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Tips for First Time Dads to Overcome New Dad Anxiety | Dad University

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@nedboxerjr1604
@nedboxerjr1604 4 жыл бұрын
Trying to sleep on the couch in our hospital room the night before my daughter was born, was the most anxiety I've ever felt. I watched the birth from start to finish and helped my wife during pushing, so many scary factors during the birth. Once my daughter was born and I held her for the first skin to skin contact, all anxiety went out the window. Keep your chin up, new dad's.
@DadUniversity
@DadUniversity 4 жыл бұрын
Love this!
@haroldaltamirano3958
@haroldaltamirano3958 3 жыл бұрын
Still have a ton of anxiety but it definitely calms down when I hold my baby
@ryanfry1390
@ryanfry1390 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks :)
@logan8984
@logan8984 2 жыл бұрын
My baby isn't even here yet but I've been randomly spiraling with anxiety and depression I just want to be the best dad possible
@latrace1986
@latrace1986 3 жыл бұрын
I oftentimes get so into my head that I just completely freeze up and have crippling anxiety. Getting out of the house and going on a walk with the dog definitely helps. You're right though about not making excuses and taking responsibility over the things we can control.
@thevirginian6592
@thevirginian6592 2 жыл бұрын
This definitely helped me brother. I’m a new dad and I’m so scared because of my pst failures I don’t want to fail my son. This was such good advice thank you so much
@DadUniversity
@DadUniversity 2 жыл бұрын
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@markuscurran2373
@markuscurran2373 4 жыл бұрын
Just found out me and my long time girlfriend are expecting our first child just have a lot of anxiety about anything but also excited
@Susson
@Susson 3 жыл бұрын
Hope it goes well brother. I’m in same situation right now. We ain’t alone.
@georgep7925
@georgep7925 3 жыл бұрын
Me too! Found out a few weeks ago, we are so happy but i really dont know how i feel because my head is going a million miles an hour, money, work, house, relationship etc etc! We are comfortable financially just dont know what to expect
@reyc3709
@reyc3709 3 жыл бұрын
Any financial advice?
@MJA1231
@MJA1231 Жыл бұрын
How did it go?
@MJA1231
@MJA1231 Жыл бұрын
@@georgep7925how’ did it go? All well 2 years on?
@PsychoSocialCreation
@PsychoSocialCreation 4 жыл бұрын
Communication is key I love how are you talk about not dumping everything great advice. Empathizing that we all go through emotions 🙌🏽💪🏽
@illessalacz
@illessalacz 4 жыл бұрын
I’m going to becoming a dad in less than 2.5 months. I sort of start to feel some anxiety... but these videos help and I’m here to learn. Thank you! Kind regards from Switzerland
@DadUniversity
@DadUniversity 4 жыл бұрын
Congrats! Glad you are enjoying the videos!
@MarcusAurelius12
@MarcusAurelius12 Жыл бұрын
How are those terrible 2s right now? Lol
@DadUniversity
@DadUniversity 3 жыл бұрын
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@RickyOHD
@RickyOHD 3 жыл бұрын
Glad I found your videos. My wife and I are talking about getting pregnant early next year, and I've been nervous about life changes from it.
@mrunknown6842
@mrunknown6842 2 жыл бұрын
Definitely feeling dad anxiety even before the baby is born.
@DadUniversity
@DadUniversity 2 жыл бұрын
Totally normal. It will be awesome
@user-qq4io7kb7u
@user-qq4io7kb7u 6 ай бұрын
I love that you mentioned/reminded me of empathy. thats money. very important. My go to is usually appreciation and gratitude. keep it up.
@vnomik
@vnomik 4 жыл бұрын
00:00 intro 00:55 financial (anxiety categories) 01:12 my life changing 01:29 caring for the baby 02:24 these feelings are normal (tips) 03:05 write it (or type it) down 04:15 don't forget your health 06:00 have empathy for your partner 07:01 can you control it 08:22 communicate with your partner
@stavrosalmpanis6588
@stavrosalmpanis6588 3 жыл бұрын
I had anxiety about money and i wrote it down..👍 five minutes later... put my hand in my pocket.. empty....😒
@G0ldenFleece
@G0ldenFleece 4 жыл бұрын
Just found out today that my wife is pregnant with our first. The initial joy as turned into panic. I am university educated but the profession i studied has high competition and does not pay well and I am wondering how I am going to pay for this baby. I am even thinking of joining the navy because the pay is double what I am on at the minute.
@gregorycarterjr3443
@gregorycarterjr3443 2 жыл бұрын
Hey I’m a first time dad and it’s crazy the last two weeks. I have anxiety because any little thing that bothers my son makes me wanna fix it immediately. I sometimes feel like I’m failing and others are high moments
@ryanfry1390
@ryanfry1390 2 жыл бұрын
January 30th due date! Just looked at a new apartment, it's nice but rent is very expensive right now, I think it'll be worth it to give my family a nice place to live tho
@cosamagrande07
@cosamagrande07 6 ай бұрын
This helped me a lot!!!!
@MG-ey8ww
@MG-ey8ww 3 жыл бұрын
You're awesome buddy, thanks so much!
@alexlastra3766
@alexlastra3766 4 жыл бұрын
These vids are great! I appreciate all the help I can get.
@tylergardner2053
@tylergardner2053 3 жыл бұрын
I'm becoming a father, this is my first baby girl, I too experience like being on edge, emotional, and I had got triggered getting into arguments.
@LandscapesDronescapes
@LandscapesDronescapes 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. Very helpful.
@tchre474
@tchre474 8 ай бұрын
Finding an induction date today. My emotions are everywhere and Im so scared. I have no idea why Im scared as I am a daycare teacher, but Im just so scared and cant explain why!!
@justing1810
@justing1810 2 жыл бұрын
My new dad anxiety is pretty intense 😳
@vaibhavnahar88
@vaibhavnahar88 2 жыл бұрын
This was great advice. Though communicating about personal problems such as health, career, financial is a bit tricky because the partner goes into insecure mode
@vashstampede4878
@vashstampede4878 8 ай бұрын
Any updates? Was your partner pregnant when you made this post? Did you already have a newborn or a growing child? My wife can also be insecure at times, and we have our first baby on the way.
@santaclaus3077
@santaclaus3077 Жыл бұрын
Just found out me and my girlfriend are pregnant. I was good the first couple of days now I have crazy anxiety. I am having nightmares as well. I hope it gets better.
@Golanibrigade
@Golanibrigade 23 күн бұрын
I just found out the same. How did you handle it? I'm freaking out...
@Golanibrigade
@Golanibrigade 21 күн бұрын
@santaclaus3077 oh man thank you for the response I cant talk about it for now with nobody, I still wake up sometimes with nightmare how I'm going to manage everything and how my life will be. This comforts me a bit thank you brother 🙏 my god bless you and you're family 🙏🫡
@RasKalevthesouljourner
@RasKalevthesouljourner Ай бұрын
I get heavy anxiety going out in public with our newborn. Like at a restaurant and the baby starts crying. Sweating vigorously, negative thoughts and I immediately want to leave. Any tips?
@Introbulus
@Introbulus 2 жыл бұрын
I've been trying to find ways to improve myself in life. I want to enhance my career and become a project manager, or be a more advanced programmer. But, it feels like the opportunities I have to do so at work are nonexistent. And the time to do these things at home doesn't exist. What should I do?
@Mystika_games
@Mystika_games 4 жыл бұрын
These videos help so much thank you
@evancampbell1780
@evancampbell1780 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the videos!
@tyshawnwheeler6486
@tyshawnwheeler6486 3 жыл бұрын
I have a baby on the way
@tyshawnwheeler6486
@tyshawnwheeler6486 3 жыл бұрын
I am nervous 😲
@tyshawnwheeler6486
@tyshawnwheeler6486 3 жыл бұрын
Yes
@f-mc3232
@f-mc3232 Жыл бұрын
#6: communication.... nope as a man you gotta own and deal and never tell your worries to your pregnant other half., she's dealing with 100000x more issues so you better find a way to process that away from her to be the best support you can be for her and never show your worry
@dudeyo2688
@dudeyo2688 10 ай бұрын
Textbook immaturity or a bot
@f-mc3232
@f-mc3232 10 ай бұрын
@@dudeyo2688 so whats a better solution? Whinge and whine about your problems to an already exhausted worried new mom who's still healing and feeding this child ? How does that help ? You got to be strong for her why should she have to be strong for you
@hahaminesbigger
@hahaminesbigger 3 жыл бұрын
I love that you mentioned/reminded me of empathy. thats money. very important. My go to is usually appreciation and gratitude. keep it up.
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