Def me 😂😂😂😂 i say to make a long story short bout 3 times during the story

Chile? The country?

@@blynn2505 p

@@blynn2505 Don't torment yourself by watching this long story. Right ? Is that what you're saying?

Heck ya!

Smart!!

Smart

Congratulations

Shawna Kimberly Well I've been married for 20 years, been a stay at home mom for 17 years....I had to fight my husband to go back to work to help him with the bills...I can't afford this house by myself (this is our second house), but I'm not worried because I married the right person..... Perhaps it was the person you picked? I say that because men take pride in taking care of their women.....Just met a man who almost went bankrupt paying hundreds of thousands for his wife's cancer treatment, she was a stay at home wife...... Perhaps u chose wrong or perhaps the marriage failed because of you. We will never know because we don't have his side....All I know is, there is nothing wrong with depending on a man....if it's the right man for you.

Smart women! I experienced something somewhat similar. When I met my partner after 1 week of meeting we begin dating, we immediately clicked, things moved quite fast. After 2 weeks of us just dating he told me that he was in love. He asked me to move with him from my home state to N.C. He left first, 8 months later I followed. I left everything behind, and basically was dependent upon him financially. He told me that I didn't have to work and that he'd take care of me. He did exactly that! However, it came with a price. Things went from really good, to really bad. I literally became is housewife, tending to his every need, I had no identity anymore. I felt like my entire world begin to revolve only around him. He eventually started to mistreat me. We fought a lot. Instead of me leaving I still stayed but I begin making my own money and thriving. There was a shift in our relationship, which it took a lot of time for him to adjust To because he'd lost the control he'd previously had. We moved into another place together, And I did exactly what you did. Everything had to be affordable for me just in case we were to separate. I make my own money and can if anything fails independently succeed on my own. It's been 14 years and fortunately we are still together... No more fighting, no more issues, we are happy and he still pays all of the bills and takes care of home. I say that to say, no matter what always be in the position to financially support oneself because anything can happen.

Someone looking for a free ride.

A tramp, that's who.

Right! I’m 50 and my mom would have whipped my behind. She wouldn’t let me shack with a man when I was in my 20s.

Right🤷🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

They were grieving the loss of her brother and he was a close friend for years .

Lol right!? She made a long story even lomger😅

🤣🤣🤣 she appears very unstable

@@kirktaurean1616 YES, I BELIEVE SHE IS VERY UNSTABLE. I DON'T MEAN JUST IN HER HOUSING SITUATION EITHER. WOW, THIS WOMAN IS TRULY IN NEED OF MENTAL HEALTH HELP. FAST!

So true

This is a perfect example of why friends should never decide to become lovers 💯

True.

She doesn’t pay rent and accuses him of making her child homeless. Uprooted her child for a man but it’s his fault. Poor kid.

THOUSANDS EXACTLY LIKE HER ARE ''RAISING'' KIDS, SCARY.

Me too. She was rambling and not saying anything. I was getting a headache thinking I would have to kick you out too

The daughter moved out Jan 20 which was before the mother

Right!!

@@wong4fitz it doesn’t matter it still is inhumane to do someone like that lol

@@underworldchronicles11 it depends on the situation. Remember he wanted her out and turning off the power seemed like a last resort. I don't know the full story and may never know but there are some ppl that only respond to drastic measures.

Couldn't have said it better!!!

I agree 👍

Hilarious but true

Best comment & agreed! 😄

That's a fact 😹😹

99% boring with pops of non-dramatic fun is OK with me.

She may be bi polar

How can she help anyone when she has no job or income & wasn't paying anything?

She thought she was gonna her a free ride with him

She’s from NJ so she actually moved back home

Lmaoooooo

2 bins of stuff 😁😂!!!

When she talks about arts and crafts I can't help but think about a jar of macaroni she makes kids stuff from lol.

Absolutely

💯😳

This is the comment!

It’s tragic but that doesn’t give an excuse to being unstable for the other child that’s present

@@anayasdad81 people handle trauma differently nobody is perfect! Have you lost a child before?

@@anayasdad81 I have and I almost lost my life too! I wasn’t in the right frame of mind to be there 100% for my first child ! I was sick, angry , traumatized, in pain and depressed! I couldn’t take care of myself let alone take care of my child at that time. Until you been through it you can’t tell anyone how to do something.Some people can’t bounce back from it !

No one? Not a single person throughout human history but her? Girl bye

@@LoveHeatherHeadly not to be nosy & definitely not judging but what did you do with your other child when you weren’t able to care for that child at the time?

I thought the same thing. Learn from your mother’s mistakes. Never uproot your life for a man you are not married too.

@@merdynes I hope so too😢

The fact that this bastard would cut off all of the power is appalling particularly since there was a minor involved.

@@janetmccoy7945 exactly!

@@merdynes to*

Which is dumb asf.. I'm never afraid to call the police

@N Frazier, The people in my community know how to call the police, wtf 🙄🤔

@@nikam4167 that great for you but clearly, you and I’s experience isn’t her experience.

@@manthony777 she didn’t say she didn’t know how to call the police.

Oh gimme a break!

Agreed. So much for her "god" helping her out. This woman needs to get some serious professional help.

🎯

@@vorpal22 what does her faith have to do with anything. People of all beliefs and moral standing make bad decisions 🙄

@@vorpal22God is going to deal with you!

That lady kept saying things about god. Vorpal22 was just repeating what the lady had said. I highly doubt vorpal22 meant any offense.

😃😃😄😄

Amen.

This is just stupid. Husbands do the exact same things to their wives and treat them even a lot worse than how this man treated her. Your perspective is very skewed in that regard!!

@@gongzilla527 your remark is even stupid sir. It doesn't matter the actions of a husband. A wife would be entitled to half of his belongings, spousal support, cars, house and even more dummy. Girlfriend don't get shit but hard di#k and bubble gum. In her case she didn't get shit. If she was his wife I can bet on your whole life she would of not left empty handed if the relationship ended. Now stop @ people if you don't know what the hell your talking about.

@@monicarichardson9895 or she would have ended up dead or missing or is it that I watch too much ID😐

That's WHAT I SAID 🤳💀🤣

No, you should hope that this young lady is not taken advantage of by a misogynistic narcissist

It's sad that it's always the children that suffer from their parents' instability.

@@hottuna2006 It doesn't strike me that the daughter is suffering. She appears very resilient. We obviously didn't get the whole story here

It speaks a lot to her character: pathetic.

Cognitive dissonance

Good point.

Yeah, not sure I agree with the ruling here. I didn't expect she'd get $3000, but I do believe she should have received something. Others have focused on her bad choices, which are certainly there, but I think he did make it difficult, if not impossible, for her to retrieve the items.

@@jaylee1012 definitely

She deserves 20 bucks for glitter she bought them liquor bottles to drink lol or found them lmaoo therapy is therapy being delusional is another lol

@@anayasdad81 unless you are an artist, you will never understand. You may drink the contents of your eventual project, doesn't make it worthless

@@helenbutoyi3944 I am an artist. I have clients who pay me for commissions and I have work shown in galleries. I spent a ton of money on art supplies that are worth what they are worth, but unless she had gold in those two tubs, her arts and crafts supplies were not worth $3000. I have shelves and drawers full of clay, tools, armatures, etc., that I've collected over the years and 1) I wouldn't physically leave a house without taking it with me, and 2) I wouldn't ever try to claim that two bins' worth of it was worth $3000. Artist or not, that's ridiculous and unrealistic. Period. What a piece is worth to the artist is not what it is worth in actual money; otherwise, every piece I create would sell for a hundred grand because my pieces are priceless to me. Lol. The whole "unless you're an artist" thing doesn't fly here to justify her thinking two bins of craft supplies are worth that kind of money.

He said that was all it took... staying out all night once. Seems like he's trash. He wanted things only done his way, and if you don't do it, he doesn't care anymore and you have to go. He threw a child and the mother out over 1 incident, which is screwed up.

Depends. I agree with him, IF she was going out for a bit and then just didn't come back until the next day. I wouldn't tolerate that either. But if it was planned ("My girls and I are going to the casino and staying the night, see you tomorrow"), that's something different, at least to me.

@@granitemoss1451 exactly , I think that he just knows what he'll tolerate. It only takes one time, there may have been other things adding to it but I'm sure that was the straw that broke the camel's back

@@dbabies82 Yes, that was heartless. How could you throw out someone over ONE time. It seems like he knew she had mental issues and took advantage. My wise WOMEN of my family ALWAYS told me do not put your stability in a man or anyone for that fact. My Dad not to discount him he was STRONGLY against shacking. Praise God even though I did not listen to the advice above I shacked with my then boyfriend but soon turned in to my husband now of 22 years. All the houses we bought. You BET YOUR REAR END I AM ON THE DEED. LADIES be present mentally and physically during business transactions.

@@dbabies82 nah he just not dealing with b.s. he don’t have to deal with that

No, you're all over the place

Must was trying to hold on to the lash

That’s what I said. She can’t even look in the camera.

I still have my old phone

She'll be fine.

Hardly know? 12 years of friendship!

@@TreeABaby1 you don’t know someone till you live with them. And sometimes those we’ve known the longest also turn on us.

@@apoliticallevi 💯they should of made a contract or set the expectations of what is expected SMH🤦

@@payableondeath9091 most certainly!!!!

Yes.

only women who allow themselves to be used are used by men this woman wasnt used shes playing the victim card here stop blaming men for bad decisions by dumb women

She's not a baby she's a grown ass woman she can and should take care of herself

....hehe - love your comment....I had to love that lady because she's so eccentric. She seemed harmless and the dude was butthurt because she cut off the intimacy....but then he told his side and I thought - yep, that's how it went down (she stayed out all night and he said - done!....and then she was sent to the living room so she vacuumed all night)

😂😂😂

😂 Benzino

Ladies, make sure you have a little money of your own.....

and that’s not her dad😂

It was his house, she paid nothing towards it, she was a live in girlfriend. She can choose to stay out all night and he can choose to not have a girlfriend that stays out all night.

What

He seems like he has deep seated anger.

As are you

@Tiger Bandaid weirdo yourself bandaid. What kind of name is that

@Tiger Bandaid what a lame comment

@Tiger Bandaid 😂😂😂😂😂😂

As are you

She's grieving and not in her right mind

@@myhunny2006 Thank you for your comment. Why are women so judgemental of other women? It's shameful

@Eirlys I will never understand it if we could just have empathy for one another

@@myhunny2006 ❤

Texas is fairly cheap, she could’ve been visiting family or friends and it could’ve been planned In advance, it isn’t completely out of left field as it seems she didn’t foresee this coming

@@lilpicnicattac9207 That may be the case. But like others pointed out, she does not make good decisions. Pre-planned or not, who chooses to go on a trip over finding a place to live? Trips can wait. Get your things and find a place for you and your child.

Y’all rather be with y’all homeboys then

@@dance4life1208 . Exactly; how do men ever benefit from paying off a woman's debt, paying her bills, looking after kids that are not his own, cavorting with damaged women who have slept with many men, have had many broken relationships, is from a broken home and is probably overweight with health problems and a bad attitude. This is what the vast majority nof women bring to the table. It is a waste of a good man's time.