how to become your dream self | self-actualization |

how to become your dream self | self-actualization | | @tiffanylaibhen

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10 ай бұрын

🤎 pre-order your self-love journal prompts here: www.tiffanylaibhen.com/shop - limited amount arriving before Christmas + New Year 🤎
I've been stuck on the term "self-actualization" for a few months now... because I truly believe it's what we are all striving for.. we're adding this to our arsenal + our foundation of creating the life we really desire. grab your bevy of choice, sip with me + enjoy!
Books that changed my life + that I plan to read:
www.amazon.com/shop/tiffanyla...
Podcasts:
On Purpose w/ Jay Shetty podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...
Super Soul Sunday: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...
The Marie Forleo Podcast podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...
Therapy for Black Girls podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...
Other: search motivational videos for insert what you're working on on KZfaq.
find all my links + other socials here:
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@TiffanyTV 7 ай бұрын

just dropped some self-love, self-awareness prompts + convo starters that I think will really help you guys through these moments 🙏🏾 : www.tiffanylaibhen.com/shop

@tiffanyjlowe 10 ай бұрын

‘You can cry, but keep going’ 🙌🏾

@TiffanyTV 10 ай бұрын

emotional go-getters 🥹😭

@TASHIEMUSIQ 10 ай бұрын

Felt!!! 🙌🏽✨

@royalpriestess3467 10 ай бұрын

That’s powerful 🙌🏾🤍

@ivylin8103 10 ай бұрын

I do this

@dv1541 9 ай бұрын

Please do a video on the books that aided you through the process

@keishacomerford2698 9 ай бұрын

Hi sis thanks for sharing this video. I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago, I’m now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family &friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself . This is to encourage someone “you can start anytime to have a reset it’s worth it! I’m striving to continue growing cus it’s a journey 💗

@gerainduany5710 9 ай бұрын

Congratulations sis! Thanks for encouraging others with your story, I will love to get tips from you too

@keishacomerford2698 9 ай бұрын

Change your mindset, read self-help books, expand knowledge, budget and don't spend on impulse, save, take your finances seriously, eat healthy, exercise your body, meditate; the list goes on... I hope it is useful to you.

@gracedaniels6172 9 ай бұрын

How did you grow to 6 Figure ? I’m honestly trying to work on my personal finance this year.

@zahorushi2277 9 ай бұрын

Congratulations ma'am that's a great accomplishment keep it going

@keishacomerford2698 9 ай бұрын

I learnt to be frugal, minimal on spending, saving and paying myself first through Investing, made Plans, growing passive income, Read a lot of books on finance, followed my plan consistently.

@zamangibamaphalala6299 8 ай бұрын

I truly consider you my mentor. I've search high and low to explain what I felt. I was fed up with my "old self" yet I could not get to where I see myself. I felt like something is wrong with me that no one can relate. I came across your channel and boy oh boy. Thank you is not enough. Truly

@kendrabullock9165 9 ай бұрын

I’m reinventing myself for the seventh time. I need this. I wanna be consistent I want to see a change.

@TiffanyTV 9 ай бұрын

as many times as you need to until you find YOU ✨💫

@krystalnykole 9 ай бұрын

Literally found you today and I’m obsessed! Your channel is definitely what I need on this new journey! THANK YOU!

@TiffanyTV 9 ай бұрын

you’re welcome love 😌🤎

@shawntelchinn84 10 ай бұрын

Your view on spirituality really speaks to me. Right now I’m not quite sure how I should be approaching it. I grew up in church too but lately I’ve been feeling pulled to really finding out who God is for myself.❤

@TiffanyTV 10 ай бұрын

take your time + talk directly to God. tune everyone else out. I’m a huge believer that God speaks to each of us differently. sending you lots of love on your journey 🤎🤎🤎

@shawntelchinn84 9 ай бұрын

@@TiffanyTV Thank you Tiffany!!!🥰

@Leah.MonetW 8 ай бұрын

Two years into motherhood, and I love it , that being said I also feel though that since becoming a mom I have completely lost myself , I’ve been on this journey to learn how to confidently show up for me, to find that women, and these videos have been hitting the nail on the head. You are always evolving Tiffany, your channel has always been a fav of mine and I’m here for it all. Thanks for sharing.

@tayc26 9 ай бұрын

This entire video brought me to tears. I've been trying to build myself back up after taking a mental health leave from a toxic workplace and it has ruined my self esteem and brought me to such dark places. I just turned 28 last month and I feel so incredibly lost right now but this has truly brought so much hope for me. I need to reconnect with my authentic self and the woman I want to be. You are so inspiring, beautiful and powerful! Thank you for all of your honesty and light. You don't know how much I needed this! So happy I found your channel.💗

@TiffanyTV 9 ай бұрын

hi love! I’m about 2 weeks late but checking in on you. hoping all is well + that you’re slowly taking the steps the reconnect with yourself + listen to what’s next for you 🤎 let us know how you’re doing

@TASHIEMUSIQ 10 ай бұрын

Your content is proof that no matter how many people are doing a thing, who we are, can have an impact on specific individuals. I have been searching for someone who I feel like aligns with my thought processes, and where I am in my life. I love your vibe, your energy and your content. Keep it up! New follower here; looking forward to going through more videos and working on myself. Thank you so much for sharing. Take care. 🙏🏽✨🌞🌻

@TiffanyTV 10 ай бұрын

whew. that first line hit deep. thank you thank you for this message, love 🤎🤎

@TASHIEMUSIQ 10 ай бұрын

@@TiffanyTV 🙏🏽💚

@NaturallyPrettyBrownK26 3 ай бұрын

I’m in a better space now and have recognized through therapy that I expect too much too soon with people and having serious issues with trusting others because of past hurts.. I am no longer hurt by the actions of previous friendships this is my affirmation!!! I am moving on in positivity and love ! I cried then added working out, journaling, reading and staying focused on my goals ❤

@mariahshepherd2609 6 ай бұрын

Woman! 💪🏽 I thank you for your obedience to THE TRUTH - GOD. You are helping me and letting your light ✨️ shine.

@CarmenOlympia 8 ай бұрын

I LOVE how you said "if you are a silly and bubbly person, dont dumb yourself down..." Honestly Ive been told Im dumb many times because of my bubbliness and to actually hear you say that made me so incredibly happy and like, oh my goodness yes, yes yes! thankyou!

@TiffanyTV 8 ай бұрын

find your people babe! there are tons of people who will appreciate the light you bring 🤎

@Shayisbackagain 9 ай бұрын

You speak GOLD

@SamanthaToTheFullest 8 ай бұрын

I am so grateful for this channel

@marquisstarks9471 7 ай бұрын

Thank you so very much Tiffany. Being yourself is a superpower!

@Mhmm_Laken 9 ай бұрын

❤ this! A well rounded and grounded woman!

@leticiadosanjos7106 9 ай бұрын

I can express how thankful I am for you and for your message ❤ thank you

@lexiebboutique 10 ай бұрын

You are amazing at this I'm so happy I found your channel 💖

@TiffanyTV 10 ай бұрын

thank you soo much 🙏🏾🤎

@journeywithzen 5 ай бұрын

Loved this so much, thank you Tiffany🤍💫🌙🕊️

@blusaura7409 8 ай бұрын

Girl you are saving me

@carolpeters2001 8 ай бұрын

I absolutely LOVE your channel! Sooo needed at this phase in my life! Thanks!!!

@completelichrissi175 9 ай бұрын

Thank you, thank you thank you. You are amazing. You don’t understand how badly I needed to hear this.

@ellecandy2109 6 ай бұрын

this was a beautiful affirming video. wow. thank you.

@carleneclark1702 10 ай бұрын

Again.. Great info.. For the un-married people. Become what you want to Attract… For all categories, spiritual, mental, physical, emotional and psychological..❤❤👍👍🪻🪷🌺🌸🌼💐❣️💗🌷🩷💘🤎💝

@TiffanyTV 10 ай бұрын

yes absolutely!

@shadinadeguzman9497 9 ай бұрын

You are such a blessing! I love, love your channel and that you are sharing this journey with us🥰👑

@user-tv8fj5sv6x 9 ай бұрын

Just found you Tiffany at the right time of my life..."keep going" is what i needed to hear today. YES to meditation, spirituality, podcasts, books, you tube, therapy it can be overwhelming but rebuilding yourself and releasing what no longer serves you is some powerful stuff...you can't go back to being who you were once you begin this journey. Beautiful!

@TiffanyTV 9 ай бұрын

yes! but one small step at a time so it’s not extremely overwhelming. sending you so much love on your journey 🤎

@Mely365 8 ай бұрын

I love you Tiffany and I am thankful for you ♥ Thank you for being that voice of inspiration that many of us need ♥

@jazzg1540 6 ай бұрын

Thank you, this was the message I needed this morning. 💛

@dreamsofjasmine3085 10 ай бұрын

Don’t you just love coming across people who have had parallel journeys to yours. Makes you feel less alone. Your video just popped up in my recommended today, I’ve never seen you before but when you said the name Shanel Cooper Sykes, I was like WAIT A MINUTE. thank you for sharing ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@TiffanyTV 10 ай бұрын

y’all don’t understand… when you guys comment + say you feel seen, so do I! sharing + connecting with y’all is 🤌🏾 … and yes she was my girl! welcome girl 🥰🤎

@tonya_LocdNurse 8 ай бұрын

Thank you for this. I’m at the point where I’m ready for a change. So let the work begin.

@Memkoh 9 ай бұрын

Thank you, thank you, thank you! You spoke power back into my life.

@lashaehope6218 6 ай бұрын

Thank you for being and inspiration! You are amazing from your energy/aura to your calming voice! Continue to shine that beautiful light❤

@SunkissedAmelia 14 күн бұрын

Whew! These videos be hitting different every time!! Thank you! 🙌🏽

@twylalove8857 9 ай бұрын

❤ Love this! That finding your fashion sense without trying to look like all the curvy girls and not feeling the greatest when it just doesn't hit right. More on this and finding your own fashion that fits you please!

@shedoesnail.s6391 8 ай бұрын

This is the first time I come across one of your videos, and as a girl who just entered her twenties and has been trying so hard to become who she knows she is in the process of becoming, this was helpful. Thank you ❤️ I love your vibe and energy.

@VirgoRiver08 8 ай бұрын

I am so happy i found your channel. I take notes on your wise tips and put them up on my white board as a reminder to act with intention towards my self growth and powerful woman i am❤️

@brownie68 7 ай бұрын

Thank you fot taking time to create these positive videos and for shariing the links to more beautiful podcasts/books and good energy. 🙏🏾

@MedicineWombanTalks 9 ай бұрын

Hey sister, thank you soul much for sharing your light!! 🦋

@childinchrist.3799 8 ай бұрын

Came across u a week ago. And literally u have helped me so much u don't even know.

@charitymukungah 8 ай бұрын

Thank you sis you are God sent, I needed this❤

@0XMissyPX0 3 ай бұрын

All of this resonates so much. Thank you for this ❤

@TiffanyTV 3 ай бұрын

you’re soo welcome 🤎

@pallavisaha5343 8 ай бұрын

So authentic

@TNT_1398 9 ай бұрын

Ahhh yess I relate her talking about sensuality! I hate how people degrade your value because you literally love your body. The world has conditioned as to be "conservative" and not to attract men but why can't they control themselves instead? Men might be stronger physically but the way a woman moves is through the power of mind. It's literally in the tales such as medusa, siren mermaids, etc. Women known for seducing.

@ebony7479 8 ай бұрын

Every evening I watch these videos and they align so well with what I’m doing ❤ such a blessing and I take notes to keep my journey going 😊

@Avamommie 10 ай бұрын

Thank you for being an inspiration and bright light for others ❤

@TiffanyTV 10 ай бұрын

I appreciate you love 🤎🤎

@breneshiawashington3298 10 ай бұрын

you’re honestly helping me with becoming whoever it is i’m meant to be. your videos not only are inspiring but it’s helping me to see me differently and i really appreciate it.

@TiffanyTV 10 ай бұрын

I lovvve to hear it #growth 🤎

@ebonysmith7155 8 ай бұрын

Beautifully spoken!

@LondraAereyll20 8 ай бұрын

Your videos are truly a blessing to me! You have know idea how everything you're saying speaks to an area in my life that I am struggling with. Thank you for doing the work, thank you for sharing and showing up. I can only speak for me but your willingness to do the work and show up in your purpose has created a positive domino effect and helped to nudge me a step closer to mine. I pray I can do for others, what you've done for me. God Bless!

@califlower7 8 ай бұрын

I love your videos so much. I am in the process of doing the work and really trying to connect with my authentic self and this video has helped me so much to understand what steps to take to move forward on this journey. Thank you so much for the wonderful person that you are and the content that you create 🌸✨

@tennillebutler2543 9 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing! Your message has really helped me shift today and begin to ask myself questions about who it is I really am verse how I I’ve been showing up. ❤

@tianamariecreates2245 8 ай бұрын

You are a blessing sis and truly working in your calling! Thank you!!

@TiffanyTV 8 ай бұрын

thank you love 🙏🏾🤎

@ayannabeyah 9 ай бұрын

This was exactly what I needed to hear! Thank you for being a light ✨

@TiffanyTV 9 ай бұрын

thank you for tuning in love🤎🤎

@user-sd6vr5nr6q 8 ай бұрын

I just watched 2 videos while getting ready for work thank you !

@konfidentlothevirgo 9 ай бұрын

great tips.thank you

@jenellemichael996 8 ай бұрын

You’re so amazing, thank you for this!

@wamuyuesther5938 8 ай бұрын

Hello, am glad the universe brought this to me. Am at the rock bottom on many things and I have been trying to see where I am going wrong and now I understand what I need to do. You are a blessing to me. Am restarting this journey.♥

@Soulful_luv 8 ай бұрын

I just stumbled upon your channel recently, and I'm so grateful that I did! This video was not just a visual treat but a profound message. The passion, authenticity, and positivity you radiate are not only captivating but incredibly motivating. Your words and insights struck a chord deep within me, compelling me to pause, reflect, and embrace challenges with renewed vigor and optimism. The way you connect with your audience is a true gift, making each viewer feel understood and valued. Your channel is not just a source of entertainment; it's a beacon of inspiration, encouraging us all to strive for the best within us. Please continue sharing your light and wisdom. You're making a genuine difference, and I can't wait to see where your journey takes us next! Thank you for being the amazing, beautiful soul that you are. 🌟

@shondarby 7 ай бұрын

I really appreciate this video so much. I am a Content Creator also . I want it so bad ,but timing, just thinking am i enough had me questioning myself. It is very calming to see you have dealt with similar emotions. But also seeing you flourish really motivates me to keep going and to never give up. Love everything about this video.

@sarahadams3407 8 ай бұрын

This is deep and certainly universal ❤You are such an intelligent young lady.. Thank you 🫂

@im_favored 8 ай бұрын

This was so good, thank you!

@mariaeduardasousasilva6551 9 ай бұрын

omg I am so glad I found your channel! Thank you so much for your words

@andilememezi5575 8 ай бұрын

The Universe brought you to me with today being my first day of self actualization. I now feel less anxious and I feel like your video has given me direction but I must say I'm still very scared. THANK YOU🙏

@dinishanagalingam4515 8 ай бұрын

stumbled upon your page a week back and boy i am glad i did! this vid in particular i can absolutely relate to. thank you for having the courage to talk about this. you eventually find your circle. :)

@roshianderson 9 ай бұрын

For what it’s worth you are doing great! I really resonate with your videos! You give advice that you can tell comes from love, a genuine heart and growth! Your content is much appreciated! Keep going, don’t doubt yourself, you’re providing a lot of value to others ❤

@TiffanyTV 9 ай бұрын

received 😌🙏🏾 thank you so much love!

@flowkaylabella 9 ай бұрын

You are going to be sooo successful and prosperous in this avenue of content creation. This truth that you’re sharing is so powerful! It resonates deeply. Thank you for deciding to do this work and to share this side of yourself with the world🤍 I’m tuned in!

@TiffanyTV 9 ай бұрын

🥹😭 received! thank you so much for these powerful words. I truly appreciate you! 🤎

@TNT_1398 9 ай бұрын

I related so much about retaliating. I had a value of treat others how they treat you because most times they're unaware of themselves and for them to only realize is the hard way of experiencing it themselves. People don't listen just by words but by how you make them feel. Then eventually I didn't like how I myself have become the person I didn't like. I finally understood what people meant about staying silent, remove yourself from the situation or remain acting kind in a heated situation. It wasn't for the person who didn't deserve it, it's for you to remain true to yourself knowing you can approach an argument in a calm and kind way. I'm still work in-progress letting go of this value. At the end of the day, I don't want to lose control of my emotions.

@Nana-rn2li 9 ай бұрын

you have said literally everything I've been trying to get myself to actualize for the past couple of months. Thank you for this video truly! I cant wait to be consistent on my journey to my best self

@TiffanyTV 9 ай бұрын

3 weeks late 😅 buttt I hope your self-actualization journey is going well 🥰🤎

@theresabennett915 8 ай бұрын

Thanks for the video. Blessings!🙏

@nickeyfarrell8374 8 ай бұрын

I really love this particular video

@TiffanyTV 8 ай бұрын

thank you! 🤎

@ThePatriciaPatrick 9 ай бұрын

Wowwww this video brought me to tears as I have been on this journey too since 2013. Started following Shanel and listening to every work she had on KZfaq, Facebook and Instagram. I watched every bit of super soul Sundays too. I’m glad to have found your channel🙏🏾🙏🏾

@TiffanyTV 9 ай бұрын

yesss I still watch Super Soul! + I wish Shanel was still active. such a gem 🤎

@feistyangeloflove 9 ай бұрын

finding your channel at the most divine, perfect time for my journey. thank you SO much for your wisdom and the way that you convey it. i feel the love and strength from you.

@TiffanyTV 9 ай бұрын

thank you for these beautiful words. I’m really happy this content found you at this divine time 😌🙏🏾

@AntigonesWay 9 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for this!!! This was one of the most in-depth videos I’ve seen about self-improvement step by step. BRAVOOOO!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ Thank youuuu so much!!!

@Moneamadeit 10 ай бұрын

Thank you for this. You are doing amazing .!!! You are in alignment. You are inspiring me. 🙏🏾

@TiffanyTV 10 ай бұрын

😌 received!

@achatwithgoitse 9 ай бұрын

So so good!!

@souana.ribeiro 9 ай бұрын

Hi Sis, thank you for sharing! It’s so good to find someone that has gone through the same things as us ♥️ we are not alone!

@TiffanyTV 9 ай бұрын

we are definitely not alone! you’ve found your people 😌🤎

@millyasfaw9605 9 ай бұрын

ive followed you from the start ! and I love this for you! and this came at the right time for me because i felt that ive lost myself over the years. and im ready/NEED to work on myself

@TiffanyTV 9 ай бұрын

wow! you’ve seen all the transitions 🥹 thank you for sticking with me love. I’m sending you alll the love at this part of your journey 🤎

@destinythorbourne1340 9 ай бұрын

I just found your KZfaq channel today and I am obsessed with you. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and I’m very grateful to be in the place that I am in right now in my life where I’m finding your videos that are in alignment with what I’m currently workin on. Love this you’re amazing !! Thank you again please keep going !

@TiffanyTV 9 ай бұрын

you’re so welcome love + thank you for your support 😌🤎🤎

@maximizedmoney 5 ай бұрын

I was on my hot girl walk while listening to this and had to pause to write down a few things. My word of the year is “becoming” and the questions you posed were soo good for me to consider/pray on. Thank you!! So glad you said yes to you and the direction you want your life (and brand) to go. I’m on the same path ❤

@triciadenice5702 8 ай бұрын

I love this! It seems we’re all obsessed with know “how” a person has done something (which is why self help books and podcast are so popular) I honestly am intentional but I’m unsure of what changes have been beneficial in my life. Your channel reminds me of those very impactful changes that have helped me along my journey

@CassyR267 9 ай бұрын

I felt she spoke to my soul

@TiffanyTV 9 ай бұрын

🫂🤎

@divinelove251 7 ай бұрын

I just found your channel and LOVE IT 🩷 I actually used to watch Chanel Cooper Sikes. She helped me a lot back then! I definitely admired her. Thank you for your content.

@CarasPlace 10 ай бұрын

💛 Your videos are so helpful. I’m so happy you decided to post this content. I’m going to implement daily affirmations.

@TiffanyTV 10 ай бұрын

🙏🏾 those affirmations are life changing

@zakhonambatha 9 ай бұрын

Love this❤ this is confirmation that im heading the right way! Finding me and what i truly love and feels good to my soul is the new ‘peace’, thats my goal ❤ you just gained yourself a new subbie

@TiffanyTV 9 ай бұрын

yes yes yes 🙌🏾🎯 that definition of peace is 🤌🏾

@yesreneau 9 ай бұрын

These videos are so calming

@TiffanyTV 9 ай бұрын

😌🙏🏾

@kembaI. 2 күн бұрын

I love this video.❤

@aliagebethel8646 9 ай бұрын

Needed this today!

@TiffanyTV 9 ай бұрын

🙌🏾🙏🏾

@AtikaGreene 9 ай бұрын

You are speaking my language!!

@Livebeautifullytoday 8 ай бұрын

I absolutely love this video

@TiffanyTV 8 ай бұрын

thank you 🙏🏾🤎

@Casarare1 10 ай бұрын

So glad I came across your videos. Keep pushing & stay true to yourself. ❤

@TiffanyTV 9 ай бұрын

thank you love 😌

@thevoiceoffred9230 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for posting this and sharing how you’ve grown.

@TiffanyTV 9 ай бұрын

thank you for tuning in 🤎

@mandisakhan 8 ай бұрын

This is the best video that has motivated me. I say this because I have experienced everything that you've talked about. I can relate very well. Thank you Tiffiny