Which "Friends" moment do YOU find the most unforgivable? Let us know below, and be sure to also check out our video of the Top 10 Times Ross Was the Worst - kzfaq.info/get/bejne/Y7BmadJmprOUeX0.html

I always hated the way everyone acted so nonchalant about Carol cheating on Ross and the woman she cheated with was making the baby hers and putting Ros, the father, down. Because they were lesbians its ok?

What about when Ross dated Bonnie! Rachel convinced her to shave her head, told Ross she still loved him, got him to dump bonnie then wrote an 18 page letter saying that everything that went wrong in their relationship was all his fault! Ross and Rachel were low key toxic!

As a gay man and Friends fan myself, I don't think Chandler was necessarily homophobic towards his father; it was mostly his coming out that ended his parents' marriage when Chandler was a child (during the family holiday of Thanksgiving to add insult to injury). That can be very traumatic for any child and some carry it for most of their lives before they can reconcile it as adults. And as a minor note, Charles Bing/Helena Handbasket (love that pun!) was never actually identified as a full-on transgendered character. There was no mention if he switched his pronouns or gender and he was mostly portrayed as a drag queen. Granted he was played by a cis-actress so perhaps it was left to our imagination. Furthermore sitcoms and series of the past are a reflection of their eras and show what the world was like in times gone by. It's really no different to comedians making jokes about the issues of today at the expense of various members of their audience. Instead of overly criticizing these sitcoms, maybe we can just appreciate how much the world has improved. I really worry that cancel-culture may be getting a bit out of hand these days. It's like no one is allowed to enjoy anything anymore...

Another honorable mention: The way Monica’s parents treated her over Ross

I'll defend the "Moo point". While the term is supposed to be "moot point", when Joey explain it, as Rachel says, "is makes sense". A cows point doesn't matter.

WHERE IS CAROLS INFIDELITY ON THIS LIST! I never understood why people just ignored the fact that Carol cheated on Ross! She lied over and over again. Tbh, I agree with a theory that Carol & Susan wanted a baby & basically used Ross without his consent! Like why would Carol consent to sleeping with Ross so far into her relationship with Susan?! 🤷🏻‍♀️On top of that, the way they basically tried to cut Ross out or at the very least overpower him when it came to the pregnancy & the baby!

What bothers me is that when Paolo sexually harrased Phoebe, all the attention was focused on Rachel as if she's the victim, because Paolo wasn't who Rachel thought he was and now she has to break up with him. But no one paid attention to Phoebe who was the real victim.

Well, you have to admit. Nobody can play a better Ross than David Schwimmer.

“I’m Monica! I’m disgusting! I stalk guys and keep their underpants.” *Ross’ reaction* 🤣🤣🤣

Friends has a perfect representation of a Healthy relationship (Monica & Chandler) Toxic relationship (Ross & Rachel) and Platonic relationship (Phoebe & Joey). Although Ross is THE worst character, David Schwimmer is the best actor of the bunch, his delivery was always excellent 🤌 Ross had some good qualities, and without Ross being the worst, we wouldn't have had those teachable moments (although not hitting on family members, should have been a given 😅)

Ms Mojo - "we promise this is our last one to do with Ross" Does 2 or 3 more in the honorable mentions

Friends is one of the best TV series ever made , but I agree that all six members made a lot of weird things that aren't related today , 1990's and 2000's was really a different era

How about Richard coming back to tell Monica he loved her??? And why would Monica even believe Chandler didn't want to marry her, when they almost got married in Vegas!! She shouldn't even have considered going back with Richard, like wth...that always pisses me off...I know it was all for shock value before their engagement but it made me hate her a little

How about the fact that Rachel, Monica and Ross grew up with a terrible parents?

3:08 "we normally like lists" that was too cute MsMojo!

Ross was raised like this by his parents. They cherished and adored him more than they did with Monica. As he was used to getting all the support from them, he couldn't not handle any situation properly where he was not secure like at his parent's house. He tried to become better but one's personality doesn't change easily.

I'm sorry but the biggest thing about Friends that always pissed me off was Rachel and Ross, they were legitimately horrible to each other more than half the time. I honestly wish they had kept with the small Rachel and Joey romance because it was honestly super cute

I couldn't believe that Ross actually tried to hit on his own cousin! I don't care if she WAS Denise Richards, there's certain lines you don't cross with family members! 🚫

I admit Ross is scripted to have social flaws, but Rachel: - was also jealous about Julie - tried to prevent Ross-Emily wedding - convinced Ross to leave Bonnie - lied about videotape The list was idea of Joey and Chandler, and Ross was drunk when he cheated if I remember correctly, and then tried to fix his mistake.

There could be an entire list of just Ross's unforgivable moments

If this moments were unforgivable, Ms Mojo would pass out watching Seinfield

For me he most unforgiving moment is Ross's refusal to divorce Rachel after Vegas. Him asking Rachel to stay his wife - not because they can give it a try, or that they'll be good together - just because he didn't want another divorce! That is his only argument. And after, staying secterly married to Rachel, lying to her about it, was also very stupid. At first it was funny, but now - rewatching it 10 years later - I find this situation deeply disturbing... Plus, Rachel, thinking that Ross "took care" of things, and that she didn't sign a paper - was also very stupid. And how they both dealt with inevitable divorce - childish.

Joey's "proposal" didn't go on too long. It was one episode! Ross' acting stupid about it lasted a few episodes, tho.

what about when ross wouldnt get the divorce after him and rachel got married in vegas, but lied to her about handling it. that is one of my least favorite ross moments. he didnt want to be "divorced three times" and wanted to be married to rachel, but boy CONSENT!! rachel wanted that shit annulled, and he lied to her about it.

These “unforgivable” moments are what happens in real life and is so relatable. And this video and the comments below it about who is the worst makes no sense. No one is perfect as a human. They have shown how people have stereotypes of gender roles, insensitivity to alcoholism, making lists or whatever you mentioned in the video through these characters. OFCOURSE they all have flaws. And that’s exactly how its supposed to be.

Okay, so Ross dated a student. So did Monica and Rachel (well, briefly, but anyway). I never thought that Chandler's father's storyline was bad. Any child would have difficulties dealing with parents divorce and understanding why dad likes now boys and dresses like a woman. But Chandler wanted to learn and forgive, and invited his father to his wedding and even called him beautiful. In my opinion that was a perfect way to show that their relationship was healed. Ross also attended Carol's and Susan's wedding, and showed some growth there dealing with that stuff. There are of course problems on this show, but to make a show interesting and entertaining characters have to have flaws and they have to make stupid decicions, because perfect and vanilla characters aren't interesting. And if you start to look at these over 20 year old shows too closely from this day's perspective, everything can start to seem wrong, even the smallest jokes.

i recently watched the fun bobby episode and i did find it poor how they treated his alcoholism. i know its just a sitcom, but friends really had a way of treating serious shit like a joke. i also think that ross is a perfect example of what can happen to a person who ignores their obvious issues. it isnt until later in the series when we get the idea that maybe jack and judy werent that great parents to ross despite their favouritism while ross obviously had relationship issues after what happened with carol but he just let them fester and sabotage certain aspects of his life.

Ross is behind 99.9% of the list or y’all got it wrong😂

I know a lot of people do not like Ross, but his scenes are some of the funniest and iconic moments ever

What about the time that Monica expected to use all of chandler’s savings for their wedding! Even though she later came to her senses, i feel it was still so wrong for her to ask that of him in the first place.

I'm not sure how to say this, but here goes, when revisiting shows; you have to remember the times they were made in. Things we have learned since then that are not okay now were acceptable during that time. Don't fault shows for living the culture they existed in.

In fairness, Joey wasn’t always the brightest light bulb in the cookie jar.

" It's Mooooo, "is the SMARTEST thing anyone has ever said ....!!!

I remember feeling incredible sad for Rachel when she was reading the list, and to be fair Joey actor decided to play dumb, I wish the writer didn't let him

give it a rest , the show was in the 90s , opening doors to adoption , single mothers , homosexuality , .... the list goes on and on . I think Ross is characterized like any other first born son , with all of his good and bad manners , we all make mistakes .

So we all agree that Ross is the most unforgivable moment of the show

"Jah boo boo Claude" 🤣 OK, I get it's jacked to dumb him down but his inability to learn french was freaking hilarious because I feel like this is what I sound like trying to speak other languages. I guess it's a MOO point 😉

There’s nothing on this list that’s unforgivable, it’s a comedy, the point is to make people laugh & to do that you poke fun of things.

Ross ' insecurities are sort of warranted. Monica made the joke about his being paranoid by saying all of his girlfriends cheated on him.

What about when Ross says Rachel instead of Emily at the Altar, that'll be the worst of it.

Phoebe being harassed by Palo hits differently during the #MeToo movement

I’m surprised “WE WERE ON A BREAK” didn’t make the list

I think one of the biggest moments of friends that did not age well is when Joey thought he found his hand twin it was the most ridiculous stupidest subplot and that entire episode was bad and Rachel and Ross pulling pranks on each other the only ones that seems sane in that episode is Chandler and Monica it's the one in Vegas

Number one, Ross gaslighting Rachel thru the entire show.

I love how MsMojo makes a list broader to the Friends characters but pins a video list of Ross being the worst. They know what they’re doing 😂

I was literally obsessed with this show , i literally would watch all the time my family would make fun of me bc i was watching it ALL THE TIME! but as i got older it became so provocative that i couldn't watch a single episode

Having grown up during the AIDS crisis under Republicans, I feel this was a pretty good way of dealing with trans people at that time. Now, with trans people being more visible, Chandler's arc with Helena would be bad. But, at the time, given the political and social climate, it was fine. All the Friends eventually embraced Helena.

It’s a TV show people. From 25 years ago at that. Good god. We have lost all sense of humor. Still the best show ever made.

Yes ross' jealousy of mark was of hand, but rachel didnt help matters as well. She didnt even acknowledge how he might be feeling or even set boundaries with mark as just a co-worker. Of course ross is jealous his gf who is out of league is working with a good looking guy who by the way got her the job, doesnt that make Mark look a little sketch.

its so true abt the turning joey dumb part he wasn’t supposed to b like that :(

That's not fair to put that at number one. Chandler was in the most shock of the change and I think he accepted it as well as he could as an adult that was thrown a ball out of left field. This was one of the first shows to cover this topic and this is the genuine reaction to most kids in the situation, whether it's right or wrong. Friends paved a way for this one.

To be fair for Ross, Mark was hoping to go out with Rachel. So he was right.

12:27 Ross dating a student? How the crap did it take us that long to realize how creepy that is?

It wasn't transphobic. This issue was Chandler's baggage due to his father's lifestyle. He was a traumatized child who never had the chance to heal. Inviting his father to the wedding was his attempt at healing and moving forward.

OMG, MOJO & MsMojo, when are y'all gonna let this shit go? Seriously, this what like the 20th episode on this exact subject you've done. I also notice you cut off parts that completely change the tone of the situation therefore creating a false narrative. Give it a rest already. This house is dead, beaten and pulverized. 🙄

The sandwich 🥪 situation at work was unforgivable

Top ten worst thing the friends gang has ever done 1. Slept with Chloe the copygirl (Ross geller) 2. Catnapped Julio the cat (phoebe buffay) 3. Lied to Leonard about the wedding with Ross (Rachel green) 4. Kissed Kathy behind joeys back (chandler) 5. Puts Joey in an embarrassing situation during Mondler secret 6. Being gender judgmental (Ross geller ) 7. Dating Casey while dating Kathy (Joey tribianni) 8. Saying "ok" to Joey (Rachel green) 9. Ross's jealously 10. I don't wanna be stuck here all night with ur fat sister (Chandler)

How conveniently they have not shown the toxicity of the women in the show and are showing just male characters flaws Why the discrimination?

It’s funny that for a guy who sees himself as the ‘nice, sensitive’ type, ross is really insecure about his own masculinity and what is or isn’t manly. Neither Joey or chandler have this problem like him

u know what? ---> Geller's way of giving the finger :D

Sorry, but the "it's moo" thing was hilarious and I still say that line. I think it is actually believable that someone might have misheard it and eventually came up with that theory lol.

Anytime somebody argues with me about why Ross is my least favorite Friends character, I will direct them to this video.

Friends has some problematic moments and is generally flawed, but I still love and adore the show. I think it’s way better than How I met your Mother. I SAID WHAT I SAID AND I AM NOT GONNA APOLOGIZE.

For #1, they forgot to mention how Ross reacted when he found out that Carol had always been a lesbian.

Nothing to forgive. It's been almost 30 years since it started. It happened. Let it go!!!

How did Joey not having a happy ending not on the list

People mostly label Ross as the most unliked character of the 6 in friends. When you get cheated on in a marriage and that ex along with their new partner practically gets full-time custody of your kid, lets see how that effects you for life.

By that time many of these jokes like the one with Chandler's father didn't bother anyone but nowdays many people are bothered very easily. It was a much simpler era

I think being cheated on would make anyone have trust issues and Ross's ex-wife Carol cheated on him with another woman hell I'd have trust issues too in that case. Also Monica became so unbearably unlikable and annoying later on especially after she started dating Chandler

Technically Ross was right about Mark. Not for nothing he thought he was happily married until Carol cheated on him and left him for Susan. Rather then acknowledge what he went through as horrible they make fun of it. In the end his Friends wasn't there for him like he was for them. I'm tired of the Ross hate. Though the cousin thing I can never defend.

I’m so glad I grew up in an era that didn’t easily offend us! Why do we always find things to be offended by? 🤦🏽‍♀️

Alot of people here saying how they hate Ross while I'm over here thinking that Ross is one of my favorite characters😅 Yes, he did things that were not okay, but so did everyone else. Rachel tried to sabotage all of Ross's relationships and then continued to not want to pursue a relationship with him. The Bonnie thing was ridiculous and then she had to rub it in his face that he was a cheater (have a whole other opinion about this situation) after reading the letter that she wrote to him. Why? Because deep down she always loved him. Phoebe didn't always treat Chandler right and if you wanna bring in cheating, she kissed David while being with Mike. Monica was fine at first with the OCD, but it got to be really bad, especially when she was in charge of Phoebe's wedding. And she wanted Chandler to spend all of his savings in a huge wedding that he didn't necessarily want. He wanted to be married to her of course, but he wanted to put that money towards a house for them. Chandler kissed Kathy while being with Joey (even though she showed interest in him) and fat shamed Monica in their early years. And yes, Joey is a beloved character, but he was a player. There were a few women who wanted him to call back and he never did, making it seem like it was their fault. And as far as the list goes, Ross was dumb to write it, but the guys shouldn't have encouraged his to compare the two in the first place. But guess what? That's what makes the show so great. Every character has their own flaws because no one is perfect. The show would have been too damn boring if everyone was perfect and there were no flaws. I'm not offended by anything these characters did BTW, I was just pointing out that they have all done things that weren't great. I love the show and agree that some concepts wouldn't be allowed today. Thats why I'm glad it was made years ago😂

We got to LOVE how most of the moments on this list have something to do with Ross!!!!!!!!

Friends remains my die hard fave sitcome, that I still binge watch to this day. The problem is the world has lost its sense of humor. There is a difference in joking and shaming. So again I say if you're offended by the jokes of a sitcom don't watch the sitcom

Ross and the student is a problem, but Pheobe's 18-years old brother and his TEACHER is OKAY?

Tbh, why are we supposed to teach people that looking the way Monica USED to look, is okay. People who grow up and stay that way have many health issues & usually die early, so, it is a positive that she’s not only healthy now, but she has a good life.

I heard that the reason why joey became if you will dumber was due to Matt Le Blanc. It was his decision to change joey.

i still love the show, but yeah i didnt like the character developmentes from joey becoming increasingly stupid every season, phoebe from a lovable hippie to just a plain Bt, and chandler from a funny charming guy to just a potato hiding behind monica

“They traded in depth of character for easy laughs” wELL nO ShIt ShErLoCk ItS a FuCkIn CoMeDy ShOw

The one I hate the most is where Ross got "excited" by his pretty cousin

Ross hitting on his own cousin is THE WORST

God, the jealousy of Ross. I hate that! Also his response to the "Manny". Ross! What is your problem?!

Thank goodness I watched it when people weren’t over sensitive about everything

Not one I've heard often online but what about the 'Xerox girl' (Chloe) blatantly ignoring Ross saying "No" multiple times and getting him drunker and drunker until he says yes. Swap the genders and the audience would have gone mental over that but since it's a guy it's funny and he's a cheater?? Like WHAT???

another thing was how Phoebes trauma was always made a joke :((

friends fans here?

*I like Ross, but damn he troubled😆*

The show was a product of its time. You can laugh at some of these jokes without agreeing with the message. 🖖

In Ross defense, Chandler came up with the List idea, and Chandler and Joey didn’t thought that was wrong. Yes, Ross wrote it. But his List wasn’t meant to be bad, after all the “bad” qualities that Rachel has, he love her still

I totally agree with Joey, I did not like how they made his character like that as the seasons went on

Love these moments of friends great show great moments

It may be abhorrent, what Paolo does, but that’s kinda the truth in our history. I don’t think the writers did anything wrong really. He was gross and they gave it a light humorous spin while also personally calling him out on his behavior. Unfortunately, that’s kinda the truth on how we had to handle it for so long. It may be handled differently today but writing it into a lighthearted sitcom was simply just true to form for our recent past. Things like that were so common and we just had to accept it, while it’s not ok and not funny anymore in current TV sitcom humor it’s a good reminder of how casual and common it was.

What about Ross saying Rachel's name during his wedding vow to Emily? And the fans hating on Emily, even until today, because of that when she was the one who got f*cked up?

Top Chandler Bing moments!!

I hated how Carol was basically just given a pass at cheating on Ross (which Susan) just because she’s a lesbian Cheating is cheating, regardless of sexuality

In the words of the great philosopher Daniel Tosh..."if you've ever said any version of '"there's nothing funny about X"'...know that I hate you"

They spoke on Pheobe being sexually assaulted by Paulo, but not Chandler being sexually assaulted by Joey's tailor (and by extension Joey himself as a child--15 or 16). They played it off for laughs even when Chandler jumped when touched, which is a common reaction to assult victims.

Or can u make a videos called times that modern family was serious.

Ross and Rachel VS Monica and Chandler!