This Could SAVE Your (Future) Marriage | Jordan Peterson Answers on What a Divorce Really Means

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Dr. Jordan Peterson could save your marriage, or your future marriage, so, listen carefully.
Spoiler: It's a vow!
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This is his best book, in my opinion: geni.us/DrJP
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@PursuitofMeaning 2 жыл бұрын

This is his best book, in my opinion:

@juditbirinyi4898 2 жыл бұрын

This is one of the topics where I don't agree with him. In fact, what he is saying is dangerous and one of the reason why so many people stay in abusive relationships for so long. This only works with two genuine, "normal" people. But what do you do when This is being used against you and you are being treated badly and when you call it out you get an answer along the lines of "yeah, and what are you gonna do about it" if your basic stand is that none of you can leave. People behave much worse if there are no consequences (or the consequences are not as direct and as obvious as splitting up)

@lynnjenkins3663 2 жыл бұрын

This should be compulsory viewing for everyone not yet married!

@browmi03 2 жыл бұрын

This was my first marriage. It imploded when both my parents died and I was going to therapy for depression trying to pull myself out of a dark place. Right then I was abandoned. It was horrible.

@jaydeecee1643 2 жыл бұрын

I would love to have had a normal fighting marriage....I was married 20 years to my children's father...didn't cheat...he came home to happy...clean loving children and spouse..a beautiful clean home and great meals...I was kind..affectionate and available. Took me years to figure out why my love didn't work ...he is a narcissist....saw my kindness as weakness.....his world was about control. I always say .."We had a lot in common..we were both madly in love with him"....living with a narc is tragic...and it doesn't end with divorce..he turned my grown children against me...because they forget..I hope it never happens with my grandkids

@atherisgreen1391 2 жыл бұрын

This is 100% accurate. My parents divorced when I was 11. My life went downhill from there...fast. I sometimes daydream about what life might have been like if they tried just a little bit harder and tried really looking far into the future on the effect it would have on their kids in life. I was a very smart kid, talented in almost everything I touched. Through the pain of abandonment and my foundation being pulled from under me, I started drinking. I became a severe alcoholic to deal with my pain, it's cost me nearly everything valuable in my life. I've gone down some very dark paths I probably would never have walked otherwise. I'm almost 40 now, broke and a criminal with 4 kids. It's very hard to carry on some days. But I always think back to how I might have tuned out or what decisions I would have made differently if I wasn't so consumed by pain and let it consume my life. I wonder...

@Toninho_Marques 2 жыл бұрын

Younger generation is leaving on impulse, whatever they might feel they'll act blindly on it. It's overwhelming the lack of real communication at the moment.

@ajessm 2 жыл бұрын

A happy and lasting marriage to which both partners are committed is one of life's greatest assets.

@elmateo77 2 жыл бұрын

He has some good points, but I'd say the opposite of this is also true. People need to know that if they behave too badly you might leave, otherwise they have no motivation to keep putting effort into the relationship (this is especially true for women, once they know they have you they'll often stop trying).

@vikinglord11 2 жыл бұрын

My marriage is upside down. Simply put. I want a family. She doesn't and wont even consider adoption. She wont a get job either. I still care about her and don't want to abandon her. Talking about it keeps getting us no where. I don't know what to do.

@frankdavf4599 2 жыл бұрын

You cant accomplish that with a narcicist

@janeteaton3240 2 жыл бұрын

My husband and I agreed that divorce was never an option . We’ve been married for 40yrs . Sadly we got covid and he didn’t survive it . I’m broken hearted .

@blendi3825 2 жыл бұрын

This is the only speach of Peterson that I agree 100%. Probably his best speach.

@PennySmart 2 жыл бұрын

As a divorced person I totally concur. Much as I never miss my husband of 25 years, I never expected the effect divorce had on children that I wrongly thought were adults.

@beethethi7766 2 жыл бұрын

Yes, vowing to stick together “for better or for worse” makes a big difference in feeling free in the relationship. Before I agreed to take those vows, I did put one condition, though: It was that there would be No physical abuse. Thankfully, that was honored.

@monicaramirez51015 2 жыл бұрын

Just be honest from the very beginning and transparent genuine authentic. If the person still likes you and accepts you flaws and all then you have a pretty good chance. If you pretend to be someone you are not, six months or years down the road the other may not like the real you that eventually must come out. It works I was happily married for 21 years to a wonderful gentleman, and I just became widowed 5-10-2019 on my 4 year sobriety and today I have 6.5 years sobriety and a lovely sober journey called life.

@evaberriman9929 2 жыл бұрын

This attitude kept me in a very unhealthy dynamic for 24 years. People were warning me left, right, and center, and I remained loyal…. Until I was diagnosed with two incurable conditions that severely impact life-span. I was dying from the inside out, and he kept prioritizing himself.

@DonChocolatey 2 жыл бұрын

This guy has an answer for everything. I’m obsessed!

@PeterCianci 2 жыл бұрын

...and if the past reveals any clues, we end up exchanging one issue for another... stay put and discover happiness where you are and define why it's making you happy!