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Title: "🤣 TikToks That Gave Me Trust Issues! | Charlotte Dobre"
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Hey there, my awesome internet fam! 😂 Charlotte Dobre here, and we need to talk about something SERIOUS today... TikToks that have given me some SERIOUS trust issues! Can you believe it? 😲
From those jaw-dropping 'before and after' transformation vids to the shocking 'life hacks' that made me question reality, these TikToks are about to blow your mind in the funniest way possible! 💥🙈
I mean, who knew that turning a sock into a gourmet meal could be so deceiving, am I right? 🧦🍔 Or how about those makeup tutorials that turn mere mortals into runway models with a few swipes of a brush? 🙅♀️💄
But let's not forget the classic "life hack" fails that left me scratching my head like a puzzled panda! 🐼 Who knew that trying to peel a boiled egg would lead to kitchen chaos? 🥚🔪
And the cherry on top? Those fitness transformation TikToks that make you question if the couch can replace the gym. Spoiler alert: it probably can't! 😂🛋️💪
So, hit that 'Subscribe' button and ring that 'Like' bell because we're about to embark on a rollercoaster of trust issues that will leave you laughing, cringing, and questioning your existence! 😆🎢
Don't forget to comment down below with your favorite trust-issue-inducing TikTok moment, and let's share the hilarity together! 🤣📲
Stay skeptical, TikTok fam! Charlotte out! 😘💥 #TrustIssuesTikToks #TikTokDeceptions #DobreLaughs
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@davidguidry657 8 ай бұрын
“A delightful story teller”?! Ma’am, I got motion sickness and hearing loss from that story. 😂
@9livesalicat86 8 ай бұрын
Isn't that the truth.
@LazyIRanch 8 ай бұрын
She reminds me too much of a friend who has BPD (borderline personality disorder). My friend will get wound up like this and start babbling frenetically, and it usually ends with her punching someone in the face for no reason at all. We don't hang out any more.
@magietagie 8 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@erikarussell1142 8 ай бұрын
Lmao I thought she was going to give herself whiplash. But at least she was animated enough to keep my adhd Ass intrigued. Lol!!
@erikarussell1142 8 ай бұрын
@@LazyIRanch Holly Shit balls. Lady is unhinged.
@sharonhutchins5784 8 ай бұрын
I’ve got a sister who stays traumatized. No matter what is going on with you, she’s gone through worse. You broke a toe? She broke three. You went through a tornado? She went through a tsunami, floated to a different island, ate coconuts for five years to survive, and was finally taken to the US by a passing tanker who just happened to see her on the beach. Honestly, she’s exhausting.
@veronicasmith7309 8 ай бұрын
Oof. I have a relative like this. Love her to death but she's always got to be the center of attention. Nobody else is allowed to have problems.
@problematique9389 8 ай бұрын
My aunt is just like this.
@maliamichelle2059 8 ай бұрын
I can’t stand people like that.
@sharonhutchins5784 8 ай бұрын
@@veronicasmith7309 They are the worst!
@happy2bhere818 8 ай бұрын
@problematique9389 ugh, mine is too. [Mom's youngest sister] Love her to pieces, but her stories are interesting. My siblings and I give each other side eyes and then try not to burst out laughing.
@saltydroog854 8 ай бұрын
As a chef of 25 years I can say with certainty that depending on how you get a steak cooked, a 30% reduction in weight after cooking is very reasonable. Plus it looks like a chain steak house like outback or Texas Road House, so it may even be frozen and cryovac sealed. Which means it would have given off a lot of liquid in the freezing thawing process, and likely weighed 7.5-8oz by the time it hit the grill, if it was 9oz when they cut and packaged it. I can also tell by looking that's a head cut of a tenderloin, so it's 2 separate muscles coming together, and there is a lot of connective tissue and fat between them that melts away.
@melodys74 8 ай бұрын
All I could see were the grill marks that looked so fake
@myrixica4222 7 ай бұрын
It's still a ripoff, if someone orders a 9oz steak, they expect to be SERVED a 9oz steak, you can try this justifying it as being the pre cooked weight all you want but it don't fly cause that ain't what the customer ordered.
@brec1589 7 ай бұрын
@@myrixica4222If they want a 9oz steak then they will get a raw steak
@minnied84 7 ай бұрын
@myrixica4222 That is not how the food industry works. When you go to the grocery store and buy raw meat, chicken, or fish, you pay per pound. That cost includes non edible product (bone,cartilage) and water. Nobody gets mad when they pay for a 1 pound steak at home but only eat 10 oz of it. Restaurants mark up for profit and so do grocery stores. Don't eat out because anybody giving you 9 oz of edible yield is making you pay for the 12 to 14 oz as purchased product.
@michaeldc951 7 ай бұрын
@@myrixica4222it’s not a ripoff it’s the way things are. If you are really mad about it I’d try considering that maybe you are showing your ignorance on the issue and instead of sounding foolish maybe do a little research into it. Not trying to be insulting, just trying to help you out.
@8bbygirl 8 ай бұрын
I really relate to the second story because I was engaged once after being with the guy for about 6 years and we where planning a wedding and I had already bought the dress and everything. Well I ended up pregnant and my fiancé was getting deployed for most of my pregnancy in the middle of the ocean. I’m sending him letters and putting money on his phone card (my money btw) and I’m also planning a wedding all alone and dealing with motions and everything that comes with being pregnant. WELLL, I find out through a dm that he’s cheating and had been cheating on me for almost a year. So to me that meant he was cheating when I got pregnant and shortly after we got engaged. I was so heart broken but the worse part is not even that he broke my heart and I had to hear it from her. It wasn’t even the fact that he also gave her the address to ship to write him letter OR the fact that he was using MY money to call her. No no… the worst part was when I went to my OBGYN appointment and was told my babies heartbeat couldn’t be found and I needed surgery… it was a hard time and there is so much more to the story but I really feel for that woman that stayed… she’ll get tired one day. We all do.
@cheesepizza4ever 7 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry for everything you wnet through. Really hope you are doing good! ❤
@8bbygirl 6 ай бұрын
@@cheesepizza4ever I appreciate that! It was a sad part of my life but I gotta say I am stronger than I was and happier too(: Life always gets better 🫶🏼
@thecamillarose9806 6 ай бұрын
I hope you ended the wedding
@Lilithd3mon 6 ай бұрын
I’m sorry for all you went through. ❤
@8bbygirl 6 ай бұрын
@@thecamillarose9806 I actually found myself in this whole ordeal and cut all contact. It was very refreshing (:
@LaineyBug2020 8 ай бұрын
If they ever say, "Yeah we still live together but we're not together" you say "Oh, so it's cool if I meet her and we all hang out together?" If the answer is anything other than yes, walk away.
@nowt2957 8 ай бұрын
Yes, this! If they are in a relationship for visa reasons, for example, then the fake partner will be more than happy to meet you and disabuse you of any worries about their relationship.
@availanila 8 ай бұрын
Be careful with this too, you might just get an abused woman. The other day I stumbled on a fool wanting to move to my country with her passport bro husband for polygamous reasons. She didn't really like it but felt she had to to keep her hubby. It was a Reddit story and she was so delulu she kept yelling at women from my country advising her against polygamy for being greedy since her hubby's girl said she was okay with it and hubby said all women in my country love polygyny.
@nowt2957 8 ай бұрын
@@availanila Oh, true, you certainly need to ask questions and get the right answers as well as see the right "mood". Plus there could be a couple who scam. But if it's really for convenience then the mood should be light and the explanations simple and clear. Preferably the other party in the marriage would have somebody else too, even, or there be a strong indication that's how things are.
@bluebutterfly5062 8 ай бұрын
Yeah, this is an automatic nope from me Even if it's true, the potential for drama is clearly not worth it
@squizzyicetea 8 ай бұрын
Idk, if they're an ex I could understand meeting them, but there's NO REASON y'all need to hang out. Sounds toxic af
@karenyoho27 8 ай бұрын
One thing that I heard a couple years ago is not to ask someone “Are you single”?, but instead ask “Is there anyone that believes they are in a relationship with you”?
@AngelLitoParis 8 ай бұрын
😂😂😊
@queerdeificeeli985 8 ай бұрын
Well, there's a chance a cheater could then make their partner seem crazy even though they're not. The only people this helps are people with crazy exes
@sinceslicedbread7422 8 ай бұрын
That's a brilliant, tactical line.😅
@mackenzie8905 8 ай бұрын
@@queerdeificeeli985 run away regardless, because even if that ex IS crazy, you don't want that extra baggage and risk!
@wmason1961 8 ай бұрын
Hmm... I would bet you can see them thinking before they answer. The look on their face in that moment should be revealing. I hope you are looking directly at them in the eye when you ask that.
@Gweem13 8 ай бұрын
“You’re a great storyteller” is one of the first disagreements I’ve had with charlotte in a while. Screaming and shaking the phone around, elongating every few words and fast forwarding the rest to the point that my ADHD ass got completely lost halfway through… it was HARD to sit through that. Plus, she just, doesn’t sound like the good person in this situation. So what if he stayed out all night with the boys? She checked his location and saw he was where he said he was. Maybe he just, decided to stay the night at his buddy’s bc he drank too much and didn’t wanna pay for an Uber late at night, and then out of respect he “snuck in” so he wouldn’t wake her up, out of respect? Idk, that clip was overwhelming. Edit: Someone in the comments brought to my attention that she *isnt* driving, but still, god, imagine being in the car with someone being that loud and over the top, flailing around. Yikes! Still feels like one hell of a distraction.
@FancySpicyTuna 8 ай бұрын
How dare my man not drink and drive! He’s MY man! /s
@larissaalcorn3406 8 ай бұрын
She's not driving. When the camera is switched it reverses the image.
@Gweem13 8 ай бұрын
@larissaalcorn3406 okay, but even if she ISNT the driver, how easy would it be for you to focus on the road as the driver with someone being that loud and flailing around like that? That part wasn't really my main point to begin with, but it still feels like a bit of a hazard to me.
@taigalilly 7 ай бұрын
I'm glad I found this comment. I thought she was EXTREMELY annoying and trying way too hard to be funny. I didn't think about the driving aspect, just my poor eardrums 😅
@Penny91451 7 ай бұрын
I’m glad I’m not the only one. She is really annoying! I watch these videos endlessly during the day and I swear this is the one segment where I always and I literally mean always have to fast forward. Load, obnoxious and just too much
@kristimccabe8288 6 ай бұрын
I'm so glad Charlotte talked about people who use their mental health and/or trauma from their past as a way to get attention or sympathy and what not but then they act like they cant be bothered to also lend an ear or show support for someone else that legitimately needs to talk with someone because they are finally ready to talk about their abuse or their struggles with mentally health or whatnot and then they are told that they are the ones who are constantly trying to monopolize the conversation and make it about themselves and are constantly fishing for attention or sympathy.. that happened to me once when i finally felt ready to share and open up a bit in group therapy and afterwards I got sent a screenshot of this conversation between half of the group from this one woman who started tye like conversation saying how she couldn't believe I was making group all about myself again and she said the same thing about another woman who was only there for her second week and spoke up for the first time.. some people are just so oblivious
@EllForeverYoung 8 ай бұрын
As a woman who has been cheated on and people knew but decided NOT to tell me, I will always advocate for telling a woman if her partner is creeping around. I really wish I was informed so I didn’t waste my time. Unfortunately for me, the girl that was involved with my ex didn’t care that I existed and was a serial cheater herself 🤪 Babes that’s against girl code. And that is why I have trust issues 🤪
@Just1Nora 8 ай бұрын
Honestly, letting people get away with that crap doesn't do anyone any favors.
@psj9640 8 ай бұрын
Same
@ricebeansrockroll882 8 ай бұрын
I would say always tell them, but also be careful. I found out a guy I dated was a cheater and told his gf... she stalked me for 5 years
@midnight_poet_swiftie 8 ай бұрын
im going to use the term serial cheater from now on to describe such people.
@madsb3955 8 ай бұрын
Girl, that's why I don't have friends! Man the amount of times I've tried to trust and have looked like a fkn 🤡 Im happy at peace, ALONE😂
@carissamessina1908 8 ай бұрын
I’m a waitress. The scale Karen makes me so mad! When they say “8 oz steak” or whatever, it’s the weight BEFORE COOKING!!!! It WILL shrink down! Seriously! The fact she brought a food scale is ridiculous! 😂😂😂😂😂
@Booker596 8 ай бұрын
I came here to say this! How do people still not understand this?! Do you take your 1kg pack of chicken back after cooking because it's not 1kg anymore?! And anyway, in their crazy world, how are the cooks meant to guess the shrinkage? "Sorry, this one gone crazy on the shrinkage, we cant send this fully cooked piece of meat out because its too small 😬" 🤣
@RainingRebecca 8 ай бұрын
I came here to say this too lol. Even fast food will say "weight before cooking". What an a-hole. They should have given her a raw steak
@beaz_nutz 8 ай бұрын
Nobody wants her as a return customer. She needs to stay home and learn to cook.
@ScorpionSmurf333 8 ай бұрын
But listen.....whn you put that amount on your menu.....Should you not buy a bigger steak that shrinks down to the size you put on your menu???
@timbrink3586 8 ай бұрын
Yeah but then grocery stores would have to figure that out when they sell it, and a well done steak would weigh less than a rare, where to start? Lol
@strngenchantedgirl 8 ай бұрын
I had trust issues about intimacy and relationships for a long time. But finally I looked around at my really great uncles and male cousins and realized that there are really great men out there. Focus on finding someone with great values that are similar to your own. It doesn’t make your relationship immune to problems but it will mean that the other person isn’t trying to hurt you.
@ClarkeysVlog 8 ай бұрын
For anyone who’s watching/watched suits can we all agree that Charlotte is basically a real life Donna?😅
@user-mp6lh9rk7f 8 ай бұрын
Yes omg yes
@kelseys.1568 8 ай бұрын
My brother tried to pick up a chick at the bar while his wife was pregnant with their 2nd baby. I told my sister in law, she told me to mind my own business 🤷♀️ I haven't talked to either one of them for like 8 years now.
@AngelLitoParis 8 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@BrianAndresScott 8 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry you did the right thing sooner or later she'll learn for herself
@kenyabrunson4985 8 ай бұрын
Or, she won't learn and just stay with the cheater because he plays her bills. It's amazing how many women have this mentality. It's like 1950s never ended.
@user-mp6lh9rk7f 8 ай бұрын
Maybe there in an open relationship or some woman just don’t want to know the truth especially 😮PREGNANT
@Kasey_Taylor 8 ай бұрын
@@kenyabrunson4985 who tf said he was paying her bills? Why do men always think women can’t be self sufficient?
@ms.tinygiant 8 ай бұрын
I advocate for telling the woman or man they are being cheated on. Humans are delusional but eventually the pile of shitty information they get eventually helps them to leave. And it shouldn’t matter how that person responds to you. You did your best in telling them and they will do what they do with that information. At least you were a good human and helped another person possibly get out of a disrespectful relationship.
@BrianAndresScott 8 ай бұрын
You are absolutely right
@SherioCheers 8 ай бұрын
And when that shit stays secret, all of a sudden you end up with genital warts and gonorrhea
@kissit012 8 ай бұрын
Yup. You don’t get to decide how someone responds to anything. You do get to decide if you will share information that can help them.
@ladymorrigan5950 8 ай бұрын
I advocate for telling the person too. I’ve been the one that was cheated on (repeatedly) in the past and somehow being the last to know was one of the worst things about that experience. I had a real friend that gave me the heads up in one instance and I’m forever grateful to her.
@tinaroberts5858 8 ай бұрын
@@ladymorrigan5950same
@swamprat5660 8 ай бұрын
In the US, meat is sold by weight BEFORE COOKING. Almost every package and menu says this.
@nataliedunn5239 8 ай бұрын
My sister was born 6 weeks early and is one of the most level headed, confident and stable people I know. As long as there are no other underlying issues the only time premature means something is in the first 4 or 5 years of life as it can cause a delay in the child's development (usually physical development) after that, they start catching up and you would never know.
@cateyes48 8 ай бұрын
One time I decided to try a dating app and found a guy from my high school on there that just got married. I sent his wife his profile and said she may want to look into it. Turns out, her and the guy both moderated his dating profile because they wanted to see what kind of women would go for him. Then they could mess with them. They saw it as a game and had no shame in telling me. People suck sometimes.
@BrianAndresScott 8 ай бұрын
Wow, that's crazy
@meili2618 8 ай бұрын
They sound like one of those serial killer couples.👀
@karenneill9109 8 ай бұрын
That’s seriously weird. I wonder if they’re actually looking for something kinkier.
@Maiden_to_mother 8 ай бұрын
I wonder if it was more like the man pretending it was a game but low key actually wanting to see other people but had to keep his wife as Delulu as possible
@BrianAndresScott 8 ай бұрын
@@meili2618 I was thinking the same thing
@carmenb7220 8 ай бұрын
When I was waitressing, I started wearing a ring that looked like an engagement ring to work, thinking it would be easy to just flash the ring for unwanted advances.. boy was I wrong. The amount of guys who would say "So? He won't have to know." was shocking. I would always respond "But IIIII would know."
@deannas2778 8 ай бұрын
That happened to me when I worked at a gas station. He even made fun of my ring.
@mermer3168 8 ай бұрын
I worked at Kohl's, and you would not believe how many women I saw buying fake wedding rings. They would tell me it was so that they could work out in peace without being hit on in the gym, or safety issues when out alone or running, etc. I'm sure it didn't help too much, unfortunately. 😢
@romanyroi1 8 ай бұрын
Omg babe same. Used it twice because it was effing worse!
@jworth7203 8 ай бұрын
My husband was in a band the first several years that we were married. He got hit on ALL the time. With his wedding ring in full view. He’d say he was married and the common response was “I don’t care.” To which he’d say, “Well, I do.” A few times, I was standing right there! 😂 One time the chick walked up, gave me a dirty look and told me that I had no chance with him, to F off, he was going home with her. He then said, “no. I’m going home to HER and our two children!” We both just cracked up at her face!
@mermer3168 8 ай бұрын
@@jworth7203 where do people get the audacity to do this stuff? Damn. I'm glad you have a good man though. 🙌
@MellixAmazingg 8 ай бұрын
The married guy story hit a little close to home. Literally was in a "relationship" with a man for a year and a half. He was a very private man and communicated well so I didn't have much doubts. A few things didn't make sense but I didn't look into em. Come to find out he was married with a whole ass baby and when I confronted him he tried to play stupid and tried to remain "friends like no thank you. Broke my damn heart and now I am not the same. I tried to tell the wife but he somehow knew about it even though he didn't have social media. Even went so far as to make a fake profile to tell her. Karma gonna get his ass. You don't mess with a great woman and don't suffer consequences. And when it does happen I'm gonna sit there with my now amazing boyfriend who treats me like the queen I am and we both gonna laugh as his life is in shambles lol
@kawansiesquad6659 6 ай бұрын
Agree, girl was a delightful storyteller, she was hilarious and very animated. Very entertaining 😂
@julianaFinn 8 ай бұрын
I had an ex who used gaslighting like it was an everyday ordinary thing. And this was in the 90s, and the idiot legit had me convinced that I was unstable and hysterical. It took me years to get over it and now I abhor gaslighting, beyond measure. Such damaging emotional abuse.
@nekk-ra7080 8 ай бұрын
You mean it's bad when guys constantly drag you and treat you like everything is wrong about every aspect of yourself? Yeah, it sucks. There are reasons that women don't want to date certain men, and it doesn't involve the 304 area code.
@slove2646 8 ай бұрын
Girl I was married to a world class gaslighter for 27 years and I didn’t even know it until I kicked him out for doing coke in our house where our kids live.
@TheAwesomes2104 8 ай бұрын
@@nekk-ra7080Im just sitting here in my home in WV like.. did people ever think the 304 area code DID have something to do with it??... Wtf am I missing here
@Webojobo 8 ай бұрын
My ex was like this. He escalated to physical abuse and eventually I had to flee to another state because he was planning a murder/suicide that would have permanently removed him, me, and my 3 very young babies. He kept me in hysterics doing mental gymnastics for years and after I got good at avoiding his beatings he decided that wasnt working anymore and he had to do something more drastic to control me. 20 years on and I am still battling debilitating anxiety. I dont have any friends, i never leave my home. I have constant panic attacks and difficulty making friends. My current friend list fits on the fingers of one hand, and they are all on Discord. I didnt have the benefit of counseling and mental health support, so i wasnt even diagnosed until 15 years after I ran away from him. So now I have to live with the fallout of what he did to me and he has yet to face any consequences for breaking an entire human permanently. Even better, most of his family and our friend group from that town took his side. He was very good at winding me into hysterics by mentally torturing me, and then making sure other people only saw or heard me once he pushed me over the edge and I started yelling or crying or begging. He even managed to convince a cop to arrest me after he ambushed me in the dark and beat the crap out of me. I had my eyeball nearly hanging out, bruises all over my face and body, cigarette burns on my face and arms, and very obviously was not a physical match against him. He had one tiny scratch on his neck where i tried to fight him off me. He was a very convincing psycho. IN order to avoid going to jail I had to agree to leave my home and leave my children behind with him, and was told if they were ever called to our house again that I would be arrested for DV. It took me another 6 months after that to get my kids away from him, and he used my kids as a weapon against me every day. One incident he showed up to where I was staying and had my kids in the car screaming and crying and beating on the windows and he locked the doors and just parked there honking the hoorn for an hour. I begged him to let my kids out and tried to make deals with him to roll down the windows and let me comfort my kids. I couldnt hear what he was saying to them like that but seeing them ripped my heart out. I tried to call police but they never showed up. He wasnt technically breaking any laws and I was told to call back if he put hands on me. This sort of hell was repeated over and over and over until I was able to steal my kids back while he was at work. I did eventually get a call from CPS. They wanted to verify that I had the kids with me and wasnt planning to go back to him. I was so scared they wanted my kids. I still have serious trust problems.
@silky0439 8 ай бұрын
Steak not only loses water it loses some fat (Some fat) as well.
@PhantomFerret 8 ай бұрын
The part where that girl was talking about being born three weeks early, and finding it traumatic. I laughed. I was literally born 16 weeks premature and was given 3% chance to survive my birth. I don't have PTSD from the tragedy of my birth, as I don't remember it.
@LazyIRanch 8 ай бұрын
That chick has a screw loose! My earliest memory is of my 4th birthday. The only thing I remember about it was that my dad tried teaching me how to hold up 4 fingers, but my family laughed because I didn't know what to do with my thumb, so I fussed at my own thumb for being in the way. An uncle suggested amputation as the solution and I disagreed vehemently! I dated a guy who was 15 years older than me about 30 years ago. We got on the subject of the Kennedy assassination and he asked me what I remembered about that day, after he told me he was in high school biology class when he heard the news. I answered, "I was two". He looked confused and said, "You were in biology class, too?" "NO! I... WAS... TWO!!!"😂
@cindypicadomolina7814 8 ай бұрын
While this is true, it could depend if her body remembers the trauma, which it does. For example, I have a little brother who was the rainbow baby of our family after my mom lost a baby before him. He had complications at his birth and stayed there in the hospital for a while. He was probed, stuck with needles, etc. He's currently 7 and to this day, has a horrible fear of needles and doctors. My mother says will he mentally may not remember that time because he was a new born, his body does and he does NOT like needles or doctors. Whenever we take him to clinics for check ups, if he says a nurse holding a long plastic bag or a long thing in general like a swab, he immediately thinks it's a needle and starts screaming and crying. And it's the same thing with swabs, ever since he started getting more tests for strep because he would have it often, he now no longer likes the swabs and the moment he sees one, he immediately cries his heart out and reaches to my arms, begging me to take him home. As for doctors, he asks a big shy around them and doesn't talk as much, unless he feels like he's not getting a shot or swabs, he will talk more. I could be wrong, as everyone goes through things differently, but me and my mom genuinely believe my brother's hardcore fear of needles isn't like the common spook kids get and then they grow out of it. He honest to God would rather get sick then have a needle or a swab near him. He will even beg us to tell the doctors his throat doesn't hurt to prevent swab testing
@PhantomFerret 8 ай бұрын
@cindypicadomolina7814 , I'm not denying that. Heck, I have scars from a heart surgery and being fed via G-Tube on my body as a result of my birth.
@bluebutterfly5062 8 ай бұрын
I was born about 8 weeks premature and spent the first 6 months in an incubator. I do believe it was probably traumatizing...but I remember nothing 😆
@thewillow3457 8 ай бұрын
for real. i was born early and dead. that shit doesn't give you ptsd. the beating, abuse, neglect, etc. does lmao
@dancesmokesmile344 8 ай бұрын
9:17 Why does she smell his shirt, and why is she proud for not blowing his phone up? You can’t “let him” be out with his friends, he can go out when he wants to. You can *ask* him not to if if there’s a reason you want him home, but he’s allowed to answer no. A lot of people hang out or until 7 after being out drinking. It’s completely normal. That one story wasn’t sus, but I am concerned so many people don’t trust the people they date.
@soakedpasta 7 ай бұрын
Very true Charlotte. Those kinds of people are very hard to be with. I met a friend online who constantly stayed depressed. I always listened and consoled because I felt bad for him too but he would constantly bring up s**cide in the conversation it was taking a toll on my mental health too. It was really unhealthy . How there are people who treats depression like a competition, about who is the most depressed.
@ivf690 8 ай бұрын
If someone wants trust issues... Once, I dated a guy who lived in another town. We were way too young, especially me so I couldn't go and visit him whenever I wanted (no driving licence, no car, no job or money). That's probably why he chose me. At some point he said that his ex had showed up with a baby, telling him it was his child. Later on he said that he had brain tumor. I mean, you could imagine how devasted I was at that point. One night after I got drunk at a party I decided to call him and a woman answered his phone. Apparently he was married and in a good health but he was simply preparing to leave me by faking his own death. 🤐🤐🤐
@keitumetserammutla3970 8 ай бұрын
Jeez😢
@Flora-vm2zr 8 ай бұрын
One word: sociopath. They do that. And yes, they are that crazy/weird, and do things like pretend to have cancer. One lady married a sociopath and her sociopath hubby told her he got a job in a new city. So she quit her job and they moved. Turns out there was no job, it was fake. They ended up having to live on savings/credit cards (in hotels) until they stayed with friends. She divorced him cause he crazy and later she also he also had a mistress and a baby. (Which she didn't even know about). Another sociopath lady worked at a clothing store (co worker is telling the story). The sociopath lady said she got a rich football bf and that's why she was getting all these nice clothes suddenly. Cause at work she would show up in very very high end clothes and luxury bags. Well, turns out she didn't have a bf and stole the money from work. She ended up getting caught, fired, and then arrested. (^Comments/stories I read on KZfaq)
@brianm4178 8 ай бұрын
Just the other day, a guy on a flight kept making eye contact with me... so after we landed, I approached him and asked if he was single. He said "I'm married, but Im on vacation!" I gave a hand gesture of "after you..." and thanked him for his honesty. I feel really bad for that wife
@thewillow3457 8 ай бұрын
yeah he went on vacation alone for a reason. to cheat on everyone he could
@brianm4178 8 ай бұрын
@thewillow3457 he was with another dude so I can guess alot of things there 🤣🤣
@SimonaShine 8 ай бұрын
This reminds me of my ex manager. He went to Ibiza with a friend and they both left their wives at home. The wives thought they were still in the country, for a business meeting when they were in fact, out of the country, cheating on them. Ugh
@SimonaShine 8 ай бұрын
Wait, were you going to Ibiza?? Cause what?
@ZimVader-0017 7 ай бұрын
@@brianm4178Ooh.... Oh, this just made it juicier 😂
@karitouchette4173 6 ай бұрын
I had a best friend that I shared everything with. No matter what she was the victim even when she would take advantage of others. Yes, they feed off your empathy and suck your soul out. Thankfully, she gave me an opportunity to walk away and that’s exactly what I did.
@sararamosletexier8399 8 ай бұрын
I had a friend who always tried to one up traumatic situations that were real. It kind of made me feel as if my 16:33 things weren't worth anything. It devalues things that happen. If something bad happened like my dad dying, sister overdosing, mom having a stroke she lived with me didn't have a house, trauma all around in family lol (all true stories) she'd come over complaining about her wrist hurting or something. I always knew it was off because nothing was ever wrong with her. Like she had tests done for legs, nerves, periods, I don't know what kind of disorder makes people do that. I didn't even bring up my stuff to her directly or anything either. I sort of leave it up to my friends if their in a mental position to talk. ❤ I never want to hurt anyone. I see people who seriously do try and weaponize trauma. It's maddening for the rest of us. It does not represent those who have went through heavy trauma in childhood that want to heal. CPTSD is so real my dude. ❤ signed big fan who unfortunately has a past lol😅
@mindel13 8 ай бұрын
You do realise this kind of behaviour is characteristic for disorders such as adhd / autism / audhd? people trying to relate and connect to others through similar experiences cause they don’t know how to navigate emotions, social clues …? Also, how bad a situation feels is purely subjective. That does not mean it’s not extremely bad for the person experiencing it. Even if it it’s just a minor inconvenience to others?
@blueStarKitt7924 7 ай бұрын
@@mindel13Like having been SA'd in childhood?🤔
@deedeehogan1783 8 ай бұрын
Charlotte is that Ride or Die friend that will tell it how it is and always looks for the positive in people. Thanks for the honesty and the laughs. Hope you and everyone watching you has a good Tuesday.
@BrianAndresScott 8 ай бұрын
Yes, she is . Have a great day as well
@marycasanova8905 8 ай бұрын
As an old lady, let me break it down. Talking with the boys all night=bar 9-12, strip club 1-3, Poker 3:30-6. All breaks in times are usually greasy diners or fast food. The are actually large amounts of guys who can go out literally for days and not cheat(My 4 brothers, my dad, brother in law, several friends husbands. BUT, there are guys who can "go out for pizza with the guys" for an hour and a half and be on a date. Know your guy. Actually become friends before you become lovers. Be trustworthy, dont play games to make him jealous, so he feels bad behavior is justified. Not all men are creeps, not all women are angels. It's doable.
@BrianAndresScott 8 ай бұрын
Well put thank you
@LazyIRanch 8 ай бұрын
@@BreakofDawn awww, that's so sweet! They both sound like good guys. Sometimes people jump to the wrong conclusions. My mom and her two sisters were very close and best friends as well as siblings. They were always laughing and clowning around. My dad was more serious, but had a dry sense of humor. When I was a teenager, we had all gone out to a nice restaurant. There was 10 of us; the 3 "Cackle Sisters" (my dad's name for them, because their maiden name was "Cagle") their husbands, and some offspring including me. The sisters sat at one table and the rest of us sat at the next table. The waiter came to take our orders but Mom and my nutty aunts were laughing so hard about something that they couldn't talk. The waiter was annoyed and said, "Have you ladies been DRINKING??" My aunt, the oldest and a pastor's wife who never drank, ever, didn't skip a beat and told the waiter, "No, we haven't been drinking but we sure have been popping the goofballs!"🤪 I can't remember what my dad said to the waiter but it something about them being sisters who were born with mental illness. That got the Cackle Sisters cackling even more. I'm surprised we weren't asked to leave. I miss them all so much🥲
@elijah1494 8 ай бұрын
This is smart.
@Stephanie-cl4fu 8 ай бұрын
Yeah, no problem if you trust your man. Though the strip club part is a no for me. WHY always the strip club?!?? I'm visual too, I sure don't need to go there! Plus, doesn't mean it's just looking, so..
@flowersun7879 8 ай бұрын
No good man goes to a strip club when they're committed to someone specially if they have kids.
@cousinnobody3452 8 ай бұрын
You are so right. There is a way to talk about your stuff. A way that opens the conversation and a way that crashes through all emotional boundaries!
@PirateLotusBoutique 8 ай бұрын
For the record, I want to make this clear to everyone! You can be living with an ex and there be nothing there! I was stuck (manipulated) into still living in a house with my ex-fiance so he could continue using my money and live off me and his mom. He used our son to make me stay. I was too scared to move out because I have no family here. We were both single and looking for someone else. There was nothing between us anymore. Happy note, I finally was able to move out and with the most amazing guy now ❤️
@Ca_mi_la 8 ай бұрын
If that's the case, the person is not ready for another relationship. I'm sorry. People should take care of their own life first to stand on their two feet and cure all the hurt and trauma. Theeeeeeen start thinking about meeting someone new, when they've matured. But generally, people just don't care, they just rebound and repeat the same behavior patterns smh
@jerdtgg 8 ай бұрын
My ex, who is sadly no longer in this world, moved in with me early in our relationship. She had anxiety and depression and chose the wrong way to remedy her issues leading to developing a drug habit. I ended things with her but couldnt get her out of my house, she lived with me for another 18 months before getting into trouble and was hospitalized. Her mother drove 4 hours to pick her up from the hospital when she was finally released and my ex went to live with her mom. After her passing the scumbag that got her addicted asked the mom if they faked her death to keep him from trying to contact her anymore.
@Shae_Sandybanks 8 ай бұрын
I was stuck living with my ex for a year as we went through selling the house (I had a mental breakdown). He started seeing someone when we still lived together. We were in no way together.
@sharonhutchins5784 8 ай бұрын
@@Ca_mi_laI completely agree with this. My stupid ex told me that he was seeing someone else. I told him to get out of my house. He says he can’t…he has nowhere to go as the woman he was seeing was still with HER man. I said, “The two of you deserve each other. And it’s still Not my problem. Get out.” He left. Get your crap together. If you are STILL in the house with someone, WAIT. Get on your own. Straighten up. Be a decent human being!
@MaineCoonMama18 8 ай бұрын
I was engaged and lived with my fiance when I was 19-20. Things ended on good terms because we realized we were best friends, not romantic partners. I kept living with him for around 6 months after we broke up (I had moved out of state for him and couldn't afford my own place). Let me tell you, none of the guys I went on dates with during that time cared that it sounded fishy. I would've had no issue letting them say hi to my ex if they asked, but no one asked. 😂🙄
@mavy1557 8 ай бұрын
As a NICU mom whose son was born 8 weeks early and spent 40 days in the NICU the 4th story sent me. 3 weeks early is still 37 weeks…That’s not even premature
@d4ever649 8 ай бұрын
37 weeks is early term. 39 weeks is full term. There is a crucial growth period for the lungs brain and liver between 37 and 39 weeks.
@karenneill9109 8 ай бұрын
My second was born at 37 weeks, we went home less than 72 hours later. Yeah, it’s usually no biggie.
@mavy1557 8 ай бұрын
@@d4ever649 It may be considered early term, but 37w is not premature.
@d4ever649 8 ай бұрын
@@mavy1557but barely makes the cutoff and what it means is some babies could still have serious issues.
@spklyunicorn 8 ай бұрын
Birth at 37 or 38 completed weeks' gestation is associated with increased risks of stillbirth, infant mortality and neurological morbidity. Not premature, but still very high risk.
@kellshere4872 8 ай бұрын
8:42 this girl is great 😂 the vibe she gives off is absolutely fantastic
@jillm.1108 4 ай бұрын
Really? It was like a tsunami.
@JennRighter 8 ай бұрын
Steak weights are for raw steak. They lose liquid when cooked. The weight varies after cooking depending on many factors, particularly how the steak is cooked. But it’s always going to weigh less after it’s cooked.
@amberedwards6821 8 ай бұрын
I call it the “Damsel in Distress mentality” it’s those people who are so addicted to sympathy or being saved by someone because of the attention they get that they always talk about things, create connections to trauma or create scenarios to be saved from.
@user-blob 8 ай бұрын
It’s not just ‘damsels’ 😊
@Just-Nikki 8 ай бұрын
My ex sister in law would have “ anniversaries “ for bad things in her life. She was always depressed because it was the anniversary of her gerbil dying or the anniversary of nine million different breakups or bad news she got, etc. There was ALWAYS something.
@amberedwards6821 8 ай бұрын
@@user-blob no not always just girls… but regardless your gender or identification or pronouns… it’s still acting like a “damsel in distress”
@amberedwards6821 8 ай бұрын
@@Just-Nikki right!?! I know someone, smh, who creates situations like hooked up with a guy to make her ex jealous and when her ex found out she flipped it to he assaulted me please help. Or another time gave her hotel key to “new friends” she met the day before when she was living at a hotel with her kids and called her ex to come help her when they robbed her. She milks as much attention and sympathy she can get and creates the drama to get it.
@user-blob 8 ай бұрын
@@amberedwards6821fair enough 😊
@antonialunarius9564 8 ай бұрын
14:40 This man getting Trauma Dumped! GORL you’re supposed to save that for later in the friendship 😭
@hana_wana 8 ай бұрын
Omg this reminded me of something, I was sitting in class and the teacher told us to work with the person next to us. I didn’t know this girl. But as we’re working (I’m doing most of the work because she’s talking) she just randomly is like, “Oh my gosh, I might have to call my mom.” And y’know, I was confused so I was like , “What’s wrong?” And this girl literally goes, “This project reminded me of how I was born 2 weeks early and I spent a while in the ICU. Because of that I had epilepsy when I was four.” I was so confused, like girlypop, you can’t recover from epilepsy. Yeah, there’s strategies to manage it but I don’t think you can’t recover from it. She was literally like, “It was just so awful to spend all that time in the hospital.” Girl, you were a baby. You cannot remember that. Also just for context: I was born three months early. I’ve had lung problems ever since and still struggle with asthma today. So when this girl starts complaining about how she was born two weeks early, I was so confused. I don’t tell people I was born three months early and only my friends and teachers know I have asthma. Also, I’m pretty sure this girl was lying because in our class she’s always using dead family members as an excuse for not doing her assignments. Ma’am that is 4 uncles, 3 aunts, 2 grandmas, and your mom. I don’t know if it actually happened like that, but considering I saw your mom pick you up from school it was probably a lie. So the exact next words that came out of my mouth were, “Oh, well I was born three months early. I spent over a month in ICU and my parents had to switch all the pastels in my room to shades of gray because my eyes weren’t developed. I still have asthma because of it and I almost had an asthma attack going up the stairs in our school. But I don’t remember what happened when I was born, so how do you?” And this girl just stared at me in shock. Then she started yelling at me, saying how I ‘stole her moment’ or something. It was literally so stupid. But because she was yelling at me the teacher came over and gave her detention. (Damn I wrote a lot. Sorry if this doesn’t make sense. Also, this girl still hates me, it’s been three years.)
@SimplyTiggs 8 ай бұрын
As an empath who has dealt with the FeedersTM firsthand, it is NOT fun- you do regret caring 😭 but show them that you don’t care anymore by loving yourself and proving their victim acts wrong
@Maiden_to_mother 8 ай бұрын
We need a video dedicated to all of charlottes nightmare dating stories 😂 I feel like she went through a lot before meeting Mike. Our journey to finding our person is never an easy ride, I’m still on it myself, took a pit stop, not dating for at least another year 😂
@Just-Nikki 8 ай бұрын
She made a whole tv show pilot based on that. It’s called “ The Swipe Life “
@kristenkidd3982 8 ай бұрын
Thank God I'm not dating anymore but if a man ever told me he was living with his ex for some reason but not with her anymore, I'd need confirmation from HER first
@WickedSk8rGrl 8 ай бұрын
When someone brings up trauma like it’s a thing to casually talk about for attention. HATE THAT had a friend like that and she was so depressing
@yellowpillpeople4745 8 ай бұрын
I have been married for 20 years now and we are both terrified of the dating stories we hear from friends. it is crazy out there.
@asiab.00 8 ай бұрын
Best part of my day is when Charlotte uploads, i can forget about all my troubles for a few minutes, or have her playing while i’m cleaning lol 🧼
@CharlotteDobre 8 ай бұрын
Love that!
@BrianAndresScott 8 ай бұрын
Me too
@jeanams07 8 ай бұрын
@@CharlotteDobre I feel like my day isn't complete if I haven't watched your video. I really feel like something is missing on the occasional day you take a much needed break, or I am just so busy I don't have any time to sit down and watch it that day. It like a little daily check in with a friend.
@Bethsabee_Sheba_Newrose 8 ай бұрын
“Charlotte’s face on things” is so friggin genius 😂 It’s such a powerful antidepressant it could easily make the pharmaceutical form obsolete.
@erikarussell1142 8 ай бұрын
Ikr?! Kelly is the best editor.
@lotstodo 8 ай бұрын
They put her face on a body in a casket one time, it killed me!
@Bethsabee_Sheba_Newrose 8 ай бұрын
🤩 Thank you for the Love!
@Bethsabee_Sheba_Newrose 8 ай бұрын
@@lotstodo 😂😂 You nailed that one 😂😂
@Bethsabee_Sheba_Newrose 8 ай бұрын
@@erikarussell1142 She sure is! Legit genius level at that
@sophiakuhn5173 7 ай бұрын
That influencer story is the craziest thing I’ve heard in soooo long 😆
@Penny91451 8 ай бұрын
My boyfriend in the early days told me he had a house with his ex. They hadn’t been together for years and he even lived interstate for years. But when he came back to his state he would stay at the house a few times a week and would help her out financially too. One of my friends insisted it was a red flag… I honestly just respected that he was being honest with me…. Fast track 9 years, the house got sold, we got married and she and I are friends 😊
@ForeverFlower 8 ай бұрын
To the story of the influencer remembering her birth, although memories can hypothetically be formed at infancy, it’s relatively impossible to retrieve (remember) your birth until language is developed. That’s why most people “boot-up” into consciousness and recall memories from 2-4years old, those are the years of learning how to talk. It’s virtually not possible to remember something before theres foundation of language, because you can’t contextualize what you’re experiencing.
@Kayenne54 8 ай бұрын
I recall one event from before I was born. In other words, mother was pregnant with me, I wasn't born yet. Later on, in adulthood, I asked about certain things I "recalled" (watching the man who would be my father at his work); she was astonished and confirmed that yes, he had worked in such and such a place, but it was BEFORE I was born. I didn't "lead" my mother with my questions, just related my "vivid dream/memory" and was any of it based on fact? It was. So it's not impossible to recall things, it could be possible to be traumatized during birth events (cord around the neck can result in people hating ties or scarves or even turtle neck sweaters, and not know why, for example), but it certainly isn't commonplace to recall from when one was pre-verbal. And the fact that hypnotherapy can help people overcome issues, by going back into their past, indicates that at some level, all experiences are stored.
@jenntegt 8 ай бұрын
@@Kayenne54 Respectfully, no you don't. It's 100% a false memory. Even if you could remember the things from the womb, you wouldn't remember things from outside the your mother's body. You wouldn't SEE anything. Hear at most.
@Kayenne54 8 ай бұрын
@@jenntegt Respectfully, when I was describing the "vision/dream" to my mother, I was FLOATING up near the ceiling, looking down, and I floated behind him like a balloon on a tether. I saw him hold his hands behind his back, stop and talk to workers on the factory floor. When I was older, I often saw him walk down the street like that. It was his signature walk, in fact. Respectfully, there are libraries full of researched stories on how people experienced events which fall outside the norms.
@BlueHazyDreams 5 ай бұрын
@@Kayenne54 Yeah and mediums help people grieve... doesn't mean they're actually speaking to our dead relatives. Especially early trauma shouldn't necessarily be taken literally, the brain gets creative sometimes. Doesn't mean the emotions aren't real, but it doesn't mean things happened exactly as we remember them either. I have memories that are in a 3rd person perspective, sometimes there were photos of the event that could have constructed them, sometimes no way there was ever a photo and I suspect I was dissociating as the memories are all stressful. But when you start talking about remembering things you weren't even present to see, you've lost me.
@Kayenne54 5 ай бұрын
@@BlueHazyDreams I confirmed both that my father was employed where I'd "seen" him and that I was yet unborn; mother was pregnant with me. Also, when I pondered it as an adult, I realized my point of view was up near the ceiling, and then trailing behind him. I saw how he walked, and spoke, and acted; his current character was revealed. My mother left him not longer after my third birthday; and at no time did he include me in his work or take me there. He barely acknowledged my existence, actually; my older sister was the "Golden Child". Additionally, I had a meditation which morphed into a vision that involved him and myself in "other personas" or a different incarnation. It was relatively traumatic. Before his passing, I went and visited him especially to mention this "vision" and what had occurred in it. He was so disturbed he went from the room suddenly. After a little while, he came back and asked "How do you know all that?" because he had recalled it as well. I only mentioned it to him in the first place so that I could let him know how to pass safely through the lower astrals after dying.
@justwonder1404 8 ай бұрын
14:03 - lol, I've been told I was in a life-threatening situation as a toddler, don't remember anything. Didn't know I could build my whole personality around it. Feel for the bro, awkward coversations are the worst.
@YoungDymisty 8 ай бұрын
The first story is exactly one of the reasons why I have trust issues with guys and have accepted that it’s probably best I stay single too even though I’m an ace. I’ve been cheated on multiple times and had horrible things done and said to me by men. It hurts when you’re constantly being spoken to like a piece of crap by guys especially online, like the worst things you can think of including racism. When a couple minutes ago, I was the most beautiful thing and it’s been like that since I first came onto social media. And then I’ve always attracted much older men and compulsive liars still till this day, even when I was a child and they don’t see how wrong it is. I always say out of the 100% of guys I’ve spoken to only 2% of them have been genuine and nice. That’s what terrifies me is that most men don’t know how to be respectful and not lie. They tend to lash out if they don’t get what they want and you say no to them, they only hear yes. And I get that not all men are the same, and it’s not fair to say that but I hate hearing that saying because I don’t seem to see those guys that are different very often. I had to stop meeting guys years ago because every experience was horrible and it turned out that they were lying just to get me to meet them. I actually tried to give one person a chance last year as a friend too and he just confirmed exactly why I stopped in the first place. Because I’d actually love to have friends in general but it seems like having friends , especially guys are out of the question.🥺😭 💔❤️🩹Is this anybody else’s experiences too? Xx
@stephaniehall6309 6 ай бұрын
Yes and that’s why I would rather have pets than men , f men and their games
@YoungDymisty 6 ай бұрын
@@stephaniehall6309 100% 🙌🏾💜😩
@heathermarriette-ny1fy 8 ай бұрын
In response to the first story..I can say that my ex and I still lived in the same apartment together after we split. Neither of us could afford to move and get our own place. So yeah that part CAN happen and be true.
@leighannewilliams829 8 ай бұрын
Y’all, the scream I screamt when Charlotte said “….to ‘measure’ meat…”!!! 😂😂😂 I’ve been happily married to my best friend for 9 years, and we were best friends for 8 years before that. I am so thankful for him and our relationship, more and more every day. I feel so sorry for single women trying to have good, honest relationships these days. Charlotte, you’re the daily staple I never knew I needed. Love you! 🩵🩷
@Just-Nikki 8 ай бұрын
Me too girl. I was like “ weigh , you WEIGH meat! “ 😂
@Kayenne54 8 ай бұрын
"screamt' isn't a word, actually, but it totally describes the sound lol.
@leighannewilliams829 8 ай бұрын
@@Kayenne54 I know “screamt” isn’t a word, I was an English major, but it was literally the ONLY word that came to mind that made sense to me at the time, haha. 🤣
@Kayenne54 8 ай бұрын
@@leighannewilliams829 Whenever someone uses it, I just laugh. It's such a funny word, but so descriptive. My eldest daughter, when a toddler, would ask for "nice cream" (ice cream); and we were looking at jewellery in a jewellery store once (when she was older), she pointed at a diamond necklace and said "Oh look, ice". At one point, we'd drive home from grandma's after dark, and she'd point out the window and say "Matcha". Totally perplexed me until I realized she was looking at the television repeater towers, that had a red light for aerial safety on top; and was mixing up the words "match" and "tower". 😁😁
@ms.t7614 8 ай бұрын
My dearest Mom had a horrible experience delivering me and as a joke, every time I was cranky she would say, “oh my poor baby, it must be because of your difficult birth”. Then she’d give me “the Mom look” to change my attitude. ❤😂. I cannot image using it as a line for sympathy from others! 🤣 That girl was the definition of a crazy drama queen. LOL
@LazyIRanch 8 ай бұрын
I couldn't complain about ANYTHING to my mom! She was born in 1920, her dad died in 1925, and her mom died of TB in 1932. Mom and 3 out of her dozen or so siblings were "lucky" and were sent to an orphanage at the height of the Great Depression. That's where she got her first pair of shoes, at age eleven. The girls at the home were taught to sew and not only made their own clothes, they had to make their own period pads and belts to hold them. All the used pads went into a large hamper in their communal restroom, and it was only taken to the laundry once a week. Of course the girls had to wash them themselves... by hand! I'm sure that smell would have gagged a maggot! At age 18, they were adults and had to leave the orphanage even if they had no place to go. Mom was lucky and met and married a handsome young Army Sergeant. Then he was sent to the front lines in Europe to fight nazis. He survived the war but came back with severe PTSD and traumatic brain injury that caused his death about a year after he returned home. Mom was 4 months pregnant with my second oldest sister, so suddenly she was a young pregnant widow with a toddler, no job, but had a car she didn't know how to drive. She taught herself to drive that old Plymouth and after my sister was born she landed a good job as an executive secretary. She bought a house for her and her girls in 1952, back when a single woman couldn't get credit. She figured it all out somehow. Yep, I didn't dare complain to her that my life was hard! She would just laugh
@shawnariggs2485 8 ай бұрын
Seriously I absolutely adore these and wait for them every day. Always so sad when they end. Thank you for making them. You’re amazing.❤ would love them to be even longer😊😅
@Samm0315 8 ай бұрын
I accidentally do the trauma dumping thing and then I end up feeling bad because I don’t even realize how bad it is until it come out 😂😅
@Ash-xt1ej 8 ай бұрын
My jaw literally dropped when she said “they still are together”.
@lindaabbott7120 8 ай бұрын
I have a funny story. I live 125 miles from the cities, my husband goes down to see his best friend Geno. They went to the bar and sat at a table. Some woman walks up to my husband and used the line "where have you been all my life?" My husband, didn't miss a beat and said "125 miles away!" It took him a couple of minutes before he realizes she was hitting on him! 😂😂 been married for 35 years now
@kenmakozume4478 8 ай бұрын
For the influencer ICU story ask them, if the birth had and complications which is still affecting you. If they say no, reply with "I'm so happy for you, that is so great. You recovered........." Don't give them they empathy they don't deserve!!!! Give them congratulations, make it a happy thing.
@elliegray7705 Ай бұрын
As a mom of two preemies it is traumatizing to the PARENTS but the babies don’t know what’s going on. They’re just fighting to survive and they don’t remember
@dinasilva9263 8 ай бұрын
I Always trust that Charlotte will makes us laugh. No matter the day i'm having, Charlotte always makes everything better. Someone needs to give her an award for her dedication to this Channel.♥️
@hind4339 8 ай бұрын
You're so sweet ❤
@dinasilva9263 8 ай бұрын
@@hind4339 thank you!♥️
@jenniferclumpoint190 8 ай бұрын
Yes! Her videos always puts a smile on my face especially when I really need it. Love her 🙌🏾❤️
@dinasilva9263 8 ай бұрын
@@jenniferclumpoint190 🤗exactly, i feel the same!
@JustMyOpinion_1 8 ай бұрын
I had trust issues before this video. Thanks for the validation 😂 Luv to you, Charlotte - The Queen of Petty ❤
@christypriest30 2 ай бұрын
One of my best friends in high school was a foreign exchange student from Berlin and the host family the program assigned her to had the strongest living arrangement I think I’ve ever personally witnessed! On the outside it seemed normal with a husband and wife but in reality they were divorced and still living together but the kicker is that the “wife’s”lover lived there too! They were all really nice people but it was a strange situation
@Lovinia1 18 күн бұрын
First one. This goofy shit is the reason many restaurants have started putting “before cooked” disclaimers on the menus
@SerieAngel 8 ай бұрын
I dont like people snatching my phone... because they might mess up the place i am at in my books 😂
@goodbher9244 8 ай бұрын
As a cute guy I feel attacked, in my 20's I did usually have a few people in rotation, but I was always honest about that when I was hanging out with new people.
@dolormodicumuna5800 8 ай бұрын
Can confirm that as someone who has had cancer and is a people pleaser, the disease to please is just as bad
@karengoodenough827 8 ай бұрын
I’ve never heard the term weaponized for mental health, but omg! We have to normalize that term asap, I know so many, including some relatives who absolutely fit that term
@missyblake2945 8 ай бұрын
I love and appreciate how much effort charlotte and her team put into the videos 😊 also doesn't matter how bad my mental health is, your videos always make me laugh or smile ❤ thank you
@CharlotteDobre 8 ай бұрын
That makes me so happy!
@melanie_meanders 8 ай бұрын
this!! having a bad day today but her vids always manage to pick me up.
@jeffreysherman8224 8 ай бұрын
9:00 Oh my gawd! This chaotic energy is so attractive! I'm here for every bit of it! 😂
@SuperVolsung 3 ай бұрын
Her hair getting more and more chaotic as the story progressed was everything
@mynameismal3247 8 ай бұрын
Such good storytellers ❤ seriously love these videos
@rn2787 8 ай бұрын
Either he was cheating or they were drinking and playing video games until 7 in the morning. All they had to do was text the girl and tell her what was going on.
@queenbee137 8 ай бұрын
So aside being perpetually jealous of your hair, I love that shirt. Have a great day, Charlotte! ❤
@user-blob 8 ай бұрын
I also like the shirt 😊
@User39123 8 ай бұрын
I have to say Char. I moved back to the Midwest last week and was so sad today when this happened: I’m having a lazy day- slept in and I decide that I will get up after I watch your video. So I wait for 10am to come around and nothing. I keep checking and it’s 10 min before I realized that you now upload at 11am my time. I was so sad. Bc I had to wait until tonight to watch. Your videos always make my day a little brighter! Thanks to you and your hard working team for all that you do to bring a laugh to us. ❤
@arimurila 8 ай бұрын
Just in case some people don't know, the menus tend to have the weight of steaks PRE cooked. For the people asking about why don't they put the weight after cooking instead of pre cooked... it varies depending on how much water evaporates and how much fat renders out through the cooking process, so it will be lighter the more you cook it. Therefore, if you want it well done, it will be lighter than a medium-rare steak. It makes sense to put them on the menu at their most uniform state, pre-cooked.
@knifeyonline 8 ай бұрын
I actually saw it written on the sign at multiple places (weight will be less when cooked) 🤣
@kelst75 8 ай бұрын
Yeah, I went out on a few dates with a guy. And at one point, he told me his parents were divorced when he was a kid and I said "me too". I didn't think it was a big deal. A lot of people's parents are divorced. But he would keep mentioning it. We went out with friends if mine, and they told me he mentioned it to them. It was just weird. We were in our 30s. My dad had just died just recently and he knew that, but I got the feeling, he thought his parents divorcing was worse. We had talked about the divorces(my father cheated and was an alcoholic), he didn't know why his divorced, but it was embarrassing for him at school. It was just weird.
@jewels964 8 ай бұрын
15:06 those two black dots on the wall above his head i literally thought they were on my phone screen and tried to wipe it off 🤣🤣🤣 and seriously the more ppl i meet the more i stay home 🤣
@shaunah.1165 7 ай бұрын
My roommate at the time and I invited some work friends over one night. Just 2 girls we both knew. 1 of them, we can call her Tori decides to invite her "partner" and her infant son over without asking us. We don't make a big deal out of it and just roll with it. They proceed to make the entire night about them and would essentially feed off each other and kept telling us traumatic things they'd been through. It was as if one would finish their story and the other would start a new story. After a few hours we found a way to end the night, we couldn't take it anymore. The 3 of us had been giving awkward knowing glances all night back and forth as if to say "WTF is going on right now?!" Once the family had left we all felt drained and traumatized ourselves, the other girl we invited coined the nights event as " emotional waterboarding." We completely agreed. I think I hung out with her about 3 times total and I had to end that friendship, it kept going like that. Just weird and uncomfortable memories with Tori....
@jodiemoss3468 8 ай бұрын
I had something similar with a guy telling me he was living with a room mate. That they had been dating originally but were just friends. We started “dating “ and attended Uni together, everyone at uni were happy for us, his best friend was going out with one of my friends and when he found out we were together he went quiet… I eventually found out he was engaged to this woman!! And they were getting married at the beginning of the next year!! I wa Ali if and angry and felt awful . When everyone in our class found out they just were livid on my behalf. Imagine a class of nurses against you! I met my now husband a few months later and at our graduation ball he tried to slide up to me and hook up with my partner right there!!! Dude no! It still gives me the Ickes everytime I think about it. But I have the most amazing husband and we have been together 20 years this year!
@sarahlovee1865 8 ай бұрын
Sometimes I like to vent all my shit to strangers online That way it stops eating me up inside and I haven't severely damaged any relationships in my life by expressing it to them
@ashmac87 3 ай бұрын
Yeah, I get it. I'm a recovering trauma dumper 😅
@breannemartin4764 8 ай бұрын
I ordered the “disease to please” from a past video because of you! Helps me put me first because I am a nurturer by nature and people take advantage every time. Gotta put ourselves first!❤
@WhatTheWHAT524 8 ай бұрын
Good for you! I hope for the absolute best for you! You definitely deserve to make sure you are taken care of. Besides in the end, we're no help to anyone if we're not ok ourselves. Best wishes to you and yours! Make sure you're taking care of you first and foremost because you're worth it! 💖
@TwoTewToo 8 ай бұрын
Same!❤
@Ca_mi_la 8 ай бұрын
If people take advantage it's not because you are a nurturer, it's because you don't have good boundaries. I'm happy you're putting yourself first ! Keep it up, respect and love yourself
@Randomnamepoop 8 ай бұрын
Ooh loving these long videos xxx❤
@andreabradley5837 8 ай бұрын
I have a male friend that I and another female friend ended up partying with all night playing Jenga. I spent an hour on the phone the next day trying to convince his girlfriend that it was all that happened. Also, it was a 30 mile drive for him to get home and none of us were in any condition to drive. He should have called her though and let her know. Sometimes people get partying and time slips away. Don't cheat.
@phoenixAquarium 8 ай бұрын
15:53 And those people Charlotte are called failed narcissists. It's a real term
@davidguidry657 8 ай бұрын
That first video is proof that Miss Charlotte actually is good at math. 😉
@yjvs1009 8 ай бұрын
I love how many times Charlotte tells the story of the guy snatching the phone cause he was married😊😊😊 That left a scar. Love you Sis...❤❤❤❤
@brklyn345 8 ай бұрын
I love how Violet Chachki slides across your videos whenever you say the word "snatched".
@t_writer17 8 ай бұрын
I love the guy in 17:30 and his videos. I never know if his stories are his or just ones he reads and tells us. But he does it so well.
@rkoncenasupporter 8 ай бұрын
the fact that that woman told the wife what her husband did, but chose to stay boggles my mind, but at least she didn't blame the woman and turn on her
@shewolfinubaka 8 ай бұрын
Honestly I don’t want to be mean but that’s pathetic behavior and every time I see it all I can think is “that’s someone who doesn’t know their self worth”
@Noah60 6 ай бұрын
9:44 i love jer voice and how she tell the story
@joleen2509 17 күн бұрын
The water girl 😂😂😂 he was a bit thirsty , so thank you for being so thoughtful 😅
@erikarussell1142 8 ай бұрын
“Found out he was married…” Whoa, the audacity of some people, I swear.
@mahaakertouch5672 8 ай бұрын
nah girl you lighten my day each time , tnx for the effort
@Mewa-tv6qc 3 ай бұрын
I remember when my sister had just died, and a guy told me, “my mom died when I was 3, and I feel a parent dying matters a lot more than a sibling” I didn’t say anything at the time. I just felt incredibly sad especially because I was 14 and easily influenced. Now I’m just angry. Also, he reminded me of the pickle guy from Spongebob
@rachellisonbee3798 8 ай бұрын
That story about still living with an ex. I had to deal with this as a second party since my friend was dating the married man.
@dinasilva9263 8 ай бұрын
Charlotte is like a friend at this point, that everyday tell us the news and the tea on social media. 😂♥️
@3dmaster-749 8 ай бұрын
Oh honey I was married to a "great guy " for 9 years. He cheated on me and he is still blaming me for that 😊 Not a coward at all 😂
@chaswhite7705 5 ай бұрын
Absolutely love your content much love from the UK ❤❤❤❤❤
@Katfall2012 2 ай бұрын
I don't trauma dump for that reason, I just want them to have an explanation for why I'm so weird and awkward and why idk how to interact with people
@fourlittlebirds6166 8 ай бұрын
Some people are total drama all the time. They just have to bring up everything about life that they don’t like, or all the “bad” in the world that’s happened to them. Agree with Charlotte about “feeding off the drama”. I think they’re crazy. 😂
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