Timing | Dallin H. Oaks | 2002

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Faith means trust-trust in God’s will and in His timing.
Introduction: 0:00
I. The Lord's Timing: 4:02
II. The Agency of Others: 13:49
III. Applications to Our Lives: 15:37
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"'To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven...'
In all the important decisions in our lives, what is most important is to do the right thing. Second, and only slightly behind the first, is to do the right thing at the right time. People who do the right thing at the wrong time can be frustrated and ineffective. They can even be confused about whether they made the right choice when what was wrong was not their choice but their timing.
My first point on the subject of timing is that the Lord has His own timetable. “My words are sure and shall not fail,” the Lord taught the early elders of this dispensation. “But,” He continued, “all things must come to pass in their time” (D&C 64:31-32).
The first principle of the gospel is faith in the Lord Jesus Christ. Faith means trust-trust in God’s will, trust in His way of doing things, and trust in His timetable. We should not try to impose our timetable on His.
The achievement of some important goals in our lives is subject to more than the timing of the Lord. Some personal achievements are also subject to the agency of others. This is particularly evident in two matters of special importance to young people of college age-missionary baptisms and marriage.
Someone has said that life is what happens to us while we are making other plans. Because of things over which we have no control, we cannot plan and bring to pass everything we desire in our lives. Many important things will occur in our lives that we have not planned, and not all of them will be welcome.
So what should be done in the meantime? Faith in the Lord Jesus Christ prepares us for whatever life brings. This kind of faith prepares us to deal with life’s opportunities-to take advantage of those that are received and to persist through the disappointments of those that are lost. In the exercise of that faith we should commit ourselves to the priorities and standards we will follow on matters we do not control and persist faithfully in those commitments whatever happens to us because of the agency of others or the timing of the Lord. When we do this, we will have a constancy in our lives that will give us direction and peace. Whatever the circumstances beyond our control, our commitments and standards can be constant.
Commit yourself to put the Lord first in your life, keep His commandments, and do what the Lord’s servants ask you to do. Then your feet are on the pathway to eternal life. Then it does not matter whether you are called to be a bishop or a Relief Society president, whether you are married or single, or whether you die tomorrow. You do not know what will happen. Do your best on what is fundamental and personal and then trust in the Lord and His timing." - Elder Oaks
Dallin H. Oaks was a member of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints when this devotional address was given at Brigham Young University on 29 January 2002.
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@MyBikeIsAwesome
@MyBikeIsAwesome 11 жыл бұрын
"Life is what happens to us when we are making other plans"
@stephenbailinC7GS
@stephenbailinC7GS 3 жыл бұрын
Amazing that this talk comes to mind at 1:30 am. Haven't been able to sleep. CuZ iTS nOt tIMe yeT
@Frankincensedjb123
@Frankincensedjb123 3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes the Lord keeps us awake to wake us up to truth
@mikeporter6952
@mikeporter6952 4 жыл бұрын
Perfect timing for this presentation!!
@HectorMMA
@HectorMMA Жыл бұрын
my favorite speaker giving one of my favorite talks.
@michaelayates4535
@michaelayates4535 3 ай бұрын
We find joy as we help others
@skyhiker9669
@skyhiker9669 2 жыл бұрын
It’s been one year and I’m still waiting. The difference is… I’m waiting patiently.
@Frankincensedjb123
@Frankincensedjb123 3 жыл бұрын
Ah, the pre-covid years. Miss them
@michiganabigail
@michiganabigail Жыл бұрын
Elder Oaks speaks to me. I needed to hear this today.
@mikemcmullan8781
@mikemcmullan8781 Жыл бұрын
I stumbled on this talk this morning. The timing was perfect. Thank you Elder.Oaks.
@indianameregone
@indianameregone 4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful speech, full of holy spirit
@joyfulacademy4241
@joyfulacademy4241 2 жыл бұрын
this is exactly what I wanted to hear right now. I am completely comforted by the words I've heard. Thank you President Oaks :)
@doraglassfordrobertson8603
@doraglassfordrobertson8603 4 жыл бұрын
Awesome talk from 2002! Still so valid now in 2020!❤❤❤👼👼👼❤❤❤
@brb5506
@brb5506 Жыл бұрын
And in 2022.
@worldatmyfingertips7771
@worldatmyfingertips7771 Жыл бұрын
Oh maan! I am beginning to get the impression that the Holy Spirit somehow inspired to click on this video right now.....I recently lost my job and was left hopeless....when I heard elder Oaks say what he said at 24:00. My plan for 2023 was extremely different than the changes I had to make to adjust.....and although I must admit I prayed so that certain situation that in many ways required practically a miracle to occur so I was then inspired by the Spirit to ask for comfort and look for other solutions than what I wanted to happen.....the result is I am on the way to recovery and with a brand new plan.....I am happy that I remain steady in my faith throughout my ordeals, no matter what happens to me, I will never question the Lord's timing.....
@mrs.schmenkman
@mrs.schmenkman 3 жыл бұрын
Persist. One word and it means sooooo many things!!!
@USSResolute
@USSResolute 10 жыл бұрын
I concur with Melissa. Sometimes we forget about the role that agency plays in decisions, that it respects the right of others to choose their own adventure. God's work will be done, it will be done well, and it will be done on time. We get to choose to participate or force Him to raise up replacements to do our work.
@gloriabromley7315
@gloriabromley7315 4 жыл бұрын
I so much appreciate the Lord's timing and experiences I've had in my lifetime. I can see the hand of the Lord in my life from the time I was a child. I wouldn't trade any of my experiences and the timing of them. I love God with all my heart!
@gloriabromley7315
@gloriabromley7315 4 жыл бұрын
Actually posted by Dessa Lynn
@keleniengaluafe2600
@keleniengaluafe2600 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤so grateful to listen to this talk 🙌 🙏
@shawnajensenjohnson5482
@shawnajensenjohnson5482 4 жыл бұрын
Anson Call is my grandfather ancestor whom Dallin speaks of in this clip. Ansons family did go to the rocky mountains and some of his children lived in Chesterfield ID which is now a historic tourist town. I live only an hour from there and am involved there and this history. Anson is prominent in Church history as he helped Brigham Young settle alot of Utah.
@independent85302
@independent85302 3 жыл бұрын
Shawna Jensen Johnson I’m related to him as well. Hello cousin!
@simonyparrela9618
@simonyparrela9618 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your inspiring words, President Oaks. Those are helping a hurt heart today.
@HighAltitudeInvesting
@HighAltitudeInvesting Жыл бұрын
Thank you Dalin H Oaks! God bless your soul.
@robertochernandez6560
@robertochernandez6560 4 жыл бұрын
I been blessed to meet him in person in Sunday school . ...
@maseiksauni
@maseiksauni 3 жыл бұрын
Love this talk!
@user-kx5wu8fg9r
@user-kx5wu8fg9r 2 жыл бұрын
オークス長老有り難う御座います thank you very much.
@gavs50
@gavs50 Жыл бұрын
Perfect timing for me to hear this today. Inspired words from a man of God.
@byuspeeches
@byuspeeches Жыл бұрын
We are glad it was meaningful to you, Gabriel!
@mindabiboso78
@mindabiboso78 2 жыл бұрын
Perseverance is a virtue,my time yet to come for what im longing for but i have faith to our Heavenly Father that he will answer all my prayers in a right time🙏thank you for bringing this Pres.Dallin H.Oakes its a blessings to hear a wonderful message.gratitude❤
@Alcigexed
@Alcigexed 11 жыл бұрын
It's interesting to view the anti-mormon videos then listening to mormorns from the source I can't find anything wrong with what he said.
@phatteenah12
@phatteenah12 4 жыл бұрын
Alcigexed I agree ☝️ thank you!!!
@SirMerenos
@SirMerenos 3 жыл бұрын
If you wish, general conference will be live the first weeks of october and april. God bless you
@jeffsyphus
@jeffsyphus 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for taking the time a lot of people don't.
@CML95018
@CML95018 Жыл бұрын
🧡🙏
@ildenete3235
@ildenete3235 Жыл бұрын
Há muitos profetas e eles amam Deus e as leis, as leis da Terra as leis do Céus e todas as leis . Amo aprender com o Espírito enquanto ando enquanto fala as leis transpassando os olhos a mente e as entranhas e saindo pela boca, claro que espiritualmente. Quando vou ao Templo estou sob as leis dos convênios somadas com todas os outros mandamentos em equilíbrio perfeito com o tempo, esse tempo desta Terra tão especial onde habita os filhos de Deus tão especiais escolhidos para viverem nesses dias . Estou fazendo maquetes e unindo os planos no plano divino. E estará tudo pronto para quando Cristo decidir voltar
@skyhiker9669
@skyhiker9669 4 жыл бұрын
What if you’ve been told to “WAIT”?
@amygarner879
@amygarner879 3 жыл бұрын
You ask what do I do now?
@mrs.schmenkman
@mrs.schmenkman 3 жыл бұрын
Well...then...you wait. But while you wait you still are required to live a full and committed life and become the most faithful servant of the Lord you can be. Humility forces us to admit we don't know what we don't know.
@lauramccann18
@lauramccann18 2 жыл бұрын
I have heard this speech before from another leader of the church but more recently, does anyone knows who else did this speech?
@dominicbailin2207
@dominicbailin2207 2 жыл бұрын
So I truly don't get this. How do we trust God in His time and way? He says we need to be anxiously engaged, but we can only move when He says it's time? We are to choose, but we also need to be submissive to His time. We pray, but He answers in His time. Mortality is already difficult and the fact that the atonement was prepared from the foundation of the world, shows we are failures. How does one truly have joy in suffering? If we don't submit to God we're the sinners; if we aren't patient, we're the sinners; if we're not humble, we're the sinners. We fail so much and often, how then do we trust God, when it seems like mortality is nothing but failure or as it reads, all of this is for experience. Our failures are our experiences? When will the joy come, only by trusting Him? But if I don't, then I'm the sinner. Ugh.
@bensjostrom8197
@bensjostrom8197 Жыл бұрын
You are not a perfect person , neither am I , you are not a Failure, God has not told you that, nor has Jesus Christ, nor has the Holy Ghost. Heavenly Father has told the world this is my beloved son in whom I am well pleased, Jesus Christ was perfect he did everything which was the will of Heavenly Father. Because of this as you do your best to follow Jesus the very best you can , the Lord who is your Savior will lift you up no matter how hard life is and becomes. He knows your efforts and he knows and understands You Personally. Continue to seek him and his ways your very best.He has not left you on your own strength alone.
@csb1143
@csb1143 3 ай бұрын
I have struggled from time to time with the same thoughts. Now that I’m a parent I can see that timing is not always obvious at first… but sometimes more apparent in hindsight. It’s easier to see in your kid’s life that in your own life. However I feel like a great piece of advice I heard from a 70 is super helpful,; “it is easier for HF to steer someone who is up and moving in a positive direction than it is to steer someone who is standing still”. Getting up and making a goal and moving towards it HF can move you to better outcomes, even if course corrections are needed. Making sure we are praying, reading, and attending our meetings while working towards worthy goals will allow HF to move you in the best course for your life. Just like Nephi in the wilderness, HF lead the family ‘through the most fertile parts of the land” to his goal. It was not a straight shot.
@NicholastheGoose
@NicholastheGoose 3 ай бұрын
We have so many opportunities to feel joy. We aren’t perfect, we aren’t asked to be, we are asked to do our best and the Lord makes up the rest, that is why we have a Savior. We do fall short, but we learn and grow and the joy is experienced as we turn to the Savior and trust in him. Like the other comments say, we should be moving in a positive direction, not standing still hoping things will just happen. Gods timing, as explained by Elder Holland, is not linear, there are lots of good paths we can take and Heavenly Father blesses us when we make good decisions and move forward with them. The way I look at His timing is that, He always has something great planned for us and we work towards our goals and He orchestrates, in a beautiful way the fulfillment of those goals - even if they turn out to be different than what we had planned. If we keep the commandments and our covenants He helps us with our trials and we feel joy in the journey. We are not simply objects to be acted upon that are unhappy and always falling short. The Savior suffered so we would not have to, if we turn to him in faith and a repentant heart. We have a savior who helps us feel joy as we become more like him and our Father in Heaven.
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