A lot of men give up on life due to circumstances and not mental disorders. Twitter trying to hate on Dr. K for saying it's not just mental disorders, but men actually struggling alone is insane. Ironic how this proves his points even more

I got to work depressed, come home depressed, go to sleep depressed. Repeat for eternity. I love my life. Working for nothing. Money doesnt make me happy and i will never afford a decent house or land anyway. Probably wont get a pension. Never had a relationship, no friends, estranged family. Life is utterly pointless existance.

One thing that bothers me about the way we discuss the suicide epidemic is how we say that men are 3x more likely to "kill themselves". We're (semantically) putting the effect before the cause. In reality, men are actually 3x more likely to be treated so poorly by life that death is becomes a rational alternative.

I'm a 44 year old man with degenerative back problems that are compounding other issues, been out of work for 3 years, can't do most things I used to enjoy, can't work, can't afford to go to the doctor, I'm in constant pain every day, my wife hates me now for it and takes every chance she gets to be a cunt, I'm headed for a nasty divorce, and probably will end up jailed for not being able to pay child support. Tried getting on disability, try that shit being a middle aged white guy. I'm so sick of hearing people say things will be ok, they have no clue what it's like being in my shoes. The only way forward I can see is to just keep going until I can't anymore. Nobody cares about what men go through, especially women. We're expected to provide until we die, and when we can't we get thrown under the bus. I've known several men over the years that "checked out", I now fully understand why. It really disgusts me that billions of our tax dollars are given to countries that hate us but the people at home can't get help when they need it.

"The more I'm around other people the more I hate other people" you are not alone, my guy.

His words about being connected to a tribe or a group completely ties in with suicide among military veterans. I've spoken to a lot of guys from different countries, who've said they're getting treatment for PTSD or have symptoms of it. They generally don't feel traumatized by getting shot at, shooting other people, or seeing dead bodies, or anything like that. What they feel is like they're completely alone when they return "to the world" as it's called. You've spent months, years of your life within a small tribe where EVERYONE is prepared to take life or give their own life to protect each other... and bam, suddenly you're kicked out, you don't know anyone, no one gives a shit about you, and someone on social media calls you a monster. Imagine the shock of just suddenly being dropped back into a world you don't know basically ANYTHING about. In my completely unscientific personal experience: The most common form of psychological trauma after active military service is a lost sense of self and belonging. I am not surprised that trauma exists for men in general in the form Dr. K is talking about.

“If a guy gets mad at a girl for cheating then he’s the reason.” is such a crappy take. Why don’t you grow up and end the relationship before going out with other people, or discuss the issues and try to fix it if you don’t want to end the relationship. You know communicate.

When Dr Peterson got emotional and cried on yt, he got ridiculed by H3H3, the supposed democrats who say men should be able to cry

Someone once said I can't remember who. "Extroverts start off their day with an empty coin pouch. And every time they have an interaction with someone they add a coin to that pouch. Introverts start off their day with a certain amount of coins in their pouch. And every time they have an interaction with someone they lose a coin from their pouch."

I actually googled the “my partner’s yelling at me” bit. It’s not that anything doesn’t come up for men when their partner’s yelling at them. Google just assumes the man’s at fault, and provides info that’s basically like “have you tried not being a terrible person?” Hahaha. It’s comical. Like google assumes there could never be an instance in which a man’s being verbally abused/threatened by their partner where he’s not responsible for it. Why are men so lonely, and killing themselves again?

"We dont allow them to suffer..." Which, according to Niezche, means we can't express our power and can't gain more, cause confronting suffering is the only way to grow personal strength. This hits deep.

When women get angry, people call them bossy or bitchy. When men get angry, people call security.

Reminds me when I dated this girl she would always say how much she supports me and wanted me to talk about my feelings, for a couple of months my manager was making my time at work absolute hell, then my Grandmother was hospitalized and in that same month I got a rejection letter from another job, so I told her I was feeling a little down with everything happening and then got laughed at and told to get over it. That was a good reminder that the pretty words people say aren't for you its for them to feel good about themselves, as a man you only have yourself.

Every time I've expressed my emotions or shown weakness, I've been discarded by friends and girlfriends.

My 27/M cousin killed himself 3 weeks ago today. Got in an argument with his girlfriend, had a meltdown and shot himself while drunk. Still hurts he left us like that. I wish the world was better for everyone

Bro, I'm so broke I can't afford depression.

People just need to realize that being an introvert is a legit personality type and not a character flaw. I have to constantly defend myself to my family who are like "why don't you go out to parties and try to meet people" and im like "because i don't want to...i don't like parties...or the people that go to them for that matter...they are too loud."

17:52 - My ex (of nearly 4 years) didn’t treat me the best. I tried to talk to her about it. I was told that I’m not allowed to express how I feel when I’m upset. I broke up with her that night. It legitimately crushed my soul to hear that, and I’m so glad I left. I’m married to the best woman I can be married to now.

I've been told by a ex, years after the fact, that a single look I gave her for mere seconds made her scared of me forever. I never yelled, never even raised my voice. I just felt angry and betrayed and contained it, and removed myself from the situation. What that taught me is that not only are we not allowed to act on our anger in any way, we're not even allowed to simply feel it. I have never so much as raised my voice at this woman, much less ever harmed her, and still a simple look of anger is apparently too much. Society treats men like we're all psychotic monsters just waiting to be uncovered. You're presumed guilty until proven innocent, which only happens once you pass away with a clean record.

From a report of Only Fans months ago and who dumped the most money into that business. This is the true definition of an incel. Incel is a married man….that’s all you need right there.

"The more im around other people, the more i hate people," relateable. I need my alone time. If i dont have my alone time, i get so annoyed having to answer people, help them, etc. Like just let me be me for a while.

And people wonder why AI girlfriends are expected to be a billion dollar industry

I dislike the term incel. It devalues the cause of the issue in favor of labeling it instead.

I keep seeing people saying to never cry in front of their girlfriend or wife because they'll see it as weak and leave you. I guess I'm the odd girl out then. The first time my bf cried in front of me it broke my heart. All I wanted to do was hold him and help him with his pain. I was blown away that he felt comfortable enough with me to show that side of him. If anything, it only made me love him even more. If you can't show your emotions to the people you care about then I'd say those people aren't worth your time!

Tate is one thing, but Asmon really took Peterson's "Clean your room" personally...

I believe that's what people who ruin games and hobbies are actually trying to achieve. They want you to have no place to go where you feel welcome and not threatened.

As a man, we're brought up being taught to struggle and bear our burdens alone, because to share them is to show weakness and weakness leads to being exploited by someone stronger than you. We are broken from the start. We grow up KNOWING that we don't really matter to even the people we consider the closest to us. The first time most men ever receive flowers is at their own funeral. To the wider world, we are literally nothing and we're TOLD we're nothing. We're SHOWN we're nothing based on how others treat us. We're struggling, and it's just getting worse. There are so many pressures from so many directions now, and we're just unable to be as perfect as we're required to be. We're more lonely than ever. We're replaceable. It just sucks. We aren't offing ourselves because we have mental illness. We're doing it because life has backed us into a corner and we don't see relief coming.

37 years old incel here who lives with their parents while playing video games all day. Last time I dated was about 10 years ago. The woman I went out with for 4 months was telling all my friends behind my back that I was actually stalking her. This went on for the whole four months until the last friend I had left asked me why I "was doing this to her". Imagine my confusion. She was also telling people that I became friends with her mom so she would force her to date me. I was only in her house once and talked with the mom for about 10 minutes tops. The whole ordeal sent me back into heavy depression and made me quit college. It also gave me chronic severe anxiety attacks that hit me every once and again.

Well here is the thing about "incels", the definition changes depending on who you ask. A normal dude could be an incel depending on how mentally deranged the person you are talking to is.

Covid was a standard "day in the office" for me. It didn't change anything for me - all day by myself 😂 Other people didn't know what to do with themselves 😮

The saddest thing is how so many women online reacted to this... reinforced the "keep your shit to yourself" I'm glad I have a wife I can talk to... but even with a supporting and understanding wife I dont let them know how bad or dark I truly feel right now (lost my dad 2 weeks ago and we were VERY close)

13:30 I'm in my 30's and I remember when I was maybe 7 I woke up feeling sick and went to tell my mom. I was scared and really didn't want to throw up. She was neglectful and abusive, but I really just wanted someone to comfort me. She grabbed me by my throat and drug me into the bathroom while telling me she wished she wasn't a mother. She forced my head into the toilet and was screaming at me that if I was going to throw up then I needed to hurry up. It's not really what Dr. K is talking about, but the core idea of a kid going to their protector for help and being shut down for that is astoundingly traumatic.

Asmon worried about people thinking he's insane, that is hilarious. That is exactly why people like you dude.

"i feel the more i tell people the way i feel, the more they will realise im insane" this is top tier comedy

From my perspective I don’t get why Dr K says we men are only allowed to feel anger using the schoolyard bully as an example. I was taught as a kid to hit back because of the simple fact that it works, in life. The teachers are unhelpful so crying for help is pointless. This isn’t some societal failing, that’s just life. You can’t negotiate with a rabid dog, you can’t ask nature to stop sending the hurricanes, you deal with problems or they fester. If the bully is just saying mean words then who gives a shit. It’s impotent, a non-threat and a non-issue. I was also taught that I can only be insulted by someone I respect. When a known liar says some untrue insult about me I don’t care, because I don’t have any need to. If a bully in the schoolyard hits you, you beat him until he submits, namely by crying like a little bitch, and call it a day, never star a fight always finish it. That’s not about anger, that’s about fixing a problem, and a physical bully is a problem who needs percussive maintenance. It’s not anger, it’s just the proper technique for the job. It’s not anger to hammer a nail, it’s just construction. It’s not anger to beat a bully until he stops being one, it’s just effective.

There was a meme about introverts during covid: "I just realised my life has been a quarantine." 😄

As a man never show what haunts you, the world doesnt care. You can express discontent on superficial annoyances but even that is looked down upon. I truly dont believe men ever fully open up even those with the most successful families.

the very nature of human interaction has been destroyed.

Omg, this discussion dredged up so many old painful memories. This spoke volumes about my childhood growing up.

im an introvert who became an Extroverts but is back being a introvert. i appreciate being an introvert more you definitely see how differently people treat you, being extroverted is kinda like having more money in a social energy way and some people will treat you the same way based on that so called social wealth, being an introvert is like being poor and happy, yet rich in knowing how people will treat you. no one will know how much you care and love. being stoic is our face

28:50 Also boys are being stopped using their aggression BEFORE they learn how to scale it (it obviously must be controlled), resulting in a "nothing, nothing, nothing, KILLKILLKILL" response algorhytm. Learn to scale - warning, threat, threat and entering personal space, push in the chest.... and so on.

That’s why monks isolate themselves and meditate. They don’t want to poison themselves and meditating they pass time within themselves. One could say “it’s egocentric” but in reality you simply learn how to deal with your humanity, therefore you now know how to deal with others. And you became much more humble, honest, kind and righteous.

bro its crazy listening to asmon and realising how similar my personality is to his, its honestly really helping to here this from another person and find out how he copes with it, thanks asmon you really helped me today

Love your content man. You have one of the most thought provoking reactions channel out here.

When I had a bad day, I ALWAYS say that I had a bad day if someone asks. When someone asks me if I am ok, I ALWAYS say if I am not ok. Screw pleasantries.

A lot of people have forgotten how to process internally, they are scared to process their own thoughts. This is very important for good long term mental health.

I grew up in a world of violence. Anger is necessary. People will not steamroll you if you are willing to confront them. Anger is necessary. Time to stop listening to people who are perpetually afraid of their own shadows.

My biggest issue and why i struggled a lot and became incredibly insular and introverted at college and Uni was that when you do get stressed out or struggle with life or something in your personal life happens, people dont care because they have their own problems to deal with. The response is "get therapy" because its too much effort for them to sit down, open up, and talk about eachothers problems. Nobody knows or cares to talk anymore, and now dealing with negativity has become a professional business where you spend money to talk to a therapist when all you need is an ear to bend or a shoulder to lean on. The world has become so incredibly heavy upon people's shoulders that they cant bear the weight of just listening, appreciating, and understanding something from someone else's perspective. Even just making friends; this girl messaged me asking if she missed anything in class because she didn't turn up. I told her what she missed. Few days later, messaged her back to ask how she was doing. Ghosted. The next week, the teacher has a "quiet word" with me about me messaging this girl and how they didnt like it. For context, it was an art class mixed with photographers and i was the only guy, so i couldnt exactly pick or choose what gender i wanted my friends to be. But just because i was a guy, asking people in class how they are or trying to discuss assignments with them becomes "creepy". This isnt even school-school though, this is college and uni; we're between the ages of 18-22. Grown adults actually complaining about other grown adults, to grown adults. They will literally report yoy for anything. In another situation, this new romanian girl wanted help navigating the college (weren't even in the same class) so i helped as best i could. I wasnt interested in a friendship or getting too involved with them because i was busy with my own work, so we eventually stopped talking and I started ghosting them. Again, i get reported to student services (basically student HR) for upsetting this girl because i stopped talking to her. Theres me in this room with 3 other women from student services and safeguarding officers grilling me about this situation, nobody there to represent me or be on my side; hell, nobody else in that room was even remotely neutral. They were all firmly against me. I left that room, sat in the cafeteria, heart pumping with adrenaline ive never felt in my life, thinking of what to do with my life and how much i hated the world and everything in it, and how much i want to leave it. When someone ghosts me, im the bad guy. When i ghost someone, im still the bad guy. Thats when i just decided to stop trying to find a relationship in college and uni because the girls were all victimising narcissistic assholes who think a man asking how youre doing on your assignment is creepy and out to get you. You grow up in school seeing so many people you know in relationships, wishing you could experience it. Then when you become a fully grown adult, yoy still cant experience it. Seeking relationships with peers is a pretty normal and healthy thing to do, but the working environments or at least just mine as far as im aware for my time in college and uni is detrimental to the self esteem and confidence of a young man just trying to define themselves as they grow into adulthood. I did eventually find a relationship after finally giving up, but its a badge of embarrassment to say it has been my first and only relationship and im now 25 as of writing this. I dont hate women, but its the kind of experiences that can lead to men becoming incel gigachad coomers who follow musk, tate, and hate women. The loneliness of being 16-22 was honestly the worst years of my life, and i know for a fact that im not alone in that.

My mom does karaoke with her friends. There are like 40 of them. I went to watch once. On the mic she announced I’m her son and I’m an introvert. I never went again. Ive always been like this, when i was 6 i asked her to stop talking to the cashiers at the grocery store because i thought it was rude. Im not ashamed or sad or suffering. i like being alone.

I spent most of my teenage years and part of my 20's in therapy with psychiatrists and not once did I ever hear anyone acknowledge life circumstances as a reason for depression and not a "chemical imbalance". Thwarted belonging was 100% the source of the depression I went through and I've never heard anyone put it so succinctly. I must have been to at least 6 therapists and not one of them even considered it or if they did ever suggest it to me.

Life is ass, relationships these days are ass because the pool of people are ass. Most of life is hopeless and the future doesnt look any better. Many are angry at the world and for good reason. We should be utilizing our collective anger and rage against the ones who put us in this place.

funny thing about all this is every introvert ive met are actually the nicest people to get along with because theyt dont have any of the traits an introvert dislikes, like one thing being egotiscal for example. The only person an introvert can truly get along with is another introvert to a certain degree ofc, everyone is still different wheather you are an extravert or introvert, but if have the same interestes and outlooks, it really solidifies who you will get along with.

As a big guy, 6ft 300lbs, i have spent my whole life being told I have to calm down the second I get emotional. I understand that it's scarrier when a bigger guy gets angry or whatever, but it does get to you.

The best advice I have ever gotten “ do not sweat the small shit and fuck ‘em “ if it’s not life and death at the end of the day it’s not that big of a deal

What he said about life being not worth living for some people is very accurate. And a big reason I see in a lot of people I interacted with in the past is the lack of a clear goal or, ironically, having a goal that is way too high. Because what happens is you either live your life, go to work, go home, do chores, do grocery shopping and repeat while slowly fading away because there is zero purpose in your life other than being essentially a slave to a routine that doesn't do anything for you, or you work yourself to exhaustion because you cannot reach what your eyes are set to.

My dad passed away 9 months after being diagnosed with cancer because things spread so fast. I had a tremendous amount of anger due to the question of why. Why my dad? Why that fast? Anger often stems from questions that will never be answered.

Men aren't appreciated. They don't want to be seen as weak, so they won't seek help. It's so sad. Life is hard... for everybody. Be understanding.

Being an introvert does not mean that you would rather stay at home than go out, its that going out really drains you where as extraverts feel recharged being in social settings.

Im such a mega introvert. I have worked from home for 12 yrs in corporate settings (just got lucky that way) The few times I had to go to the HQ in Portland was literal hell for me. I saw my office coworkers in the open office plan (whoever came up with that should be guillotined) and knew that if I was local there is no way I would have my job. I was fine running zoom meetings, training, hitting my goals ect remotely. THEN covid happened and they all had to WFH.... I saw so many co workers (extroverts) just fall apart... it was nuts! Huge Fan Asmon! Not sure how many 40 yr old female followers you have but Im guessing few lol.

3:38 Same. All I needed during Covid was to be sure I had food at home other than that I could go on for months without human interaction. I felt equal to everyone else and it was refreshing to not hear people yapping about hustling, networking, the fast fast fast go go go mentality.

It's comforting in a way to know I'm not the only one that really doesn't understand extroverts and ultimately society as a whole. I was diagnosed with autism at 32 after multiple attempts at my own life and constantly unsure of how to integrate. honestly it helped so much to realise why i was feeling how I was. and we're constantly told men are evil, that we're inherently bad.. It makes life such an uphill struggle. not having a father like alot of others, no ones ever shown me how to be a man, had to work it out for myself..

People, are work. Women doubly so. Relationships cost time and money, which we all do not have these days. If i had money instead of a mortgage payment, i'd consider dating. I expect a lot of people are the same. And that doesn't even cover the amount of getting in shape that is required for modern men to even attract women, standards are too high to expect anything for all your efforts.

@asmonTV this makes so much sense. This helped open my eyes. Thank you for uploading this ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

You are not a pervert, You are not a creep, You are not a freak. You are just not tall or rich enough. That's it.

Therapy is distinctly anti-man. The chances therapy will help are low and will make things worse is high.

“Today, all of humanity's dreams are cursed somehow. Beautiful yet cursed dreams.” ― Hayao Miyazaki Hearing this made me realize that everyone struggles with their work, even if people think this work is easy

@22:06 I feel you bro!! You’re doing great work. I’ve decided you are inspirational for young men We aren’t being heard And are glad someone else can just talk about what’s going on

This right here is why I like Asmon. You can see from the number of pauses this is deep for him, and he shares it from the heart. I have to pause his video too, because it's deep for me too, and we can connect on this topic, even though he doesn't know me, and I don't know him besides the persona I get to see in his content. He gets to say words, and I get to listen and think about it from my life's context. And I enjoy the thoughts that he initiates with his videos because I feel I get to learn something about myself. You're much appreciated, you jerky-lovin' goblin.

Streaming, talking on the phone/ discord is not the same as "being around people." You lose out on a lot of connection without being physically around friends. I often dont want to go out or do something, but force myself to, because it never is something I look back on and regret.

Shame I am not enough invisible when trying to cheat on exams...

After battling depression for 20 years... and nearly losing that battle a couple of times... I have learned that you can definitely train yourself to stop being introverted and truly think better of yourself with calm confidence. People hate hearing it, but I know first hand. You just have to want to be better.

I've had a few friends of mine off themselves over the years. You know why every single one of them offed themselves? Women. Women are the leading cause to men offing themselves in my opinion. These guys poored their heart and soul into the relationship and every single one of them found out their women was cheating on them behind their back and killed themselves over it. Some of them even had children.

Men's mental health issues needs more dialog these days

Someone asks “How are you?” You either say fine or contemplate your life in a millisecond.

During covid i had a really hard time getting used to being alone because there was so much i didn't like about myself, any time spent in my head was self depricating but i used the self hate as fuel to burn and fixed my problems. certainly not easy and i know a lot of people who couldn't flip that negativity

thank you for this video man fr

I disagree with the statement most domestic violence comes from men. Men rarely report their abuse so I think the numbers are skewed.

I had a strong father figure, became an electrical engineer, own a nice car and know how to talk to people. I am still an incel at 39 years of age though, because I am an introvert and hate to interact with people. I know how to interact with people and I am a teamleader in the R&D departement at my company but I just don't want to have personal interaction after work. I am selfish and hate people, but I am also able to play a role in public that makes people think I am just normal. After a couple of years people stopped asking me why I have no girlfriend and they are now busy with their families. To them I am a walking midlife crisis without the crisis part though. I am content with being a loner.

A man takes all the grocery bags inside on one trip lol. But on a serious note, my dad taught me the classic man stuff. Protect those you love, help out went you can, teach others, take care of yourself, and don't be afraid of showing emotions. But the best quote he told was "be a tough man, not a tough guy."

I have just started seeing the video, but I want to say, I love this kind of content, keep it up Asmon

When I clicked on this video I was shown an ad for “drag queens save the world” These are systemic problems

There arent any high paying jobs for blue collar non college educated workers so we can generate enough money to purchase a home and save money in order to have a family. Men realize that there is only a few good jobs and all those are given to friends/family of people who know the person who has the good job available...Not only, but the rich Kid whose dad was the pharamciist whose sons flunks out of college and uses his connections to get all the city work contracts for construction.. gotta love it

My therapist when i was going told me the biggest thing for young men is feeling purpose and belonging after i told him the last time i felt genuinely happy was when i was in the military. But here i am not doing anything to get back that sense of belonging. At the end of the day a lot of us know what we need to but dont have to will or drive to do it.

I hate people.... In general....

Only to become suddenly visible when they need or want something. Funny how that works, eh?

As a woman I didn't expect to relate to this so much, but then again I was raised in much the same way that most boys/men are I feel like

As a long time watcher of your content, I think its only fair that I express my thoughts and feelings and I just wanna say... Asmon, you are truly an inspiration and watching your content motivates me to become better at verbally constructing my ideas in a more intelligent manner. As long as I've watched you, you've been 100% genuine for who you are as a person despite what kind of differences in opinion others might have. At the end of the day I think the biggest problem men face is feeling pressured into the stigma of what society considers a man is. We need to come to the realization that not everyone is the same. What might bring self satisfaction and feelings of being content might not be enough for the next person to feel that same self satisfaction, or it might too much.

Have not felt "happiness" in 5 years. Not one time.

Kevin Bacon is the king of invisible

Same here. I am mostly fine being alone. "Just make friends" doesn't work well for some of us on the times we do reach out.

Everything Asmon says he does regarding his mental health is like the exact opposite of what you should do if you want to be happy at any point. People automatically assume that if you're rich you can't be struggling mentally, but that's completely untrue. If Asmon was living the way he is now, but minus the money & friends, he might not still be here. Hell, even money and friends aren't enough to save some people who are really neglecting their mental health. Never ever ignore your mental health issues or you will 100000% regret it someday, regardless of how well off you are financially.

27:00 when he started talking about the anger, it literally resonated with me. At around 7-8, I suddenly chilled out. If I got angry back then, I’d literally bite and poke people’s eyes out (partly why I never got bullied). I must’ve realized it wasn’t worth it when I was really young

it great seeing you covering this topic. This issue cuts deep and has been going on forever its simply just not discussed enough.

I remember listening to lecture by Alan Watts and one thing he says that he says to anybody tells him that they want to commit suicide is that it’s entirely their right to do that. He says that when you tell somebody who wants to commit suicide that they have every right to do it oddly enough, it will lead to them, feeling less shame about it so that they’re actually less likely to do it when they feel some sense of control.

So, I fought off a very serious bout of depression back when I was 17/18. I fought it off, went to uni and met a partner who I stuck with for about 5 years. During Covid, I lost my job, my partner left me & I wound up back with my parents. I've hit 30 and unfortunately, no real improvement has been made. Don't get me wrong, I have a job again and have been working out a lot more, spending less time on gaming/online.. But I had another major explosion of anxiety/depression in Jan. Work has gotten harder, going out has stopped and anything out of my routine causes major panic attacks. I want to think I'm improving, but I feel like it's one step forward, two steps back. But I want to keep pushing and hoping that things can go up from here. That advice about just taking things one step, rather than listening to podcasts while multitasking is a seriously good point.

i hated school. the social aspect of it. family allways told me i should enoy it, cause the seriousness of life (ernst des lebens) i have not seen yet. this was, and still is the most demoralizing thing anyone could say to a young person.

How are humans not animals? People think that because were on top of the food chain, were no longer part of the food chain.

“Men want to be alone…but we don’t want to be by ourselves ” -Patrice O’Neal

I don't like how he puts Tate and Peterson in the same level every chance he gets when actually they are on opposite ends of the spectrum when it comes to advice for men.

i think we are "animals" no buddy we literally are