Well here's the crazy thing this community LGBTQ+ they don't want to tell the negative effects of what this can do to somebody or the negativity that comes with it like as the person sees in the video or as we see in the video and then anytime someone wants to detransition The community all of a sudden becomes Judas and turns their back on the individual that is trying to reclaim themselves and yes you are correct Matt Walsh does explain these things in his video and shows both sides to this but those in that community are so close minded that they refuse to even consider looking at others experience that have gone through this kind of thing or look at anything that opposes them if you want to have an objective opinion on something you should look at it from all sides and then make a decision well this is what we're at in the world so it is what it is.

"we"?

@@Slippzy The way it's been recently it is a lot of young people because they're young I don't know what they want today or tomorrow things can change at any time. The older people they've had time to think about things understand the decision they're going to make is something that Will impact them for the rest of their life and they've accepted it and they know that that is who they are and most of the time they're fine. But it just seems nowadays everyone wants to be some type of identity and they'll go to the extremes to achieve it everyone just wants to be special at least that's how I think they see it but once you realize if everyone's special then nobody is. I don't know it's sad to say it is what it is but this is where we're at right now and human history

Nope! Just like I fully thought out my transition and am so much happier years later, I’m fully evaluating the options and choosing to not subscribe to this closed-minded channel.

@@Echo024 ooh quick question if you don't mind why is it that there are videos out there that are put on KZfaq or TikTok of a person that was or had transitioned and they supported by the community but then chooses to detransition cuz maybe they regretted their decision or just input as much thought as you did into it and chose to go back the community turns their back on them. Like another example there was a comedian a trans woman that shouted out support for another comedian a black American comedian Dave Chappelle and now of course this wasn't proven but it's just the course of events because the support this person shot it out prior to this person committing suicide this person was bullied by said community for supporting Mr chappell now Mr Chappelle himself talked about this on one of his comedy specials and you know he said he can't say what actually happened cuz he doesn't know but all he knows is she gave him support the community responded negatively to it and a week later said person took her life sorry for just ranting on honestly the second one you may have not known about but the first question would be interesting to know if you have an answer for it or if you're offended by any of this line of questioning then my apologies I was really just trying to get more informed stay blessed have a great day. Sorry for the run-on sentence

Hmmm it’s probably to feel more comfortable with own body not all trans people get any surgeries

The person? I don't get it.

Exactly! It's like when they wanted to combine all the toys and not have a boys section and a girls toys section because toys don't determine your gender. Like why mix them then if they are all neutral anyways, it's just easier to find stuff if they are organized in boy vs girl

@@egemendenizcilnah y’all are just feeding your delusions

@@fromleahs no you cannot. You’re terribly misguided

@D12 Raging Them doing it anyways doesn't mean there wasn't any warnings. It's like every medical procedure, they tell you the risks. But since these people only value what their activist friends say of course they'll say nobody warned them.

@D12 Raging We warn people, but we get demonized as evil bigots and booted off social media. Hard to hear a warning when that warning is censored and deemed hate speech

Oh my so true, they call it hate but were warning you. get rid of these non existent struggles. for some they actually feel like there a different gender but far to many were just brought up like that. a kid becomes he is he from his environment. if the parents taught him to be a girl then he will, a lot of the times it's not even the kids, the kids are just curious about dresses and girl toys doesn't mean they wanna be a female there KIDS there curious. if a kid was curious about that white stuff those homeless men were sniffing do you go and buy tons of cocaine and tell them hey you can be a cocaine additced be who you are NO, you tell the kid that's bad drugs don't do that you don't indulge in it. people these days.

Two things can be true at once. Many ppl who've ended up detransitioning probably have seen these videos talking about detransitioning and wrote it off as hate. But there also can be ppl that don't come across the warnings at all. I have experienced something similar, for me, it was a self confidence issue, as a child I've always felt bad about being a girl, always felt a little less than. So when I came across the term 'non-binary' on the internet I thought that label would fit me and started getting my own ideas for transitioning in the future. I experienced NO opposition or encouragement from my real life nor the internet. I eventually gained more self-esteem and I didn't feel that way anymore, I'm extremely glad that I did not have to go through transitioning and detransitioning. For young people, it's very easy to mix up emotions, they're just getting no confidence and gender dysphoria mixed up.

@@marcel7734 take the advice of someone who is probably older than you. Dont ever label yourself that way....just had a conversation with someone about this. Were discussing one having anxiety or depression. This person said they realized after awhile they had labeled themselves as " somebody with anxiety." Therefore they had given themselves an excuse for not doing certain things. They had anxiety for real, but using the label had given them sort of an out. They could use said label every time an uncomfortable situation arose. If they had an uncomfortable social situation, and didnt wanna face it, they just excused themselves saying " well i am a person with anxiety, so its ok." Instead of attempting to face the situation. We, as a society, have greatly increased the use of labels and convinced many that they need a label for whatever is uncomfortable to them. You wont always be comfortable in life, but facing these situations makes you stronger and makes you who you are in the longer run. It creates your character and builds your confidence. So dont always try to label yourself. You dont need one. You are who you are and you are most likely still learning and growing. Its natural to be uncomfortable sometimes. It just doesn't always need a name or label. And if youre not a younger person, and im speaking out of turn, i do apologize. Just a bit of advice from what ive learned in my own life.

False

@@mr.mclibtard5015 Evidence?

@@RS-xb9lo don't be a sheep

@@mr.mclibtard5015 I am not a sheep, I just know that de-transitions are the exception, not the norm, and are often caused by external rather than internal factors.

@@RS-xb9lo where's your proof?

THIS IS SO TRUE

Because money, it's all it is. Golden pig for life.

Yeah. Doctors should give warnings like bruh

Ie groomers

Doctors do warn about this and the risks as it's illegal to withhold this information from a patient

That's probably just a fear they had, for example, everyone thinks before a major haircut 'what if it makes me ugly?'

@@pandagrace9856 Well hair grows back,but dicks don't.

For some, its about being trendy, about looking pretty, about being the most oppressed or being the most unique & unfortunately, for a few, its about being excused for your crimes with children & getting off to a fetish. (Source, Jessica Yavin & a "trans woman" who invaded spaces for woman who had miscarriages & claimed to have had one)

That is ultimately what it's about for them. This is why male to female trans people in particular end up looking like caricatures of women. They're playing a part... putting on a costume.

@@equiyazahhak2704 wow, a few people in a community act terrible and you think it applies to everyone in the community - don't comment assuming you understand when you don't...

womp womp 😂

Huh

And why are you so oppressed towards this video? Like why are you caring so much to boost this video like girl just be quiet 🥱🥱

You CANNOT be talking right now! Girl your built like a demeted chick who just sits in her room and poses to a cringe ass filter that has been dead since the year 2018, also your cat died for too long just by having a glance of your face 💀☠️

Dont try and use logic with sources, conservatives dont really understand those concepts…

You can’t compare heart surgery to gender transitioning. People who need heart surgery are critically affected as they can die from not having the surgery and the heart is a very important organ that everyone living animal needs to survive. Not to mention heart surgery can correct life threatening conditions. Gender transitioning is more of a mental issue, granted some may choose to harm themselves tragically because they don’t have access to it. But let’s not compare apples to oranges.

​@@thisismyyoutubeaccount3322 Also gender affirming surgery is only done on adults so you also outed yourself as someone who doesn't know what the fuck theyre talking about

this! and also the fact that to actually get these surgeries or any kind of medical gender affirming care it takes a LONG time. it takes a very long time because doctors want to make sure you wont regret it. they dont ask if ur trans and then cut ur dick off.

@@shirley444 the statistic of regret also goes for plastic surgeries and non-emergency surgeries..?

You're warning us about a 3% regret rate that's not a very big chance

@@socializewithme.1828 3 out of 100 people. That's actually a decent amount

@@air9710 3 out of 100 people is 3%? Yeah no that's not true

@@air9710 they don't listen but they blame people for their own decision despite being unsure of their own gender. FEELINGS ARE UNRELIABLE MOST OF THE TIME.

Honestly, for those who regret it, it’s not that they didn’t listen but that people told them not to listen. If they don’t regret it there’s no problem but if they do, you can tell someone should’ve stopped them. You can’t tell me all the problems they have after transitioning, every single one of them are caused by hate, really? I doubt that, of course I’m not saying there isn’t any caused by hate, I know there’s a lot, but all of them? No. I think the problem is letting young people make these big decisions because people want to be supportive and I understand that, (If I was in the situation of a parent whose kid wants to transition I would support my kid through and through, so maybe I’m hypocritical) but people have to understand that kids are stupid. Okay now this off topic but In the end the ones who profit are those supplying these surgeries, it costs money to be transgender, how does that make sense? Question for someone who’s more informed than me, is someone not truly transgender if they don’t spend lots of money on all those surgeries? How’s that fair for those who can’t pay for all that? Okay rant over.

I KNOW! I was just thinking, how do we know this isn't Ben in makeup? 🤣

@@moderatesoprano9562 Yep - this is Ben on his days off... like, this is what he does in his own time. Wears makup and talks in a high voice. 😜

And you are the 4th person to observe this in this comment thread. She has read/heard this many times each and every day.

@@moderatesoprano9562 it isn’t. And you are the 5th person in this comment thread to make this observation.

To these people counting how many people make this comment: whats your point? is Ryans comment any less valid because many people agree? or is he supposed to read all the comments first before he comments, so that he doesnt repeat something someone already said? or is there some other significance to this that i am missing? surely the normal response is just "i know right? " or if you get tired of replying then stop replying. its almost as if youre trying to shame or belittle people for saying this.

What do you mean by ‘I wasn’t a girl either’? What are you then? Genuinely curious x

@@Snoopuchino Non-binary

@@xadia_sxnnsflxwer What does that mean? Sorry, I don't really have this in my culture!

@@Snoopuchino You identify as neither male or female.

@@Snoopuchinoyou have no gender I’m nonbinary

May God forgive your sins then..

@@LovesRolopigeo the soul has no gender)

@@LovesRolopigeowe don’t gaf abt god or whatever 😭

If it took you that long then you have very low intelligence. I am nothing like my parents and think not like them. I was born with my own brain capable of thinking for myself.

I don't think that's an uncommon experience, sadly. I've seen similar things happen to my family members, but thankfully in our case, it at least wasn't our family doing it to each other. I just really hope she sees some day she isn't a man. There was a lot of beauty and meaning in her that she rejected when she transitioned, and I can still see the remnants of it in her, but it's clouded over by her desire for masculinity. It's heartbreaking.

@@liamcroatt171 It's so difficult to see things like that happen. I witnessed the same thing happen to my brother, being pressured into identifying as non binary. I have nothing against trans people and their wish to transition, that's fine, but there's such a huge difference between forcing someone to transition and truly knowing your identity

@@ArtHeartAlex Yeah, our culture angers me in that way. I understand that transitioning is often seen as a solution to intense pain and suffering on the part of the person who is transitioning, but our culture is so fixated on this solution. Whenever I see it, I can't help but think that, surely, there is a better way to help them than this. This solution seems to say, "No, there is something wrong with you right now, but if you fundamentally change who you are, you'll be better." People have protested me when I express that with the belief that they are transitioning *into* who they fundamentally are, but the body you're born with is part of that: it's not right to tell someone that their body is a defect, even if they already believe it. I just don't understand why we aren't communicating to them that they're already a masterpiece, that they don't have to radically change their bodies into something else. That's the approach we take with every other kind of insecurity with one's body, but for some reason that's not what we do here and it angers me.

@@liamcroatt171 I understand why people would rather change their body at the same time though. Something as simple as breast reduction surgery because they hurt or the person just genuinely doesn't like them. Or vice versa with someone getting implants. My thing is that it should always be up to the person. If our bodies are a masterpiece, and the person doesn't see their body as that, I 100% believe they have the right to create their own masterpiece if they're truly certain that's what they want. If I had done that I'd have hated myself forever. My solution is educate people to the fullest extent and then let them decide. Don't push it

She does look like Bens sister.

I love this comment

Lol

@marcos sanchez or ben himself in a wig and makeup

@@frenchfriedbagel7035 HE!

Nah, i think the original tiktoker goes by they/them now, I can’t find their account but i do remember following them

@@Kass_onhisXbox_account My point exactly.

Exactly. Many transphobes falsely believe that the regret rate for gender-affirming procedures is around 50%, when in reality it's only about 1-2%. Additionally, they often argue that trans people are pushing a 'trans agenda' on children. In truth, no one is imposing this on children. Instead, the goal is to educate them that gender dysphoria is a real condition and to promote understanding and acceptance. Also haii fellow MLM ;3.

Yes because theres only 2 options. Woman or man

@@mani2faded So if you look to your right you'll see this thing called Science, which does not support you at all

they were talking about being non binary not detransitioning

Are we supposed to listen every time someone tells us not to do something because we might regret it?

@@denverlilly3669 yes, you are supposed to think about it. not doing so is called lack of impulse control. you are supposed to think before you act, especially before life changing major decisions.

@@denverlilly3669 uh yeah when it's something this drastic this isn't just smoking weed or doing some dumb innocent thing literally playing with your entire future and it's exactly why a lot of these people who transition with no thought about it end up committing suicide. these kids need help not encouragement it's so tragic

@@LK-dn2ms So how bout we help and guide them rather than just dismissing them as liberal abominations? If they're committing suicide over transitioning to the opposite gender, there's some underlying issues there. I'm not going to dismiss something out of hand simply because it's abnormal or unconventional.

Sure..

​@@capeto08they legit do this. Your callous remark is just looking down on all detransistioners who have went through that. The community rips them apart.

@@epic7224 sure the do.

Nobody except some aholes are gonna bully you for detransitioning, it's your body and I'm sure nobody in the trans or outside the trans community is going to bully you for making a mistake

@@capeto08It’s been proven time and time again that this happens. A multitude of ex-trans influencers have been harassed for detransitioning.

because you are.

@@LiterallyAllNamesAreTaken def a thing an "oppressed" person would say 💀

@@jinxxwhisker I’m actually not oppressed, well..not _too_ much. I’m cis and in a straight relationship. there’s actually this thing called being an ally. most people are allies these days, only the uneducated like yourself choose not to be one.

@@jinxxwhisker You have just proven that you don't know what "oppressed" actually means. Tell me why exactly someone oppressed can not call a bigot a bigot.. You are so vague in your saying, because you just don't know what you're talking about!

@@koitka2037 an oppressed person is someone who experiences unjust and harsh treatment, often due to unfair systems or societal issues, if you think youre oppressed and that we are bigots just because we try to warn you how bad transitioning can do for you, than YOU dont know the meaning of oppressed. before you try to doubt my vocabulary, check your own

Hahaha that would be so ironic

Why does she look so much like him, right. I am glad so far, She seems Smart girl.

Hahah best comment i’ve seen all day thanks 😂

Lmao this the one

@@freaxfilm facial structure and eyebrows, i think

Yes! Transitioning is helpful for some people to help know that they are what they transitioned to be, others it helps them realise that’s not actually who they are, either way people who transition learn something from it

But their story is just as important.

Just how people who don't regret it, don't speak for all trans people. What's your point?

yES!!

@@dumb8530 well actually taking hormones or having surgery can be harmful if you're not actually Trans. That's why it's important to have therapy qnd work it out and not to just do it willy nilly.

5 years isn’t that long, be patient.

@@b4astgn675 im trying my hardest, actually turning 14 tomorrow. im getting closer and closer :)

me tooo

You got this, dude🫶

@@yourlocalmoron4832 thanks

EACTLY, like the way her mouth stays slightly open when watching videos, its insane

Ok I'm scared now. If her mbti is same like Ben i will be more scared

Maybe because HE IS NOT AND CAN NEVER BE A SHE !!!!!!!!!

The way she pauses and is passive aggressively insulting trans ppl too lol

The based mindset

If she somehow imitates shapiro for attention then she got a nice understandi g on how things work on yt. I cant even be mad if she intentionally imitates him cause its funny

I just commented this. And I'm now seeing all these comments haha

I thought it was Ben Shapiro in a wig

I think it might be his niece or his cousin or somethiny

based voice then

i have feminine features bc i look like my mom but if the whole world immediately identifies me as a girl, why not just be one then? idk i feel like society in a whole makes everything so confusing for some people but who knows. i’m not a wizard, just speaking from personal experience

Same though 😭

same

Ben would never, you know how he is with people gender swaping 🤣

@@chloebradlington1965 Good point 😂

God*

That’s why I don’t deal with clowns or partake in the circus, let them do their clown shit I can give a fuck but if these clowns try to recruit my children into their circus I have a big problem with that

Oh we did warn them. The problem is, they failed to heed our warnings.

There's nothing wrong with transitioning or detransitioning. Some people might be forced to transition, some might later realise they are gender fluid and then figure they preferred their previous body. And other people actually feel comfortable with transitioning. Let people live their own life and make their own mistakes. Why do you care so much about peoples that shouldn't be the part of your concern? Besides, why people are trying to pick a fight between trans people and people who detransitioned? Both sides have individuals there who needs support and understandment equally. Just let people choose. Regardless of your opinion or aftermath

I am from EU. My friend had trouble to finish UNI few years ago so was offered 5x free sitting at psychologist or psychiatrist (I do not know which) by UNI - dep. of International relations. After this sittings friend dropped from school started to proclaim they are opposite gender, and became protester of everything w.h.o, w.e.f and alike orgs, despite knowing each other from kindergarden and never really showing any sight of being atracted to same gend. or showing other gend. behavior or being so pro/against some issues to protest. Yet, when we were teens, I found book from Mr. Moody. The back papers of the book, there was way to hypnotise so of course I tried this with my friend. It did not work for me, but for said friend….ugh it got ugly, friend started trashing, rolling eyes backwards and …it looked like seizure, because in hypnosys friend was in scene where said friend died in ….“previous” life?! Back to present: After psych. sitting friend started to sprout about some childhood memory which apparently let them realise they are in a wrong body….. …and every other discusion on rationality of friend s newfound identity led to agitation and even anger….like there was block put in friend psyche. But if you read some hypno-books, or even only watched shows like Inception or The Mentalist….that is exactly what hypnotiser needs, A. root memory (real/fake, older better), B. new twist in memorty/new ideology and C. blockage against erasing of new tweaked settings. The thing is, friend now NOT only prefer to pronounce themself wrongly, now dislikes 95 or more% of movies, books, other media or hobbies my friend prefered for decades, change started rapidly just days after last sitting, their writting style changed and even drawing signature is slightly different. Started with propagating euthan…, abort…., eco…., vega…. , abolish farm….and other matters while some of stances on things are against even friends own livestyle. Any reasoning led to unnatural anger. I am just sad and do not know what to do, because I am afraid friend will self - harm due to block, because that is how this blockage agitation apparently works. I am so sad and I worry I will lose my friend, but the situation is so bonkers I do not wish to be silent because my friend is not only one. I know personally teens from 13-16 yrs old from club I lead, and 3 of teens from perhaps 20 members group went trought same process of extreme change persistently proclaimed by said individuals but not supported by facts and ….surprise I know at least 2 of mentioned teens go to….psych. “Help.” Do not get me wrong, throught years and years I knew about at least 2 people, who were apparently either in wrong body or had from nappies problems with hormonal system and they always behaved like other gender, even their muscle movemements, reactions or hand genders were reall of opposite gender…but that is so different from this psych. help transitioners... and population percentage is skewed also.

friendly reminder that the detransition rates are 0.6% for women (mtf) and 0.3% for trans men (ftm)

He didn’t say “oh I am an ugly girl” he said maybe I’m not a girl. And he isn’t he never was a girl. He cannot be a girl it’s physically impossible. He was a beautiful boy, and the trans-groomers damaged him. He will have medical problems for the rest of his life thanks to the people who screamed bigot and transphobia at us. At those who would’ve warned him. You angry he’s detransitioning, and are blaming us for his confused body image? Honey, that’s your fault.

i disagree i think it clearly says that the man is “mabye im not a girl”

😭🤚

@@evie.mp4 🎀

REAL 😭

😂😂😂😂 GAGGED AND GOOPED

She looks like the female version of him. 😂 No hate guys.

I too liked chain wallets and flannel shirts. I’m glad that was the 90s cause I could just go through my phases and like what I liked. I don’t understand what’s so wrong with being a lesbian or gay man these days. If you like what you like you don’t have to transition to what you’re not to get what you like. I don’t know what is going on. So glad you and your friend are just living your best lives as who you are.

Wow, that's a really profound insight -that it can be too dangerous to be perceived as feminine. Never thought about that. I'm genuinely sorry you and your friend were trapped on that as kids. Hope you are doing well now ❤

if people stereotyped less, there would be less transgenders. Just saying.

This was my story. I dodged a bullet I always say. Would’ve been at huge risk for brainwashing. That’s why I’m so against this movement- I’m very much a woman and although I don’t wear makeup really or do my nails that’s NOT the kind of thing that makes a woman a woman

That's absolutely key. I too have taken on a more masculine persona because I wasn't allowed to be feminine during childhood and struggle even now as someone who provides for herself and doesn't have many people to have my back. Being tough is a defense mechanism.

Super happy for you. We're definitely going to see tons of more detransitioners in the future. This generation was lied to, and was shoved gender ideology into their brains while they were still developing.

Hot

based w

It’s not like that for most people tho

W, glad you didnt go down that route

Looking at this kinda shit gets u depressed so I recommend not looking at it, trust. Whatever’s going on for u doesn’t need to be anybody’s else’s business unless u consent and dont mind it. U do what feels right, u feel how u feel don’t let ppl define how u feel for u in technical and unethical terms. U got this dude❤

Why? Why push through it? Why not seek the source of the pain?

Trans people are way more respectful and kind? Don't speak for all trans people.

@@rebn8346that’s the problem with most people. They don’t go to the source or the cause and deal with it that way 🔥💯

​@@itsnottoolatetostarttrans people are typically kind

It really annoys me when people take the sad stories of detransitioners and make it out like that's all trans people. The percentage of trans people who have regretted it is 1%, and that's not even related to NOT being trans, ~half of those people detransition because of backlash and then retransitioned later on

LITERALLY

Absolutely!

You guys...do NOT get it.

part of the process of “figuring things out” is experimenting. Dysphoria doesn’t have a cure as we know it so people turn to the treatment that they think will give them some sense of relief. Sometimes they are wrong, but most times they are right. But neither should be held as taboo or anything, some people get even more dysphoria form transitioning, some get the relief they were looking for. both outcomes should be accepted and unstigmatized

@@midnight.tantrum727 THANK YOU!! If I could shake your hand I would. You are incredibly educated and know what you're talking about! -Sincerely, a trans man

you can find people who agree with you on the internet no matter your opinion

I feel like its impossible to "do your own reasearch"

bruv that just means google.

XD

@@MasalaMan also why do your own research if you'll find what you want to hear?

How exactly?

@@GRAVETHETHERIAN When you cut off a body part to pretend to be something that can never be. That's mutilation. Or better yet ask a trans to show you their bottom surgery. It's horrific and doctors should be put in jail for mutilating these poor people.

@@ArabellaPottery but what if someone not apart of the lgbtq cut off one of their body parts surgically? Would that make a difference?

@@GRAVETHETHERIAN Give an example.

​@AnOrcaOnLand YUP! So, to cut off a part to make a non-working hole or adding a non-working piece of meat that neither looks nothing like the original. And in the end are still male born or female born. Just means there should be more mental care. Even trans people know that a penis makes you a man and a vagina makes you a woman. Otherwise, why have bottom surgery.

You want people to wait 30 years before transitioning?

You're right they get less insecure and stop caring about weirdos like you judging them for being trans

@@Volume.3 Frankly I'd rather choose 30 than 13. But in my country it's 21 for HRT and 25 for SRS

@@ixlnxs K.

If it turns out to not be your thing then im ok with it. People make the wrong choice sometimes and thats ok. The issue is transphobes grip hold of detransitioners who make up under 1% of trans people and use it as a reason to justify their shitty hate. And trans people hate that.

Divorce is vastly different to taking drugs and having surgery to transition and then de-transition

Doesn’t matter what they think they are they are not that. If I think I’m black am I actually black?? If I think I’m 16 when I’m a grown ass man does that make me 16? Absolutely not this is ridiculous that this is even a thing and all we are doing is validating peoples mental health and indoctrinating children and abusing them by transitioning kids that are as young as 2 years old

this!!! a lot of people who detransition are sadly gaslighted into thinking they truly are trans- and in this society sometimes its hard to tell. i have no issue with trans people and lgbtq is totally okay but i think it confuses people. if youre going to do something as big as transitioning you should wait until youre at least 25 to fully decide but at that point its your choice.

@@thanaily agree ! Im 15 mtf and have medically been transitioning and now I’m de transitioning because of how horrible the medication has been making me feel Ik I’m not the only one that feels this way but you don’t feel alive like you can’t process stuff around you it’s like if your brain dead and another reason is cuz I could feel my bottom at all theirs multiple reasons but it’s not worth it tbh it has ruined me mentally sm and now I’m recovering from it slowly

That's not what happens. You act like doctors just chop their balls off straight away, but that's not what happens. First of all, because not all tans people want to get bottom surgery, and secondly, it takes months to years to even get the surgery

seriously 😂

FR like what point are they even trying to make here

"Let me sell you the DREAM!" -Dr. Rick Trager (Outlast)

Bruh, fuck the Xanax and lavender tea! Bring out the surgical scissors.

If we’re not warning anybody then what is this video a trans person or soon to be trans? Person comes across this and it pops in their mind. Maybe I shouldn’t transition or maybe I’m not actually a girl. Maybe I’m not actually a boy. I don’t agree with any of that because I believe DNA is DNA

THANK YOU

YES OMFG

Limit the access to healthcare?????

Limit access to healthcare??? What does that even mean ?

Question, why be something you aren't?

The sucides are caused by terfs & transphobes bullying trans people and calling them disgusting.

Oh do you REALLY think the suicide rate is bcause they regret transitioning?

Transphobes be like “the trans suicide rate is so high!!!!” As if it isn’t their fucking fault it’s so high LMAO

​@@danielelias1865most of the time yes because after transitioning it is not fully de- transitional and I stead of going through pain for the rest of their lives they end it... it's sad but very true

​@@danielelias1865yup. Permanent changes to your body and mental state can really mess with someone. Gender affirming care is abuse.

@@imjustbarelygettingstarted7352 I am talking about what I consider medical malpractice the people who usually regret transitioning in the first place not everyone regrets it

​@@imjustbarelygettingstarted7352when the mentslly ill patient comes in and says im having a delusion im the other gender and the doctor recommends sex change hormones and surgery. That is 100% malpratice.

It already happened in the UK. I'm surprised America didn't see that as a warning.

I know someone that’s taking testosterone and wants to be a man but doesn’t want a penis. I’m so done with this world. If you want to be a man so badly wouldn’t you want to have what makes you a man? It’s definetly not a real penis even if the surgery is done of course.

I know someone that’s taking testosterone and wants to be a man but doesn’t want a penis. I’m so done with this world. If you want to be a man so badly wouldn’t you want to have what makes you a man? It’s definetly not a real penis even if the surgery is done of course.

Yeah because gender is something made up and sex isnt

@@agnosticmanquestionsall2409 and they will. transitioning and detransitioning is NOT the end of the world but you all act like it is. like calm down. 😑 there are real problems in the world.

@@agnosticmanquestionsall2409 no one is ADVERTISING being trans to kids. when I turn on the TV or heck, I watch KZfaq. you know what I get ads for? furniture, games, technology. you’ve been brainwashed by conservatives. being trans is not an active choice, you cannot be influenced or advertised gender dysphoria. as someone born female at birth, I don’t look at trans males and think “omg I want that” the fact you think being trans is something that can be influenced just goes to show how little you know. am I right in assuming you’re american? like there is nothing inherently desirable about being trans. I can imagine it’s a horrible feeling to feel as though your mind and body do not align. no one actively wants that. I don’t want depression or anxiety yet I have them due to my environment and simply how my brain is. on top of that, trans people have literally had to FIGHT to even exist in this world. once again, no one WANTS that. most of us want to live in peace. you’re also EXTREMELY wrong in thinking no one cares about adults who transition. trans ADULT women are constantly at the forefront of transphobia. they are constantly labelled as predators towards cisgender women. they’re literally the MAIN target of violent attacks in the trans community 💔 also trans ADULT men get ridiculed, they get told they “mutilated” themselves by getting mastectomies. do some research, my god.

Yea. Theres plenty of people who are just trans because they’re not 100% masculine/feminine, or change the opinion over time.

This is ridiculous. This entire liberal society and its CRAP!!!!

​@veganmeatball6780 or in small cases can have DID and get a set of females and non-binary alters in one. It can get super confusing at times.

Yeah before the internet 😂

​@@JYYBPshh. If you had a piczo website, it would be filled with labels and asians. You know it

You didnt have that “cool thing” back then ig bigot

Bring back the EMO

"whenbthe", "thise"

No I don't think so. I think it was a hope the he would be pretty, but it seems to me that he had much more serious issues he was trying to solve that were a lot less shallow, and unfortunately he chose a way that ended up really harming him.

@@liamcroatt171 she never said she regretted it they were simply second guessing their decision

@@liamparkos7830 I never said he regretted it, but what I said still stands. There were serious issues at play here that were not shallow, and he chose a way to resolve those issues that ended up harming him, which was transitioning; and it really isn't his fault that such a route was taken. I still stand by all of that. I've seen the same thing happen with multiple people in my personal life and they don't regret it either. I'm not just saying it without any foreknowledge.

@@liamcroatt171 first of all you’re using incorrect pronouns biological sex doesn’t determine them also the treatment for gender dysphoria which has been statistically proven to be effective at reducing suicide rates

@@liamparkos7830 I acknowledge the benefits of this method of treatment. My frustrations come from the lack of acknowledgement of the harmful nature it otherwise bears. That said, you and I are at a stark disagreement about what determines man from woman. Anything other than the body of the individual is a recent development in some people's understanding, and it's one I find erroneous. It seems to me that there would be much fewer people needing treatment at all if we had a more realistic understanding of the nature of men and women. The body may be what makes you one or the other, but there is a deeper nature there and if it were recognized, this in my opinion would be a more manageable issue. The view that there is a distinction between sex and gender and the consequences of that view, from my perspective, have stripped away the inherent dignity of manhood and of womanhood and made them less beautiful. People seem to have reduced them down to the superficial, and with the introduction of concepts like gender identity, it has been detrimental.

Fr

Literally. Just because SOME people regret it, doesn’t mean everybody does.

Would like a source for this Statistic

@@gansior4744google it? It’s true

90% regret and give up...

they still exist

There alive in well, it's just that people on the right force them into the trans bubble because "they can always tell"

Then how do you explain masculine transfem people and feminine Transmasc people?

@@BatBoy-d3t what does that have to do with what I said?

It’s a her

There is no devil, you share as many delusions as the person in the wrong body

Changing their gender doesn’t change their sexuality or sex.

@@Gemini4400 According to them it does if you just wish hard enough upon a Disney star

Btw, he’s still a “HeeHee”

This is the best comment I have seen in my life

You mean dude

Lmfao i love u

ISTG STOP

i thought she reminded me of ben shapiro! i cant stand that guy

I couldn’t agree more

Exactly

LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK

join the 50%, please!

@@haha-lj5sq nice lets advocate for suicide AND rely on bullshit meme data. Truly an absolutely braindead take

No. We gotta call it for what it is and STOP! people and help them before they take pills. I do not care what anyone says when it comes to helping those that volunteer to be a guinea pig to the government. It's already too late for them

@God,sssSAVE THE KING. Why are you laughing? he’s correct..

I think for many it isn’t about dismantling the trans community. Just the influences in place that are pushing transgenderism on a large audience of young, often emotionally vulnerable people. Mainly I worry about population. Many are against the idea of having kids, many are transitioning and losing reproductive abilities, many are getting vasectomies. Not to mention the growing risk of governments controlling fertility as technology advances.

😂😂

@@JFrench98 Mate, transgenderism is the last reason why people are not having children. Mainly, it's because this world cares about profit, not families. Having a family puts you at a financian disadvantage, sometimes even at risk. And many don't want to bring a child into a world that's as fucked up as this because they fear they can't protect them and that they'll have to suffer the consequences for the last generation's decisions (like the impact of climate change). Additionally, the world's mental health has dropped in the past decades, especially in the young generations. Many don't feel capable of raising a child properly or know that they aren't able to do so. You can actually still have children when you transition, through adoption or through freezing your eggs or sperm. If not, sperm donors are a thing and they are currently trying to transfer wombs from cis women into trans women (from women who gave up their wombs willingly). The main problem really is that it's bloody expensive to have children. And the world's only getting more expensive.

Actually?💀

@@sheep4life746 deadass

@@my.melodvy bro😭

no she probably did. she is transphobic just is scared to say it and we all know it

Exactly

That's exactly what she meant.

yeah

Who thought it was offensive?

And of course, they fully encourage it and accept that you are who you think you are. It’s not healthy.

Yeah because conservatives tell the truth they would rather someone who enables their fantasy at the moment

I’m a trans man and when I see people like this who arent 100% sure or dont give off real trans vibes I try to warn them but then Im called a bigot and all this other shit lmfao

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Conservative here. First one of my good friends Clark he use to be Caitlin. So can we stop with assuming that conservatives are all the same. We are not. Just as I understand everyone is different. Second I wouldn't talk to a conservative either about this because they're not qualified to help someone with this type of decision. Like I wouldn't go to a Democrat for a breast exam I would go to a doctor in that medical field. Please just stop saying nonsense bc this is the very reason why people on the right call yall idiots. Critical thinking is what most of them are asking that yall do. All I'm saying is yes talking to people that have done this is a good thing but people are different and will have different experiences so don't use their experience as a test of what another's will be like. You should always go to a few medical professionals for information never just one. I would even go to one who doesn't believe in this bc they are more likely to tell you all the cons of it all. I would also speak with a therapist about this so if you unsure they can help sort out all your thoughts about it and give you a good foundation of everything that comes with it mentally. Just be smart and don't dismiss what you don't want to hear bc of who is saying it.

Go & Forgive your parents especially your mother for imposing her will on you and being angry, Whatever it is you need to forgive her for do it and forgive your Father for not protecting you from your mother. It’s wrong to be angry at them they did the best they could!! Once you forgive them you will be free and all this stuff you’re going through will stop instantly once you go forgive, then God will forgive You!!

@@drewknowswhatsright wut

Agreed

But that’s the person mind set… yes no one is making them do it but it’s the fear of changing of what people will say, people will do and what any place that doesn’t support transgender people. Its the fear of people hating them.

They never said they were? I'm scared of heights doesnt mean someone is forcing me to stand on the top of the Eiffel Tower lmao

Most people have some fear involving transitioning because it is hard it suks it hurts theres alot of people who will treat u like shit and there's always the chance it won't turn out how u want maybe u won't get the body u want from just transitioning cuz u have to put in work and alot of people don't get that

@@will.0w that's the literal point of the persons comment. Thanks for reiterating

@@kokolatte825 my point is that my fear isn't invalid just because its not currently happening. im not scared of heights BECAUSE im being forced, i just am. op's point however is invalid by making it sound like being trans automatically means you have to transition, or that transitioning is something that is forced upon you. you see what i mean?

stealing s/he I can’t be asked to type out she/he anymore

@@joshmoxey. Just say they??? Lmao??

@@lesbianshrimp_ nah s/he is god tier

Money probably...

@@joshmoxey. I didn’t come up with it, but I’m happy share with you all the rights I have in it.

That’s the thing for me, he was actually a very pretty boy!

Be honest now, appearance matters a lot unless you're blind... Bet you dress a certain way, take care of hygiene etc...

I'd be happy to just be a guy-

I'm trans and appearance is really important to me wym?

@@blbrryy I mean, I'm not fully denying that. But if I had the choice to transition I'd just be grateful I could. Not all biological men are pretty not all trans men are. It's a fact of life.

@@King_of_the_Fallen wait if ur comfortable saying, what country are you from? planned parenthood has informed consent so they can just prescribe hrt.

FRRR

@@thebarbershop8073 Thank you for putting into words what i have been thinking but unable to express, until now

Faux-Genders are real, but no one can prove that you can transition. which means you are robbing people of the opportunity to know the truth.

you cannot change your Gender.

@@meg2g114 i call it manipulitive grape ill put it this way if you found a women in a bar got her to tell you that yall was smashing. And you then d rugged her and then had sexual relations its grape manipulitive grape you altered that drink no matter she agreed to sex or not she wasnt aware of the full truth. No trans women looks like a women naturally they have to pysically alter themselves to trick men into sex and that should be illegal and called manipulitive grape plain and simple

@@thebarbershop8073 completely agree ‼️

It’s almost like the trauma of loosing their partner couldn’t created an emotional resentment to how their life was causing them to want to be nothing like how there where previously

Sounds more like trauma and self hatred, hope they are fine now.

@@cupcake9690 cupcakKe is that you?

@@ashthefemboy7990 losing*

The trauma probably effected them. Maybe they didn't want to remember their loved one so they stopped dating girls and didn't want to transition becouse it reminded them of their girlfriend? Maybe something like that. Could be that they havent finished grieving yet

I transition 10 year ago and I am happy❤❤❤❤❤

no we are not.

They really are. This just goes to show that changing the outside won’t “fix” whatever is going on on the inside. People who get excessive cosmetic procedures done are never satisfied with themselves so they keep doing more and more in hopes that one day they’ll be perfect and _feel_ perfect. Transitioning is a more extreme version of that. But the sad part is that unlike body dysmorphia, gender dysphoria isn’t being treated as a mental illness even though it is and the decision to transition can have devastating, irreversible consequences. How anyone can support this, especially for younger people whose brains are still developing, is beyond me.

@@vinny- You are. You're delusional if you think a surgery/transitioning or going on pills for some time will change anything about yourself. The problem's in your head, not in your body.

@@vinny- 2 percent, that is the regret rate which is about 750.000 people. Still a quiet big number but when you compare it to 7 billion people, well... These transphobic “people” ım ashamed of calling them one, are trying to give people an image like they are that helpful aunt to trans people all this time and warned them about everything like theyre the perfect polyanna or something,(specifically on this videos comment section cuz content changes their behavior apperantly) clearly a disorder if you ask me.

A transgender child is like a vegan cat- we all know who’s making the lifestyle choices.

no one is being influenced to transition. y’all act like becoming trans is like taking a morning walk. insane.

This is just not true. It happens to only 1-3% of people who transition, and as a part of the trans community, we DEFINITELY warn our youth about it.

the solution to gender dysphoria differs for each person, transitioning or taking hormones is not always the solution for everyone

@@anaunaga5471 Some people have gender dysphoria worse than others, and for those people transitioning helps but of course before reaching that stage, therapy / counseling comes first, so we can determine just how bad your gender dysphoria is

@@gilangzaidan8454 Yet they want to skip counseling and therapy so they can just transition without any professional help.

@@samuelhowie4543 Not all trans people are like that, but yeah I don't agree with people rushing transition because this CAN leave permanent changes to your physical body

@@gilangzaidan8454 the problem is the "doctors" who help them aren't looking to help them end the ideation, they actively affirm the "trans" ideation. Meaning they have way less of a chance to reject altering their bodies as a maladaptive coping mechanism to "solve" underlying deep seated psychological issues. They'll never find out why they wanted to transition in the first place...spoiler alert: it's not because they are truly "trans" as that isn't something real on a genetic level

You mean the status quo that creates such a hard gender-binary that people feel pressured into conforming to only two major groups instead of encouraging the individual to find their personal comforts? Pretty sure that problem isn't caused by trans people. As far as I've seen, the 'status quo' for LGBT+ folk in general is very Enby-friendly.

Or people interpret it as "oh this person regrets transitioning that means every trans person in the entire world will too."

cigarettes give u lung cancer. being trans is meant to make u feel more comfortable with yourself. what is the correlation?? 💀💀

There is no trans movement it’s not a big fucking thing or a trend it’s a medical a few people out of billions feel like they are the wrong gender and they transition and they are much much happier because they feel like they are finally who they are supposed to be only a tiny percentage of trans people regret transitioning

Fr

there is no “movement” stop listening to extremists. it takes seconds to find out the trans population is still a small minority and the number of people who regret is even smaller.

there is no “movement” stop listening to extremists. it takes seconds to find out the trans population is still a small minority and the number of people who regret is even smaller.

Agreed this is such a dumb take

because they get to infect children in the classroom with their crazy talk. only fair we put the sanity back on youtube!!!!

When you make a tik tok video and put it out there for all to see, don't be surprised if it gets commented on. But go ahead and message Brett an approved list of topics she's allowed to talk about.

I think that she’s trying to stop people from saying “you didn’t warn us” because in truth she is essentially warning us right now. She has many episodes about this sorta thing

stop using this case as a door to spew transphobia

don’t think telling someone to kys, “you’ll regret it!!!” or that they’re going to hell is warning them

Then what should people with actual gender dysphoria that doesn't go away in adulthood do? Just suck it up because it makes you uncomfortable?

to have medical gender affirming care you must see psychologists, psychiatrists, and/or many doctors in order to do so. they want to make sure you dont regret it. the regret rate is 1-3% which is very small compared to the rate of suicide of those who DONT get the medical care they need. 😱

thank you for not trying to humiliate others, but just strive to help

❤

Except they’re not tearing down trans people, they’re tearing down rabid activists who are pushing their twisted ideology on society

I’m a conservative and wouldn’t think of stripping the humanity from someone with gender dysphoria. The point of amplifying the voices of those who have detransitioned is to show the urgent need to end the chemical castration of children, teens, and young adults. To end the requirement for medical doctors and psychologists to immediately approve and go along with the transition process. Within 5 years or so, women who transition and use testosterone treatments have to get hysterectomies because of the atrophy and deterioration of the ovaries and uterus, effectively castrating them. There isn’t a lot of information about the long term physical and mental effects of transitioning, but there aren’t many positives. People with gender dysphoria, and are thinking of using surgery for transitioning need psychiatric therapy to bring their self image into alignment with their biological sex. Doctors that make irreversible negative changes to your physiology literally violates the essence of the Hippocratic oath to “first, do no harm.”

Does anyone know the name of this tik toker?

you know you could always...look up videos or articles from people who are trans....its not that hard..

People confusing gender with masculinity & femininity. Assuming that if they're overtly feminine they must be a woman

Just depends on the mood by the looks of it nowadays

@@joerancid1981 How do those people know what it feels like to be the opposite gender lol? Does being a woman have a specific feeling

@@leenolan1469 yes so does been a man.

Nah man, get your shit out of here, I’m never going to de-transition, do you know why? Because even though I was afab doesn’t mean I am not a man, because I am, and you telling me to accept the body I was born in, isn’t cute at all, I’m not self conscious like other people, I have gender dysphoria those are two completely different things, and while you can have both, I don’t, that being said, if I get called a girl or look to feminine I get really bad panic attacks, because I am not a girl, it invalidates me every time. Do better and maybe do your research, or you know help us out? Like there is a trans genocide going on at the moment, and y’all saying this is making it worse.

"Back then it took years not minutes" Bruh why would you out yourself as someone who doesn't know what the fuck they're talking about like this

Exactly.

The video says it all, they literally said they don't feel like a girl after transitioning. What else could that mean???

@@3l4in3 perhaps she feels a lack of gender. Some people realize they are nonbinary after transitioning.

what’s her tiktok? she seems rly cool :D

@@3l4in3 I think she meant that she was second-guessing if she made the right choice, not necessarily regretting it.

Leuprorelin, given to 12yr olds and violent sex offenders or for torture and women who feel pain each waking second and can die due to sleep loss

People need to recognise that heterophobia exists and your toxic friend is the reason many people don’t like the “community”, as a part of the community myself I’ve seen 80% are exactly like that friend. Don’t say you’re trans just because of your friends or peer pressure, if you’re still unsure when you’re older seek a therapist because gender dysphoria is a real mental illness and can be identified by a therapist or doctor! I support you cutting those people off and discovering your true identity. Good luck mate!🩵💚