When people have options, they behave one way. When they don't, they behave another.

When girls break up with you, they made that decision and thought about it a long time before it actually happened.

When they girl breakup with the guy they’re the ones who rebound, enter a relief stage and don’t process their emotions at first that all comes later for them and they always try to come back. Guys who get dumped go through the emotions, self reflect and then self improve and once the girl regrets she tries to come back to manipulate the guy all over again. That why you gotta keep your heads held up high with these females nowadays.

There's also the fact that there are withdrawal symptoms, bc it's a drug, and we tend to only remember the good times. Just start reminding yourself of all the shitty things they did and why the relationship ended in the first place

I do have to disagree about the whole attachment theory, you cannot tell me avoidants are not a universal shitty person to date. Yeah while masculine and feminine dynamics play a huge role in relationships, so do attachment styles. The common traits among avoidants both male and female is something you cannot ignore, the cold distancing behavior, the lack of communication, their lack of understanding, their subconscious fears getting triggered with deep emotional level conversations, their ability to discard their partner without second thought, etc l.

I will be honest. This guy is very very informed and knows what hes talking about

Nah nah she is not calling it out clearly, they only think about the guy they fell for and who finessed them; they never give a second thought about the guy who they finessed until they couldn't find a new one to finesse.

Because they always have the replacement in place

The attachment theory is not bullshit as men also have those attachment styles and they also vary between women. The anxiety due to needed a men for survival in prehistory just adds a layer of complexity to the attachment theory.

I spent 6 months in Navy in Philippines Subic in 1989, Roles were reversed in that 20k women came when the Carrier docked, after having many women, then I understood women in that sex became boring without love, They became wall paper and I just wanted a beer in peace, Then later in West I never chased , pick the puppy that picked you, in that when you are not desperate they will chase . Always treated them as a friend first till they wanted bedroom fun.

Let me analyze this woman. She is in the h- phase. So the relationship which she is talking about was being a 4th or 5th plate to some guy in the top 10%. She became too high maintenance and the dude didn't want to deal with her anymore. She only had such relationships so far, therefore she thinks that's how man and woman handle a breakup. Understand that in her mind the bottom 90% of men do not exist, so they don't count. She thinks the dude later started processing the breakup and wants to connect again. But what really happens is the dude (who is top 10%) just one day is bored, all his plates are busy or something, and while scrolling on his phone he just starts sending messages to women he previously had been with to get a quick easy lay. This woman is just one of them and thinks that he actually started missing her.

It’s always the girl that breaks up the relationship about 90% of the time. I’ve gotten girls quickly after or rebounds but they were always poor quality.

Be careful with who you have soul ties with. Never get attached to her.

It's funny how sure you are about stuff, but it is actually only right around 75% of what you say

Was it zsa zsa gabor who said the 'best way to get over someone is to get under someone else' ?? So true! Been single for 2 months and almost racked up my 3rd notch last night it's just not worth it to get emotionally invested in women nowadays. WE beautiful men age like fine wine while women turn into short-haired wrinkly untanned chubby trolls at which point memories & tales of their body count keeps them warm- like nuts to a squirrel no pun intended!!

It seems from my dating experience, women are much better than men at breaking up quickly and moving on quickly. The reason for this is, women (in the dating apps) have about 10x more options than men. So women monkey-branch to another hotter dude pretty quickly and soon they get addicted to the new feelings from the next hot rod. So woman breaks up as soon as another dude catches her fancy.

They get over it faster bc they always have way more options and can F new people right away

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Cool bro!

Attachment theory is a theory, but it’s one with credence. So to just disregard it is an uneducated take. For one there’s a misconception about it especially from guys in this content space. It’s seen as “cope” or a way for women to avoid accountability which is wrong. 1. Guys do it too 2. Anxious isn’t the only one, there’s also fearful, dismissive and secure 3. It’s based on how you were raised as a child, has nothing to do with gender 4. It’s a pretty accurate way to explain the behavior of an ex depending on how they moved during the relationship, or how to become more self-aware based on your own Guys gotta stop with the fake machismo talking points. You’re still human

It seems to me she's talking about girls taking a while to process the breakup and guys moving on quickly in the case of guys that break up with girls. And those guys are the top 10% guys that have no problems getting other women. Since most breakups are done by women, that's the type of breakup she should be talking about. Not getting dumped by the hot guy with all kinds of women after him.

Who breaks up with whom? From the start it sounds like its from the pov that the guy broke up with her. Which is not the typical male experience. From a relationship pov, when a girl breaks up with the guy, the last one to know about it is the guy. It may be week sor months after the fact - after shes been through the emotional rollercoaster, deciding if (A) he's not teh best she can do, and (B) what other options does she have available to monkey branch swing to So it sounds like from the pov of she still thinks the guy is her best option: and (girl logic /sexual strategy) she wants to put on a performance that she and her life is amazing: Because if HE and HIS LIFE was amazing she would be aroused/.attracted by that and want to get with him, and therefore she thinks the reverse is true. And tehn because she's got HUGE anixity of his leaving again, if he does come back she wants himt to come back groverling: this would quieten her anxiety, but unexpected side-effect is it lowers her arousal for him - because she wants a man to be an ADVANTAGE to HER, and he's must be less of an Advantage if he has to grovel? to her? who would be lucky to have him? Wait is he not as good as I thought? etc etc etc.

They want you back asap BUT, they are the ones that planned the move in the 1`st place.

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