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@jasmijn42134 жыл бұрын
Hey ladies when I meet a man and he ask, "what are you looking for in a man" the best response for me has been "I am looking for a man to be exactly who he is so I can observe, then figure out if he is someone I want in my life." Say it sweet and with confidence. Works like a charm. 😉
@Jaythecook4 жыл бұрын
Woooow... I never thought of this. Thanks for sharing sis
@jdavis67274 жыл бұрын
Love it. Thanks!!
@Linalwaysreal4 жыл бұрын
Good answer
@Reshae_4 жыл бұрын
Love this! Thanks☺
@solekhashuwa4 жыл бұрын
I love it, so gonna use it.
@kokoalaska98883 жыл бұрын
LADIES: Focus on living a FULL LIFE SINGLE. I just came back from a solo Vegas trip and meet two nice gentlemen and one took me out to dinner after meeting him during a dirt bike tour! Even if I never meet these dudes again, live a life of abundance! Fitness, meal prep, hobbies, travel, etc whether you got a man or not.💕💋
@shannon082613 жыл бұрын
Yes 🙌🏽 please ‼️
@vonnii10132 жыл бұрын
I endorse this campaign lol
@lashawnward3402 жыл бұрын
Thks, I need some excitement in my Life. Solo Trip sounds Fabulous..
@stacybynum4272 жыл бұрын
Yesssssssss 🤗💕🤗✨
@candidlycamille2 жыл бұрын
We as part of the blessed tribe, should all make it a girls trip next time 🖤
@nalignmentwlifehealinglife3 жыл бұрын
When I refused to come to a man’s house for dinner and stay overnight. He said that no man would ever put a ring on my finger because I was being difficult. I laughed, and said boy please, that’s your hurt ego talking….any man would be blessed to be my husband.
@jasminexxx39113 жыл бұрын
Yes they try to gaslight and manipulate you when they can’t easily get what they want ! Smh atleast you knew your worth and didn’t give it up to him
@veritasnkom59342 жыл бұрын
Yasssss! Love how you shut his weak ass down with that as it’s clear that his motive was sex
@HFDZ1192 жыл бұрын
He was trying to make you doubt your morals. How nasty.
@piak782 жыл бұрын
Bravo girl. U shudve added one more line. "Pls get me a diamond ring n a new model iphone n then im all urs baby".
@elusiveali7852 жыл бұрын
Amen
@rosemarie54892 жыл бұрын
I have a male colleague, who is in a relationship with a girl who is studying in another city. I asked him once how often do they meet. He told me, that every Friday, he drives 3 hours to her and early on Monday mornings, he comes back straight to work. And then you have men who tell their girlfriends , living in the very same city that they don't have time.
@Nitra813 Жыл бұрын
That was me. My husband was driving 4 hours every week before he transferred to the same city but even then he was driving 2 hours faithfully to see me. Never made excuses. He made the time. Even when we went tom2 different churches. He went to his service then left and met me at my my afternoon service. If they want you they will make the time and the effort.
@rosemarie5489 Жыл бұрын
@@Nitra813 Yes, if they want you, they will put effort to make it work. If they don't want you, they will put effort to make exuceses.
@tamitatangoto51343 ай бұрын
The free love movement that started in the 60s has escalated to the point of what it is now. Men don't have to be faithful to a girlfriend or a wife,.. BECAUSE they don't even necessarily have to get a wife 😞.. because they don't have to wait to have sex for marriage,.. men would throwback their head and laugh at that outdated thought.😢😮😊 If women would just close their legs you might say then things could go back to men wanting women in marriage. However; something NOT new and perverse is happening that happened and was brought out in the Bible in Genesis, about Sodom and Gomorrah..😮 Men having sex with men. No longer a bizarre thought in many people's minds, a man will turn to another man in many cases if a woman will not put out.😊 Nobody it appears is thinking of the moral consequences. Guess what? GOD IS...HE IS THINKING ABOUT IT AND HE WILL HOLD ALL PEOPLE ACCOUNTABLE THAT ARE IMMORAL. So why am I putting this comment on this particular place. Just so you know that it is all under control,..( nobody is getting away with anything) God is not letting anybody get away with anything that they shouldn't be doing. They/We will all answer to God on their/my judgement day.🎉❤
@redeemed13524 жыл бұрын
"Remove the desperation, the frustration, things that make you do too much, give too much, show too much. Just read and respond, let him do the talking." Amen Tony.
@yukineswan4 жыл бұрын
I mean its true tho. It makes me think about what people have said to me years ago. "Just be yourself" but ive noticed some want to "win" so much they will deceive. Honestly tho nowadays, love is a transaction. Real love is free.
@ebiemchioma51923 жыл бұрын
What about reciprocating or being true to the energy he gives you. For me I don’t hold back on love. If you give me 50, I put in 50 but it seems men don’t like it that way. Maybe I should start holding back but it’s gon seem like I’m toxic. Relationship is hard.
@kefoxxie36913 жыл бұрын
Amen xxx
@amberinternational3 жыл бұрын
I just met this man about a week and a half ago and I’ve have definitely been doing too much 😩 from today on... if he doesn’t call me won’t be talking and if he doesn’t text me or give me updates on what we are working on he won’t hear from me.
@eveheart28763 жыл бұрын
💯
@tinathomas15253 жыл бұрын
Give him the same energy he's giving you..
@arnelevans67793 жыл бұрын
I'm about to do that to my boyfriend. Almost a year, and now he's acting stupid.
@avahpetit79623 жыл бұрын
@Lovely me same here you’re not alone my sister been telling me about this guy in the video I wished I did at the first time
@Thekingsdota3 жыл бұрын
Just leave him. Matching negative energy with a toxic person doesn't work
@wandasconci4263 жыл бұрын
Yup
@dabaraalfa60843 жыл бұрын
Yeeeeeeesss
@TheBethRoszman3 жыл бұрын
This is the talk every father needs to give his teenage girl.
@neworleansindianwells18212 жыл бұрын
All men need to have this conversation with their daughters of all ages I think. He is speaking the truth!
@jennymccullough95172 жыл бұрын
But never do
@SS-rl9bg6 ай бұрын
I share his content with all of my sisters. Dad just doesn't know how to have these conversations because he still isn't ready for his babies to grow up.
@Rayne1bow2 ай бұрын
His future daughter is very lucky
@SophisticatedTeacher2 ай бұрын
I had that talk and still bumped my head. 🤕
@kourtneymarie89953 жыл бұрын
"A man needs me..& I'm the prize" I feel like women need to be told this from a young age, instead of feeling like we need a man
@QueenKG22883 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@attorneymom352 жыл бұрын
Why do I treat him like this but NOT myself.
@thedreamer63592 жыл бұрын
This is great
@sweetulip20042 жыл бұрын
They need us and we need them. It's just been more promoted on the woman side...
@deniseharper59134 жыл бұрын
Stop doing the most for a man that you are not exclusive with
@toriyt27144 жыл бұрын
Denise Harper even when exclusive it’s still not yet the time to be doing the most.
@lesliec53394 жыл бұрын
@@toriyt2714 how is that possible when your friends before a relationship
@wendy26304 жыл бұрын
One of my ex husband's jump offs thought she was something serious. Slept with him on the first night and did everything his wife wouldn't do in her words. He ended up leaving her high and dry and talking about her like a dog. She did the most for the least respect, in the end she found out she was one of many. Although she bragged that she was very experienced , he only appreciated her expertise until he didn't want her anymore. So being exclusive isn't enough, a man needs to marry a woman first and make sure he's God sent.
@shutit40244 жыл бұрын
wendy2630 yeah still gotta make sure it’s the right man to marry because I have men in my family that marry women but talk about them like a dog even while still being married to them ( and they talk about their ex wife’s like dogs) like you said make sure he’s god sent
@toriyt27144 жыл бұрын
Leslie Chung did you watch the video
@NaomiRGlee4 жыл бұрын
I always felt like if a guy was interested in me he would check on me daily.
@theprincessdivam76954 жыл бұрын
Exactly! I am not going to be anyone option. If I am not a priority I do not want to be bothered.
@bre_s91644 жыл бұрын
Hello somebody!!! 🙌🏾 Thank you!!
@Scorpio123484 жыл бұрын
He was checking on me daily. Sometimes 5 times daily. Too excessive. Then he was asking for intimacy. Slow down buddy. I told him no. Now I think he so gonna ghost 👻
@claudia_904 жыл бұрын
@@Scorpio12348 Let him ghost!👻 If he comes back, your voice mail will answer his call. No time for bs😎
@kwash014 жыл бұрын
@melissacolon girl the same thing is happening to me right now 🙄. He said he didn't have a problem with it but he's not texting as often anymore. I know I deserve better and so do you!
@veeyanaweva5 ай бұрын
attention all ladies, watch this over and over again until it STICKS!!!
@asian-french17 сағат бұрын
I wish I knew Tony earlier, he's an amazing coach
@julianagarces23892 жыл бұрын
So glad I found this video and channel at 21. I cleaned my exes room trying to prove to him I was wife material, never again!! This video was a huge wake up call thank you! I’ve been praying a lot and been celibate and I know God sent me this for wisdom. Amén!
@mft75302 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad you saw this at such a young age! You have definitely saved yourself years of hurt. Don’t ever try to earn love from a man (or anybody really). Women have been programmed to believe that we are lesser than men & need them to survive. We don’t. If a dude leaves, let him go! Rejection is protection. You’re still super young. Don’t trip off no boy. Use discernment and take your time. Have fun!
@tamitatangoto5134 Жыл бұрын
Me too Juliana, not giving up to no one for nothing. Only marriage is going to score this woman. That's the mistake that so many women are making they give them the one precious thing that they truly have to offer from the very depths of their being. And they give it in such a quick amount of time too. The guy doesn't have to work or want for nothing. Why should he marry her? He shouldn't and he won't.
@jamoresworld8233 Жыл бұрын
Me too 🥰🥰🥰🥰
@jamoresworld8233 Жыл бұрын
Being young and knowing this is gonna help you so much 💜
@paolaree8004 Жыл бұрын
How old are you now?
@jenniferlitanda34164 жыл бұрын
“What you let a man do shows how you value yourself”
@lifesjoyz47243 жыл бұрын
So true I solely agree. I also notice women. That cling to men that have no jobs. Live with their Momma's. Some women have their own Apt. But get off work and go straight to his Momma's house. And lay up with him in his one room. 🤔 No way would I disrespect myself like that or his Mother home. They just have no self esteem.
@labosskitty3 жыл бұрын
This was incredible ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
@jenniferjohnson72253 жыл бұрын
👋🏽
@jenniferjohnson72253 жыл бұрын
Jeanine Okpala i
@candiury59943 жыл бұрын
Love that
@marblezulu81174 жыл бұрын
Thanks to my grandma who taught me this when i was 16. She told me NEVER NEVER to chase a man bcoz i am the prize. Now im 30 and married to the most amazing husband on earth. One day i asked him why he decided to marry me from all the girls in the world, he said.. " because you made me EARN you. You never chased but i did and it made me fall in love with you bcoz it made me feel that im the man and i had to earn you." So ladies, NEVER chase. Let him do the job. He will realize your value and worth.
@elizabethsara9914 жыл бұрын
But man coach say to Man To not chase a women ,woman coach say To not chase a Man , so am confuse
@chrisjulian65644 жыл бұрын
Gugue Nyathi Beautiful story. Thanks!
@kirk10074 жыл бұрын
That is awesome. I like hearing the man what really happened
@TrangLe-dp8jf4 жыл бұрын
lavidavi it’s so true
@missmarymack34574 жыл бұрын
Bullybuc I promise I hope you get blocked.
@elanabelcher15362 жыл бұрын
My dad told us stories how he was a player. And never put us his daughters on game. Didn't protect us, I ended up bumping into men that were who he used to be.i had to learn completely the hard way. I am so happy you are out here being honest. God bless you and your family forever Amen.
@user-qs7wc8xp5s7 ай бұрын
Same sis, same 💯
@kizzyharrison69065 ай бұрын
❤
@nancythinks91593 жыл бұрын
For someone who’s NEVER HAD A FATHER! I want to say thank you ! Some of this seems so obvious I just never had a man explain this to me. I will definitely take this advice to heart and live by it.
@kaitlynnbroke23212 жыл бұрын
I have a Father and I still married an abusive man because no one still explain me that they are wolves in sheep’s clothes out there.
@Z_Israel10 ай бұрын
@nancythinks9159.. I totally agree with you. I was just saying how I thank God for this internet brother.
@mom2suns8576 ай бұрын
People like him are a blessing
@patriciaearley41773 жыл бұрын
A man shows you who he is eventually
@KeyLoLoKye3 жыл бұрын
Always.
@chickwitthagoodies3 жыл бұрын
@Angel Herron same here I feel so bad we can't allow ourselves to be authentic with a man anymore they just use everything against us
@abbynnaji38813 жыл бұрын
I hate mind games. Whats wrong with loving someone and being true to urself. Not everyone wants to go beating around d bush. If i like u i like u. With all the protocols about being distance, etc. U still see rship crash. This doesn't work for everyone. Trust me.
@wandasconci4263 жыл бұрын
Always
@marilynboggs21513 жыл бұрын
Yeah it all is good when a man wants a women it really don't matter to some men they will know you are a woman that respectful will cook, clean responsible and faithful but will gets with a unfaithful player that will lay on her back fast! So you do have to be your authentic self! And let him earn your love.
@kellier58964 жыл бұрын
I met this guy at the gym and we had 2 dates. Initially he would call regularly but leading up to and on Valentine's day the calls turned to texts. Then the day after Valentine's he asked me to go to his place so he could cook breakfast or lunch. I suggested that we meet somewhere for lunch. He said he had been working all week and wouldn't feel like getting out. I said well I'm not ready for home visits. He proceeded to go off, by text message. Tried to shame me. Said I have trust issues and some more junk. He said we are both too old to have that mindset. I was like, I don't know you but you be well sir. Lol
@Mywatercrystaltv4 жыл бұрын
Class act!! 👌
@rrb28954 жыл бұрын
Good for you! You didn't let him manipulate you.
@grezsoy4 жыл бұрын
Well done Kellie.
@esthernichols44514 жыл бұрын
Thats it. You dont know if he is crazy. You get over there, you do something to set him off, then he locks you up in his basement. Smart move!!!
@womanofgod29484 жыл бұрын
Proud of you Sis! 🤗
@monabrown101 Жыл бұрын
It's crazy true.... the moment the scales fell from my eyes, and realised that I GENUINELY didn't need/desire any man, and I was enjoying my solo (free) life (building friendships, travelling, working and pursuing my dreams, becoming healthy, being happy, etc)... it was THEN my now fiancé came into my life. Met him at work. I turned him down multiple times, because I genuinely was content with my life and being single. I couldn't be bothered with no man😂😂😂. The man should be THE ADDITION to your ALREADY- FULFILLING life. Your man should add/enhance your life....not subtract and distract you. You are the prize ladies. 🔑 🗝 🔐 💯👌🏾
@so.many.obstacles2 жыл бұрын
Went on a date with a guy and gave him a church hug after the date. He made not of that and was offended. I normally don’t even hug on the first date, especially a sensual hug. Our communication fizzled out after that, and I was happy about that. I knew he wasn’t going anywhere because when he texted me, he would use “u” instead of “you”. That told me that he was lazy and likes to take shortcuts. “You” is already and short word and abbreviated it is again laziness.
@77sunflowers3 ай бұрын
And disrespect!!!
@citygirl2124 жыл бұрын
I don’t understand why my dad never taught me any of this .. could have save allot of heartaches
@unamass754 жыл бұрын
citygirl212 check out The Daddy Daughter talk by RCBlakes
@poeticlovee4 жыл бұрын
Mine never did either. Had to learn everything the hard way.
@yeahthatsme9214 жыл бұрын
He was running this same game on your mom
@rainclouds11884 жыл бұрын
Yes Lord, agreed....
@kelleybright31134 жыл бұрын
Rember the old golden rule love dont hurt love is kind love is... Now u fill in ur blanks queen sistah we 2 sharp 2 play becky
@natashanolan63114 жыл бұрын
"If you got respiratory issues.. you going to meet the Lord." 😂😂😂 Lmao... the truth will set you free
@kikinyte68064 жыл бұрын
Best line of the video.... I screamed and rewinded that part 10 times
@ayinkefaridatou55244 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@mschurchgurl4 жыл бұрын
And he called the virus “the 19”...I’m done 🤣🤣🤣...his advise is sooo good tho!!!
@jaena10154 жыл бұрын
Natasha Nolan 😂😂😂😂🤣
@keishaoliviab4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@ecclesiastesThreeVerseSeven9 ай бұрын
Amen, the other day i was thinking about marriage and i thought about the fact that my husband could show up tomorrow... so i asked myself if i was ready to be his wife..and the answer was no. So I told myself I would get myself together in the process of waiting
@itsmulanali Жыл бұрын
This makes me feel better about maintaining my standards as a young woman. Dating is a bit crazy out here and some people’s standards are so low. I even had to cut off female friends because they did wife things for men that weren’t even committed to them. I had a better selection of men that treated me better than them and they got jealous. A man is going to do what you allow him to do.
@cynthiareynolds19419 ай бұрын
This is so true
@uniquestylist40264 жыл бұрын
A man needs me, I am the prize
@traquilasmith22754 жыл бұрын
So true a man needs me im the prize
@sabrinagoddess_4 жыл бұрын
Tracy Davis yes❤️
@cjlanier38644 жыл бұрын
keep thinking your the prize...it’ll only lead to no man wanting to finish the race
@uniquestylist40264 жыл бұрын
@@cjlanier3864 have a great day
@nellycheruiyot98504 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@jmmsmh62203 жыл бұрын
Every girl should have a brother like this.
@psycherevivedby3 жыл бұрын
Fathers should be like this
@tilliefoster59253 жыл бұрын
I am 73 years old and I am impressed with the down-to-earth conversation of this man thank God for you
@wshelby833 жыл бұрын
Spring valley for real!!!!!
@AllEyezOnMeTMC3 жыл бұрын
Father, uncle, cousin, friend
@ysmithriley3 жыл бұрын
This info should be coming from your dad if he's part of your life.
@hopefaithandpositivity12792 жыл бұрын
As a a divorced women in my early 40’s with minimum dating experience, putting into practice the knowledge shared in this video will save me from future heartbreak and brokenness due to making poor decisions. Thank you, Tony! 🙏🏽☺️🙌🏽
@joyeakodu8109 ай бұрын
This! I'm mid 40s divorced after 16yrs. Had no idea some of this stuff.
@leahr90383 жыл бұрын
This makes me so sad because I didn't know I was doing everything wrong. I feel used and trashed. I wish I knew this when I was youngee
@jjm82242 жыл бұрын
You still have a beautiful life ahead of you, sweetie. You are precious...remember that everday.
@chichisosweet21412 жыл бұрын
I do too. For days I felt like trash and used and it’s my fault 🤦🏿♀️
@jhssmith20042 жыл бұрын
@@chichisosweet2141 it's fine to feel like that. i felt the same way but i think you have to feel it all so you can be re-born. now i feel like a brand new woman. do things that bring you joy, help others and take care of yourself.
@hhhoneycomb2 жыл бұрын
Trial and error baby girl
@isrielyoung48264 ай бұрын
It’s okay! Just remember you’re not where you were yesterday. A new chance, a new opportunity to exercise your self worth. Sometimes we have go through things so that we know how feels and will never accept that again
@shaunabee4 жыл бұрын
Tony is right! I’ve always heard “what are you looking for in a man” is code for “what do I have to do to sleep with you”... sounds about right 🤷🏾♀️
@Glamrocs4 жыл бұрын
Shauna Yup
@farrowife92304 жыл бұрын
If a man have to ask what you are looking for, he is not the one, he only want to know the acting role you want him to play so he can act like the one until he get what he wants from you.
@michelewilliams17644 жыл бұрын
A man was so mad at me, one time, because I just wouldn't cook - clean - and sleep with him. He told me that I would remain single because no one's doing what I'm doing now. I told him "the devil is a liar" I'm not doing anything like that and you can be mad all you want. He later said "I want to meet the man you'll marry and shake his hand." 😂😂😂
@michelewilliams17644 жыл бұрын
A man was so mad at me, one time, because I just wouldn't cook - clean - and sleep with him. He told me that I would remain single because no one's doing what I'm doing now. I told him "the devil is a liar" I'm not doing anything like that and you can be mad all you want. He later said "I want to meet the man you'll marry and shake his hand." 😂😂😂
@TikaRoxanne4 жыл бұрын
@@michelewilliams1764 Sound like a str8 bum...mad because you aint a damn fool..he want boyfriend benefits wit no effort..sounds about right
@wakawakaabby47794 жыл бұрын
Any man who values a woman would create time to spend, court her properly while respecting her boundries.
@evka243 жыл бұрын
its simple really...if he does not invest ...he is there to take
@lindsay53483 жыл бұрын
Yes
@imwatching29603 жыл бұрын
Boys should be tought that!!!!! Wish my father had respected my mom so I could learn that early on, how to respect and value myself and not give myself away to any man. Also my brother woul have learnt to respect women.
@almam21333 жыл бұрын
Preach!
@jazminerenee40773 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@mandycook26382 жыл бұрын
I am a healthy single woman in her 40s, successful career, home owner, and biblically based in the way I live. I am extremely happy with where my life is going and the path ahead of me. I would love to have a companion, someone to love me and for me to love, a husband. It is sooooo difficult to find that one. What I have decided to do is pray a certain scripture, I have never spoke the scripture out loud, only prayed it on my heart. I have asked the Lord to put that scripture on the mans heart who he has set apart for me. That man will speak it to me. The God who created the whole world will make it happen when the time is right. I will be patient and excited when the time unfolds.
@TheRealStoryOfMyLife17 ай бұрын
This is soooo beautiful. I think I will try this
@dawn21666 ай бұрын
Wow!!! Amen to this❤🎉. Well said!
@hereisayana82073 жыл бұрын
A man said that I didn't deserve good treatment because I didn't respect myself... I had no idea what he meant by not respecting myself, now I know thanks to Tony
@naimac27442 жыл бұрын
Still a very nasty thing to say
@lexxie2252 жыл бұрын
I’m glad you know what he meant now, but for any human to feel this way about another is nasty. We all deserve respect at the least until proven otherwise no matter how you treat yourself
@hereisayana82072 жыл бұрын
@@lexxie225 exactly these same people will turn around and show respect to rapist in the neighborhood ( inner cities on east coast), but not to nicer people that don't know how to respect themselves
@Topself244 жыл бұрын
Watching this makes me feel shame for my past actions. This is very insightful
@creativgenius23 жыл бұрын
Don’t be ashamed...you ain’t the only one...just take it as a learning experience. Most of us have learned this the hard way...but once you know...you know.
@keshakellogg59953 жыл бұрын
I like the saying, "When you know better, you do better." There's so much self-compassion in that. ♥️
@amiralove35393 жыл бұрын
We live and learn no need to feel shameful Queen now we know moving forth. I'm learning as well and getting through a situation.. very insightful
@victoriapalferez-siri59523 жыл бұрын
No repeating same mistakes
@Sarafara73 жыл бұрын
I feel you. I cringed many times like damn, I can’t believe I did that
@abby-hv6ll4 жыл бұрын
i’m only 16 but i guess i’ll learn early🤷♀️ update: i’m turning 18 in a few days and i still listen to tony. he’s changed my life and i’m so grateful 😇
@Trishapaytasofficial3 жыл бұрын
You're very lucky to learn this this young.
@hope.42983 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭
@miafamilia1583 жыл бұрын
Yes girl pay attention
@elizabethhennessey64373 жыл бұрын
Pay attention Baby Girl - save yourself some heartache!
@ItsBridjanay3 жыл бұрын
I wish I did!
@cr625 Жыл бұрын
For a good amount of us, we wished we would have heard this message long ago to have avoided the hurt, anguish & humiliation but hearing it late rather than never helps to stop pressing the repeat button! I want to congratulate you for delivering this message and hopefully to those young ladies who will listen and follow your wise advice to avoid the sorrow of not being warned! God Bless You, child of God Tony!!✝️❤️
@peterbent56903 жыл бұрын
Shoot that was really good. I can't believe I listened to the entire video. Tony was spitting some real truths. Opened my eyes, even though this was geared toward the women. If a man really wants a woman, he will put in the work. I can attest to that because when a man really want to be with someone, he'll go all out for that special lady.
@INOUCIT2 жыл бұрын
I believe this and this is how we know.
@direwolf1977 Жыл бұрын
Don't play yourself bro, ain't worth it!
@SoulBeauty111110 ай бұрын
Wise man!
@wbabe20124 жыл бұрын
He lean over to kiss, he got the 19, he showing no symptoms, now you got the 19. You got respiratory issues *Clap* Now you going to meet the Lord. 🤣😂 Went From 0 to 100 real quick
@catherinejoyreid96373 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@prossykemigisha17083 жыл бұрын
Hahahahaha
@joanna65703 жыл бұрын
I was hoping someone wrote this, man brought tears to my eyes 😂🤣😂🤣😭
@giyawilbourn71433 жыл бұрын
I am dyin' laughin'
@jennieadubea64793 жыл бұрын
Lol
@jroyal22294 жыл бұрын
My mistake was that “I talk too much.” I have most definitely nipped that in the bud. I was blind & now, I see.
@JozelleRenia4 жыл бұрын
Crowned Virgo May you elaborate!?
@Mbuyiselo54 жыл бұрын
Girl we have all talked too much... Me: “I am looking for a Christian man who will be a great husband and father in the future.” Man: “Oh, I am a great Christian man and will be a great husband and father in the future.” Also me: 🤦🏾♀️😅
@StandupGirl-ym3ey4 жыл бұрын
Truth!
@chawntaewilliams98874 жыл бұрын
that is me right now, I am learning now to enjoy the quite moments.
@toptiernessa4 жыл бұрын
I’m guilty of this too 🤦🏻♀️
@3DSuccess2 жыл бұрын
This is aligned with the scripture that includes, "A man" that findeth a wife, findeth a good thing💜
@alexp70413 жыл бұрын
Listening again… 4 months later Needed to hear it again 🙏
@DynamicallyDC4 жыл бұрын
📢"A man earns you when he gives you his time when he doesn't have endless time to give you!" Shift your mindset, don't be desperate & remember that you are the prize!! 🎁
@Scorpio123484 жыл бұрын
Demetria Calvin 💯
@tamikamatthews49054 жыл бұрын
Amen sis🎯
@iamteresaspeaks4 жыл бұрын
Time ain't earring me. Consistency and kindness, just be the MAN. period.
@DynamicallyDC4 жыл бұрын
@@iamteresaspeaks Yes, consistency and kindness should be required from a man. He has to take action to make time when his time is limited in order for his authenticity & reliability to be shown.
@NyNativeTv4 жыл бұрын
👏🏽💯
@dimediamond4 жыл бұрын
Ladies...... Listen to this man. He giving free game out in these last days ❤
@nikkyshamz26964 жыл бұрын
Amen
@monir32754 жыл бұрын
You so funny
@heir_born41084 жыл бұрын
Last days 😂.....yep!
@sylviathomas82684 жыл бұрын
This is not game to me
@nellyp59974 жыл бұрын
HeirnBell I laughed at last days too 😆
@tenaviadarlene3 жыл бұрын
This is literally everything I’ve always known and held dear to me, but dudes so used to getting the same treatment from women, they all expect the same from you. So, when you come different they look at you like you weird for wanting to take your time to get to know them. I learned I was attracting men who only wanted me for my body. I started learning how to peep these signs from the go and I just been turned off since cause I’m not one to play. So until it’s my time, I’m good. I would rather be chillin by myself than getting played by the wrong man.
@shanaqueenbee3 жыл бұрын
He not lying about nothing ladies don’t fall for it
@feliciamesadieu69244 жыл бұрын
I hollered when he said “he got that 19” 😂🤣😂🤣🤣😂🤣😂....TONY NEVER CEASES to MAKE me SCREAM IN LAUGHTER!!!! So I’m done saying “the Rona” ... it’s “that 19” 😂🤣😂
@MzSam2U4 жыл бұрын
I will only say that 19 going forward
@jazminerenee40774 жыл бұрын
Felicia Finished The Book same 😂😂😂
@tanitrarobinson74774 жыл бұрын
Lol lol lol...my spleen hurt! That 19....
@TikaRoxanne4 жыл бұрын
Right lol black folk always nicknaming something 😆
@chelseak77914 жыл бұрын
I did too lmbooo
@ivla8713 жыл бұрын
He just confirmed that everything I have been doing is the right way, despite being called old fashioned by some grown boys. God bless this man, his wife, his children and children's children.
@ms.gracefullybroken87242 жыл бұрын
A M E N
@dominiquelove1825 Жыл бұрын
I get the same thing, they tell me I move to slow… 🤦🏾♀️
@rud3boifitness716 Жыл бұрын
Are y’all married yet?
@la6136 Жыл бұрын
@@rud3boifitness716 Are you??
@susanhampton96716 ай бұрын
No, they are irritated they can't use you or play you for a fool. @@dominiquelove1825
@karenhenline19063 жыл бұрын
Brilliance !. Thankfully I had a Daddy who taught me these things, and It served me well. I have three grown sons, two of which are married now....ages 32, 36 and 38... And I can tell you, even though I tried my best to teach them that every woman they meet, is somebody's daughter, or somebody's sister....and even though they are Godly , good men, They have done exactly as Tony says. It has to be in the male genes, ladies. So women must adapt and do exactly as Tony says, if you want the love and family God would want FOR you. Blessings to you Tony. Every single woman deserves these teachings !
@drgibson43082 ай бұрын
Keep giving us these 💎💎💎! Listen or pay the price‼️
@mariahsmith92833 жыл бұрын
Tony just taught me how to get a husband without giving the flower up.
@cynthiastevens83023 жыл бұрын
Getting married has always been so easy for me its choosing the right one that's my problem.i always meet men that want to get married.
@faithsintamei23333 жыл бұрын
@@cynthiastevens8302 give me your life sis😹😭
@kendrap.hudson73623 жыл бұрын
I am a woman over 50. This is the only way I know to do it. With that said, these men to include “Christian” men are pushing a whole different agenda. They want everything but marriage. I had to be content with my standards. If it’s meant to be, he will find me.
@vonaustin6093 жыл бұрын
@@cynthiastevens8302 meeee tooo.. I have a drawer full of rings but.. I think they ask me as a last stich effort... and they won't take the dang ring back even when I say I don't know .. or no... its the craziet thing !!
@mft75302 жыл бұрын
@Von Austin a drawer full of rings?? Gurl. You betta write yo book! You sitting on a goldmine. Blk women especially have been sold a bunch of bunk that spot of us have absorbed and low key are afraid is true. You are clearly not having THAT problem. Lol
@cherh4 жыл бұрын
When you know your worth you move different. You're worthy Queen! Bless up blessed tribe! 💫✨
@CoachHC4 жыл бұрын
Preach!!
@coachnatishamommatish1854 жыл бұрын
HeyA Cher!!! Got dat right sis!!! You do move different when you kno you worths!!! I am so grateful for Tony's self love course!!! Have great day Cher.😌💃❤
@coachnatishamommatish1854 жыл бұрын
@@CoachHC Amen
@cherh4 жыл бұрын
@@CoachHC 🌸❤
@cherh4 жыл бұрын
@@coachnatishamommatish185 Hey love! You're right! His teaching really does change you. 🌸❤
@michelled.60019 ай бұрын
This is exactly what God has allowed me to start learning, and I have tried to tell other women, and they argued me down. Thank You, God, I am getting it and You are teaching me. Thank you for being a vessel Tony. Keep up your ministry beloved. 🖤
@anitad26326 ай бұрын
Our standards will raise the bar, but unfortunately there are a lot of broken people in the world. I enjoy my single life and have accepted that I may never get married, due to there being very few men with character that are actually available and looking. But I love my life, and my freedom, and there is nothing wrong with being single!!❤
@btfields3234 жыл бұрын
After hearing dont do this, dont do that....honestly, im tired. Dating is like taking the SAT. With all the preparations and studying, its so overwhelming. Maybe i should just stay single🤦🏽♀️🤷🏾♀️
@lavonnajackson94914 жыл бұрын
Right, I get the essence of his message, don't be thirsty, however it comes across as some type of a game, where if you do this or that you can "win" a man, very Steve Harvey like. At the end of the day, love yourself and you'll attract what you reflect, you are the prize!
@dannym65524 жыл бұрын
for 2020 -- might be a good idea :)
@BeautyWorld854 жыл бұрын
Riight I was thinking the same thing. Ain’t nobody got time for these games. If two people like/love each other let’s show it.
@microbito664 жыл бұрын
I don’t see it as a game. I think Tony basically teaches us that we have to love ourselves enough, just like everyone else tells us, the difference is he explains specifically what that means and how a woman that loves herself acts. 💗💗 he breaks it down beautifully
@emtee30984 жыл бұрын
A lot of men approach dating as a game. It's important to be hip to it so that you can protect yourself.
@vchild4 жыл бұрын
Mirroring is crucial.. Don't over extend yourself. Amen! This is very important. Thank you for this great message.
@nikkyshamz26964 жыл бұрын
Very very important
@Dreamsareareality4 жыл бұрын
It's so true. Some women do too much.
@serentalina4014 жыл бұрын
I hear another guy say the same thing but he said it like this, "give a man the same energy he gives you".
@stevietstevens93844 жыл бұрын
So true Tee. Seems like a lot of our women (meloenated women) treat them as if we're their mothers (washing their clothes, cooking for them, watching their kids, having their babies) and get nothing in return.
@wowso44 жыл бұрын
Tee Key so true I guess this can also apply to other relationships
@amberinternational3 жыл бұрын
Having a man teach you these things is priceless. My dad wasn’t around and my mother didn’t bring other men around her kids. She just worked everyday. I had 3 brothers growing up so by time I got to the dating world I had soooo much to learn. I wish I would have known these things as a young girl.
@ABitOf_Everything3 жыл бұрын
I hate I’m crying to this . Thank Hod for my baby but this the biggest heartbreak ever. I have to let him go and I can’t even bare it . Two years and my first baby. Pray for me. It’s not easy.
@serraross143 жыл бұрын
5 years and my first baby going through this same thing ! Praying for you.
@ABitOf_Everything3 жыл бұрын
@@serraross14 thank you girl ... can you believe it?! 4 weeks later thanks to grace of God ! In school ! Bills paid ! Baby happy! We have to get a car and we will be great until then Uber suffice
@user-sw4cl4yb2g2 жыл бұрын
Please believe when I tell you , you’ll be living life once you get over him , I swear by it !!! I was there and I’m living my best life right now .
@owe12554 жыл бұрын
This video makes me angry, not because I disagree with what you are saying, but because alot of us were disarmed before we even got in this whole dating game. Its one thing not to teach your kids these realities, but it another thing to disarm your kids and breakdown their small sense of self esteem and self worth because you as a parent are messed up. Thank you for teaching us these things Mr.Gaskins, at least somebody is willing to teach us right. I know its not to late for me but if I was prepared, I would have avoided a whole lot of embarrassment, humiliation, and heartache.
@tanitrarobinson74774 жыл бұрын
Ew chile... amen!
@misslauraj27564 жыл бұрын
Well, thank God for another chance to get it right. We can love again. This time the right person in due season.
@marshannajohnson85843 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I could not have said it better myself. I actually cried while watching one of his videos because I couldn't believe how wrong I had been doing things. I could have been in a great committed relationship had I known these things a long time ago
@intuitivespiritmanifested44593 жыл бұрын
Right
@FightsRightsAlways3 жыл бұрын
Gurl, were we raised in the same household or did our parents study the same manuscript, that encouraged them not to prepare us for life in a realistic way??
@valw74224 жыл бұрын
"Keep it cordial for the first 10 dates". Such great advice!
@jazzcabbage67593 жыл бұрын
Benny Hue not if he really wants you
@jazzcabbage67593 жыл бұрын
Benny Hue based on the KZfaq videos you watch, you fear women and being cheated by them. You have a skewed view of all women
@lo.p40892 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad I found this video. Realised I just made a total fool out of myself, and have been doing it all wrong. I'm saving this to remind myself. And we should be showing this to our daughters.
@ang_ro2 жыл бұрын
I've been with my boyfriend 7 months now and I still have yet to cook for him. 😆😆 We gon be living together before he gets that privelege
@MyVlogTherapy4 жыл бұрын
Sounds like guys go in with disrespect. I don’t have time to be a mother keeping them in check. It’s ridiculous
@Sebasays4 жыл бұрын
I think what it is is the fact that so many women are operating with no to very low standards that men don't have to work as hard and they think that all women operate the same. So they automatically come into a situation thinking they can try you.
@BeautifulDzyre4 жыл бұрын
Exactly. 1st sign of being tested he is cut! I don't want a man who isn't whole and coming to me reckless.
@Scorpio123484 жыл бұрын
Maya's Channel exactly I already am raising 3 boys! I don’t need another one! I’d rather stay alone. I’m good
@gino66584 жыл бұрын
Asia Wilmore very very well said 💫
@gogoldiego4 жыл бұрын
Yes, it's like a man can be disrespectful and we have to play a game around it and can't be your true self. Thank God I'm happily married, but I didn't play all those games. I'm a giver, but directed by God. I let my husband know who I was from the beginning and he said that's what he loved about me, no games.💛✌🇱🇷
@whitneyhampton87494 жыл бұрын
I’ve been dating wrong for years! 😩🥴. Thank god for new knowledge! Definitely taking time off from dating this year just to grow as a woman!
@andrealmorris85764 жыл бұрын
Whitney Hampton 19 stopped the dating already
@potajonapotaje91584 жыл бұрын
Thank God you smart and young, I am 50 wishing I knew💗💗💕
@lateriaquionne22834 жыл бұрын
Mee too sis im 31
@naomimankrado85102 жыл бұрын
Literally can't break eye contact with him. Lord, please send me a man like this!
@michellebrown32072 жыл бұрын
HE FIRST NEEDS TO EARN THE LOVE OF CHRIST, SO HE NEEDS GOD IN ORDER TO LOVE ME. THIS IS THE PROBLEM IN OUR WORLD. VALUE, RESPECT, ACCOUNTABLE, AND FAITH ALL PKAYS A BIG PART.
@tamikadaniels78504 жыл бұрын
This man is heaven sent. Tony Gaskins kudos to you.
@cynthiamorley6204 жыл бұрын
Amen
@4LADYSWEET4 жыл бұрын
💯
@elizabethschilling71784 жыл бұрын
Agree with you!! 👏🙌
@nikkyshamz26964 жыл бұрын
Facts only
@ifeoluwayomi90534 жыл бұрын
Factsssss. This video is meant for me 😂
@sophisticatedmm36324 жыл бұрын
Exactly don't give too much of yourself in the beginning stages. Don't give your address or show where you live. I had a stalker 5 years ago & had to go to court for a restraining order. Please listen to Tony.
@DynamicallyDC4 жыл бұрын
🙌🏽🙏🏽
@alexisdykes56344 жыл бұрын
I went through this too. You're right. 👍🏾
@audreyandrea4603 жыл бұрын
Same.
@lashawnward3402 жыл бұрын
Glad your ok, I'm newly single and am not looking forward to the dating drama, lol.. God Help us All !!!
@sophisticatedmm36322 жыл бұрын
@@lashawnward340 Thanks for the well wishes
@nataliepiatek7 ай бұрын
I’m 19. I’m so grateful I can learn all of that and forgiving myself and doing better without mistakes. ❤️
@rashaycollins5328 Жыл бұрын
I’m 19 years old, and this is great wisdom I just got out of a relationship and I always been the the type of lady to treat others with kindness and just been so giving, and me not having a father in my life was a bit of a set back, but I been so focused on becoming who god wants me to become and just becoming so much better for myself, I truly appreciate your wisdom especially because you’re a married men and I would constantly get advice from ppl that are not married let alone can’t keep a man around so Thankyou for teaching me the game😊
@cocoj22524 жыл бұрын
Feel like I have to learn how to be a woman all over again lol
@RealLadi2284 жыл бұрын
Its like a investment in yourself
@carmensmithaguirre30493 жыл бұрын
We are the prize ladies, not the other way around. Men know this and will try to tweak it, but don't let em.
@detrixhogan60783 жыл бұрын
Agreed!!!
@londonwerewolf75423 жыл бұрын
I feel that way too. :(
@katc68123 жыл бұрын
@CoolJ Nah, you can just begin your life again by prioritizing yourself, your needs: emotionally, spiritually, sexually. You need to start there. Then, get excited about real discovering your authentic self and be a woman with self love, pride, and se,for respect, not to mention the confidence you will gain.... This is not a psss/fail system. Allow this to be a comassionate process met with patience, self love practice self compassion matched it with passion and be inspired. This is an adventure of self discovery. By doing these things... you will be armed with the knowledge of self.
@annettesolomon13474 жыл бұрын
Class is in session , you took us to school on this one
@beaustique97124 жыл бұрын
Annette Solomon Agreed sis!! I was like, “Check, did that wrong. Yep, that one too! Even this one!” Damn 😧😣
@delovelyday4304 жыл бұрын
Right🤔
@SabievannessaVanne4 жыл бұрын
For real!! Idk how I even got here but I’m subscribed now 🙏🏽
@marshalogan88584 жыл бұрын
@@SabievannessaVanne Me too
@marshalogan88584 жыл бұрын
@@beaustique9712 Yes. Same here
@HealingHoney3 жыл бұрын
This one of them videos you gotta save + replay! Teaching us things school never could.. things some of our parents never taught us. So grateful for your words. 🙏🏽
@sebclay15262 ай бұрын
Tell it Tony. With that being said....this man has done so much within a year .Quality time and he has done so much. With a church hug. Lol.😂😂🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@amaliastar12443 жыл бұрын
I'm so tired of relationships! Why the hell is it so complicated. This is giving me anxiety.. I just want to be myself.
@phyliciahenry20683 жыл бұрын
It’s all about changing our mindsets. Show up as your authentic self ALWAYS but we have to read these men and react accordingly. Dating is our way to chose the RIGHT partner based on these set of standards that Tony is hipping us to.
@andream893 жыл бұрын
@@truthseeker44 go for a walk order food delivery and eat it at the park. Any outdoor activities
@queensmith8563 жыл бұрын
I'm definitely feeling the same way . I innerstand *BREATHE*
@tiawannarichmonde2503 жыл бұрын
Women don't necessarily need a man. They're good to have if the relationship brings you peace. If it doesn't bring you peace, he's not from God. And most womens' mistakes and heartbreaks are due to not consulting God first about the man. I always say that a man will only reveal what he wants you to know about him, but God knows his heart. This is why we need God at the forefront of any relationship.
@kimorajohnson88193 жыл бұрын
Yes I agree it’s different when your a natural flirt & don’t realize your flirting until your doing it.
@millie1988able4 жыл бұрын
So glad my last relationship didn't work because I didn't know my worth then. I gained so much new knowledge watching your channel. My mindset shifted!
@claudia_904 жыл бұрын
:)
@traquilasmith22754 жыл бұрын
Mildred casseus i agree with you i was the same way before. Now my mind set has changed alot more. I learned alot by watching Tony videos he keeps it real truth. Im learning and growing im proud of my new knowledge mind set and i know my worth and value. Don't settle for less. God bless everyone.
@sylviathomas82684 жыл бұрын
Amen!!!!! I really appreciate this eye opening information
@shayyree4 жыл бұрын
Same girl! I made a lot of mistakes! I know my worth now.
@pennynewman44752 жыл бұрын
Mmmm so true
@victoriaharris46912 жыл бұрын
Im listening to this over and over again because I've come to realize the mistakes that I've made. If i had this knowledge prior to my past situationships coupled with listening and obeying the message. I would have made better decisions. (Real Talk) Thanks Tony for being a willing vessel in exposing the game some of these grown boys be playing keep up the good work your wife is a blessed woman I admire how you praise her.
@elizabethjenkins77942 жыл бұрын
This was a powerful and anointed message. I received this message. May God continue to use you, to help people to get in right standing to be ready to live in positivity, in every aspect of life in Jesus name
@goldenglowladore38422 жыл бұрын
I agree. Amen!
@rml87013 жыл бұрын
I am 54 years old female and everything this young man is saying is true...,.ladies, ladies please listen!!!!
@olgaharris11032 жыл бұрын
I’m 72…ladies please listen!!! 🤗
@JonahzsaTerry2 жыл бұрын
Thank you OG
@robertpinckney535 Жыл бұрын
@@JonahzsaTerry Well, I don't think Tony is 'Old'. So technically he is not an O.G. He probably is forty-one or younger? But, he is somewhat wise.
@cynthiareynolds19419 ай бұрын
Yes! This is so true
@cubanadelrey4 жыл бұрын
I forgive myself for how I behaved before I knew better. Now that I know better, Ima do better 🙏🏼 Thank you Tony.
@gayle20203 жыл бұрын
Excellent advice!!
@journeywithme_erika18903 жыл бұрын
Amen Sis! Thank you for this. I forgive myself for every behavior committed in ignorance and now I hold myself accountable to be better now that I have learned better.
@victoriamonari5 ай бұрын
Amen me too ❤
@IndependentPrettyGirlis3 жыл бұрын
OMG, just changed my life watching this
@chi-chi72242 жыл бұрын
Ommmgg I’m 28 and so thankful I’ve found this video!!! I feel so free from my unintentional stupid mistakes!!! Thank you. God bless you
@febpiscean64184 жыл бұрын
Oh lord I was talking to this guy and REALIZED I WAS TALKING TO MUCH. All I could here was TONY in my head & shut my mouth...
@kizzyrock4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@LoveSierraDenae4 жыл бұрын
Same lol
@joyb53534 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣😂😂😂 we got the same problems..
@rubyred98344 жыл бұрын
feb piscean lol 😆 I know what you mean. I experienced that before.
@patricebarrett58454 жыл бұрын
Right done told this ____ but my ssn smh
@gerrileylucas33184 жыл бұрын
"You going to meet the lord" took me out 😅😅😅
@Dreamsareareality4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@KeshB273 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 I hollered so hard when he said it 😂😂
@joywambui76643 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂I thought I was the only one
@saradigota72013 жыл бұрын
this man gorgeous and got real talk. love it
@LIVEFIT5D22 күн бұрын
everywoman needs this channel
@michelewilliams17644 жыл бұрын
Absolutely. Give him no more than what he gives you. Wait for him. I messed up before and was the only one reaching out.
@akuasalaam4904 жыл бұрын
"Jugglin these balls like the Harlem Globetrotters!!!" Tony I'm learning and hollering at the same damn time 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣!!!!!
@shondathomas78254 жыл бұрын
that took me out!! lmaooo!!!
@missangel4124 жыл бұрын
I CANNOT 💀
@zoraidacastro54034 жыл бұрын
Oh lordy Lord
@emilyreed89714 жыл бұрын
lololo
@Toptierhoney_Shan4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@moniquemoss78022 жыл бұрын
I work 67 hours a week and he still makes time to come see me,
@Dr.Thandi4 ай бұрын
“If he that good, that comes from PRACTICE!” 😮
@mae10623 жыл бұрын
"If you ain't gat an hour a day to give you shouldn't be dating" ..i felt that
@jazminerenee40773 жыл бұрын
14:35😂😂😂 let him earn your love ladies if you want to have a husband. Don’t let these men run anything especially in the earlier stages. I pray for clarity , humbleness, and discernment over you all.
@chynabarnescb Жыл бұрын
Man this is heart felt never too old to learn and become the woman God called you to be…🙏😇
@jenrajan67215 ай бұрын
Feel like he's the big brother I never had
@withlove_noemy99134 жыл бұрын
I wish I knew all of this before I got my heart broken 💔
@arlenew.95253 жыл бұрын
Same girl
@miranda67383 жыл бұрын
Me too! 😔
@marquita76944 жыл бұрын
Gosh, I needed this 2 months ago!!! Still learning at 37...smh
@libbymills44323 жыл бұрын
Congrats! You're ahead of the game. I didn't Awaken until I was 55. Keep Shining!
@clarissegomez92753 жыл бұрын
Still learning at 39 dont worry 😂
@clarissegomez92753 жыл бұрын
@@FA9082 say who ? You ? God is in control of our life not humans who say its over...its not over until God say its over... Ur talking pure ignorance !!
@fa_lee_lee21333 жыл бұрын
Don't feel bad.. I'm 48!!! It's NEVER too late to learn!!
@ladyjvlogs74633 жыл бұрын
I am still learning at 41.. I haven't dated in two years.. I know the game has changed alot ,so I think I will take my time this go round..
@inesmith84313 ай бұрын
I see why this video has 1M views. This is an entire life lesson in 1 video!! Wow!!
@syduniversoul2 жыл бұрын
This was amazing, felt like a father or big brother was speaking to me! Lol thank you 🙏🏾
@dreababbie4 жыл бұрын
You are definitely talking about old school type of men!!!..this younger generation (these millennial and generation Z type of men 32 and below) move totally different from what you are discussing in this video. Had a man tell me I’m not crazy enough!!.. I’m like you are so use to toxicity you think it is sexy and I am not the one for you because I am too grown for that!
@annamayyy97714 жыл бұрын
Girl, u can say that again 😂😂😂n they always go for the crazy ones
@haquino4 жыл бұрын
This lol omg
@ayeshalewis40644 жыл бұрын
I agree totally with u
@natalieschannel45084 жыл бұрын
It's because we've lowered our standards.
@Mrs.T3054 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!
@jae12624 жыл бұрын
Wow...how dumb I have been. Lord knows I need a do-over 😂
@jamesiasings51743 жыл бұрын
Me too lol
@creativgenius23 жыл бұрын
You’re not dumb Bae. It’s just that nobody ever taught us women any of this.
@marciasmith87043 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@journeywithme_erika18903 жыл бұрын
Me too!
@chaseback51023 жыл бұрын
I always joke and say if I could take time back to age 20.... “No” would have been my favorite word..... “ Can I have your pho....” “NO!” “Why don’t you come ove....”. “NO!” “I need...” “NO!!!!!” “Can I borrow a...”. “NO!!!!” I’d be saying “NO” to everybody lol and give to those who, I actually see need time and help and not to those who guilted me in to giving to THEIR, needs at my expense... But that’s alright!! I’ve moved on