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just so people know, in the uncut version she DID in fact ask the producers to tell him to stop touching her

the fact that they werent given pillows or blankets should classify this as psychological torture

She is obviously a fair and mature person. She gave him a million chances and he absolutely fumbled

The complete lack of awareness for space was really interesting. She was pulling into herself taking up as small a space as she could and he was doing the exact opposite. Felt pretty yucky. really liked when the staff spoke up for her and made a comment about asking for physical permission.

The shots of him sitting right beside her cramming her in the corner made this an even harder watch than it already was

Daring her to kiss him after being directly told to ask for consent is WILD

I don't have the words to explain how PERFECT this is as a representation of men and women's relationships. Lack of interest in her consent, inability to read her body language, huge gap in emotional maturity, the guy thinking the girl is a genius cause she has some basics of emotional intelligence (she was quite emotional intelligent tho, but here I mean that he reacted to very basic things), the girl laughing and him not understanding that it's cause she's feeling awkward, the guy having SO MUCH confidence, the guy taking ALL THE SPACE both physically and emotionally, him saying "I'm proud of you" as if he knew anything about her... I could go on and on for HOURS!!

My dude doesn’t understand her open emotional energy ≠ sexual energy.

"she's different from the typical girls..." yeah that happens when you actually have to talk to them

It's interesting how he began liking her more as the date went on and she lost interest

Raise your hand if as a women you’ve been on a date w a man who did not understand or really care about boundaries like this man. One of the worst feelings in the world it was crazy to see this from a third perspective. The way the producer says to ask for consent and then he just lays on her.

Im so in love with everything this girl says and does. Shes so firm in her boundaries and i found a lot of joy in many of the things she said. She mentioned finding happiness in a lot of things, and i think ill try and apply this for myself. I hope shes having a great day.

The way she said she didn't like feet and he then proceeded to say he liked them, show her his feet, force her to swap socks and then force her to give him a foot massage 💀

he kept asking sex related questions, laid his head in her lap without asking, grabbed her leg without asking and kept going back on his whole foot fetish thing omfg i cannot with this dude

Mommy milkers has to be the most immediate turn off lmaoo

I love how as the hours went on she just kept telling him to get therapy 😂

Asking for a foot massage after revealing that he had a "foot appreciation" was bold.

this pairing is like when the teacher puts the popular kid and the quiet girl together for a group project

I've been on a date that lasted 12 hours. We just sat and talked, and I didn't realize how much time had passed. However, sitting in such an uncomfortable, bright space like that with a blind date.. and the cameras and crew to top it off, sounds nightmarish.

A producer having to tell you to ask permission to touch someone is wild

I would pay to see someone stuck in a box for 12 hours with the dude from the last video that dressed like an astronaut, said he saw an attempted murder and wondered why the girl was weirded out by him

Mans fumbled time and time again. Couldn’t believe he tried to hit her with the “I dare you to kiss me ZaHa 😏” Cody’s fuckboy impression was in prime form here

Lol the fact that she was very open and blatant about not seeing him as a romantic interest and in the end he's like "I can totally see us going on dates"

16:58 That’s crazy bc they did not give ANY context for that. She actually asked the producers to tell him to stop touching her without her consenting when he went to the bathroom bc she was uncomfortable af and he kept doing it without asking

This one was BRUTAL. I hope dude rewatches this several times and learns how his behavior and questions made her uncomfortable. So he can go into future dates and not make the same mistakes he made here.

They should do a button/ blind date colab. If u win the button, the second date is in the box

I don't care if I'm trapped with the most attractive, charismatic, funny, intelligent, person in the world. 12 hours in a box with nothing but another person is insane.

This guy is Not socially unaware, or immature or whatever. He knows exactly what hes doing. Every single thing he does is pushing. Its upsetting to watch and difficult to put into words but this man sets off every single alarm bell I have. I don't know if what hes doing has a name, but its strategic and predatory. Gross men use this tactic as a lead up to SA. Hes learning what makes her uncomfortable and seeing how she reacts to those boundaries being pushed

I wouldn't even want to be stuck with MYSELF in a box for twelve hours

this was so brutal tho and an amazing example of how women are expected to shoulder men’s emotions and do it naturally and instinctually because it’s what’s always been expected of us. i’m sure he came out of there feeling refreshed while she left drained.

I liked this girl. She seemed like a good person. And she’s so pretty. She seemed genuine. Whoever she ends up with would be lucky. And I feel like SOMEONE out there has to have seen this video and be perfect for her 😂

someone get the guy with the chest tattoo on this show because whoever could last 12 hours in a box with him talking about chest tats all day should win an award

I wanna see Nut do this. I feel like him paired up with the right person would be good entertainment

I want the 12 hour unedited cut of Cody reacting to the 12 hour unedited cut.

I used to work for Khrystle! She was one of the sweetest coolest managers I’ve ever had. So surreal seeing her on here, I worked with her during the time this was filmed and had no idea

he doesnt realize but he keeps asking her to be his therapist

The more uncomfortable she got, the better he thought the date was…..

my back would hurt so bad in there, hopefully after the 5 hours mark i’d be comfortable enough to ask for a back massage

Cody is literally the standard I wanna set for any guy I date he is so emotionally intelligent as well as just super traditionally smart as well. He is the blue print I swear 😭

Cody's so right abt farting on a date. Esp being in a BOX with the other person. My ass would be clenched the whole time. The mental and physical pressure bro.

HOW MANY HOURS DID THEY LET THIS POOR GIRL SIT IN THERE BEFORE TELLING HIM TO ASK PERMISSION BEFORE TOUCHING HER LMFAO Eta: for the record this comment was left because I thought it was funny - I don't think they're at fault, the girl was fully capable of using her words when she needed to which she did. I don't blame the producers at all and it's kind of crazy to. The end.

He was constantly trying to seek empathy and pity at times and that’s almost worse than the absolute lack of social awareness and personal space.

watching him giggle getting his feet tickled physically sent shivers down my spine

THE KENERGY FROM THIS MAN. The whole ass time I was like dear god give her space.

the full 12 hour cut feels like honestly a genuine nightmare i can’t even use proper words to describe 😭

Her physical appearance and personality reminds me so much of Dakota Johnson, she's so pretty and down to earth✨️

24:22 dude is STILL talking bout fuckin feet when he clearly heard her say she does NOT LIKE FEET broooooooooooo

Bro really got a few hours alone with an emotionally mature woman and turned her into his therapist

If they ever do it again they need to give them actual games and things to do in the box... Especially things that will help develope conversation.

Maybe I'm sick but I would 100% do a platonic version of this

i love how cody doesn’t even consider people watching the uncut 12 hour version in several sittings rather than just 12 hours straight

Of the numerous signs he had that he was fucking it up, the directors reminding him about consent has to be the most embarrassing and ridiculous. I really hope his shame helped him learn, and he sought out therapy lol

I love how cody doesn't realize people can watch the 12 hour version in a few sittings instead of going full 12 hours in one day

I’m in shock how much he was falling for her, and pushing her to that direction too. It feels like getting to know a cool, honest, deconstructed woman who knows who she is and what she wants is so atypical for him. He even said it a bunch of times himself. It was pretty hard for them to connect at the same frequency. He felt a “True connection” because he was able to be genuine with her, while I’m certain she has this type of honest, vulnerable interactions with others, without needing to spend 12 straight hours with them to open up and share her feelings. Therapy is so important, folks, if you ever think you need to deal with traumatic shit that’s making your present life harder than it should, do not hesitate and ask for help. There IS a brighter, truer, and freer tomorrow where we can all be our most genuine selves.

I love zade's editing SOOOO MUCHHH!! he really adds more fun to every video. and I am so happy that Cody lets him edit the way zade wants and add in jokes :)

I’m so glad she kept her boundaries firm. He’s a hot mess and needs alot of work 😂

God I appreciate whoever that was who said to ask for permission before touching .... it physically hurt to see that.

Seeing Cody physically uncomfortable from the cringe is so funny

This was BRUTAL fumble. That being said, she is quite pleasant. He doesn't read boundaries at all.

*PSA* for the few guys I see wondering why the comments are generally against Kwan: Ninety percent of the problem is he just comes on too strong (shot at 10:00 says it all). I'd already be uncomfortable to be put in a small box with a stranger for so long, but if he kept on bringing the conversation back to sex/kissing and continually trying to initiate physical contact _despite no reciprocation_, I'd be at least a little bit scared. The impetus of the problem is a lack of chemistry that manifests in a cycle of her withdrawing and him overstepping, but the problem itself is the dude's inability (or disinterest) to gauge how she feels and adjust accordingly. Taken out of context, nothing he's doing/trying to do is inherently wrong or bad. There is nothing inherently predatory about being attracted to someone and wanting to further your relationship with them. You just have to make sure that they _enthusiastically_ want the same thing and *be okay with pulling back/walking away if they don't.*

In genuine shock after he just walked outside, obviously there’s a door and a window right there but I never fathomed he would just leave me like that

HAHAHA “IM GUNNA TURN OFF THESE LIGHTS BC THEY MAKE ME LOOK BAD” 😂😂😂😂😂 PLZZZZZZZZZ IM WHEEZING

Absolutely brutal. My guy doesn’t read body language well. The permission thing was only necessary because he seems clueless and is just taking shots in the dark. Everything about her demeanor is “I’m uncomfortable.”

I could have told you immediately why they don't make these anymore. And it became more and more clear.

so what we've learned today is it probably took about 6 hours for the oceangate ceo to suggest hooking up

the producer gets a gold star for telling this dude to keep his hands to himself. i was thinking that the whole time, he was sooooo touchy feely and not once did he ask for her permission, ick.

16:20 dude WHY WOULD YOU DO THAT 😭😭😭

Hearing Cody react to the girl's story about the facebook account made me realize I really want him to do a whole video on just reacting to r/AITA posts

I'm in a miserable stage of life under miserable circumstances, and i swear, this channel is the only one that can always makes me laugh like a hyena. Many thanks, Cody

She's so genuine and open because she's had a 5 1/2 yr before and he's only had a 10 month. Its not something thats ever talked about but theres a huge incompatibly with someone who's had a longterm relationship and someone who hasn't. Unless the short term person comes to have an understanding of the mindset the longterm person is coming from. And the longterm is able to make the adjustments needed and have the patience, though the short term person would have to be showing signs that they are mature enough. The long termer will be able to see right through them if they're not. The guy in this video is indicating this difference when he said she isn't like other girls he's dated. And how much he was able to be open with her because thats just what she's used to. So you can tell he's never dated someone whos been in a relationship for that long. And the first red flag for her was that he hadn't been in a long term relationship. That would be her biggest concern. And him laughing like he did when she said that was the worst thing the fool could had done. He cant put anything over her like he thinks he can. Relationship maturity level is not even a thing anyone mentions, at least not in this regard of length differences. And its something short termers don't even know exists. And they wouldn't even have the capacity and mindset to see how they lack maturity in that area, relative to the long term person. Long termers see the games short term people play like they're someone still in diapers. But if they can see signs that a person is responding and is wanting to be real, the long termer will have all the patients in the world for them, if they're genuine. So I guess the long termer has less if not zero tolerance for bs, but a way higher capacity to allow for the growth of their partner, if the partner is ready for it and on the same page.

The way I would actually scream and run out of there I absolutely cannot

You can’t tell me this guy wasn’t drinking in the bathroom LOL. Wanted alcohol, went to the bathroom twice and second time came back feeling waaay more cozy 😂

This guy goes straight into the abominable vibes hall of fame

imagine getting rejected and then having to sit with that person for another 12 hours

The thought of Cody not approving of a guy touching a girl too early while simultaneously capping his gardener for not paying HIM is a beautiful thing

The full 12 hour cut is what I imagine gets sold on the dark web lmao like what the hell😭

I asked that "bad sex" question to a Facebook group once hoping for stories like vomiting stories and it ended up being a bunch of assault stories.. that question can get really dark lol

16:36 im about to start vomitting and crying i just cant do it

I imagine filming this was not a good time lol. I love her clear boundaries and also clear kindness. she just seems like a decent person. although he pushed some boundaries and maybe was a little immature he doesn't seem like a bad person and I hope he has managed to work on that stuff

I didn’t expect the box to be this small. So I’m gonna occupy the entire length of it.

Cody causally going to the backyard to talk to the ghostbusters he hired had me dead

bro i had therapy for years and for the last year i started maturing and stuff and am still amazed by myself that i really became that woman i mever thought i could be. and i see so much of those traits in her and it feels great. reading those comments and the respect she gets and deserves, i wish that to anyone who feels small

Huge shoutout to Zach for editing this for us! We appreciate the longer videos and your editing skills! Thank youuuuuuu

Bro they need to bring that girl back for something if they haven’t already. She is SO cute with her lil giggles and I love how self aware she seems to be! Also, side note, I loved how the producer advocated to ask for permission before touching, but didn’t single the guy out. Everybody in the room understood why the producer said what he said, yet nobody got personally spotlit. Love that! Either of them very easily could have felt pressure to not say anything, but even MORE pressure than normal due to possibly being scared of getting judgement in comments and with a big camera in their faces. Props to the girl for (as far as I can tell) being herself, and to the producer! About the guy in the box, I think that he’s fine, just too emotionally.. loose? I guess is the word? I don’t know, childish? Just compared to her I dunno. She’s well spoken and eloquent- like she knows what she wants to say and she speaks it smoothly.. and he’s.. horny. Lol. Anyway, she seems like fun to be around. :)

22:08 you can tell they had no idea how much 2/3 meant… because they changed reaction when they heard 8 hours

Hes pushing it so much i wanna cry

I love how dude started braiding her hair, then the producers hit us with a time lapse like we were about to witness a master in his element, only to see homegirls hair was no different at the end of it. 😂

30 mins of Cody while eating lunch before work is my therapy

9:14 "you're in a box on KZfaq" says Cody in box on youtube

what he's doing is literally boundary probing - consistently trying to see how far he can push it, and then making jokes to see what he can do and what she will outvertly reject.

Part of the reason I love Cody's dating reaction videos is his emotional intelligence. He's SO good at reading body language, seeing when someone's fake and when they're genuine and much more. I feel like a lot of people don't have that ability and it's fascinating to witness. I feel like I'm learning something here lol

cody: “no one wants to go on a date for twelve hours” uhaul lesbians: 👀👀👀

Your videos bring me so much joy in my mundane depressing life. Thank you Cody 🙏🏻

the fact that cody didnt watch the 12 hr version of this while in a box is unreal and I am very disappointed.

cody&ko, i just love it. hes just being silly goofy and it feeds my dumb little brain

honestly one of the most interesting videos i’ve seen from cut. i really want to watch the other one they did but there’s no way i will without codys commentary (cody pls do this again)

The edit at 23:27 is so funny 😭 give your editor a raise.

She seems like a respectable woman who knows what she wants and he seems like a 28 year old going on 16 still trying to be tik tok famous.. I just love how people aren't aware that the creators of the show intentionally pair up the worst people and they're going into it thinking they're going to actually meet someone they vibe with.😂🎉

I’d spend 12 hours in a box with Nut