Transform your sex life: reignite passion in your life & bed with Kim Anami

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Transform your sex life: reignite passion in your life & bed with Kim Anami

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2 жыл бұрын

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Are you missing that steamy fire you once had with your partner in the bedroom? Truly, you both deserve passionate loving making, real authentic connection, and life altering sex. Holistic sex and relationship coach, Kim Anami, is here to help infuse more passion into your life and bed. Her work is a spiritual blend of over two decades of tantra, Taoism, transpersonal psychology, philosophy, and growth-accelerating practices. So if you’re looking for deeper connection, intimacy, pleasure, energy, and creativity, then this is the episode for you.
Buckle up guys, because this episode will blow you away. Be sure to get your partner to listen to this one too. Because this information will greatly benefit you both.
And do not miss Kim Anami’s course that is returning, Vaginal Kung Fu! Open registration is from Jan 19th to Feb 5th. It’s an 8-week Virtual Salon to strengthen and tone the vagina and enhance and increase your orgasms. If you’re thinking, why would I need to strengthen my vagina, well you’ll learn all about why in this episode, but also, If a woman is disconnected from her sexuality and her vagina, she is operating at a massive disadvantage. You can’t tune into your sexual energy and sexual pleasure if you have a numb, under-functioning vagina.
Register to join Vaginal Kung Fu here: kimanami.ontra...
In this episode we cover:
- What is a well f**cked woman?
- What are so many women not having enough incredible sex?
- Why having incredible sexual energy and being well fucked is life changing.
- What do men and women need from each other?
- Healing inner wounds and sexual trauma
- Openness, honesty, and trust. The importance of open hearted communication and breaking down those walls with one another
- The game changer: jade eggs (vaginal weight lighting)
- Strengthening and toning the vagina to enhance and increase your orgasms
- What does it take to have a world shattering, bed shaking, sex life?
- What does it take to reach cervical orgasms?
- How men can prolong their ability to keep going and why premature ejaculation is such a common problem
- Loving our partner’s genitals
- What about women who recently gave birth or are breastfeeding?
- women who are single. Kim’s advice for vital sexual energy
- Conscious monogamy
Where to find Kim Anami
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KZfaq / kimanami
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@DaddyHexler Жыл бұрын

This is such a taboo subject for many woman where they believe that never wanting sex is "normal". Dead bedrooms are an epidemic and normalised to the point where men and women that want more in that area are labeled sex fiends. What we're taught growing up is so destructive. Big respect to you both for having this conversation. The world needs It.

@sierrabutler5011 2 жыл бұрын

So much I want to say but truly don’t have the words just yet. This is a pivotal moment, having seen this right when I have. I was just speaking with my husband about my feeling of this pull that my next step in healing from childhood traumas, is to figure how to reclaim my sexuality and whole being. So eager to keep learning. Thank you.

@luraayzit 2 жыл бұрын

It is time to be gentle with ourselves and cultivate more compassion for our history, our feelings and our wishes 🌬 This video helps awaken many females and everyone open minded. Thank you for this amazing production and your kindness. I can feel it through my screen and I am blessed to meet you virutally!

@laurencrandall7997 2 жыл бұрын

This is exactly what I needed to hear as a breastfeeding mama of a 3 month old 🥺❤️

@nicoles.higginbotham8984 2 жыл бұрын

For a minute..I forgot that you had this KZfaq page 🙈 & I was listening to this on Spotify.. I was like ..hmm I would really like to watch expressions & a person talk about this.. and I felt so silly .. so I switched and now I'm on the youtube watching.. I feel a deeper connection I think. 😌 love this 100%

@theellenfisherpodcast 2 жыл бұрын

hahaha amazing!! I LOVE watching podcast episodes as well to see the facial expressions. so glad you are enjoying this episode!

@bridgettsanchez9129 2 жыл бұрын

Wow this is so great. It was a podcast I didn’t know I needed. I am going to surrender! Thank you so much Ellen and Kim. I feel transformed already. I’m going to apply this all thank you!

@Rebecca.Daydream 2 жыл бұрын

Favorite episode so far! Thank you for hosting this conversation Ellen 🙏🏻

@theellenfisherpodcast 2 жыл бұрын

wow thank you! I truly loved this conversation too!

@TaylorHafenscher 2 жыл бұрын

With every episode I watch on this channel I feel like I am becoming a more well-rounded, intelligent, and feminine woman each and every time… thank you 💖

@theellenfisherpodcast 2 жыл бұрын

wowww! this is incredible. thank you for sharing this.

@kimmarbo8643 2 жыл бұрын

I’m always so excited for every new podcast! 😃 so educational! I listen to them when I’m cleaning/cooking/laundry etc.

@SagaJohanna 2 жыл бұрын

Love love love!!! Love speaking about the female vs male structures in society. So important! Five minutes into this and I’m loving it so much 🥰❤️

@yaseminmagin9167 2 жыл бұрын

Wow! This episode was extremely informative, maybe even eye opening for different aspects…thank you!

@randiniedentohl8874 2 жыл бұрын

I LOVED this podcast, Ellen. You both spoke so gracefully and wonderfully about a topic that SO MANY people have trouble discussing! It’s silly because it’s our BODIES, our HEALTH, and our HAPPINESS. Thanks for another amazing podcast!!

@Nora-rv5sc 2 жыл бұрын

Conscious monogamy is a very interesting topic. I assume that in a long-term relationship it is where we are able to grow when brave enough to look at the painful issues. But never stay in an abusive relationship. Get the power and strength to leave toxic people.

@theoolscamp115 2 жыл бұрын

It's so interesting because there's a lot that makes me uncomfortable or that i disagree with in this, but despite that i come out of this podcast having learned a lot and creating a change of perspective about my own sexuality! It means a lot to me that i get to have a different perspective on monogamy/polyamory, or feel frustrated that this doesn't even mention queer relationships, all the while still internalizing how important trust, surrender and loving my partner's body is! And despite being polyamorous i LOVE that i can make the conscious choice to be committed to my partner(s) through all the transformations they go through. Anyway i'm repeating myself but it's nice to disagree without this gut feeling of invalidation or vitriol or whatever, because i used to watch Ellen a lot and i know all the love and care that she has and that if we were to disagree, i feel it'd be done lovingly.

@jeanwhite6884 2 жыл бұрын

I’m curious, if this were a podcast on only queer relationships, would you be bothered that they didn’t mention heterosexual relationships?

@theoolscamp115 2 жыл бұрын

@@jeanwhite6884 i think queer or hetero only spaces are fine (but then you should own up to it and lgbt spaces are open about what they are but not hetero-focused spaces) but when we're talking about sexual relationships in general and only speak in terms of feminine and masculine energy together, that's ignoring a lot of other experiences

@sarar5789 2 жыл бұрын

Yes, this is certainly an interesting conversation, yet completely excludes SO MANY people. Queer, lesbian, trans women, women who medically cannot “self lubricate,” men who medically cannot last for an hour, etc. I think there are also a lot of questions about the medical and scientific credibility of a lot of this information 🤷🏼‍♀️. But hey, it’s KZfaq.

@judithzoe204 2 жыл бұрын

Because it’s not a podcast for gay people… gay stuff is literally everywhere. Stop making everything about yourselves go watch a gay channel

@MacKenzieHale 2 жыл бұрын

I loved hearing Kim's background and how she got interested in all this, what a great question!

@teresaramosserra 2 жыл бұрын

Suuuuuuuuuuuper powerful! Thank you very very much to break this wall of tabu around this topic, and thank you Kim Anami for your wisdom! Thanks Ellen for your courage!

@hannahtaylor2739 2 жыл бұрын

OMG THE EPISODE WE HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR!!! cant wait to listen

@gislainedonaroma7630 2 жыл бұрын

Yassss!!! I was waiting for this Ellen! Have recently done Kim’s “Sexy mama” Salon! It was amazing!!! I’m also a subscriber to your membership Ellen! You two are absolutely incredible!!! Thank you for all you both do!!! Truly life changing content you two create! 💚

@theellenfisherpodcast 2 жыл бұрын

awe wow that's so awesome!! thanks for all your support over the years! and these sexy mama course looks incredible

@kaylanlathrop5469 2 жыл бұрын

OMG Ellen I am soo excited to listen to this podcast!!! I'm sad I have to work first 😞

@candicer4626 2 жыл бұрын

I have been following kim for a while now. Love her!

@valeriacortese3099 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Ellen, you made me discover Kim and this podcast it’s literally a gift 🙏🏻

@laurenrigby1896 2 жыл бұрын

Just listened. this was an amazing episode, and my partner is now listening as well 🙏 really off topic 😂 but I'd really love a video on how to deal with sleep problems in children, I really value your info and this is something I've struggled with for years as I still sleep with a nearly 7 year old and really need to get back into bed with my partner

@angieh3584 2 жыл бұрын

Yes id love this too. I'm in the exact same position but with a 4 and 7 year old that are literally like a wedge between us in bed every night.

@fillyourcup282 2 жыл бұрын

It's funny how people mainly talk about new born sleep habits affecting sex life, I think it's when they get a little older and can actually walk lol

@moonafarms1621 2 жыл бұрын

Love Kim's work! Thank you for having this conversation Ellen!

@gabrielasaenz-seitz6593 2 жыл бұрын

Really enjoyed this podcast subject! Thank you!

@CatherineKlein94 2 жыл бұрын

This woman takes “34+35” by Ariana Grande literally lol

@anotherashleytoo 2 жыл бұрын

Amazing as always. Thanks for this. Definitely subscribing to her newsletter. ❤️❤️❤️

@A.Anne.Aurora 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Ellen for this wonderful video , right on time for as I just was about getting into jade eggs . But wow here is the door to a new life . Ellen Haven’t you used yoni eggs yourself before but I understand sometimes you get different information. Kim is such a wonderful women thank you for inviting her and just thank you Ellen for everything you do . You are amazing 🤩

@woundedheart3788 2 жыл бұрын

Dunno about having sex days after birth 😬😳

@emilykochco 2 жыл бұрын

This is so good, ive been searching for this!

@_joannahans 2 жыл бұрын

I LOVE THIS! 💛 this popped up and I’m so glad it did. Didn’t know how much I needed this.

@brittanystrumpf3952 2 жыл бұрын

Such a great episode!!

@saniisoul5745 2 жыл бұрын

I’m grateful for both of you ladies ! ❤️

@leatolno222 2 жыл бұрын

Good job Ellen 👌🏽 still tripping over information about vagus nerve and connection with sex 😉

@thelillebu 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for this amazing video!!!

@liveonthefarm9415 2 жыл бұрын

my circumstances are difficult. I made this channel for to support my family💚💚💟💚💚

@Mari-lg4uv 2 жыл бұрын

Favorite episode so far, thanks Ellen!

@angieh3584 2 жыл бұрын

❤️ can't wait to listen to this one xx

@andreahargitai3591 2 жыл бұрын

Where can you learn to use the jade eggs properly? Is the only option on Kim's website with a 1200$ course, or is there any more affordable way to to do it? Also the jade egg she sells it's just 1 piece but Ellen in your previous (1 year ago video) you had a whole set of eggs. How did you learn the weight lifting exercises? Thanks a lot!

2 жыл бұрын

Please, add subtitles in portuguese. 🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷 I love Kim and Ellen ❤️

@flybabyskybaby 2 жыл бұрын

Amazing thank you 🙏🏻

@emmapearce3711 2 жыл бұрын

Great work getting sex in the conversation! We all need more great sex in our lives!

@steffaneythomas9494 2 жыл бұрын

This was an interesting conversation. The language used turned me off at times if I'm honest, but the concept of the jade egg was interesting. I remember a video you made a while back - that was the first time I had ever heard of it. Do you know of other people that you recommend that teach on this topic? I don't think I could invest in one of Kims courses because I disagree with a lot that she said and the language she used, but the overall concept was very interesting and I'd love to learn about it.

@DaddyHexler Жыл бұрын

Kim is the 🐐

@indiabastien 2 жыл бұрын

Interesting topic and podcast episode. I don’t think I am your audience and I am most likely the minority but this episode was super heteronormative and pushed heteronormative sex as well. Thanks for sharing Ellen I’m sure there is a lot of straight women who found this very relatable.

@kmiklec 2 жыл бұрын

The problem comes when you do not know how to transform sexual energy into spiritual. Sexual energy is creativ and in ayurveda abstainug from sex gives Glow to the body

@sheiladidiernutricionista 2 жыл бұрын

Great great 🙏What jade eggs do you recommend ?

@a.e.s.108 2 жыл бұрын

Somewhat true but here's a few things to learn: 1. You shouldn't have sex after giving birth (at least for postpartum period), everyone knows it can lead to infections, slows down the healing and is extremely painful (in all spiritual teachings you are not advised to have intercourse if there's bleeding, even during period for hygienic reasons) 2. Sexual energy is not the same as life force energy (in Tantra and Vedas etc there's a big difference between those two, one can be transformed into another but it's usually the other way round from what she's saying) 3. In many spiritual teachings the main practice is to Not to waste Life Force meaning abstinence from sex (being in perpetual honeymoon period exhausts it, so constant "simmering" is not a good thing) Look into work of Joe Dispenza (please interview him) - people during his workshops are experiencing ecstasy without sex... And through meditation heal themselves from all traumas and diseases. Bottom line: this sex coach has a few good tricks to improve sex life and it's great but please don't give it a spiritual meaning 😉😄

@honestmomvlog 2 жыл бұрын

Ugh! I must make the most needy children! I can’t get them to sleep on there own until past a year old…. They’ve needed to be held by someone. Makes these situations hard because I feel like once I get my baby to sleep, it’s a race. I’m not mad about it, but I just never know when I’ll get this unicorn of a chance. We don’t live near a large support system so babysitters are not possible in this season. But hopefully soon

@bessoconnor2946 2 жыл бұрын

🔥🔥🔥

@greentree730 11 ай бұрын

I dont like the phrase...the Well F____ed woman. It's just raunchy and harsh. Why not say...a Well Loved Woman?? If sex is love and love is sex, it is making love. I know it isn't to everyone, it's just a physical sex connection. But to me it is a heart connection that brings two people together in LOVE. It is Love that shakes the ground, it is the heart connection that shakes the ground. Not a raunchy profane word. I would never explain beautiful sex to my teenage daughter by using that phrase, would anyone? Overall KIm has some good information and I'm sure she has helped many people. Sex is not the top of the relationship pile in my view. It is the FRUIT of the energy put out to have a good relationship all the time. Just as Kim said there can be blockages around the other relationship tension. Kim also possibly attaches different types of spiritual beliefs to sex that not everyone shares. Being reborn is not the way most would describe an incredible, memorable time with their partner. God is my guide in my life.

@vanessasf2866 2 жыл бұрын

Ellen I would love to see a podcast on birth control.

@vanessasf2866 2 жыл бұрын

not necessarily the ethical talk

@jessica11381 11 ай бұрын

17:00 1:08:15 1:13:32

@vegrunner6688 2 жыл бұрын

Sorry, that was the most woo-woo painful thing I've ever listened to, and I have no hang-ups about sex.. I listened to the Dr. B. podcast first and going from all that science to all that woo was whiplash.

@MovingToTheYukatan 2 жыл бұрын

What if you had to have a full hysterectomy and need lube do to this . Oh yes an being almost 50. Lol

@sillysallyalli 2 жыл бұрын

I took Kim’s course with woman of all ages, it doesn’t matter your circumstance/age. Truly possible with Jade egg practice

@shaijahalohalove1 2 жыл бұрын

Jade eggs are terrible - the ovaries don’t like that stone. Many women react with cramping ovaries after inserting those stupid unnatural things. Just lift heavy weights while squeezing the pelvic floor.

@judithzoe204 2 жыл бұрын

Why would I trust some random KZfaq commenter stop talking like you’re an authority

@JUSTIN-ry4dn 8 ай бұрын

🛑🛑🛑When you are married not someone else's sx object.. 🛑🛑🛑.

@dawnpost2657 2 жыл бұрын

Ellen, I enjoy watching your videos but I think it’s disappointing that you are now adding sponsorships into your podcast- because you also do them in pretty much all of your regular videos and you have a paid membership to watch your videos…. Also you and Hannah were both just promoting Brooklinen as the best bedding ever and now it’s another brand of overpriced bedding that’s the best you’ve ever had… and your viewers should go jump and buy?!- it just feels like every video has become a sponsorship being read from a script to sell us things that we don’t need or can’t afford.

@abrown4125 2 жыл бұрын

Making videos for KZfaq is very exhausting and it takes so much work. Don't you think people should be paid for their work? this is not a hobby for her. While she does enjoy it, this is WORK for her. Her and her husband work really hard, and she's a working mom taking care of her family. The sponsorships allow her to have an income, especially when KZfaq censors her videos and she doesn't make money from KZfaq ads. From what I remember, she's only spoken about Brooklinen and Buffy (which she was only promoting their comforter which is what they're known for). Majority of instagramers and KZfaqrs have sponsors to make a living. AND if you couldn't tell, she's not endorsing ANY company, she's only endorsing the ones that align with her beliefs and morals (natural, green, vegan, cruelty free, etc.) If you don't like it, then get off KZfaq. You're always going to see ads everywhere.

@judithzoe204 2 жыл бұрын

Yeah she should just work for free. Like bro what