THIS is probably why men don't approach women anymore.

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Flynt Flossy

Flynt Flossy

Ай бұрын

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Is this reason why men stopped approaching women?
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@flyntflossy
@flyntflossy Ай бұрын
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@xineohpinakc264
@xineohpinakc264 Ай бұрын
Teach men that approaching women is a bad thing and scary for her. Men stop approaching women, Women complain that men do not approach. It is simple.
@ClifffSVK
@ClifffSVK 18 күн бұрын
Women don't know what they want until they get it and they don't know what they have until they lose it.
@jimmymiller7256
@jimmymiller7256 14 күн бұрын
She could file abuse charges against you domestic violence or child abuse so on
@StraightJacket5150
@StraightJacket5150 14 күн бұрын
If men were to start approaching women again, they would go back to telling us to stop.
@thousandstar
@thousandstar Ай бұрын
It's crazy ...I thought that this is what they wanted . I thought they were tired of guys bothering them all the time . Man what a world we live in .
@flyntflossy
@flyntflossy Ай бұрын
lol
@wadebipatnath9675
@wadebipatnath9675 Ай бұрын
Men wouldn't approach her because you women say you feel unsafe when men look at you.
@vidfan1973
@vidfan1973 14 күн бұрын
"I feel/felt unsafe" - 3 words that have FORCED us men to avoid even looking in their direction. Let alone approach them. Plain and simple.
@djsmith2871
@djsmith2871 16 күн бұрын
"I get it. It's nerve wracking." No, lady. It was nerve wracking in the 50s, 60s,70s, 80s and 90s. Now it is downright dangerous, and bottom line, you are just not worth the hassle.
@johnsmith-ht3sy
@johnsmith-ht3sy 3 күн бұрын
True, now when I look at you what I see is drama, entitlement, and debt. Brain wired to avoid.
@eternaltruth1666
@eternaltruth1666 17 күн бұрын
Its not about rejection, its about loosing everything we've worked a lifetime to build. There's to much to risk these days because so many women are looking for starter husbands these days.
@showspotter
@showspotter Ай бұрын
LOL and women think this is "flirting" & having to do "all the work" - standing 10ft from someone & looking at them one whole time.
@flyntflossy
@flyntflossy Ай бұрын
haha
@dddux
@dddux 29 күн бұрын
A woman standing 10ft from me just makes me wanna look in the other direction in fear of being called out for something ludicrous like being a creep or whatever.
@consciouslyawake6051
@consciouslyawake6051 19 күн бұрын
For real 😂
@AustinThinker79
@AustinThinker79 Ай бұрын
Umm… didn’t you want to stop “toxic masculinity”? I don’t even look at a woman anymore for fear of being accused of being a creep.
@ChineduOpara
@ChineduOpara Ай бұрын
Join the club...
@incredibleshrinkingfungus1731
@incredibleshrinkingfungus1731 27 күн бұрын
My head turns around so fast if my eyeballs see T or A that I suffer from chronic whiplash.
@DeadCat-42
@DeadCat-42 23 күн бұрын
I've walked down the street looking at a black screen on my phone with no charge, just to avoid accidentally looking at a woman.
@vidfan1973
@vidfan1973 14 күн бұрын
100% brother. Just a glance to avoid bumping into them @ a grocery store = creepy or creeper🤦
@StraightJacket5150
@StraightJacket5150 14 күн бұрын
@@incredibleshrinkingfungus1731 100% Same here!
@MichaelMowl-kh1pm
@MichaelMowl-kh1pm Ай бұрын
Women have made it clear on TV and social media that it’s considered harassment if we even speak to you. Not to mention that women are so quick to go online and talk about how terrible we are in front of the world.
@alvincolvin9156
@alvincolvin9156 Ай бұрын
I’m considered an attractive guy and I purposely look away when women look at me and love to see how angry they get lmao my days of approaching are over
@drjohnsonhungwell5115
@drjohnsonhungwell5115 25 күн бұрын
I've had a couple of them angrily confront me for not talking to them lol and plenty of dirty looks
@drjohnsonhungwell5115
@drjohnsonhungwell5115 25 күн бұрын
I've had a couple of them angrily confront me for not talking to them lol and plenty of dirty looks
@drjohnsonhungwell5115
@drjohnsonhungwell5115 25 күн бұрын
I've had a couple of them angrily confront me for not talking to them lol and plenty of dirty looks
@dubwhite852
@dubwhite852 25 күн бұрын
It went from: Men, don’t approach me! To: Men don’t approach me?
@flyntflossy
@flyntflossy 25 күн бұрын
Haha
@user-vh8oz8vh4n
@user-vh8oz8vh4n 12 күн бұрын
Punctuation matters
@christopherpaul1012
@christopherpaul1012 24 күн бұрын
Men have had so much rejection they just can't be bothered with it anymore.
@everyhandletaken
@everyhandletaken Ай бұрын
If we're breathing, we are doing something wrong. Welcome to 2024 & beyond, boys. 🍻
@brandonperkins176
@brandonperkins176 Ай бұрын
I get rejected on so many levels it's not funny. Women will play games and choose the douchest of guys over a good one. To me, it's madness
@flyntflossy
@flyntflossy Ай бұрын
it's a wild world we in homie lol
@brandonperkins176
@brandonperkins176 Ай бұрын
@@flyntflossy exactly! Sad but true
@ChineduOpara
@ChineduOpara Ай бұрын
Come to Colombia bro
@Dani-it5sy
@Dani-it5sy Ай бұрын
I feel like when humans try to unite it never works. But as soon as just the men try to unite like we do now it works like hell. Wonder why that is 😎 Keep it up guys! I am like: Wtf have we been doing the past decade? How can I have been so dumb and desperate that I let myself get treated this way? I must have been really confused..
@erniezimmer7187
@erniezimmer7187 25 күн бұрын
I quit playing games once my kids grew up!
@jaytc3218
@jaytc3218 Ай бұрын
She's complaining that men aren't approaching and that it's frustrating when women have to do all the work. That's a whole conversation right there but let's just go with what she said in this video. She said that she and her girlfriends did a little experiment and proceeded to explain that one of the girls in the group made herself available for approaching by the men in the group. But none of the men approached them. That 's probably because every one of those brothers has experienced the bullsh!t games that those girls were playing THAT NIGHT RIGHT THERE! She actually admitted it. She said they were doing a little experiment (read that as "playing games"). They weren't interested in finding a man. Women today are just looking for validation. Women just want an ego boost and men aren't falling for their bullsh!t games anymore. There are more important things to do than to put up with that noise.
@BhaamBhuu
@BhaamBhuu Ай бұрын
"Women to day are just looking for validation. Women just want an ego boost and men aren't falling for their bullsh!t games anymore. There are more important things to do than to put up with that noise." 💯X💯
@Bobcat665
@Bobcat665 Ай бұрын
0:38 *"Yeah, I get it.* It's nerve wracking. It's uncomfortable..." No, you don't get it. Being dealt the emotional equivalent of getting kicked in the balls , over and over again, is more than uncomfortable, it's absolute MISERY. #MeToo culture has made it ten times worse, too. The ever-present threat of getting randomly accused of being a predator because a chick had a bad day gives most men serious pause, now. Don't even try to tell us that you "get it" when you clearly don't!
@StraightJacket5150
@StraightJacket5150 14 күн бұрын
A+
@maxhouse1125
@maxhouse1125 5 күн бұрын
If she says that she "gets it", she doesn't. She will have to show me instead of telling me.
@joellanderson5137
@joellanderson5137 Ай бұрын
They told us not to🤷‍♂️
@BulletsNBrass
@BulletsNBrass 27 күн бұрын
I couldn't make it past her listing a few of the reasons guys wouldn't approach but then comes back with, "but it's frustrating when women feel like they have to do all of the work." Umm yeah, welcome to our world. You gave us all the responsibility for this, all the consequences and very very rarely any reward. So yeah, we stopped. Now you want to whine about putting in some effort? Sheesh. I thought we were equal. Good stuff man. keep it comin
@STB-jh7od
@STB-jh7od 21 күн бұрын
With women going on social media shaming men for approaching them, leave women to the bears😁
@GreatWhite7
@GreatWhite7 16 күн бұрын
53 years old. Did my first 50m underwater swim ever this week . Did another today and stayed underwater for 3 minutes a few minutes afterwards . I have done 3:30 before 20 years ago when I was super fit.
@leagueofotters2774
@leagueofotters2774 21 күн бұрын
Here's hoping they are one day approached by that bear they would rather encounter than a man in the woods.
@judeogbonnaya2975
@judeogbonnaya2975 25 күн бұрын
Experience is the best teacher. This is how adults learn.
@KasunGamage
@KasunGamage Ай бұрын
Rule is simple...Waitfor BEAR..lady..
@dddux
@dddux 29 күн бұрын
Men are risking far too much by approaching a woman. As if it wasn't intimidating enough a decade or two or more ago, now we have to think "will she scream something really bad at me? Will she call the police?" No. You approach if you want to. You. I won't scream at you or call the police, promise. If I'm not interested I'll just say so.
@DirtCheapFU
@DirtCheapFU Ай бұрын
I get this alot. One, I don't talk to women in certain places. McDonalds? No. Liquor store? No. Work? No. I've even been report to HR a few times with the implicating reason of emotional harassment. Because I won't flirt or fawn over the women. One particular white chick at work reported me to security while I was out smoking on the phone. She heard me explaining how boring white women are, and how if you want white girl, any white girl would do. And of course, a black security came in for the rescue for her.
@flyntflossy
@flyntflossy Ай бұрын
😮
@jaha777jaha6
@jaha777jaha6 Ай бұрын
Ridiculous, that's not harassment that's her eavesdropping and taking personal offense for someone else talking to someone else, free speech is still a humane right and she was wrong...she should've been the one reported...beware of the covens especially at the workplace
@maxhouse1125
@maxhouse1125 5 күн бұрын
@@jaha777jaha6 They do like to run their mouths to "manifest" a desired outcome, don't they?
@Dani-it5sy
@Dani-it5sy Ай бұрын
You don't have to ask again how do we get men to approach us. Had you asked that 5 years ago and actually listened to the advice than maybe. But it's too late now. The only option is that women first indicate they like a guy. How hard can it be? Just one simple move. If that is too much to ask you don't want me bad enough anyway. You have waited for too long to take it serious. There is no: What can we do to make you approach us. There is only: How do we show a guy that he CAN approach us.
@DivadNoodeldehm-lz2gm
@DivadNoodeldehm-lz2gm 21 күн бұрын
Gotta disagree with the estimable Flynt Flossy on this one. If they're interested, buy a guy a drink is a sure fire way to get his attention.
@Dani-it5sy
@Dani-it5sy 21 күн бұрын
@@DivadNoodeldehm-lz2gm Yes that's what I mean 🥰 We'll be nice if we are not interested we promise 😅 Just say you already have a girlfriend who's almost as hot as her 😎
@whip57
@whip57 7 күн бұрын
It's not worth the effort to give women that much power, if they're interested they can do the approaching. It's sickening for so many decades the entitlement women have enjoyed, not anymore, men have had enough.
@deanhun352
@deanhun352 27 күн бұрын
Despite her and her friends' effort to get a man to approach them, it goes without saying that they would NEVER approach a man. You reap what you sow.
@user-ng8fk8vn7q
@user-ng8fk8vn7q 23 күн бұрын
If the "experimentalist" in the group was attractive enough to pique the interest of one of the men, he might have noticed the oddity of her leaving the group and coming back and avoiding her friends. Perhaps we can agree that this was not subtle. The poster wants the men not to notice this, and not to imagine they are being set up, when they were in fact being set up, and they recognize it from experience. I don't believe they were "gawking." They were watching to see what her next stunt was.
@albertwolanski7688
@albertwolanski7688 Ай бұрын
Well after you turn 35, the only men for you are 65 years old.
@maxhouse1125
@maxhouse1125 5 күн бұрын
Don't give her any ideas on how to become a promising insurance beneficiary.
@uldi1s
@uldi1s Ай бұрын
I'm confident and not bad looking, charismatic. But I don't normally approach women because I've grown a 6th sense, and most of them tingle my sensors as crazy 😬
@thedudecopter
@thedudecopter 17 күн бұрын
That spidey-sense will keep you safe!
@netdj74
@netdj74 24 күн бұрын
I agree with a lot of the comments made here. The effort they make us do just to say hi transforms our way of thinking regarding approaching women. I live in Portugal and the younger generations are living solely online. If someone approachs in person they seem to be a creep. I just don't know what to think anymore. This is a crazy world that we're living in...
@flyntflossy
@flyntflossy 24 күн бұрын
That happens in Portugal?? Wow!
@netdj74
@netdj74 24 күн бұрын
@@flyntflossy i think it happens everywhere... I say to my nephew, who's 12 "go talk to that girl" and he just shrugs his shoulders and says no... I hope he changes in time because confidence is a trait we need in our young ones.
@gmansard641
@gmansard641 20 күн бұрын
"It feels like women have to do all the work?" WTF??? We have to figure out whether she's interested or just being polite. We have to approach her. . . physically walk over in view of everyone present (including her gang of friends), we have to speak (while appearing perfectly confident), we have to suggest something to do, we have to go to her place to get her, we have to initiate any affection, we have to pay for everything. And we're just creepy jerks if we miscalculate any of this. But a woman standing around, making herself visible without saying or doing anything else, with no adverse consequences whatever, is "doing all the work."
@simonhawkins1892
@simonhawkins1892 Ай бұрын
If you play the game of unapproachability, men will do what men do. Adapt and overcome. On the whole, men just want an easy, stress free life, and they have come to realise that that is most likely to happen without a woman in their life
@dddux
@dddux 29 күн бұрын
All heil stress free life! 🖐😆 🤘
@user-pk2ms7gi6i
@user-pk2ms7gi6i 12 күн бұрын
They want equally. Now they hate it?
@robertsabharwal9787
@robertsabharwal9787 22 күн бұрын
She would reject those men instantly and laugh about it with her friends ...
@ChineduOpara
@ChineduOpara Ай бұрын
Flynt... THANK YOU for acknowledging that many men have Rejection Anxiety. Not enough men acknowledge this, even to each other!
@jaha777jaha6
@jaha777jaha6 Ай бұрын
Interesting subject that should get discussed much more often it likely effects mn globally from adolescence
@creepyrobsta5509
@creepyrobsta5509 Ай бұрын
That's only max like 25% of the issue. The other 25% is me too false claims. Another 25% is consent can be withdrawn whenever she feels like it (even after the fact). The other 25% is her embarassing you on social media. No man want's to become the next Kenan Basic. Approaching a stranger is often scarry but is fairly easily overcame if all these other issues didn't exist!
@jaha777jaha6
@jaha777jaha6 Ай бұрын
@@creepyrobsta5509 facts
@ChineduOpara
@ChineduOpara Ай бұрын
@creepyrobsta5509 Big facts. My comment was about just that one factor, but yeah there are several other factors.
@dddux
@dddux 29 күн бұрын
It's not just rejection anxiety anymore. It is honest fear of being shamed in public, told incredibly crazy things, even called the police on.
@iceandmice8248
@iceandmice8248 16 күн бұрын
Dating sounds like too much work. Why even bother?!
@flyntflossy
@flyntflossy 16 күн бұрын
The Wild west lol
@DeadCat-42
@DeadCat-42 8 күн бұрын
Approaching women is practically illegal since the 90's. If women want to date they can go online and shop, they have all the power and all the choices. Men ether take what they can get, or opt out and don't even try. Most just drop out.
@fuzzypanda1684
@fuzzypanda1684 16 күн бұрын
I used to approach women all the time, usually we'd just have a fun conversation and go about our days, but occasionally there'd be sparks. Now I rarely approach a girl, because the chances of any actual interest is near 0, and it's so easy to make her feel uncomfortable, which just ends in you getting a rep or getting ostracized.
@JT4NN3R
@JT4NN3R Ай бұрын
Find her a bear....
@maxhouse1125
@maxhouse1125 5 күн бұрын
That can be hard to do if she's unbearable.......
@DivadNoodeldehm-lz2gm
@DivadNoodeldehm-lz2gm 21 күн бұрын
Wayyy back in the day (2007ish) before m2 I got rejected by a girl in Baltimore. She told me I looked like a picnic table. I was wearing red flannel so fair game. Mind you she was in a wet T shirt and jean shorts. I asked her if she had just figured out how take bath or did she not know people generally undress then towel off after wards if they aren't morons. 5 minutes of good natured shit talking commenced without any real hostility. Oh, those were the days.
@flyntflossy
@flyntflossy 21 күн бұрын
not a picnic table tho hahaha 😅
@jaha777jaha6
@jaha777jaha6 Ай бұрын
Question. ..wmn don't approach mn because? 🤔 tfoh they'll do everything except that maybe the problem isn't the mn but the wmn who've created that scenario in the first place...they've never considered it much less attempted to correct it...passports gentlemen
@alessandrap4733
@alessandrap4733 12 күн бұрын
I do not approach men, I do not recommend to do it. I had a crush on a guy in high school, it was reciprocated, but because I made obvious that I liked him, he started to play games. I have the same issues in my early twenties so I learned that you as a woman should never ever ever ever approach men. If a guy don't talk to you, doesn't matter, don't talk ever ever ever with him
@kenbo80
@kenbo80 2 күн бұрын
Men don’t want to invite a problem.
@user-vh8oz8vh4n
@user-vh8oz8vh4n 12 күн бұрын
They probably recognized it was a test.
@user-jg5ws9gr8n
@user-jg5ws9gr8n 14 күн бұрын
Can’t Always Say Hello
@lsporter88
@lsporter88 27 күн бұрын
You're absolutely right. Great video.
@crypter27
@crypter27 Ай бұрын
I have an idea for a teen comedy movie! The nerdy guy ignores the hottest girl in school because he's secretly making a fortune in cryptocurrency and his nerdy friends. But that pisses off the prettiest girls in school! Because the nerds aren't paying attention to them! What do you think?
@dddux
@dddux 29 күн бұрын
If the nerdy guy is *secretly* making a fortune, why should anyone notice him? Assuming that he thinks money is the only thing that attracts attention, which is wrong. Logic is lacking...
@crypter27
@crypter27 29 күн бұрын
@@dddux Because the prettiest girl thinks every boy should be paying attention to her.
@drjohnsonhungwell5115
@drjohnsonhungwell5115 24 күн бұрын
I think it would be hilarious if she starts liking him and he kind of likes her but he tells her to beat it because he's chasing a check $$$$$
@Puzzoozoo
@Puzzoozoo 14 күн бұрын
These days the only women I ever approach, is the till lady at my local supermarket, when I'm paying for my weekly shop.
@bio-techlarry9602
@bio-techlarry9602 19 күн бұрын
Can you women say MEE TOO movement? Get real, its the world you girls have created.
@DavidM-tg1oy
@DavidM-tg1oy 21 күн бұрын
No worries here! Men don't approach poisonous vipers, hungry piranhas, or rabid dogs either. Enjoy your lonely old age, your stalled out career, and your cats! Men have better things to do everywhere. 😊😊😊HAPPY DAYS!
@user-ox6nc6ly7f
@user-ox6nc6ly7f 18 күн бұрын
why? ... before social medias-----------after social medias.
@philaman1972
@philaman1972 27 күн бұрын
Okay. To me it's simple. Today, one has access to adult content 24/7 to get their dopamine fix. Moreover, given the way women conduct themselves today and all the time, energy and of course money necessary to enter and sustain a relationship, one has to look at the ROI! Porn > dating. Fewer and fewer people are dating today than ever before and I predict this trend will continue. Dating/marriage continues to lose its appeal.
@johnsmith-ht3sy
@johnsmith-ht3sy 3 күн бұрын
Amazingly I can fantasize with a different young fit model every day. Let me tell you , men you never had it so good. In the 70s we had nothing but bland magazines and lies about how they are sugar and spice and all things nice.
@robertdakic6503
@robertdakic6503 7 күн бұрын
Who’s getting rejected by that? She looks like the predator
@robertdakic6503
@robertdakic6503 7 күн бұрын
😂 get to the chopper
@MikeMiasuki-vy3xx
@MikeMiasuki-vy3xx 3 күн бұрын
Ladies, you get what you pay for. Some men want a life's partner and others want just sex. Some want a life's partner which include sex. Do not punish by withholding either. You will regret it.
@dochammer3047
@dochammer3047 20 күн бұрын
GOD BLESS YOU 🙏
@elmarco1976
@elmarco1976 17 күн бұрын
Ta koleżanka powinna umówić się z tymi dziadkami ..............czas dorosnąć i wziąć odpowiedzialność za swoje decyzje
@markrattenbury9924
@markrattenbury9924 18 күн бұрын
People have forgotten face to face interaction, due to Everything is online! BRING ON a EMP burst from the SUN.. to Save humanity from itself..and BOT SEX!
@flyntflossy
@flyntflossy 18 күн бұрын
You Been watching XMen 97 hahaha
@markrattenbury9924
@markrattenbury9924 18 күн бұрын
@@flyntflossy 🤣Well there is so wisdom in it..not just for the "shits and giggles"..give us another 15 yrs..We'll be to scared to even say boo to each other..its happening now..Worldwide!
@eternaltruth1666
@eternaltruth1666 17 күн бұрын
I think women might still look at the black screen on their phones lol
@markrattenbury9924
@markrattenbury9924 17 күн бұрын
@@eternaltruth1666 and think..if only🤣
@eugenedavis6792
@eugenedavis6792 Ай бұрын
I wonder why! .. do you hear that??? the birds birds chirping. We don't care!
@iceonthesun8880
@iceonthesun8880 2 күн бұрын
No, lady. You dont get it at all
@bolt9110
@bolt9110 6 күн бұрын
whine more please
@maxhouse1125
@maxhouse1125 5 күн бұрын
She can also be cheesy while she's at it!
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