1. Self love and self respect 2. Always learning and growing 3. She's supportive 4. Emotional intelligence

Her relationship with her family is a huge sign

“You should not complete someone”. One of the best quotes I’ve heard all year.

“If you wanted to do it just for you then you would be able to just look at the picture and be happy without posting it” that’s real.

I like how you move away from the whole “high value” craze. It’s about finding someone who you’re attracted to, can communicate well with and have similar values.

"You can't fix someone - they have to it themselves." Totally right.

'A guy doesn't owe a girl flowers' 'A girl doesn't owe a guy sex' Smartest thing I've heard in ages.

Thanks for the support!

In my experience, high value women don't come along very often. But I also know from talking with female friends, that high value men are equally rare. But it's nice to be reminded what to look out for. Thank you!

"No one owes each other anything. You have to earn it and show that you deserve it." This is why my ex and I broke up. I make good money and she just wanted a huge part of it without giving much in return. Well now she's married to some other rich guy. Poor guy, or shall I say, poor guy's bank account.

"Humble and doesn't have a princess mentality", sums up all the other qualities.

The energy when you say “it’s okay! The worlds not gonna end!” Is so comforting it can be applied for any time you’re feeling a bit... anything! I played it a few times. Helped with what I’m going through now even!

All of my married friends have given me this one common piece of advice. Make sure you and your partner have at least one similar interest. Quality time through similar interests are important. Great videos Courtney!!!

What a wonderful speech, again! Courtney, the important points that you listed and elaborated on in this presentation, really resonate with many high-value traits across various different traditional cultures, they express them in different ways though. I guess it's really a human thing. Thank you! You are very inspiring through enlightening the good knowledge in people's minds and hearts! A great teacher! 🌻☺

Loved this. Thank you, Courtney. What great points. I'm a guy who frequently doesn't get it and it's so valuable to hear from an intelligent lady to help us get a better understanding and insight (lord knows I need it). I wish I had her coaching when I was in my 20's.

Courtney can I just say I think you are such a lovely person with such a big heart. You are making a huge difference to guys lives with your work and it honestly means the world to me. Thank you so much my friend!

6 videos in a week! I hope the grind pays off for you Courtney!

High value woman is not someone who is high maintenance, rather she has the values you are looking for. With all the important things mentioned in your video. Supportive, emotional intelligence, takes care of themselves, does not depend on someone else to complete them. However, still wants a special man in their life with similar values. Once you have a bond, it is nice to feel connected and loved.

You have the voice of an angel !, I can't thank you enough Courtney you've been a great help to me and many other guys out there

Love what you’re doing here. Thanks for helping people become more aware of this

Love the sports analogy! Spot on in the case of Lebron and Davis. Well done Courtney.

Her last point on emotional intelligence truly touched my heart, bc I'd been on the receiving end of it by my ex. Thank you Courtney for using apt keywords like "underlying characteristics", etc. I simply had to nod my head in agreement.

Excellent Cortney ! Sharing this with my community group of 1200+, which is mostly women. Thank you 🙏🏼

You’re honest and straight forward. Most importantly you’re aware of what’s right or what’s wrong regardless of gender

What I love most about your channel, Courtney, is that you encourage everyone to be the best possible version of themselves. The unhappier you are with your life, the more likely you are to be a shitty person. Thus, by encouraging people to be the best possible version of themselves, the more likely they are to be happier and attract others. Very simply idea, yet I find that most self-help KZfaq channels lack this. And that's sad, because I think that if people were happier with themselves, the better the world would be. Keep doing you, girl 👍

Another great video, Courtney! You bring a lot a clarity to the complicated world of women psychology and in a positive way. In most cases people especially men, don’t have a clarity on what they want and more importantly what they should be looking for in a women from a long term happy and healthy relationship standpoint. Your videos are presumably for single people but what about married people? If there are any red flags then how can those issues be addressed? Some content on that will be very helpful. Thanks!

Courtney, I feel lucky the algorithm put you into my feed. I spent a lot of time doing a lot of work on myself and reading and youtube certainly helped in that process. It almost is eerie to me how this algorithm popped your channel into my feed at almost the exact time that these videos hit the stage where I am currently at. You are in my main group of go to channels to reflect on my personal journey...keep it up. It is really cool when you are able to do something for a living that is so positive for so many people. thank you!

Really enjoying your insight and no nonsense approach to relationships. I think everyone could benefit from high value friends as well. People you allow into your life impact it in 3 basic and simple ways. 1) Improves your life, making you feel good about yourself. 2) Mostly neutral, like a casual friend. 3) Have a negative impact, causing uneccessary stress and frustration.

I am firstime seeing a women talking facts and logical things that much easily she is brilliant and i am impressed! 😳❤️

Mother Nature has a way of correcting herself when things are going bad. COURTNEY IS THAT CORRECTION. Setting such a great example for young ladies.

Courtney, you're factual and straight to the point. Some guys complain that it doesn't make sense having a female give us guys advice but they're wrong. You're the best coach out there. Cheers from Canada

This is great confirmation for me. I really appreciate this video, Courtney. One of the reasons why I work so hard and preach about this stuff as well. Keep making these great vids. We are learning from them. Ray Bing The Runner/Coach

Women used to think I am always this nonchalant person who don’t care about them, but that’s not it. I just don’t look to women to “complete” or be the only source of my joy and happiness. Well said, Courtney!

"Why pour your full glass into someone else's who's cracked" . Watching this video really nailed it in so many areas of what I've dealt with in the past but couldn't quite put my finger on it at the time. Thank you Ms Courtney for all you do for us ! ❤

Great video! Both men and women need to learn from this. Really appreciate the work that you and all these other content creators are doing.

This was an excellent video. Thank you for going in-depth with this subject, Courtney.

Damn, this video really puts into perspective why my relationship failed with my ex. Always needed validation, wanted me to treat her like a princess. Ty these videos are def helping me build up my confidence.

It's clear Teddy understood the "high value woman" - concept early on. Tell him to do more watch stuff with you, I miss that.

You are such an intelligent woman. Thank you for all you give in your videos. To those who have a narrow or pecimistic view of women - you are a massive relief. Thank you for being just you. It's a wonderful thing! And just what the world needs.

I totally agree with the qualities you shared in this video. What is huge for me is that a woman who has a growth mindset and supportive. My ex-GF just broke up with me last year right when the pandemic started and you hit it right on the money when you mentioned listening as one of the most overlooked qualities in a high-value woman. I'm not going to say that I don't have flaws myself. I believe I have learned a lot from the failed relationship, I just don't have the right opportunity right now but I'm slowly working on it. Back to the listening part, I understand that we usually want our thoughts and opinions to matter however we often neglect the part of listening to others whether it is someone really important or not. I believe a person who truly listens is a must-have in a relationship. Being able to work things out with your partner crucial if you want the relationship to succeed. Sometimes it's better to keep the relationship rather than being right.

I first subscribed to your channel when you had around 2k subscribers and now you are few subscribers away from 100k..u have been so consistent with the videos and also has awesome content. Really proud of you ♥️

Wow Courtney thank you so much great video !! Me and my little brother are watching and he’s learning so he can avoid the mistakes I made dating women and I’m also still learning thank you 🙌🏽

This video was really helpful. I love how you used the AD & Lebron tactic. That was clever and made so much since!!! Your the perfect therapist.

GREAT VIDEO COURTNEY!!!1 PLEASE CONTINUE TO SHARE YOUR TRUTH. I VALUE WHAT YOU HAVE TO SAY. BECAUSE IT COMES FROM THE HEART.

Gems! Gems I tell you! Great advice in this video. Look for someone that is emotionally intelligent and stable. You don't want someone to rely on you for their happiness because only they can decide to have joy.

4:00-4:35 'It is important to be complete on your own; you do not complete your partner' was such a powerful statement. Amen!

Courtney your words are always so wise....and your opinions are so well balanced, so absolutely true for woman and men of all ages to understand themselves and accept who they are and love themselves fully.

You claimed previously that you are an introvert; I applaud you for being a vlogger. I used to be shy but life and work taught me to be expressive and outspoken

I love Courtney's honesty and understanding ;) but shes solid on her good values thank you Courtney

She is a high value women herself for sure!🙏

You are a blessing to all of us that are truly hearing what you are sharing. You are sharing just as God's word says to do, may God bless you and the family you create .

Thanks for that. I really appreciated your take on high value women. Everyone should watch this twice to really digest it properly.

While one should not "need" validation from any other person to feel secure, I think it is really important to validate your partner's feelings and try to relate to them. Empathy is a huge positive from any human being (man or woman).

I love that you talk about the other side as well! ☺️ Of course it’s key that I have high value traits myself, but considering whether the other person does also is crucial

I love this advice! I listened carefully and will keep myself in check of these points (as a person in general). Also the 'princess' mentality is such a thing, I never ever wanted to feel like this. I love the quality of your vids x

Best video ive seen :) honest and straight to the point and genuine advice. Thanks courtney love your vids and advice

Solid consistent content as usual also I saw real men real style reacting to your video they had a couple of haters in the comments so you know I had to ride for the homegirl courtney.

Big, big point, others don’t complete us and others are not responsible to make us happy. Be complete and be happy, then consider a relationship. It is totally impossible to MAKE someone else happy, totally impossible. If you try, they will suck the life out of you then throw you in the garbage and then they seek their new source of energy. You are absolutely correct, be whole. Our life, our happiness, our dreams must be our own. This makes you high value. Know your value but don’t try to be anyone’s savior.

You give the most wholesome advice I’ve seen on KZfaq. Wow! Thank you!

Thank you for sharing. It takes one to know one. I truly value your advice & your delivery is very honest but gentle. I believe you genuinely have hope for the future of relationships.

The moment Courtney wakes up and sees that Antonio (RMRS) has uploaded a react video about her: 😎

7:20 truly loved the Fresh and Fit reference. 💯

Believe me i find this video the most important of all time I always search and search, I watch many videos, but I have not met in my life a very important topic, but all in all about marital relations between the sexes, such as today's video. I have been analyzing the behavior of women for several years and this is what I reached and the video today added confirmation of what I have reached. I thank you from The bottom of my heart and I hope that the video will spread and be seen by every young man and every girl, so that he can benefit more from this treasure of valuable and useful information.

Courtney I found you through Teddie. Your channel has eclipsed his in terms of content IMO. It's so rare to find a woman of your age that understands how things are and how they should be. Thank you for all the positive vibes. My girlfriend and I love your topics of choice and views.

Courtney is the perfect example of a classy high value woman, the heavenly sent gift that will keep on giving in your marriage and your life. Friends choose wisely and multiply your blessings with the right partner for life.

How does such a very, very stunning and attractive YOUNG lady have all this incredible insight/knowledge on the human species- my dear your future is extremely bright

Thanks CR for being the insight to the kind of girl I'm trying to attract. You are the kind of secure and lovely person, inside and out that every man wants to be with. I love it when you post vids on how to be a better man. No mind games or being fake but being the best man that you can be. I've subscribed and thanks again. Much love from Australia!

Agree with you 100% . Great content, keep up the good work.. and thanks for sharing !

Its sad that people (I know) don't value their partners. I feel sad for them

A high value woman, will pull her own weight, has integrity, stands up for herself, has good self esteem, doesn't draw unnecessary attention to herself, never bad mouths you, your friends, and your family behind your back. She won't cheat on you, or use you. She won't dress slutty, and constantly go against you, having an attitude and or ego. She will support you and your goals.

Courtney, everything you said on here mentioned is absolutely astonishing But correct. Kudos that you understand and help us to understand how old woman should be striving for evolving to her highest purpose. In the past I dated women who didn’t have purpose and played those stupid games But currently I elevated my radar to only seek women who are positive potential’s. I have purpose, financially and emotionally stable and this helps me to really understand what I need as opposed to not accepting woman who aren’t quite mature and have character. Thank you my friend. You rock

Another amazing video - great to hear from your perspective what traits makes a woman valuable as a partner as opposed to a date.

The fresh&fit podcast? Didn’t think you’d be watching. Very interesting 🔥

I think we should compliment one another not complete one another. 💖💥

Thank you Courtney this was very helpful. Helps clear up some confusion in my head. Also gives me A New Perspective so I can make better decisions when it comes to the women that I choose to bring into my life.

Courtney, if your channel was available years ago, I would have saved myself a lot of pain, and suffering....and a great deal of money. The realization you bring to light with your videos venture on a quality of life that follows bad choices, or our instinct as a man attempting to correct what is wrong. I've come to realize it wasn't my fault by listening to your advice......You are helping me to heal......Thank you......💖🌹

If I am dating, and hanging out with her and she’s not willing to reciprocate or demonstrates that she cares to keep getting to know you, don’t force her to do so. Don’t talk or text where you believe she is failing at. Let her noticed by herself and keep moving on despite how hard it may be. If she does not, someone else will.

Ah, Courtney. You're amazing. Two days ago I was going to suggest this video/topic.

GREAT VIDEO COURTNEY!!!! I AGREE WITH YOU 100%!!!! THIS IS YOUR BEST VIDEO!!!! THAT IS WHY I LISTEN TO IT A LOT I AM WORTHY TO HAVE A HIGH-VALUE WOMAN IN MY LIFE.

Courtney, your videos are consistently among the most insightful and genuine in your genre. Gratefully married to a wonderful woman going on 15 years next week. Keep up the great work !

I think I know which episode you’re talking about Fresh and Fit 😂. You’re right they’re hilarious and you should definitely go to one of their episodes

14:56 Both men and women get jaded by looks and overlook problems that come from the inside.

Thanks for this wonderful video, Courtney Ryan !! 😊😊.

Such a good and humble take on this. Low key kinda needed this video as I am struggling in the dating world now :/

Courtney, I've NEVER met a woman like you describe that has those combinations. If I did, I would've married that girl. If that's you, message me. Respect.

Every human being has the same value for me. We are all equal. In the end it is what both partners in a relation offer to each other, versus what they want. The key factors of a relationship are respect, mental health and personal growth. It requires both to work on it. It is not granted from the beginning, it is built. The problem of showing "high value" is that you risk buying cheap mirrors that shine, instead of diamonds that look like coal. My wife did not shine when I met her. But I knew the traits I wanted and did not want, and I saw her undeveloped potential. Notice I was not intending to change her. It was that people always have things in a state of disrepair that are the result of hardships. Think of a nice car. You see the engine is in great condition, but its painting looks like the Millenium Falcon piece of junk. She was not going to impress anyone by her looks. She was not confident, she would not impress anyone. But she has a heart of gold, and I was able to see that. And she wanted a serious relationship, not playing games. Best decision ever. Getting rid of her insecurities and fears was a pleasant process. She could see what I was made of. Mature love has no drama, we communicate, like adults. Drama is for teenagers. I knew marriage was like a gun with only one bullet. Failing marriage is too sad and complicated. I could not afford to fail. I never saw her like a high value person. What I could see was her heart of gold, and her integrity, surrounded by disrepair that I knew that would not be a big deal to repair. The good thing about looking for diamonds that look like coal is that nobody is looking, so I would have better chances and the final result would be better. Other guys are sold shiny high value, but they buy a mirror that breaks and cuts. She did not self love, hardships made her be demoralized. She did not seek validation. She just embraced her apparent lack of worth. But I knew that if she could see her worth, she would have self love, and she did. I did not complete her. She was already complete and I was too. I just opened a door she did not see and she walked inside the room of self love. I loved that she wanted to be a better human.

Haha, in this video (or the one I was watching before) you talk wistfully of reaching 100k subscribers. Today you have 138k! Way to go, Courtney! Thank you for all this work you're doing for us guys and keep going!

Well if she isn't similar to you Courtney; she's not high value to me lol 😆 jk jk. Seriously, i appreciate your excellent take on this very broad topic. I was watching a video the other day where the guy from teaching mens fashion channel was being interviewed and he said a Man who is high value is someone who provides high value. What we can do for others (society) is high value. For example, what you do for us here is high value. Anyways lol, thanks for helping me figure out what woman is right for me my friend 🌻

"A guy doesn't owe a girl flowers and a girl doesn't owe you sex" Don't know why but that line got me laughing... I like how you say simple things just straigh

dropping some serious wisdom in this video! many great points!

I appreciate how humble you are Courtney.

I think the best way to tell if she's high value is her relationship with her father. Fatherless house holds are on the rise and changing the culture in a negative way.

Life use to be like What you're bringing to the table? women: I'm humble, passionate, good listener, well rounded, supportive... Nowadays What are you bringing to the table? Most women be like: I'm a Alpha female,I smoke, I cheat, I talk back and I don't need a man to tell me what to do. Thank you for this content 🙏

I’m interested in seeing the type of video where she analyzes what’s in the middle about the traits a man or woman is likely to have. An interesting angle, because it’s pretty open/shut to say what most people objectively like and dislike. It’s another to open about what’s more likely to be out there, or at least if you present desirable qualities, being able to bring up the possible negatives that go hand in hand with having those qualities.

Great video. I've been guilty of trying to "fix" some of these qualities in the past. If I knew then..... Thank you Courtney

You mentioned FreshandFit and now I wanna see a crossover hahaha

I'm a low maintenance guy with an awesome personality 🙏🏻

You need your own national TV talk show Courtney. Thank you again for sharing your wisdom

Great guideline for women who wants to work on themselves! Thank you!

7:10 Ah yes, the OnlyFans girls who wouldn't listen to the guys trying to convince them that the money they're making now won't last forever.