TOP SURGERY Q&A

Рет қаралды 34,577

10 ай бұрын

Hellooo! If you didn't already know, I got TOP SURGERY on 18th September! So I asked you over on Instagram if you have any questions you'd like for me to answer about everything to do with top surgery. If you want to be involved in future q&a style videos then be sure to follow me over on Instagram (ez.butler).

Пікірлер: 395

@yally5949 10 ай бұрын

Isaac has such pure, angelic energy. Like you can just tell theyre a great person to have in your life.

@JLs-corner 10 ай бұрын

Thank you for creating a safe space for people like me who’s so confused about their identity :) EDIT: please keep the religion talk out of this :) Religion has nothing to do with this.

@dooei94 10 ай бұрын

❤

@BlazedWitch 10 ай бұрын

Literally tho 🥺🥹💕🖤

@xaviorshideout 10 ай бұрын

@@LG-Musique That's kinda creepy to ask people 😃

@phoebecampbell6292 10 ай бұрын

@@xaviorshideoutwhat did they say?

@JLs-corner 10 ай бұрын

@@phoebecampbell6292They asked for someone’s age… kinda creepy :(

@armbones8519 10 ай бұрын

Honestly, I hope everyone finds someone who looks at them the way that Isaac looks at Ezra. Genuinely the love is so fuckin' palpable. So happy for both of you in realising your truest selves and living your best lives. You're shining examples for not just trans people but for human beings in general! Keep on slaying.

@armbones8519 10 ай бұрын

@@greenblue6935 Firstly, Ezra is 21 and is an adult so saying he's a kid is not just patronising but is also incorrect. Here in the UK (where Ezra lives), it is mandatory for a person to have a psychiatric diagnosis of gender dysphoria before they get top surgery. This means that they must be diagnosed by a SPECIALISED psychiatrist or psychologist (this specialisation takes, including the medicine degree or equivalent, approximately 15-19 years). As the NHS website states, diagnosis of gender dysphoria in children is rare which is another thing to prove that Ezra is not a child. Finally, you say he's making decisions with no thought for the future? This decision IS for the future. It is treatment for gender dysphoria and so his mental health will, with any luck, be much better now in the long term. As for regret, a 2021 study of trans individuals who transitioned early in their lives found that only 0.47% of trans people in the UK regret their transition. Around 50% of those individuals regret their transition due to transphobia they experience. If you require any of the sources for the information listed above, please let me know! On a more personal note, I believe that the reason for a lot of transphobia is a lack of understanding. Hopefully these statistics will help you to understand why transition is such an important part of trans people's lives and why it is such a life-saving procedure.

@Schnort 10 ай бұрын

@@greenblue6935dude these are adults

@jbknits 10 ай бұрын

@greenblue6935 I disagree. Taking years to get to a place to where one can consider their options and still decide to go through with it seems as time and thought went into this decision. In any case, not going through with any decision just because we might regret it at some unknowns future date is no way to live. We all have to take chances in life.

@Ivy_100 10 ай бұрын

I'M SO PROUD OF HOW FAR YOU HAVE COME AND I THINK YOU ARE SO COOL

@EzButler 10 ай бұрын

THANK U SMMM

@AbbyKuusisto-wp7bc 10 ай бұрын

@@EzButlerMe,Too!!!

@Ivy_100 8 ай бұрын

@@EzButler🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🩵🩷🤍🩵🩷

@A_l0cal_artist 10 ай бұрын

I’m so proud of you and your journey dude, you’re honestly amazing. I’m a young non binary person still trying to figure out myself and you’re such an inspiration. I really look up to you

@coquetteakito 10 ай бұрын

I agree with this comment so much 😭❤️ I really do look up to him as well

@A_l0cal_artist 10 ай бұрын

@@coquetteakitosame he’s so amazing

@AnimalCrossing-17 10 ай бұрын

I agree with you - also can I just say I LOVE your Sally face pfp

@A_l0cal_artist 10 ай бұрын

@@AnimalCrossing-17 oh tysm

@coquetteakito 10 ай бұрын

@@AnimalCrossing-17 I was just gonna comment about that! I LOOOVEE sally face!

@killua_fushiguro 10 ай бұрын

Im so proud of you and happy for you Ez, you’re such a model for me and seeing you so happy and getting further into your transition truly makes me happy I love you so much, keep going you’re amazing

@coquetteakito 10 ай бұрын

Ezra, you are my idol. You’ve helped me through so much with your videos. Thank you for being yourself! I’m so happy for you! 😭❤️

@user-wh2rz8uj6v 8 ай бұрын

No mortal should be an idol to you. Such a thing will only lead you to great distress. I'm speaking from experience here!! You are perfect and wonderful. Have confidence in YOU!!! there is no one like you

@msheldon83 10 ай бұрын

i love how you guys interact with each other. this makes me so so happy. i really want top surgery when i’m older!! this video helped me in a really dysphoric place, thank you so much for everything ezra!!

@maironelfstone896 10 ай бұрын

Thanks for this! I know it'll be a long time before I can get top surgery, but I appreciate everything you do for this community ❤

@sabinamanzano7668 10 ай бұрын

We are so happy for you Ezra 🤍 we love you and look up to you so much ✨

@kvfalot7618 10 ай бұрын

Ez, i cant even express the comfort you bring me. You make feel so hopeful that one day I'll get rid of my breasticles lmao. Much love and a safe recovery!

@QUR_LvR 10 ай бұрын

omg i needed something like this since i'm genuinely looking into top surgery some time in the future, thank you guys so much!! 💕💕💕

@tolerateitate 10 ай бұрын

i am SO proud of how far you have come ez :))) i have been there for every step of ur journey!!!

@stewartmatthews1551 10 ай бұрын

This is good to know Ezra I am not transgender I am straight but I am supportive of the pride community though but I am glad you cleared this up with everybody 💟

@pretty.person.bedroom 10 ай бұрын

Hey! I do not mean this against you at all, but I think you meant cisgender? Cis is basically the opposite of trans (you identify as you r assigned gender at birth :)

@stewartmatthews1551 10 ай бұрын

@@pretty.person.bedroom hi there thanks for clearing that up I am still kind of new to this stuff but I am learning more as I go. how are you doing today?

@Jax_4200 10 ай бұрын

Just a heads up people can be both trans and straight, one is gender identity the other is a sexuality. Just wanted to let you know :)

@stewartmatthews1551 10 ай бұрын

@@Jax_4200 alright well thanks for letting me know I am trying the best I can to learn more about the LGBTQ community if you guys have any information please don't hesitate to let me know I am a very accepting fella

@theswissmiss69 10 ай бұрын

I love your willingness to learn about new stuff!!!☺️

@hornet7698 10 ай бұрын

I’m so happy for you Ezra ! :)

@Soph385 10 ай бұрын

Ezra dude, you are soooo amazing. I love how open you are about everything and how you make us feel seen :)

@lbird524 10 ай бұрын

As someone who has to sleep sitting up some of the time due to health issues (and as a kid I literally couldn’t sleep without sitting up unless I wanted to wake up screaming) another tip for the pillows is large squishmallows, if you have them, use them as pillows (3+ if they’re your primary pillow) they can be moved pretty easily and are a great help

@meepman2838 10 ай бұрын

Dude I’m honestly shocked at how far you’ve come I started watching you videos around mid 2022 and you’ve changed so much and it’s awesome to see the journey and watch your life unfold around you!!

@lucass1717 10 ай бұрын

I myself am slowly finishing up my diagnosis with this super nice psychologist who will help me start transitioning and I can't wait to be in your position!! One thing is my surgery will probably cost half of that since I live in Poland but I will probably have to wait quite a long time for it..

@stefvnia_26 10 ай бұрын

HEYY GUYS!!! so proud of you ez!!! both of you are soo cuteee

@blitz0.8 10 ай бұрын

So happy that you could finally get top surgery, I've been listening to pleaser all day aswell lmao, CONGRATSSS💗💗

@crybabysdead 10 ай бұрын

thanks so much for making this and creating a safe space, im so proud of you ez

@izzieplaysYT 10 ай бұрын

Thank you for being amazing! Your happiness cured my depression, I’m getting too surgery in 5 years!

@ShiningAroha 6 ай бұрын

I love how supportive your partner is. He has a soft, calm voice. This video was very pleasant to listen to. I can't wait for my top surgery.

@R0CKST4R_F1NN 10 ай бұрын

This is so cool! Thank you guys so much, you’ve helped me more than you could ever know ❤(also first)

@greatsageequaltoheaven 10 ай бұрын

I'm so happy to see someone actually being so confident in own body and excited about changes I think, you just impressed me so much that i, myself, feel more comfortable And i hope someday i can get a top surgery, I'm going to be the right person for me, so i don't need to wait for someone else (things are hard ye) But this video, like any other from Ezra, giving me such joy I just want to thank you omfg (And if someone knows which country has the most good medical service for that purpose, i open for your advices, cus i confused by everything in my life)

@love.portals 10 ай бұрын

Love you I’m so proud of you and your journey

@harleyivy3463 10 ай бұрын

Congrats 🎉 Ez love this q and a learnt so much! Also its clear what a wonderful support Issac is! 🎉❤

@rileyl1315 10 ай бұрын

You are amazing and I am so happy for you!!

@gokuscalves2102 10 ай бұрын

I love watching his top surgery "saga" lol. It makes me feel so.... hopeful. Like this is truly a possibility for me in the near future. Like I can make this happen. Ezra, from the bottom of my heart, you are such an inspiration and almost an idol for me. You make my day, you fill my heart with happiness and hope for everything. I truly hope, you have a wonderful recovery and and wonderful life. ❤

@eggroll9766 10 ай бұрын

Jesus Is the way the Truth and the life the first and the last who ever confess that Jesus Is lord will be saved ❤️ Jesus loves you God is Good Jesus Is the way the Truth and the life the first and the last who ever confess that Jesus Is lord will be saved ❤️ Jesus loves you God is Good Jesus Is the way the Truth and the life the first and the last who ever confess that Jesus Is lord will be saved ❤️ Jesus loves you God is Good

@gokuscalves2102 10 ай бұрын

@@eggroll9766 good for you but I didn't ask for you to "save" me or attempt to "push" you beliefs on me. I hope you realize that you saying this does absolutely nothing to "turn" me. I'm glad you have your beliefs matey but they aren't for me

@pancake_ghosty 10 ай бұрын

@@gokuscalves2102I kind of agree with the person you replied to but also you have the freedom to do what you want and if god is actually real then they won't judge you in any way so just be you and forget all the nonsense

@MM-km1vl 10 ай бұрын

those two are so cute together. The way they look at each other makes my heart melt.

@cambo338 10 ай бұрын

Thank you for posting all this stuff. My top surgery is in just under three weeks. Im not massively nervous about it, mostly excited, but these videos have helped even more so thanks!!

@greatsageequaltoheaven 10 ай бұрын

CONGRATULATIONS Hope you get a good service and safe recovery after surgery ❤

@Nighteyes_14 10 ай бұрын

Oh mine too! Mine is Oct 12th, what date is yours? :))

@gimmemore9709 10 ай бұрын

Wow!!! Plenty of money in yeeting the teats. Nice to see plastic surgeons are unaffected by the cost of living crisis. There’s plenty of customers willing to pay to have life changing double mastectomies at the absolute steal of £9.995. Do you feel like you don’t fit in? Are you insecure? Do you have mental health issues? Well you must be the opposite sex!!! Come and get your gender affirming care now!!! Only £9.995!!! To have both your breasts removed!!! Call now to book yours!!!! 0121 Don’t delay in getting to tits chopped off today!!!

@z3r0nxx 10 ай бұрын

Ezra! Congrats! You inspire me so much ♥️♥️♥️

@tamalynmartin101 10 ай бұрын

I am so proud of Ez like so so proud 🩵

@antagonist_in_a_bag 10 ай бұрын

AHHHH SO HAPPY FOR YOU EZ!!!!!

@softfirecrow 10 ай бұрын

This is lovely. You are such good people, both of you. Lots of love

@denavandeventer5748 8 ай бұрын

I’m so proud of you, Ezra. Thank you for sharing your journey and I’m so happy you have a wonderful partner who has been there for every step. 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈

@aimeebrown-borges 10 ай бұрын

So happy for you Ez! AHHHHH 🩵

@a-wild_chestnut_ 10 ай бұрын

OMG IM FIRST i literally love your videos ez you are my king (not in a weird way)

@grmgt 10 ай бұрын

You guys are such a lovely couple 😭❤️

@samsterhamster948 10 ай бұрын

you and issac are so sweet i look up to you guys so mcuh😭

@corpsecandy2076 10 ай бұрын

I'm so happy for you! trans joy is beautiful and so are the 2 of you!

@rinlaroy 10 ай бұрын

So happy for you ez xx

@its.3zz13 10 ай бұрын

omg im so so proud of how far uve come ur so cool :) ❤

@megabrainwaves 10 ай бұрын

i’ve been following you since before you started T, and i just want to say that your laugh sounds amazing!!!! i’m glad top surgery went well and i’m wishing you a speedy recovery so you can show off that chest at the beach!!!🩷🩵🤍

@TheHuman-ob8ky 10 ай бұрын

I love Ez, I just realized I was trans recently and I find these Q&As very helpful :)

@PrivateChannel99 10 ай бұрын

I'm so proud of you💗

@SimpIyKade 10 ай бұрын

Omg the king posted

@sapphos_roommates 10 ай бұрын

Ez and Issac, you guys such a cool, wholesome couple

@dinosaurs_rule 10 ай бұрын

The way Isaac looks at Ezra is making me feel so single 😭😭

@Ilikeflowers22 10 ай бұрын

You guys are so freaking adorable omfg ❤❤❤

@Brooklyn-yw8ty 10 ай бұрын

I love this man so much😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️

@Sleepy_HoomanOFFICAL 10 ай бұрын

NOAH IS ANOTHER TRANS MAN I WATCH I'M SO GLAD YOU GUYS ARE FRIENDSSSS

@mischief6663 9 ай бұрын

Looking amazing! I can see the changes. Very handsome

@EmotionalSupportGuy 10 ай бұрын

I love this video. Helps with anyone going to get surgery, and also helps allies by answering questions that may be to weird to ask irl.❤

@SpaceArrow222 10 ай бұрын

im cis and this helped so much with questions i was wondering abt. it also made it seem less scary and intimidating, im sure it must be very comforting to transmasc ppl who want to get top surgery :))

@blankaccount_._408 10 ай бұрын

so happy 4 u ez!! :D

@thottusthottusxoxo 10 ай бұрын

I love these long-form videos sm

@LG-Musique 10 ай бұрын

To be fair to the Mum who said “it’s dangerous”, breast reduction has a lot more risks than a boob enhancement.

@ketameanii 10 ай бұрын

@@greenblue6935there are no girls in this video

@alwayslia2986 10 ай бұрын

@@ketameaniifirst of all she was talking about girls in general, secondly this is IN FACT a female in this video who sadly paid a doctor to chop of her breast.

@noo77777 10 ай бұрын

@@alwayslia2986thats a man

@EmmettHough-qb5ts 9 ай бұрын

Woah buddy chill no need to get all pressed and second it’s a guy gender and sex are different and it’s off not of maybe get your spelling checked if your a Christian don’t be so rude and judge people for who they are

@sharkarts378 9 ай бұрын

Ezra getting asked to open the bottle gives the same vibes as Ken being asked the time I’m the barbie movie. Congratulations ez!

@billybobjimmyjohn 9 ай бұрын

I love the thumbnail you look so happy!

@MikotoAddison 10 ай бұрын

Early! I hope your having a great day !

@AlexTheFox2001 10 ай бұрын

I am nearly at the point after my top surgery where I can finally take of my west, so 6 weeks, and I am so happy and looking forward to it. I am also on vacation in Spain right now and my doctor said I am allowed to go swimming as soon as the west is of. I am so excited.😊 I haven't been swimming for 2 years despite of my love for it😢 And I am extremely happy for you as amd hope your healing journey goes as well as mine ❤ My surgery only took like 1,5h or maybe a bit more. But I think that's different for everyone. Also my back tingles a lot and I need someone to scratch it whenever I take the binder/west of for showering😂

@greatsageequaltoheaven 10 ай бұрын

Congratulations!!! I hope you can enjoy swimming while you on vacation! Honestly, I love that too This is amazing thing

@mmm555m 9 ай бұрын

What is a west?

@AlexTheFox2001 9 ай бұрын

@@mmm555m It's a typo, I meant vest. English is not my first language 😅

@eIIasversion 10 ай бұрын

love you ez!!

@ProFriend 4 ай бұрын

Issac is soooo agreeable. "Yes, I am."

@skittlesarmy5 10 ай бұрын

Love u ez ❤❤❤

@AnimalCrossing-17 10 ай бұрын

Love you guys ❤️

@Stitch.11426 10 ай бұрын

LOVE U EZZZZ ❤❤❤❤

@ImQueer-_- 10 ай бұрын

Super Edcited for This video!!! Also your song is balm!!! And I relate to it so much and I love it SK much!!!, Also the Fit I can see, Is super cute!!! :)), Also I dyed my hair awhile ago to be the same as yours!!! Anwyays your content makes me feel so safe as a young trans dude!!! :)))

@izzieplaysYT 10 ай бұрын

Omg, I was abt to write the exact same comment!

@ramona3840 10 ай бұрын

Could you maybe please get a microphone or something? I want to listen to this in full but I can barely hear you guys! I'm so happy for you Ez! 💚

@demigodnerd 10 ай бұрын

I really love your videos ez. Your are so sweet ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@sophiadoesrandomthings 10 ай бұрын

i love this

@floued 10 ай бұрын

congrats!! will you ever do a video or perhaps answer how the process was on getting top surgery for the application process? such as how long it took before a date? :0!

@EzButler 10 ай бұрын

yess absolutely!!

@iconsumecoal 10 ай бұрын

I really hope one day I could be in the same position as u, getting top surgery and having a partner take care of u- oml u r both so cute 😭💕 I’m super happy for u Ez 🩵💙

@Ntsd2 10 ай бұрын

Ez you are THE BEST

@bonesman7326 10 ай бұрын

Ez u remind me of 2d from Gorillaz, i love it bro I'm so happy for u 💞💞💞💞 sending love n light

@Claraluvsuuu 10 ай бұрын

So happy for u Ezra!

@EzButler 10 ай бұрын

thank u!!!

@Claraluvsuuu 10 ай бұрын

@@EzButler ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️your my idol!

@thesaurus9696 10 ай бұрын

Have a nice day Ezra!!

@EzButler 10 ай бұрын

you tooo!!

@KxmpleteKxllapse 10 ай бұрын

i love ur hair so much! so happy for u and i cant wait to do a crazy hair dye color soon :3

@Yourlocalpiratequeen2005 10 ай бұрын

I WANT DAVID TENNANT😭 I literally giggled like crazy at this

@EzButler 10 ай бұрын

he’s so amazing ahahahha

@Yourlocalpiratequeen2005 10 ай бұрын

@@EzButleromg you replied! And he totally is😭❤️

@Ivanlevinsen 10 ай бұрын

Thank you for theese videos❤

@sine9276 10 ай бұрын

You both are so cute 🤗 and im so proud of you 👍🏻🤗

@blueerie_ 10 ай бұрын

thank you ez ♥️

@YourLocalGaymer 10 ай бұрын

if anyone was wondering (because i was) 9995 punds is equal to about 12232.03 us dollars also congrats Ez im so happy for you.

@coilyyy 10 ай бұрын

Does it effect your chest tattoos?

@rainways7586 10 ай бұрын

Hey Ezra! I’m a trans guy and I was just wondering if you know if you have a really small chest can you choose which surgery you get? I have an very very small chest and may not even need top surgery after fat redistribution so if I did I would probably be recommended to key hole. I like the sound of key hole however for keyhole you need drains and the thought of drains make me very uncomfortable with the thought of having drains inside of me..

@i.gummy.o.worm.i 10 ай бұрын

You are amazing, inspiring and a king. Also random question: What brand is ur hair dye?

@lemongloves 9 ай бұрын

i think it’s manic panic!

@mjlove6574 10 ай бұрын

Love You guys ❤❤❤

@eggroll9766 10 ай бұрын

Jesus Is the way the Truth and the life the first and the last who ever confess that Jesus Is lord will be saved ❤️ Jesus loves you God is Good

@kelsonl6084 6 ай бұрын

I didn’t have to wear a post op binder, and had drains-they didn’t particularly hurt but I have two tiny white scars where the tubes came out. What is the purpose of the post op binder, did they say? Brownstein did mine and he is one of the best. Oh and your chest nerves will grow back, it took about 5 years for it to feel fully normal even on my nipples. I wasn’t told to wear compression socks either, except in the hospital

@zanderg7048 10 ай бұрын

I missed your q on insta lol but did you T shedule or dosage have to change leading up and after your surgery? Also I'm so happy you arent in aloota pain!!!

@EmotionalSupportGuy 10 ай бұрын

Way to go super star 🌟

@EzButler 10 ай бұрын

aawwweee

@eIIasversion 10 ай бұрын

first!!!