM! 😊
@pardonmyfrench476019 күн бұрын
Sure, you studied something, lots of people study things. But do you hold any credential that says you understand and demonstrate mastery of said content?
@dayanNFNF23 күн бұрын
Im 23 n fr I experience this thing even there r some persons who r thief of future dream it's definitely true unless ur make it never tell our plans do it let they watch it
@bettiewalston76421 күн бұрын
Thank you GOD AMEN 🙏🙏🙏
@angieford601217 күн бұрын
I am such an open book, the leeches all come out of the wood work when I am excited about all the things you explained that has happened to me!..learning my lesson though, thankyou to your explanation.....👍💝
@NobleLady202412 күн бұрын
Don’t tell some family either. Family can be one’s worst enemies.
@closedaccount344122 күн бұрын
Shouldn't never means "should" tell...
@greyberet117 күн бұрын
And (to me, anyway lol😊) implies that one should always tell whatever… Depending upon how literal the reader gets…
@N.gVanUytrecht15 күн бұрын
I Strongly Agree With This, Thankyou Sourse For Your Wisdom Amen
@kingtank467915 күн бұрын
THE" BEGINNING" IS MOST DEFINITELY!!! THE" TRUTH!!! PERIOD!! 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
@KristinaBergkvìst21 күн бұрын
All this very true. Thanks..🦉🦅🦅🦅 .
@stevenmorganofficial5696Ай бұрын
Thanks for the information 💯
@myrabyrd352214 күн бұрын
I learned that the hard way!!! BUT GOD‼️thank you Father!!! For Wisdom, Knowledge and Understanding🤗💝🕊💝MB
@NanaBanana-bb9wc22 күн бұрын
Thank you, very great things I learned the hard way ❤
@dereckmearns459621 күн бұрын
Absolutly correct.
@user-lf7fd6mp4r23 күн бұрын
YES ITS SO TRUE, AMEN, YES THANK YOU FOR THIS LESSONS WE HAVE TO LEARN, AMEN 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@lunaluna581523 күн бұрын
love life. income. next move.
@prameelarajakumaridasari314220 күн бұрын
This was the perfect voice for the naration . It makes it more serious 🙏.
@emmettmckenna456522 күн бұрын
You shouldn’t never use a double negative!!! 😂
@notesencantos20 күн бұрын
I was wondering what they mean by shouldn't never. That you actually should?
@pardonmyfrench476019 күн бұрын
The fact that so few people are catching this worries me...
Observing more than discussing personal matters means keeping your peace😊
@kristofertogun9688Ай бұрын
ABSOLUTELY DISCRETION IS THE BETTER PART OF VALOR
@natalieclairezaloumis21745 күн бұрын
May discernment & discretion be a strength in my life LORD ❤
@Nizzle696 күн бұрын
a true friend listens and encourages you.
@MalkuthEmperor28 күн бұрын
Thing with future plans is that some of us( me) tend to not want to do the plan of i share it most of the time, idk why tbh, it just becomes that much less motivating to me, i heard huberman talk about how talking about plans secretes the same dopamin that youd get then you were actually doing the goal, but thats as much as i remember and understand from that explanation. Exceptions to this are, plans with people im actually working with, and telling people the imediate next steps of the plan. So if i tell someone my next two steps it wont be a problem, but if i tell them the final outcome i want to attain, than is when motivation drops. Tho even if im working with someone, it can sometimes become a problem, especially if the other person needs be get motivated by me but doesnt also try to motivate me . By motivate i mean, making progress by themselves, and then asking for me to either give me feedback, and to continue building off of what we have, or i suppose to brainstorm if we just started. Thats about as much as i need to get motivated, yet what i find disapointing is that that is rarely dont by people i work on side projects with. But lets not get in to my complaining😂 Have a good day
@carriearmstrong793912 күн бұрын
Yup! Move in silence ❤❤.. Amen!
@nicoldavis-johnson708018 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing this information. Something that needs to be heard.
@mehere33717 күн бұрын
These men all look very STOIC!
@AworotiJan7 күн бұрын
I am guilty of My self. I have been robbed in my hold been.thank you for the education may God bless you.
@oldmate965016 күн бұрын
I wish my grandma was still here to show her this. I let her down because I trusted my uncle. The unknown enemy
@shantemoore626522 күн бұрын
Noted. Number one has been my experience. ✅️
@lewissearson576021 күн бұрын
(shouldn’t never?) either put (should never) or (should not ever) such wisdom
@leoninebenit259519 күн бұрын
I agree! Loose lips sinks ships!😅
@abigailbosibori251022 күн бұрын
Very very very true
@stilesjohnson174520 күн бұрын
A friend today can be an enemy tomorrow.
@shonevans256315 күн бұрын
So can family who do ya trust 😅
@stilesjohnson174515 күн бұрын
@@shonevans2563 No one
@jthacker358510 күн бұрын
Very True. At times those we call friends turn out to be an unfriendly friend masquerading as a friend. Sure, carefulness is the key.
@edwardEyap7 күн бұрын
YES, Sir...I thank you for that Great advise.💝
@kabontsimorekisi613619 күн бұрын
100% true 👌👌thanks for the information . Dear God help us to be aware every time to protect what's happening in our lives so that our future plans, financial information etc may not fall on the hands of wrong people and it will be known by others. Help us my Lord to be very careful in everything in Jesus mighty name I pray AMEN ❤🙏🙏
@Stoicphilosopherinsights18 күн бұрын
🙏🙏🙏
@DragonGoddess184 ай бұрын
This is pretty sound advice I hope more people will hear this
@ev.adelemandagie458920 күн бұрын
I have been open to everyone all my life. This is good advice.
@shanenephilim272718 күн бұрын
Number 2 is absolutely essential, when I started doing financially well for myself the leeches came to me.
@LaDonnasheltered-kc7zm23 күн бұрын
Shouldn't never is a double negative
@tanishamcdonala318121 күн бұрын
the wealth of the wicked laid up fit the justice bless the chosen ones reacting amen hallelujah hallelujah amen hallelujah glory yes lord thanks lord hallelujah! my people are destroyed for lack of knowledge amen
@drewskiwest528416 күн бұрын
SO TRUE about NEVER SHARING FUTURE PLANS because literally E V E R Y single time I've shared my "plans" about ANYTHING, something has gotten in the way - not someone but the universe flat out caused those plans to NEVER happen.
@CaryFenelon28 күн бұрын
A double negative is confusing. Do we or don't we?
@pardonmyfrench476019 күн бұрын
I think he wants us to tell everyone this list of things...?
@user-ph4ct5iv9qАй бұрын
Truth is Truth FOREVERMORE
@MalkuthEmperor28 күн бұрын
Its poetic and i like it, but its totological ( which isnt bad, just its circular so it doesnt offer us what truth is) A tree a tree forevermore xd
@yukiannie6664 күн бұрын
infairness...following tips from videos like this really improved my life 💖💖💖💖💖
@Stoicphilosopherinsights4 күн бұрын
👌🙏
@one23itsjustme10 күн бұрын
I needed this advice in the 90s.
@jewelljoyner372316 күн бұрын
Very true I had a friend asked me how much you have in the bank. Butt, never told me how much he has in the bank.
@RedRose-uw9bo7 күн бұрын
Brilliant advice thank you❤❤❤
@Vishfeast11 күн бұрын
It's important to remember that people will value gossip and spill the tea on your personal life, just for the fact to fit in. You should not keep all of your plans to yourself, but learn to find people who have honor and cherish your friendship. If you never bounce ideas off people without experience, you may set up unrealistic expectations and set yourself up for disaster.
@Anta2790Сағат бұрын
Absolutely positive communication 💯💯💯💯💯🎯‼️
@Peter-gv6vf18 күн бұрын
I was brought up to believe never tell a friend a secret so you cant fear him if he becomes your enemy.
@Stoicphilosopherinsights18 күн бұрын
💯💯💯
@user-wg8we4yz4j20 күн бұрын
Just go on. You're gut. Feeling that you get and have felt earlier in your life. ❤
@TC-198518 күн бұрын
I've Learned This The Hard Way As Well .
@Julie-wk7vo19 күн бұрын
It's not, "things you shouldn't never tell anyone". It's,"things you shouldn't ever tell anyone". Words of wisdom?
@PirLawAssociates18 күн бұрын
A deep view into Mechiavelli intuitions. Perhaps... Well no dislike of the video. Loved it.
@whiterodman22 күн бұрын
I'm guilty. I'm getting better since I've started studying stoicism.
@user-zw9ki6lk5t16 күн бұрын
Remember the same people who can be your friends have the dual ability to be your enemies as well
@lindam.273916 күн бұрын
Absolutely Correct....it's called WISDOM!
@lindam.273916 күн бұрын
And I may send these EXCELLENT Stoicism videos to Pres TRUMP ASAP. 😊
@ofeliagobangco6925Ай бұрын
Yes, thank you for sharing
@derricksmith361421 күн бұрын
The 🐟 who never bite the 🪝 never gets caught!
@masterprophet837818 күн бұрын
High wisdom!
@rosalinqcruz6346Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing . God bless you.
@SadhanaMahajan-jm2nf20 күн бұрын
I failed to hide and they ruled and ruined me
@springday701322 сағат бұрын
I’m guilty of this. Learning to restraint myself as I often become a blabber mouth after a few drinks😢
@Elizabeth-pd4sd20 күн бұрын
Absolutely correct❤❤ great post
@marleneseconna76248 күн бұрын
I always keep it for myself amen God is good in time on time
@mrpink602218 күн бұрын
KEEP YOUR FRIENDS CLOSE AND YOUR ENEMIES CLOSER........