I always thought - why would a woman want to be equal to a man? Why lower yourself? A woman is supposed to be cared for and loved - my wife is my partner and some things she can't do because of health issues - but she is on my side and I am on hers. It is a team and we don't compete among ourselves and there are no games being played.

@@ironwolfgaming9632 A team! Yes that's right! I truly hope your wife gets better some way and soon.

No games by either person is what makes it work.

Absolutely. Me +God = Majority.

I don't ask - I am old school and refuse to change. If they get offended by my being kind - I just laugh.

He didn't treat you like a partner and so you became a solo person. I am sorry you didn't get the right person. Not all males are MEN.

@Hel Dracarys I've noticed that the word feminism has become twisted. When I was much younger in my teens and twenties I would definitely say I was a feminist but now that word not what it seems and a lot of women don't know it. I raised my son to respect women. I also raised him to treat a woman as if she is the most important person in his life (when he marries). I also taught him not to be taken advantage of as well. Sadly it has happened to him but he's pulled himself up from that and has learned much more about himself as well as what he wants in a relationship. i.e. being treated with respect (both ways) and to COMMUNICATE with each other without being hateful and bitter just because of a disagreement. Sorry about the novel I got carried away LOL

@@suziewong2181 woman mistake the meaning of being treated like a lady. being a female does not make you a lady, just as being a male does not make you a man. If woman want to be treated like a lady then they need to act like a lady, and 9 times out of 10, todays so called "feminists" are not ladies. take a good look in the mirror before woman complain about men.

Absolutely as I said above not all males are MEN.

I agree with your post 100%. Very well said, indeed!❤👍❤

@@kane29842 I mentioned the school thing only to point out the differences in the eras. still, there is nothing wrong with teaching children to respect and embrace the differences between the sexes is a good thing, and has NOTHING to do with independence. A woman can be strong and independent and still desire the strong embrace of a man. A woman can be the CEO of a company, and still carry herself with grace and femininity. She would still be just as respected by most men. It's funny that men are expected to be independent, but are also expected to act like feminist pussies. One problem is that so-called higher education no longer teaches critical thinking. They indoctrinate instead. I don't know what your education level is, but with just a tiny bit of critical thinking, you would realize that a woman can be independent and feminine at the same time.

Just to let you know all of Kane's comment seemed to be missing and all of us that replied to Kane look like we're talking to a ghost!

@@suziewong2181 That's odd. I certainly hope that MRM is not editing out her posts. I have a great deal of respect for MRM, but I place an even higher value on the ability to discuss opposing views in a thoughtful and respectful manner.

@@thewickedchicken82 Unfortunately, yes. Many comments from a few people including Ty has been taken down. Not only comments and post but also videos. Those videos my name came up in and for some reason. I Justified it when I questioned him about it before I said it in public on the comments. It does disturb me that those kinds of posts get erased. I'm sure none of them were sexually explicit, racist etc. In a nutshell I think a lot of those comments and post including the videos were taken down for C.Y.A. and just maybe "they" or he realized that those videos should never have been posted in the first place. I also believe that he is protecting a few people from KZfaq. I don't even know how to make a complaint to KZfaq but it seems like people do. I don't know if that's real or not but that's just what I'm hearing. I only mention this so that you are very careful. If something is controversial make sure you take screenshots of everything before and after you make your post. Someone that used to be in the group had done the same thing and when I saw those screenshots I was absolutely floored! There was no reason for that and there's no reason for a lot of things that go on still. I wish you the very best and I hope to see you in chat if I ever get there. LOL

@@kane29842 Thank you for the respectful counterpoint. However, the very point you make tells me you either are choosing to ignore or did not understand my overall point. By Natural order "I" am referring to (for me, though I understand some do not believe) how God (or whatever you believe in) Made human beings. point being there "IS" indisputable Biological and chemical differences in Males and Females. Those differences lend themselves to women naturally being the "nesters" as mankind has labeled it and men being the "hunter gatherer". That does not mean women should not work if they choose to etc, or men spend extra time or single dads raise their children etc.... (those are the kinds of evolvement and change should happen and has and I am fine with that. I see women as equal beings in every way)..But..what it means is there are particular emotional and or otherwise biologically controlled "NEEDS" that each gender "Naturally" has and they ARE different. They are A part of our DNA as either a Male or Female of the species. Man does NOT have the power to change that nor should mankind be so arrogant as to think they should. But what is happening is as a result of the changes we have made (such as womens rights in general which again I am 100% FOR) perhaps mankind does not yet know how to manage that change and as I think Ty was trying to point out it has made many women who basically have to "act" like men to survive in the trenches of the workplace as a CEO for example feel like they need to or maybe even unintentionally bring that "I am in charge here and fighting attitude" home to their intimate partner and family relationships and the FACT is Men are Physically wired to resist that and that is causing many unnecessary issues in our marriages... I hope this somehow enlightens you more to my position and to reiterate the primary point is Mankind should not be trying to go against what "nature" or "GOD" for me made a Biological and chemical part of the Differences in Male/Female DNA. It is selfish and arrogant for Mankind to do so and the further point I do not know you or where you are in your maturity journey in life but I have lived most of mine and learned much and one thing I know is if the end results have shown throughout history that when man disrupts that natural order it brings a bad result we should learn from it and not do it. The point of wisdom I have learned in life is just because we "can" do something surely does not mean we "should" understand please also that I am well aware there is a very fine line between what I describe here and what often happens, or certainly how it was years and years ago (for example the man becoming "Controlling or God forbid abusive. Those are completely unacceptable and thats why the evolvement you speak of has been necessary). What I am suggesting is the pendulum has swung too far and now Men have been emasculated and not allowed to be "MEN" and we need to move back to center and balance those relationships out again how they should be and even the strongest of Women should understand that if they want a successful relationship with a real man they will need to Allow There mate to "BE A MAN" in the relationship. and if she chooses not to she should stay single. I believe that was Ty's entire point maybe I am wrong dont know... Thanks for the friendly exchange on this volatile topic.

@@silversagerae6353 I find it very interesting that Kane's comment to you has now disappeared. That's happened to me on several occasions as well. I hope you don't mind that I brought this to your attention.

@@suziewong2181 not at all Suzie it is odd and actually there was a 2-4 additional back and forth exchange that is all gone. I have given up trying to understand those things just a waste of valuable metal energy. but thanks for the heads up.

@@silversagerae6353 You are welcome sir. I have been betrayed and hurt deeply as well as judged by Ty publicly when I was not present to defend myself. I certainly hope that never happens to you or anybody else! My recommendation is that you take screenshots. That way your words cannot be turned against you in any way.

Agree

@@MRM-Wendy Thanks Windy. 😎

What I'm seeing is feminism is now a completely different word than it was 40 years ago. Being a mother of a son that is now a 34 years old I can guarantee you that the word feminism has taken on a whole new meaning. Actually it's very heartbreaking. Many women don't know the history of the word feminism and many are trying to take away masculinity from any man (as you said as the extremist) and that includes how he treats the woman he's with. I had a bit of a different view in my teens and twenties but that was well over 30 years ago. Now feminism mean very different. After living the life I have, I've learned that what sais is said is absolutely true! Fortunately I learned that before I had my son and was able to raise my son like a man. He also will treat the woman that he is with as an equal and will want her views and insights. He also has learned that he is the main protector but also doesn't sharing everything with his wife including chores if she's working. My son is now 34 and one of the things that see he is looking for in a woman is "good communication". I honestly didn't know if my son had learned anything by the way I taught him but now I know he did learn the things I felt were so very important for a man to have as well as what a woman should have in order to have a strong and successful relationship.

@Hel DracarysEdited July 18. 2019 @5:46pm. Hel D's comments are now gone on this thread. can you show me where I said that feminism has done more bad than good throughout the years? I know I don't think that so I don't see how I would say that. Perhaps reading the written word without a voice, the meaning has been lost? Also know that sometimes when I post I'm very tired and speech to text isn't my best friend. I almost told Kane that I was going to "pee up a tree"...glad I caught that! LOL Back to the subject. I don't know where I would have said that feminism has done more bad throughout the years for women. I do know that the "extreme" feminist have done a lot of damage to the true feminist of today. Unfortunately both groups use the same word to identify themselves and that makes it much more difficult to separate the good from the bad. Perhaps a new name should be adopted? I do know that it's not all done because that glass ceiling still exists. Plus many other things that I personally experienced in the Fortune 500 company or two. Believe it or not I used to be in the real world with a very powerful signature. Amazing how sleep, pain and stress can affect a person. Also please be careful not to put words in my mouth. Bringing up black lives matter was unnecessary. In fact bringing that up means it only black lives matter. What about the other lives and other colors? Shouldn't it be "we all bleed red" or all people matter? Why separate black lives from other lives? See how that can work? Also saying that "none of you deserve it" is a targeted comment to me! Did you mean that to be directed at me specifically?

@@suziewong2181 I hope you aren't going to leave. I always enjoy your comments. You are one of the nicest people on here. Also, hope you have a great 4th of July. God bless you & your family 💙

@@jessiem276 You are so kind. I really appreciate your kind and supportive words...thank you! ❤👍❤

@@suziewong2181 Thank you, Susan ❤

There are ways to have babies without needing a man now a days. My husband and I have been married a long time but I do not need him , I want him. That makes a huge difference. But I do understand where you are coming from. 💍👣

Heidi Wasserman, Unless they’ve come up with a way to replace sperm, a man is still needed even when it comes from a bank. But I agree with the not needing but wanting a man. Love is a big factor too.

Lol. I didn't mean it in that way. 😂 yes sperm is needed. Lol Love is a Huge factor, I agree.

Heidi Wasserman, So true. I had forgotten about adoption too. I’ve been without a man since the 1990’s. My son is the only man in my life these days. I don’t think a man could handle me these days. I am high-functioning Autistic and it’s gotten worse since I’ve gotten older. I talk a mile-a-minute, am very forgetful and very seldom sleep any more among other things. I’ve gotten used to being alone though, so it’s ok.

Oh Diane 😢 i wouldn't think no man out there could handle you because you're " high functioning autistic woman". Obviously you're a lot more! You've raised or are raising a son and have been independent without a man for a long time. If I were a man I'd be intimidated! My husband and I have raised 5 boys into young men, I just pray I was and am woman enough that I've raised them right. So many woman out there bashing men and it's sad. They all get a bad rap when there are plenty of great ones out there. They are not all the same just like we women aren't all the same. 😁

@@kane29842 That's your opinion.

@@arleneelvisgirl4451 I feel you are 100% correct!

I agree with your post. Although "Christ" is a tough one that I had to teach my son. My son is not an atheist and does believe in a creator. He also has found that women that have strong faith usually are better partners than than others that have no faith in most cases..

@@kane29842 She can't be wrong. That is her "opinion". You believe differently and I don't slam your view on this topic. It is your "opinion" just not everyone's.

@@kane29842 yes I can respect that opinion. I respect a lot of opinion is that I don't agree with but I do appreciate but you don't block me like this ghost Pat did. I'm pretty sure you knew what I meant by my posting. Some people have faith in Christ and some people don't believe in Christ. Plus there's a whole bunch of in-between. The only thing neither one of us can do is to say that they're any less of a person then we are based on their beliefs. Their life is just as important as yours or mine. We may not like it but that's how it is. Maybe you can change your few minds and maybe I can too...

Ruby Texas I’ve always said marriage is 100% 100%

@@mimiohnine I think that was what Ruby Texas meant. We, the ones speaking English, often use 50/50 when we mean that we both gives our partners "all" and intern we receive all as well. Sometimes I really hate typing because so much of the meaning is lost from the voice and the tone.

Is message is almost opposit of what the song says. I bet Tim draw would be very upset that this is the meaning he got.

Call him and see

A day in your life, if it were not for this site I would not have even heard this song. I think Tim And Faith would be happy this song is being talked about. This song is thought provoking and it brings different discussions. Different ideas.

@@coralraeartandthings a very good point.👍

@@kimwatchesstuff I found this...not sure what you meant in your post though. I'm sure I am reading it wrong. tasteofcountry.com/tim-mcgraw-faith-hill-story-behind-speak-to-a-girl/

Sikpuppy I feel that you have very good points. Keep in mind Ty says he doesn't care what anybody thinks about him. Maybe he will TRY and listen to how he may sound to other people at least in this video. This channel is not a safe place. I've been betrayed, embarrassed, hurt deeply and we spoken about in public when I was not available to defend myself by Ty himself. I say this to warn you to be very careful. I hope with all of my heart that Ty takes your advice and does so with an open heart, mind and spirit. God willing.

@SIKPUPPY "I may be wrong but it sounds like what you're describing in this movement is the me" Yes you are wrong. Not even close to what I'm talking about. Has nothing to do with a me movement but rather and type of attitude.This matter has been cleared and settled and I will say no more. Read other comments and see how majority of them are from WOMEN who knew exactly what I was talking about and agreed. Though your wrote a very nice disagreement but you read into it the wrong way. Pointing fingers?.........I'm stating facts. Good day to you sir!

@@suziewong2181 We Miss you sis. Hope all is well. People are asking. Just letting you know. God Bless!

so sorry you were taught that. that's terrible.

@@suziewong2181 Awww, your empathy is so sweet and I gratefully soak that in. Thank you so much.

@@patriciajeffries3858 Every word is honest and true.🌻

Patricia Jeffries That is so heartbreaking what you endured. I'm very glad you changed the view of yourself and what you were taught. I think now you are a strong woman and now has a good relationship and was you wanted all along. I know from experience that's not an easy thing to achieve. I'm very sorry that you were taught in that manner...💔 I send you all of my respect as well as good wishes! Sincerely, A lady to another lady, 🌻❤🌻

Hi I'm late to this but new to you I absolutely agree with you I love when a man holds a door open for me or treats me like I'm something special or brings me a cup of tea when I'm feeling unwell. I would do the same, for me its respect and love I feel sorry for men they must be confused how to behave and be told I don't need you for anything

@@kane29842 I must agree that generalizations can be very dangerous. I'm kind of wondering if where you live versus what's happening here in the US is very different when it comes to the word and movement of "feminism"? Here in the states the word feminism is almost calling men a bunch of idiots. They shouldn't show women any respect in the "old fashion" way such as opening a door for his wife/girlfriend. Feminists literally want to take masculinity out of the equation of a relationships between a man and woman. I have one son and I taught him to be a man and not some kind of feminist "ideal of a man". Feminism now is extremely different than what feminism was 40 years ago. Back then it was based on equal pay for the same job etc. (mind you, I do not believe that women should be in the military on the front line of any war since it is natural for a man to protect a woman regardless of what the military allows). There are just some jobs most women shouldn't have and not just get because there's some kind of quota that they have to fill because of some law that was passed for equal rights for women. I think that's a bunch of BS! I'll step down off that soapbox! Today's feminism in the US is extremely anti-men. Today's feminist are trying to strip male identity and even simple polite actions of a man towards a woman. (In that sentence I speak of the far left of feminism). I don't know what's going on in the rest of the world so I cannot comment on that. Maybe it's different in Australia??? I get the impression that men from Australia or very masculine. Hence I would believe that women in Australia are probably different too..? If you have time or even care to reply I would be interested in your view about Australia versus the US. Just curiosity on my part. I hope you know by now that I find you fascinating because you are in a different country that is very different from the US. again please know that I mean no offense by anything that I am saying on your posts.

@Hel Dracarys the ones I'm speaking of are there real extremists. Those are the ones that seem to be more prominent here in Southern California. I don't know about the rest of the country or the world so I can't speak for them. I know if you were to see them in action you would be appalled! Edit: I do know that the feminist extremist are in many states. They exist everywhere in the world in fact. It is that group that is giving feminist of bad rap. It upsets me terribly because I still have been treated in the work place with great inequality and grossly so. The sexual harassment as well as slander what is rampid in a very corporate situation. I was not the only female that suffered through those things in fact I think that stress triggered my illness. That's only a hypothetical at this point but I think science will figure it out very soon. Hel, you work in a business that is very fascinating to me. Although is it not mostly male-dominated? Have you been treated with inequality as well as sexual harassment? Do you feel safe going to your HR department to report anybody? I'm asking this simply for an answer and I have no other motive other than to see if another woman has suffered the same things I have. Especially in this day and age no one seems to believe that it still exists. That glass ceiling is still there how do you spell lose unequal pay for the same if not harder job just because of the title and me being female. I'm truly interested in what your experience has been. PS next time I run across one of these extreme feminist groups that shows up every once in awhile I will try to remember to email the link to you so that you can see what I see. I know that you would be appalled to see what that group does to men and even their partner's or wives. I remember one when my son was very young. These feminist groups we're trying to stop the sales of male or female identifiable toys. I'm talking about children under the age of 4. that's the kind of things the extremist groups do and they're the ones that give feminism a bad name.

@@kane29842 my view on today's feminism especially in Southern California is not based on any media. It's based on first-hand knowledge. It's also based on other people's first-hand knowledge of whom I've known most of my life. The majority of the kids I grew up with were military brats and just all but one was male. So no I don't get my information from the news because I have no faith in it anymore. That's why I asked about different things in different places, countries etc because I don't believe the news. Simple. As far as Australia being better because of the lack of religion I think it's more than slightly better. We could do a little less religion and more practicing being good to each other without religion. It was once like that here but no more. If you're saying that I'm seeking confirmation from people with first-hand knowledge of anything from measles to "man hate" then yes. I much rather hear from somebody that I trust and know rather than some idiot on the TV being paid to tell lies especially in America. I actually think that one of the biggest issues between you and I, are the countries and mind sets that we were raised around. They seem to be very different. Sometimes good and sometimes bad but so far I think Australia is better off. As far as you not having to prove your manhood, I think that's the best and should be that way everywhere...but countries have different customs and beliefs and some are extremely horrific and inhumane. what we're talking about is nothing compared to what happens in other countries in Africa as well as Eastern Europe and the Middle East. Unfortunately how the extreme feminist movement is affecting feminism in general is extremely sad. All those years and all those women committing their lives for equality are now being torn down because of these extreme feminist groups. Just like I told, Hel, she would be appalled to see the extreme feminists here in Southern California. Don't misunderstand me, I believe and I do fight for equality for women. Although I do not support the extreme feminism that exist today. Those are the ones that basically want to be treated just like a man, never have a doir opened for them, never give them flowers, those simple things. I don't mean that any female should "follow" their man and all that BS. I believe that a partnership with strong communication, respect and trust is what we should strive for. I don't believe in everything that Ty said but in the general sense I do. I'm not talking about being less than a man but equal in a partnership called the relationship with the qualities I mentioned before. Also I have never tried to push my beliefs reviews on anybody else. I made discuss my view and their view but that doesn't mean that my whole goal is to change who they are and what they believe. As far as the measle issue goes that's sort of fell off the news wagon. if it was such a big deal it would still be top news but it's not. They moved on to something else more public friendly. the news is basically around to make middle-class people afraid as well as dumbing them down to be sheep. God forbid anybody think for themselves and demand proof. That doesn't happen anymore. Sadly if you don't see it with your own eyes or hear it from somebody that you trust with your life chances are you will never hear the truth through media of any kind I hope I'm making sense. I'm very tired and had some extremely bad news today but I didn't want to ignore your reply. I'm not sure if I was his eloquent as I could have been to convey my ideals but I can only try at this point. I mean no offense to you or to anyone but I think what was missing, outside of what Ty said, is simply respect, trust, equality and honesty or loyalty. Don't come turn my throat out at me right now. My words can be very easily misunderstood. simply just asked me to clarify any part of what I said and I will do my best to do so.

@Hel Dracarys Hel I'm far from anti-feminism. Unfortunately there are extremists in California especially in my area. I'm going to go and see if I can find your other posts. By the way I appreciate that you have faith that I still have a mind left in here LOL. I got some very bad news today and I'm still trying to wrap my mind around it. Edit: yes I do understand your point. Perhaps if we could change feminism or feminist to equality or some other word to separate from the extremists it might be a good idea. I think what lies in the problem is actually in the word and how it is morphed throughout the decades.

@Hel Dracarys we're on the same page, no doubt. I just saw your post after I got done writing a novel to Kane. LOL I didn't think you were an extremist but I wasn't sure with all the comments flying. There was so much going on and I have to catch up reading what little I can. Plus I've only seen the one video that started the whole thing. I have A LOT of catching up to do to understand what actually happened. If you can give me any advice on how to get through this let me know. I can only agree with Ty to a certain point. Maybe his words were chosen poorly? I really don't know yet but I do know that I will never follow a man or accept to be any less than equal. I think that's the majority of women. Even women that choose to stay home and be housewives should have the same equality in making decisions in the household and both should always respect the other in the process. A relationship or a marriage is a partnership in the most sense. Everything needs to be equal. I know couples it has chosen for the man to stay at home and the woman to work and bring home the bacon so to speak. I know men that do all the cooking even though they work. In those cases usually it's the woman that does the cleaning up meals. It's whatever works for those couples and with a good balance that seems to be the most successful marriages or partnerships.

What cuss words? I don't think I've ever heard Ty cuss unless he was quoting someone and even then he changed the word to not be a flat out cuss word. 🤔

@@suziewong2181 not Ty, the song.

@@arleneelvisgirl4451 jeez I even miss that! That means I'm going to go back and listen harder! Thank you so much for your reply.❤

@@arleneelvisgirl4451 Yup I heard it all!! That should have been left out. Maybe one "hell" but they did cuss more than the song needed.

I have several male and female friends that are gay and they say the samething!!!😂 Sometimes I wish I could be the same but I just can't feel that way towards another woman and I have tried!

@@suziewong2181 Yeahhh. I mean, it's cool to be what you are, but sometimes ( this controversy in particular ), I'm like... yo... I drew the lucky lot. Being straight can be awesome and being gay can suck but right now? I drew that lot again! Haha. Sexuality is flexible. It's not about trying. Maybe one day. / waggles brows

@@ruealgie you are absolutely right! I just don't understand why people act the way they do towards gay or straight people. We all bleed red and we all live in the same place...that's what matters and people just go on with their hateful words and more. Wishing you everything wonderful!❤🌻❤🥂

GREAT SONG!!

Wow! You said that so well! I wish I would/could have said what you did. I hope you don't mind if I use some of what you said to explain to some other women and men what "works". When I was in my teens and twenties, which was a long time ago, I don't know if I would agree with Ty or not. Although now being over 50 years old I definitely agree with Ty. Not only that I agree but I also raised my son in the same manner. I raise my son to be a real man, to take care of his woman, to be the head of the household BUT to also love and respect the woman he is with AS WELL AS treating her as an equal when it comes to making decisions that would affect them or their family. I think it worked with my son and I am so very grateful for that. What I'm seeing now is women taking feminism way too far. It no longer stands for what it used to stand years ago. Feminism is trying to take away masculinity. A man being a man is a horrible thing in their eyes! I don't agree with that and I never will. I would not have agreed with it even in my teens and twenties! The word feminism has become twisted and it's very sad. On another subject, I am very happy that your (I think) cousin got out before it got really bad. ❤

Lori Watts I agree!

@@kane29842 I never said I was interested in women.

@@PlasticGirl65 Note that Kane no longer has a comment here or anywhere I have looked. All of us that replied to Kane looks like we are talking to a ghost!🤔

Are you serious, I'd love to see you show me one thats equal in strength and ability in those fields. Please show me.

Generally Men are physically stronger It's a fact, it will always be a fact.

@@Modern-Renaissance-Man are there not women who also do American Ninja Warrior?

@@Modern-Renaissance-Man kzfaq.info/get/bejne/fceKjdGnvNSUlXU.html

I'm not going to argue here, I also have my opinion.