Totally agree with what you said. Women today have lowered their standards. I expect a man to be a true gentleman like my papaw was. Yes I can do it all on my own but choose to have a man to be there with me
@ZitaZone5 жыл бұрын
Yeah Ty. Love this. It’s nice to see a man speak out on this subject✅✅
@ironwolfgaming96325 жыл бұрын
I always thought - why would a woman want to be equal to a man? Why lower yourself? A woman is supposed to be cared for and loved - my wife is my partner and some things she can't do because of health issues - but she is on my side and I am on hers. It is a team and we don't compete among ourselves and there are no games being played.
@suziewong21815 жыл бұрын
@@ironwolfgaming9632 A team! Yes that's right! I truly hope your wife gets better some way and soon.
@brendahall80785 жыл бұрын
I was angry with the male gender for a long time after my first husband, until I met my now and forever husband. He treats me like a Queen. It did take me letting my angry walls down. Thank you for being REAL!!!💗💗💗💗
@ironwolfgaming96325 жыл бұрын
No games by either person is what makes it work.
@brittanytorres98935 жыл бұрын
As a woman, I agree with you, Ty! There will always be people who will disagree with you, but I hope that never discourages you from standing firm in your beliefs on this channel. Love to you and your family!
@Modern-Renaissance-Man5 жыл бұрын
Absolutely. Me +God = Majority.
@aaronmccracken35175 жыл бұрын
well said. couldnt agree more! hard to be an old school gentleman when they won't let you
@ironwolfgaming96325 жыл бұрын
I don't ask - I am old school and refuse to change. If they get offended by my being kind - I just laugh.
@linzyaz9205 жыл бұрын
❤ I completely agree with your comments at the end MRM. Good thing is that there are still a few women left in the world that see what u r talking about & recognize what u were talking about is a problem. Probably more than many realize bc the media doesn't seem to give a voice to those with traditional values. I had a period of time in my life where I lowered my expectations from men and felt I could not expect to find a guy who respected my traditional values and then I was blessed to find a man who has shown me otherwise and I in turn am respecting him for it and letting him lead the way. 😉
@annsteiger35315 жыл бұрын
Love their love for each other. He treats her like a queen. It's great. Your comments are spot on Ty. I consider myself an independent woman. BUT I absolutely love when that my husband opens doors for me, holds my hand as we walk, does sweet things for me just because he likes me to smile. He's my dream come true & I LOVE IT❤️❤️
@secolerice5 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful song! No controversy for me! This was how I was raised. I love my man and he loves me.
@justlaura71895 жыл бұрын
I was a so-called feminine woman as far as you're concerned in my marriage and depended on him to act like a man you're talking about. What I found out is it you can't depend on a man or anybody else to take care of you. I will never make that mistake again! I can and I will take care of myself no, I don't need anybody to do that and I never will but that doesn't mean I can't want somebody to treat me like a lady and for me to treat him like a man. You need to understand that women can be strong and be feminine at the same time. It's not either- or.
@ironwolfgaming96325 жыл бұрын
He didn't treat you like a partner and so you became a solo person. I am sorry you didn't get the right person. Not all males are MEN.
@suziewong21815 жыл бұрын
@Hel Dracarys I've noticed that the word feminism has become twisted. When I was much younger in my teens and twenties I would definitely say I was a feminist but now that word not what it seems and a lot of women don't know it. I raised my son to respect women. I also raised him to treat a woman as if she is the most important person in his life (when he marries). I also taught him not to be taken advantage of as well. Sadly it has happened to him but he's pulled himself up from that and has learned much more about himself as well as what he wants in a relationship. i.e. being treated with respect (both ways) and to COMMUNICATE with each other without being hateful and bitter just because of a disagreement. Sorry about the novel I got carried away LOL
@johnlynem5 жыл бұрын
@@suziewong2181 woman mistake the meaning of being treated like a lady. being a female does not make you a lady, just as being a male does not make you a man. If woman want to be treated like a lady then they need to act like a lady, and 9 times out of 10, todays so called "feminists" are not ladies. take a good look in the mirror before woman complain about men.
@hv17855 жыл бұрын
Facts. Thank you for speaking your mind.
@rhondashoemake5903 жыл бұрын
Very well said Ty!! Love your channel 👍👍👍
@elkinsinboxinc5 жыл бұрын
Tim McGraw's voice in that song is much higher than it is in some of his earlier hits.
@lisasurles16555 жыл бұрын
I fully agree with your commentary and opinion on this. I DO feel, tho, that many women have reached this state of independent thinking because the men of today are seldom living this way, either. For a woman to be all the things she is called to be biblically, in a marriage, she needs to have a partner with the same mindset. Please continue this discussion and give further teachings on the role of both partners. If we want the life God intended, we have to live the way He intended. Much love and respect, sir.
@violethughes17835 жыл бұрын
You’re correct in what you’re saying on the comments you made. A man be husband or boyfriend will always be a protector over his wife girlfriend etc. I don’t mind saying this but I am in a relationship with a guy who is working lives in his own house while at the same time provides for his family back in his home country and also provides for me. I work also but we do things for each other end of the day and will always be supportive of each other whether it’s financially whatever the case is. We back each other 110%. Most of what he does for me is truly appreciated from me. Hope this makes sense ☺️.
@amyhuggins79664 жыл бұрын
You’re EXACTLY right. I was raised by my Grandparents. They raised me to except nothing less than a chivalrous man who takes care of me (not speaking financially-People can interpret that however they like). The man is head of the house and the woman is head of the home. Period. That is the way God intended. I believe women should be confident and communicate what’s on their minds, but respectfully. I don’t understand most women.....and I AM ONE!
@georgiegirl68155 жыл бұрын
I don't to just need just any man that comes along. I want a 51%-49% partner where we can work together to reach our goal. I've had to trust that my husband was equally considering my opinion as highly as he would his own.
@ironwolfgaming96325 жыл бұрын
Absolutely as I said above not all males are MEN.
@suziewong21815 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful song!❤👍❤
@marycarricaburu36835 жыл бұрын
I have never understood what is "feminine". I don't like housework, I did it for years because that was "my job". I depended on men and was let down all three times, that includes my dad. I have learned I have to take care of myself. I am on my 3rd marriage and I feel I hit the jackpot this time. He respects me and I respect him. I don't "need" to depend on him, I am with him because of who he is, not because of the money he brings in or his "Godlike wisdom". We depend on each other. I totally agree with Hel Dracarys. To me, if a man has to be the authority and be always right and in charge, he doesn't have much self-worth. What is a "soft" woman? I really don't understand. I take spiders outside, I can't stand to see creatures suffering, I can sew, cook, preserve food etc. I also have fought fires, been on a backpacking and climbing search and rescue team, I currently volunteer with the Sheriff's office. I love men, I think they, as a group, are so cute and funny. I can listen to them talk to each other for hours, they are so entertaining. I have depended on them for my life and there are times they have depended on me for their lives also. Does that make me not soft or feminine? Whatever I am, I am OK with it, because it is who I am. My husband is OK with it also.
@heidiwasserman96185 жыл бұрын
I agree with you Ty! I have been married 24 yrs, we have 5 boys and 3 grandbabies, I've been asked so many times how we made it this long. Well let me tell you, we love and respect eachother!! I hear so many woman putting men down but woman are no better! They want to be treated like queens but my thought on that is, "If a woman wants to be treated like a queen she better treat him like a king!! Here's my best advice for any relationship, God First!!! I thank God every day for blessing me with my husband then my children! Controversy or not, you are absolutely right!
@rickandersen22845 жыл бұрын
yEAH!!!!! SO GOOD , AS PREVIOUS COMMENT, TO HEAR ANYONE TALK ABOUT THIS IN A REAL WAY. Good man!!!!!
@terrigail75 жыл бұрын
One of my favorite songs and I soooo agree with you!!
@davidbutler31495 жыл бұрын
Great reaction to this song...totally agree with you...i am old school and treat women with love and respect...
@renaforsman72873 жыл бұрын
You are speaking the truth!!
@AlyssaPalmisano19805 жыл бұрын
Great reaction I agree with what you said . I’ll probably be bashed for my own beliefs but I don’t care lol!! Hubby and I will be married this Sept for 20 yrs . He is protective with me and like you said our home . I have a great job and he works like the Bible says by the sweat of his brow ( he owns a roofing company) he works hard . I believe maybe I’m old fashioned but I love that he’s the man of the home . But he’s very kind we talk about everything. But he’s a guy , guy a man. I wouldn’t want it any other way. I’m not a man I’m feminine . I love Being a woman but now a days women want the man role I don’t . I think there are some things women shouldn’t do like some sports etc... gonna take flack for this but I loved my church until a woman preacher took over then I left it ..kinda still searching for a church . But I do have my Bible ♥️ this movement has gone to far . I think marriage has to do with respect on both sides , trust, love, the Lord, being kind !! The world has lost a lot of something so simple as kindness and honesty. I’m done rambling lol.
@suziewong21815 жыл бұрын
I agree with your post 100%. Very well said, indeed!❤👍❤
@mgracia673 жыл бұрын
speaking the truth brother 🙏
@sharonmcdonald6299 Жыл бұрын
Ty, you are so correct! There are a whole lot of lonley, single women in my family who are so toxic and negative that it's terrible to be around them. The generational anger and aggression that they try to perpetuate destroys families.
@MRM-Wendy2 жыл бұрын
Agree 100% with you Ty!
@sandylindsey75835 жыл бұрын
You are so correct! I watched how my Dad treats my Mom, like she is a queen & that’s what I wanted for my marriage & my husband treats me like a queen!
@clayhathcock96795 жыл бұрын
I love the song MRM I had never heard it before & you are correct in can for sure be a beginning to a conversation. I also agree with you comments God Bless.
@wysteriaherr83065 жыл бұрын
I agree with you. And I'm a woman. I like my femininity. I can take care of myself, dont get me wrong, but I would love to have a man talk to me this way.
@thewickedchicken825 жыл бұрын
I was born in 1962. I was taught at an early age how to treat females. I also remember the girls in school being taught how to act like a lady, even how to walk gracefully. Today a teacher would get fired for such sexism! I love a strong, independent, and intelligent woman who is also feminine and wants to be treated like a lady. Women are equal to men in different ways. It's not a put down for a man to want to provide for a woman. It's nature! Everything today is considered sexist. Complimenting a woman at work for how pretty she looks on a particular day can actually get you in trouble. I've seen on the news where a little boy was charged for sexual harassment for kissing a little girl during recess. We have to stop criminalizing masculinity,and once again encourage femininity in our women. We need to respect each other by respecting and cherishing the natural differences between the sexes. BTW, why is it that so many women that hate men work so hard to look and act like men? Just a casual observation.
@thewickedchicken825 жыл бұрын
@@kane29842 I mentioned the school thing only to point out the differences in the eras. still, there is nothing wrong with teaching children to respect and embrace the differences between the sexes is a good thing, and has NOTHING to do with independence. A woman can be strong and independent and still desire the strong embrace of a man. A woman can be the CEO of a company, and still carry herself with grace and femininity. She would still be just as respected by most men. It's funny that men are expected to be independent, but are also expected to act like feminist pussies. One problem is that so-called higher education no longer teaches critical thinking. They indoctrinate instead. I don't know what your education level is, but with just a tiny bit of critical thinking, you would realize that a woman can be independent and feminine at the same time.
@suziewong21815 жыл бұрын
Just to let you know all of Kane's comment seemed to be missing and all of us that replied to Kane look like we're talking to a ghost!
@thewickedchicken825 жыл бұрын
@@suziewong2181 That's odd. I certainly hope that MRM is not editing out her posts. I have a great deal of respect for MRM, but I place an even higher value on the ability to discuss opposing views in a thoughtful and respectful manner.
@suziewong21815 жыл бұрын
@@thewickedchicken82 Unfortunately, yes. Many comments from a few people including Ty has been taken down. Not only comments and post but also videos. Those videos my name came up in and for some reason. I Justified it when I questioned him about it before I said it in public on the comments. It does disturb me that those kinds of posts get erased. I'm sure none of them were sexually explicit, racist etc. In a nutshell I think a lot of those comments and post including the videos were taken down for C.Y.A. and just maybe "they" or he realized that those videos should never have been posted in the first place. I also believe that he is protecting a few people from KZfaq. I don't even know how to make a complaint to KZfaq but it seems like people do. I don't know if that's real or not but that's just what I'm hearing. I only mention this so that you are very careful. If something is controversial make sure you take screenshots of everything before and after you make your post. Someone that used to be in the group had done the same thing and when I saw those screenshots I was absolutely floored! There was no reason for that and there's no reason for a lot of things that go on still. I wish you the very best and I hope to see you in chat if I ever get there. LOL
@Elmogrl715 жыл бұрын
Ty I see exactly what you are talking about!! I believe women should be empowered, but I believe many times they take it too far. Of course a woman should be respected. BUT they forget to respect their man in the process. I am not that kind of woman and just recently met the man of my dreams after trying sometimes too hard to please. I am actually moving out of state this weekend to be with him. We both love and respect each other, and I have never had that. And I m almost 50 years old. Love your comments. I love watching your videos and opinions. Keep them coming.
@similartracks5 жыл бұрын
didnt care for the track BUT absolutely 100% agree with what you said.
@silversagerae63535 жыл бұрын
As another man and one who was basically raised by 3 women and holds women in a very high regard and has tremendous respect for them overall. I could not agree with you more bud. I am unclear why so many have reacted the way they have. You are so spot on. This world and our current society has "tried" to strip away all masculinity from our male population. Unfortunately, it is slowly happening and people need to recognize it and the value of the traditional male/female relationship as you are describing it and reverse that process before it is too late. Listen anyone who is reading. this is NOT about Women's rights and I am NOT saying anything about women being less than equal to men. The concept I am talking about (and I believe Ty is also) is for example my perfect woman is feminine but strong, independent, intelligent and capable...But because I am also all those things except masculine in place of feminine she "CHOOSES" of her own free will to take down those guards she has to put up to be all those things in society and be vulnerable and allow me to "look after her needs" on the family and relationship level. Allow her man to take on the role that Naturally is within males and embrace the relationship role that is naturally in females. Not because she is incapable but because I have earned her respect, and shown her I am capable and deserving of her trust. Those that do not understand this are delusional about the fact that there are physical differences between the genders and that to see it any other way is simply trying to alter the natural order of things. One of the greatest flaws of human beings for generations has been trying to control and change the world to be how we want it. this is just one more example of it. You would think as a species we would have learned by now that whenever we do this the results turn out bad.... Come at me if you dare i couldn't care less just Like Ty :) Anyway, To me that is why this world and marriages are falling apart in todays society. and Ty Much respect to you my friend for being who you are !
@silversagerae63535 жыл бұрын
@@kane29842 Thank you for the respectful counterpoint. However, the very point you make tells me you either are choosing to ignore or did not understand my overall point. By Natural order "I" am referring to (for me, though I understand some do not believe) how God (or whatever you believe in) Made human beings. point being there "IS" indisputable Biological and chemical differences in Males and Females. Those differences lend themselves to women naturally being the "nesters" as mankind has labeled it and men being the "hunter gatherer". That does not mean women should not work if they choose to etc, or men spend extra time or single dads raise their children etc.... (those are the kinds of evolvement and change should happen and has and I am fine with that. I see women as equal beings in every way)..But..what it means is there are particular emotional and or otherwise biologically controlled "NEEDS" that each gender "Naturally" has and they ARE different. They are A part of our DNA as either a Male or Female of the species. Man does NOT have the power to change that nor should mankind be so arrogant as to think they should. But what is happening is as a result of the changes we have made (such as womens rights in general which again I am 100% FOR) perhaps mankind does not yet know how to manage that change and as I think Ty was trying to point out it has made many women who basically have to "act" like men to survive in the trenches of the workplace as a CEO for example feel like they need to or maybe even unintentionally bring that "I am in charge here and fighting attitude" home to their intimate partner and family relationships and the FACT is Men are Physically wired to resist that and that is causing many unnecessary issues in our marriages... I hope this somehow enlightens you more to my position and to reiterate the primary point is Mankind should not be trying to go against what "nature" or "GOD" for me made a Biological and chemical part of the Differences in Male/Female DNA. It is selfish and arrogant for Mankind to do so and the further point I do not know you or where you are in your maturity journey in life but I have lived most of mine and learned much and one thing I know is if the end results have shown throughout history that when man disrupts that natural order it brings a bad result we should learn from it and not do it. The point of wisdom I have learned in life is just because we "can" do something surely does not mean we "should" understand please also that I am well aware there is a very fine line between what I describe here and what often happens, or certainly how it was years and years ago (for example the man becoming "Controlling or God forbid abusive. Those are completely unacceptable and thats why the evolvement you speak of has been necessary). What I am suggesting is the pendulum has swung too far and now Men have been emasculated and not allowed to be "MEN" and we need to move back to center and balance those relationships out again how they should be and even the strongest of Women should understand that if they want a successful relationship with a real man they will need to Allow There mate to "BE A MAN" in the relationship. and if she chooses not to she should stay single. I believe that was Ty's entire point maybe I am wrong dont know... Thanks for the friendly exchange on this volatile topic.
@suziewong21815 жыл бұрын
@@silversagerae6353 I find it very interesting that Kane's comment to you has now disappeared. That's happened to me on several occasions as well. I hope you don't mind that I brought this to your attention.
@silversagerae63535 жыл бұрын
@@suziewong2181 not at all Suzie it is odd and actually there was a 2-4 additional back and forth exchange that is all gone. I have given up trying to understand those things just a waste of valuable metal energy. but thanks for the heads up.
@suziewong21815 жыл бұрын
@@silversagerae6353 You are welcome sir. I have been betrayed and hurt deeply as well as judged by Ty publicly when I was not present to defend myself. I certainly hope that never happens to you or anybody else! My recommendation is that you take screenshots. That way your words cannot be turned against you in any way.
@baird5776mullet5 жыл бұрын
You should respect your father just as much as you do your mother,that's why kids are so screwed up today because the family courts back women 85% of the time no matter how shitty a single parent she may be,50/50 child custody should be the norm for fathers and most of this problem goes away,great topic Ty.
@MRM-Wendy2 жыл бұрын
Agree
@baird5776mullet2 жыл бұрын
@@MRM-Wendy Thanks Windy. 😎
@cautiouslyoptimistic19625 жыл бұрын
You are right!!!
@aidancash14 жыл бұрын
Your such a great man. You are correct with your comments. For some reason their are women out there who find it to be a insult that a man wants to take care of her.
@taratappin33685 жыл бұрын
It's not the movement that is the problem. It's any time someone takes anything to extremes.
@suziewong21815 жыл бұрын
What I'm seeing is feminism is now a completely different word than it was 40 years ago. Being a mother of a son that is now a 34 years old I can guarantee you that the word feminism has taken on a whole new meaning. Actually it's very heartbreaking. Many women don't know the history of the word feminism and many are trying to take away masculinity from any man (as you said as the extremist) and that includes how he treats the woman he's with. I had a bit of a different view in my teens and twenties but that was well over 30 years ago. Now feminism mean very different. After living the life I have, I've learned that what sais is said is absolutely true! Fortunately I learned that before I had my son and was able to raise my son like a man. He also will treat the woman that he is with as an equal and will want her views and insights. He also has learned that he is the main protector but also doesn't sharing everything with his wife including chores if she's working. My son is now 34 and one of the things that see he is looking for in a woman is "good communication". I honestly didn't know if my son had learned anything by the way I taught him but now I know he did learn the things I felt were so very important for a man to have as well as what a woman should have in order to have a strong and successful relationship.
@suziewong21815 жыл бұрын
@Hel DracarysEdited July 18. 2019 @5:46pm. Hel D's comments are now gone on this thread. can you show me where I said that feminism has done more bad than good throughout the years? I know I don't think that so I don't see how I would say that. Perhaps reading the written word without a voice, the meaning has been lost? Also know that sometimes when I post I'm very tired and speech to text isn't my best friend. I almost told Kane that I was going to "pee up a tree"...glad I caught that! LOL Back to the subject. I don't know where I would have said that feminism has done more bad throughout the years for women. I do know that the "extreme" feminist have done a lot of damage to the true feminist of today. Unfortunately both groups use the same word to identify themselves and that makes it much more difficult to separate the good from the bad. Perhaps a new name should be adopted? I do know that it's not all done because that glass ceiling still exists. Plus many other things that I personally experienced in the Fortune 500 company or two. Believe it or not I used to be in the real world with a very powerful signature. Amazing how sleep, pain and stress can affect a person. Also please be careful not to put words in my mouth. Bringing up black lives matter was unnecessary. In fact bringing that up means it only black lives matter. What about the other lives and other colors? Shouldn't it be "we all bleed red" or all people matter? Why separate black lives from other lives? See how that can work? Also saying that "none of you deserve it" is a targeted comment to me! Did you mean that to be directed at me specifically?
@jessiem2765 жыл бұрын
@@suziewong2181 I hope you aren't going to leave. I always enjoy your comments. You are one of the nicest people on here. Also, hope you have a great 4th of July. God bless you & your family 💙
@suziewong21815 жыл бұрын
@@jessiem276 You are so kind. I really appreciate your kind and supportive words...thank you! ❤👍❤
@jessiem2765 жыл бұрын
@@suziewong2181 Thank you, Susan ❤
@babymama4064 жыл бұрын
I’m with u on ur opinion of this current feminism.
@itsnotthesamething5 жыл бұрын
I'm a fairly good cook. So is my husband, on the grill. I cook most meals, but he will take the controls sometimes. He works hard to provide a good life for us. I take care of the household, as much of the yardwork as I can, and the finances. He does what he can, when he comes home from work, but I try my best to lighten his load. I'm not exactly real feminine. I haven't worn makeup, or colored my hair in years! We're getting on up there in age, and he doesn't mind that I no longer spend hours in the bathroom, trying to present something that isn't me. So since I don't do that stuff, we spend more time doing fun stuff together! We are both happy and comfortable in our relationship. If a woman can do all that a man does, and doesn't need a man, more power to her! But a lot of these women who spout that nonsense are reacting to the type of things they hear in their circles, or on TV. Their expectations of a man have grown to impossible proportions! He's supposed to be Prince Charming and Superman, ALL THE TIME! All she has to do is look pretty. Don't be that girl! Be Wonder Woman! Become someone your man will be proud to have! It's only then that you begin to see your prince, and your superhero, in the man you put all you faith and trust into. And if you're giving your all, and he's sitting up on the sofa all the time, instead of contributing to the relationship, you got the wrong guy! Run, fast as you can!
@ZitaZone5 жыл бұрын
Love this song and the fact a married couple sang it. It’s inspiring
@tracyfrancis65615 жыл бұрын
You are 100 % right
@amandamacalik23645 жыл бұрын
I agree with you 100%! 💖 love your reactions. Love this song. I can honestly say im a lucky woman. I have an amazing, still old fashioned, raised Texan man that treats me like a lady and i love it! 💖 i do need him!
@davidhunt36895 жыл бұрын
STANDING 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
@blingwithconfidence5 жыл бұрын
I agree,theres a point in being feminine and being his woman.When your man wants to protect you,take care of you,its not your place to rise up an say "I don't need that" so yea I agree,iv dealt with being the head of the house,and I am tired of that in my life,i want someone to take that place,and I know that doesn't make me less a woman,thats where they get it mixed up.
@dianefiske-foy47175 жыл бұрын
Amazing 👏🏻🎤🌟❤️‼️
@dianefiske-foy47175 жыл бұрын
Women need men and men need women. Unless you don’t want to have any babies, etc. 💏👨👩👧👦‼️
@heidiwasserman96185 жыл бұрын
There are ways to have babies without needing a man now a days. My husband and I have been married a long time but I do not need him , I want him. That makes a huge difference. But I do understand where you are coming from. 💍👣
@dianefiske-foy47175 жыл бұрын
Heidi Wasserman, Unless they’ve come up with a way to replace sperm, a man is still needed even when it comes from a bank. But I agree with the not needing but wanting a man. Love is a big factor too.
@heidiwasserman96185 жыл бұрын
Lol. I didn't mean it in that way. 😂 yes sperm is needed. Lol Love is a Huge factor, I agree.
@dianefiske-foy47175 жыл бұрын
Heidi Wasserman, So true. I had forgotten about adoption too. I’ve been without a man since the 1990’s. My son is the only man in my life these days. I don’t think a man could handle me these days. I am high-functioning Autistic and it’s gotten worse since I’ve gotten older. I talk a mile-a-minute, am very forgetful and very seldom sleep any more among other things. I’ve gotten used to being alone though, so it’s ok.
@heidiwasserman96185 жыл бұрын
Oh Diane 😢 i wouldn't think no man out there could handle you because you're " high functioning autistic woman". Obviously you're a lot more! You've raised or are raising a son and have been independent without a man for a long time. If I were a man I'd be intimidated! My husband and I have raised 5 boys into young men, I just pray I was and am woman enough that I've raised them right. So many woman out there bashing men and it's sad. They all get a bad rap when there are plenty of great ones out there. They are not all the same just like we women aren't all the same. 😁
@elizabethdenman79675 жыл бұрын
I agree and disagree with what you said. I love the song and wholeheartedly love the message in it. And it's so true.
@arleneelvisgirl44515 жыл бұрын
The degredation of men has been going on for years. On the other side of the coin, I have experienced that men have expected certain outwardly characteristics they desire without even getting to know a woman. Most guys seem to not want a good woman. Maybe I just live in the wrong part of the country. I've come to the conclusion that a man or woman cannot love like they should if they don't have the love of Christ in them because they put self first. I have wanted all my life to be the wife of a strong man who really loves me but it never happened.
@arleneelvisgirl44515 жыл бұрын
@@kane29842 That's your opinion.
@suziewong21815 жыл бұрын
@@arleneelvisgirl4451 I feel you are 100% correct!
@suziewong21815 жыл бұрын
I agree with your post. Although "Christ" is a tough one that I had to teach my son. My son is not an atheist and does believe in a creator. He also has found that women that have strong faith usually are better partners than than others that have no faith in most cases..
@suziewong21815 жыл бұрын
@@kane29842 She can't be wrong. That is her "opinion". You believe differently and I don't slam your view on this topic. It is your "opinion" just not everyone's.
@suziewong21815 жыл бұрын
@@kane29842 yes I can respect that opinion. I respect a lot of opinion is that I don't agree with but I do appreciate but you don't block me like this ghost Pat did. I'm pretty sure you knew what I meant by my posting. Some people have faith in Christ and some people don't believe in Christ. Plus there's a whole bunch of in-between. The only thing neither one of us can do is to say that they're any less of a person then we are based on their beliefs. Their life is just as important as yours or mine. We may not like it but that's how it is. Maybe you can change your few minds and maybe I can too...
@TrueBornNana5 жыл бұрын
This is the first time I’ve heard this song. Beautiful. I totally agree with you MRM. Women have gone past empowerment and to the point of being Man bashers!! We need men in this world. Real men described in this song. And women need to treat their men the same way!! Society has deceived men and women to know their place. It’s sad!!
@Whitewolf18273 жыл бұрын
I get your point about women who think of themselves as bossy n stuff but i personally think it stems from history and how men were before because woman were supposed to be submissive and stay at home and i can understand wanting to pay for your own thing the man doesnt need to pay for everything.
@linzyaz9205 жыл бұрын
Thanks Tie. I think it is ridiculous that you got so much flack for your comments.
@lauracosby73825 жыл бұрын
Rob Kinder, great choice friend!
@anthonygoodrich64875 жыл бұрын
Oh boy. Did not think you would have the replies you have. Wife and I talk about this idea once and a while as we are trying to raise our two kids. One daughter, one son. We believe in the 100-0. We know there will be times when 100 will come from one and 0 from the other, than switch. But our strengths play into that. I'll give 100 to fix the car, while shes 100 into reminding me we need date night. No offense either way, we are here for each other. Keep doing you boss, I feel I'll just drag on. Great reply vids too
@rubytexas15635 жыл бұрын
It has to be 50/50 which is what I feel that Tim and Faith have in their marriage...I think woman power is too elevated lately and I am a woman....like I said 50/50......peace out.
@mimiohnine5 жыл бұрын
Ruby Texas I’ve always said marriage is 100% 100%
@suziewong21815 жыл бұрын
@@mimiohnine I think that was what Ruby Texas meant. We, the ones speaking English, often use 50/50 when we mean that we both gives our partners "all" and intern we receive all as well. Sometimes I really hate typing because so much of the meaning is lost from the voice and the tone.
@coralraeartandthings5 жыл бұрын
Beautiful song. With a strong message! I like what your doing!
@kimwatchesstuff5 жыл бұрын
Is message is almost opposit of what the song says. I bet Tim draw would be very upset that this is the meaning he got.
@Modern-Renaissance-Man5 жыл бұрын
Call him and see
@coralraeartandthings5 жыл бұрын
A day in your life, if it were not for this site I would not have even heard this song. I think Tim And Faith would be happy this song is being talked about. This song is thought provoking and it brings different discussions. Different ideas.
@suziewong21815 жыл бұрын
@@coralraeartandthings a very good point.👍
@suziewong21815 жыл бұрын
@@kimwatchesstuff I found this...not sure what you meant in your post though. I'm sure I am reading it wrong. tasteofcountry.com/tim-mcgraw-faith-hill-story-behind-speak-to-a-girl/
@cathyk93025 жыл бұрын
A real woman feels this way, feckless women only care about the money, status in the community based on what they have, where they go, etc. It's a shame, but it all comes down to how we're raised, morals, integrity and self-worth determine what we look for or need from a potential partner.
@dgranite505 жыл бұрын
Hey there first of all I want to say I'm a big fan of your Channel and have been a subscriber for a long time and respect a majority of what you say in your reviews and reactions. With that being said, just curious if you've ever played back this video and reaction of your own and listened to your own words? Best way I can describe it I think is something someone once told me, be careful pointing your finger at someone because you have three more pointing back at you. What I'm saying is you're coming off as what you're describing. I like a woman right in the middle of that description I think. For a relationship to work I think both parties have to come into it already comfortable in their own skin , know who they are, where they want to go and have goals are their own preset or in the works and have spent time alone not in a relationship 100% of the time so that they feel like they can take care of themselves or not need someone to take care of them Where she's strong and independent, has all of her own opinions, morals, and views. I like a woman that can hold a intelligent conversation and not be afraidto do or say as they Please and not feel the need to censor themselves because of what I might say or do. Granted there are a lot of people both men and women that come from broken homes ugly childhoods or abusive relationships physically or mentally, that aren't bad people but need to take time to work on themselves and aren't ready to jump back into a relationship. I've seen both men and women act like the can't live without being in a relationship or need to be with somebody 100% of the time feel free to be alone, and I don't think that is healthy, and it's just going to carry over into any relationship that is tried at that time. I may be wrong but it sounds like what you're describing in this "movement", the " me movement" for instance comes from the exposure to all these sick, controlling, chauvinistic men that women have had to deal with over and over through many generations. Now these men are being outed in for instance in the film industry, the music industry, and yeah I think the ladies do have a right to have their time because for a long time men were the way you are describing the way you don't want women to be But that shouldn't be generalized as all men. Because not every man is responsible for it.
@suziewong21815 жыл бұрын
Sikpuppy I feel that you have very good points. Keep in mind Ty says he doesn't care what anybody thinks about him. Maybe he will TRY and listen to how he may sound to other people at least in this video. This channel is not a safe place. I've been betrayed, embarrassed, hurt deeply and we spoken about in public when I was not available to defend myself by Ty himself. I say this to warn you to be very careful. I hope with all of my heart that Ty takes your advice and does so with an open heart, mind and spirit. God willing.
@Modern-Renaissance-Man5 жыл бұрын
@SIKPUPPY "I may be wrong but it sounds like what you're describing in this movement is the me" Yes you are wrong. Not even close to what I'm talking about. Has nothing to do with a me movement but rather and type of attitude.This matter has been cleared and settled and I will say no more. Read other comments and see how majority of them are from WOMEN who knew exactly what I was talking about and agreed. Though your wrote a very nice disagreement but you read into it the wrong way. Pointing fingers?.........I'm stating facts. Good day to you sir!
@Modern-Renaissance-Man5 жыл бұрын
@@suziewong2181 We Miss you sis. Hope all is well. People are asking. Just letting you know. God Bless!
@patriciajeffries38585 жыл бұрын
What you describe is exactly what I wanted. I finally have it, but I chased it away for so long. I was taught that sex was all I was good for and, of course, there is no respect there. I hated it. Because of my teachings I did not respect myself. In addition, I thought there was something wrong with the good guys and the bad guys were the men. I hated living that backwards life. Finally between counseling and watching the good examples of marriage I was saved from further abuse. "You get what you expect" is true because what you expect is what you believe to be true...guiding you in that direction.
@Modern-Renaissance-Man5 жыл бұрын
so sorry you were taught that. that's terrible.
@patriciajeffries38585 жыл бұрын
@@suziewong2181 Awww, your empathy is so sweet and I gratefully soak that in. Thank you so much.
@suziewong21815 жыл бұрын
@@patriciajeffries3858 Every word is honest and true.🌻
@suziewong21815 жыл бұрын
Patricia Jeffries That is so heartbreaking what you endured. I'm very glad you changed the view of yourself and what you were taught. I think now you are a strong woman and now has a good relationship and was you wanted all along. I know from experience that's not an easy thing to achieve. I'm very sorry that you were taught in that manner...💔 I send you all of my respect as well as good wishes! Sincerely, A lady to another lady, 🌻❤🌻
@adamknapp58395 жыл бұрын
Try any Johnny Horton he had Johnny cash clean while he was alive battle of the Bismarck or any of his songs a folk singer
@annie48795 жыл бұрын
I agree with everything you talked about. Right, I hear woman, say that now " I dont need nobody to take care of me, I can take care of me" that's a rotten attitude to have, and these someone's are gonna be very lonely, and sad. I love My, man and he treats Me like a queen because I treat him like a king. We however are not perfect and have soata daily and only because we both know everything lol.
@deborahhope34844 жыл бұрын
Hi I'm late to this but new to you I absolutely agree with you I love when a man holds a door open for me or treats me like I'm something special or brings me a cup of tea when I'm feeling unwell. I would do the same, for me its respect and love I feel sorry for men they must be confused how to behave and be told I don't need you for anything
@Karenswalk12075 жыл бұрын
Men want to be respected. Women want to be cherished! In today's society we are seeing men degraded and feminized. Men are to be encouraged and uplifted. I like when a man is protective, and opens does for me. Many women allow themselves to be disrespected. If a man starts that non sense I tell him to knock it off once. If he continues then he's not in my world.
@suziewong21815 жыл бұрын
@@kane29842 I must agree that generalizations can be very dangerous. I'm kind of wondering if where you live versus what's happening here in the US is very different when it comes to the word and movement of "feminism"? Here in the states the word feminism is almost calling men a bunch of idiots. They shouldn't show women any respect in the "old fashion" way such as opening a door for his wife/girlfriend. Feminists literally want to take masculinity out of the equation of a relationships between a man and woman. I have one son and I taught him to be a man and not some kind of feminist "ideal of a man". Feminism now is extremely different than what feminism was 40 years ago. Back then it was based on equal pay for the same job etc. (mind you, I do not believe that women should be in the military on the front line of any war since it is natural for a man to protect a woman regardless of what the military allows). There are just some jobs most women shouldn't have and not just get because there's some kind of quota that they have to fill because of some law that was passed for equal rights for women. I think that's a bunch of BS! I'll step down off that soapbox! Today's feminism in the US is extremely anti-men. Today's feminist are trying to strip male identity and even simple polite actions of a man towards a woman. (In that sentence I speak of the far left of feminism). I don't know what's going on in the rest of the world so I cannot comment on that. Maybe it's different in Australia??? I get the impression that men from Australia or very masculine. Hence I would believe that women in Australia are probably different too..? If you have time or even care to reply I would be interested in your view about Australia versus the US. Just curiosity on my part. I hope you know by now that I find you fascinating because you are in a different country that is very different from the US. again please know that I mean no offense by anything that I am saying on your posts.
@suziewong21815 жыл бұрын
@Hel Dracarys the ones I'm speaking of are there real extremists. Those are the ones that seem to be more prominent here in Southern California. I don't know about the rest of the country or the world so I can't speak for them. I know if you were to see them in action you would be appalled! Edit: I do know that the feminist extremist are in many states. They exist everywhere in the world in fact. It is that group that is giving feminist of bad rap. It upsets me terribly because I still have been treated in the work place with great inequality and grossly so. The sexual harassment as well as slander what is rampid in a very corporate situation. I was not the only female that suffered through those things in fact I think that stress triggered my illness. That's only a hypothetical at this point but I think science will figure it out very soon. Hel, you work in a business that is very fascinating to me. Although is it not mostly male-dominated? Have you been treated with inequality as well as sexual harassment? Do you feel safe going to your HR department to report anybody? I'm asking this simply for an answer and I have no other motive other than to see if another woman has suffered the same things I have. Especially in this day and age no one seems to believe that it still exists. That glass ceiling is still there how do you spell lose unequal pay for the same if not harder job just because of the title and me being female. I'm truly interested in what your experience has been. PS next time I run across one of these extreme feminist groups that shows up every once in awhile I will try to remember to email the link to you so that you can see what I see. I know that you would be appalled to see what that group does to men and even their partner's or wives. I remember one when my son was very young. These feminist groups we're trying to stop the sales of male or female identifiable toys. I'm talking about children under the age of 4. that's the kind of things the extremist groups do and they're the ones that give feminism a bad name.
@suziewong21815 жыл бұрын
@@kane29842 my view on today's feminism especially in Southern California is not based on any media. It's based on first-hand knowledge. It's also based on other people's first-hand knowledge of whom I've known most of my life. The majority of the kids I grew up with were military brats and just all but one was male. So no I don't get my information from the news because I have no faith in it anymore. That's why I asked about different things in different places, countries etc because I don't believe the news. Simple. As far as Australia being better because of the lack of religion I think it's more than slightly better. We could do a little less religion and more practicing being good to each other without religion. It was once like that here but no more. If you're saying that I'm seeking confirmation from people with first-hand knowledge of anything from measles to "man hate" then yes. I much rather hear from somebody that I trust and know rather than some idiot on the TV being paid to tell lies especially in America. I actually think that one of the biggest issues between you and I, are the countries and mind sets that we were raised around. They seem to be very different. Sometimes good and sometimes bad but so far I think Australia is better off. As far as you not having to prove your manhood, I think that's the best and should be that way everywhere...but countries have different customs and beliefs and some are extremely horrific and inhumane. what we're talking about is nothing compared to what happens in other countries in Africa as well as Eastern Europe and the Middle East. Unfortunately how the extreme feminist movement is affecting feminism in general is extremely sad. All those years and all those women committing their lives for equality are now being torn down because of these extreme feminist groups. Just like I told, Hel, she would be appalled to see the extreme feminists here in Southern California. Don't misunderstand me, I believe and I do fight for equality for women. Although I do not support the extreme feminism that exist today. Those are the ones that basically want to be treated just like a man, never have a doir opened for them, never give them flowers, those simple things. I don't mean that any female should "follow" their man and all that BS. I believe that a partnership with strong communication, respect and trust is what we should strive for. I don't believe in everything that Ty said but in the general sense I do. I'm not talking about being less than a man but equal in a partnership called the relationship with the qualities I mentioned before. Also I have never tried to push my beliefs reviews on anybody else. I made discuss my view and their view but that doesn't mean that my whole goal is to change who they are and what they believe. As far as the measle issue goes that's sort of fell off the news wagon. if it was such a big deal it would still be top news but it's not. They moved on to something else more public friendly. the news is basically around to make middle-class people afraid as well as dumbing them down to be sheep. God forbid anybody think for themselves and demand proof. That doesn't happen anymore. Sadly if you don't see it with your own eyes or hear it from somebody that you trust with your life chances are you will never hear the truth through media of any kind I hope I'm making sense. I'm very tired and had some extremely bad news today but I didn't want to ignore your reply. I'm not sure if I was his eloquent as I could have been to convey my ideals but I can only try at this point. I mean no offense to you or to anyone but I think what was missing, outside of what Ty said, is simply respect, trust, equality and honesty or loyalty. Don't come turn my throat out at me right now. My words can be very easily misunderstood. simply just asked me to clarify any part of what I said and I will do my best to do so.
@suziewong21815 жыл бұрын
@Hel Dracarys Hel I'm far from anti-feminism. Unfortunately there are extremists in California especially in my area. I'm going to go and see if I can find your other posts. By the way I appreciate that you have faith that I still have a mind left in here LOL. I got some very bad news today and I'm still trying to wrap my mind around it. Edit: yes I do understand your point. Perhaps if we could change feminism or feminist to equality or some other word to separate from the extremists it might be a good idea. I think what lies in the problem is actually in the word and how it is morphed throughout the decades.
@suziewong21815 жыл бұрын
@Hel Dracarys we're on the same page, no doubt. I just saw your post after I got done writing a novel to Kane. LOL I didn't think you were an extremist but I wasn't sure with all the comments flying. There was so much going on and I have to catch up reading what little I can. Plus I've only seen the one video that started the whole thing. I have A LOT of catching up to do to understand what actually happened. If you can give me any advice on how to get through this let me know. I can only agree with Ty to a certain point. Maybe his words were chosen poorly? I really don't know yet but I do know that I will never follow a man or accept to be any less than equal. I think that's the majority of women. Even women that choose to stay home and be housewives should have the same equality in making decisions in the household and both should always respect the other in the process. A relationship or a marriage is a partnership in the most sense. Everything needs to be equal. I know couples it has chosen for the man to stay at home and the woman to work and bring home the bacon so to speak. I know men that do all the cooking even though they work. In those cases usually it's the woman that does the cleaning up meals. It's whatever works for those couples and with a good balance that seems to be the most successful marriages or partnerships.
@shirleycarr53875 жыл бұрын
A good couple and singers.
@arleneelvisgirl44515 жыл бұрын
Would've been much nicer without the cuss words. I mean really, did they add any meaning?
@suziewong21815 жыл бұрын
What cuss words? I don't think I've ever heard Ty cuss unless he was quoting someone and even then he changed the word to not be a flat out cuss word. 🤔
@arleneelvisgirl44515 жыл бұрын
@@suziewong2181 not Ty, the song.
@suziewong21815 жыл бұрын
@@arleneelvisgirl4451 jeez I even miss that! That means I'm going to go back and listen harder! Thank you so much for your reply.❤
@suziewong21815 жыл бұрын
@@arleneelvisgirl4451 Yup I heard it all!! That should have been left out. Maybe one "hell" but they did cuss more than the song needed.
@ruealgie5 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad I'm gay, haha.
@suziewong21815 жыл бұрын
I have several male and female friends that are gay and they say the samething!!!😂 Sometimes I wish I could be the same but I just can't feel that way towards another woman and I have tried!
@ruealgie5 жыл бұрын
@@suziewong2181 Yeahhh. I mean, it's cool to be what you are, but sometimes ( this controversy in particular ), I'm like... yo... I drew the lucky lot. Being straight can be awesome and being gay can suck but right now? I drew that lot again! Haha. Sexuality is flexible. It's not about trying. Maybe one day. / waggles brows
@suziewong21815 жыл бұрын
@@ruealgie you are absolutely right! I just don't understand why people act the way they do towards gay or straight people. We all bleed red and we all live in the same place...that's what matters and people just go on with their hateful words and more. Wishing you everything wonderful!❤🌻❤🥂
@Bandit77TA5 жыл бұрын
Can you please react to Slaughter- Fly To The Angels. Please!!!
@sandralyn58695 жыл бұрын
GREAT SONG!!
@WVWomanMarine5 жыл бұрын
You are speaking the truth! Keep talking...
@gatlingross11025 жыл бұрын
Shinedown- monsters or get up
@BelindaTN5 жыл бұрын
While I agree very much with you MRM and my husband and I have a relationship like you describe. But. All men are not like you or my husband. So many men take our weakness, our femininity and need for protection and use it to their advantage and our disadvantage. Everything from not being dependable for us or our children, to down right abusive to us. I saw it happen when I was young and just starting to date. Not so much to me directly, but I was around older teenage boys and I would hear their conversations about the girls they took out on dates. Complaining because they opened the car door for her, took to a nice restaurant or movie or concert only to have the night end with just a kiss at the door. If they really liked her, they might take her out a time or two more, but if she didn't 'put out' for them, they dumped her and moved to the next girl. That stuck in my head and I was determined I would not let them do much for me, because I had no intention of owing them a 'roll in the hay', because of it. It made dating for me pretty stressful and brief. lol I might let them pay for the first or maybe second meal out, but then I would pay the next one. And I generally opened my own door, because I didn't want him to think I was one of those 'needy' girls just trying to take advantage of their good nature. Then my daughter spent 7 years with a man that totally used her femininity and Christian beliefs to his on advantage. Thankfully she took the children and left before she was physically harmed beyond repair (though emotionally, she will always struggle) and before the children were affected to the point of no repair. Then my cousin who once told me she prayed to the Lord that he giver her just a few hours to be a man as strong as her daddy. So she could beat him hard enough that he could never beat her mother again.So while I am not and have never been a feminist and I believe feminism has done us as much harm (or more) than it has good, I do understand why some women behave toward the men the way that they do. With that said, I understand the men's side too. I have seen some prince charming type of gentleman treat their ladies like a princess, only to have the ungrateful and spoiled girl, lady, woman, use it against him and totally humiliate and just treat him like a servant. The harder he tries to please her, the more she acts like a spoiled brat. So to the ladies that do not like men and feel they do not need one, realize that all men are not bad men. Even bad teenage boys often grow up to be fine men, good husbands and wonderful fathers. You may not need a man in this day and time to earn your living for you, but life is so much easier to navigate and enjoy with a man to help us. Anyway. The media wants us to believe that men are everything from knuckleheads to narcissist. And some are. But there are a lot of good ones out there, you just gotta find them and learn how to recognize them. And remember to only focus on the available ones. Leave the ones that belong to someone else alone. The best thing women can do to support each other is to quit trying to steal other women's men. Even if it is just their boyfriend. Leave them alone. I have such a beef about that. All this girl power feminism stuff and women sticking together. And women will stab each other in the back in a heart beat. Especially when it comes to taking their man.
@suziewong21815 жыл бұрын
Wow! You said that so well! I wish I would/could have said what you did. I hope you don't mind if I use some of what you said to explain to some other women and men what "works". When I was in my teens and twenties, which was a long time ago, I don't know if I would agree with Ty or not. Although now being over 50 years old I definitely agree with Ty. Not only that I agree but I also raised my son in the same manner. I raise my son to be a real man, to take care of his woman, to be the head of the household BUT to also love and respect the woman he is with AS WELL AS treating her as an equal when it comes to making decisions that would affect them or their family. I think it worked with my son and I am so very grateful for that. What I'm seeing now is women taking feminism way too far. It no longer stands for what it used to stand years ago. Feminism is trying to take away masculinity. A man being a man is a horrible thing in their eyes! I don't agree with that and I never will. I would not have agreed with it even in my teens and twenties! The word feminism has become twisted and it's very sad. On another subject, I am very happy that your (I think) cousin got out before it got really bad. ❤
@rbrown88905 жыл бұрын
There is a major difference between usurping authority over an employee and usurping over your husband. The is a line drawn that is super thin in the flesh, but much wider and clearly seen in the Spirit. Mrs. Brown
@jeremyleforce79265 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏
@tracysmith18715 жыл бұрын
Totally agree with the message but the song left me flat and unsatisfied.
@loriwatts34495 жыл бұрын
Great song...request Keith Urban ‘Female’
@suziewong21815 жыл бұрын
Lori Watts I agree!
@PlasticGirl655 жыл бұрын
How many songs are there by the likes of Rihanna and Beyonce singing about they are strong and they don't need a man or they're telling the man you've got to do this and that. Ain't no man likes a pushy woman, like you said they're gonna be old living with a bunch of cats. Ladies another sure fire way of losing a man is to stop him watching his favourite sports on TV, don't do it. Personally I like a man to be a man, I can't be doing with men that let women walk all over them.
@PlasticGirl655 жыл бұрын
@@kane29842 I never said I was interested in women.
@suziewong21815 жыл бұрын
@@PlasticGirl65 Note that Kane no longer has a comment here or anywhere I have looked. All of us that replied to Kane looks like we are talking to a ghost!🤔
@melanieinnc87915 жыл бұрын
I agree Ty
@kimwatchesstuff5 жыл бұрын
Yea I'm probably not the only non Christian person that watches your channel. That being said I had a feeling at some point maybe and opinion would be too strong for me to get over and continue to watch your videos. I cut you off after you said women only get equal pay depending on the job. I bet there are soldiers policewoman fire fighters and construction workers That are physically equal to or better than their counterparts.
@Modern-Renaissance-Man5 жыл бұрын
Are you serious, I'd love to see you show me one thats equal in strength and ability in those fields. Please show me.
@stephan56735 жыл бұрын
Generally Men are physically stronger It's a fact, it will always be a fact.
@kimwatchesstuff5 жыл бұрын
@@Modern-Renaissance-Man are there not women who also do American Ninja Warrior?