She trying to not speak bad on him… she said a lot of nothing but it’s clear she wasn’t happy bc u don’t divorce someone bc u wana focus on u and career u can do that with a husband and kids still. It’s more to the story but she doesn’t owe us that

Do not be deceived people… Marriage is a LIFELONG commitment. Before you jump the broom to say I do, you better make sure that it’s with the person you plan to commit to for a lifetime! This society has normalized divorce and it’s sad. I don’t get how a failed marriage can be considered a success??? That’s madness!

I thought I was in the same place and almost ended my marriage. I then realized my husband had nothing to do with my happiness- that was all on me. I was happy before I met him, and I was happy when I met him, so he nor the marriage subtracted from my happiness. I was almost deceived to think he was the reason I started feeling unhappy. Through Jesus and therapy, I found my happiness again with him being by my side to enjoy it with me. Now, we’re happy together again! Sometimes, weathering the storm isn’t easy, but the sun does eventually shine again. I noticed Tia hasn’t professed to be Christian in years. That may have something to do with it too.

my grandparents had moments where things went horrible yet they grew and matured through the storms of life as grandma said we didn’t always like each other but at the end of the day we loved each other

The exact same thing happened to me a year ago. I lost my brother and then the following spring my cherished uncle who was like a father to me. I too realized that life is far too short to be unhappy and have no peace. Needless to say changes were immediately made.

I love how she responds without being messy or accusatory. Very mature and classy.

Marriage isn't always about happiness, especially if you're wanting your spouse to make you happy. People tend to confuse happiness with marriage then get disappointed when it doesn't happen.

How is , being married for 14 years, waisting each others time and putting kids in the middle of it, a successful marriage? How did you , after 14 years, decide that it was time to put yourself first? That should've happened BEFORE marriage and children. I wish the best for the family but this just breaks my heart. Then on top of that, your getting so much attention from it... This world glorifies divorce and a whole lot more things that are just down right sad

It’s the character and integrity for me. There are some things that should be kept private and she is doing an awesome job at protecting that. I wished they could have made it wk but God knows what go’s on behind closed doors. I am wishing her nothing but the best!

It is ignorant to marry for happiness. Happiness is a result of what is happening. Been married 16 yrs, challenges have come but instead of focusing on trying to be happy in those challenges, we focused on our love, true commitment to God and our vows. And NO he or I never cheated but even if that was the case, I’m committed to my vow, hard work, love, growth and joy which my Bible tells me that this world didn’t give and cannot take away.

I will Never Normalize unhappiness. Seasons change. People change… What you Put up with in your 20’s and 30’s Seems Different in Your 40’s. She Looks Way Happier Now then when she was with Him. Marriage is Not for Everyone. And Hear this Women. The Only One who will Ever Love ❤️ You Unconditionally is Jesus! He Literally Died 4 You. Respectfully Single.Happy.and Proud🙏🏾

Any relationship that steals your joy, release it!

You have to love yourself. Because people pleasing will kill you. The more you do the less they do. That not living that surviving. Peace is priceless.

I'm seeing a lot of post concerning marriage and it being a life long commitment, but I have seen and known way too many women/men who have tried and tried in their marriages and wasted so much time trying to stick with a marriage that is no longer serving it's purpose. People are unhappy trying to MAKE it work.

She gave a lot of non information but somehow ET got what caused the divorce

Marriage failure should not be something we praise. Sad. My husband and I are married for the long haul. I like Tia but she make it seem like she's so strong....it's OK to stay positive and cry.

Tia seemed like she was holding back tears. Like she really wants to cry. She is trying really hard to remain strong. That's good but stop coming on these shows, social media and doing interviews. Then you won't feel the need to prove to everyone that your fine. Divorce is hard and unpleasant enough. Without having to explain and convince everyone that your good.

There is NOTHING like peace of mind. Good for her!

I’m tired of women breaking up their marriage, to “love yourself” or “find themselves” that’s bs! Just say the truth, you don’t love your spouse anymore and that’s it! I don’t understand how they can just break off their family like that, such a selfish choice.

Life is too short to be unhappy.

Tia is handling this very well and i applaud her. She is not acting bitter or like a woman scorned. I believe she is giving women who are in toxic marriages feeling stuck hope again. To stay in a marriage for image or convenience is unhealthy. She realized life is short and if she isn’t getting what she wants now then she most likely never will. If she doesn’t look out for her happiness who will.

My parents are almost in their 70’s, they coexist in the same house and live a very separate life from each other. They do have the same friends from 60 years ago and will attend events with each other. It works for some people but if you are ready to really move on and start a new life, do it for your own sanity.

Thé deaths she is talking about happened over five years ago. So if that caused her to take a deeper look at her life and marriage also means she’s been unhappy for sometime and tried to work it out for awhile before leaving, that’s why she seems to have processed the ending of her marriage quickly, but it wasn’t a quick decision.

I’m married for 36 years, me and my husband just Tom and Jerry but the end sweet to each other, because God is in the middle of us and we bless 4 beautiful children.

When u marry u need to remove selfishness not saying u should not be happy but why can’t you have both

I'm so happy for her. No need to stay in a non full filling relationship. I admire how she's keeping whatever that went wrong under wraps because she's aware that her children will see this and how she handled it and out of respect for her ex. It really isn't any of our business to know what really happened but Im sure she sought help and advice and concluded that her reason was serious enough to come to end it. No reason to stay miserable to prove to the world that your happily married. Good on her.

Marriage is no JOKE!! I went into mine, we both did, having no f n clue. Marriage counseling, living together & having a child STILL DIDN'T prepare us. Nothing but lots & lots of patience, difficult talks, growing pains, mutual respect, carrying on more if one is sick or works more, compromise though at the end of the day it's GODs blessing & us learning to be friends above all. Together 18yrs, married 16 yrs, 17 yr old & a dog!

The fact that selfishly breaking a family is celebrated really signifies flaws in our society.

We should allow God to choose our life partners. Never jump into a marriage just because you want a ring because you never know what the future looks like and it’s sad when things have to end

This self love she is talking about...in more transparant words: She realized that Corey wasn't contributed to her happiness nor to their union. she was making the sacrifices...

Yes I just went through the same thing I started traveling with my sista circle and I loved it. I was married to a Narc. He traveled and when I decided to put me first after 25 years he couldn't handle it!

When you get married you make a covenant not only with the person but God. It's not about self, it's about each other... better or worst, sickness and in health... If he did not abuse her, or cheat... just walking away to find yourself with two children seems very self-absorbed. Ijs... since she continues to put this narrative out there. Marriage is not until you want something different or now I'm different.

Why can’t people have self love and still maintain a happy and healthy marriage? So many people get married/even get into a relationship because the person “ makes them happy” you have to be genuinely happy with you, your husband/wife should only add to your happiness, they should not be the ultimate reason your happy. This is why divorce rate is thru the roof. When you have learned to truly be happy with yourself, your can then enhance your happiness as a collective

Hard thing because yes, we as women need to focus on our happiness, but be careful. Your kids’ happiness also matters. Hardest thing I ever had to witness was what leaving a relationship did to our kids.

Oh, how she sounded like me some eleven,twelve years ago… the awakening, my peace joy and happiness. Way to go Tia🙏🏼❤️🌹

I wish her happiness. She deserves it.

Big up to people when their marriage is facing the storm they stick through it I was watching how people who are celebrating 50 and 60 add years in marriage and just say to myself these are people who stay in these long marriages go through for better and for worst they stand firm in their commitment I just say this is type of marriage I want to have .

I believe most wealthy women that really built their own wealth don't see a value in marriage. Marriage is great for two people that has an average income and want to come together and grow but if you're very wealthy man or woman you don't see the value of marriage.

Grief will make you rediscover what’s important

Top 10 to watch and first to comment..Love from Kenya

i feel like she’s talking in code and i don’t get it. then again it’s not for anyone to get

“But understand this, that in the last days there will come times of difficulty. For people will be lovers of self, lovers of money, proud, arrogant, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy,” (2 Timothy 3:1-2 ESV)

I get it. It doesn’t matter how much money I make, even if it’s legacy money I want a man actively contributing to the household not thinking it’s okay to live off me while they try to save their money and lead a selfish life because “I can afford it”. Tia did the right thing. No matter how nice of a guy he is, financial abuse is a real thing

Such an elegant and classy woman. She will find love again because she seems like a great person.

I'm not going to argue with people in the comments but for the people that don't seem to get it here's the bottom line..she was already a successful actor who married a man who was broke at the time and settled for him, he didn't contribute much to the marriage and she was carrying a heavy load of basically providing for her whole family for years with no help from him, she also loved him more than he loved her which never works out. She obviously can see that it's time to move on and possibly find a better man who will actually provide for her and truly love her for who she is and not what she can give him. Women do deserve happiness you know.

If you read between the lines you can tell that Corey was good to her. She was dealing and possibly still dealing with the loss of close loved ones and now shes dealing with her own mortality so she wants to live her life for her. Women are celebrating her actions and missing what marriage is all about. 14 years is a long time and to leave your partner who loved you and did right by you and his children is not something to celebrate. I empathize with her cause many of us deal with loss. Some more than others. We all cope with loss differently. I feel sorry for Corey that he lost the love of his life. Sending healing energy to both of them.

I'm in that phase of really checking in with myself because I feel that same sadness she was talking about and always taking care of other people and not myself. Luckily im not married nor have kids , so my decisions wont effect others around me and it's easier to make those changes. Please take.your time in life and don't rush to have all the things ppl are told we should have. If we're meant to have a family and kids it will happen when it happens. Find who you are and chase after that first.

That's deep. When she thought about HER she knew it was time. So for so long she never put her 1st but put sadness first. Now she's free. We-as women, do this all too many times.

So she's saying she wasn't happy in her marriage... 🤔 I work on myself while I'm married, I find peace, joy, crazy days, no perfect day, I love being married... this sounds like an excuse... 🙄

I read that he wouldn't help pay bills, and I read something about an allegation of him cheating. I don't know that to be true, it was something read, but kudos to her for not speaking badly about him, because all that matters are the kids, and her happiness. I wish her nothing but the best, and I'm sure that she will find happiness again, if she isn't already happy.

Such a great thought and being able to realize and do something to make changes to better your life is awesome thanks I needed that reminder that I'm more then just a mother sister aunt wife friend....I'm me and I need more self love.... God bless all woman.... we are strong for so much more then what we think

When you know, you know, the realization came to me when I was looking at old pictures of me how happy and how much I smiled on those pictures compared to my pictures a couple of years after I got married I was barely smiling and you could see the unhappiness on my face. I wasn’t my old self, I was changing who I was to make someone else happy but I was miserable.

Marriage was a horrible experience. I felt invisible. I'm happier divorced. Because at least now I'm in control and can meet my needs when and how I decide.

Im so glad this appeared on my KZfaq feed. It's time. Yay! Let's do this.

Good for you Tia. Folks do what’s most healthy for yourself and ultimately that decision will be best for everyone else involved. Definitely more to the story. What I will say is that once you start doing that internal work, your soul will not allow you nor want you to remain in the same energy/position/environment. It will force you to move forward, especially so if that other person isn’t on the same path. Everyone we get involved with and even marry isn’t meant to be “forever” sometimes they are lessons. We learn and move forward.

Y’all pay attention! Way before they divorced she was serving herself on a silver platter on social media. It was obvious by her actions she has been screaming for attention for a long time. Maybe he wasn’t giving her the attention she wanted. Not certain, but I can definitely tell when someone has placed themselves back on the market.

This situation is between her and her husband, the most important in a marriage is to put God first, and communicate, communicate, communicate. Couples today seem like they like the easy way out, if you aren't being abused verbally and physically, understand to get out And f it can be worked out, try to work in it, and if you love the person which is more important as well, then it can work. But today divorce is so glorified and if I'm unhappy, get out of it. That is your choice, but no one gives marriage a chance anymore, seem like some goes with the flow, everyone else getting a divorce, so I guess I will also.. Pray Tia find happiness in whatever she is seeking.

I love this for her! She looks really happy and I’m rooting for each and everyone to find their happiness.

Self love leads to selfishness and selfishness leads to divorce.

She ain't saying nothing! You mean you can't go to marriage counseling with someone you call your best friend? Make it make sense.

It's so sad how the media rushes once marriages are broken and not care about the kids.when you are depressed they hide while taking videos of your breakdowns

I love how Tia is getting her life back if she was sad and felt like her happiness didn't matter so she did what was best for her kudos to her I wish her and Corey the best co-parenting their beautiful children

My husband is from Turkey and he told me that foreigners think all Americans are always get divorced and that we truly do not value marriage and family. I understand why they have that perspective of us.

I get it. She's responding in a way that will allow her CHILDREN to remain protected as they grow older. It JUST dawned on me. She's VERY VERY smart. Basically it's none of our business and we'll never know the issue publicly. I totally get it now!! Go Tia!

As much as I loved seeing her and Cory together we ALL on the outside looking in. That’s their life and their decision. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Those vows are to be acted upon. It's not about a feeling. Feelings come and go all the time for many reasons. For better, for worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do you part. People only go by feelings. Marriage is work, 24/7 365 days a year. If it's abusive or there's habitual cheating, then yes, leave it. Otherwise, work it out!

Do you Tia❤. When a chapter ends it ends and you the author of your own life. Falling out of love with someone is a natural feeling and it’s not always about them but it could be about yourself. The world is big and there’s a lot to explore and experience and sometimes we just need that independence to do it. ❤

Wow this is what happens when society is obsessed with their own happiness. I wonder why don't they add that line to the vows moving forward, "You need to be happy and it's all about your happiness in this marriage" and the moment you dont experience happiness, get a divorce. Marriage is about dying to self. I wonder if her children are happy? Is Corey happy? But as long as she is happy that's all that matters right? Mxm New Age has damaged the way people think. The Bible says in the last days man will be lovers of themselves

I CANT REALTE. ME AND MY HUBBY WENT THE OPPOSITE. WE WENT THRU SHIT WAS DAMN NEAR ENEMIES FIRST 10 YEARS. THEN I CHANGED HE CHANGED. WE GOT COUNSELING TOGETHER AND SEPARATE. AND EVERYTHING NEGATIVE TURNED TO POSITIVE .WE KEPT FAMILY AT ARMS LENGH.BECUASE ITS ALWAYS DRAMA.I HANDLED MY VUNERABILITY ISSUES OPENED UP.AND THE FLOOD GATES OPENED.I PRAYED EVERY DAY.NOW WE HAVE SO MUCH PEACE AND SO MUCH NASTY FREAKY ASS SHENANIGANS. WE GREW THE FUCK UP FOR REAL .AND IM SO DAMN HAPPY SO IT HE.WE LEARNED TO RESPECT EACH OTHER DIFFERENCES INSTEAD OF TRYING TO CONTROL ONE ANOTHER. BEEN TOGETHER SINCE 19 SO WE GREW UP.THATS MY BEST FRIEND IM HIS

I'm so proud of Tia ,she is admitting this is a challenge. But at the end of the day. Cory is no longer her parents. But her children's father for life. That still makes him family with all that she is looking ahead ,and working on loving tia as a single mother , and human beings. She is choosing to be happy. I'm loving her strength right now. Many prayers of strength Tia❤❤❤

Why glamorize failure. Yes everyone deserves to be happy but to glamorize a failed marriage is ridiculous. Most marriages fail because of selfish reasons and lack of compromise

I admire her strength to put herself first. She gave it a long run. 20 years is long enough to do anything. She gave it her all until she couldn’t give to that relationship anymore. Wishing her the best :)

It sounds like she is trying to sharing her heart while maintaining some level of privacy and respect for Cory and her children. Which is understandable because her marriage life should be kept private I pray the best for them both

You'll only understand her if youve been thro this or going thru it.

It’s really mind boggling to see so many comments judging someone for getting divorced in 2022. I mean, I feel like we’ve fallen back a century. Staying in an unhappy relationship long term, is toxic and good for no one, especially kids.

I love Tía, and I wish her the best. But literally grew up watching her ACT and she is staying strong and she is giving us her best…. But we know she is acting. It’s too much too soon and maybe she never really tells us and that’s okay. But stuff she mentions would usually bring a couple closer….. UNLESS something did happen. Either way I myself am sad about it bc had to be something huge. Hope she heals soon and continues stronger 💕🙏🏽

Good luck Tia 🙌🏼

I know there's more to it than what this sip of info she gave. However, you can work on your happiness while being in a committed relationship. It's called making room for growing. Both people must commit to this more than anything, because we don't know what will come at us in life. So, allowing people to conform to the new part is necessary. I believe there's more layers to this than "I need to be happy". No, I'm not hinting at anyone cheating.

Tia is such a strong beautiful and godly woman. Such an inspiration I wish I had a friend like her

She outgrew him. I hope she finds her soulmate.

PRAYING FOR HER, HER FAMILY, HER CAREER, HER FUTURE, ETC...

I self love usually on a Saturday afternoon! Lol 😂😀

Honestly I’m so sick of the story! OK Tia we get it you divorced Cory you’re happy that’s awesome. Girl move on please can we talk about something else!

Tia and Tamera both are such amazing women and mothers. You can tell just how great their parents were at raising them as well as their brothers. I’ve been a fan of them ever since Sister, Sister and all of the other roles they had especially when I was growing up. I loved their episode of “Are You Afraid of the Dark” and I loved their reality show they had. I’m still so bummed that The Real was cancelled as well. I know Tamera had left by the time the show ended but I absolutely loved that talk show. I wish Tia all the best! ❤ She seems like she has a great outlook on life. I’m sure her and Cory will be great at coparenting.

Marriage is WORK, it’s not easy.

She’s so beautiful and smart! Keep going girl!

He said something to the effect of making decisions based off emotions will hurt you everytime. Think a lot of these women are playing themselves with this I wasn’t happy stuff because of all these outlets where they are stacking all this fake validation and these gurus who tell you your not happy and there is always something better instead of having appreciation for what you have. It’s going to be somebody out there checking for her because she’s a celeb, but if she wasn’t then she might have a lot of regrets.

Tia went from an Adorable Twin to a Fully Grown Woman who is a Classy Top Shelf Act. She is being fair with the Public without allowing it to invade her personal Peace or violating the wellbeing of her Family. Mama Bear vibes stay on high at all times. Even though their marriage is no more, they are learning to become family in a new way. I'm glad she is going to allow herself to enjoy her own energy, it's well deserved. Divorce isn't the resolution in all relationships but if it has to be may it be amicable.

Marriage is hard but I think she realized that she didn’t really live life and date pre married life… now she wants to yolo as she hits her mid 40s ion why blame it on self love & empowerment it is what it is 🤷🏾‍♀️

Life is short. Happiness is a must for us all and no one shld negotiate on tht. So if she is good, thts what matters most.

Seeking Happiness… self love… leading to ending a marriage… unfortunate… we’ve lost the true meaning of marriage.

He doesn't have much of a personality and never really seemed that interested in her. It's not about relying on someone else to make you happy. It's about not wasting your life beside someone who doesn't add anything to your life and could even be bringing you down and holding you back. Who wants to be going through the motions in a loveless marriage, existing but not living life when you never know when it could be your last day on earth. Tamera and her husband look in love, but I never got that feeling from Tia and Cory.

Good for you Tía. ❤❤❤❤❤

Her focusing on her , made her realize that she was the only one focused on her. That her partner wasn't pouring into her like she was him. I'd like to believe she expressed this to him and nothing changed. She realized complacency settled in. It's states in the Bible, yessss the Bible, I know, a book no one today cares to actually study. But I will forever stand on God's word. Anywho it's states that Man because sin shall rule over the woman. Even with being equally yoked, we are still to be ruled over by our husbands, granted married, and be his HELPMATE. Strong independent women ain't with that. Because we end being neglected, disrespected mistreated and displaced, in being the help mate. Basic instructions before leaving earth. 🤞🏾🙏🏾💯💪🏾🙌🏾

"Authenticity" good answer.❤️✊🏽

Her sister Tamera did the work and joy, peace, self-confidence and calmness shows on her face. I hope Tia finds joy and love within herself. The Hoda and Jenna interview was a little unfair because she does not appear ready to talk about her relationship ending.

Ain't no strength in getting a divorce, strength comes in honoring your commitment

It's the Awakening for me, I'm here now. Leaving a seven in a half yrs relationship,We have no kids together,So it's more easy to move on with our lives. I couldn't take another day of him throwing up my past,I couldn't take it another day of him telling me I'll never be nothing more than a piece of a##,It was years of hearing those words,So I finally said enough is enough,And he's still trying to figure out ,Why I chose to walk away🤦🏽‍♀️🙏🏽umm sir I'm 41 years young, and My peace means everything to me. I am really happy for her ,Praying for the both of them in Jesus name amen 🙏🏽💪🏾💫💗.

Tia divorce has overshadowed her sister new book.

When you say you want to seek happiness and grow ,I think that can be done within the confines of marriage. If you find out you've been leaving for your husband, children, friends and siblings and you say you want to start living authentically then you leave a marriage but don't leave your siblings and children then it's not authentic living that's the problem. Ten there's something about the man she isn't telling us. Nevertheless,I wish them well individually