I just loved the way he presented himself. Even when he said I don’t know if it’s anger or sadness He seems like a good dude

BIG FACTS. Took the words out my mouth. Frfr

I mean I laughed because I knew what he really meant is he needed a place to stay but he said it so eloquently lol

He was a hobosexual not vulnerable

Yes every person can be but he could have also just said he was homeless and needed a place to stay

Sad ain’t it. Let her baby sit alone.

😂😂

Absolutely priceless. It's now a classic. Lol

Omg ikr 😂😂😂

Ignorance is real... Poor children... Poor world 🤦🏾‍♀️😢

Right and stood on what she said 🤣😂🤣😂

God will pay him back!

They will not. He signed the certificate so he acknowledged he would take care of that kid so he did.

Case two they owe this man $40.000 the mother was wrong to have done what she did to her daughter the mother was wrong.

Sorry he won’t get it back. The court considers it a gift. The law needs to change

He can go to court to get his name off of any and all paperwork plus try to get the money back, but he'll find it extremely difficult.

This have really gone far too far to talk about God bless the childrens

I can't even imagine having 5 kids to raise at the age of 25. But it's easy to imagine the life in store for these children. you can't even put all of them in 1 car legally. If these kids don't fight for things, for opportunities, they'll grow with nothing and no prospects. Having all those children without resources to adequately care for them is child aabuse. Those kids grow up and become resentful.

Perfectly said!

Children are like handbags to careless individuals, it’s sad. Ppl need to have a license to be a parent!

Amen ✝️ ❤️ 🙏🏽 ✝️ ❤️

He needs to run fast in the opposite direction!

5:38

"Hooked on Phonics" is still available....

😂😂😂

Yea Pattin a real man for what he did. I commend him for that.

Garcia is a deadbeat. He didn’t want to raise her because if his family was around and so close how were you not able to find her all these years?

@@sanogene5698 true

@@sanogene5698 I was thinking when Mr Patjn said they lived down the street and he knew his family ….Like how …. sad bcos I feel like now that she knows she eventually gonna steer away frim Mr Patin

Just KZfaqr Lexus Exodus always say, now that these deadbeats are getting older they need caretakers, so they are tracking everybody down now

Yes!!!

Of course…Mr Garcia was off the hook financially…

No he doesnt. Blame the mother

Some reason I knew. As soon as I seen that baby , I knew he wasn't the father.

​@@chedebnam6025same... no resemblance to him, and not much to the mom... must look a lot like his real dad.

Sadly, she was the bread winner and didn't respect his input. She said said it out loud... "Just because he was home, cooking, cleaning and taking care of her kids", she didn't have to talk to him about her actions. She was "only" sleeping with him.... The test results determine she was a liar and a manipulative person. 5 boys and 24...no ring and very little prospects because her attitude is heartbreakingly miserable and sad. Good luck to her.

3:46

@@chedebnam6025 Me too..he looked nothing like him...How young does the father look?? I swear hes about 18....sad for him....

I swear I thought I was the only one thinking that!!!

She is

A convict at that!

Exactly! I cannot wrap my mind around that

You have some lonely, low self esteem people who will do anything to have a man

Men need to be careful around 24 year olds with 5 kids!!

Y

Not mismanaged 🤣🤣🤣

That is a true fact

@@toyamorinia4580 I'm going to steal that!I can't wait to ask a girlfriend if she's mismanaging her private area? 👀💀

@@elenawilliams32 😅😅😅 EXACTLY that's something I would say but never thought to say

“Mismanaged” is killing me, I love it 😭

Will the father pay the man who raise his daughter his $40.000 back what will happen with that?

@@idamaebennett9965 I agree. Mr. Patton needs to be repaid but the mother is deceased.

FACTS!! HE GOT SUCKERED OUT OF $40RACKS AND HIS TIME AND NOW THIS OTHER MAN WHO PUT IN NO WORK IS BEING CALLED HER FATHER.....POOR GUY

it doesn't really have anything to do with being a Stepfather.... He actually thought he was the father....but I agree with DNA test for sure...

@@idamaebennett9965I wanted to ask this question. Can he sue????

I’m sure he did, why does it have to be on TV?

@Blueness1230I’m sorry. I don’t believe that for a second. Those families knew each others. They lived so close that even as he moved, his family was around. At least he should have had known that girl was born. He magically appeared when she was a full grown woman.

Don't forget the many innocent, unsuspecting men who are been victims of these perma-pregos and have been in the dark until the light hits them with the wrath of these SHE-DEVILS. 👹👺

Thank you!

Agreed but also she lied to him and said it wasn't his with the timeline of conception therefore allowing him to believe he should leave the situation alone. He should have searched more ofc but you can't hold someone accountable with false information. He eventually found her which is all that matters

But want to say how they take care of and “am the mom and dad” they sounds delusional and dysfunctional. WITCHCRAFT 🧙‍♀️ 31:42 they child looks like she is stranded because all that moving around the mom has dONE almost 20 different moves in her life and she ain’t even 5 years old enough to comprehend.

@Destiny, he knew everyone. He knew where they were. He made a conscious decision to go find her. I’m 55 and I’m doing just fine navigating this digital world. But he didn’t need technology. He always knew where to find them. Did you actually listen to the testimony???

Thank you!!! He didn’t want to be financially responsible.

He waited til the other man paid all child support… it was on purpose. The other man who took care of her is her real Father

Agree

Same here, 👍 agree!!

Agree 👍🏼

100%

Agree! Watching this show has made me more of a proponent of mandatory DNA tests at birth. Men need to know regardless of their relationship status with the mother.

I mean at least he did try, many would have used her without doing the cooking and cleaning, I do think he was trying to make a change

She played herself and to be honest if I was him I would walk away not mention she is lucky he still wants to be there so she better be on her best behavior because he can walk away without consequence

@@thomaspowers572 And he could walk away with a clear conscience!

Second case dude got his karma

Oh no

There would be less incentive for men to claim children if you gotta live with paying 40k or more for a lie that someone else told you. Me. García was also lied to and he may have said he’s known but we don’t know the details.

When you sign birth certificate you are the legal father so he was the one legally responsible for child support.

This is a real question that needs to be answered

@@imanijones5024he signed the birth certificate, so he is the legal father.

He can apply through the courts and other processes to be taken off the birth certificate and any other paperwork.

my thinking resembles yours. i can;'t see spending 30 years wondering if a child is mine. nor do I find it believable that in 30 years, he never had enough money for a paternit test. Will he offer to pay her father back? if he's shady, the daughter will see it.

Absolutely agreed

Yes I agree what a slug to let someone raise his kid and now wants relationship. He should have left them alone

100%

I agree. Mr. Patin even said that his and Mr. Garcia’s families knew each other. Chances are, if they all grew up in NJ, he should’ve had no problem finding her. They probably all still live in the same town in NJ even though Mr. Garcia had moved to FL.

He would have “found” her when she was a baby if wanted to pay. He’ll never pay a dime.

Neither one of them knew for sure. Patton paid for who he believed was his daughter and as good of a man as he is I'm sure he doesn't regret a penny.

He also built a bond with the child for 2 years it could literally be sweet an innocent. It’s not always he or she needs a place to stay

@@user-ef5gf7kg3t I agree. The fact that he didn’t mistreat, physically or sexually abuse these children speaks volumes. Especially in this day & age.

😂😂

@@mom2babygkaterad946 how do you know ?

😂😂😂

It's so dangerous. I was widowed just after our only daughters 1st birthday. We have great men in my family and my closest friends husbands as positive male role models for my daughter, I still NEVER left her alone with anyone. I never took the risk of giving anyone the opportunity to do anything bad to her. There are some amazing stepdads out there, yet I haven't met anyone I'm attracted to and some see me as a single mum who apparently should be flattered that they just want sex.(I'm not 🤨) Our girl is 21 now and is a lovely kind and happy, ambitious, hardworking young lady who's enjoying life. She has regular contact with her Dads family even though they're all in the UK and we're in Australia. When she's finished her studies she's going travelling, her Dads family is her first priority and destination which I'm thrilled and excited for her . A few of them have come to stay with us over the years, they're lovely. I cease to be amazed by parents who expose their children to harm like that Mum . It's our job to protect them, especially from potential predators. That Mum is failing her children, I sincerely hope that they're safe as she's morally bankrupt. Take care.

I thought the same thing! Like what is wrong with people! Be careless with your own life not your child’s!

Sadly, for those of us who work in law enforcement, we see it everyday.

He watched her sonS. At that point she had four. You’re right, one month and he’s moved in and taking care of her children. When are these young women going to learn…..thank goodness Mr. Wright seems to be a decent young man.

That's the feminazi movement for you, double standards everywhere.

I had to like this as this was my exact response. She is such an idiot 🙄

Bingo! I’m like girl huh?

Cause she was taking care of everything that's why she felt like that 😂

Exactly! She doesn’t respect him and didn’t see anything wrong with stepping out bc she was “paying all the bills” 🙄 flip the script and she wouldn’t want that done to her

Hey, cousins make dozens!

Wait, the 5 kids are all for the same guy?! I missed that!

@@jollyrancherchickno none of them

Why would he pay for 5 kids that ain’t his? Buy sense please

No, they were from the ex, Im sure

Some people in this generation didn't have social media ten, twenty, thirty years ago

@@misslinzemthis family was still in the area

He knew that family. I’m not fooled. He just didn’t want to know the results because she wasn’t hiding. She didn’t move that far.

Exactly trying to cry nd switch it around

🤣🤣

Right 🤣🤣🤣

Lord fix it

And Judge Lake sees the tears in your eyes.

Hope so too

😆 😂 😆 facts 💯

Exactly what I was thinking. That or CPS

That whole story makes me cringe and worry about that child. I wonder if there's drug abuse involved?

Dad should file for custody

Women are nothing but liars

@@PresterMike all people can be liars. Not just women. Trust no one until they prove they’re worthy

@@dreamcatcher3878 of course I understand that lol but under these circumstance women are the liars. When it comes to paternity fraud needs to be harshly dealt with

You right blood.

I was hoping someone else caught that, too, about her and her son's age! So she had him when she was 12 or 13???? Way too young!!!!

She got knocked up at 11. Insane.

I was really hoping the judge was going to mention it but she left it alone.

I didn’t catch it

I thought she said "When her son turns 18".. not that he is already 18.. I'll have to look back an check now 😂

He planned it that way. Probably waited until all the arrears were paid by the other guy.

Perfect timing for Mr Garcia smh

Not really you don’t even know what the mum could have been doing

@Shae n kay, Respectfully, I try to be understanding of all involved yet in this case, I have none for Mr. Garcia. I agree with you that she is ungrateful.

Oh my word. 😂😭

Good point

He’ll never pay the SIMP.

Oh wow , I was running while listening and I didn't catch that. Wow! 😲 i got pregnant at 17 and I thought THAT was young!

I knew someone who was pregnant at age 12. The boyfriend was blamed and moved in to take care of the baby, but didn't get the DNA test for years. It came back that he wasn't the father. The girl finally admitted she'd been molested by her mother's boyfriend for years. The girl believed he was her father. He wasn't.

​@@brownin329 that's so sad

Yeh was thinking the same...has an aboriginal look to him and they don't present in the boy

I agree, she should have known he was NOT her son's father🤔

@@pamelahennigan1677 she said “repregnant” she’s not the brightest

Lol I'm glad somebody said it I knew she was in denial when she said the baby didn't have big eyes like her 🤔

@@shanelalitay1224 REPREGNANT: I kinda like that word. Give it time. It’ll catch on 🤪

im in tears right now too tbh

Hate that a mom did this to her child…

And she usually says nothing about it. Completely dismisses it, but oh boy, let it be a dude who did the same thing. She does all type of extraneous goes in on him.

She's dead though

Yes