I watched the trailer and it said it’s not live this time thank goodness!!

​@@kelsynicole9135so they can cut off to their test

I hope so because I expected alot drama after this boring season.

Stacey is shallow n the sad part she lost a guy w substance wo no money!

One thing I did like from the live reunion was that the participants were able to address things that were the editors' shenanigans. Like Kwame saying something along the lines of : the only reason he considered using the name Alex in the pods was because it was a producers' suggestion and because Alex is his actual first name, but he always goes by Kwame and is very proud of his heritage. Which, based on what I heard from black viewers, was extremely shady of editors because it cast Kwame into a certain stereotype that he wasn't. So yeah, I felt it was useful to hear participants speak up without being controlled by the edit, once again. Given the ongoing lawsuit against a season 5 participant and the production company, it would be risky to do a live reunion in case a participant says anything related to those events. Though I hope the Lacheys do speak up about it, even if only to acknowledge the lawsuit. It freaking breaks my heart that someone has been permanently hurt by production and someone who claimed they loved them. I hope the show does some serious restructuring because this happened under their watch and when you're putting people in vulnerable situations, serious safeguards need to be in place, imho.

Exactly!! I caught that to! I thought that was very ridiculous.

That made me cringe.

It made me cringe

I’ve seen long lasting couples where one part says that. So it doesn’t automatically mean it’s not going to work out, but definitely mean that the one saying that has low self esteem. But yes super cringe and I would NOT like someone saying that to me😂

pathetic really

Definitely the worst season.

And the chipotle? I saw love is blind Brasil, and what a difference!

It was a literal FLOP. 👎

It wasn’t a waste of everyone watched the season and was entertained in some form😊

What did you expect for everyone to be married that’s what the shows about I honestly like this session it was completely knew drama not the same boring drama every love show has.This proves that love isn’t always blind for some it is and was.

I did the same thing .

Same lmao I don’t need all that fluff 😂

1 watched the whole thing in 20 min skipping right through every boring. 😂

Me too!!

Same, but I was shocked there were only 2 weddings💀

Yeahhh buddy

Same, it's like sparknotea for a book I really don't wanna read.

But its better than sparknotes because it has Fantake's editing and humor sprinkled throughout!

Im that person you're wondering if exists.

It’s actually quite interesting how different the experience can be between BF’s video and the actual thing cos I watched him cover the first season then recently started watching the first season with my mum and suddenly couldn’t stand someone I thought I’d like.

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Yup! Loved it lol

I liked him but .. something happened when he raised his voice to Johnie.

since when, she is disgusting. Never intended on marrying him always looking for excuses to not like him, and old looking trashy too. Please he is 29 she is 33 dating old men with money yikes

@@annyp.1287 he did it to support psycho Stacy

Stacey wanted to win. And they all ended up alone. Yay

Stacy is a material girl

Big facts!

​@@emhu2594😂😂 good summary

Stacey loves one man only , Ben Franklin

Exactly! Trying to make Stacy look like the villain. Instead of being cordial about her decision, he went for a low blow. So that’s very telling. They really tried to make him look like the victim but I can see right through it.

Izzy is a shell of a man who never fully developed due to his childhood. I knew that as soon as we saw him crying in the closet LMAO. He needs therapy. Stacey, however, isn't in the right instantly because of what he said after the alter. Daddy's money has given her unrealistic expectations of how the majority of men are doing financially at 29. Yes, Izzy is a bad situation, but what he said at the end was true even though it was rude. A 29 year old man that has it like THAT financially isn't going to pick Stacey to marry anyways, cause she's not all that and a bag of chips like she thinks.

​​@@amgvlogs5087you speak exactly like a hurt broke lil boy. She ever went after 29 yrs old men, it happened this time because of the pods. If you're F 30 and have no passport, no credit score, no car, no Shit, worry about financial issues, not about marriage. And look for women your status. Cuz if a woman make kids, make money, make F everything, than wtf are you even good for? 😂😂

nope, I think he saw through her bullshit

His ego was bruised and I think he might have been asking why she is putting such a big emphasis on finances when she is on a show about love.

#bestcomment 🏆

I think they were fighting WITH each other more.

Yes! I find it very weird when I hear people say : I need someone who will fight for me. What does that even mean? Why do you need fighting for in a relationship?!

@joybanks It means: stay with me even when I’m messing up our relationship by being abusive, controlling manipulating etc 🙃 It’s a form of gaslight to make you stay in something toxic

Right, like who/what were they fighting so much? 😂

He is a toxic player who gets off on making women fall in love with him

Its childhood trauma. I have that look too. Somthing in the eyes tells a story

Those are the eyes of an ex Jehovah’s Witness. After they have squeezed all the life and joy from your soul.

​@@netty5170yes as an ex-jw, you are so right but there is no excuse for him to be like this.

​@@netty5170😭😭😭

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Yep she’s convincing herself in the confessional

The physical attraction seemed legit tho

I do think Milton is probably a good guy. He's bright, but still not too good at relationships with women. Maybe with a little counseling he will be ready for marriage in 5-10 years, but not to someone like Lydia. Unless she's much different in real life, she's a lot for any man to handle! She seems very childish and immature in many ways.

@@bwj4893 she’s a lot for EVERYONE to handle. even aaliyah snapped at her because her personality is too domineering

Great quote and it's absolutely true. But you've applied it incorrectly to Izzy's response after Stacey said "no" at the alter. What he said about her is 100% true. She is 33, still single, and has traditionally only pursued older men with money with failed results. He didn't "immediately lapse" into anything. Watch the video again. He was immediately kind to her and more polite than she deserves. As reality and disappointment set in he was asked by the producers to talk about what he was feeling and he did. It was honest and factual. I don't necessarily care for the guy but your assessment of him in that moment is flawed.

​@@thetoughgroupyou know what I find very interesting none of those forty-five-year-old successful men have married Stacy what does that say about her?

@@thetoughgroup : Seriously? How “immediate” did it have to be? Do you think he was going to say all that at the alter in front of their friends and family? They were still at the venue, weren’t they? He was still in his suit and Stacey was still in her wedding gown. That’s “immediate” enough. Whether what Izzy said about Stacey was true or not is irrelevant. The point is he brought up her past and used it against her. Izzy and Uche are two sides of the same manipulative, immature, controlling, self-absorbed coin. Everything Izzy ever said about being trustworthy went right out the window. If Stacey’s just an aging gold digger, why’d he want to marry her so bad? That’s like guys who ask women out, and when they’re turned down say things like, “You’re ugly anyway, I was just trying to do you a favor.” Needless to say, Izzy has no idea whether or not Stacey’s next relationship with a rich 45-year old will fail and it doesn’t matter. She exercised her right to choose and he’s too emotionally immature to handle it. He knows he’s a liar and manipulator with nothing to bring to the table. He still wants what he wants when he wants it because he’s unaccountable and entitled. Izzy’s rant implied that he was her last chance, which not only isn’t true, it’s a sure sign of an insecure narcissist. He uses shaming to lash out when he’s upset or doesn’t get is way. Like Uche, he takes delicate matters people reveal to him in a show of confidence, and weaponizes them. My assessment wasn’t “flawed”. It went over your head.

Exactly. Izzy was lashing out in anger when he said that because it makes no sense. If things had gone his way she would have been a 33 year old married woman. That said, all of these people (with the possible exception of Milton who is a man/child imo) are egocentric and vile.

@@Solotv84: It really doesn’t say anything about who she is a person. Maybe they felt they could ‘afford’ a woman who was younger and prettier. Does that mean she needs to settle for a guy who’s immature, broke, emotionally manipulative, doesn’t know how to pronounce “debt”, and has bad credit?

Agree, such a turn off

Big cringe 🤦🏽‍♀

And his creepy smile. She's crying asking for communication and he sits there smiling at her. Damn well knowing she's uncomfortable. Almost as if he's enjoying making her feel like shit.

Omg yes!!! He was like a chicken pecking away at its food...😂

Not sure if the worst thing about him was his attitude, his wardrobe or his kisses 🤢

I’m confused! I thought the 3rd couple was edited out bc there was a SA accusation?!!

​@@projectkj7643nope, that's another couple. I think there where up to 6 couples, not sure. But I know about Carter and Renee and the SA incident. I have no idea why they chose not to share the Renee parts, they could have explained what happened. Instead we got these really bad edits and shitty couples.This season must be the craziest of them all.

do you mean 10 episodes instead of 13?

7 got engaged. 4 went on the honeymoon. three got to the weddings. 2 were shown at the weddings. 1 said I do.

@@LSSYLondon😂😂

I love this so much

I've been married 23 years in August, and we have never flown in coach. LOL!!

@@gustgin-livingmy360degreel9 You’re not missing anything by not flying coach! ;) congrats on your anniversary!

Yeah, that’s a whole mother/son relationship. 🚫🚩

I was shocked. She displayed a quality the reflects one of the main stages of divorce: Defensiveness.

Wait ‘til you get to the Denver season. You’re going to have guys jilted at the altar, saying “I went on this show because Dating in Denver sucks! There’s more single men than there are women. The women have a plethora of guys to choose from, while we have to compete against each other… This entire thing is fucking rigged! We as guys just can’t get any breaks here. Fuck this shit!”

I disagree people! Jeez be kind. They are happy and in love. Idk why y’all judging

@@zuzumontague come to Canada, lots of woman here ready for marriage

And she and her family called him a 'basic broke bitch' basically. They weren't made for each other. Hey ho, hope they move on to the relationship they both want. Stacy wants to marry her dad, let her.

Sprinkle Sprinkle

Is he supposed to be Jack? 😂

He said it best, she's 33 still single, still seeking older men of means who won't commit to her. All facts.

@@thetoughgroup is not gonna get easier Stacy is very mid they're hotter blondes, younger and far more emotional avaliable than her that fit more of the trophy wife aesthetic that rich men seek if Stacey wants to marry a rich guy she might have to marry a man that's older or obese

I was thinking this also. His family doesnt treat him like a man.

Lydia is Finna dog walk Milton

@@Nekole1yeah once we met his fam it made sense to me why he went on the show. He’s got some issues there.

@@brigh12 Right, his family seems controlling. The mom and sister seems overly masculine and stern. Ijs. I feel bad for Milton. He needs to speak to them from a distance. And the dad has no backbone at all.

In all fairness his family looks like they never hug each other. Sad.

I dont see them making it beyond 3 years, Lydia is exhausting and drama queens tend to be to much for introverts like Milton

@@Solotv84 Exhausting is the perfect word for Lydia. She claims to be brilliant, but she certainly didn't seem to exhibit much brilliance during her screen time. For a 30-year-old professional person, she seemed childish most of the time, and the whole thing with Uche was crazy!

@@bwj4893 Yes she is probably one of the most educated women and also smart women in the show's history but her behavior screams 2-4-1 ladies' night at the at the club lol

To be fair Milton seems like kind of a catch to me, he said some pretty smart things during the show and seems chill. But I still don’t thing they’ll last just because Lydia hasn’t solved her own issues

@@kells4315the “your perception is your reality” thing was his downfall. He would use that to dismiss major red flags. That’s a terrible adage to live by!

Same.

They are not together anymore

​@@blinkzone1how do you know?

@@ImenBen12 Internet. Where else? Lol

​@@blinkzone1where did you hear? 😮

Yes Izzy knows the "FBOY" play book rule 5 pretend to be sincere to rope the girl in, it works on girls but not women

I felt like Stacey, Izzy, Jonnie, JP and Uche were all phony!

Yet this is the guy a lot of girls wanted in the beginning. Just goes to show some people are good at putting on act and charming their way into what they want.

Stacy could have saved herself the time and troubles in the pods when Izzy wanted to talk about "Deep things" sand she said "lets keep it fun" then the real world came and ISH got real, Stacy reminds me of Zanab from season 3 in the sense that in the pods they were one way but outside of the pods they were completely different

My guess would be production wouldn't allow her to tell him no right before the ceremony.

She told him 2 days before but the producers told Izzy to not give up hope. Izzy confirmed this on a recent interview on a podcast

Stacey wants his love and body. She still want to enjoy them after she rejected him...then will discard again izzy when there's someone new. She couldnt get past the bad credit score/financial issue.

​@@heyjude5027a 29-year old man's body feels better than a 45 year old man's body but izzy ain't got the money

@@Solotv84 then she will end up paying younger men in the future and take older mens money.😬

@@heyjude5027 🤣😂🤣

Yes and Johnie even said they're too emotionally volatile to be together.

Woah....I missed that until NOW

Spot on

Would be perfect for her, he would clean up 😂

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Agreed. I was actually shocked by Stacey lifestyle. In the pods she came across as a totally different person. She didnt give me any impressional that she is well off. I think Iggy feel for for her pod personality. He was intimidated by her. It would of never worked, she would be paying for everything. And the fact that he said 50/50 on dates all of the time. He gave no leeway that he would be a man and step up. He did minor stuff that she could do for herself.

​@@Nekole1sprinkle sprinkle

Don't forget that HE withheld info from her. She had to hear about his shitty credit score and unpaid loans from a third party and Izzy only spoke about it once she pried into it. She discussed money and finances from the get go as soon as they left the pods and since she's in a stable stage, it's only fair to do so. She did nothing wrong in that regard, and if anything, Izzy was the red flag in that situation

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I cringe at the way she talks to him. Wouldn’t want to live in their household.

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We all knew

I actually wanted him to say no. I think he's making a huge mistake.

Milton acts like he to prove he can do it, he acts like a teenager

Agreed!

Are you Uche’s fake account

Sammmeee

Me too. Straight to the alter scene-hell, i even fast forwarded that😂

The definition of this episode could have been an e-mail. I was so over it 😂

Me too

I think that for Milton, all he wants is to have kids and a warm and fun family - Latin families are always fun, lots of parties, good food, music, people know how to have fun and relax - something really attracts Milton... go Milton, we all wish you the best luck, you got this!

Marriages don't end because of money specifically, they end because there's failure to get on the same page and to work on it together. You don't get a divorce because you lose a job, you get a divorce because you think status is important, when really it doesn't mean anything when we're just all humans wanting love. Stability could be something you like, but not a requirement. Being loved for who you are, is.

@@Ganychan You said that much better than me. Thank you!

@@Ganychanwell, go tell someone in poverty that stability is not a requirement, money is just mean hungry for status, all they need is being broke and in love then 😂 I’m sure life is extra peachy and lovey when you’re constantly starving and worrying about how to pay for the bare essentials.

@@Ganychanthis is an absolutely insane take. We’re living in one of the worst cost of living crises in decades and people are struggling to put food in the table but sure, stability is just a “nice to have” 🙄🙄

Facts!

And then she gonna use “I am puerto rican” to her behavior. Being warm and Respectful has no race

Yes and she also shows another red flag. She basically told everyone she is stuck in her ways and won’t ever change. Everyone who is decent is because they want to improve or change. She does not so she isn’t a decent person.

@@muhdeyam6281reminds me of that other abuser on the ultimatum who kept saying that to justify her abuse against her gf

They have enough of a foundation for it to work and blossom into something great. But, yes, there are some hurdles they’ll encounter.

So Milton is not good is that what you're saying? lmfaooo

That shot analogy was so touching

Ya but what happened because her son is a mess.

@@joanna0988, dude was raised in a cult. I was raised in it too. Most of the men are just like him.

Agreed. She had a beautiful thing to say

@@joanna0988She babies him and never required for him to grow up. She never taught him to be a man because she still sees him as her little baby instead of her son who is now a man. Sweet lady but she failed him in some ways. Boys need structure and sternest, and responsibilities as well as love and care.

Agreed, Izzy is a fool for what you said and many other things he did this season. But I don't think Stacy isn't as bad as people think. She expressed that her family didn't traditionally come from money and she saw her parents torn apart by fighting for it. She has a house and it seems like a business to protect. I thinks she just want a man who is her equal or a little more so she doesn't have the carry the whole burden and there are guys out there her age who fit the bill. Especially in Texas.

Stacy is not marketable for rich guys who like trophy wives... she also swears like a sailor, not classy at all... sometimes being very beautiful can be a blessing or a curse...

The real reason Izzy is problematic is that he shamed her with that last bellow the belt comment about her past relationships, it was nasty. And Stacy is nasty for clearly favoring shallow things in a partner. The fact that you even talk about "upper class" is so wrong, and money doesn't matter when it comes to live, what matters is how you deal with it together.

To be honest there are a lot of reasons why a woman isnt married and not all have to do with her. Izzy acts like stacy is Angela on 90 day fiance, he is only 4 years younger. Asking about fiance is very important just so you know what you are dealing with. The issue stacy was more upset was him lying about it and giving her the information 2 days to the wedding when he had all the time to say it. Even when he did he made it seem pretty light. What else is he hiding?

@@Ganychan Do you live in America? if not I wouldn't expect you to understand but money matters a lot, especially to American women who want the dream of a white house with the picket fence, 2.5 kids and a dog. Love is love yes but money matters in marriage to say money doesn't matter in marriage is a lie because the number one reason people get divorced is because of money! (not having enough or being in debt)

That was so weird.. It did not say anything about him as a person

Unfortunately I feel like “loving” someone because they chose you is not that weird in our society…lots of sad people just desperate to feel loved by someone to externally validate themselves!

​​​@@carriefingsolomontrue! It is sad indeed. A lot of people are confused about what love really is. Also, if you marry someone (or get into a relationship) it should also be about "what can I give the other person", and not about "what can I take". I do think it's better if they make shows with healthy examples of love actually.

milton is trash

Exactly, agreed

Lydia Finna dog walk him and Stacy is to mid to be this high maintenance

@@Solotv84this is the best comment 😂😂

I did like how Milton handled her during the museum dinner. When she left the table, I expected him (and I suspect Lydia did too) to run after her but he stayed and enjoyed his fettuccine. 😂 There are just some adults that think they can act like immature children and other adults just have to take them as they are. It’s disturbing. I would be surprised if they are still together at the reunion.

@@justabebe Why is everyone an Incel that is not Brett or smooth with the ladies? the word is starting to get played out now, so he's a bit awkward doesn't make him an incel

I think she was raised with a lot of: “you deserve this” “you shouldn’t apologize for that”. She seems completely unaware of her entitlement and privilege therefore also unaware of how judgemental and demanding she is of others. Stacy acts like her way (and only her way) is “duh, so obviously the best, rational, most intuitive way” and genuinely thinks others are acting crazy or wrong or not making the right decisions when it doesn’t align with her standards. To me she came across as someone very close minded, a: “lifes in a bubble” type of individual. (Sorry for the unrequeated stacy take/rant)

Stacey is ditzy. Her parents named her aptly lol.

More stuck up than ditzy I would say.@@sarahb7795

Right! Such a cheap shot from him.. Like she could most likely do sooo much better if she wanted, and she knew that 😆

Rent was due and Izzy needed his future sugar momma I mean wife to pay lol

Agreed. Im glad she ditched him. He wanted an alpha woman to take care of him.

You're right. Even up to an hour before the wedding he is having his best man deliver that awful, corny note just to continue the emotional manipulation even when he technically was meant to leave her alone smh.

@@dearbh1736 so desperate to convince/manipulate her even up to the very last second. At the alter, bringing up fighting for one another & never giving up. It scares me that some people believe he’s almost the ‘perfect’ guy!

Agreed.

Can you really blame him? The guy was clearly heard that may have been drunk I don't blame him he just got rejected in front of his friends and family and also millions of people by the woman that he loves come on now

lets be honest, he doesnt love stacy after what he said. he prob loved her outside and her wealth.@@Solotv84

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I don't like Stacy, I think she's a mean girl however she was totally in the right about Izzy and his situation in life.

Totally agree with this!

@@joanna0988Same!

Then she shouldn’t try to find a husband on love is blind she knew Izzy wasn’t rich

I agree that Izzy is a giant red flag, but it's hard for me to empathize with Stacy considering how absolutely spoiled she is. She runs a Pilates studio and somehow is able to afford her ludicrous lifestyle? Please lol, she's a spoiled brat who was never going to say yes to anyone who didn't fit her very specific mold. Izzy was a walking red flag but so was she.

That would imply Izzy is a catch and alas he isnt. Stacy did the right thing. Johnnie too had issues and is almost like Izzy, as soon as Izzy said he was going with someone else she mentioned he had bad credit but that wasnt an issue until he went with someone else.

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​​@@serenity1255Johnie was right though. Stacy was being fun and lighthearted with him because she had no intention of getting married, she just wanted exposure. She's a rich girl so of course Izzy's situation would be a problem for her.

johnie is a total red flag herself

I could see johnie actually accepting him and loving him. But he really burned that bridge But also, Chris is a better fit anyway.

Stacy wants a well do man but those men can get a younger her who is prettier and more emotionally available

a true role model? if Stacy and Izzy had those deep talks at the beginning of the pods like Izzy wanted, Stacy would have saved herself the trouble, heartache and most importantly time. Stacy reminds me of Zanab. In the sense that she wants to keep it fun and light in the pods but outside of the pods, they act differently. This IMO is probably why they are single, they present themselves one way and once they have the man their real selves come out and exposes who they truly are shallow, superficial, and high maintenance

@@Solotv84 first off, everyone puts their best foot forward while dating. That’s not unique to this woman or anyone else. Second, trying to open up and be vulnerable with someone who you cannot make eye contact with is not an easy thing for some people. I find that fairly relatable. Anyone who has tried online dating before smart phones were invented knows how challenging it can be to create a genuine connection without the ability to see literally eye to eye. And lastly, I 100% stand by my comment. Stacy’s ability to recognize their financial incompatibility as a MAJOR red flag and putting her financial security before her emotions IS worthy of admiration. Finances are one of the number one reasons people divorce and depending upon the terms of these marriage contracts, she may not have felt her assets were protected enough from any damage being married to him could cause going forward. In many states, married people become responsible for debt incurred during the marriage whether they know about it/create it themselves or not. I don’t know specifically about TX or if this show has a prenup they sign/provide, but Stacy was smart to say it was too soon given her reservations. Love is not enough to make a relationship work, there has to be trust in all things. She didn’t have that and I commend her ability to rise above the expectations & say no. Comparing her to Zaneb (manipulative narcissist) is not even close to accurate. Her standards may seem materialistic bc of the edit but look a bit deeper and ask yourself- would you risk everything you’ve worked for over a lifetime for someone you’ve known a few weeks?

I think Izzy had dollar signed eyes from the beginning

Because she has a high standard of living, does not make much money- her dad does, explicitly said she wants to not rely financially on her dad, wants a man who can pay for all her dates and travel etc etc. And then also is revealed in many ways that she always goes for older men who provides all those things. That's the definition of digging for gold.

I kind of agree with this. He seemed really sincere that last episode

It’s an interesting hypothesis. I think for sure that there was something in Stacy’s superficial and judgemental nature that made Izzy insecure about telling about his financial troubles. Cause he had been able to tell Johnnie about it. I also think the whole badmouthing her after her saying no it’s kind of understandable being in the very emotionally charged situation of extreme rejection and loss. Plus there was probably some truth to the things he said. Big red flags though is the way he manipulates women and also the way of presenting a kind of superior image of himself. Having these traits in extreme that’s very hard to change.

I agree I don't get the hate for him other than the clueless jumping on the hate bandwagon. he's got trauma issues like everyone else. Acted out far less than others on the show, and does seem genuine. disagree with you about Stacey though, I like her. he expressed her rltshp pattern when he said 'you make me feel like I'm not good enough for you'

Considering Izzy's childhood he's turned put pretty well and after some counseling and self-reflection, he might see the error in his ways.

@@ul8590 I keep reading about how he manipulates women. I didn't see this. When did he do this? All I saw was him being emasculated by Stacy 😅

Poor Milton

Yes he did.

​​@@lucymwangi4726lol yep

when i saw he said yes…I said “oof…only time will tell 😖”

I'm sure Milton has other plans

And if you want actual good reality show with same amount of crazy and sweet then I recommend Love is blind:Brazil(especially 3d season)

I saw love is blind: Japan and it is so sweet

I saw Love is blind Japan and I was so bored that I stopped watching halfway through 😭

​@bunnihanni They don't communicate much from what I've seen, they just do their own thing. Some parts were boring to me as well and awkward so I also stopped watching it lol. I don't understand how people love it so much (only liked 1 couple).

That's my fave version. I liked the quality of guys that were on and thought that it made for an interesting show. Also, Okinawa is beautiful and I would love to vacation there.

They had lots more couples they either cut them from the final edit (2 couples in Mexico were cut and one final wedding couple) and there were like 3 other engagements that they didn’t follow outside the pods…eek

@@chloeblakesley608so they purposely choose to only follow the lame three they did? That’s even worse, shame on them.

I love Houston but, reality shows set in Houston…nope. Not many Texans in Houston. I’d like to see real Texans.

He's a functioning drunk

Yup Stacy always looks for something negative, I'm pretty sure she will go back to being rich men's playthings but a rich man ain't finna take her serious

I can’t stand this woman. Her voice, her know-it-all superiority. She annoys the shit out of me.

I felt the same. I couldn't stand to listen to her in the last episode and just fast-forwarded to the wedding.

What are Lydia's red flags in your opinion

He also mocked her English, he’s not sefensees defenceless lol give him some credit 😂

@@AmandaJ__ yes , he did. I think she let that slide because she was so happy in that moment. It won’t last

Stacey mean girl dodged a bullet

Except he’s wrong when he thinks he can give her everything a rich guy can 😂 idk why he brought up age when it’s his net worth that’s the problem

⁠@@raisaafiz4441his dishonesty about his finances was the problem and that’s what people are forgetting. We KNOW this from the clips. Stacy clearly wanted financial stability. Anything more than that is just you guys speculating and projecting. She obviously prefers a certain type of lifestyle. If you can’t match that, that’s fine.

He was acting petty because he got rejected

Both are going to be lonely if they don't manage their expectations. Sad

That is such a good idea! It could be a good way to support the couples and make sure smaller, fixable things don't become huge deal breakers if left to fester. It's also just healthy to seek out help on how to better communicate, compromise, etc. We don't have a lot of positive models for adult conflict resolution within couples or family units.

They should also have access to therapists!!! It’s very clear this show has no intention on these people actually finding love. They just want to record people slowly breaking down

Very true but unfortunately that is not the objective of these producers. If they if they introduced counselling there would likely be zero weddings and where's the fun in that! Sounds like about 50% of the people in the comments, myself included, just fast forwarded to the two weddings in this episode. This show has a clear agenda that we, as fans, have bought into and the mental health of the couples seems to be just collateral damage in the quest to create drama.

Then it would be Married at First Sight

He's stupid lol

I thought that too, the man was so sleep deprived and it’s a lot easier to conserve energy to just get on with the day and say yes rather than to have to deal with the conflict and fall out of saying no.

This season shows you a glimpse of what's out there in the dating World especially if you are 30 plus doing online dating in other words what I'm saying is a lot of people need therapy and healing there are a lot of people that should not be dating because they haven't worked on themselves and this show proves it

Stacy hasn't dodged a bullet, the bullet she needs to dodge is the guy she will eventually get married to, who's gonna have a lot of money which is her biggest concern, and is gonna neglect her and treat her like shit. But hey, she wants money right. Guess that's the price to pay when you want money.

​@@MESENJAHhe is going to have a lot of money that he is going to have to share while she gets to keep her own.

Unless he is 6’2 billionaire looks like Bruce Wayne, but that guy doesn’t exist in real life lol

Yes

I think she's completely valid in wanting a partner that can keep up with her lifestyle. Choosing a life partner is when you can be as picky as you want. Where she went wrong imo is going on the show and not discussing these things before getting engaged to someone 🤦🏾‍♀️

paper plates are wild. Its cheaper to buy 5 real plates then plastic ones every month. Makes no sense.

Yeah I would choose paper plates always. Because I hate washing. Not because I'm poor. I have a secure job for more than a decade.

Sometimes people judge too quickly.

Lydia was just desperate to get married.

Not saying Lydia is a saint, she's a wild girl. But Uche is a piece of work. Did you notice that NO ONE co-signed that Lydia made those comments. He's a text book Narcissist. The way he talks to women is terrible and the way he treated Aliyah was awful. I'm curious about Milton's family as well. But if Chelsea's family can get over how Kwame treated her last season, anything is possible. LOL.

@@mermaid000pranu You're absolutely right. She wanted marriage more than she wanted the person & that's why this marriage is gonna crash & burn. Those moments of bickering over random stuff between her & Milton may seem cute for right now but overtime it'll snowball into resentment.

@@sb.788 Oh, Uche is absolutely terrible. He's an antagonizing narcissist. But wasn't it Aaliyah that told him about the comments Lydia made directly to her?

@@BlueMoon-io9eh yes, Aliyah did but I think she was an emotional mess and fishing a lil bit 😉. I was thinking about the bbq that had Renee, Johnie and the other pod squad girl, they all looked at him like he was crazy when he said it. To the point where Johnie asked Lydia if it was true because no one had heard that before. :) IJS.

If they were to get married Stacy's money is stacy's money and Izzy's money is stacy's money too, this was obvious from the conversation they had when they were discussing who pays for food and such in one of the earlier episodes

The men provide for the women. Plus when a women provides for the men it usually doesn't end well.

Me thinks Daddy has a lot to do with her lifestyle.

@@Solotv84 Ah, I missed that part. Sounds stupid to me. Yeah, well…

@@lisah8438 I don’t understand that way if thinking at all. I would want to feel independent and buy whatever with my own money and not have to ask for it from my husband.

Fuck yeah I spent whole night to binge watch this. Couldn't stop 😅😂😂😂😂

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Especially since the #1 reason for divorce is money issues 😅

There’s nothing wrong with paper plates and cups . Maybe he just hates washing dishes which is VALID! Now should he have told her about his credit cards.. maybe . But then again look at how materialistic she is. Maybe he was scared she would judge him which she did! she would have issues if her took her to chipotle.. she wants to be treated like a Princess meanwhile she looks at him like he’s nothing because hes not rich as her.

Chris and Johnie are done I believe.

@@dearbh1736 sad. But at least they tried to make it work

Good luck

lmao hope you get it

Good luck 🤞

I applied for it too. They haven’t interviewed me.

Please make the right decision unlike the others, bring your heart AND mind with you!