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treading still (a documentary)

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Big Waves Inc.

Big Waves Inc.

Күн бұрын

On June 14, 2018, Meghan Bigelow and her three boys were enjoying a beautiful Colorado summer day of running errands, attending swim team practice, and going to the dentist. Vaughn Jr. (aka "Bubba") was thirteen years old when he became the victim of a violent crime that day.
Bubba was riding in the car with his mother and two younger brothers when another driver followed their vehicle into the parking lot of their dentist. When Bubba, his mom, and his two brothers exited their car, the other driver aggressively confronted them.
That driver then returned to his car, retrieved his gun, and began to open fire on Bubba and his family. He shot Bubba, his 7-year-old brother, Meghan, and another witness to the crime. He left all of them for dead and fled.
In a world plagued by the devastating consequences of road rage and gun violence, "treading still" unveils a heart-wrenching narrative that revolves around the life and loss of that vibrant young soul. This compelling documentary delves deep into the tragic incident that took Bubba away from us far too soon, a victim of the unfathomable collision between road rage and gun violence.
Through poignant interviews and a compelling storytelling approach, "treading still" paints an intimate portrait of Bubba's childhood, aspirations, and the immense impact he had on his family, friends, and community. As we follow the emotional journey of healing and transformation that his loved ones embark upon, the documentary lays bare the raw emotions and challenges they face in the aftermath of such a heart-rending loss.
We invite you to join us on an emotional and enlightening journey as we honor Bubba's memory by advocating for a safer and more compassionate world. Through "treading still," we strive to ensure that Bubba's legacy becomes a beacon of awareness and change, inspiring us all to build a world where innocent lives are protected.
0:00 Full Documentary
50:00 A Mother's Wave - Poem written and read by Meghan Bigelow
Support Big Waves: www.bigwavesin...
Writer/Director/Editor/Composer: Brian Hoven
Producers: Meghan Bigelow, Vaughn Bigelow, Brian Hoven

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@cathybassett6432
@cathybassett6432 15 күн бұрын
I'm so fortunate to have randomly clicked on this video. What an amazing family.
@aussierando9582
@aussierando9582 10 күн бұрын
What an amazing tribute to an amazing and gorgeous young man. I have a friend who lost her 13 year old grandson from a stabbing and know the ripple effect that follows a senseless attack like this amazing boy, mother and the strongest little brother had to endure. My heart goes out to the whole family. I’m in Tasmania Australia and just want to let you know if you ever venture to this part of the world I would be more than happy to be your host. And to Asa, young man you are amazing and funny too. I know your big brother is very proud of you and you will make him proud your whole life - YOU ROCK MATE .
@lkm3s
@lkm3s Ай бұрын
I made the same mistake and was followed around for an hour by some lunatic trying to make me pull over. We're living in a world overrun with really sick, stressed, broken people. Don't assume the person confronting you is normal. Assume they may not be. You're a beautiful family.
@sarahclarkwood6966
@sarahclarkwood6966 Ай бұрын
The beauty of Asa sharing his corny jokes at the end and the fact no words were dedicated to the shooter. Thank you for carrying this story with such grace and integrity. If Bubba was All In it is clear his friends and family wanted this documentary to be ALL IN on his behalf.
@bricktastic2602
@bricktastic2602 Ай бұрын
An incredibly touching tribute to your beautiful son; may his spirit live on forever.
@jendelaney5335
@jendelaney5335 Ай бұрын
How lucky was Bubba to be born into such an amazing family who gave him so much love and a good life for his short time here. What a strong beautiful family who have honored their amazing son and continue to fight for their family and to keep saving others with their foundation. So much respect
@natmcd4043
@natmcd4043 Ай бұрын
As a mother... I can't even fathom what you all have went through. Sending love and well wishes from Ireland 🇮🇪 💚 always remember that just because you can no longer see your beautiful little guy.. doesn't mean he's not there... he's with u always...❤
@lorettahiggins3717
@lorettahiggins3717 Ай бұрын
A very moving tribute of Vaughn Jr and the Bigelow family. Beautifully done. A reminder that we never know what each day has in store for us and to tell your loved ones how much they mean to you every single day. 💙
@annmade7327
@annmade7327 Ай бұрын
Amazing family. Horrific tragedy. Brilliant filmmaking. No more words needed
@earisan
@earisan 16 күн бұрын
With your beautiful, tender narrative, your son has become my son as well.. All the best to your family 🌸
@bradwillard8009
@bradwillard8009 Ай бұрын
i’m thankful for every moment i got to spend with vaughn and this amazing family. their perseverance is something i’ve admired for a long time and still inspires me to this day
@Tameasa
@Tameasa Ай бұрын
Their grief and pain are palpable. I don't know what else to say. May God bless you, Bigelow, family. May Bubba's memory be blessing to you.
@sashaedwards2097
@sashaedwards2097 Ай бұрын
This is heartbreaking and a beautiful tribute to Bubba. Thank you for sharing with us.
@stacyjaye6350
@stacyjaye6350 13 күн бұрын
Damn. Thank you for making me appreciate everything. The air that I breathe, a phone call with my sister, getting up and going to work at age 67. I am more grateful for everything for having seen this documentary. I'm sending you all strength, courage, and big hugs, from Tulsa.💪⚔️🫂. 👍💖😘😘😘
@iJSabelle007
@iJSabelle007 Ай бұрын
You have to be so evil and so saturated with anger that in your mind you made up an excuse to harm people because you think you were being wronged? What a tragedy, what a painful loss. But what a blessing to be blessed with such a wonderful child who touched many lives.
@couldbegood
@couldbegood 27 күн бұрын
I’m so, so sorry for your loss. I don’t know what happens to some people behind a wheel, the rage they have is utterly disproportionate. I was in a queue at some lights recently and for a split second I thought about turning right, so indicated, but changed my mind, (bearing in mind we were all stationary and I hadn’t moved yet). The man behind me started waving his arms, as if to say “make your mind up you stupid cow”, he carried on for quite some time with such anger, intolerance and hate in his face and gesticulations. Why on earth would it make him so angry, have we not all changed our minds at some point?
@kristinecrowley8321
@kristinecrowley8321 Ай бұрын
I cannot wrap my head around this. Such a completely senseless loss of someone so full of life. So sorry for your loss. I hate even saying those words because I know they don’t help. If nothing else comes of this, we all have GOT to start realizing what is actually important in life. ❤
@standup2982
@standup2982 Ай бұрын
I’m so very sorry for the loss of your precious son, and for the trauma you have all endured. Sending love from England ❤️
@bridgetbiss886
@bridgetbiss886 3 күн бұрын
Just finished watching this while snuggling my 15 month old son... Tears streaming. As the last words of the poem were spoken and the screen darkened my quiet baby suddenly uttered the word Bubba. 💔
@user-oq5nr9wi1y
@user-oq5nr9wi1y Ай бұрын
How sad I feel for his Family I lost my Beautiful Grandson at 27 I talk to his photo a lot & it helps so much 💖
@cassybrajcich204
@cassybrajcich204 Ай бұрын
This is so heartbreaking and so disgusting of that man to shoot innocent kids over nothing. End gun violence please everyone please..
@hannahhopkinson9044
@hannahhopkinson9044 Ай бұрын
As a UK resident gun violence has and always will be a total anomaly to me. This is just the most horrendous thing to happen to your precious family while they are simply just on a visit to the dentist. There is just no way I can begin to fathom the depth of rage felt by this man who to all intents and purposes attempted to murder your entire family for the most senseless , pointless of reasons and the shadows of that day will forever cast their darkness upon your beautiful family. To all of Vaughan Jnr's family please accept my condolences- he was a very special young man, that much is clear Xxx ❤❤
@Ziggy-hy4fn
@Ziggy-hy4fn 21 күн бұрын
Every life lost to gun violence deserves this treatment but so many are forgotten about. I feel so grateful to have this chance to get to know someone who was lost. He seemed like a special little boy. Much love to the family.
@debbiebradburry4206
@debbiebradburry4206 Ай бұрын
Ty for putting your storie it touch my heart,I keep you in my prayers,may God comfort you and family and children down this long road.
@bigwavesinc
@bigwavesinc Ай бұрын
Thank you for your kind words.
@coleengoodell7523
@coleengoodell7523 Ай бұрын
Big tears flowing. Such a tragic, tragic story. Bubba/Vaughn was surely a light that shined brightly then was gone. But the kind of spirit this young had will never die, but live on. The Kingdom of Heaven belongs to such as he was and is. He shines on. For him it will seem like a moment has passed since he was last with you, the people he loved and cherished. For time is different in heaven. But for those who knew him, gave birth and life to him, raised him up with so much love, patience and courage, everyday, every hour, every moment without him, must seem like too long. Thank you for sharing his story. Although it broke my heart. I pray that my comment will bless you or someone, whose light, love and heart was taken to heaven before them. "We are fearfully and wonderfully made" we live on.
@tleemf6923
@tleemf6923 Ай бұрын
Sigh I should have paused as I began writing right at the end ..it went to the next video and erased what I was saying here 😢I thought of just not bothering but couldn't move on yet . Thank you for your courage and support to put together this documentary of your story ... My story of the loss of my son last year is a VERY VERY different story ...and yet every single story I am drawn to hear and witness there is the "piont " and our common bond ...that we all have lost a child that we treasured beyond measure . Thank all of you Thank the writers and the creators of this ....I am adding it to my list to share one day ,when I find the person ment to help me help my loved ones tell our story .... To all of your friends and family and doctors and first responders...LOVE ..AND BLESSINGS FULL OF LIGHT AND FOR A GOOD LIFE . I am moved to tell you that with an open and at times desperate heart ...my son without doubt comes threw in many different ways to let me know he absolutely is with me at any time I need him and when he needs me ...and it happens at times in the smallest of things ...and then there are some seriously...well there are no words ..because we were never tought to believe in our higher scence and abilities to communicate across dimensions ...it is real and it is REAL 🥹🙏🕊😘🌬🫴🧡✨️🪽
@iJSabelle007
@iJSabelle007 Ай бұрын
@AkitaLover1013
@AkitaLover1013 Ай бұрын
God Bless you all. ✝️🙏💔
@ladylaois8184
@ladylaois8184 Ай бұрын
I’ve lost a son and a Grandson, so I think these lovely parents and friends and family are very brave. Excellent testimony 😊 God bless you all. And thank you 🙏 for sharing.
@sandeehuffman5384
@sandeehuffman5384 Ай бұрын
So sorry for your loss.
@briannalomba
@briannalomba 27 күн бұрын
What a beautiful boy ❤ You have a wonderfully strong and gracious family. To be able to turn your tragedy into a purpose that serves the safety of others is true class. I’m so sorry for what you’ve endured. The mother’s poem is so true and touching.
@plum544
@plum544 Ай бұрын
Your description of Vaughan jnr , is exactly how I’d describe my son Jake. ❤ Sending all our love, light and strength to your beautiful family from my family - NT Australia. Xx
@rainy.d7404
@rainy.d7404 22 күн бұрын
Vaughan lived his life to the fullest. It may not have been as long as we all expect a life to be but it was his FULL life filled with joy and love and the freedom to express himself and his passions to their fullest...thanks to his amazing family. His life was lived perfectly till the end that was his destiny. We all expect to have a certain amount of yrs here but why? Let us celebrate the yrs we each are gifted...regardless of the number let us make them count. The pain and grief of losing a child is beyond words so only comfort is knowing they were loved, happy and that as parents you did your very best and loved them till their/your final breath. ❤❤❤ I say all this yet I cried as I watched this, me a stranger...I can't imagine what his family are still feeling.
@documax123
@documax123 Ай бұрын
What a talented little guy and with beautiful spirit. I think he's still around really, his spirit is in all that's good and vital and we're all connected up with that.
@noreenlawlor3700
@noreenlawlor3700 Ай бұрын
So well put.
@olliesolliethecollie5607
@olliesolliethecollie5607 23 күн бұрын
Bubba, Asa, and their beautiful Mom may have been the ones that endured the gunshots but their entire family took a bullet. Vaugh was so handsome and so passionate about his water polo…. It is an unfathomable loss for not only his beautiful family, but the community and everyone impacted by the tragedy. The moving words of the poem at the end don’t call me strong. I don’t have a choice. I’m a wife and a mother is so powerful. I almost lost my son three days ago. Severe complications that developed a day after he had his tonsils out I remember thinking this can’t be happening. I can’t lose him. I can’t imagine the daily pain Bubba’s parents feel. I will always remember this documentary. It was beautifully done. I’m so very sorry, such a preventable tragedy. I hope the young man who made that horrible decision to actually kill someone over being cut off in traffic never gets out of prison. 💔💔💔💔💔
@jeepgirl5283
@jeepgirl5283 25 күн бұрын
Let me tell you that i am beyond sorry for your tremendous loss. You were the best parents to this dear little boy. I will never know your pain. This is so very tragic that someone had the nerve to take him from you. He would have grown up to be such a great man, just like his father! I wish I could make this go away and you had your baby back. My heart breaks for you both. This video is just absolutely a wonderful tribute to him. One day you will be back with your boy, I know that. I now will never forget your boy. Prayers you may find some happiness in your days ahead. Bubba was beautiful ❤
@dianehess5520
@dianehess5520 18 күн бұрын
Does anyone know if the shooter was brought to justice?
@dr.marcywillard9665
@dr.marcywillard9665 Ай бұрын
A beautiful tribute to this amazing family and to Bubba. We all miss him and to this day I would not be surprised if he walked in my front door. I would give him a big hug and send him in to play cars or ride scooters with the kids. Thank you for sharing this story. Sending love to you all. ❤️
@betsylaughlin8652
@betsylaughlin8652 Ай бұрын
The algorithm brought me here, and I’m grateful it did. Bubba was a special kid, obviously. As a swim teacher for 25 years, the thought I had watching him was, “his form looks good!” Really a loss I can’t begin to comprehend…what a full life, and loving family. This really is the definition of a tragedy. I am so sorry🙏This documentary really spotlights what a bright light he will always be💕
@amg8497
@amg8497 18 күн бұрын
There are no words for that kind of filth I am absolutely stunned that any human on the planet could choose such a heinous act over something so insanely trivial !! … All I can say is I am so very sorry for the incredible loss this family has faced … My heart goes out to you RIP Vaughn … You were a champion Thank the lord that Asa and Megan survived with such critical injuries… I’m sure the road has been long and arduous What a horrible tragedy🇨🇦
@maryellenmonk3481
@maryellenmonk3481 28 күн бұрын
What a lovely tribute to your beautiful son, Bubba. Such a tragic ending for this special soul. My heart goes out to your family. May you all find peace to heal. ❤
@teddietaz
@teddietaz 15 күн бұрын
I just happened to stumble across this story…I have no words!
@smintedinc2482
@smintedinc2482 23 күн бұрын
Beautiful - we all lost an amazing soul it seems ❤ Thank you for your courage and love to share and breath life into his memory xx A South Australia
@traceyhellsten649
@traceyhellsten649 20 күн бұрын
We have to stop letting idiots have guns. Prayers 🙏 for Vaughn's loved ones, prayers of healing comfort 🙏🙏🕊️.
@noreenlawlor3700
@noreenlawlor3700 Ай бұрын
What a needless tragedy. Why so much rage in the world. My heart goes out to you. Bubba will never be forgotten even by me a complete stranger. I will pray for you all. ❤
@Hannah-ks4mi
@Hannah-ks4mi Ай бұрын
A beautiful documentary about a tragic and completely senseless crime. RIP Vaughn and peace to your family ❤
@SonyaHiter-hx9gf
@SonyaHiter-hx9gf 17 күн бұрын
This just breaks my heart. Such a beautiful family. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. God Bless
@luzviasus12
@luzviasus12 Ай бұрын
We love and admire you Bigelow's family. Thank you for sharing and keep walking loud. This is an amazing way to honor Vaughn and to call into a deep conscience about gun control and responsibility. Always in our prayers, God is faithful.
@JJ-kf4kc
@JJ-kf4kc Ай бұрын
Please know Bigelow family, that you are loved and we all send you the biggest condolences and biggest virtual hug❤❤❤❤
@noraalbright777
@noraalbright777 27 күн бұрын
I lost my dad 4 years ago on July 11, 2020…he looked at me for the last time before taking his last three breaths…that devastated me. Then when we had his funeral…I started thinking what could I do to get closer to him…even tho he past away…I wrote him a letter. Called it simply Dear Dad. And I wrote him 4 that day. Four the next day…and kept going. Four years later…I’m still writing them with questions that I had for that time. Now I’m putting those letters that I’ve been writing…I’m turning them into a book. Hoping my letters help people. And hoping people get the answers they r looking for if the have the questions were asked to him. Writing the letters help me cope with him being gone! So my advice…take the advice or not that’s ok if u don’t…but write him a letter…and keep writing him cause u can! He will read it! It’s very therapeutic!!
@tovakaye238
@tovakaye238 Ай бұрын
This made my heart break, as well as sent me into a bad memory of a road rage many years ago when I accidentally cut someone off while making a turn into a parking lot. I misjudged and thought they were going faster. This van followed me into the lot and as I parked, came banging on my car window with a gun. I thought for sure he was going to shoot me through the window, so I ducked down and called 9-11. The guy was screaming that I could have killed his family. He was beyond angry, he was raging hard and dark red in the face. Thankfully I had all my doors locked and windows up. I just stayed down until he left. I wish Mrs Bigelow stayed in her car, but of course hindsight is 20-20, and there’s no going back. What a total tragedy. Vaughn Jr lived more years than most in his short life. He’s an angel now. Be safe people.
@jackiedowling3288
@jackiedowling3288 24 күн бұрын
How do you put into words the pain I felt watching your story.. Totally felt everything you were going threw. May god watch over you and your family.. Words are so difficult..😢😢 thank you for sharing your story. I feel honoured that I got the chance to know so much about your son .what an incredible human being .. such a brave family.❤🙏❤🙏❤🙏❤🙏😢😊
@youtooaromatherapyyoga2991
@youtooaromatherapyyoga2991 Ай бұрын
I’ll never understand why the “right to bear arms” is still allowed when things like this seem to happen all the time as far as KZfaq and the news here in Europe. No other country has this many gun related crimes. Why US government? Love and healing to the family - tragic 😢
@suzanl8170
@suzanl8170 Ай бұрын
They mentioned that another witness was also shot. Praying that individual is healed as well.
@DennisMcCarthy-uo9se
@DennisMcCarthy-uo9se Ай бұрын
What a beautiful boy, all the boys! Beautiful family! So tragic!! Thank God their community and friends were so amazing! Bubba will always be remembered as he left his mark here on earth and will be waiting for you in heaven. So sorry for your loss. What a beautiful boy!!
@lucasflanders8557
@lucasflanders8557 19 күн бұрын
What a poignant and heartbreaking documentary. And an amazing story of survival as well. So much senseless gun violence in this country. I support Governor Gavin Newsom's call for a constitutional amendment to address this problem.
@susanstevenson4025
@susanstevenson4025 20 күн бұрын
Heartbreaking, Sending Bubba's loved ones love and strength xx
@WiseWoman6
@WiseWoman6 27 күн бұрын
My heart absolutely breaks for this beautiful family. I couldn't help but cry. God please continue to watch over this beautiful family & give them the strength, comfort & peace that they need. Bubba was such a handsome young boy & so strong willed. I know he's watching over each one of you. I just want you to know I am so very sorry for the devastating loss of such a precious young man. You all are in my thoughts, prayers & in my heart ❤️. Bubba will never be forgotten ❤️🙏🏻😢🕊️
@Dr_KAP
@Dr_KAP Ай бұрын
I am so deeply sorry for your loss, this story was both tragic and beautiful. Tragic in loss but beautiful in spirit and the memory of an incredible kid who had packed so much into his short life. Love from Australia ❤
@ven0006
@ven0006 Ай бұрын
I feel so blessed to have watched this story. Bubba Bigilow was one very much loved and admired by many young man. My heart breaks for you all, is so unfair and stingingly hard. Your pain is raw, you have been through too much. Big Waves is such a wonderful idea. What a terrific organisation to start. Sending much love from us downunder. Xoxo
@suefrancoeur9148
@suefrancoeur9148 Ай бұрын
Heartbreaking . Such a beautiful and strong family. You touched my heart, my soul. Blessings from Quebec ⚘️
@SallyM-7777
@SallyM-7777 Ай бұрын
This hits way to close to home… We knew a family that this happened to, their little girl didn’t live after a road rage. What I can’t understand is why the other person that shot this family could not just express anger, but rage, and blinded by their targets. A family on the way to a dentist appt.. Unbelievable…. God Bless Your family.
@adellayoung9143
@adellayoung9143 3 күн бұрын
What an amazing story and such an amazing outcome. I can't even imagine. I have a friend whose son was tragically killed in a dirt bike accident on December 28, 2023 and he was 13 as well. Just a couple short months after her divorce was final and this completely overwhelmed her. He was her youngest and to this day she still gets emotional on a daily basis. She was the strongest person I ever had known and losing her son at 13 tragically as well is just to much. My heart goes out to all the parents who has had to endure the loss of a child at such an early age. I commend you, your family and friends for being able to turn such a tragic event into such an amazing story and amazing outcome. God bless you all for the wonderful work you are all doing.
@roblockhart8410
@roblockhart8410 20 күн бұрын
That’s insane! Shoot a mother and her young children over being cut off. This punk had more than enough time to calm down after the initial incident too. Scary that we have to live amongst freaks like this.
@carinakaron8068
@carinakaron8068 Ай бұрын
What a beautiful family, what a poignant yet beautiful tribute to Bubba, an exceptional young man.✨️💖✨️
@wonderwoman7789
@wonderwoman7789 Ай бұрын
I’m in tears. Incredibly impactful. Thank you so much for sharing your story. Continued prayers to the Bigelow family 🙏🏻❤️
@donnahague8983
@donnahague8983 Ай бұрын
My God… my heart is breaking for this family… this is why my husband and I have put medical emergency kits in both our vehicles… chest seals, bandages, tourniquets, masks, scissors, mouth piece in case CPR is needed, etc…. Everyone should carry one in their vehicle with todays world… it can be expensive but you can buy stuff a little at a time and put in a duffle bag or medical bag and throw in your vehicle… it could save a life or many.
@janhamilton6508
@janhamilton6508 15 күн бұрын
I am so sorry this happened to your family. A senseless act. Prayers and Love to your family.
@SwimKam
@SwimKam Ай бұрын
Oh My God. Imagine how vicious and filled with hate this perpetrator is, to take a weapon and shoot these human beings-people who haven’t done anything to him-in cold blooded murderous rage? Horrifying.
@coryjackson3131
@coryjackson3131 18 күн бұрын
We have to make a decision to change our culture because this happens way too often and is senseless. My condolences to your family 🙏 there are no words I can say .
@smushie75
@smushie75 Ай бұрын
I lost my Dad to cancer a couple weeks ago. The pain and sadness has been overwhelming. I can not begin to imagine the horrific raw hurt that you’d feel to have your kid murdered. Some idiot on the road. A complete stranger obliterating your life. Families of victims deserve fat trial-not thes 3-4 year bs trials I really can not imagine how one would collect themselves and try to live on. No one should have to go through that level of heartache.
@sarah5893
@sarah5893 24 күн бұрын
This story broke my heart but also filled my heart, what an amazing tribute to their beautiful gifted son. The gun safe lock is a fantastic idea, I can't believe how amazing & resisiliant the Bigalowe family is.
@justelise3096
@justelise3096 22 күн бұрын
This was beautifully put together. Thank you for such an important message.
@cookiepartyyy
@cookiepartyyy Ай бұрын
Oh. My. God. What is WRONG with people?! Road ragers have a special place in HELL. This story is insane. This poor, sweet family. How could a small traffic issue be so infuriating that you would think SHOOTING a mother and her small children is worth it?! How?!
@ellaminnow
@ellaminnow 9 күн бұрын
Beautiful documentary to hold your grief and pain and turn it into something positive. So sorry for this immense loss.
@kyliestark7356
@kyliestark7356 Ай бұрын
You extra ordinary family . To survive such overwhelming grief and tragedy and injuries. To tell your story. To be reminded every day of what impact this had on all of you. Thankyou for the courage and bravery it must have taken to tell this story . You deserved every bit of the love support and ongoing tributes. But it’s still there. It will always be there. Slowly as you know days will look brighter , you will feel less burdened . But it will always be there . Bubba is the inspiration. He is there everywhere . Sending so much love respect and positivity but knowing that everyday must be still so very very hard. Xxxxx
@nadineellington7807
@nadineellington7807 20 күн бұрын
Thank you for SHARING 🙏 My sons name is Asa, haven’t met many. Our hearts are with you, as strangers even 🫶
@maranna6482
@maranna6482 Ай бұрын
Really beautifully done film. Great tribute. So senseless...
@ValerieSue
@ValerieSue Ай бұрын
What a strong family you are!!! Vaughn Jr would be so proud how you all have honored him! Praying for you’ll from Texas! 🙏🏼💕🙏🏼
@bonniejohnsonbatten664
@bonniejohnsonbatten664 4 күн бұрын
You’re so correct when you say that you didn’t appreciate the remarkable abilities that your child had until they’re no longer with us. It’s like you love them so much that you hold back on certain things because you know that if you actually focus on the possibility of losing your child, you can’t live with that thought and it’s too painful to even try to imagine what life would be like without them. However, if you can relate to this truth, you can drive yourself mad by thinking about the little details or compliments that you could’ve said. You have to step back and acknowledge that they knew how much they meant and they know still. Anyone viewing your personal and intimate moments can tell that your son was so loved, so privileged and lucky to have all of you as his family. We have two sons who wouldn’t have been a thought if our oldest didn’t pass. I was in my late 30’s and 40 was sneaking up. One year to the day of our loss, I discovered that I was pregnant. The sheer joy was overshadowed by having to possibly go through another loss. I personally felt responsible for things I couldn’t control, only God can control. I have learned that this is the reality of life. I don’t go one day without telling my boys how much I love them and to please be careful. I don’t care what others think of my parenting style because we spoil them beyond reason and accommodate any request because unless you belong to this club, you can’t comprehend the days, months and years that you must endure. Not to mention that people think it’s contagious and friends start falling away. I understand though…it’s too difficult to observe because they have their child and they feel guilt and shame because you don’t. It’s normal but for the ones who stick around…they’re irreplaceable. Thank you for sharing your story and for reminding us that we live in a society and country of instability. People are at a boiling point and it doesn’t take much for someone to snap. It’s not worth the risk because you can count on a dangerous society.
@Kaarver
@Kaarver 21 күн бұрын
I’m so sorry this happened to you, such a terrible loss! I can’t watch it, I cry too much from just watching the beginning, so I’m commenting for the algorithms. I do hope the gun laws in the US change in the future, sadly it doesn’t look hopeful. Where I live cars are the biggest danger to children’s lives, I lost a ten year old friend who was hit by a car when I was eleven (40 years ago), I’ll never forget him and never stop mourning he didn’t get to live his full life. The lost children live in our memories ❤.
@Kennedy4OurCountry
@Kennedy4OurCountry Ай бұрын
I'm so sorry....WHAT an AWESOME young man.
@LilyGazou
@LilyGazou Ай бұрын
The world was robbed of his wonderful life. Sending you love.
@siobhanjohnson8088
@siobhanjohnson8088 Ай бұрын
Such a senseless act. My heart goes out to your whole family 😢❤
@bonnierickards6973
@bonnierickards6973 Ай бұрын
Such a tragic store. ❤ My heart aches for your family! There is not a stage called closure! My husband passed suddenly at 31. Raised my 9 and 11year old myself! I know heartbreak and grief ! ❤️🙏
@nopeyadayadayada1248
@nopeyadayadayada1248 20 күн бұрын
This grabbed my heart. I feel such sympathy for the mother as even though it is not her fault in any way, shape or form...she will be haunted with thoughts of; if only I hadn't done this or that we would still have Bubba. Mam, may I say that you are innocent of any responsibility in this...any at all. I hope the animal that did this got put down. Rip little man Bubba.
@angypangy8513
@angypangy8513 23 күн бұрын
He sure was a special young boy❤he sure was loved by so many🫶🏼Blessings Today and always 🕊️🙏🏼
@nuwon8154
@nuwon8154 28 күн бұрын
Why didn't the other brother not speak on here? Is he doing okay? I'm sure he was severely hurt that day as well. Sometimes the worst wounds sit right inside where nobody can see for years.❤❤❤
@micheledenardo2497
@micheledenardo2497 24 күн бұрын
Such a beautiful family and such a heartbreaking story. So sorry for your loss.
@OceanHidAway
@OceanHidAway Ай бұрын
Stay strong Bigelow family. Your presentation is quite an honor to your son. From Andrew Jones and our entire family!
@eweiner14
@eweiner14 20 күн бұрын
This was absolutely heartbreaking. I'm wondering how Cooper fared after the shooting and how he's doing now.
@wolfqueen6391
@wolfqueen6391 21 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing your son's story 🙏 He is a beautiful soul ❤️
@cathmoore2511
@cathmoore2511 23 күн бұрын
Much love to your family. Bubba would be proud of you all. From Australia
@oceanchaser
@oceanchaser 21 күн бұрын
A very beautiful tribute to a wonderful young man. may this young boy spirit live on forever RIP Vaughn .
@lisasteimer5860
@lisasteimer5860 Ай бұрын
My God lay his healing arms upon this family.
@2manyjules
@2manyjules 26 күн бұрын
Your documentary made me cry and Asa made me laugh out loud with his toiletpaperjoke.
@Misslynndance
@Misslynndance 14 күн бұрын
Calling myself out here…this has reminded me I need to chill the F out when driving and have more patience. Ty. ❤️
@NovemberRain007
@NovemberRain007 27 күн бұрын
What a beautiful boy… he should be here🥺💔
@geecee1288
@geecee1288 15 күн бұрын
Terribly sad. I’m so sorry this happened to Vaughn and your family
@garvy12345
@garvy12345 Ай бұрын
Seeing this story and hearing about your sweet boy has touched my life! I will say a prayer for him and your family!
@mariaparsons7680
@mariaparsons7680 Ай бұрын
So so very sad. I’m a mum who has also lost a child so know some of your pain. May God give you strength and peace. Sending you love and hugs xxxxxxxxx❤️💞❤️
@maryreynolds5310
@maryreynolds5310 27 күн бұрын
God, comfort this family…remind them often they will all be together again one day. ❤
@kirstenwright3755
@kirstenwright3755 Ай бұрын
Thank goodness I live in a country that has very strict gun laws. Senseless America
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