This rubbish should stop, You guys are destroying our culture. If you dont trust your in-laws why marrying their daughter? You have to switch the drink from the one your wife to be gave you and drink the one your brother gave you from back.. What a disrestful act. This is one of the reason marriages no dey last. cos your missing the blessings from your father in law. How can u receive blessing when you don't trust them. Its really sad.