This is a HUGE karmic lesson for both of you, in different ways.

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2 ай бұрын

You're very confused by this man because you felt strongly for him and thought he felt the same for you. But then something about his words, actions, and decisions did not reflect that. You're now confused about him and what's really going on.
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@yarrow.111 2 ай бұрын

That was the most eloquent and intricate way to describe a womanizer 😂😭

@yarrow.111 2 ай бұрын

He grew up Jehovah’s Witness in a cult like mentality

@leilaflood7078 2 ай бұрын

I called him a womanizer in the weekend 😂

@jesspucketttarot 2 ай бұрын

😂🤣💗💖

@setsuna15 2 ай бұрын

😆

@papjesss 2 ай бұрын

@@yarrow.111mine was Muslim 🙄🤣

@GoatieMama Ай бұрын

This came at the right time. I'm the soul mate saying goodbye. For anyone in that state of confusion described in this video, please believe in your own truth, your hugeness of spirit, and walk away to a healthier place. Leave him to his path and go celebrate yours.

@annaburton3485 Ай бұрын

😂😂😂 I did last month and I feel so much better. I'm so much happier.

@oneofakind2276 Ай бұрын

❤

@oneofakind2276 Ай бұрын

Praying for strength

@kcbluebutterfly2182 27 күн бұрын

Unfortunately some of us have children and we don't want to destroy their lives. Giving up hurts the whole family

@motha_earth1386 21 күн бұрын

I chose me 4 months ago and walked away when he couldn’t understand the way he was damaging my peace of mind. Once I found myself over explaining, over loving and over thinking I had to let him find himself on his own time. I could no longer fight the battle with his ego. He was definitely good at exploiting women and getting his way which he confused with really loving women. He kept women around to use them for what he needed done. I left him to his manipulating ways and blocked him for good.

@jaykyu1132 Ай бұрын

I’ve been feeling that something was missing, and now I understand what’s missing is me being loved for who I really am. I am putting myself in a box, tiptoeing around, hoping this smaller version of me is more likeable to him. I am who I am, and I deserve life to its fullest.

@kedzie8 Ай бұрын

I feel exactly this! I've been working on loving myself and I'm finally realizing this isn't acceptable. And I should never settle for crumbs.

@flightmama3191 Ай бұрын

Magnificent gratitude beautiful SOULS for being here and trying 2 understand....I left a 42.5 year narcissistic marriage don't wait....I learned to love myself and he actually said I quit loving him and loved myself wad SELFISH 😂😂😂 IT'S NOT....I always put him, our children and everyone before me, I felt balance was missing and I kept asking SPIRIT IF I WAS ASKING TOO MUCH AND IF I WAS WRONG.....He now is taking EVERYTHING INCLUDING OUR RESOURCES AND LEAVING MYSELF AND OUR DISABLED SON PENNIES, AND expecting help from me......Make a plan put yourself first U DESERVE IT❤

@yourfavoritereader2460 2 ай бұрын

I hope everyone who is going through this can flourish in the Jupiter in Taurus transit. The next year allows everyone to change and grow in positive ways. I wish for everyone to look within and find that love you were born within yourself. It hurts me as a woman, a mom, a daughter, a sister, and a wife to see women struggle to get their basic needs met by a partner. The best advice I got when I was many, many moons younger is to show up as the partner you want in a relationship. If you show up as the person you want to attract, you'll never have to fight for someone. They'll flock to you as you are the golden ticket to them. When you walk in the room their smile will knock people off their feet because he/she won't be able to hide it. When you talk on the phone you'll hear their smile beam through the phone. The world will glow brighter. Your heart will feel complete. I wish this for everyone who sees this. I send you the support you need to find the love you deserve. ❤❤❤❤❤❤ to all

@nandikakaul6979 2 ай бұрын

This is so beautiful. Thank you!

@charking701 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for that beautiful level of sisterhood. Shining that wonderful light ❤

@BrandivaMcDark 2 ай бұрын

❤ it's a blessing to see a queen 👑 building her sister queens 👑 up not tearing them down;) ✨💖✨

@shiram88 2 ай бұрын

Thank you ❤❤❤

@MissyMuse-jf4ex 2 ай бұрын

🎉😂

@60satire 2 ай бұрын

Sad thing is, he destroyed it. So much love and investment in him and he destroyed it

@tyishawilder5275 2 ай бұрын

FACTS

@gabrielastrupp8463 2 ай бұрын

I feel for you, sending strength and love.

@nofybn7794 Ай бұрын

EXACTLY!

@PikaPikaPink1487 Ай бұрын

I felt this luv

@nickkenmill8364 Ай бұрын

Your better off they don’t deserve your love, fuck it if they don’t want it then find someone else who does!! ❤

@mysideofthetable3731 Ай бұрын

I had to walk away after 3 years. The push-pull was killing my heart. As much as it hurt me to let him go because I deeply, genuinely love him, I had to love me more. Hopefully some day he will see the light. Until then, I'll focus on me and walk my own path.

@allenboyden77 Ай бұрын

😢 same I how she grows into the person I thought she was

@DivineFeminine1979 Ай бұрын

Me too. Walked away 3 months ago. Almost at the 3 year mark. I’m happier now that I don’t feel “not good enough”

@GoatieMama Ай бұрын

Did we date the same man for 3 years? 😂

@DivineFeminine1979 Ай бұрын

@@GoatieMama 🤣🤣 right?!!! It’s the collective low vibe DM, aka false TF aka the catalyst.

@mayday24176 Ай бұрын

Same exact situation. 3 years. Push pull killing me. Moving forward I have no choice.

@skullchick911 2 ай бұрын

Crazy this came up on my feed RIGHT WHEN I needed to know whether I should continue trying with him. Crazy shit this is so real

@7empress7 2 ай бұрын

So what have you decide dear? Just asking to understand things more deeply with other's perspective also :)

@allenboyden77 Ай бұрын

Yeah inquiring minds want to know

@donolivia7501 22 күн бұрын

It came on my feed the day after I walked away from him & he didn’t put up a fight to make me stay 😏 confirmed it was the right choice lessons learnt and blessings on the way👌

@themooncave 2 ай бұрын

My mind is blown!! Thank you! There is no "dark empath" present in my ex-husband's life nor my twin flame's life. Both are living together with the sweetest (but unaware and naive) young women. I was once like them. I will never again compromise my own emotions or mental health or give up my life for a man. I could never again be in a transactional relationship where I give and give while he takes and takes without never giving me anything in return. Once the scales has fallen from your eyes, there's no going back.

@user-br9wk3sb2g 2 ай бұрын

💜

@keelove9223 2 ай бұрын

Never thought I’d be this person but wow was I naive and played on vulnerably. Hard to not let it scar me and take the lessons .. the exhaustion is real

@youdontknowme1258 Ай бұрын

@themooncave “dark” doesn’t necessarily mean evil, it just means no light or no truth or ignorance or naïveté, as you put it. They’re in “the dark”. Not necessary they ARE dark.

@Anvilsolo84 Ай бұрын

my twin flame is going through this right now with someone. i am praying for her in positivity, but she will eventually get away from this situation soon. i miss her, and i'm hoping she starts seeing the mask come off.

@Journey1133 2 ай бұрын

When she said “ he even thinks he likes women “ me 👁️👃👁️

@user-we5sm6vy4p Ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@allenboyden77 Ай бұрын

Maybe he does

@disha-xr3pi Ай бұрын

Ayeeyyooo 😂😂😂😂

@disha-xr3pi Ай бұрын

@@allenboyden77 bro she's not talking boutt uhh... She's talking bout the prsn she wanted to mention(she's with) ... And ain't no way he likes women or whatever so... Cuz, the reaction she had on listening to it explains it way more clearly... She wouldn't need to give such an expression if he would likee them... .

@ArenaRat-xd8fu 18 күн бұрын

@@disha-xr3pi lmao he prolly doesnt just like women like you guys

@sweethoneybee6783 2 ай бұрын

5:57 reminds me of the story of the man and the fish. He says I love fish and the other man replies if You love fish then why do you fish kill and eat them ? You love what fish can do for you ( ego ) genuinely loving fish means caring and setting them free. You love yourself not fish .

@janeprompts Ай бұрын

Such a great metaphor. Also speaks on how humans use animals today. This is exactly why I'm vegan. Thanks for sharing.

@ladybonezz8017 15 күн бұрын

I get the analogy here and its a good one, but just bc someone likes to eat fish doesnt mean they genuinely dont love and respect fish as beings. Animals and humans are different and it is our job as humans to watch out for them. This includes population control as animals have multiple babies per litter and if the balance isnt kept then they could easily overpopulate us. They are also on a lower level spiritually, they do not have human brains and even the smartest ones like dolphins are not able to process things in the same way we are. There is a reason that some hunters pray and bless the animal before killing it, bc they know the animals soul is a true soul being. And the same reason for why some dont kill animals just to kill, there is reasoning behind the killings such as gathering food or preventing infestation in a home. Humans also kill each other in self defense, does it mean we dont truly love them? No. But sometimes we have to protect ourselves. Now if animals are kept in a cage, not allowed to roam around much then that is true lack of freedom. If they are roaming around and just happened to be caught for food well that is just the natural way of things and they still got to live in their freedom. It does not mean a lack of love.

@sweethoneybee6783 15 күн бұрын

@@ladybonezz8017 overpopulate "US" again . That's ego . Bc who's to say we should be considered more important? . Idk perspective comes to play a lot on this one .

@ladybonezz8017 15 күн бұрын

@@sweethoneybee6783We cannot exist without ego. Ego is the individual's sense of self. If we just let that go completely, if we let others harm us, overpopulate us, take control over us, then we would cease to exist.

@sweethoneybee6783 15 күн бұрын

@@ladybonezz8017 starve the ego feed the soul .

@eunicethemystic 2 ай бұрын

Omg this is my Twinflame story!!! My guides keep sending me information so that I understand what happened with our connection! I was quick to stonewall him on the first try just like your video says haha I had learned my lesson with my Karmic and so I knew he wasn’t aligned with me so I had to let him go! I leave it up to the God and the universe! If he comes back healed and change we can talk about second chances if not, I’m ok, I deserve a man who is in alignment with me! 🙏

@sarahsmile2883 Ай бұрын

This ❤

@RavensFoodPorn Ай бұрын

Sameee ✨️

@copelana6786 Ай бұрын

This is my contemplating with Mike he’s not a bad guy or even close to anything toxic but he is not in alignment, nor with himself or me and I can’t express anything to him and him full comprehend it he truly is emotionally in a 2D experience.

@Adrianfairlight 8 күн бұрын

It’s crazy I’m seeing this 2months after posting. This is exactly what’s happening to me right now. It’s such a disappointment after 16 years.. I’ve been distancing after his bad behavior .. now he’s secretly seeing that woman who mirrors him. So weird because long ago he married a narcissist who outsmarted him at his own game.

@Laurette148 Ай бұрын

I always said he will learn his lesson when he meets himself in someone else ❤ thank you for clarifying my intuition so well

@shima2756 2 ай бұрын

I think this just helped me find closure. After years and years… thank you.

@Kay32776 2 ай бұрын

For me, this messenger (Jess)provided an authentic understanding of this process. I learned the phrase “Understanding replaces forgiveness…” from another speaker and understanding is a smoother energy than closure. Sending you a yummy wave of peace and soul shine☀️-KK

@keelove9223 2 ай бұрын

Definitely helping the healing process ❤️‍🩹

@lotusphoenix8 Ай бұрын

Spot on with my twin flame. I confronted him about his distorted view and behaviour towards women, as well as his unhealthy relationship with segs. I know for sure that I shook his lifelong false foundation. He's now going through a Pluto/Moon cycle so I know wherever he is, he's reminded of my words. Thanks the message

@allenboyden77 Ай бұрын

I'm sure he is

@Kay32776 2 ай бұрын

“He is good at exploitation!” Whew! I love the logic in your journeyed message!

@simranchalla5659 2 ай бұрын

this reading honestly set me free!! the confusion is gone- by really understanding the misunderstanding of this person and the dimensions in which he needs to learn which is none of our business to teach someone but ooof what a relief, just focusing on loving myself and standing on self worth

@honeymoney23 Ай бұрын

‼️

@Ebonie007 Ай бұрын

Oh my God…this describes my relationship right now. I believe we’re currently breaking up. I need more and he’s not willing to give it so I told him if he’s searching for more then he should go find it…although he depends on me for EVERYTHING, I have to beg for a bare minimum in return and I’m done. If he does end up getting into a karmic relationship it honestly wouldn’t surprise me. He thinks he’s the shit so I guess he needs to actually step in some smh

@ep11112 Ай бұрын

❤😂

@MazeratiMel Ай бұрын

This the one here...Narcissist😫

@aleciasullivan9294 Ай бұрын

Giiirl I spit 🥺 literally.. Reading my life.. I'm sorry

@theresahuitzil9463 28 күн бұрын

Wow I have invested 22 yrs in this man. All my achievements mean nothing unless I attend to him as a good wife should. I’m ready to walk away. She gives him what he wants. I know who she is. What she is. She thinks he has money but what he has has come from a lot of my hard work. I know what he wants from me but I’m no longer willing to sacrifice my self. I feel that it’s time to stop protecting him. He has hurt me horribly. Thank you

@hollyhechavarria444 19 күн бұрын

Same!

@Ninibaby1 2 ай бұрын

Sighs…I feel this deeply.. likes what he gets from women, but doesn’t like women. It’s okay tho. I can pack my feelings up for good. Cos I’m tired. Thank you for this reading.❣️

@sheronamarajh4822 11 күн бұрын

I resonated with this anyone else?🙂

@infinitybless7132 Ай бұрын

I gave him a chance to prove himself and surely enough he did. 😂

@user-eo5cu4gx8w 2 ай бұрын

This was the best After School Message and slap in the face I've ever listened to lol.... It makes 100% sense. He taught me about boundaries and self-love. Thank you for this reading.

@allenboyden77 Ай бұрын

Hopefully he's learning them 2

@leeolson1959 Ай бұрын

Yes, boundaries and self love is the lesson. A very painful lesson.

@michaellopez4018 Ай бұрын

Did he teach you self worth! Did he teach you that you are only worth what you know you're worth, not what other's think you're worth!

@barbarabenson9975 28 күн бұрын

You helped me understand why he's doing this. It's easier to let him go knowing that I'm on the right path for me. Thank you Spirit.

@cassiebratton728 2 ай бұрын

This randomly showed up in my feed and my God. I've never had anything, even myself, state so clearly what's been playing out in my life. Thank you for alleviating the almost crippling confusion that's dominated my life the past almost 4 years. Thank you 🥺🩵💜

@vanessaw6830 2 ай бұрын

Right!?!? I’m seeing this right now also and it’s like a torch being shone on my exxxaaacccct situation 😮😅😮

@jenifernadeau 2 ай бұрын

Yep. Me too almost exactly 4 years this Leo with a Libra

@cassiebratton728 2 ай бұрын

@jenifernadeau leo and Gemini. He's a libra moon though. We're right at 3.5 years.

@trishasorayaspring767 Ай бұрын

Me too 😢

@ep11112 Ай бұрын

Beautiful! 'A soul in her body first and a woman second' 💕💕💕

@coreenacorbett9576 2 ай бұрын

Self awareness is the key to unlocking the soul, the purpose and the knowledge of individual existence and discernment is the greatest gift that spirit will ever give us, these women are mirrors of acceptance of toxic masculinity that he refuses to actually look at simply because he’s been fooled into thinking this is what a “real” women behave like due to what society forces young men to think, when in actuality a woman can be delicate and strong whilst upholding healthy boundaries and is allowed to say no to the things she’s knows isn’t in alignment with her soul as to not betray herself nor her journey without it seeming weak nor should it be taken advantage of, so insightful love these type of messages.

@deniseg9939 2 ай бұрын

Wow, I just found you for the first time and this blew my mind. It's like finally getting the missing piece of the puzzle that I was searching for over the past year with this guy. I knew I was trying to fit a square peg in a round hole from the very beginning with him, but could never fully understand why. Until today. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for this video.

@vasudevan190 2 ай бұрын

Mee tooo. Thank you very much from the bottom of my heart ❤️.

@nadinebotha7448 2 ай бұрын

Same here!!

@Rochelle-gg4vb Ай бұрын

My first time too. And showed up so mysteriously on my timeline

@meganbeeheater-brady7081 28 күн бұрын

Same!!

@caemery436 19 күн бұрын

@@Rochelle-gg4vb Same!🌟

@Ravent69 2 ай бұрын

Yup. I've disconnected from the connection because he put those traits onto me, and I'm over it. I love him deeply, but I'm tired of playing these games and being disrespected. He is absolutely accusing me of being the karmic lesson (which I have never intended to be with him). I'm not interested in being treated this way anymore. So I'm doing my own thing now. If he chooses to change, he can find me. Until then, he gets stonewalled.

@leemythic4400 2 ай бұрын

Very happy for you. Im glad we are finding our own strength outside of these nasty partnerships. God wants you to be happy not miserable.

@applesnicolle5144 2 ай бұрын

Why are women stupid? Why give your love away to a Jerk?

@motha_earth1386 21 күн бұрын

Same ..

@ArenaRat-xd8fu 19 күн бұрын

Cat food, invest

@daniellalino 2 ай бұрын

You do not know how relevant and timely this reading is😲

@janaebassil853 2 ай бұрын

“okay so you’re this perfect little thing but why do you s d the way that you do”. story of my life dude ! thank you so much for this reading. it’s so liberating and provoking. Endless gratitude Jess like wow.

@deniselloyd8857 2 ай бұрын

So glad I came across this explanation. Thank you so much!😊

@angelabrown7868 Ай бұрын

I feel like this is spot on, I’ve been 3 yrs with this person , I am an empath.. idk if I’m the dark one .. I’m doing self work also and have been through a lot of trauma but the whole time I’ve felt unbalanced , confused . I can’t read him he has no emotion to show except anger . He’s closed off and disconnected . he can’t make himself vulnerable to me or show me any type of affection. I feel like sometimes he loves me but not enough to talk to me or answer any questions 😮I have or talk about feelings . it will start a fight like just because I wanna talk about how I’m feeling and why it pisses him off . He will literally shut completely down and just look at me like I’m stupid and he can’t hear me . He takes no accountability . I’m trying to see things I’m trying to analyze everything because I don’t want to make the same mistakes I’ve made before him . I’m scared to make a decision because what if I’m wrong and I’m the closed off one because I can’t get past the words and actions he’s trying to add together . I stay confused . I am not opposed to say I may be the problem but right now all I see and have seen is his unwillingness to put work in of himself into us and give back

@michaellopez4018 Ай бұрын

What a sad way to live. You deserve much more! What do you think you're worth? Learn to love yourself, so you can determine if this is what you want in life.

@OptimisticSaturnPlanet-yz8mc 23 күн бұрын

If he is a narcissist, he will keep repeating the same things. Years tick by like snowflakes on a drift of wind. Nothing continues to change but they get worse. Before ya know it, 35 years went by!!!👀 Yes Honey. I'm m so sorry for your loss.....of precious time.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 Blessed 🐝

@empressniki11 Ай бұрын

He's with the dark one now. Has been for years. She treats him like crap and admits to only wanting him for his $. He came to me for comfort, his words are he feels joy when we're together, yet he goes back to her. I fell in love with him while they were on a split...he went back to her. It's time for me to truly release him 😢... thank you so much for this message 🌹

@allenboyden77 Ай бұрын

Sadly I'm afraid I may have been with the dark one for years, I thought she was my tf I'm slowly coming to accept that she never loved me😢

@Sugarpop616 Ай бұрын

Possible she may be talking about a split personality cluster B female

@empressniki11 Ай бұрын

@@Sugarpop616 no, they had broken up

@llamalady9810 2 ай бұрын

I’m actually going into gray rock mode with my partner because he has consistently put me on the back burner along with my career…thank you for some clarity.

@donnahoff9168 Ай бұрын

Wow, I needed to see this. Yes I have all the love in the world for him. He's single now, doesn't want anyone. He was with 2 karmics, one after the other, but the first one was very dark and didn't show him love or tell him, he's told me that. She was mentally and physically abusive to him and she was after me and still is because he keeps coming back to me, but stay with me. In and out. I can't do it anymore, but I'm really hurting atm letting him go because I know I have to now. He keeps hurting me. I hope he sorts himself out for himself and I hope I find someone for me who actually cares how I feel.

@heatherwest8998 2 күн бұрын

I just now read this message as it came across my feed while scrolling thru KZfaq. It was spot on for something occurring in my relationship for the past few months. Since May, as a matter of fact! An event occurred just 2 days before this was posted that brought to light some things I knew were happening, but made it impossible to ignore any longer. I’ve been struggling with it a lot more in the past couple of days and feel as though decision time is quickly approaching. Perhaps this message could resonate with a ton of women at any given time, but I find it incredibly timely for me personally. There are no coincidences, and this gave me some deeper insight into the situation. Thank you. 🙏🏼 ✌🏼💞🕯️

@barbaraiavarone8291 2 ай бұрын

Love when you said- Let her be her expression of her soul first, and a woman second - resonates massively Thank you 🙏🏼

@elinamakela8435 Ай бұрын

The universe is smacking him with the truth around his ears and he just doesn't get it. His life, his health, his money, his children, his "love life" - everything is SCREAMING this hypocrisy in his face and he just doesn't get it. He bears down even more stubbornly, plays the victim, doesn't feel his feelings and holds on and on. He's losing everything in his life and is a couple of years from heart attack and HE JUST DOESN'T GET IT. His father didn’t get it either during his life time and like father like son... He died last year and I think he "managed" me from the other side to get in his path and to not fawn, not settle and instead show the truth in his face.

@Jayyfx_98 2 ай бұрын

The way my jaw dropped listening to this, wow spot on 😅

@user-nf4gk1zf7i 9 күн бұрын

I'm glad this video popped up. It gave me the clarity I needed. This is exactly what happened. He ghosted me and chose the karmic Jezebel.

@hermestrismegistus4283 2 ай бұрын

Thank you. As a Cancer man I feel totally called out.. 😅

@allenboyden77 Ай бұрын

Also a cancer man I know I have issue's I'm working on then

@user-vt4ko7cu8n Ай бұрын

This perfectly describes my former Cancer boyfriend

@wanderingsoulenterprises5564 2 ай бұрын

Thanks, Jess! I can’t seem to stop circling back around and around to my heartbreak - want to heal but still it hurts. And it is what it is. Just gotta keep going. Thanks for the pep talk. 🙏🏻

@jesspucketttarot 2 ай бұрын

You got this!

@MelissaClark-vi8nk Ай бұрын

OMG Are you seriously SO SPOT ON with SO many of us THIS is SO Ironic! WOW! Love it!

@mcds1122 2 ай бұрын

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽thanks- that is my ex-husband and he’s trying to shame my daughter in the same way he shames me…biggest gift I can give her is helping her understand that he looks at the world in “john-shaped glasses.” If what he sees doesn’t fit him he judges it… biggest waste of time is thinking you have to convince him of anything… you can never fit in those glasses… maybe the new wife can - it was a big lesson-

@lioness1221 2 ай бұрын

Ohhh this makes a lot of sense, my TF, 13 yrs on and off. I keep walking away because my intuition tells me the truth each time he comes back into my world. The fact that you said "actions matching words" I LITERALLY shut him back out with those words a few days ago. He definitely put me in the wrong category a while ago and I can feel he's starting to shift..... I'm doing me, loving me and if he gets it together and can show up, great but I don't need him or anyone to love me. I love me and love the life I've created. ❤ thank you for this eye opener!!!! It really helps A LOT!

@allenboyden77 Ай бұрын

I finally realized that I needed to love myself after my last heartache it opened my eyes

@Holistichan Ай бұрын

The timing of this video is insane 🤯thank you

@yakyssim 2 ай бұрын

Holy crap. I have never seen your channel before but it popped up on my feed and ooohhhhh my damn. You just described my life & the situation I am currently going through. So oh my........I'm speechless. THANK YOU!!!

@aussieallstar66 2 ай бұрын

I just so needed to hear this now. He came onto me a year ago then ran away and ghosted me because he did not understand the Queen Bee and did not know how to handle me. He went to the Little Mermaid instead. Yes they exploited him so now he wants to come back to me. She doesn't want to lose him because he has money and he is an animal in bed. I have to be strong and not be tempted to run to him. He is an actor too.

@pheonix9291 2 ай бұрын

Have money and be an animal in bed, you'll never need him again

@MeenAk. 2 ай бұрын

Same here..

@margiestephens7281 2 ай бұрын

Ditto

@niahann 2 ай бұрын

Sounds like my story

@RuahmariRodriguez Ай бұрын

Whois the actor

@constanceblanchard7608 2 ай бұрын

This entire video honestly sounds like a collective message. Really, it sounds very like the general discourse between the genders that I've been hearing all over the internet. Men with microphones talking about "women should be more feminine and allow the men to be masculine" or "women want a masculine man who can provide - ergo all women are [insert backhanded compliment here]" vs a lot of women trying to disabuse their men of these notions, or outright choosing to be single rather than deal with the stress of a relationship with such a person.

@allenboyden77 Ай бұрын

Men doing the same thing just saying guess we meant to be single

@constanceblanchard7608 Ай бұрын

@@allenboyden77 honestly I don't think we're all meant to be single; But I do feel strongly that there is value in taking time to be single, so we can spend time going within and examine ourselves, grow ourselves as a person through self-reflection - maybe re-evaluate our thoughts and beliefs. Most of all, I feel that it's important for all of us to be able to be comfortable being on our own, not reliant on the presence of others, romantic or otherwise.

@allenboyden77 Ай бұрын

@@constanceblanchard7608 I feel the same way I'm currently working on myself and trying to put my heart back together very difficult when I still have such strong feelings still and I swear I feel her like maybe she's not happy about it either

@constanceblanchard7608 Ай бұрын

@@allenboyden77 heartbreak is never an easy thing to deal with. Just be kind to yourself, and stay safe

@allenboyden77 Ай бұрын

@@constanceblanchard7608 ty I'm doing my best

@PatriseHenkel Ай бұрын

Stumbled on this and grateful- explains what I’ve just been thru. Became attached to someone with deep potential who ultimately chose shallow and limiting path, or as you describe a karmic path that will teach him the hard way. And I go on, more solid in my self worth, but sad.

@denisebailey2017 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for the clarity. I just walked away from this type of circumstance.

@mariqua5507 27 күн бұрын

This video has been coming up for me in my suggestions for a month. I finally clicked on it and it explains so much. This is the closure I've been craving. I wish him well and that he doesn't have to learn the hard way for too long before he accepts change

@motha_earth1386 21 күн бұрын

Same 😩

@agirl3902 Ай бұрын

Wow, this was very insightful. I’m the soulmate who is a sweetheart but he has greatly disrespected me in every way. I’ve been on my healing journey for couple of years and I’m done with him.

@OptimisticSaturnPlanet-yz8mc 23 күн бұрын

Yup, mine disrespected me so badly that he made it so I could never go back. Unless I wanted to die!

@ArenaRat-xd8fu 19 күн бұрын

Lol

@jodaisy113 Ай бұрын

His alcohol overuse dictated our journey together until I walked away … I have loved him for 24 years and will continue to … from a distance

@SharikaShalom24_7 Ай бұрын

25 years together and 13 years married.I hear you💕💕

@OptimisticSaturnPlanet-yz8mc 23 күн бұрын

Just wrappin-up 10 years here, with an alcoholic. 25 years before that with a sociopathic Narc. Stick me with a fork, I'm overdone done like an over baked 🥔 potato. I don't even know the sober guy underneath all that garbage.

@sarahsmiles6265 6 күн бұрын

I'm in a relationship with an alcoholic...and I do love him but...he consistently isn't showing up for me ...and I'm tired of showing up for him when he's not doing the same...I think I need to let him go 😢 I can't get myself stuck in that type of energy

@rebekahsteeper 2 ай бұрын

It resonates and I just feel so much like I want to distance. Like, I’m not sitting around waiting for someone who tries to categorize me and treat me as an option. ✌️

@namonrice1770 2 ай бұрын

I’m tired of all of this ! Just would like to lay down and never get back up !

@marissasue319 2 ай бұрын

💯💔

@marissasue319 2 ай бұрын

💯💔

@Ninibaby1 2 ай бұрын

Me too🥺💔

@user-wb5wi2jd3b 2 ай бұрын

I feel the same sometimes. Plus, I lost my angel comfort cat during this time of trying to heal from what does seem like a narcissistic attack disguised as romance. 😢

@beaumackenzie3510 2 ай бұрын

Perfectly said

@crptnite 2 ай бұрын

I fully understand who he is and who he was supposed to be for me, as well as who he chose to become instead. That's why I want nothing more to do with any of this. He made his choices. I just want to move on with my life.

@crptnite 2 ай бұрын

What's disgusting is how the reason he's so good at Exploiting women is because he was one for the past two thousand years 🙄

@ArenaRat-xd8fu 19 күн бұрын

Lol are you stoned

@charchar7897 2 ай бұрын

This was spot on! We've known each other most of our lives, but started seeing each otehr 2 years ago. We were long distance, and he met a karmic and swore he was in love with her. Told him no one could be in love so quickly, and I told him she was faking. He got diagnosed with prostate cancer at 47, and thats when she bailed, but somehow, he srill feels like he loves her. We both admit we've got some sruff between us from anotehr lifetime, but I had to let him go to save myself. I know my worth and how much love I have to offer someone who can show up in my experience as a healthy and whole partner. Thanks for this video.❤

@monicachubbuck2948 8 күн бұрын

Omg! Girl your whole reading is right on POINT. The resonating gave me goosebumps. He view regarding his opinion of woman BINGO! He’s a Sagittarius and I see a man who is disappointed with his life and uncomfortable in his skin. He knows how to push buttons! I’m at my wits end to get him to wake up and realize. I think there is another woman but not a regular in his life. Game playing, putting me in my place, saying mean and hateful, disrespectful. He has such a low self esteem and views woman as servants.He is very good at mimicking and just doesn’t get it!

@user-xr7hv4ix6d Ай бұрын

It's like you've been physically right here with me, watching my situation. I really needed to hear this. Thank you

@jamesjoyce45 2 ай бұрын

The problem is he destroyed my love life because I was so abused. I had so many terrible relationships. I am now too old to recover and overcome anymore. I wish he hadn’t wasted my last chance at love, but he will never care because he is too busy labeling me as a Shmore.

@Laura-ux8vt 2 ай бұрын

I feel the same way

@jenifernadeau 2 ай бұрын

People can do nothing to us they can only do things for us. It's all meant for our own growth and evolution. To reflect back to us what needed healing within ourselves. So there is actually no destruction, it's really a chance for growth and removal of toxicity to allow better to come in. We must become everything we seek, as whole and complete as we can and then like attracts like..... because we are energetic beings first and foremost.... so we attract the same frequencies that we are at. The level of healing they have to do is equal to the level of healing we have to do, although it may show up in different ways in the physical world❤

@jenifernadeau 2 ай бұрын

What someone is doing saying or thinking, ever..... is of no relevance and has nothing to do with us. It is merely a projection of themselves and the level of healing that they are at. Just as our Judgment of the world around us you can only be a judgment of ourselves. As within, so without. You are still breathing and above ground. When you release expectation or a particular idea of how something is supposed to show up, amazing things can come in.❤

@jenifernadeau 2 ай бұрын

We chose these human suits and we chose to Incarnate here for lessons and to have fun and experience the flow of emotions through our human bodies since this is the only planet that can be done on. This third dimensional heavy density planet, although the energies are shifting into the fourth and fifth dimensions and we are stepping out of Duality mindset thank goodness.... that's what the age of Aquarius is for.❤ if you don't do what you decided to do here before you incarnated here, you will just come back and do it again.😊

@allenboyden77 Ай бұрын

@@jenifernadeauI have only been on this journey for a little over 6 months but I hope to achieve the level of clarity I get from your messages.

@yeonsollee6592 2 ай бұрын

what u said at the end is SO BEAUTIFUL. it’s gotta be worthwhile for him to be conscious and to be a partner !! wow!!! love u jess always!!!

@jesspucketttarot 2 ай бұрын

Aww, thank you!

@tiffanyrobinson6942 5 күн бұрын

Opened my eyes. I AM queeny bee. I've always compared myself to Ariel "The Little Mermaid" in the 7 months since I've met him. Yes you're correct, I do love him. I do feel much smaller around this man and I literally told him that the other day. He has also compared himself to the exact hunter analogy that you use. I most definitely defy these categories you speak of!!!!!!! He is currently dating a woman in law enforcement that he states is allowing him to do whatever he wants. You're extremely correct he said I'm in the wife category and that's why he said he purposely pushes me away repeatedly. This is definitely a twin flame connection and he definitely attempts to categorize me. You're also right in saying I've been deeply thinking about stone walling him as soon as he circles back around. If I had to guess, his Dad comes through to me as a potential "womanizing" pastor from the deep south with four sons and no daughters. I've also been very introspective lately about his karma cycles and why he treats me the why he does. His actions didn't align with what he says at all. He also makes many blanket statements about women and men. You are disturbingly accurate. Thank you for delivering this message to me. I had really been praying for answers because this baffled me more than anyone I've ever met in my life.

@nikilandella6136 Күн бұрын

This is 11 years later for me, but it gives me peace.

@clairerowe-ii9mo 2 ай бұрын

Discovered this by accident and listened. Blimey. Not sure if this is him but he's doing my head in, I've tried to walk away but I can't. I'm just glad I haven't succumbed to his lust lol. I'm on my own spiritual journey this year. Thank you. X

@infiniteinsight885 Ай бұрын

Im utterly amazed @ how many others are experiencing this same situation as i have in the past had this sort of dynamic with men but not on this level as usually they are aware of their toxic masculinity catagorizing and admitting of thinking women are one way or another however this man being unaware was blowing my mind thanks for putting it in perspective this is profound clarity that i had been struggling with even though we'd had conversations about traditional man/woman roles. I had seen this "toxic" (I really do hate that word but its appropriate here) trait early on over a comment he made and i thought wow hes really underestimating my intelligence & all women for that matter this should be fun. Well ibstopped having fun quite awhile ago and i know he doesnt wanna lose me but enough is enough when you cannot feel free to ne yourself and feel like you have to hide parts of who you are its no good at least not for me i know there are others who live whole married lives like this & perhaps its the reason the stereotype for toxicmasculinity or the "slutshaming" of women but not being your true self is hurtful to everyone in the long run while not knowing your true self, well that's a whole different conversation

@allenboyden77 Ай бұрын

Sometimes I wish I could understand women better I feel clueless most of the time

@pattieskidmore5386 17 күн бұрын

My exhusband he loved me at one time and I know I messed up big time when I looked him in his eyes I saw the disappointed in his eyes and I was disappointed in myself Im the one it went down the wrong path but I shouldn't walked away from my marrige because I love him vary much still do can't go back his getting married to someone he loves very much.❤

@user-ek1yh7fb2p 5 күн бұрын

That was the part I was not fully getting about him! Now things are falling into place, bless you❤

@user-wg6mj2kp1l 2 ай бұрын

This is the most accurately channeled description of what I'm going through with this man that I have ever heard. You bust nail directly on its head. Thank you for your confirmation 🙏

@dontshootthemessenger6070 2 ай бұрын

You have no idea how on time you are with this message thank you❤

@chi-scorpio6001 2 ай бұрын

This was brilliant. I couldn't have said it better. Thank you !❤

@JenniferDominguez-eb7du Ай бұрын

Wow, you just explained in perfect detail my relationship. My mind is blown right now. Thank you, this has made me feel like I’m not losing my mind for the first time in this relationship.

@moseskakaapana4038 Күн бұрын

I feel like I was just on an episode of Big Brother. 💜🙏🏻🛐🙏🏻💜 God Bless you. I am ABSOLUTELY BESIDE MYSELF. Your Free Read saved my Eternal Soul. I’m already very late in replying and assembly was the New Moon, I am catching THE CRACKS OF MY LIFE from guides and ancestors as I am blocking blessings and resisting the Creative’s Call… Please continue the AWESOME WORK you are doing. Gonna focus on working toward my next update/ upgrade so I can start earning my Gift… With the fast approaching $#!ft in the temporal grid facilitating direct access to higher dementions; It must be, “All hands to your duty station. All hands report for duty.” You are such a blessing, I am inspired to answer the Call so I may find my purpose to best serve my community and make good use of my Gift, just as you have willingly done so here. Nui ka mahalo iā ‘oe no nēia wanana, he mea ho’opomaika’i ho’i. Aloha nō me ka ha’aha’a 🐒🌛🌋

@mer51227 2 ай бұрын

Whoa.....that was the message I needed. Thank you!

@BDHammac 2 ай бұрын

I have never had a person be any more closer or deadhead venue It was like you was speaking directly to me and you actually gave me exactly what I needed to know and how to go about things and I thank you so much for it

@allenboyden77 Ай бұрын

Remember he don't know better

@ranee456 28 күн бұрын

14 years the last 6 on breadcrumbs and discharge... He's narcissistic, and project his actions on me, lies and cheating... I've been forgiving and loving... But no more, he's in prison now for a year so far, but hasn't changed, I'm done, and going no contact... Yep very well explained, Thank you & be blessed !

@nadiamorales743 Күн бұрын

I am going thru a walking away from this man that does not live in the light....I am thankful that light has come into my darkness...thank you Jeshua 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

@21aubreysmommy 2 ай бұрын

You literally described my situation verbatim.. this scared the shit out of me !

@tshep173 2 ай бұрын

Omg. You just read my whole situation. You brought me to tears. Even the bisexuality of the karmic! Which I read long ago

@kiarajalynnpowell 2 ай бұрын

Thank you I definitely needed the end when you said don’t manage another’s emotions!

@Ciddux 10 күн бұрын

This is too accurate. You've perfectly described what's happening. I'm sad if this woman he has chosen is dark :( I want him to be happy. But you're right I have to stay away whilst he learns these lessons. I even tried to tell him, he won't have a healthy and happy relationship until he works on his empathy and narcissistic traits. He certainly didn't like that, no one would I suppose. It's really hard not talking to him :( I know he's having a really hard time atm too. I hope she isn't treating him badly.

@sher101 2 ай бұрын

I can’t thank you enough for posting this. My intuition was spot on with my person. So much of what you say here I SAW (with my Spirit) but found it perplexing while living in it. He unfortunately and unexpectedly passed away last year on Thanksgiving Day (2023).

@jenifernadeau 2 ай бұрын

😢 🕊 🙏 💖

@user-ur9wx3ut6l 2 ай бұрын

To some extent, these two are a match

@Alkemiss 2 ай бұрын

This video was chefs kisses. Your explanation hit me like a ton of bricks! I am eternally grateful that this message found me. I feel free! Thank you ❤

@MeghanBoggs-v1p 26 күн бұрын

What in the helll is going on with the accuracy?! 😅 “He even thinks he likes women” LMAO

@chandrikasundaridevidasi3305 2 ай бұрын

When you said the Madonna complex is reminded me of a convo I had with his ex who said those words to me about his behavior.

@Spiritlead111 2 ай бұрын

Brilliant my dear, just brilliant.

@lsan5633 7 күн бұрын

😮😮😮 Wow. Thank you! This wasn't even a sun sign reading and yet your accuracy down to the very last detail is absolutely mind-blowing. I've needed these exact answers for over a year now. Thank you Jess! Thank you spirit! 😊❤

@erindawn7857 19 күн бұрын

Dang !! He threw (literally) a ring at me in less than a week. I threw it back mindlessly asking who he bought it for originally.. oh this guy .. you so nailed it

@gopal108b5 Ай бұрын

Queen Bee is his own mother! Shes twice divorced from decent husbands, wants attention and has a social media channel singing . A narcissistic woman that keeps my ex single so she can live with him. He adores his mum but she only cares about herself and not her oown son. He was already divorced before we met . It was because of his mother, but he obviously blames his ex wife to protect his mother.

@GodessQueenTila Ай бұрын

MEN LIKE THAT ARE WEAK AND NASTY! THE BIBLE SAYS THAT A MAN MUST LEAVE HIS MOMMY AND DADDY TO GO BE WITH HIS WIFE. THIS INCLUDES EMOTIONALLY AS WELL IN ORDER TO BECOME A REAL MAN. Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.- Genesis 2:24

@bridgetsieger2261 22 күн бұрын

Hi! We are in the same boat I think I hate my MIL. She is evil and his true wife. He gives her my $$ I have no control

@gopal108b5 21 күн бұрын

@bridgetsieger2261 it's really sad how selfish some mothers are..taking full advantage and emotionally blackmailing their sons.

@bridgetsieger2261 21 күн бұрын

@@gopal108b5 he had a tbi at age 12 huge bus accident. He won $ from the bus company. His mom insisted on being in the trust for 2000/month for the rest of her life she gets that because “it was hard to watch him in the hospital I had to sit by his side”. So is he her burden or husband. According to how he acts…. Husband. She çan do NO wrong. Yet she does…. daily. Her other $$ comes from stealing another sons trust $$ as he is disabled from epilepsy. She is really into crown chakra alignment and “good energy”. She is so full of shit. She didn’t know the voicemail was recording and her voice was low and mean asking for $$ , and we are in a spot not her she is on vacation!!… instead of the baby voice she’s usually uses. Fake voice.

@user-qy4um6zi1s 10 күн бұрын

Don't blame his Mother for how he's turning out. Maybe she's learned how to care about herself just as the rest of us have had to learn, the hard way. If he can't leave his Mother with the respect she deserves and also with respect for himself, then you'll be the one he does rinse and repeat with. Gron women often stay close to their mothers for life. What makes you think men also don't need that? Do you WANT to be his mother? Do you want to take her place? Think carefully before you answer that. This rejection of the MIL is the wrong way to go.

@gracelighthouse4205 Ай бұрын

🤯 mind blown! The difference between a man who esteems women and a man who likes what he gets from women! The latter is my man. You pegged it! And he has not chosen to learn...yet. He's 59! 🙏 Praying it will happen in this lifetime!

@cieravalian295 6 күн бұрын

This is the first time you've appeared on my feed. So I have been feeling some of what you've explained in my husband for the last couple of years. Part of me feels stupid because I can't tell if I missed it (we married young) or if we know more about the world now that we are in our late 30s/early 40s and it's coming out more. There is a disconnect and bias that he has about women that wasn't explicit when we met, at least not in the way I was used to seeing it. Back then, he was way more progressive than the other men in my life. Hopefully, he learns quickly because I'm running out of patience. Thanks for the clarity.

@lesliegirl1514 14 күн бұрын

Holy crap. You did this 2 months ago, yet it’s like you’re a friend that has been watching me. EVERYTHING you said is right on point. I’ve never come across your channel ever, but clearly you popped into my feed so I could hear my story be told. It’s almost creepy how exact this is. I am the soulmate and I recently discovered a woman he’s been w. And she has a dark aura about her. I moved my daughter and I out. I was typing everything you were saying as quickly as I could so I can keep looking back at it. Just wow.

@SerenitYVocalized2.0 2 ай бұрын

Omg I always make that point w ppl about words n what we mean 5:18

@allenboyden77 Ай бұрын

My ex did the same but she always assumed I actually knew what the words I was using meant 🤣

@andreaanderson658 2 ай бұрын

Right on point...😊

@brezzyBribri 2 ай бұрын

First im gonna say I love how your giving us what some of these readings is about, for me it gives the chance to know what your entering into or if it may apply to you. Like doors. It cant always be like that I know, still these are nice. This energy keeps coming up and while I want to bury it until it goes back into the universe, when u wrote that spirit wld like to assist in the unraveling, a big "Okay!" came out my body and i felt much calmer. Hearing about their misunderstandings is triggering & hurtful even tho it does help me understand more of the whys, so again thanks for those heads up. Second thing, kinda ties in: Sometimes u dont know that u needed something until you have it. I really, really appreciated this :).

@rebeccad5545 2 ай бұрын

This popped up on my feed and I’m glad I clicked on the video. Thank you for your reading. You were very spot on with the messages. ❤

@fronosmanfreddi3393 2 ай бұрын

Listening to this it seems to be about men who hate women and women who hate men. Is this correct?

@NYX6ECLIPSE 2 ай бұрын

This reading was real asf and I’m really glad I stopped to listen❤ thank you !

@lauren12ful1 2 ай бұрын

Yep, this certainly did answer the question that the title of your video presented . Mine was 9 years ago and I was still confused, until now. Thank you so much!

@meow8819 Ай бұрын

Perfect time to listen. I just broke up with this twin yesterday and I couldn’t believe his rude words and non chalant ways to breaking up and moving on.. I totally resonate with this unfortunately… let’s see how he’s gonna learn his lessons.