What EVERY MAN Should KNOW About His WOMAN|Shaykh Abdus-Salam As-Shuway'ir

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What EVERY MAN Should KNOW About His WOMAN|Shaykh Abdus-Salam As-Shuway'ir

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Shaykh Abdus-Salam As-Shuway'ir gives some invaluable advice on marriage based on the hadeeth of the Prophet ﷺ
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@abdulwadood.8 Жыл бұрын

The ulema say so little words, but it’s such a powerful statement. People make hours and hours long series trying to give “marriage advice” just for their videos to be of no benefit, sometimes couples facing issues will consult a councillor or something, pay them a lot of money waste their time talking to them, just to get no results and end up getting divorced. But this shaykhs 2 minute clip has such a powerful message, حفظه الله Islam has the solution for all our issues but when will we take all our affairs back to the Quran and Sunnah? This advice could save marriages by the will of Allah ‎تبارك وتعالى

@ibrahimcoly292 Жыл бұрын

Definitely brother as the prophet (Saw) said i was set with concise speech

@mohammadiaa 6 ай бұрын

And here there are marriage documentaries/discussions from laymen who bring uncovered women on their platform

@IamFabianMartinez 4 ай бұрын

So true what you mentioned @abdulwadood.8

@justyoutube8472 3 ай бұрын

@BestNameInTheWholeWorld 3 ай бұрын

Exactly alhamdulillah thats why as muslims we should invest our most time in researching quran and sunnah and lives of sahaba to find the truth and knowledge so that we end up with the marriage our prophet is talking about a paradise in this world

@ibnyasin Жыл бұрын

With ever rising divorce rates among Muslims, this is excellent advice. The youth need to hear this.

@herbalistathari Жыл бұрын

Even if they would hear this, their to busy on social media waisting time and busying themselves with the latest phones and apps. May Allah rectify us and them.

@AkhtarKhan-sb9ln Жыл бұрын

You are wrong brother... The divorce rate is actually very low in Muslims.

@ibnyasin Жыл бұрын

@@AkhtarKhan-sb9ln I’m talking about Muslims living in Western countries.

@MonkeyDluffy-mu3bw Жыл бұрын

In the uk it is especially very high

@m.mprince9929 4 ай бұрын

@@ibnyasinbut your statement is in general and this will mislead many. Think before say anything, fear ALLAAH every thing is recorded, don't spread wrong negative things.

@yu-a9596 4 ай бұрын

I hope the algorithm sends this to my husband front page

@hsh0922 4 ай бұрын

Save the video in watch later in his phone , it will be recommended on his home page after sometime.

@yu-a9596 3 ай бұрын

@@hsh0922 thank you 😂

@lz618 3 ай бұрын

You funny woman

@hsh0922 3 ай бұрын

@@yu-a9596 let me know if it worked.

@kjy05 3 ай бұрын

Be direct and show this to him. No playing around and complicated games.

@fung4310 4 ай бұрын

Compassionate good advice. May Allah grant every wife a husband like this ameen.

@nigorasattorova2080 4 ай бұрын

Aameen

@EE-kt8sh 3 ай бұрын

And vice versa? No dua for that? As if women are perfect 😂

@mayg7415 2 ай бұрын

Correction every good woman

@مسكين1 2 ай бұрын

@EE-kt8sh akhi from the previous comments of this sister we can tell she's in jahilyyah May Allah protect us all.

@user-vf2bi6no7u 3 ай бұрын

Many in the comments had fallacies. They did not understand what the Sheikh meant by ignoring and overlooking mistakes. The intention is to overlook the annoying things in ordinary life matters, such as neglecting household duties and children, improving food, forgetting tasks, and so on. The most important misfortunes that should not be overlooked are matters of religion, whether the husband or the wife. Here, the couple must advise each other and enjoin what is right and forbid what is wrong using all gentle methods first, then escalate the pressure, as is Islamically permissible. You have to understand the difference between religious and worldly matters. Allah Knows best.

@mshamun7514 2 ай бұрын

Neglecting Children and household duties are NOT minor issues!

@a.conandoyle Ай бұрын

@@mshamun7514 household duties is cleanliness. Its fine. If she does not clean the whole house every day. Children clinging on to you that you cant even poop or pee, makes it difficult to maintain house. But upbringing of children cannot be neglected.

@AlamBarzakh99 4 ай бұрын

The perfect example of the Ayah for the prophet ﷺ, ‏وما ارسلناك إلا رحمة للعالمين And We have not sent you, [O Muhammad], except as a mercy to the worlds

@zora1252 Жыл бұрын

Alhamdullilah may Allah bless you for speaking the truth. Allah is great and fair ameen

@TreasuresofKnowledge Жыл бұрын

آمين

@user-ku5kr9rk7p Жыл бұрын

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) often used to say when bowing and prostrating: “Subhaanaka Allaahumma Rabbana wa bihamdika Allaahumma ighfir li (Glory and praise be to you O Allah, our Lord, O Allaah forgive me).” Narrated by al-Bukhaari and Muslim

@sheiky6784 Жыл бұрын

@Ak dont forget to finish your sentence- may Allah reward you with ....? (Khayr)

@AkhtarKhan-sb9ln Жыл бұрын

@@sheiky6784 khair

@AkhtarKhan-sb9ln Жыл бұрын

Khairan Kaseera..

@user-tp7yt5py9h 4 ай бұрын

May Allah the almighty guide and protect Sh.Abdul Sallam ibn Muhammad Suwair and grant him long life with good health full of blessings and wisdom and grant him children who will be the coolness of his eyes and more knowledge than him.

@scave8893 Жыл бұрын

may allah bless shiek abdus salam as shuway’ri

@Reza.El-Fatih 3 ай бұрын

Jzkl Syukran bro. Was looking for his name

@purplelove3666 3 ай бұрын

Allah*

@lexicallycorrect 4 ай бұрын

Very profound statement of the messenger of Allah sallallahu alaihi wa sallam, because NO woman is perfect. And the ones judging them are also not perfect. So stick to their Deen.

@TheMsSomalia Жыл бұрын

Truly by Allah I love this sheik. The calm elegance of knowledge is to evident madhallah. Unlike sim of these crazy brothers whom want to spilt the umm by being vile in their delivery. May Allah bless our beloved sheik and ulamah

@hasna8098 6 ай бұрын

May Allah preserve the scholars.

@anonymousalig6816 11 ай бұрын

jazakallahu Khairan Kaseera Shaikh

@Aminah_1383 2 ай бұрын

Only if men understood this hadith😊 everyone woman would feel secure, confident and give her 100%

@xxxaaa12 Жыл бұрын

جزاكم اللَّٰه خيرًا

@TreasuresofKnowledge Жыл бұрын

وإياك

@terrancetilghman863 3 ай бұрын

Barakallaahu feek

@JoaquimGonsalves 3 ай бұрын

This is so sublime and yet so all encompassing!

@josepplanaspenalver1214 Жыл бұрын

Wallahi amazing advice ma sha allah allahuma barik this is the needed in the unmah and gor me also

@timepaas6647 Жыл бұрын

This was beautiful. Jameelun

@amnaoverhere 3 ай бұрын

جزاك الله خيرا شيخ حفظه الله

@zemzembank-ethiopia6511 3 ай бұрын

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم اللهم صل وسلم على نبينا محمد

@saral9817 Жыл бұрын

JazakumAllahu khairan

@ee-wp7vq Жыл бұрын

JazakAllahu Khayran for posting these videos, do you translate them yourself?

@moalima699 3 ай бұрын

Very beautiful and indeed powerful 🎉❤❤

@asdfghlkjh100 Жыл бұрын

JazaakALLAAHukhair

@a-rare-jem7447 4 ай бұрын

بارك الله فيكم وجزاكم الله خيرا

@Reza.El-Fatih 3 ай бұрын

Subhanallahiladhim!

@moinuddinahmed5783 Жыл бұрын

Jazakallu khair

@TreasuresofKnowledge Жыл бұрын

و إياك

@jonathancharles3719 Жыл бұрын

A women that can give u peace

@purplelove3666 3 ай бұрын

Stick to the video Jona, I know you have some sense of comprehension

@hamidsayeed9477 3 ай бұрын

Masha Allah

@az9324 Жыл бұрын

Jazakallah

@quran_messages Жыл бұрын

✍ Short Quran messages [Arabic-English] نشر آيات الله بصوت خاشع مع الترجمة ♥ شاركونا يا شباب محتوى هادف

@az9324 Жыл бұрын

MASHALLAH

@mariar3933 Ай бұрын

I want from whose Deen Allah is happy with

@SCALENE5 Жыл бұрын

I wish I understood this better

@ImRan_Ma1ik Жыл бұрын

Keep improving and watch again few months later you'll understand better

@hrizhs2578 Жыл бұрын

Just in case you didn’t understand what was being said in the video take a look at this. If you meant something else please excuse this reply. "A believer must not hate a believing woman; if he dislikes one of her characteristics, he will be pleased with another.” [Muslim (1469)] People of knowledge say, the people in application of this Hadith are three groups. Two went to extremes and were mistaken. One group took the middle path and excelled. 1. A man who only looks at the bad characteristics. So, whoever [only] looks at the faults and neglects the good, then indeed that man will never enjoy a marriage and his life will never settle. Rather his whole life is in misery. That is, if it were to continue upon that and not split. 2. The other group who were mistaken regarding this hadeeth is the one who weighs up the good and bad characteristics and he is wrong, but in reality, he is not completely wrong. Indeed. he is closer to that which is correct than the previous group. So, this man when he weighs up between the woman's good characteristics and bad characteristics he then deals with her in a just manner and this is not good. 3. As for the complete manner, it is he who looks at the good characteristics of his wife and he looks at those complete characteristics that she has and praises her and overlooks the rest. So, he is the most complete of the three.

@SCALENE5 Жыл бұрын

@@hrizhs2578 thank you for taking the effort to reply. I suppose i am confused with the wisdom of the 3rd being better than the 2nd. I need more clarification on that to understand it better.

@cyr.can.yourelate Жыл бұрын

@@SCALENE5 in summary no 2 is good but the husband is deficient as he looks at pros and cons and no3 regardless of the cons he overlooks them and care more towards her and also looks at his wife in a positive light. who ever strive this way will always think good of each other and you'll have a happy marriage by the permission of Allah. Allah knows best . in sha Allah that helps clarify

@a.conandoyle Жыл бұрын

May Allah guide muslim brothers and sisters. Often online muslim sisters have fallen pray to kufr of feminism, where they deem themselves perfect and dont take responsibility of their own actions, and blame every living muslim man on earth, and some even go to the extent of saying non-muslim men are better than muslim men in dealing with spouses. Even though how can a kafir be better than a mu'min? How can a person who commits the greatest of sins be better than the one who believes in Allah and does not do shirk? And in dealing with spouses, most non-muslim men are adulterers who have slept with so many non-muslim women, and prostitutes, and even they fornicate over and over again during their so called marriage. How can such a man be better than a chaste muslim brother? Not just that, there is also a growing phenomenon of muslim brothers trashing and hating MUSLIM women. Speaking to and referring to them disgracefully, as if they are their slaves or something. And even go to the extent of choosing a kafir spouse from ahlul kitaab- a woman who has fornicated with 10s-50s and now a days to even a 100 men and say "oh we love her". No you dont love her, her nudity was the thing that attracted you to her. And these brothers leave muslim women, who are beloved slaves of Allah, to fall into fitnah. May Allah guide muslims.

@sheiky6784 Жыл бұрын

gentle reminders, make dua for the brothers and sisters that fall into that trap but most of all , to seek and gain knowledge and remove the ignorance ourselves and others after.

@E.Cerulean 8 ай бұрын

Feminism and Red-pill, two sides of the same coin. Allahul Musta'an

@nuhmanhanif288 8 ай бұрын

@@E.Ceruleanhow explain

@purplelove3666 3 ай бұрын

@@E.Ceruleanit's not the same coin, feminism theory emerged as early as 1794 ,wo.en didn't get the right to vote till 1919 when it was passed by congress, redpill is new, and it came about because those men thought they were entitled to women,

@noonwraith401 3 ай бұрын

Red pill is not even close to feminism.Feminism is state funded.Red pill is a very small group.Its. a direct response to feminism.@@E.Cerulean

@abdulahabdulah7979 4 ай бұрын

Does that mean you should let everything pass? where are the limits of tolerance? that must also be detailed by the scholars.

@user-vf2bi6no7u 3 ай бұрын

what do you mean by everything?

@purplelove3666 3 ай бұрын

Don't get married,isn't that what some men or a lot want women to do? To tolerate?

@user-vf2bi6no7u 3 ай бұрын

The intention is to overlook the annoying things in ordinary life matters, such as neglecting household duties and children, improving food, forgetting tasks, and so on. The most important misfortunes that should not be overlooked are matters of religion, whether the husband or the wife. You have to understand the difference.

@yayaking218 16 күн бұрын

But perfection "El kamal" is only to God, how is the third part even possible? I say the second is best, as the hadith says: The best of things is in the middle "Khayro el omori aw'satoha".

@belalhossain6969 Жыл бұрын

Look for a wife who shall give you serenity

@human7491 Жыл бұрын

Serenity happens to happen when your relation with Allah is good.

@fahmeidahaffejee9004 Жыл бұрын

@@human7491 SubhanAllah!

@Musafeer360 2 ай бұрын

To apply this hadith... First she has to be a BELIEVER. this is the issue here.

@StrongerBeliever 3 ай бұрын

No man is capable of overlooking every fault of a person and only seeing the good. Even the Prophet (sal Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa salam) advised his wives when they went wrong... Either this advice from this scholar, or the translation, is wrong. There is more to a relationship than the words shared by this scholar.

@shrutihobi6439 2 ай бұрын

❤❤❤

@bushran2022 Жыл бұрын

Who is the Quran reciter at the beginning?

@nb8548 Жыл бұрын

الحصري

@humanaccount2754 Жыл бұрын

husary

@humanaccount2754 Жыл бұрын

surah Taa Haa طه aayah 114

@AbdAllah_54564 4 ай бұрын

All a man needs is a woman who obeys Allah truly (and not just post deen aesthetics on SM) and fears Him, and she doesn't nags or slander. We have to go through the grind to settle down and marry for our peace of mind. Unfortunately many sisters have been brainwashed with modern feminism, which is reflected in the increasing divorce rates. May Allah protect us all, Ameen.

@addisachannel169 3 ай бұрын

fears who?

@aishaahmed7199 Жыл бұрын

I dont inderstand the second type. Can someone explain

@hajirachandlay 9 ай бұрын

He treats her good for her good and he treats her bad for her bad.

@danish_riyaz 4 ай бұрын

♥️♥️♥️

@Fadedfrost1 Жыл бұрын

You can’t sugarcoat and overlook everything Least to say if she has 99 complications in form of toxic traits, negativity etc and just 5 good things, you can’t really be like “Ohh okAy I wILl stiCk To goOd ANd oVerLoOk” otherwise your entire life would be in ruins with your progeny If she has no knowledge of her creator and has no interest in deen it’s a big no no

@mohamedkareem7075 Жыл бұрын

Brother seems like you misunderstood. Firstly, the hadeeth being talked about mentions not to hate a BELIEVING woman and generally the believing woman is not going to be one who doesn't have any knowledge or interest of Allah. Secondly, if there is such a woman as you describe then this is an extreme case which Islam has other ways of dealing with. Allah Knows Best

@sheiky6784 Жыл бұрын

the fact you found and counted up to 99 problem would put you in category 1 and that is the extreme and bad thing to do , therefore the moment you saw one you should have strived to be from the balanced and we Allah to rectify our women folk and forgive them their short comings. We ask Allah to make us better husbands , better role model and make us balanced in the deen and forgive us for we too are in need of his mercy.

@Abdullah-cj2mh Жыл бұрын

@@mohamedkareem7075 This answer cleared up a lot for me. JazakAllah khair.

@xyz-v8p 3 күн бұрын

There should be a separate platform dedicated to marriage. Marriage is the basic building block of the Ummah. Shaytan respects him the most who is able to cause divorce between man and his wife. So there could be a group of muslims who work to strengthen this institution. Online, if it is more feasible. Educating young and old, new and born muslims about husn-al-zann, overllooking mistakes, prophetic ways, rights and responsibilities of man and his wife over one another, intimacy, masculinity, feminity, and everything which would strengthen a marriage

@havetrustissue8975 6 ай бұрын

Little confusion - Should also overlooked all the bad characteristics even if it's possible to correct oneself and avoid many difficulties? Isn't it sunnah to correct one another? And what kind of bad characteristics one should overlook?

@pubcollize 4 ай бұрын

I don't see the contradiction

@AbdAllah_54564 4 ай бұрын

Buddy if you keep praising her, she'll get bored. Women don't care about compliments alone. Sometimes you gotta put your boundaries up as a man.@@pubcollize

@purplelove3666 3 ай бұрын

@@AbdAllah_54564even women have to put their foot down and have boundaries

@AbdAllah_54564 3 ай бұрын

@@purplelove3666 sure tell that to your hubby, not some stranger on the internet.

@omarmohammad220 Күн бұрын

Women foot are nothing, the men are the head of the house and he must be obeyed not the other way around

@wblebon 4 ай бұрын

The problem do believing woman think like thats as both are not perfect as men are the providers and protectors of the family

@mev935 3 ай бұрын

@staystill7593 7 ай бұрын

Overlooking every mistake of your wife will give her the green light so she will continue with behaviour that you are not satisfied with. Similar is with the kids. You let them do some things and they will come up with the worse ones later on. It has nothing to do with the believing women. If you don't remark many mistaked that she is doing, she will take it as a good thing and keep doing more and more, and thats where the most interesting part comes: you tell her about it, but you have the counter attack from her side as she dont recognize them as mistakes because you overlooked many things before.

@Lina.acx_ 6 ай бұрын

I dont think he was referring to a woman making mistakes or behaving badly, he was talking about the general characteristics of a person that is a part of their nature and cannot be changed, for example a woman may be too talkative or short tempered. Of course if a wife’s behaviour is not appropriate or she makes a genuine mistake then she should be told kindly.

@sullt766 6 ай бұрын

I'm not married but didn't The prophet Sallalahualayhiwassalam say the woman is like a bent rib and if you try to straighten it it will break and if you leave it, it will remain bent?

@sullt766 6 ай бұрын

So basically saying enjoy your wife for how she is and do not try to straighten her too much

@user-bk9xs3hy7y 3 ай бұрын

Unfortunately not this generation trust me I gave up from men wallah.

@machinegunkely4417 3 ай бұрын

This is why taqleed is dangerous

@user-si3et2ig9x 3 ай бұрын

No comment

@mdkhan3928 6 ай бұрын

Easier said than done.😏🤷👌👍

@islamicbeliever1179 8 ай бұрын

There is much philosophy into this, Islamic philosophy is what it’s called, and we like it ❤

@E.Cerulean 8 ай бұрын

It's not philosophy, it did not come out of his head, it is the words of the Prophet sallallahu 'aleyhi wasalam, inspired by Allah ! It's revelation, may Allah make it easy for us to submit to it and not to our emotions, aameen

@BriariusTitan 3 ай бұрын

@yeahboy7899 Ай бұрын

CLICKBAIT

@sirajkhan5343 3 ай бұрын

In these mordern times this advice will not work infact the woman tend to increase their drama

@purplelove3666 3 ай бұрын

Ok,leave them alone, no one is forcing you

@Coldheartedscarz-kw1um 3 ай бұрын

Completely Disagree n if We Outweigh her Good n Bad, U say We treat her ina Just manner n its not Good' its Very Good as women Only respect a Balance Of Reward n punishment'🤘🏾🖤❄️💯