Toddler Big Emotions

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Olivia Owen

3 ай бұрын

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@Shiann444 3 ай бұрын

This definitely confirmed I’m not ready to have kids cause I would’ve just cried with him 🤷🏽‍♀️

@tarawright1287 3 ай бұрын

Nothing wrong with that

@echo4165 3 ай бұрын

To be honest sometimes that is what you do and theirs nothing wrong with that, if anything adults having big emotions too shows kids it’s okay to have big emotions and how you eventually regulate yourself is a great modeling opportunity to show your child what healthy emotional regulation looks like

@maryuhh89 3 ай бұрын

When they see you cry they stop and give you a hug. 😢 freaking angels

@echo4165 3 ай бұрын

@@maryuhh89 those are the days you cherish because you know you’ve done something right

@deathbloom27 3 ай бұрын

Yeah that's valid 😂 had I been doing this parenting thing alone like some of these amazing people out here then I'd have just been crying constantly. Just no end to the tears.

@ironman_546 2 ай бұрын

There would be no hate in this world if all parents treated their children this way. Thank you for giving me hope

@person6768 2 ай бұрын

These are the kids that grow up and expect you to take everything they throw at you. This seems nice now but when he's screaming at people in McDonald's because they messed up it won't be cute.

@thetravelingmaid 2 ай бұрын

Facts. Their self esteem would be intact.

@marissa._ 2 ай бұрын

@@person6768 Then don't have them. Problem solved. 🤷

@Jennifer-gr7hn 2 ай бұрын

it involves people when they are SINGLE, working on their wounds before marrying. That's the way.

@janiyahale6878 2 ай бұрын

@@person6768 She is teaching him to recognize and communicate his needs to prevent big emotions from leading to negative actions.

@justjosie8963 2 ай бұрын

That boy's smile represents the joy of being understood.....and loved.

@magorzatamargaret294 Ай бұрын

This boy is too small to recognize this and HE needs first of all HUGS at that age. And his mother dont understand this basic rules...

@mixedlag Ай бұрын

@@magorzatamargaret294 Oh please. She did a better job at handling this than most parents. He's not too small to feel the acknowledgement she gave him.

@WaterFountain Ай бұрын

@@magorzatamargaret294 I've seen it with people around me when kids start acting out or crying real loud the parents getting annoyed and ignoring them. Some go as far as hitting them while asking them to stop crying. (Yes, it's sadly normal here) What she did was definitely a lot better than all the people I've seen dealing with kids.

@magorzatamargaret294 Ай бұрын

@@WaterFountain get to know what is an OVERTON WINDOW....because nowadays it is used in many different areas of life to fool people...and what is more to change people thinking for the one that is enforced from the top down...and is not necessarily correct and good.

@shaylacrossland1475 Ай бұрын

@@magorzatamargaret294That makes no sense. She handled it perfectly and with plenty of love. A whole lot of it.

@chrismetz7108 2 ай бұрын

Honestly, I wish us adults would speak to each other with this level of empathy and kindness.

@Emper0rH0rde Ай бұрын

Especially if we disagree politically

@SamoSjena Ай бұрын

I made an experiment of doing so actually. So I speak to everyone who is upset with me or something else like she does with this child. Made MY life 100x easier! Would recommend, 10/10. So I guess we should all start at ourselves 😅

@mystosplosion Ай бұрын

*Hug*

@martynatyna1111 Ай бұрын

Right💓

@youngamer6297 Ай бұрын

Here your blancket ❤😊

@Gossdo 2 ай бұрын

She is so soothing with her kids. She is very intuned with their feelings. It's nice to listen to her talk to them. ❤

@darleneachille491 2 ай бұрын

🙏🏽❤️

@susancohen8009 2 ай бұрын

They are either tired, hungry or want to Play,Bless the Family

@jyotsnamuppala2888 Ай бұрын

First of all she should hug the child. The child wants mamas hug.

@shaylacrossland1475 Ай бұрын

@@jyotsnamuppala2888She gave plenty of love and understanding.

@dimitrap2505 Ай бұрын

@jyotsnamuppala2888 when you hug the kid while throwing a tantrum you promote the tantrum. You need to stay calm and show him how to control big emotions, and when he manages to actually control them, when he laughs or stays calm and communicates then you hug him. You reward when the kid learns something new, cooperates and manages his emotions. The mom here does a great job, the kid will be more mature than other adults in his life.

@teslayogini432 2 ай бұрын

I think this whole world would change if all parents were calm like this.

@lisamoscow8833 2 ай бұрын

🥹

@davidcambero7190 2 ай бұрын

I'm great with you

@marissa._ 2 ай бұрын

It'd be better if they just didn't have kids in the first place. 🤷 They never asked to be here.

@TonyToad22 2 ай бұрын

💯💯

@annakleopatrabergendy9765 Ай бұрын

Most of them wish to be but lack the resources and overall well-being to do so. The reality of most parents is sleep deprivation and constant financial stress. Hard to be this calm. Every day goes a bit differently.

@laailahaillallah_h 2 ай бұрын

All I notice is how Mama's tank is full so she could help with such nurture. So inspiring.. thank you

@aliceignis 2 ай бұрын

That's an important point! I want to be like that all the time, but I just can't when I am stressed from all the things on my shoulders or sad because of marital problems. My tank is often empty and I just can't behave in the right way. I keep on giving my best and working on myself. I hope I can be always that calm and empathic, soon!

@Golden_Queen_888 2 ай бұрын

@@aliceignisu start to fill it up alittle bit by not blaming ur self.. u do the best u can & u appreciate urself for that & for the fact that u want improvement.. and if u could.. u would! That’s a good person right there.. Taking away the guilt, shame & harshness with self will give u plenty of fuel 💕✨💖

@zeekachu000 Ай бұрын

@@aliceignisI feel EXACTLY like that.... My husband doesn't give me any attention and so I've been depressed for past 4 months. We've had conversations on it but he hasn't changed much so I've stopped wanting or expecting..... My tank is very empty now.... 😔

@bonniepaora8664 Ай бұрын

@@zeekachu000honey, its time for the ultimatum. Tell him exactly what you need him to do, and how often, and that if he cant do that, then you cant stay with him. A relationship is supposed to support your mental health, not deteriorate it

@shaylacrossland1475 Ай бұрын

@@zeekachu000You sound like a very loving and kind person and you deserve better than what you are being given it sounds like. I hope it's ok to say that.

@theSoftScenter 2 ай бұрын

So great that she turned his mood around before putting him to bed. So many parents don't know how to do this and put their kids to bed and let them cry themselves to sleep. This is so much healthier for both the child and the parent. Bravo and kudos.

@andzelina129 Ай бұрын

Wystarczy przytulić,dziecko potrzebuje miłości matczynej. Nie umiałabym tak maleńkiego dziecka zostawić w łóżeczku z zadowalaczem w postaci smoczka. Oczywiście pięknie spokój mamy najważniejszy,gdybyśmy weszli w flustracje razem z dzueckiem to jestesmy na jego poziomie sami wtedy jesteśmy niedojrzałym dorosłym ale tutaj brawo spokoj i opanowanie ale ten dystans i tresura to nic dobrego one będą wszystko robić by zadowolić mamę i tak będą szły przez życie. Mało miłości w tym wszystkim.

@MessagesFromAurora Ай бұрын

what distance, she is literally holding him the whole time

@brynne77 Ай бұрын

So, it's really important for the parent to talk calmly to a toddler like this when they're crying like that, even if they're really loud before putting them to bed?

@riorangerz 24 күн бұрын

yes. 100%. THIS. it is SO important to not let your child cry themselves to sleep wondering what they ever did wrong. its important to comfort anf to understand, calm them down. it is a parents duty.

@riorangerz 24 күн бұрын

@@brynne77correct!!!!

@ReapTheWhirlwind 2 ай бұрын

Acknowledging a child's emotions is so important. Lil guy needed help deciding to take a nap and his mom let him know that everything he needs, including her, were available. ❤

@brynne77 11 күн бұрын

Ok, but what if his binky wasn't available? What if it was lost?

@SLEMPY273 2 ай бұрын

Every child should experience this kind of love and tenderness.❤

@31Sunshine 28 күн бұрын

Lol! On occasion... Times have changed, people divorced,& relationships failed

@Muffinheadme 2 ай бұрын

I'm glad I learned these methods in parenting at a young age. How to love and support your little, and adult children their whole life long. I'm 72, and now my children have grown children, and the love and peaceful discipline remain. I have amazing kids and 10 grandkids !!! Hopefully this compassionate way of discipline will continue for another 72 years.😅

@ollie8500 2 ай бұрын

I can confirm that this feeling never goes away when I’m tired

@millie_n11 2 ай бұрын

Where's our hugs and blanket... 😭

@21CCommunIT 2 ай бұрын

@@millie_n11 Aww, man... ain't *that* the truth...! 🤔😢

@dianeclayton4936 2 ай бұрын

This interaction warms my heart! This is how healthy tiny humans should be supported. Well done mom!

@darleneachille491 2 ай бұрын

Amen!!!‼️

@heezypeasy8611 2 ай бұрын

First of all, that sweet boy is absolutely adorable. Secondly, momma you are killin it. You handled that so well. I admire your ability to stay so calm and soothing.

@MrCJ-qz9dl 2 ай бұрын

Would you expect her to lose her cool while being filmed for TikTok? It would spark outrage.

@randomvintagefilm273 2 ай бұрын

@MrCJ-qz9dl She isn't the type to lose her cool. She is consistently sweet and her baby feels safe with her

@MrCJ-qz9dl 2 ай бұрын

@@randomvintagefilm273 That's good to know.

@shaylacrossland1475 Ай бұрын

@@MrCJ-qz9dlIt's pretty obvious she's not the type to lose her cool even off of tiktok or KZfaq.

@MrCJ-qz9dl Ай бұрын

@@shaylacrossland1475 Nothing is obvious if you don't know a person. Some people are smart enough to stage *anything* .

@sidraarshad8397 2 ай бұрын

I loved his laugh and comfort he felt, because mummy realised wht he is going through❤❤

@angelaworld5383 2 ай бұрын

If only all kids were treated this way, they could have a lot more better relationship with their parents… And yes, the world would DEFINITELY be a better place

@natemorgan1996 Ай бұрын

Ramen to that, sadly that isn't always the case with most people

@elenatramsti5176 2 ай бұрын

Mom handled this perfectly.

@leeluvslife 2 ай бұрын

I'd just take him to bed.

@hermonghermay5422 2 ай бұрын

She is full of Grace with take care of her kids. They are so lucky.

@Siddharth-Aerospace 2 ай бұрын

Every mother should be like this 😊. Not every couple deserve kids but All kids deserve good parents .

@lenajane595 Ай бұрын

The way he looks up at his mama 😭❤️ I’ll be honest, I’ve never wanted kids, not because I don’t like them - I think they’re adorable - but just because I love just taking care of myself. Seeing this though, damn, that kind of love is so beautiful

@lindaa2437 3 ай бұрын

Such kind and gentle mommy soothes her baby so fast! 💕 💕💕💕💕💕

@justovaccu7768 2 ай бұрын

They get overwhelmed by the day just like we still do! And even as adults this is our heaven. Our bed and comfort.

@Mushroom321- Ай бұрын

Right!!😊😊😮

@brynne77 11 күн бұрын

And also someone to give us a nice, big hug.

@janellerudloff5073 2 ай бұрын

Currently 25 weeks pregnant with my first and it’s a boy!!! and watching these give me hope and this is teaching me a lot about validating my son’s feels and remaining calm. I needed to see this!

@FionaIngrid 2 ай бұрын

Congratulations! :)

@silkecarina991 2 ай бұрын

Im so happy about people like you. Slowly but steady the world will change into better

@1josi3 Ай бұрын

Im in week 38 with my first, its also a boy and I love to watch those Videos, its helping me to be a better mom

@Mushroom321- Ай бұрын

Congratulations! 🎉🎉🎉

@brynne77 Ай бұрын

Agreed and so did I :)

@mohammedyasin8817 2 ай бұрын

Not every parent has the ability to turn a negative into a positive... but when dealing with innocent children it's so important as it's less about what the child does and more about whay you do in situations. Well done & keep up the positivity. 👍😊

@robyndismon394 2 ай бұрын

yes they DO have the ability. but for so many its overlooked, diminished or even ignored Bcz abrasive, ugly and violent reactions are just far too common AND convenient

@brynne77 24 күн бұрын

@@robyndismon394 I can understand why mohammed might say that, for example if the parent has had a bad day, it might not be easy for him or her to be calm and talk to their toddler in a calm manner like she's doing, but I think all parents need to make a big point in doing what you said and keeping calm so they can talk to their child calmly to make him feel better.

@maryjay7833 2 ай бұрын

Your method is great ; All parents should behave like you 🥺

@tonilehman6254 2 ай бұрын

I love how you parent River so calmly. I wish all parents handled their children in this loving manner.❤❤

@annabrahamson4320 2 ай бұрын

Remember this is KZfaq, you are only seeing the good outcomes only the best.

@breathe8214 2 ай бұрын

Even I felt soothed😂😂

@9a_03_alishaturuk8 2 ай бұрын

These young parents will give a positive future generations to this world because they know handling traumas is one of the most difficult thing ❤

@natemorgan1996 Ай бұрын

Fingers crossed

@lindas3795 2 ай бұрын

Lucky baby to have a patience and well prepared with strong positive reactions. Salute to mommy🫡. Tq for the tips❤.

@jadeamerie89 2 ай бұрын

Nothing like a mothers love 💖 mothers heal , grow and nurture 🫶🏾💫

@trishervin3331 2 ай бұрын

Well ... Some do .... 😮

@crystal-matthew4.4 27 күн бұрын

That look in his eyes as you lay him down 🥰. You mommy are the best thing in the word for him ❤️❤️🙏🏼

@CrushnickAngel Ай бұрын

you will know how hard it is to be calm in that situation when you become a parent. She did it so great here

@ChannieTypeO- 3 ай бұрын

You are right. We do this with our toddler often. Works.

@Space_Princess 3 ай бұрын

I love this ❤ it brought tears to my eyes because when i was a kid my brother and i used to get told off for showing emotions and we got punished. We would get told we cant have want we want/need and just have to suffer until we are allowed it because we were the child and they were the adults. Seeing parents like this teaching kids how to take care of their own needs and how to regulate is so beautiful 🥲 most people say this is what makes kids grow up to be snowflakes but actually it doesn't. we need more parents like this 🙏🏻💕

@RubyShelton-nf4mb 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your experiences. I love how there she is for him. He can see and probably feel he has her full attention in a good way. Sometimes comfort is in tone and simple attention.

@betford2 2 ай бұрын

I like this mom. ❤️

@donnaflowers2007 Ай бұрын

That was adorable. May God always protect him and the entire family. It made me cry.❤🙋‍♀️

@bonniescanlan8772 3 ай бұрын

So sweet when he smiles as you lay him down precious

@karenemberley5786 2 ай бұрын

Refreshing to see a video of a mother comforting her crying baby. Most just laugh because for some reason they think it's hilarious.Good job Mom

@tiffanysalling4272 2 ай бұрын

I suddenly want a nap so much that I started crying. That kid is such a sweetie - what a great way to help him with processing his emotions. Awesome job mom.

@randycarson3476 2 ай бұрын

What a great mama It knows how to handle your child when he's really tired and cranky love her

@elieenm4391 2 ай бұрын

Loving Mother with alot of patience and so much love. God Bless her

@manojtiwary6891 2 ай бұрын

Lovely caring momma and sweet cute boy. He understands telepathy of mommas not crying😮 by sweet communication. 😮

@MozartHerbert 22 күн бұрын

His beautiful smile and giggles at the end when you are putting him to slepp are so adorable 🥺🤏🏻🥰

@davinahicks6764 2 ай бұрын

Good mom with listening skills!!! ❤

@tinapadilla4755 2 ай бұрын

Mom, very well done. All is well. ❤

@lovelylibra8765 7 күн бұрын

These are going to be the sweetest, most well-adjusted people. You're doing an amazing job, mom.

@Ranoo857 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for raising beautiful well mannered children ❤

@alicechamberlain6411 3 ай бұрын

He’s so adorable and a good boy, tired boy !

@hockeymomWA 21 күн бұрын

Mama understands that these big emotions come out due to physical needs. Being so calm and able to understand what her children need is such an amazing skill.❤

@Abu_Md_Numan 16 күн бұрын

She is giving positive emotions, that good

@MsJoyce31202 2 ай бұрын

Talking to him makes him laugh! 😊

@gloriabort2879 2 ай бұрын

Such a loving Mom. God bless.

@exiromero7597 11 күн бұрын

I love how she given to her baby what she promised to him 🙏🏼is a lesson for the baby too.❣️

@toniangelo555 26 күн бұрын

Everyone needs this female angel as a mom❤

@karen.island3697 3 ай бұрын

What a great mommy you are! ❤

@alphapbet 3 ай бұрын

The Big nod from him just got me!

@evanfrancisca9674 15 күн бұрын

That's a happy child growing up.We need more of them amd their loving parents

@Saulat_zulfiqarkhan 2 ай бұрын

This world is teeming with tiny angels, may Allah grant this baby a healthy and prosperous life, Ameen.

@debbiewear7823 2 ай бұрын

You are a good mom I thought the little boy was so happy and cute to take a nap. You made the nap sound so cozy ❤️☺️❤️☺️

@tashawoody4013 8 күн бұрын

oh that sweet baby… i’m so glad his mommy is patient and wonderful.

@elysandjojo5859 2 ай бұрын

She is so patient, great job Moms 👍👍

@Sayspace 2 ай бұрын

I don't have my own kids but I definitely love the way you raise your children. That's the way I would want to raise mine. If I ever have any thank you for the content because it does speak volumes

@SaHayes-it2uw 3 ай бұрын

I love how you love him and are so patient.

@sunnyquinn3888 26 күн бұрын

Amazing, as soon as she started talking happily to him, he calmed right down and started smiling and giggling!

@elisabetta4478 13 күн бұрын

To be a mother is a lifelong responsibility. It never ends ❤

@user-ym3no3ve9t 2 ай бұрын

I love her calmness. The baby feels it!😊

@Manar12343 2 ай бұрын

Yessssss validation is super important forr kids. It makes them feel safe and heard

@ChineduOpara Ай бұрын

I don't remember my daughter ever crying like this. 99% of my memories with her are smiles ,kisses, and fun. Our brains are amazing at selective amnesia!

@terrimartinez6547 Ай бұрын

This is a career mom. True nurturing. Real parenting. ❤️

@jenrolo4950 2 ай бұрын

Beautiful to watch so much love and patience ❤

@SerenEnfys 2 ай бұрын

Oooh this baby will grow up to have such a healthy, secure attachment! 🤩 lucky him 🥹

@piekop4148 Ай бұрын

Raise kids and put them on social media at all times! Great parenting 👌

@aninditasinha1144 Ай бұрын

Mom your way of handling emotions of ur babies.....just awesome 👍

@karlakrizek8212 2 ай бұрын

I wish that every baby would have such patient a loving mom. But many do not unfortunately.

@Anita-pi9ip 2 ай бұрын

These are future people who won't need therapy. Thank you Mom ❤

@belindanelson9823 8 күн бұрын

Kudos to this mom ! She is doing it all right . ❤

@MochiColorsZanos Ай бұрын

The way he looks at her as she laid him down. Pure trust and the feeling of being loved 💛 Melted my heart 💛💫

@ElizabethBallesteros-mo1zi 3 ай бұрын

He is so adorable and cute 🥰

@persiandrum9871 2 ай бұрын

What a great example this mother is. Absolutely wonderful. God bless the family.

@KiAkKiErAlA Ай бұрын

Enchanted by love shining in the baby eyes toward his mother.

@PrettyPinkGirl Ай бұрын

guys she’s such a good mom ❤

@jenniferlambert5581 2 ай бұрын

Hes a baby not a toddler!!!! Love your babies good grief

@SDionne 2 ай бұрын

Not sure how I got this video in my feed but I’m so glad I did. I have a 1 and a 3 year old….and I need this! Thank you!!!❤

@morgansedano8328 17 күн бұрын

That look up from bed was the purest love I have ever seen from a pair of eyes! Wow!

@sumayahzadran7587 29 күн бұрын

Much love for this little angel. ❤❤ Thank you for being so good to children. I slowly get back hope into humanity when I see people treating their children well.

@rmdimples753 2 ай бұрын

I am sorry its off the topic but why people let babies overuse binkies, most toddlers i have seen on internet have an overbite why make their little life difficult . Maybe there is something that i dont know but we grew up without it and no one in ny family have any problems with bites or jaw formation

@francestaylor9156 2 ай бұрын

I never found the toddler years difficult. Routine, proper planning and understanding triggers made for a wonderful experience. The toddler years are actually my favorite.

@HalfNHalf. 2 ай бұрын

I totally agree. Once you get in that routine, life is easy

@everybreathisachance2004 24 күн бұрын

Omgsh I cried - seeing a baby cry like this breaks my heart I have a 3 month old and they just need help with getting back to feeling happy again! Omgsh precious angels

@philiptromp231 2 ай бұрын

Master level. Those kids gonna do really well in life! Great Mum! ❤

@anitapienaar7355 3 ай бұрын

You are amazing

@lauracofman7128 3 ай бұрын

Please allow the feelings.

@gree-uz8pv 23 күн бұрын

What a wonderful mom who gets it and is so giving. Stay strong and he will love you forever.

@Lea-bk3lx Ай бұрын

The joy of being understood. Love it🥰

@MaryBethKissel 3 ай бұрын

Excellent mom....love everywhere !❤❤❤❤

@ms7953 3 ай бұрын

😂Watch out for "trigger words" though. I've known some little ones if you said "tired" or "take nap" would move from big emotions to hysteria because they recognized the trajectory towards going to bed and they hated to go to bed.🙄But Sweet Momma here, good job.🙂🙂