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During their five year relationship, Alex Skeel was starved, tortured, and even had boiling water thrown over him by his ex-girlfriend Jordan Worth. Now, Alex is bravely waiving his anonymity to raise awareness of domestic violence, and encourage other men speak out against their abusive partners.
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@jackiemorris3938 Жыл бұрын

The last question you ever ask a victim is why didn't they leave. Do you know how convinced they've become that they deserve that treatment or that they did aomwthing to cause it? That shame keeps them silent so often. I'm so glad this man did get free and that he is safe now and either knows his own worth or is continuing to learn that as he heals.

@tasticola Жыл бұрын

Agreed. Bloody ambulance chasing TV presenters! 😢

@DistilledVoice 10 ай бұрын

Can't expect nothing less from those fools.

@Sindrijo 7 ай бұрын

If you've never experienced abuse first hand, know someone that has experienced it or let alone seen a documentary about the 'abuser process' you could be forgiven about being confused and ignorant about the subject because on face-value it just seems preposterous why someone wouldn't leave an abuser that is doing mental and/or physical harm.

@lore1175 Жыл бұрын

What I don’t understand is how parents, siblings can go for months without seeing each other. The cop cared more for him than anyone. God bless that cop for saving his life.

@ritikasajwan2927 Жыл бұрын

I have watched the documentary. Before shifting together, she threatened him to choose between his children and family. He chose his children . Once they started living together, she started to cut off all his contacts and shifted to a new town. His parents, friends and a few other relatives tried to contact him on facebook and she replied back that he does not want to talk with them. His aunt also found where he is living and went to meet him but he did not respond and asked them to leave him alone.

@RichardABradley-ze9qn 8 ай бұрын

@@ritikasajwan2927Cult leaders use the same tactics.

@benperniha1715 8 ай бұрын

I saw the documentary on what happened to you which was heartbreaking to see how much you had suffered. Alex, you are a beautiful guy with a lovely personality and shouldn’t have had to be treated this way. Even though it has been around 13 years now I hope you are doing well and much happier in your life now. You deserve so much more good things in your life. Ben Perniha Muswell hill London Raw organic planet

@kaiw7829 6 ай бұрын

@@RichardABradley-ze9qnthis is very similar to what happened on my parents. My mom goes crazy when my dad’s family call or visit, and she asked my dad to talk to his family members not to contact him.

@caramelbilquees 4 ай бұрын

Have you seen the other documentary she left before and he couldn't see his son then he got back together with her and they lived together for 8 months with his family. Then his family didn't like her and she made him choose and he chose to stay with her and her son they moved away and he refused contact with his family and ignored his mum's messages!

@eileencamacho2221 11 ай бұрын

Watching his story just broke my heart. This girl is evil! I don’t care if she’s a woman. She’s abusive and she’s right where she belongs.

@simoneward4217 11 ай бұрын

She is pure evil but she is free. Not in jail.

@eileencamacho2221 11 ай бұрын

@@simoneward4217 that sucks! What makes her and different from an abusive man. She should be in and for a long time too. Abuse is abuse

@Childrenarebetterthananimals 5 ай бұрын

@@eileencamacho2221 hurting women is worse than hurting men

@IrishKamikazeh 2 ай бұрын

Sadly feminists would say it's legal.

@sandrafraser7015 Ай бұрын

This is a stark reminder that domestic violence DOES NOT just happen to women. Men have to deal with it too but are even less likely to report it.

@ggishere9398 Жыл бұрын

This shouldn’t happen at all to anyone and the time she lied about his grandfather dying must have been horrible for him.

@simoneward4217 11 ай бұрын

She is pure evil.

@sava898 Жыл бұрын

Abuse is abuse, no matter what form it comes in and who it happens to. Everyone needs to be able to feel safe and comfortable in their relationship(s). This is so sad to hear 😟. I hope Alex is doing better now.

@paulpupo8799 10 ай бұрын

Alex I’m a sixty seven year old woman I’ve never suffered from spousal abuse I watched the documentary my heart breaks for you I pray for you and your children when Jordan gets out of prison only allow her to see the kids under supervision I worry that you are so broken that another woman will abuse you be strong and hopefully you can find a loving understanding and compassionate woman thank you for being so brave the world needs to understand that men can be abused mentally and physically

@mikamee5459 8 ай бұрын

Honestly these abusers are monsters. They come across as charming but are slowly breaking you down. My brother was so verbally abusive to me that he convinced me that i was worthless and a loser. Guess what? I did everything to win his approval. I tried to dress like him, listened to the same music etc. My heart goes out to this man. I hope he can heal and move on.

@je.suis.prisci Жыл бұрын

This is sick!!! I am glad that she has been exposed for the monster she is.

@vikram8411 2 ай бұрын

This man has to be the gentlest man on earth. He's born of a different stock... Very rare to find such people

@sacrilegiousboi978 Ай бұрын

If my girlfriend straight up lied to me about a close family member dying and let me believe it for hours just to feel powerful and then belittle me for caring and reacting, I would leave her right there and then.

@andreajennings3242 Ай бұрын

As horrible as I sound, I would never do this to anyone. I would just break up. This is insane behavior.

@rosie6 Ай бұрын

u don’t sound horrible at all❤

@carlacastillo3110 Жыл бұрын

poor guy, abuse is abuse, and men and women, can be abused, and we have to understand it, that anyone can be abused, not only women, and that's the reality.

@olig7979 Жыл бұрын

Fucking disgusting that she only served around 3 and a half years for this... She's a free women now

@yunni3371 9 ай бұрын

I heard only 1 and a half years 😅

@llillyywww 9 ай бұрын

No 14 years didn’t she

@dylanloveskellytaylor4774 8 ай бұрын

@@llillyywwwbut she only served 3 and a half years of her sentence before she got parole

@ejpatterson8458 4 ай бұрын

As an adult with no capacity problems it was his choice to stay with her. Anyone who hurts another clearly doesn't love them and that should become obvious.

@Taylaen 4 ай бұрын

@@ejpatterson8458: it was his duty to protect his kids. That is why he stayed. Stop saying he volunteered for this abuse. This abuser admitted her harm. Her actions are repulsive.

@IseiNabuka Ай бұрын

Watching this and I'm going ' mate why couldn't you just left' then realized the reason why some people cannot leave a relationship just like that. Good to hear he came out of it in the end and got justice. Hope you are healing mate wherever you are right now.

@lexilouwhoo 4 ай бұрын

my brother is currently going through something like this and idk what tf to do. Heartbreaking. I’m so glad he’s out of that.

@anglonrx2754 Ай бұрын

Police if its really that bad, my brother had the same with his gf and he tried to run away and things just escalated. Death threats, stalking etc.

@neonblack211 7 ай бұрын

He had kids with her, that was a huge part of it, they never brought that up in this video... he was scared for his kids safety and he didnt want to leave his kids

@emzodette 10 ай бұрын

People who abuse in this way are usually very intelligent and they use specific techniques to target and manipulate people into becoming very isolated. It’s easy to say what you would and wouldn’t do in a situation however until you’ve Experienced it you don’t understand what it’s like. He doesn’t need to man up he needs to be loved and protected. Just like a woman would. Abuse has no gender it can happen to anyone who falls prey to that situation. In fact alot of the reason why male victims don’t speak up is because they are judged and made to feel like they need to ‘man up’ this is what leads to them ending their own lives eventually. Let’s be open and educated when talking about this because again u don’t know how you would react until it directly affects you or someone you care about.

@vault7137 Ай бұрын

My heart breaks for this guy! He seems so sweet. The ex-girlfriend is pure psychopath.

@rosie6 Ай бұрын

This is so sad 😢😢😢😢I hope he lives his best life. First love is always so hard man.

@christiaanolivier6161 Ай бұрын

As far as I know there were 2 children involved. That made it much much more complicated 😢😢😢

@crempuii 10 ай бұрын

So many people question why he didnt defend himself,what people dont understand is manipulative psychopath people knows how to choose their victim,they choose the kind loving easy to control people and isolate them completely from everyone,then their full control is use to torture the victim more and more as time pass.

@shin-oni4223 Жыл бұрын

The reason why he didn't say is because most won't be believed that thay were abuse by their wife or girlfriend, on top of that, woman will lie and say they're being abused and get away with it, another reason some men that got abused by women gets laughed at, by women, that what he was probably afraid of, not being believed, not given a chance to tell his side of the story

@tromedl Жыл бұрын

Or they even are ridiculed about it which is disgusting.

@Tspinks0220 10 ай бұрын

You’re very strong, my guy. If she hit me with a hammer, after hitting me with a bottle in the past, ESPECIALLY WHILE ASLEEP; id be taking a ride to jail. She would have gotten her jaw all kinds of disfigured. Its 2023, dont swing unless you’re 100% ready to be swung on

@cynthiagreene7833 Жыл бұрын

She will get out and do it to the next guy she liked it too much..That's one sick girl I am so happy he got out alive.

@emmashuffle6457 4 ай бұрын

As an abuse survivor, abuse is abuse. Idc what your gender is. And what this man went through was nothing short of torture. Absolutely horrific. And he endured most of what he went through for the sake of his daughter and thinking him accepting this abuse was the only way to protect his child. And that breaks my heart. I’m happy he’s able to share his story and him and his daughter are able to move forward in life away from this horrible woman. We need to take abuse of men much more seriously.

@benperniha1715 6 ай бұрын

I hope that you have a better life than what you had with that evil manipulative narcissist. You have my total respect. Ben perniha London

@liselautenbacher 3 ай бұрын

Alex, should you see this: Not only people who have lived through this, understand you - others do, too. And you are courageous. Many of us are happy that you are alive and are rooting for you!

@roxannebisaillon4799 10 ай бұрын

So happy to hear your away from her with your little ones..stay safe n good luck.

@felistuskusikwenyu8010 Жыл бұрын

This is more about mind control more than it is about manning up or mascular.. Sometimes people get lured in slowly to what they assume is normal until it intensifies like this.. usually the abuse starts with disarming your power n they take control over everything… so sad tbh my prayers are with him… thankfully he is alive and doing well

@MizrahiChick 8 ай бұрын

Every young man should see this and know what abuse is. This is what kids need to learn in school. Pronouns will not save us from abuse. Knowing about abuse is what saves us from abuse.

@yxumi Жыл бұрын

She may be a sociopath

@irisfee4958 9 ай бұрын

May be?!?? She IS !!!

@sacrilegiousboi978 Ай бұрын

Sounds more like psychopathy than sociopathy. She was successful, clever, calculating, manipulative and lacked any kind of empathy or remorse. Sociopaths tend to by contrast have a weak conscience, often are irresponsible and reckless.

@venomousbunny9875 5 ай бұрын

Being in an abusive relationship is like your the frog who's being slowly boiled alive.

@shanegrabner5949 4 ай бұрын

Scared embarrassed. I feel you.

@Bellaclodya 8 ай бұрын

Had a class about this issue in the late 90’s.

@bitTorrenter Жыл бұрын

I met someone (a man) who would say things and do things that made you feel were just twisted / abnormal and I wonder whether the relationship that he talked about being in changed him or that was his natural persona. Manipulative. Works in a prison ironically.

@cheddar89 Жыл бұрын

Stuff like this happens all the time but everybody doesn’t help and care for the male. What point I am trying to make is that if the roles were reversed then the female would be supported all the way but going back to the actual case the male would not get any respect.

@irisenamorado 8 ай бұрын

True. They are around around us.

@orsolyaritter7292 6 ай бұрын

Poor, poor guy must have had an icredibly low self esteem which I can not figure out came from. Why? Why? Why? Why does someone underrate himself so much? He could have asked for help. He could have rscaped. ..... but he did not......I brlieve that he must have suffered other type of traumas as well early on in his life! I would like to know his full life story. Why did he become the victim of a monster? I feel so sorry for him and I am glad he survived. The fact that his torturer was released after 3 and a half years is outragous. Such a shame on the system......

@Childrenarebetterthananimals 5 ай бұрын

Hurting women is worse than hurting men

@bo2720 4 ай бұрын

1:45 Our old Phil trying to get some tips

@annmariegraham9085 6 ай бұрын

When you’re in a relationship like that it is very hard to get out of it, you believe them and that you are in the wrong and that you deserve it. He went through torture, I feel for him and I’m so glad that he lived to tell his story, and I hope he does believe that he is worth it, some don’t even make it out alive. 💝

@RosarioTayoReed 4 ай бұрын

When my ex moved on with a guy called Tony & she rang his parents & told them that Tony had died in a car accident so his parents called the police to do a welfare check to then find him alive & well. why didn't the police act on this case of her narcissism this is wear the accountability lays because it a big failure of the police when a number of my EXs Exs have been abused by this woman. I dont even know id Debbie is her real name.

@RichardABradley-ze9qn 8 ай бұрын

Why didn't he get out? It's not that mysterious -- they had a baby, extremely vulnerable, and obviously no shelters for a father+infant. If he just takes the baby & goes, it's kidnapping.

@Doyamn 8 ай бұрын

people say the same thing about that w/ females. It's not as easy as just saying it. You're leaving your home, your kids, your clothes, your life. Often your job, sometimes you have to go into seclusion to stay away from the abuser. If people don't "get it" then #1 they should consider themselves lucky and #2 you WONT get it

@mariamali6020 Жыл бұрын

For all those people commenting such silly thing when ur in theses situations it’s more PSYCHOLOGICAL so please think before you speak Honestly we learn all this in school

@ujustgotpwned2008 6 ай бұрын

She's been freed from jail now, depressingly.

@Childrenarebetterthananimals 5 ай бұрын

Hurting women is worse than hurting men

@oanamunteanu4744 10 ай бұрын

Doesnt matter if you are academic, CEO, president, has plenty money if someone abuse you, they are garbage People 🤨😒 I am happy he is safe and Move on with his Life 🥺☺️👌

@robl5827 Жыл бұрын

I hate it when that happens

@michaelm7367 5 ай бұрын

As kids i was taught to stand up to bullys one qay or another, then it stops when u do, sorry but the guy let it continue

@susuilu 4 ай бұрын

Maybe he is on the spectrum and was scared or suffered from anxiety before meeting her and she took advantage

@sacrilegiousboi978 Ай бұрын

@@susuiluI do feel like he may be slightly on the spectrum and/or have a mild learning disability. That along with him being kind hearted and somewhat passive/having low self esteem was the perfect victim for her.

@Lauren-dx2hh 10 ай бұрын

Terrible, I'm not being nasty but he should of reported it the other police sooner and spoken up sooner . Not ringing the police and not speaking up is the abusers weapon

@damienx0x 4 ай бұрын

Easy for you to say.

@furiousdestroyer5022 2 ай бұрын

This makes me happy to be single right now.

@zeldabaker1331 6 ай бұрын

Hope she is in jail

@cinematicsterling6897 4 ай бұрын

she was arrested and sentenced to seven years and six months in prison in 2018. she was released in 2022 and moved on to a new guy.

@davidforbes5237 4 ай бұрын

How he mek this gal do him like this smdh

@subscrib8144 Жыл бұрын

We need a better comments section….

@levibee9451 5 ай бұрын

Philosophytube has a video called "Men. Abuse. Trauma." and it's very good.

@tommyandbellasadventures Жыл бұрын

Hairdryer + bath.. omg why doing that in bath buzzzzzz

@xeromoth9771 3 ай бұрын

I have to say…fair play to Alex for coming forward about this. The problem is obviously a lot of men are afraid of saying “I was the victim of this”. But I think his story says, if it can happen to me it can happen to anyone. Genuinely wish him all the best

@hjrkclogs494 10 ай бұрын

I understand that he was lured into this but at the end of the day this man needed to realise that he needs to leave her and understand that he is a man who is physically stronger than this woman and tell her straight that if she did anything else he would react back, must’ve been hard for him but he should’ve put his foot down from the start

@martindoyle8220 9 ай бұрын

Thank god you are obviously someone who didn't endure this or remotely close to this. My abuser is like a petite model,. To the outside world she's almost perfect. I have had plenty of ruks in my time and am more than capable of handling myself in that if you like normal situation but, this is completely different. To this day I am still afraid of my ex, that will never change. God love that guy, please open up and be more understanding 🙏

@Mint-kj9kw 8 ай бұрын

@@martindoyle8220 Out of curiosity, what did she do to you?

@hello-gk5cz 8 ай бұрын

Please understand that so much manipulation would have happened. It's not as easy as that

@lalosalamanca8574 5 ай бұрын

@@hello-gk5cz you too you love pain and you secretly loved it. And you didn't want it anymore. Admit it

@SG-kx8gk Жыл бұрын

I would had been left her

@rowanmatthias7909 Жыл бұрын

He would have done but the thing is he was so scared, so it's not that easy

@PeterHotton 2 ай бұрын

This has got to be impossible never heard of a woman abuse a man I'm shocked 😲 😂

@KayyVEVO 20 күн бұрын

What a closed-minded life you lead then.

@user-hv8bo4ie2v 8 ай бұрын

Yikes

@victoryville1329 Жыл бұрын

No comments!!!! Crazy If the roles were reversed

@kobzelfn9588 Жыл бұрын

The comments were recently enabled though…

@vivi-lo5gl Жыл бұрын

i saw this video before comments were ebabled and it was mostly women supporting him and men calling him a baby and telling him to man up and asking "why didnt he leave" 😐

@aieleven3332 Жыл бұрын

hammer? Ill storm out right away!

@CameronE2023 2 ай бұрын

Where's your backbone? The girls like 90lbs.

@averagelizard2489 Ай бұрын

She'd leave with the kids. From there, he doesn't have her, he's free. But wait a second... His kids are not, and I think you can guess what would happen to his kids.

@SkuIIheart 11 ай бұрын

Me and my future Bf

@x-Phoenix_.A 29 күн бұрын

yikes.

@brittkamper713 Жыл бұрын

No excuse , but i am sure she must have been abused to .

@ViperBOSS74 Жыл бұрын

Stop the BS! STOP excuses saying she may have been abused. You would not say that if the roles were reversed. She is a MONSTER and deserves no sympathy.

@angel-ke9vs Жыл бұрын

That makes it worse because lots of people have been abused the majority do not torture and almost kill others. Pay it forward is for good deeds. This girl chose to break him down and torture him. She must take accountability. He did nothing to her.

@himantapathak3989 6 ай бұрын

You are of the same kind

@lucashogan2912 4 ай бұрын

Beta male

@georgericher3996 18 күн бұрын

Does it matter ?

@PeterHotton 2 ай бұрын

O for God's sakes be a man and stand up to her you wose😂

@aviation_ireland2937 Ай бұрын

you disgust me in so many ways peter

@PeterHotton Ай бұрын

@@aviation_ireland2937 sorry but that's the way I've been brought up

@rosie6 Ай бұрын

Bruh.

@jermaineishmael7225 Жыл бұрын

Wait, 'I had to wear my own clothes' sorry but this guy needs to man up simple as that, Andrew Tate would wipe the floor with him....

@someones_daughter_ Жыл бұрын

Imagine bending over for the Taterhead, shows no integrity whatsoever

@rowanmatthias7909 Жыл бұрын

If you had listened properly you would hear he said he was using his clothes as a quilt and pillow, he doesn't need to man up, he went through a traumatic experience at the hands of a controlling and abusive girlfriend, think before you type

@invisibleman4827 Жыл бұрын

Tate would be in bits like anyone else. In fact, I doubt that Tate would've handled it a tenth as well as Skeel did.