The biggest example of this I can give you all is of my younger brother. We have many siblings and I live out of the country. When my mum was diagnosed with cancer, he became her full time carer. He literally put his life on hold and took care of her, her appointments, medications, even seeking out alternative medicines. His wife also helped even bathing my mum and getting her dressed when she got sicker. My mum passed away last year and not long after my brother, by the fadl of Allah, found a good job and is consistently doing exceptionally well. All this is from the blessing of Allah and I ask Allah to continue blessing him and increase him. I saw the days when it was tough on him mentally seeing my mum get sicker, and his own tests but he never let it hold him back. Such an inspiration. Allahumma baarik wa zid.

I needed to hear this 12 years ago. I attest that taking care of your parents is an honor and a privilege. It’s worth it.

Thank you. Am currently taking care of my bed ridden father. I feel blessed. Your vid is very timely.

We always looked after our parents till the last minute. My great brother kept them in his house.God has bless us in many ways.Thank God for every thing. ❤✌🏽

Who is this man??? The delivery is amazing!!! Clear, concise, to the point!!!🙏🙏🙏

Parents are the ones that brought you to this world ❤️

With increased responsibility, Allah will give you the strength 🙌🏼

Yes, the feelings of peace and blessings are incredibly powerful when talking care of elderly parents!!!

Alhamdullilah for the blessings of Islam. My maternal auntie passed away a month ago. Her daughter and my sisters took care of her. My auntie wouldn’t even wear a diaper so you can imagine the demands. Alhamdullilah my maternal u cakes daughters took over the responsibilities of cooking and cleaning. Some flew to London to take care of my cousins children and home since she’s the only daughter of my deceased auntie. Alhamdullilah wa Al shukur my brothers and counsin brothers took over the high hospital bills. I’m very grateful that Allah has chosen such a strong family to have raised me. Alhamdullilah wa Al shukur.

Such an important message in this day and age!

I am looking after my mother in law she has Alzheimer’s it is tough every day is a different day.

Islam taught us to marry on right age and time and be obedient with parents and when parents grow older talk politely and serve them until their last breath ,

You are absolutely correct, The hug from my Elderly mother cures my headache faster than any medication. Just listening to my mother's stories, soothes my ears and to know that being dutiful to your parents is an act of Faith, Alhumdulilah. Sometimes it isn't easy but do your best to please your parents and you will see the reward in this life and the next. Subhan Allah, Alhumdulilah Jazaak Allaahu khayran brother for this important reminder. May Allah, The Most Merciful forgive our shortcomings and strength our Emman.

Alhamdulillah....everyone needs to be responsible

A reminder that we all need from time to time!! May ALLAH bless you dear brother, for this beautiful, important message❤

💯❤️ Jazaakallahu khayron for beautiful reminders

Jazzakhalahair brother. Am sending this to my teen kids. IncgaAllah. May Allah swt orotect you and your family. 💫

beautiful naseeha barakAllah feek

jazakAllah for this beautiful reminder

Machaallah very good video it reminds us. People forget in this time please make more videos Good voice in English and arabic machaallah. And good calm way of talking with seriousness I love it, May Allah watch over you And make you succeed inchallah

Assalamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuhu Dear Brother , oh my brother in Islam. The way you have expressed your message and naseehah from your sincerely with your full heart , May Allah SWT shine your good deeds and weight good deeds in the afterl life. I am always make dua for my father , however being the eldest sibling has not been so good for me. I have siblings who always lie and are selfish as well always envious of me and my children. ( I am not a rich person I don't have a mortgaged house like all my siblings...but hey, I will be patient). Jazakumullahu khairan for your sincere naseehah

Beautiful message and reminder! MashaAllah!

Alhamdulillah. Thank you for the reminder

Well said brother 🤲

جزاک اللّہ خیراً کثیرا واجراً کبیرا

As you mentioned, there are exceptions so people who have transitioned their parents to an aged care home should not be judged. You never know what someone has experienced - perhaps serious neglect or trauma from their parents, or not having capacity to care for their elderly parents due their own physical or mental injuries or illness. Also, I think men underestimate the toll it can take on a woman - are you expecting her to change her father's underwear and help him toilet? Alhamdulillah we have facilities with trained staff who can help keep parents safe when their own children are unable to e.g., when they have moderate to severe dementia, and can provide them with the opportunity to undertake social activities, eat healthy meals, have their health be monitored regularly etc.

excellent video. Keep them coming bro!

Beautiful explanation 👌

Thank you

Jazakallah khair

Allah bless you - well said bro

Very very important video.

Excellent

ALHAMDULILLAH

Asalawaylaykoom brother, I Enjoy your content and everything that you do please keep on. But I have to disagree with you a little bit on this this video. It’s true that there are children that take the easy way and throw their parents in an elder home. But it’s unfair to assume that the child has not tried. The world is always warning children about dangers of peer pressure but the dangers from parental pressure is doing far more harm than peer pressure ever could. I tried very hard to maintain relations with my parents who are divorced from when I was very young. This alone means I would have to have 2 households in order to keep them both under a roof. For 30 years I tried so hard to do my part but some reason the harder I tried the more pain and burden I kept bringing into my life. After reading the Quran it brought me peace to know that Allah does not will for me to continue on in that way. I am glad you feel so strongly for your parents but a lot of that I’m sure is because they were great parents. Not all parents are that way. And just because Someone is Muslim doesn’t mean they will be a great parent and it’s not fair to judge those who did have to make that difficult decision to let them go into a nursing home instead of keeping them at home

Not elderly homes But other home or apartment and throwing g money at them Monthly with a maid While the evil son lives with his wife as of she is the elderly and needs help of somebody’s son! While he is supposed to be with his mother And wife what is she doing Aren’t her own parents old Should t she be with her parents taking care of them Who will take care of them? Why only focus a son’s parents Daughter’s parents also get old and she is supposed to be caring for them not her husband Right of Companionship of mother comes above father for every child If only so sons are supposed to care for his parents Then all couple would frown at the birth of a daughter Simple rule of Islam , each child for their own parents first

As salaamu alaikum. I know someone with a very sick father. He has several acute conditions and requires a lift and phyaical therapy, cannot use the bathroom on their own. What if the kids do not have the financial or physical capacity to do it? What if theor ailments require an entire team of medical professionals? When making videos like this, its important to highlight this. Every child that sends their parents to a home is not a demon. People have debt tjey need to pay, rent, food, etc. People have to work or they become homeles. Nice message but please add the caveat. Thanks

You are not supposed to fulfill the rights of the nafs. Isn't the nafs the bad part of us that leads us to destruction if we listen to it.

Why should the children care for the parents who sent their children to child care?

Push against the tide.. And trauma.. and the society's normalisation.. Allah'swt knows whats best Allahu ya3lum What people's struggles are and The hidden cures in looking after Ones parents who have places traumas&triggers On their children..

Jazakallah khair