Yes

I cant say Im a fan, maybe because most people here are small minded Americans but Indians and blacks have nothing in common. Indians are known for their loyal family values, they have the lowest divorce rate in the world for centuries and have kept their ancient culture alive with its rich food, vibrant music and festivals, beautiful spirituality like Karma, Yoga and meditation and hospitable values despite the British and Turkic invaders trying hard to break them. Blacks lost their family values, 70% of black kids in America grow up in single parent homes, they fail badly in school and dont go to college then wake up one day mad that they are poor and not respected by anyone in society. This is a very sad way to go through life. The average middle class Indian studies very hard and works truly hard like a donkey for his own self but also his parents and his wifes parents and their kids. They dont waste money living laviciously but they have real wealth in their kids and their values. I could go on and on for many paragraphs but I just wanted to shed a little light as to why most Indians would never ever consider a black/african for their potential partner. there is nothing in common. Even when an Indian sees an elder they touch their feet and say Namaste, its about respect for those who paved the way for you. Most Indians look at black Americans as a cartoon character, they live such different and such sad lives compared to even a middle class Indian. Diwali, Holi, Eid, Ganesh Chaturthi, these things bring so much joy and camraderie in a desi persons life, i feel bad that this poor girl and her kids will never experience that. They will just be regular black american kids without their Indian heritage at all.. Reply

I cant say Im a fan, maybe because most people here are small minded Americans but Indians and blacks have nothing in common. Indians are known for their loyal family values, they have the lowest divorce rate in the world for centuries and have kept their ancient culture alive with its rich food, vibrant music and festivals, beautiful spirituality like Karma, Yoga and meditation and hospitable values despite the British and Turkic invaders trying hard to break them. Blacks lost their family values, 70% of black kids in America grow up in single parent homes, they fail badly in school and dont go to college then wake up one day mad that they are poor and not respected by anyone in society. This is a very sad way to go through life. The average middle class Indian studies very hard and works truly hard like a donkey for his own self but also his parents and his wifes parents and their kids. They dont waste money living laviciously but they have real wealth in their kids and their values. I could go on and on for many paragraphs but I just wanted to shed a little light as to why most Indians would never ever consider a black/african for their potential partner. there is nothing in common. Even when an Indian sees an elder they touch their feet and say Namaste, its about respect for those who paved the way for you. Most Indians look at black Americans as a cartoon character, they live such different and such sad lives compared to even a middle class Indian. Diwali, Holi, Eid, Ganesh Chaturthi, these things bring so much joy and camraderie in a desi persons life, i feel bad that this poor girl and her kids will never experience that. They will just be regular black american kids without their Indian heritage at all.

Kerala for the win!

Iam from kerela

Me tooo❤️​@@josephstalin2543

Iam from Kerala ❤

Is she christian or hindu from kerala?

Cute

If your family is ok with it

i do feel sorry for her though. Especially in America, having money and status is important. I am sure, she gets envious of her good Indian friends who married other Desi men and who live in sweet mansions in the nice part of town. Indians are famous for the family values and not getting divorced and achieving success in life through hard work and determination. To be honest, the black community is not known for these things. I wonder how her parents must feel - they probably feel very sorry for their daughter. Indian men may not be the most stylish or physically handsome guys (outside of the few Bollywood hunks) but they are the best fathers in the world. Indian men live and die for their women and children. That is why Indian families stay together and have so much prosperity and love. I feel sorry for this poor girl that she will never get to experience the love and joy that other Indian families feel everyday for even one minute. She will be hurting deep down...knowing what she could have had instead of this life with a lesser culture

@@Shivu836 interesting response. I mostly disagree but I understand where you're coming from. Culture is very important. Most people with sense would say it's a necessity, as would I. That said, sometimes traditions within cultures are not good. When that happens, it's up to the individual to decide if they want to abide in that specific cultural standard or change things up. For those that would do differently from their cultures, make sure you're doing it for the right reasons

​@@Shivu836 feel sorry for the family who don't want to be part of her life. Just because it's culture doesn't mean it's for everyone. Some people do well in following traditions but not all. Your souls purpose isn't to do exactly as you're told. Don't feel bad for her. She is very blessed and looks very happy and healthy

🙏🏽🙏🏽

Capital ‘G’ for God pls

@@tobaakins497that’s not something that other religions follow, capitalizing the alphabet “g,” in the word “god.”

@@globalcitizen2862 Christians, Muslims, Jewish, follow this practice. It's for the Abrahamic religions.

LORD H3068 yᵊhōvâ (self-Existent or Eternal). GOD, H3069 Yᵉhôvih, yeh-ho-vee'; a variation of H3068. God H430 ĕlōhîm(magistrates; angels, judges) Lord H136 ʼĂdônây, ad-o-noy'; an emphatic form of H113; the Lord (used as a proper name of God only):-(my) Lord. lord H113 ʼâdôwn, aw-done'; or (shortened) אָדֹן ʼâdôn; from an unused root (meaning to rule); sovereign, i.e. controller (human or divine):-lord, master, owner. god H410 ʼêl, ale; shortened from H352; strength; as adjective, mighty; especially the Almighty (but used also of any deity):-God (god), × goodly, × great, idol, might(-y one), power, strong

💯.... That's why I luuuuuuuv❤ the east!!!!!!

So are African and carribean women

She is beautiful inside and out 💞😍

African American from California here, heading to Mumbai this July. Thanks for the info 😊

@@user-hi3hs4wn8f thing is they’re not into foreigners unless she’s westernize 😂 they are not the typical women, they’re virgin until marriage. They don’t date men. They go straight to engagement. Only catholic indians are into dating but still conservative.

OMG , you right can't stop starring at her.😮😢❤❤❤❤❤

they are lenses

Shows she's happy

Gorgeous 😍. You can see how he can't get his hands of her😂. Hence 8 children ❤.

@@Maruva77 🤣🤣🤣🤣

He talks a lot!!But I'm loving them!

I know!!...let her talk 😂

He’s a Gemini. They are the communicators!🗣️😂

He makes it hard to watch sometimes, but that’s just how they communicate, she definitely has a big say in there relationship I can tell just by listening , they’re a beautiful family !

It’s crazy because it’s showing me a lot about my flaws. When I’m interrupted, I take it as disrespect. But when he’s interrupting, he’s so exciting to talk about his love for her. And her reaction is like “let him get it out”. But even though he’s interrupting her, he’s also holding her on a high pedestal. My partner is the same way and I tend to get angry at him sometime, but he is always putting me on a pedestal. It makes me want to learn patience and not take things so personal. It also makes me want to watch more videos about marriage, because everyone is human and we have to focus on intentions more than the minor flaws.

wow, a comment reeking of narcissism; what a perfect display of self-centeredness'

Exactly he is adorable charming and easy going

More kudos to her for making it work and keeping him happy

I cant say Im a fan, maybe because most people here are small minded Americans but Indians and blacks have nothing in common. Indians are known for their loyal family values, they have the lowest divorce rate in the world for centuries and have kept their ancient culture alive with its rich food, vibrant music and festivals, beautiful spirituality like Karma, Yoga and meditation and hospitable values despite the British and Turkic invaders trying hard to break them. Blacks lost their family values, 70% of black kids in America grow up in single parent homes, they fail badly in school and dont go to college then wake up one day mad that they are poor and not respected by anyone in society. This is a very sad way to go through life. The average middle class Indian studies very hard and works truly hard like a donkey for his own self but also his parents and his wifes parents and their kids. They dont waste money living laviciously but they have real wealth in their kids and their values. I could go on and on for many paragraphs but I just wanted to shed a little light as to why most Indians would never ever consider a black/african for their potential partner. there is nothing in common. Even when an Indian sees an elder they touch their feet and say Namaste, its about respect for those who paved the way for you. Most Indians look at black Americans as a cartoon character, they live such different and such sad lives compared to even a middle class Indian. Diwali, Holi, Eid, Ganesh Chaturthi, these things bring so much joy and camraderie in a desi persons life, i feel bad that this poor girl and her kids will never experience that. They will just be regular black american kids without their Indian heritage at all.

So called blacks and Indians are very similar in terms of ethnicity but the cultures are different

So Indians ain’t black?where u from the north?

@@mo_gmbin8883 what is black?? It's a color!! If we're talking real race then no, we aren't the same race. Read a book goofball

Correct. Indians age well too. Better than white or Chinese

I believe the south Indian are Dravidian mix of aboriginal and Indonesia hence dark skin and different hair compared to north

She really does.

She’s living a healthy and stress free life.

It’s laughter, love and healthy eating and working out!

Having kids very young - self care - genetics … i too have 6 kids and everyobe doesnt believe it

You can say that again

I wish I get a teddy like him one day😞

i do feel sorry for her though. Especially in America, having money and status is important. I am sure, she gets envious of her good Indian friends who married other Desi men and who live in sweet mansions in the nice part of town. Indians are famous for the family values and not getting divorced and achieving success in life through hard work and determination. To be honest, the black community is not known for these things. I wonder how her parents must feel - they probably feel very sorry for their daughter. Indian men may not be the most stylish or physically handsome guys (outside of the few Bollywood hunks) but they are the best fathers in the world. Indian men live and die for their women and children. That is why Indian families stay together and have so much prosperity and love. I feel sorry for this poor girl that she will never get to experience the love and joy that other Indian families feel everyday for even one minute. She will be hurting deep down....

@@Shivu836Lots of Indian men beat their women and children. 💥

@@Shivu836Stop trolling man, she had 9 kids with this man. What is there to regret 😂😂😂

My goodness...! Why do you have to be mixed to be beautiful?

She can definitely pass for 1/2 black; black and Indian. Indians have the same skin tones as black people, so why the racism. Crazy!

That’s probably just her contact lenses 😅

​@@PRadzzzGYnah.. her facial shape. She looks mixed

And his character too

You also need to be that type of man to attract this kind of woman. Also, not every man deserves this if they are not of good character.

@@musicgal9830 I agree

I have such a partner in my wife! I could not imagine not having her in my life. 43yrs, and through all the ups and downs, she remains the true love..

Damn

Whooooa

Am not surprised at all, they hate it when their daughter is dating a black man, but are ok with it if they date a white man.....

U got her "DePortEd"!! 🤔😳

​@@tboykin13tb Her Dad sent her to India. Her younger sister told on her.

You are so right.

Its alot more common than you think

I like the image that you put forth

U must have never been to queens New York

Her family does not accept him. So sad.

I assumed the both of them were straight out of Trinidad or Guyana

@@SobrietyandSolace yeah i am not even sure anymore myself, thought it was trini/halfblack, but apparently the hair is permed, so she might actually be full indian

@@ZeicuA so why did she perm it? To look more black?

Her hair isnt permed. I’m Indian and my hair is the same. She doesn’t want to look more anything, so stop reaching.

@@hbdbs I think people believe all Indians look like North Indians or Arabs with light skin and straight hair. I thought she looked like the Indians in Trinidad without necessarily being mixed; maybe her roots are from the same regions in India as the indentured labourers.

This that you just said, was what saved my marriage. It took my wife years to understand it. Her folks kept pushing the narrative “we are your real family” but our marriage took a massive leap forward, once she put them in the “extended family” corner.

Sister Cynthia, The nuclear families are far more loosely connected and far less stable than larger families with grandparents , uncles, aunts, cousins in the picture . In Asia, meaning the sub continent of India, China, Japan, south east Asia , and even south west Asia, the support system is the entire family not only just the nuclear one . There is more peace , love and stability in such families. How does one discard one’s parents just because one gets married ? Is it only for funding them from birth to weddings alone?! As a south Asian myself , I love the fact that my kids can grow up with the collective wisdom of several generations and learn to live and grow up with lots of cousins as well as siblings who become a support system in their generation. CHRISTianity originating in the Middle East Speaks of taking care of parents through their old age too as does every eastern religious scripture. Why this aberration in the west ?! Surely to be changed in our lifetime to give our children the approval of both CHRIST and a support system .❤

Not just black ,from other countries also

Sure but you never hear about the ones where there is no issue..

​@thendino1 becsuse it's extremely rare. This world is a whole lot of messed up. Asian people, Spanish people and Caucasian people invaded all these other people, yet all these other people have beef with black people? Make that make sense? Why in different religions were black people told to be beneath them? Does that make sense?

Its not about the race better you understand the culture then you can understand, don't just jump in conclusion

@@satishkumar-xi8qm huh?

Me too. I like it.

Me too I like it.

Budgeting yes, but 7am breakfast hell no... The only thing I want to eat at that time is my dreams 😴😂

Yeah! I have 5 children. Can't and never could stand free-for-all. Always ask first 👍❤

Yes.

Thank you. It hasn't been easy for sure. But we have come a long way.

Yes it is really important ❤

Hey homie. I am SAn living in Canada❤🇿🇦❤️

You are not Indian, you are a Charo!🤣🤝

Yes and I love that so much

She was raised right

Vice versa, too.

It's just. Beautiful isn't it 😊

She always see the man as her Lord

Thank you so much!!

Yes please

I agree

I agree need structure … I need structure with my 3

I agree 💯

I bet you dont have a husband

@@larosemurphy7620 i bet yours don’t want you!!

@@Keira_Kaygirl don’t mind that person. I understood you lol my husband interrupts me all day every day but it’s part of his personality. ❤

Honestly it is a little annoying at times!!

@@HoneyLove77 I stopped watching the video.

Same 🥰

No do you work whats your occupation

It was so sad to read your experience. We can't fix ignorance unless one is willing to learn about other cultures and talk to people. My grandmother’s parents were from India and she married a handsome black man from Jamaica. They had no problems from family and the cultures blended quite well. My dad resembles both his parents and passed on all those genes to us. I hope that mom found the so called ideal mate for her daughter.

That's ridiculous! What a hateful women! We all came from Adam and Eve!

WTF....... damm that was ..... up

So tragic and messed up smh

You can tell she has an Indian heritage. I just thought she was either from Trinidad or Guyana.

I thought she was biracial at 1st

Deff loooks West Indian

Yes, I thought she was Trinidadian..but its his roots. I feel she got Island roots. You guys are amazing..

Sometimes, we group people by how 🤔 they look in a box 📦 🙄. I love ❤️ how God wants us all to Love one another as human beings ❤️ ♥️ 💕 💙 💗 💖 ❤️!!!! One Love ❤️ and One God ❤️!!!!

She’s wearing contacts bruh

👍👍😉

U know so’ething called MAKEUP......

Damb yall let the man say she beautiful. 😂

You look like her

i do feel sorry for her though. Especially in America, having money and status is important. I am sure, she gets envious of her good Indian friends who married other Desi men and who live in sweet mansions in the nice part of town. Indians are famous for the family values and not getting divorced and achieving success in life through hard work and determination. To be honest, the black community is not known for these things. I wonder how her parents must feel - they probably feel very sorry for their daughter. Indian men may not be the most stylish or physically handsome guys (outside of the few Bollywood hunks) but they are the best fathers in the world. Indian men live and die for their women and children. That is why Indian families stay together and have so much prosperity and love. I feel sorry for this poor girl that she will never get to experience the love and joy that other Indian families feel everyday for even one minute. She will be hurting deep down....

@@Shivu836 They are happy couple and they have very beautiful family. I can see their love. Thats more important!

Lol

I will start giving my children this answer 😂

Same goes with the white girls, they get their fair share of BBCs and gets dumbed when they become pregnant. It's a common occurrence

Yes. I never thought of that, but you're right.

Right !!

Do u know what jobs they have?

Yeah ok African man!!😂😂😂

Yes, she's more like Ethiopian, very beautiful

Yeah, she reminds me of Khalid's wife, Salama.... I don't know something about her humor

ik this supposed to be a compliment but the vibe off on this one

@Emergencelive I don't think the vibe was off at all. It's just that you took it the wrong way. Basically, saying yes, they are beautiful on the outside but mainly on the inside as well.

@@camvin575 So how did you interpret "no matter what your outer shells represent"? Like... Represent?

Yeah, “.. outer shell represents”, sounds like a evil person thinking that they are complimenting you. That is just like the scene in the color purple, the whyte woman insults the Blk mother and ask her if she wants to be her maid. Your statement was NOT a compliment. Your statement EXPOSED you.

Yes we have learned to compromise, one of the most important things to learn.

🙌🏾

It's a blessing.

Indians in Jamaica? Yeah like the 1 percent! 😂😂😂😂 only met one in my whole life and I am in my 40s.

@@user-sr4we2vn7q We are still very present even if you are unable to find us🤣🤣We don’t live in specific communities so keep L👀king! We live where we live and many of us are very mixed now as compared to the 1960’s or 1970’s ❤️🇯🇲Dont give up keep looking as you continue to eat everything curry!

Big factz,,, she got sisters?

How?😅

If you look for a wife with a pure heart, you will get your blessing too from the Lord who created The Institution of Marriage! Keep searching!❤

She is blessed to have him too. He is the provider

That’s awesome that you are from Houston Also! He is a character for sure!

​​@@MzKoraaapko shadi karne ke liye yeh african sanaad hi Mila tha kiya😂😂.... India mein loyal aur handsome ladko ki kami hai kiya..

Yea that’s a tough one I don’t want to see my Daughter end up with a poor guy

​@@BaddieLuvsBaddies aww Mama❤ I get what you mean, even the daughters want a wealthy man too but one thing one can't buy with money Is character, unfortunately even some broke men can't afford it too 😂 so if a girl find it with a poor man and chooses it over pain, disrespect then I can understand it. While some what they want with a wealthy man 🎉🎉 some don't. Some go for a feeling ( connection, bond, relationships, chemistry) some would rather be in a marriage with money and just good basic relationship (no chemistry/bond just routine) because they want their kids to grow in a financially stable home.... It's not so easy for everyone to navigate😂. My Prayer is to be a wealthy wife to a wealthy husband whom I'm in love with and we raise our kids in love and with God 🙏

Love= peace of mind🎉🎉🎉🎉

This lady looks young because she is living with a good partner. With such husband it is difficult to age.

I definitely think she has black somewhere in her near ancestors..

@@nongcebomchunu3894she’s Indian bro we not black

@@Victor-fj5hy ok she's gorgeous!!!!

@@Victor-fj5hy I was just trying to say she looks mixed

That’s cause she is young. She’s only 41.

I thought she was black also

I thought she was black also

She is black do not let Indian geography location cloud your judgement

Yes, I know she is 100% East Indian, but she looks like what is called Dougla in Trinidad (mixed, Trinidadian and Indian) and she could pass for African American. Beautiful couple. Beautiful family.

She looks like a typical Indian.

@@celesteporter2918 correct Trinidad and Tobago 🇹🇹 has some of the most beautiful people because of the various mixes. Now Spanish is becoming another prominent mix to add to the callaloo!

Her vibe, they way she looked, they way she speaks is so carribean, I am surprised she's not, she is living life, mom and dad just know culture.

Thats a great Idea!!!

I’m late to the video but I was going to suggest something similar but I looked for your comment first 😂 I’d say give two kids a specific day, so on and so forth ❤