One major thing I've learned is that men will always "behave or act" the way you want them to when they want to lure you into an unequal relationship. Once u are in, they show you their true self, they remind you that they are not of the same faith as you. It's a terrible place to find yourself in sometimes we put ourselves in wrong situations and act as if it's the will of God. But His grace is sufficient, you can repent and pray pray pray. I repented and seeked God, He answered me and blessed me with a man after His own heart. It is possible to get out of an unequally yoked relationship. Thank you Sego
@lesegontsoele66783 жыл бұрын
Wow! Sis you hit it. May we know what our faith requires of us too, and be wise. Thank you for sharing that with us❤️
@judithlopez87962 жыл бұрын
How did you get out?! How did you address the situation with your ex? Because it's so hard for me to even initiate the conversation of why it's not right for us to be unequally yoked when I feel like we speak different "languages" when it comes to topics of God :( Which makes it even harder to communicate...
@lesegontsoele66782 жыл бұрын
@@judithlopez8796 Hey sis, pray for courage to be bold to stand for your faith and ask the Holy Spirit to help you say the right words. Pray for his heart to be receive what you're saying. Remember you're not trying to convince him or be convinced. As long as you're not married to him you must let go of that relationship and trust that God has for you exactly what He wants for us as His daughters. I know it's 3 months post your question and my apologies for the very delayed response. I hope God was gracious to help you and your heart dint harden towards His word, and that you are no longer in an unequally yoked relationship 🙏
@lindagatwiri869 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this
@lindagatwiri869 Жыл бұрын
@@lesegontsoele6678 Thank you for sharing this
@jenniferthompson51462 жыл бұрын
When you say no to an unequally yolked relationship, you are demonstrating to that person patience, self control, and the influence of God in your life. VS compromise, idol worship (putting man over God), desperation, hypocrisy. The blessings of God will fit perfectly into your life.
@travelwithkristin Жыл бұрын
Amen
@ChildrenofthelivingGod2 жыл бұрын
I left him yesterday 🤧. It’s painful and I pray he gets saved. Update: We got back together, he decided to pursue God with me. He got baptized a week ago 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽.
@bribelcarist57682 жыл бұрын
God comfort you girl🙏🏾
@loonytoongt12452 жыл бұрын
@Keeping Up With Chichi Did he pursue God for you or himself? I think it’s important to make sure he chose it for himself.
@ChildrenofthelivingGod2 жыл бұрын
@@loonytoongt1245 We are in a long distance for a month now, I will see if he continues going to church.
@karenbainomugisa9365 Жыл бұрын
@@loonytoongt1245 and there is really a thin line between the two especially when making these decsions
@nitrom88919 ай бұрын
Y’all having sex?
@ziphozethudlamini5452 жыл бұрын
This is so informative. As women especially, we settle very easily. Mostly because we think we can't get anyone better or we're running out of time. We limit God when we do that, we need to trust and wait on the Lord according to Isaiah 40:31 and remember that the Lord's ways are higher than ours and His thoughts are higher than ours. Prayer and meditating on the word of God like you said is very important.
@lesegontsoele66782 жыл бұрын
Sis you done hit the nail right on the head. I Appreciate such comments they continue to minister to more people further emphasizing the importance of truly being a disciple of Jesus. We must trust the Lord. He knows what we need. Thank you again sis 💓
@Pathtozion144k Жыл бұрын
Sisters and brothers look for the definition of yasa-h3318 and badal-h914 in Hebrew I want to show you what ABBA YAH TZEVAOTH has shown me giving clarity and understanding so that we see what HE is commanding us to do HalleluYAH And everyone that has forsaken houses, or brethren, or sisters, or father, or mother, or woman, or children, or lands, for my name's sake, shall receive a hundredfold, and shall inherit everlasting life. MATTITHYAHU (MATTHEW) 19:29 את CEPHER ABBA YAH TZEVAOTH is speaking to HIS remnant men and women of Israel, sons and daughters of ABBA YAH TZEVAOTH to come out separate from them and be a separate qodesh nation for ABBA YAH TZEVAOTH only
@thatoyaone65673 жыл бұрын
It would be nice for you to also touch on things that result to people "settling"(for lack of a better word) for unequally yoked relationships. Thanks for the great content
@lesegontsoele66783 жыл бұрын
Hey Thato, thank you for your suggestion. Will definitely go a bit deeper as we explore this topic. 💕🤗
@danilaroche11566 ай бұрын
In my case it was loneliness and hormones. I craved sex. I realize these were strongholds. Spirits. Jesus got me out.
@Nathalie-96 Жыл бұрын
I have just left a 7 and a half year long relationship because I began my process of sanctification and we just disagree on such fundamental values regarding faith. My heart is broken and I want so badly to run back and stay with him but while I am with him I feel guilt for not being able to follow God's will. Either way I see things my heart is conflicted and I just don't want to keep leading him on if I don't see a future here. My heart hurts. I will that I could just stay and that things would change but I am not finding rest in that relationship anymore. I'm trying to be set apart and I can't do that with someone who still chooses this world over the God of the entire universe. I am absolutely devastated and I am questioning whether this walk is even for me.
@glorysunday452 Жыл бұрын
Hy...am currently facing this, it's not an easy journey, I feel exactly how u feel. Mine is a 4yrs relationship...I find myself going back and forth.
@Pathtozion144k Жыл бұрын
Sisters and brothers look for the definition of yasa-h3318 and badal-h914 in Hebrew I want to show you what ABBA YAH TZEVAOTH has shown me giving clarity and understanding so that we see what HE is commanding us to do HalleluYAH And everyone that has forsaken houses, or brethren, or sisters, or father, or mother, or woman, or children, or lands, for my name's sake, shall receive a hundredfold, and shall inherit everlasting life. MATTITHYAHU (MATTHEW) 19:29 את CEPHER ABBA YAH TZEVAOTH is speaking to HIS remnant men and women of Israel, sons and daughters of ABBA YAH TZEVAOTH to come out separate from them and be a separate qodesh nation for ABBA YAH TZEVAOTH only
@Genes1s___27 күн бұрын
Wow hello all and Natalie. How are you guys and I’m in this same boat. I loved her. Jesus loves her more. I love God more.
@karenbainomugisa93652 жыл бұрын
The challenge that comes with walking away is that you leave the other party hurt; you are more of the villain; and yes, guilt and condemnation is not from God but you remain a bad person in the other's history. what happened to helping the unbeliever meet Jesus? Otherwise, this was a nice one, Lesego!
@lesegontsoele66782 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your response. It's not an easy road especially because we put ourselves in these situations at times knowing very well that God disapproves in His word and we continue to hurt each other. Above the guilt and condemnation there is a peace that Christ provides as we choose obedience over sacrificing our devotion for a relationship He disapproves of. We continue to pray for the ones we hurt along the way and plead with the Lord for their salvation from a distance. We simply don't have the power to bring anyone to salvation, it is by grace. And that grace requires of us to not be with anyone who hasn't received it in order for it to do its work.
@arefashionista2 жыл бұрын
@@lesegontsoele6678 does distancing and praying for their salvation work?
@lesegontsoele66782 жыл бұрын
@arii baby salvation is granted only by the grace of God, we pray in faith and hope that the Lord will have mercy on them. It's not something we choose for ourselves entirely or even for others. I say all of this to say it's not a guarantee that this person in particular will be saved once you distance yourself. We distance for our own good first, so that we're in the right standing with the Lord according to scripture and if God chooses to save those we love then all glory to Him.
@KeondraRB Жыл бұрын
This is the one 🙏🏾 it hurts badly hurting the one you love bc of this. Trying to be obedient, know that person has been loyal to you. But Trying to live fully for God. Especially when you both are believers but can’t come to agree, then you catch yourself trying to pull/change them and etc. this is a hard hard journey not for the weak
@emilylifestyle297010 ай бұрын
I prayed and he started distancing himself. It's now 2 weeks and he told me to stop calling him. He will be back with his time. Meanwhile I was crying but every time I cry, I remember of the prayer I did and the lie and screat that is revealed but still I hurting I don't know why. But I know it's for the best
@James_follows_Christ Жыл бұрын
Sisters? What about the brothers watching 😒😂 lol. Great video! Keep pressing on and allowing God is use your life as a living testimony of His grace, mercy, and love.
@shine2678 Жыл бұрын
😄lol
@James_follows_Christ Жыл бұрын
@@shine2678 She brought a tear to my eye talking about “sistas” smhh😂 .. ok exclude us guys lol
@MichaellaSapphire2 жыл бұрын
"We cannot twist God's arms". 🔥
@Ari_L33_ Жыл бұрын
I’m in a unequally yoked relationship for 17 years I was raised in a Born again church and I had back slid when I got into the relationship he doesn’t have or believe in anything I believe in and today I now want to fully be committed and spread the word of God but it’s hard bc I’m in this relationship and we have 3 kids by together and he mocks my belief and says I’m not a true believer and also says a lot of hurtful things and we are Not married we are engaged for a few years now and something is holding me back to even marry him. At this point I no longer want to be in the relationship but it’s hard to leave when I’m a stay at home mom with no help or guidance so I feel stuck please pray for a miracle to happen for myself and 3 children I feel so lost I believe and have faith but I also know I need to do my part😞 and I do pray and read the word but I get attacked every day
@KeondraRB Жыл бұрын
🙏🏾 God gives you the strength This will probably be one of the ultimate test of faith for you. Leaving is you choosing God, leaving is you showing you trust God. Leaving is you choosing yourself! It sounds like an emotionally and verbally abusive situation. Pray Make a plan pray-and execute. I know it’s easier said than done but God wants us to live in peace of mind in wholeness and in truth
@danilaroche1156 Жыл бұрын
You must leave him. Even if you have 3 kids. If nothing changes, nothing changes. Don't enable him! I know it's hard. I get it but 17 years, sis? If u must... get public assistance. Anything but being stuck in sin, pining over this man. Who knows, maybe if he loses you, he'll turn to Christ.
@Ari_L33_ Жыл бұрын
@@KeondraRB thank u 🙏
@Ari_L33_ Жыл бұрын
@@danilaroche1156 I believe your also right thank u….I’m still in the same situation praying and leaving it in Gods hands 🙌🏼 until a break through happens 🙏
@danilaroche1156 Жыл бұрын
@@Ari_L33_ Sis...while you wait for the breakthrough, I pray this. That you dismantle the soul tie. The sexual connection. Your opening portals of bondage and demonic attack & I know because I've been there. I wish I could help you. Don't have $ but could send you toiletries..soap, toothpaste, etc. Sis, fornication is very serious. I think if you asked God to cut it off, He'd do it today. It bonds you to Satan or the man in question here. This man will only try to destroy you and the children I pray you have COURAGE. It's going to take that. Courage, endurance and strength. This is war, booboo.
@catharinearellano28322 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. thank you for reminding that we should focus ourselves to God, on what He wants us to do and on what He doesn't want. Focus on Him and on His words. God bless sis 💕
@lesegontsoele66782 жыл бұрын
God bless you too sis. Let's keep reminding each other of God's truth. 💞
@thatoyaone65673 жыл бұрын
This is sooo good! Christ(who is the word) is the ultimate standard 👏
@keshasworld7893 Жыл бұрын
You messed up when you gave a disclaimer for nonbelievers! The whole purpose of this video is for believers in JESUS CHRIST. You're playing both sides.
@Koki_Maphelela3 жыл бұрын
Very direct and focused on your understanding which is based on your experience. I agree that it is difficult, I have found it very destabilizing to date someone who does faith-wise is on the opposite end. If you can, I would appreciate you unpacking this more, especially because you have your own lived experience (I am not asking for details of that relationship neh). I think it would be helpful if you can and are going in that direction.
@lesegontsoele66783 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your input Koki. Definitely will go into the depths of my experience when I do my Testimony video. These could be looked at as snippets building up to it. I appreciate your comment 💕🤗
@user-mb2xq5wm9b3 ай бұрын
My husband and i have been off and on for 6 months. God kept revealing to me that my husband was on a path to hell and i was in paradise. And when i tried to hold on to him while my true kingdom spouse was waiting for me, my angel told me "you cant do that Brianna". And its best to let go. Even though you want the relationship. God knows best. Because those relationships never work.
@jewishbride50105 ай бұрын
Praise God for he will no longer allow any evil doer to profit off of his children while continuing doing evil! I therefore bind to hell every unequal yoke and common share with anyone not holding on to what is good according to God his standards in one's own life in my life, the lives of my family, friends, colleagues, neighbours, acquitances, opponents and the body of Christ while binding one to hold on to what is good to God his standards at all times and binding to hell every lack of holding on to what is good according to God his standards, in accordance with this word and proverbs 20:23, 1 thessalonians 5:21, matthew 5:17-19, matthew 22:37-40, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 in the name and blood of Jesus Christ amen and hallelujah, glory to God ❤!
@andreaflorencefatiga10592 жыл бұрын
Woow! Thank u for this! U are a blessing ❤️
@thehoopmagician26722 ай бұрын
What if a couple disagrees on certain doctrines like once saved always saved vs. lose salvation and if Jesus was God or not?
@littleblackbird201811 ай бұрын
She should have clarified that this is not permitted if you are in an unequally yolked marriage. In fact, if you leave your wife/husband you are actually going against the word of God. You must stay in your marriage if the nonbeliever stays with you, but you must also let them go if they decide to leave. You being a Christian saves your spouse.
@thehoopmagician26722 ай бұрын
What if y’all aren’t married yet? Just in a relationship?
@littleblackbird20182 ай бұрын
@thehoopmagician2672 If you're not married you can end the relationship without worry.
@thehoopmagician26722 ай бұрын
@@littleblackbird2018 he says he believes but we disagree on certain things that make me think we aren’t equally yoked . He doesn’t believe in witnessing or going to church (I do) he doesn’t think Jesus is or isn’t God (he doesn’t know) and he doesn’t believe in once saved always saved (I do) . We also disagree on what Bible version is best. He also says their is more evidence that Jesus died on a stake and not a cross. I don’t know what to make of that. It’s been a hard decision to make because he’s a believer but believes in different doctrines so it makes me feel unequally yoked to him what do you think I should do? Hard cuz he’s so nice tho. But I’m gonna have to make a choice soon.
@ijeomauchegbu4532 Жыл бұрын
Good day ma'am. Please help me out. I am in a relationship with a man who is divorce and also not a believer, unfortunately I already have a child with him. Right now I don't know how to separate from him. I need counseling please.
@marylinelai8073 Жыл бұрын
Thank you sister for sharing God's Heart 😊
@oleinfluencia53023 жыл бұрын
I’m here for this ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
@lesegontsoele66783 жыл бұрын
💕 Thank you sis
@wanderingdeer1114Ай бұрын
Thank you!
@CS-qy3vr Жыл бұрын
Thank You so much its difficult
@truthisbetterthenanylie1832 жыл бұрын
What if I have a baby with a unequally yoke? He wants to be with us but I now am convinced I shouldn't be. Having a baby should I stay?
@ChildrenofthelivingGod2 жыл бұрын
Pray for him. Share the faith with him. Find a man of God to introduce him to so he is surrounded by people who encourage him to love God. And finally be patient. Finally still follow the bible get married and not have sex out of marriage. Obedience is better than sacrifice. If the Holy Spirit is convicting you listen. Don’t delay. May God give you wisdom. God bless you and help you make a decision you want ❤️.
@truthisbetterthenanylie1832 жыл бұрын
@@ChildrenofthelivingGod Thank you so much! Yes actually I had stopped all sexual relationship with him until marriage now finally we are getting married and I will continue to pray for him I have faith in God he is able to save the Father of my child and soon to be husband. Please pray for us 🙏 if you have Instagram I can send you our names so you can pray for us as well. Thank you once again for encouraging me God bless
@shine2678 Жыл бұрын
Asha Christiana videos helps too..
@Pathtozion144k Жыл бұрын
Sisters and brothers look for the definition of yasa-h3318 and badal-h914 in Hebrew I want to show you what ABBA YAH TZEVAOTH has shown me giving clarity and understanding so that we see what HE is commanding us to do HalleluYAH And everyone that has forsaken houses, or brethren, or sisters, or father, or mother, or woman, or children, or lands, for my name's sake, shall receive a hundredfold, and shall inherit everlasting life. MATTITHYAHU (MATTHEW) 19:29 את CEPHER ABBA YAH TZEVAOTH is speaking to HIS remnant men and women of Israel, sons and daughters of ABBA YAH TZEVAOTH to come out separate from them and be a separate qodesh nation for ABBA YAH TZEVAOTH only
@Peytpulll10 ай бұрын
what about he’s a mormon. I am aware he is an unbeliever because they reject what Jesus did at the cross. So what do I do? Do I walk away?
@msliberated38998 ай бұрын
Walk away and pray for him
@Pathtozion144k Жыл бұрын
Sisters and brothers look for the definition of yasa-h3318 and badal-h914 in Hebrew I want to show you what ABBA YAH TZEVAOTH has shown me giving clarity and understanding so that we see what HE is commanding us to do HalleluYAH And everyone that has forsaken houses, or brethren, or sisters, or father, or mother, or woman, or children, or lands, for my name's sake, shall receive a hundredfold, and shall inherit everlasting life. MATTITHYAHU (MATTHEW) 19:29 את CEPHER ABBA YAH TZEVAOTH is speaking to HIS remnant men and women of Israel, sons and daughters of ABBA YAH TZEVAOTH to come out separate from them and be a separate qodesh nation for ABBA YAH TZEVAOTH only
@user-ef1cq5mf8s2 ай бұрын
❤
@lindseytharaldson48742 жыл бұрын
That really helped me. Thank you.
@treymanelawrence24252 жыл бұрын
What if you have a baby together and you want to seek god but the other is not interested?
@journeywithlifechangerlr Жыл бұрын
Then It will be necessary to walk away. You can't force a person to live for God. This will be a very hard decision to make especially for your child sake but it's best to obey God and walk away from the relationship. God will bless you with a man that will set a good example for you child. I faced a similar situation also. I left my son's father and I'm now living for God. I have faith that one day he will send a Godly man into our lives.
@Pathtozion144k Жыл бұрын
Sisters and brothers look for the definition of yasa-h3318 and badal-h914 in Hebrew I want to show you what ABBA YAH TZEVAOTH has shown me giving clarity and understanding so that we see what HE is commanding us to do HalleluYAH And everyone that has forsaken houses, or brethren, or sisters, or father, or mother, or woman, or children, or lands, for my name's sake, shall receive a hundredfold, and shall inherit everlasting life. MATTITHYAHU (MATTHEW) 19:29 את CEPHER ABBA YAH TZEVAOTH is speaking to HIS remnant men and women of Israel, sons and daughters of ABBA YAH TZEVAOTH to come out separate from them and be a separate qodesh nation for ABBA YAH TZEVAOTH only
@mchmrsn293 жыл бұрын
thankyou for this💗 greetings from 🇵🇭
@lesegontsoele66783 жыл бұрын
You are welcome Micah! And thank you for watching. 💕🤗