Together Forever? Would You Discourage Your Kids From Getting Married?

Together Forever? Would You Discourage Your Kids From Getting Married? | Loose Women

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10 ай бұрын

It looks like marriage might not be the main focus for women in the younger generation with as much as 51% confessing in a new study that holy matrimony just isn't practical anymore. Among them were 18 to 24-year-olds who believed that the union wasn’t a realistic goal. Judi says that time and time again there are women who are financially stable, who get married and then are doubly penalised. Myleene believes it’s the worst contract a woman can ever sign - and has told her daughters so!
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@mr.balloffur 10 ай бұрын

Most kids haven't seen a stable marriage so it only stands to reason they don't see it happening for them.

@sharoncox4776 10 ай бұрын

Myleene Klass got stung by her ex husband - had to give half to him! Can see why she has done this - to protect herself and kids

@S-rn6xn 9 ай бұрын

This has happened to to most men when getting divorced for absolutely ages lol. Now women complain when it happens to them

@hearmeoutbro 9 ай бұрын

@@S-rn6xnWell said.

@hearmeoutbro 9 ай бұрын

Now women are getting a taster of what happens to men in the divorce because it’s always men who lose out.

@lubabmohammad9164 3 ай бұрын

Yes but women are left with the kids!!! She gets half, you mean the kids and the family you left behind gets half so your kids are set up, no? Also when women stay at home and run a household and run your life it affords you the freedom to go out into the world and make money, why should her services go unpaid. You would pay a PA / a cleaner/ a chef to name a few job roles that most wives end up doing.

@EdelweisSusie 9 ай бұрын

Totally agree with Mylene - protect YOURSELF (and children if you have them) at all costs. Take the rose-coloured glasses off ladies and use your HEAD not your heart when it comes to love because a man's undying love can disappear in a heartbeat (trust me) so if you have assets use legal recourse to ensure that no man can ever take from you what he hasn't earned. Mylene's ex-husband virtually cleaned her out financially - no wonder she's terrified to get married again particularly now she has three children. She's older and VERY much wiser.

@Homer255 9 ай бұрын

If she cleaned him out you wouldn’t care.

@Steve_the_Lion 9 ай бұрын

This is what women have been doing to men for the last few decades, getting divorced and then taking his house and kids.

@S-rn6xn 9 ай бұрын

Lol women have always done this to men and you happily take but now moan when it can happen to women 😆 everything you said applies to men too and more

@louisegraham157 5 ай бұрын

@@S-rn6xnnobody said it doesn’t happen to men, this is women who marry men so obviously their experience will be about a man taking the money.

@hearmeoutbro 9 ай бұрын

My dad has been married twice, my mum’s on her third, they put me off marriage however my Nan and Grandad have been married 66 years and I look up to them and admire them. They argued a lot but they made it work and didn’t give up on each other whereas my mum and dad split up after only 10 years.

@izziehar319 10 ай бұрын

I adore Judi she really is the best 😊

@kirstyrogers40 9 ай бұрын

I’ve been engaged with my partner James for coming up to 8 years in November, and to be completely honest, I’m in no rush to have an actual wedding. At the end of the, living with him and sharing our lives together is more than enough for me without the financial burden of a wedding and the hassle of having to change my name and getting that sorted. Day to day nothing would actually change.

@TheHouseofcoolstuff 5 ай бұрын

You don’t need to spend money to get married, I mean you can have a small ceremony with your closest family and friends. My husband and I just celebrated our 10th wedding anniversary and we literally didn’t spent any money on our wedding day. We wanted to be about us and what we wanted so we had few close friends and that was it.

@distorbia20 3 ай бұрын

You also don’t need to change your name. Nor spend loads money on a wedding. But I do agree if you are both not ready no point getting married

@HelloKit-nc9gj 10 ай бұрын

I wouldn't make it a requirement in life. Marriage, for decades if not centuries, has been seen in life that you are SUPPOSED to be married and frankly that is not true.

@marisasalvador613 10 ай бұрын

Sounds to me like Myleene still has a lot of healing to do!!

@luwamalem9537 9 ай бұрын

It does seem that way when I hear her talk! 🤷🏽‍♀️

@nq6508 10 ай бұрын

In the US, women couldnt have their own credit cards without a husbands permission. That lasted until the 90s

@lifetobelived9102 10 ай бұрын

I wish I could ask my mom about this because she worked in the 1950's even when she was married at least part time until she had children. She must have had bank accounts for pay checks. She didn't live near her parents so they wouldn't have been involved with her bank accounts. My mom and dad made joint financial decisions.

@pamelaiverson5527 10 ай бұрын

That stopped in the early seventies in Australia. Prior to that a man had to co~sign a contract for a car for example.

@faystalker9851 10 ай бұрын

Don't think people bother about marriage nowadays they just live with each other myleene right you could lose your house ect

@hearmeoutbro 9 ай бұрын

It is just two names on paper.

@cloudycloud4171 9 ай бұрын

@@hearmeoutbrofor people who are religious it can be important or if u want children and stay at home it makes sense to get married.

@hearmeoutbro 9 ай бұрын

@@cloudycloud4171 Well I personally don’t want children. Never have, never will. I’m also not religious. My Mum’s on her 3rd marriage and my Dad has been married twice. Put me off for life.

@cloudycloud4171 9 ай бұрын

@@hearmeoutbro sure no one has to do marry ! I personally don’t want children too hahah

@rezyousuf4954 4 ай бұрын

@@hearmeoutbroSo sad to hear yr parents put you off marriage. Instead of fearing and cocooning yourself- ask God to give you wisdom to choose a marriage partner and pray He leads them to you and you to them. God is in control - He exists and loves you - just involve Him in yr decisions and plans. God bless you.

@mariajoannou9936 6 ай бұрын

Mylene has such a point. Even previous wives of a new husband also can have claim to their pensions and state pensions, even in death.

@nualarosth8448 9 ай бұрын

Here in Sweden there is a very simple concept that can be downloaded and drown up when an unmarried couple move in together it’s common practice and very ry excepted❤

@crazycatpetera1404 8 ай бұрын

Mylene being seems very jaded in how she’s fear-mongering marriage.. I think a better message to take away is - TAKE YOUR TIME AND MAKE SURE YOU PICK THE RIGHT PERSON! Don’t base the decision on feelings and attraction alone because they will both decrease and fluctuate as you both age, a marriage is for a lifetime. Make sure you’re both fully aligned on the key principles in life.. family/parenting, finances, politics, trust, religion etc. Sure, read the marriage agreement properly but if you’re already unsure if it will last and constantly thinking about covering yourself, then it will always eventually fail.

@lifetobelived9102 10 ай бұрын

I wouldn't discourage but I don't think it's necessary. I don't think marriage should be a legal document that requires a court to dissolve. Two people can create documents for assets/will, medical advocacy, etc.

@topgurl9313 10 ай бұрын

Totally agree.

@lindsaylindsay4884 10 ай бұрын

Then just don’t get married

@lifetobelived9102 10 ай бұрын

@@lindsaylindsay4884 Isn't that what I said. Mine was in reference to my own adult child. I guess I left that out. I assume she'll probably get married at some point.

@edwardm1326 9 ай бұрын

Then how is that different from a relationship? Why call it a marriage if it isn’t one?

@user-mc1wp6lv9n 9 ай бұрын

💰💰💰. God ' so heavy' had to switch off yest.🙄

@annawalsh8880 9 ай бұрын

Its called a pre nup so u dont get stiffed!

@DavidJohnson-dc8lu 10 ай бұрын

That is called GROOMING your issues and ideals onto your children and that is 100% terrible parenting. Stop placing your fears onto your children, because fears, avoidance, running away from and phobias only teaches children to fear, avoid, run and this leads to epic failures that build up and up!

@hopefulfortomorrow1039 9 ай бұрын

No they shouldn't. Most modern mothers are way too OTT even when their children become fully fledged adults. They need to learn to back off not be even more interfering.

@carrietaylor6658 10 ай бұрын

She's all about the money is mylyenne

@sherrykao978 10 ай бұрын

And you are not?

@S-rn6xn 10 ай бұрын

Funny how women say this when woman have been taking loads from men for years and never complained

@URFUTUREUK 10 ай бұрын

Women used to have to need a man to survive because they didn't have rights to work fairly etc. Now they just want their own lives. Getting married is great if it's a good union, but it's no good if it's just because you're afraid of being/surviving alone.

@S-rn6xn 9 ай бұрын

@@URFUTUREUK in the 1900s yes… women have worked for ages now. Women still take more from men, including ridiculous amounts for child support etc and a lot of their money. They never mention men having to spend loads of a ring and propose, which is outdated and sexist. Why aren’t women doing this if women want to be modern?

@cloudycloud4171 9 ай бұрын

LOL some couples decide to have a lot of children. So as a women you would prob stay at home for obvious reasons. Marriage can make sense and protect ALL