Trick Your Ex Into Taking You Back (9 Sneaky Mind Games!)

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Brad Browning

Brad Browning

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Trick Your Ex Into Taking You Back (9 Sneaky Mind Games!)
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In this video, you’re going to learn 9 sneaky tricks that will make your ex come back to you. So if you’re cool with employing little mind games on your ex to make him or her yearn for your love and attention again, then do not go ANYWHERE… because in the next few minutes, you’re going to learn EXACTLY what to do to make this a reality.
‘Sup, KZfaq? My name is Brad Browning. I’m KZfaq’s #1 breakup and marriage expert… and I’ve been teaching men and women around the world how to mend their broken relationships for over 10 years. And I’ve been pretty good at it. In fact, I’ve written two best-selling programs on those very topics. One of them is a complete, simple, step-by-step guide on getting your ex back. So if you’re interested in a comprehensive guide to getting your ex to come crawling back to you, no matter what you think you did wrong, then head on over to BreakupBrad.com/buy to pick it up today.
Okay, so in this video I’m going to cover the top 9 psychological tactics to make your ex wish that they never broke up with you. It’s taken me years and years of research to actually come up with a solid list like this, so PAY ATTENTION because this might be one of the most important videos that you’ll ever watch on this topic.
So let’s just jump right into it!
“Sneaky” tip number one… use the law of pre-selection to your advantage.
Have you ever heard of pre-selection? I’ve talked about this concept a few times in some older videos, but it’s an important psychological trick that you should be employing as soon as possible. And make a mental note, because this works even if you’re single and you’re looking for a potential partner… so in the event that you don’t want your ex back, keep this tip in the back of your mind.
Okay, sneaky tactic number 2… cause massive amounts of “FOMO” inside your ex’s mind.
Ever heard of FOMO? It’s an acronym for “Fear of Missing Out”. And it’s a pretty powerful psychological phenomenon in this day and age. Ever see pictures on your friend’s Instagram of an amazing party or crazy travelling adventure? Ever get that feeling that you just NEED to join them? The next time they ask you out for an adventure, chances are you’re going to say yes because you’ll have a “Fear of Missing Out” on the experience!
Alright, sneaky tip #3… use jealousy to your advantage!
I know, this one is a bit manipulative, but using jealousy is one of the most effective ways to get your ex back. In my program, The Ex Factor Guide, I share dozens of jealousy-inducing tips that are guaranteed to make your ex want to come crawling back to you in no time. But today, I’m only going to cover one ESPECIALLY useful tactic… and I call it the “Jealousy Text”.
Now, before you send this text, I have to warn you that you can’t simply send this text out of the blue and expect it to work. There is a certain time and place that’s appropriate to send this text… and if you send this text at the WRONG time, you could be sabotaging your chances of getting back together with them. If you’ve been watching my videos here on KZfaq, then you know that the No Contact rule is extremely important…
Sneaky tip #5… use “reverse psychology” on your ex.
So for example, you could say something to your ex along the lines of…
“You know what, I think it’s good that we broke up… I think we really needed this time apart.”
Sneaky tip #6 - refuse your ex sometimes and learn to say no.
Again, for this to work, you need to be on talking-terms with your ex. For more on how to get to that stage, subscribe to my channel and be sure to watch all the other videos on how to open the lines of communication with him or her.
Which brings me to my next sneaky, psychological trick…
Number 8… always appear positive and happy.
The WORST thing someone can do after a breakup is to start moping and crying in front of everyone they know… and it’s especially annoying if they talk about it on social media. Don’t be one of those people. Not only is it incredibly annoying to people, but it’s also incredibly unattractive to your ex!
And finally, sneaky psychological tip #9… take my free quiz tool on my website.
So if you’re curious about what that quiz might say about YOUR current situation, just head on over to BreakupBrad.com/quiz and take that free quiz.
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Пікірлер: 990
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Folks, I made some error in the numbers. There's only 8 tips all in all. Thanks for watching nevertheless. Your support means a lot to me!
@elleryburnette
@elleryburnette 2 жыл бұрын
My ex broke up with me few months ago due to mental illness bipolar depression we had plans moving in we were good a few months ago she got in trouble with the state so she’s in a pysch ward right now until she told me almost to the end of the year their holding her in there it’s because she has 3 kids her moms has them right now I feel she needs a break from reality reasons why she not talking to me right now Only move I can make right now is get her a house and a car by the time she’s out to show her how serious I am about her situation she’s need away from her family she lives it cause it’s nothing but hell for her over there so I’m changing my ways right now as well and getting her a vacation by da time she’s just not gonna tell her right now until progress has proven
@Tanmay.s689
@Tanmay.s689 4 жыл бұрын
Gym actually makes the no contact period easier to deal with 🤷🏻‍♂️
@VaLLenTIN__
@VaLLenTIN__ 4 жыл бұрын
true i am doing it now
@joshhawkins8394
@joshhawkins8394 4 жыл бұрын
VamPire how with corona
@VaLLenTIN__
@VaLLenTIN__ 4 жыл бұрын
@@joshhawkins8394 in Bulgaria ist all okay i dont know about your contry
@joshhawkins8394
@joshhawkins8394 4 жыл бұрын
VamPire here in england we have to stay inside
@VaLLenTIN__
@VaLLenTIN__ 4 жыл бұрын
@@joshhawkins8394 :( thats bad
@MosesEmmet
@MosesEmmet 5 жыл бұрын
You better believe your ex will be checking up on your social media... You better make it look good, nice tips Brad!
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 жыл бұрын
Exactly! I'm glad someone here gets it! :-) Talk about social media, here's to help you further if you want to hone in on that: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/epd3o7VmsqfUgZ8.html
@carldario931
@carldario931 4 жыл бұрын
5months ago I always watching in you tube on how your ex back😞 I want her back on that time.,, Then I meet Jesus❤️now I feel inlove again😁 and now I don’t want my ex back anymore be strong guys God bless you all!
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 4 жыл бұрын
As what I always say, the decision to get an ex back is totally up to you. Over time, you know your ex's true worth to you as well as the value of your relationship. So only you can decide whether this is someone you want to go back to or not. All the best!
@craigjames4343
@craigjames4343 4 жыл бұрын
Jesus is my ex! You can have him.
@landon613
@landon613 4 жыл бұрын
Craig James I’ll take em
@craigjames4343
@craigjames4343 4 жыл бұрын
@@landon613 make sure you use protection! He's been about a bit 😒
@IAmAwesomeSoAreYou
@IAmAwesomeSoAreYou 4 жыл бұрын
carl dario LOL
@flaigus
@flaigus 5 жыл бұрын
If you’re having to trick your ex to get back with you then why on earth do you want to be with them? I had my heart broke a few months ago and thought about all the ways I could get her back and all the ways I could trick her, I then realised I want someone to want me for who I am not because I had to fake myself up. Listen guys I know it’s hard right now but move on, get on with your life be yourself and enjoy it, you’ll meet someone new and be truly happy... trust me 😉.
@TRUCKSAJ
@TRUCKSAJ 5 жыл бұрын
You clearly just gave up way too early...
@flaigus
@flaigus 5 жыл бұрын
TRUCKSAJ nope. With someone else and very happy
@mahjabinrahman1435
@mahjabinrahman1435 5 жыл бұрын
I tried to move on but couldn’t and still want him back
@flaigus
@flaigus 5 жыл бұрын
Mahjabin rahman how long has it been?
@mahjabinrahman1435
@mahjabinrahman1435 5 жыл бұрын
@@flaigus it has been 5months and still I'm not over him
@Pink_Cactus_
@Pink_Cactus_ 5 жыл бұрын
If my ex asked me about a name of restaurant we went to, to take a friend there. I’d block his number!
@edyacheraii4279
@edyacheraii4279 5 жыл бұрын
Missy Silva he’ll probably say that hoping you do that you don’t reach out to him again lol
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 жыл бұрын
Talk about being bitter? :/
@solcutta3661
@solcutta3661 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly... And listen to this guy saying talk about being bitter.. He really doesn't get women and I'm guessing the guys he's given advice to have just been fortunate and would got them back regardless of this terrible advice. Most breakups get back together one or two times... So no great thing there.. Haha true tho if a bloke rang his ex to say about taking date blah blah how could he not think this will never work.. What u would do is what any woman with self respect would do unless they like 15.. Lol. He taking someone to restaurant... He fucking got over me quick.. He go spin... {number blocked and forever remembered as a precocious dick lol}
@solcutta3661
@solcutta3661 4 жыл бұрын
If u want ur ex back... 30 days later is a long long time for not bothering, cos that's how its looked upon.. A woman who broke up with a bloke doesn't get more into him when she doesn't see or hear from him.. Bloody hell it's logic... She gets off light and thinks wow that was easy. And when he text or rings 31 days later she thinks wtf u want, uve ignored me a month..piss off. Lol
@tylerw800
@tylerw800 4 жыл бұрын
sol cutta you look like a huge player wheres all your dating videos?😂
@Gibs.j
@Gibs.j 5 жыл бұрын
Doesnt work for everyone healing process takes forever tricking can backfire on you later on just not good be honest to your self love your self first. Let them lay on there bed. Know your worth
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 жыл бұрын
If you haven't healed and still holding on to a deep grudge, this doesn't apply to you indeed. Healing should take first prio!
@pedrolazaropineda8376
@pedrolazaropineda8376 5 жыл бұрын
Tip #6 is true! Don't be a doormat!
@jf9417
@jf9417 2 жыл бұрын
Been watching your videos for a couple of weeks now and I've been finding them very helpful and I hope all your advice is helpful in the end.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Be strong. Take care!
@cyclops2348
@cyclops2348 4 жыл бұрын
This man is the lord of relantionships.He is a Guru so knowledgeable..Respects ! !
@johnmiller-jf3ez
@johnmiller-jf3ez 5 жыл бұрын
Brad,you are so right to take a logical non emotional approach. After a breakup the worst we can do is show our volnurability. Volnurability in and of itself isnt a bad thing,but not in a situation where the intent is to win someone back. Thanks for the wisedom,sir.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
@Hugex97
@Hugex97 2 жыл бұрын
vulnerability*
@favoriteclinton4155
@favoriteclinton4155 2 жыл бұрын
Hello
@hangcai
@hangcai 3 жыл бұрын
Brad, your confidence increase an awful lot also thruout all these years!
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын
I'm camera shy from the start. Can you tell? Definitely trying to overcome it with each video though, thanks for the boost! :-)
@marieanne1989
@marieanne1989 5 жыл бұрын
Tip #8 I did that initially talked about it with everyone till my chest stopped feeling tight and accepting the situation but now I feel much better Thank GOd
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 жыл бұрын
Good on you!
@shaheen9795
@shaheen9795 4 жыл бұрын
Stay blessed bro.U r helping us a lot🙂
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks, man. Likewise! And stay safe! :-)
@alaiaadam5767
@alaiaadam5767 5 жыл бұрын
🌙🌙🌙🌙🌙🌙🌙🌙 Number 1 tip and 5 and 8 Tip 1) Say something to that open mouthed friend intentionally “that guy hit on me etc “ make the story interesting... she/ he will eventually tell this to ur EX 5) reverse psychology “ You know what, I think it’s actually a good thing that we broke up... we really needed this time apart...it has allowed me to focus on my workshop etc “ 8) ALWAYS appear ur happiest and best looking
@SupaFlyBoyZz699
@SupaFlyBoyZz699 5 жыл бұрын
Brad Browning LOOKING sharp today bro.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks, bro!
@mistuhe4778
@mistuhe4778 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Brad, you're giving me hope in getting my woman back... stay bless.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks. Stay strong, man!
@user-rt4hc4kk3z
@user-rt4hc4kk3z 4 жыл бұрын
so did it worke?
@senshi4473
@senshi4473 3 жыл бұрын
I used reversed psychology and now im blocked..
@Diazmig003
@Diazmig003 5 жыл бұрын
Congratulations you just earned yourself a new subscriber I'm impressed by your work I wish I knew about this channel sooner keep up the good work
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the kind words... and welcome to my channel! :-)
@decoyo
@decoyo Жыл бұрын
I been listening to many videos for weeks on end about trying to get my wife back and this one here gave me the most clarity I will be hitting that sub button thank you so much!
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning Жыл бұрын
Thanks! For marriage-related tips, I suggest you give my other channel a visit, too, at: y2u.be/dr2JTi_bCRU
@MrStano-jy3ts
@MrStano-jy3ts 4 жыл бұрын
I blew it Brad! Daaamm I showed emotions and damn it she is cold turkey🤦🏻‍♂️ I'm sooooo 😔🤦🏻‍♂️ I need to LISTEN to You!
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, you do! Watch this first: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/oM-bipeKvqmdqaM.html So it's it's best you go by the golden rules here as much as possible: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/Z9F6ZNyT2qyteHk.html Now I can't assess the damage per se, and it may or may not be too late, but it’s definitely time to move forward from whatever mistakes you've made and not repeat those! Don’t be so hard on yourself, though, since this is a fairly common issue and most people are guilty of this at some point. If you'd really want to gauge your chances of getting back together (it may not be all doom and gloom after all) I suggest you take the free quiz on my website and answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
@MrGrimsday
@MrGrimsday 5 жыл бұрын
Tip number 10: don't get back with your ex you can always do better
@jonesfredrick94
@jonesfredrick94 4 жыл бұрын
Im trying but it's tough and she's a narcissist show no emotions or concerns I feel like I got dropped off and forgot about
@LibertarianGuy823
@LibertarianGuy823 4 жыл бұрын
Easier said than done
@IAmAwesomeSoAreYou
@IAmAwesomeSoAreYou 4 жыл бұрын
Grimsday * no
@riteshkumarsah7828
@riteshkumarsah7828 2 жыл бұрын
@@jonesfredrick94 narcissist 😂it's a myth bro in this world everyone is narcissist trust me🤞🏻💙
@willankhatter
@willankhatter Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 dope
@efehunerlii
@efehunerlii 3 жыл бұрын
I'm wishing you best of lucks my friends. May the force be with you.
@eso8171
@eso8171 Жыл бұрын
These tips are great but not for anyone else than yourself. This is the type of life we should maintain anyway. The right person will stick around and put the effort into a relationship that you deserve.
@rj9487
@rj9487 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks @Brad, Your advises helped me a lot.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 жыл бұрын
You're welcome! Hey, you never know who else can benefit, so if it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it! 🙂
@h.s.4795
@h.s.4795 5 жыл бұрын
I have a date with my ex on Valentine, after a 7 month uphill battle! Update: No sparkle in her. I run for the hills now.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 жыл бұрын
Like I always say, exes and Valentine's Day never go well together. Celebrating it with her is just too "out there" when you're supposed to be subtle, man.
@DominicCruz
@DominicCruz 5 жыл бұрын
Now you can see the real picture.
@SrtaErin
@SrtaErin 2 жыл бұрын
You are really a good and quality person ☺️☺️ thanks a lot for your videos and personal advices🌼🌻🌷🌷 God bless You ✨
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Glad you found it helpful! Thanks for the support… please like and subscribe if you haven’t already: kzfaq.info”
@s1d333
@s1d333 2 жыл бұрын
I just had a break up tonight and it kills me from inside. I guess she would never know how much I love her. It's hard to want to live. I just wish she will be back in my life. Such a loser I am to type all these in comments but I just couldn't keep it in me anymore. Anyone who made this far, I wish you all the best in your life. Give a pray for me. Amen!
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Don't feel sorry you're heartbroken. It likely only means you've truly loved someone but just happened to get your heart broken. We all go through it at one or more points in our life, at least most of us anyway, and I'm no exception to it in my younger years! Just be strong and know that you aren't alone, yeah? Take care!
@s1d333
@s1d333 2 жыл бұрын
@@BradBrowning Hey thanks Brad. Yeah, it's kinda killing at times but let's see what future holds. Loving your videos.
@christopherbullens5494
@christopherbullens5494 4 жыл бұрын
Brad I used one of your recommended ideas (I think The break up needed to happen.thanks for being there for me. All the best. ). And I received this text She replied. I wish you and your new partner all the best what do I do
@boulderpunch96
@boulderpunch96 4 жыл бұрын
Best video by far.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 4 жыл бұрын
I appreciate the support. If it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t done so yet, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it, too! :-)
@yashiluniya2386
@yashiluniya2386 3 жыл бұрын
This is so unbelievable ... I also did not have to wait for the no contact period ... He called me and we are back together 😊
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын
Great!
@jackiemaisie8764
@jackiemaisie8764 4 жыл бұрын
I wish I could create fomo in his mind, but he blocked me on everything so I guess he's already missing out on the awesomeness 😂
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 4 жыл бұрын
lol yeah!
@tamaraertl3907
@tamaraertl3907 4 жыл бұрын
What if I am afraid to act like I´m living my best life because he may think that the break up was right and that I´m better off without him?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 4 жыл бұрын
Your best bet is still to cut off contact completely for around a month or even more in order to clear your heads. You'd increase your chances of getting your ex back if you've got your sh*t together than if you were doing the opposite of the no contact rule which is begging/pleading or negotiating/trying to woo your ex again. Well, there are a few rare who take their exes back if you beg/plead but it hardly ever lasts since these people are taking their exes back out of pity. So my point is, don't let your ex take you back out of pity, all right? The best way to avoid that is to work on yourself and get your life together by having fun, hobbies, etc. and to stop chasing your ex. I've made numerous videos about the "no contact" rule and why it's important. Check those out. Also watch the stories here and try not to be a statistic: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/Z7uPfLKendXKdqM.html
@PeoplesPadre
@PeoplesPadre 5 жыл бұрын
You have great advice and you are a real blessing, thank you!
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 4 жыл бұрын
Hey thanks! I appreciate the support. If it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t done so yet, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it, too! :-)
@rcorser1
@rcorser1 3 жыл бұрын
11:20 comment is awesome!! Thanks for all the amazing/helpful advice!!
@elysiam2907
@elysiam2907 2 жыл бұрын
Summarise- live your best life, focusing yourself, - fake it till you make it🤩👍🏼
@rooseveltlittle9060
@rooseveltlittle9060 5 жыл бұрын
I just curious but I never could see myself going back to an ex gf but for all those that do gud luck to all of ya
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 жыл бұрын
Like I always say, that's completely up to you, man.
@bickdig69
@bickdig69 5 жыл бұрын
Hello Brad. I used to watch most of your videos. I got back with my gf for one and a half year ago. When I broke up, I found your channel and fix things that I did wrong (like begging). I ended up movin on, your method made me move on. But somehow I managed to get back. But I believe, if I didn't ur use ur method, I might not be getting back now. Once again, thanks Brad. Hope you read my text, ur subs used to be 30k tho lol
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing, Eric. Wonderful story! Yes, I started wit 200 subs lol!
@bickdig69
@bickdig69 5 жыл бұрын
@@BradBrowning Yes ur method is a win win solution. Either movin on or makin our ex thinkin about getting back. Thanks for the video brad.
@RISEN_AF
@RISEN_AF 5 жыл бұрын
Great advice Brad. What is best to do if your ex blocked you on social media as part of the break up,. So no contact but with social media closed off.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks! This is a common issue which many people face, so I suggest you watch this vid coz I covered that here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/i9mgfMSjqL3PZYE.html Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication. More about that on here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/a7uEbJV6p5vZl6c.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/l8t3gbNzydbSo30.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : kzfaq.info/get/bejne/epd3o7VmsqfUgZ8.html Good luck!
@SothasilX1
@SothasilX1 5 жыл бұрын
Hey brad, do you have your audio book out yet? Because it’s hard for me to read stuff and keep it in my head
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 жыл бұрын
Audiobooks are included as part of the package of the Ex Factor Guide. Here: www.breakupbrad.com
@srishtiagarwal4327
@srishtiagarwal4327 5 жыл бұрын
How long should an ideal “No contact period” last? Mine lasted for 2 years and now my ex is again calling me and trying to be close to me again emotionally and physically but also saying that he is not seeking any future with me or anyone. He is always the one to initiate calls or texts
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 жыл бұрын
It depends. If you're lazy, the answer is never. One thing that most people don't realize is that they hold the key. Have you been actively trying to get your ex back? Don’t wait for this person to have an epiphany. If you want your ex back, then keep track of what you've been doing to see if it's productive or not. Here's a quick overview: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/rs2CY5aDyLucnas.html and it's best to go by the golden rules here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/Z9F6ZNyT2qyteHk.html Have you checked out my guide yet? It may be time to revamp your techniques. Before anything else though, take the free quiz on my website to gauge your chances of getting your ex back.
@ksqin8061
@ksqin8061 3 жыл бұрын
He would love me moving on, as he’s with the girl who meddled our relationship. He now sees me as an evil witch who blocks their “true love” and the only reason they argue.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry, but chances are your beau has been at least emotionally cheating on you. Discussed that in depth here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA There's no easy way to say this but the answer is is to move on, especially if your ex doesn't seem to be regretting their actions and asking to get back together. Most of the time, a lot of people would move on, but a few would still fight for the relationship, so this all depends which side you're on and what your views are. But take into consideration about what I’ve mentioned here, too: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/o5hnh6-W3rvRp5s.html There is no right or wrong answer here because it is your relationship and it's personal to you. Make sense? Anyway men and women cheat for different reasons, but if you think your ex is worth it and if there's been a genuine connection between you two before the cheating happened, then try to see the roles that you BOTH played that led to all this mess and see once and for all if it can be resolved or not, okay? Really take your time before deciding though and be sure not to make any hasty decisions from an emotional place. Take care!
@johnsonjohn9663
@johnsonjohn9663 3 жыл бұрын
Hello help
@johnsonjohn9663
@johnsonjohn9663 3 жыл бұрын
Get your
@johnsonjohn9663
@johnsonjohn9663 3 жыл бұрын
Ex back
@johnsonjohn9663
@johnsonjohn9663 3 жыл бұрын
Wat sap.
@voni4875
@voni4875 Жыл бұрын
Luved this video, all of it makes senses
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning Жыл бұрын
Hey thanks for dropping by!
@matthewnewman9539
@matthewnewman9539 4 жыл бұрын
It all make sense, I wish I saw this vid sooner 🤣
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@TheMissAlira
@TheMissAlira 4 жыл бұрын
#1 preselection #2 cause Fomo in his mind (social media) #3 use jealousy as advantage ( text message) #4 self improvement (hit a gym) #5 reverse psychology (show them you moved on, break up is good) #6 learn how to say no to him. #7 Did he miss number 7? #8 Always appear positive and happy #9 free quiz on site
@CosynE4
@CosynE4 5 жыл бұрын
Hi Brad, My ex and myself are currently going through a divorce but I have realized that this is mistake and I want to work things out with her. I have told her this and she is open to the idea of working it out but needs some time to figure out herself and see if she wants to work it out. We have a lot of history. Together 11 years and married for 6 and have a 2 year old daughter. After a few days of basically spilling my heart to her (which I know is a mistake) she is still standing firm about taking some time to figure all of this out which I totally respect and understand. I need to do the same for myself as well. We are on good terms and even had dinner with our daughter at a restaurant and are planning to take her out again in 2 weeks and are on good speaking terms. I realize she needs her time and it's going to take work. My question is how would you suggest I move forward with this process to show her that we can still make this work?
@Out4TheRealHiphopCAN
@Out4TheRealHiphopCAN 5 жыл бұрын
Time usually means . There is a 3rd party.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 жыл бұрын
Don't show her or convince her. Let it happen naturally, man. Otherwise, it would still fall apart sooner or later. Remember the golden phase of your relationship with your ex, about how you made your ex crazy for you at first? That's how it should be done. :-) More tips here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/oa11ZZlnzdGdaac.html But this time, be subtle. Here are the golden rules and the first step is to always apply the full 30-day "no contact" rule first: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/Z9F6ZNyT2qyteHk.html If you've done that once, then you can do it again... this is why exes are a sensitive topic. These tips are a must to be kept in mind as well: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/sNdxeMxqtcipcXU.html
@mbaitachisanga2790
@mbaitachisanga2790 3 жыл бұрын
hey my boyfriend just broke up with me and I still love him so much and I love your videos so much
@gs733
@gs733 Жыл бұрын
I tried meditation it seems to make me feel confident and better about myself
@SaunyaLineTV
@SaunyaLineTV 5 жыл бұрын
This is interesting. Your channel has inspired me to start my own marriage series on my channel. You are amazing. Thanks for being great
@jonenoh
@jonenoh 5 жыл бұрын
Yes he is
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 жыл бұрын
Glad my videos and advice have both served as inspiration for you to help more people! :-)
@SaunyaLineTV
@SaunyaLineTV 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you sir!
@SanSovanny
@SanSovanny 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you! hope it works on my long distance relationship
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear. The distance will always be a major culprit. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then it's good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/fbeJZ7FhmdvapHU.html and kzfaq.info/get/bejne/a9SWirV7t9jScac.html
@Saxonwomen
@Saxonwomen 4 жыл бұрын
How can I use any of these tips when neither Me or my x is on any social media ?
@lilyl3413
@lilyl3413 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 4 жыл бұрын
Anytime! :-)
@superdeleon
@superdeleon 5 жыл бұрын
How much you charge for a session?
@jordanmallonee993
@jordanmallonee993 5 жыл бұрын
Hey Brad! It's been about 2.5 months since my breakup, the last month being No Contact. Finally started texting with my ex again over the past week. It's been slow, mostly being short messages back & forth with a few days in between texts. Today, however, she seemed to start opening up a little more. I have a history of getting my hopes up on potential good things and end up shooting myself in the foot, but I have to say, if it wasn't for your videos full of advice and quiz to put me on the right track, I don't think I could have gotten to this point on my own. So thank you!
@tomysmith1464
@tomysmith1464 5 жыл бұрын
Jordan Mallonee I think me and you could be similar could you text me or snap me about. Your situation I’m finding it hard thanks 07508262913 or tomysmith8 on snap
@jordanmallonee993
@jordanmallonee993 5 жыл бұрын
@@tomysmith1464 sure! I'm at work, but will get a hold of you as soon as I'm free
@jordanmallonee993
@jordanmallonee993 5 жыл бұрын
@@tomysmith1464 it's a bit of the situation of not being able to see the forest for the trees I think. Try too hard to focus on the desired end result, and you won't see the simple little things that will help you like bonding over a conversation, even if they don't respond with too many words. The goal is reconnect those ties that drew you both together in the first place (even if it's bonding over someone you both mutually don't like). It's hard to see when you're in the thick of it, and I'd be lying if I said I'm not freaking out every time I send a text to her in fear I say something wrong. I'm assuming your ex didn't fall in love with you for being a broken heart, clingy, and unconfident in yourself? I know my ex didn't, and me being depressed and apologizing for every little thing wasn't helping anyone. As hard as it is you gotta keep your cool. It's not so much as convincing them to take you back as much as finding that confidence and charisma you had when you first started dating your ex. If you can do that, and direct that confidence in their direction they'll start gravitating back little by little. It's difficult, and when you're right there trying to figure out even a simple conversation starter, you have to put yourself in that mindset that even though you know your ex, you have to look at it as a brand new relationship. That means hitting a 'reset' button so to speak. Flirt, be cheesy, do whatever it is that makes you you, and with no small amount of effort you should start seeing a glimpse of that bond you had before. The fact is, every relationship has arguments and 1 problem or another so getting hung up on "are they mad/upset" or worrying about messing up isn't the real focus more as making your previously badass self better, more refined and experienced.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 жыл бұрын
Jordan, watch this first: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/pLeSnsiDrp6RXYU.html
@tacobell5827
@tacobell5827 Жыл бұрын
You reconciled with your ex?
@JesusPerez-cw7qp
@JesusPerez-cw7qp 4 жыл бұрын
What if she texts back do I ignore her completely after I send the "you know what, I think it's good that we broke up... I think we really needed this time apart." ??
@TheMissAlira
@TheMissAlira 4 жыл бұрын
Jesus Perez I’m not a coach but from all the videos what I watched I understood that, completely ignore can be bad sometimes (if you want her back), but just don’t act like she is your priority, like he said say no to her sometimes.
@BrokenHeart-oy1ru
@BrokenHeart-oy1ru 5 жыл бұрын
hey brad,thanks you think for us and keep getting the video every month
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 жыл бұрын
You're welcome. Stay strong!
@sukkiebe
@sukkiebe 4 жыл бұрын
I kinda in love with you now.. lmao
@mordanthamster2753
@mordanthamster2753 4 жыл бұрын
This guy talks as if life is all technique. I'm glad I'm still alive... Just.
@kavitadhingra2949
@kavitadhingra2949 4 жыл бұрын
hey brad i m 17 my ex broke up with me 2 months ago we were 8 mnths together n i havent applied no contact n we tlk few a times as we r in sm school what should i do ? he doesnt tlk to me much n he says he is very happy aftr breakup n he says he had moved on and dont have feelings fr me .what should i do to get him back? pls tell me!!
@randomlygeneratedname
@randomlygeneratedname 5 жыл бұрын
Brad I'd love some help my ex left me because she had to move up the other end of England to go to university and we haven't spoken since I found out about her new boyfriend just before Christmas, any advice would be great such as contacting her after the no contact period or waiting to know if she's single and so on. Many thanks
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 жыл бұрын
Life is or will be taking you in two different directions at this stage. Watch this, too: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/aKmRnrKAuN2tmY0.html&lc=Ugw4Ce3x9APUrYfz29N4AaABAg So whatever the case may be, act responsibly yet try not to take things too seriously for now since you may be in a period of growth and lots of changes, including preferences in attitude, personality, etc. Focus on your studies instead, all right? Take care!
@Awarebynature
@Awarebynature 5 жыл бұрын
I think mind games are necessary because dating is psychological
@paulieag
@paulieag 5 жыл бұрын
What if they don’t get jealous and just don’t care
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 жыл бұрын
That's no news. The "no contact" rule usually comes naturally to the dumpers. Learn the 3 basic phases I teach in my Ex Factor Guide. It helps to learn the basics of my 3R system here first, so you'll have an idea on how to go about it on your end: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/l8t3gbNzydbSo30.html
@mwktrwiofficial6535
@mwktrwiofficial6535 5 жыл бұрын
They will feel jealous,bt they wont show up to u
@juliekeeney1538
@juliekeeney1538 4 жыл бұрын
Then that bird has left the nest, forget em.
@momocyrine
@momocyrine 4 жыл бұрын
@@mwktrwiofficial6535 not necessary if you are the dumper , you wont be interested about whom they"re seing.
@nidakapdi397
@nidakapdi397 4 жыл бұрын
What if attraction has gone
@gunjansingh9797
@gunjansingh9797 5 жыл бұрын
He says he don't love me anymore. I am his weakness. What should I do?
@petecoventry6858
@petecoventry6858 2 жыл бұрын
If I told my ex number 5 she would be glad - She's on a dating site now to " just look" but also because she said she "thought I had moved on already" - so yeah no chance but I live in hope. (and I know via a friend I am staying away until I am healed like a loyal person does. When I stick up for myself I am told I have my head up my arse because I am not getting my own way !
@akonwiegastongaston6397
@akonwiegastongaston6397 3 жыл бұрын
To me, I think 30 days is a whole lot of time for ur ex, especially a female to forget about you totally and move on. Out of sight they say, is out of mind. Remember, while dating, girls usually have many guys in their DMs asking them for a hookup. So before the 30 days is over, she would have been comfortable with another guy. Then when u write later after a month, she would be like "ohh!! What does he want now?"
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын
If your relationship was significant, her emotions will still be tied to you and oftentimes, the rebound will only make them feel bad in the long run, especially if you take your power back and work on yourself. Discussed that here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jbx2jbmiq6qqhmg.html
@richard8587
@richard8587 5 жыл бұрын
Will the no contact rule work if she's already seeing someone else.. ???
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 жыл бұрын
Try to put your focus elsewhere because your ex is likely rebounding and you're only wasting precious minutes of your life worrying about something that's out of your control. Watch this: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/iqiklZZlzN-aqqs.html This should hopefully get you back on track with what you ought to be doing during this time: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/pchyfNeltrnFm2g.html
@theleanbusinessman5431
@theleanbusinessman5431 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😅🤣🤣 Smh 🤦🏿‍♂️ Damn bruh! The title of this video though😂😂😅🤣🤣 Lmafo rolf
@pumpkinduke28
@pumpkinduke28 5 жыл бұрын
We had a fight i said something that hurts her feeling but i really love her, ive been trying to call her for a week and yesterday i came all over from canada to alaska just to see her to beg and say sorry to win her back, i just love her so much but she just hugged me and say goodbye, the most painful thing that ever happen to me.i went back to canada with nothing and starting today i didnt contact her, cut all social media to contact her and see her activities and im still hoping that one day she will get me back😭
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 жыл бұрын
What were you two fighting about? It's best to give it time because all this arguing had taken a toll in your relationship. Perhaps you've both argued more than you had a good time with each other? If the negatives outweigh the positives in the relationship, that's when an imbalance happens and the relationship will keel over wherein one or both people will likely abandon ship,as the case with your ex. It's time to reset things. Start with the 30-day "no contact" rule to get your ex into a psychological neutral.
@gyastly2737
@gyastly2737 5 жыл бұрын
And youre trying to resolve shit too fast, its men instict. But slow the fuck down. Apply no contact and get that ass in the gym. You got this 🔥
@pumpkinduke28
@pumpkinduke28 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks brad
@Killhill93
@Killhill93 5 жыл бұрын
I’ve been friend zoned for a year now I think I should just stop trying to get him back and move on completely even though I love him to death 🤷🏽‍♀️ it’s draining at this point
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 жыл бұрын
If you're 100% sure you're playing your cards right and still yield no results, yes, it may be time to move on.
@edyacheraii4279
@edyacheraii4279 5 жыл бұрын
Hilary Vazquez depends who broke it off as well if you did I think ( hopefully ) you know what to do if it was him get brads program and apply it
@craigjames4343
@craigjames4343 4 жыл бұрын
I really want my ex back Brad 😟 I blew her up too much and now the wind has blown her away 😔 I should of kept that bedroom window shut!!!!!
@craigjames4343
@craigjames4343 4 жыл бұрын
@@peggydickson4431 what is his name? 😮
@hadi-iv3169
@hadi-iv3169 4 жыл бұрын
I have a question how do I make myself feel confident and start talking to her more
@VaLLenTIN__
@VaLLenTIN__ 4 жыл бұрын
hit the gym love your self
@bilalkhares9337
@bilalkhares9337 2 жыл бұрын
Being extremely agreeable is actually more attractive in women which s probably why women are more agreeable on average
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
If the feeling is reciprocated, that works. It won't work if you're obsessed when you've just been dumped. It has nothing to do with sex, but more on a healthy mindset.
@amoshiu3606
@amoshiu3606 4 жыл бұрын
Sir next Month is my x birthday... Can I wish or just ignore him because he broke up with me last month n I Rly wan him 🔙 😭😭😭😭
@gauribatra3350
@gauribatra3350 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Brad, really gonna need your help on this one.. It's been 2 days since my breakup and I terribly miss him. He broke up with me because we were unable to connect and communicate the way we used to. We were dating for 2.5 yr. He said I made him uncomfortable but he never seemed to me that way. What should I do?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that. Your ex is most likely lying about the reason of the breakup so try not to fall for that. Discussed that here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/kNt4iqaIyq2VqKc.html However, the bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/l8t3gbNzydbSo30.html and the golden rules here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/Z9F6ZNyT2qyteHk.html
@titanniki412
@titanniki412 2 жыл бұрын
I got a 71 on my quiz. LOL Tomorrow will be a brighter day!!
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Fading fast and therefore the need to act fast means to play your cards right from the get-go and not mess things up further, basically. Here's a quick overview: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/rs2CY5aDyLucnas.html It's time to find a more positive outlet for your emotions. It's totally okay to cry your eyes out (just NOT in front of your ex and definitely not in social media), this is healthy, but try to balance it with other stuff. So keep your mind occupied, get busy with a lot of stuff like hobbies, work, etc. focus on what makes you feel good and take time to heal as well. Also read my Ex Factor Guide, which covers commonly possible ‘what if’ scenario and will give you pretty much everything you need to know, so read it many times over until you master it. The aim of the guide is basically to put you in the best position to get your ex back...and to avoid the pitfalls to increase your chances altogether. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!.
@chriscain8495
@chriscain8495 4 жыл бұрын
My ex left me, lied, and was just immature and selfish then tried to ruin my reputation in the small town I’m from and it hurt but I didn’t freak out I just continued to work my ass off and chilled. I didn’t get my ex back..... instead I had probably one of the most beautiful girl I’ve ever seen hmu and she is actually pursuing me fucking awesome still in shock.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 4 жыл бұрын
As what I always say, the decision to get an ex back is totally up to you. You know your ex's worth to you as well as your relationship. So only you can decide whether this is someone you want to go back to or not. All the best!
@sofiec.4870
@sofiec.4870 5 жыл бұрын
So my ex and I broke up nearly three months ago. He is at the moment in a rebound relationship. I leave my home country for a year now and he leaves in August for half a year. I never begged or pleaded and our breakup was not too bad. I did no contact but he went into a rebound during that time. I watched nearly all your videos about that but my situation is a little more unique I think, so I would appreciate a short answer unbelievable much. Now I wanna know if I should start text him in a few weeks to have better chances to get back together with him after we both are back.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 жыл бұрын
WAtch this latest vid I've posted: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/heCGrNCK07eqhJ8.html But if the situation is really that urgent, then the best way to get a hold of me is via coaching, sign up at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching so I can factor in all the events in place and therefore be more qualified to guide you. I do need to communicate with my clients on a regular basis to see if we're on the same page. Make sense? Thanks for your understanding!
@shinewithbalmeetkaur234
@shinewithbalmeetkaur234 5 жыл бұрын
Nothing works for me. 😭 my husband is doing exactly what you're telling. No contact, enjoying, holidaying, self improving where as I am at home. Looking after the kids, depressed, no stamina to do anything at all 😥😥😥
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 жыл бұрын
Your life is up to you, you know? Get a trusted friend or nanny to look over and take some time off.
@llucasfloyd7703
@llucasfloyd7703 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Brad what if you stay in different cities and you've been doing the long distance thing?
@llucasfloyd7703
@llucasfloyd7703 4 жыл бұрын
@@drshimaspelltemple7205 who?
@sianharrison6734
@sianharrison6734 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks brad great video x
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 жыл бұрын
You're welcome! Hey, you never know who else can benefit, so if it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it! :-)
@weatherb5414
@weatherb5414 5 жыл бұрын
OK DA PROBLEM WITH STEP ONE IS THAT THE GUY ALL MY FRIENDS LIKE ARE MY EX WHICH IS SAD
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 жыл бұрын
Find more friends! ;)
@andrewwu4216
@andrewwu4216 5 жыл бұрын
Hi Brad Started doing no contact 5 days ago. My ex hassnt reached out but she's been posting some stuff on social media that gives off a negative angry vibe (reflecting on high school drama etc.) Is this a sign that no contact is working and is she gonna start to be sad and miss me? Thanks so much
@gyastly2737
@gyastly2737 5 жыл бұрын
Sign she isint over you. Mine is doing that but lyrics, quotes and bullshit.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 жыл бұрын
Yes, you're definitely on his mind. Watch this: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/mtldrJShxNmWmaM.html
@DMETAROTINDONESIA
@DMETAROTINDONESIA 2 жыл бұрын
Please Brad don't wear this black awesome outfit.. It makes me decide to NOT get back together with my ex but Fall for you! 🥰 Are you in Singapore?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
lol no promises! :-) I'm actually in Canada but if you need some one-on-one email coaching with me, you can sign up at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@roviejoyagcaoilifernandez2785
@roviejoyagcaoilifernandez2785 3 жыл бұрын
Do I need to cut him off like no contact?
@BlackAdder1970
@BlackAdder1970 3 жыл бұрын
Well my recent ex blocked me on Facebook. But her brother and his wife are still on my friends list. I have to tell you how stupid the reason she broke up with me. I was going through major depression, high stress, and Anxiety. I was off work on medical leave. I was struggling bad. I lost my dog to cancer then both my parents died 4 days apart. She thought I didn't love her anymore so she was talking to a guy on Facebook and met up with him. Now they are dating. Her and I were in an 8 year relationship the last three we were engaged. The guy she is with just got out of a 9 year relationship he was dumped. So they are both rebounding. I doubt it will last. Probably a big disaster coming. My Ex had no job and he has no car. I will be there to pick up the pieces for her. Please advise
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын
Unless you've done something really epic to mess up things, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/a7uEbJV6p5vZl6c.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/l8t3gbNzydbSo30.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : kzfaq.info/get/bejne/epd3o7VmsqfUgZ8.html Good luck!
@adelazatloukalova3822
@adelazatloukalova3822 3 жыл бұрын
My ex recently broke up with me. Both of us were under stress from school, our famillies and it ended up with us fighting everyday for few months. After every fight we ended the fights, said we love each other and it was good but next day it was back. In the end he broke up with me, deleted me from fb, insta...but i want him back. I want to give him his time with no contact for like 2 weeks and then try to talk a maybe get back together. I feel so bad right now, for a moment I feel like I want him back and maybe there is hope that he wants me back and the next I feel like he is showing me to give up and move on. I am just scared that he will stop loving me fast.
@riyasawant1183
@riyasawant1183 3 жыл бұрын
what's the update?
@adelazatloukalova3822
@adelazatloukalova3822 3 жыл бұрын
@@riyasawant1183 hiii, well we are figuring things out and I did a lot of work on myself and we are happy togehter but going slow on things. All the luck to you !!! You got this!!!
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын
If he stopped loving you fast, then you have your answer: it may never be strong to begin with... or not real enough. Either way you do need to give each other space...to heal or possibly move on.
@jeremebonesaw
@jeremebonesaw 5 жыл бұрын
My ex went through my dms and saw me venting to another woman that was studying to be a psychiatrist. She (the other girl) happened to be going through a break up and I told her she was beautifulto cheer her up but had no interest in her. My ex saw it as emotionally cheating and booked it and started seeing someone. We were together for 2 years. She blocked me from everything. I don't think email, though. What is the best thing to email her to get her back? Really love this girl.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 жыл бұрын
Tell your ex you're only trying to cheer a friend up and that you have no intentions of being with her. She's overreacting right now though, so give her time. In time, she'll realize how she's gone over the top. This of course is assuming there hadn't been any flirty messages or conversations between you and that girl in the past that would warrant your ex's jealousy. Just give it time. Good luck!
@jenniferperrier7563
@jenniferperrier7563 5 жыл бұрын
My sons father, my bf of 11yrs broke up w me the week of our justice of the peace wedding. He wants to move out next month. He was completely infatuated w me for the passed few months. The week of our wedding he told me he isnt in love w me anymore. That we aren't soul mates...but that we could use this time apart to work on ourselves. That he isnt closing the door on our relationship but he doesn't think its gonna work out.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that. I wouldn't say it's cold feet for sure, it's just weird how stuff played out. It may be time to put things into perspective because in 14 years spent as a relationship coach, I find that a breakup is often NOT just one person's fault, so look at the roles that you've BOTH played that led to the breakup and if the issues have a chance to get resolved, and how to go about it. In most cases, the problems that led to the breakup can be resolved, but in some cases, it can't. So take time to evaluate, okay? However, I have to warn you not to ask the reasons from your ex. This is what I've discussed here along with other stuff that might help you, so this is a must-watch: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/sNdxeMxqtcipcXU.html Good luck!
@leanzahwalsh2533
@leanzahwalsh2533 5 жыл бұрын
My bf (because idk if he’s my ex coz he didn’t actually break up with me) said he needed a breather. I thought texting him all the time would show him that I care when actually it just made him even more mad. Recently we’ve had 5 days apart and today he called me. I want him back. He’s a stubborn guy and never wants to talk about the relationship he just shuts down. We’ve been together for 7 years and it’s LDR. If he stops texting me do I keep giving him the space? I just want him back and everything to go back to normal :/ I love him so much.
@TRUCKSAJ
@TRUCKSAJ 5 жыл бұрын
Leave him alone...he will come back. People are inherently weak, even the stubborn ones. Just don't be eager
@leanzahwalsh2533
@leanzahwalsh2533 5 жыл бұрын
TRUCKSAJ ok but what if he doesn’t contact me? :/
@TRUCKSAJ
@TRUCKSAJ 5 жыл бұрын
Fun fact, it usually takes people half the time of the relationship to truly get over you. So if you've been dating 7 years and only just broken up it'll take him an absolute minimum of 1 year to really be over you. In other words, you did the no contact for a while which was good! It seemed to be working, but then you must have come across too eager and that's why he's pulled away again. You need to have faith that IF!!! you're relationship was reasonably healthy and if you have not bothered him too much, he will probably find some weird way to reach out again soon. By weird I mean he might ask you something totally pointless, but the key is that he's instigating conversation. It could take several months...forget the counting the days. Try to workout why the relationship broke down and work on urself. Once ure honest with urself you will start to exhibit sexy and positive vibes again! As long as your means of communication are still open you stand a chance, don't keep bothering him until you eventually get blocked basically! P.s I sound harsh, but just like u I lost my ex girlfriend and we have a son together...believe me when I say respect their decision, let him come to you! Hope that helps x
@leanzahwalsh2533
@leanzahwalsh2533 5 жыл бұрын
TRUCKSAJ wow thank you so much I really appreciate all the advice!! I will wait for him to contact me then and just hope and pray he wants me back. For now I’ll focus on myself I’d say our relationship was healthy it was more of the whole “it’s not you it’s me” thing. He didn’t actually break up with me which is why I’ve been wanting answers but I realized that pushed him away more. I’m sorry about your ex! I hope you guys find your way back together you have a son after all! Oh also I’m blocked everywhere except for the 2 main apps he’s always on. Snapchat and messenger. Does that say something? I’m scared of the whole no communication thing but the 5 days did seem to do something ?
@leanzahwalsh2533
@leanzahwalsh2533 5 жыл бұрын
Manferd William how exactly?
@ramyakrish2627
@ramyakrish2627 4 жыл бұрын
It's been 2months he broke wth me without reason. Though he has blocked me in everything I have followed Ur no contact rule. But till now no signs from him.plz do suggest me:(
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 4 жыл бұрын
This is a very common issue which many people face, so I suggest you watch this vid coz I covered that here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/i9mgfMSjqL3PZYE.html Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication. More about that on here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/a7uEbJV6p5vZl6c.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/l8t3gbNzydbSo30.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : kzfaq.info/get/bejne/epd3o7VmsqfUgZ8.html Good luck!
@tessamaylea5870
@tessamaylea5870 Жыл бұрын
What if you’ve already texted them telling them that you miss them being in your life, and that you want to be friends again. Did I screw up my chances by doing this? Will this method still have a chance at working?
@gilvlogs5993
@gilvlogs5993 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you coach I really appreciate all your advice it's really good to do. I followed you..i go to no contact rule was so sad but it's very effective same like a magnet to get my x back now I finally get him back thank you so much you are the best coach I ever see ❤😘😊
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 жыл бұрын
I'm glad my it's all worked out for you. As what I always like to say, please keep in mind that getting an ex back does not mean the work stops there. You have to do more work to ensure your relationship stays healthy. Review my guide and/or watch these videos to help you further: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/oNCigtOpxpPbln0.html and kzfaq.info/get/bejne/rJ-did2Zl7S6cZc.html All the best! :-)
@isaacpinto12345
@isaacpinto12345 5 жыл бұрын
I hope 🤞 u be happy with him it does not go good but who knows
@gamerboss6487
@gamerboss6487 5 жыл бұрын
Im very confused on whats going on through my exes head...ive noticed recently he's unblocked me from Facebook n just yesterday followed me on Instagram what does this mean? N should I reach out? Or wait for him to make the next move??
@Hyebye123
@Hyebye123 5 жыл бұрын
Wait for him to make the first move
@gamerboss6487
@gamerboss6487 5 жыл бұрын
@@Hyebye123 ok thank you
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 жыл бұрын
Yes, since you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/q7SPi6SYrdDFdoE.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/eKeYgNWe3Jm3nac.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/l8t3gbNzydbSo30.html Good luck!
@dylanburgin491
@dylanburgin491 5 жыл бұрын
My ex broke up with me less than a week ago. We both had some problems but it was definantly my fault we broke up. I thought I was being a great boyfriend but after some time I can see that I wasn't the person she needed me to be. I want to get back together more than anything and I think NC will work sine we used to do everything together and I think she'll miss me more. However, we still live together. We are both in college rn and live in the same apartment. We still talk everyday since we are around eachother a lot. Our lease is up in 3 months and we're gonna move out then, but what do I do until then??
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 жыл бұрын
Not sure what you meant by not being a great boyfriend to her, but if you do have to make some changes, then do it for yourself and never for anyone else, okay? See, making changes for the sake of someone is considered seeking validation, and that's an unattractive trait in and of itself… so it naturally won't do anything to rebuild the attraction necessary to get your ex back. On the other hand, if these are changes that you know within yourself that you need to make, then it's important to take time so be sure you aren’t rushing it because permanent, lasting changes don't happen overnight and your ex can actually see through it. Does that make sense? With that in mind, watch this vid to subtly show these changes to your ex: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/mMBhfsilprK-opc.html
@scp53779-thebarber
@scp53779-thebarber 5 жыл бұрын
Hi brad. I wasn't to thank you for these videos, they have help so much in dealing with my break up. But I do have a concern still. My ex is sleeping with a new guy, and has been since just days after she and I broke up. She claims that she is in love with him and they are gonna last, but he keeps telling her that he doesn't want a relationship. Is this something I should worry about?
@isaacpinto12345
@isaacpinto12345 5 жыл бұрын
Hi Cody she is ur ex and u are not moving on my frd u are stalking ur ex which wrong. Why does it matter to you whether she has sex or marry him. U ask brad should u worry let me ask u why r u even bothered about your ex. She does not love you n that’s the fact find someone who loves you but for that you need to love yourself. Stop acting like a bitch and move on. Take care
@akonwiegastongaston6397
@akonwiegastongaston6397 3 жыл бұрын
@@isaacpinto12345 . This guy is hurt and all u do is insult 💔
@masonjeffrey95
@masonjeffrey95 2 жыл бұрын
No he’s probably after one thing and eventually she will see that. Follow the rules to get her back if that’s what you want
@stacyhumbird7299
@stacyhumbird7299 5 ай бұрын
Haveing a hard time with getting over him.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 ай бұрын
If you've been trying to move on, this may help you process or deal with the breakup accordingly: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/beCgarZ3x8ungok.html but if you find you need more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com
@kaylierojas8536
@kaylierojas8536 5 жыл бұрын
I never tried 'tricking' lol. Just did my own thing. I'd never want to play games to get anyone back of they come back and prove they're worth any of my time then good on them. Guys, be yourself and forget about the person. If they come back and ot works out GREAT! If not, AWESOME!:) Take time to do great things during singlehood!:) also, my ex came back after 3 months...wtf. never expected that. Hes interested and I'm slightly but I'm not sure. DId hang with him on my bday (Vday) and it was fine but a lil awk. Should I run ..?:p
@isaacpinto12345
@isaacpinto12345 5 жыл бұрын
U know what’s the worst part for u n him (u r not sure) WOW u know what that means u r ultimately going to end up breaking up with him n this is a problem with most of the girls that they r not sure. Tbh I’m a guy n I hate girls who r not confident. Confidence is a pilar for good relationship. Plz pause n think whether u really love him or not. N whatever u feel be honest with u n ur partner that is what integrity is. Thank you
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 жыл бұрын
It's not really "tricking" per se. Pinned a guy's comment who was very smart to realize that. lol
@irvinchong3129
@irvinchong3129 5 жыл бұрын
Do woman change their minds fast? Becauss we spent the last 2 years living together. And just in 1 day, a text came im breaking up with you. And she's gone, blocked on all social medias. Im pretty sure that she still loves me, but for the past couple of months. We've been fighting and quarreling alot. She does not trust in my words anymore, and she says she's done with me for good. Im really depressed.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 жыл бұрын
No, they don't, especially in your case where you've been together for two years. Chances are she's contemplated on it for weeks before getting the courage to text you. The question now is why? It may be time to put things into perspective because in 14 years spent as a relationship coach, I find that a breakup is often NOT just one person's fault, so look at the roles that you've BOTH played that led to the breakup and if the issues have a chance to get resolved, and how to go about it. In most cases, the problems that led to the breakup can be resolved, but in some cases, it can't. So take time to evaluate, okay? However, I have to warn you not to ask the reasons from your ex. This is what I've discussed here along with other stuff that might help you, so this is a must-watch: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/sNdxeMxqtcipcXU.html Good luck!
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 жыл бұрын
No, they don't, especially in your case where you've been together for two years. Chances are she's contemplated on it for weeks before getting the courage to text you. The question now is why? It may be time to put things into perspective because in 14 years spent as a relationship coach, I find that a breakup is often NOT just one person's fault, so look at the roles that you've BOTH played that led to the breakup and if the issues have a chance to get resolved, and how to go about it. In most cases, the problems that led to the breakup can be resolved, but in some cases, it can't. So take time to evaluate, okay? However, I have to warn you not to ask the reasons from your ex. This is what I've discussed here along with other stuff that might help you, so this is a must-watch: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/sNdxeMxqtcipcXU.html Good luck!
@icchua4545
@icchua4545 3 жыл бұрын
I blocked him because he is still not blocking me, after he promise that he will block me since he has this new girl, which was the "friend" I was jealous about.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 3 жыл бұрын
The 30-day "no contact" rule can work for you in the following ways: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/sN1gdsumvampnas.html Your ex is diverting his attention to someone else, which is the easiest thing to do and is really just his/her way of coping. If anything, your ex is suffering, too, even though it may not seem like it. Discussed that here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA So that's what you ought to be doing too. Here, watch this: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/nbtygcdn1aqtfoE.html so try to put your focus elsewhere because your ex is likely rebounding and you're only wasting precious minutes of your life worrying about something that's out of your control. Watch this: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/iqiklZZlzN-aqqs.html Now lastly, keep in mind that your ex is suffering too, even though they try to cover it up. Discussed that here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA
@Maria-fh4oh
@Maria-fh4oh 5 жыл бұрын
I dont use social media, how would it work without the social media?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 жыл бұрын
It won't so you could either make one or skip that part altogether.
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