Truck driver in China takes paralysed wife everywhere, even when working
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A man from northwestern China’s Gansu province takes his paralysed wife everywhere with him, even when he is working as a truck driver. He is her sole caregiver, taking care of her daily needs including cleaning, changing her clothes, and exercising.
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@HittokiriBattousai17 2 жыл бұрын
Not only he's taking care of her every need, I have a feeling he enjoys every single second of it. That's just beautiful.
@wendyshoowaiching4161 2 жыл бұрын
You don't enjoy the Paralysis duty but responsibility and commitment to your love ones. I believe with hard work exercises, she can recover 90% & can walk well as long we see she can cycle and move her legs already.
@vhylis6510 2 жыл бұрын
@@wendyshoowaiching4161 Yes and if the day arrives I'm sure she'll return the favor he did to her
@Eclipse-lw4vf Жыл бұрын
Eventually it’ll get old. As he gets older he won’t be able to care for her as much.
@dailyoptions7832 Жыл бұрын
Til death tears them apart
@RickSanchez-hd4ct Жыл бұрын
I thought I knew what love was and my wife wronged me in so many ways. I almost forgot what undying commitment meant. Glad one real human exists... also my wife told me if I even lost a finger she would leave me while I would be willing to carry her on my back forever if she was paralyzed. I almost forgot what devotion to someone meant..... I won't make that mistake again.
@septembertrese1977 Жыл бұрын
this husband gives a whole new meaning of marriage vows, " in sickness and in health". kudos to him. that is love, folks!
@anassahbenji6056 Жыл бұрын
Yes it is
@kiyushot Жыл бұрын
Its another fake video...
@Tali_Kali2343 Жыл бұрын
Right, true love 💕 n a faithful man.
@sawestjunior5841 Жыл бұрын
@@kiyushot You are a fake person too
@brentfoster9138 Жыл бұрын
No, that’s what the vows meant all along.
@jamessweet5341 4 ай бұрын
This folks, is a REAL man.
@kenjijohnsonsanzenin3388 4 ай бұрын
Chad!
@avalonjustin 4 ай бұрын
Imagine if more men in the world had his dedication and selflessness. Society would improve so much.
@kojo2773 4 ай бұрын
*a REAL human
@kojo2773 4 ай бұрын
@@avalonjustin *more people
@inslayerclone4679 4 ай бұрын
@@avalonjustinmen are not slaves to society because that what it seems like what is like to be a real man from my perspective
@Heroesworkshop 4 ай бұрын
Seeing her at the end moving and improving made my day. Bless this man and his family.
@cano4458 4 ай бұрын
right. was happy seeing that too
@kaboomvn201 2 ай бұрын
She passed away last February.
@Avalon1489 2 жыл бұрын
That's what I call love. I wish nothing was but happiness for these two people.
@capnanaya4642 2 жыл бұрын
It's not what you call as love, but this has been the traditional Conservative understanding of marriage and responsibility. I wouldn't be surprised that you think of it as something unusual considering your liberal lifestyle.
@lcfflc3887 2 жыл бұрын
that man has no obligation to stop himself from moving on but the pressures of society makes it difficult to Walk away.
@ramdundi804 2 жыл бұрын
@@lcfflc3887 many don't care when situation came like this, he loves that's why he cares otherwise if he fear of society he does nothing like bathing, makeup etc
@exoticindiaa 2 жыл бұрын
A woman would never do that
@D3tyHuff 2 жыл бұрын
@Yinhua Any more bets like that and you'll be carried on the back of your Chinese husband soon.
@chrispoe2947 Жыл бұрын
This man deserves a lot of credit. He obviously loves his wife and takes his vows very serious. Much respect
@leoniehendrickson2530 Жыл бұрын
His rewards will come from the Lord
@chrispoe2947 Жыл бұрын
@@leoniehendrickson2530 i believe that and i believe that we make our inner self-respect. And he has a lot of it.
@basbosaize Жыл бұрын
Wt vows
@chrispoe2947 Жыл бұрын
@@basbosaize for better or worse part
@basbosaize Жыл бұрын
@@chrispoe2947 what is that
@amazingdany 4 ай бұрын
He takes “in sickness and in health” very seriously and that is immensely respectable. 😭🤧👍🏻
@sigerlion8608 4 ай бұрын
There's no such vows in China lol. Maybe he takes the red string connecting them very seriously.
@dddaaa6965 4 ай бұрын
@@sigerlion8608 can you explain that joke, even if its racist im actually curious either way
@dddaaa6965 4 ай бұрын
@@sigerlion8608 oh...are you talking about the cloth holding them together?
@sigerlion8608 4 ай бұрын
@@dddaaa6965 It's not a joke. There are no wedding vows in traditional Chinese weddings. So "in sickness and health, till death to us part" doesn't mean anything to the Chinese. They are connected by to each other on the finger with a red thread of fate. The ceremony is simple: bow to heaven and earth, bow to their parents, then bow to each other. Then they drink a lotus seed tea with each other. The thread of fate gets shorter metaphorically as they get closer to each other over the years.
@wjuju8278 3 ай бұрын
@@dddaaa6965 as a Chinese I think he or she means in Chinese mythology, the fairy in charge of love matches will connect two lovers with a red thread, so in traditional Chinese weddings, the husband and wife would hold two ends of a red ribbon to symbolize the bond between them.
@robertdean5791 4 ай бұрын
Give that man a humanitarian award. His dedication should be standard for every human to follow.
@ErniJuliaKok 2 жыл бұрын
His love will certainly help his wife's recovery process. Nothing is more powerful than true love. May Mr. Nie always be healthy, and lucky.
@anakaloralor1397 2 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏
@schick3191 2 жыл бұрын
Agree
@daybyday1664 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@rbanerjee605 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve never heard of recovery from paralysis
@lcfflc3887 2 жыл бұрын
@@rbanerjee605 i think in the movies.
@SM2005_ Жыл бұрын
My dad was married to my mom for 40 years until she died in 2017 from a long term illness. He obsessed over her and her comfort. He loved her till the end. He was so lost without her, he ended up dying in 2021. I believe he was never the same without mom. This is love. What this gentleman is doing for his wife is love.
@sanaqamar1 Жыл бұрын
Thats true love all these people are the great example of sacrifices
@Snoopy1997Joshua Жыл бұрын
Goals...
@TeeNicole10 Жыл бұрын
Amen to your dad💙🙌🙏
@KCHSG Жыл бұрын
Same for my father. My mum passed away in October 2020. My father was equally lost and lost his will to live. He passed away 8 months later.
@Abdullah-ib9mc Жыл бұрын
How many kids did he have?
@espinoname2988 3 ай бұрын
I'm blessed to have a boyfriend which behaves exactly like this man. I'm also very sick, with chronic fatigue and fibromyalgia, I can barely help home with some basic tasks, and take care of myself and our small dog (mostly). I have been sick for over a year, after a covid infection. In the beginning I couldn't even walk to the toilet by myself and I needed help showering and eating even. He helped me with everything since minute one. When I got sick we were finishing our masters (we are both in our mid 20s) and our situation was also quite bad, not as bad as this truck driver and his wife, but we also shared a tiny 20m apartment in a very badly acoustically insulated building. Luckily, since then he could finish his master's and find a nice job. We have now moved to a larger apartment in the countryside and our life is much calmer without money stress. I was so lucky to find him, he also stuck with me without a doubt, even if we had only been dating for about a year before I got sick.
@myaccount9498 3 ай бұрын
Yes that's incredible dedication by your boyfriend. I hope u will both be happy forever. Hoping u get better as well! Blessings from Australia 💜
@juliengo2581 3 ай бұрын
@@myaccount9498yes i wish you and your boyfriend will get through everything , all the hardships challenges! And you getting better with your health. From Australia, true love never die!🎉🎉🎉
@enikofazekas1655 Ай бұрын
Have you tried juice cleanse for fibromyalgia? I’m going to try it for a different condition.
@brookelynnwu8016 3 ай бұрын
You can tell just how much he loves his wife, he adores her always.
@everydayfun9531 Жыл бұрын
Mad respect to this guy as a Truck Driver the Truckers really are Proud of him for having such Dedication towards his Job while also taking care of his wife!
@irenedavo3768 Жыл бұрын
Where are the Children?
@cjhoward409 Жыл бұрын
@@irenedavo3768 They’ve been married 20 years. So the kids are either at college or old enough to take care of themselves maybe 🤷🏼♀️
@masukpakeko86 Жыл бұрын
@Nicky L what's the matter? In china, a couple could married at 15. It's common there.
@stonesking6833 Жыл бұрын
@@masukpakeko86 male22，female20，dont be silly
@rohankurian5641 Жыл бұрын
😘❤✌
@proud2bcsn 2 жыл бұрын
A role model, a great husband, and a real man. They are both lucky to have each other. In sickness or health, till death do us part.
@deneb3552 Жыл бұрын
Exactly, that's a real role model, a real tough guy. A perfect human being.
@-GHOST--ci4ho Жыл бұрын
@@deneb3552 i dont think no one is perfect but he is best example of it
@deneb3552 Жыл бұрын
@@-GHOST--ci4ho you can be a perfect human tho, humans are imperfect by default
@orwellianyoutube8978 Жыл бұрын
@@deneb3552 wait wut?
@Jallu555 Жыл бұрын
So what happens after the till death do us part
@fordxbgtfalcon 4 ай бұрын
That is the definition of unconditional love. ❤
@overlord1995 3 ай бұрын
Unconditional love doesn't exist. You selected someone based on certain conditions. You didn't pick a random person to love Use your head.
@BonsaiM 3 ай бұрын
@@overlord1995 You must be fun at parties.
@overlord1995 3 ай бұрын
@@BonsaiM I am. I don't know what kinda weird parties you go to where you stand in circle, hold hands doing the kumbaya and discuss unconditional love. Or does everyone have to be brain-dead like you?
@penni6432 4 ай бұрын
There isn't one part of this story that I don't love! Sweet couple. This is loyalty and dedication.
@mikesbarn1858 Жыл бұрын
My wife is in a similar situation. It’s my honor and privilege to take care of her. 39 years of love and devotion.
@supergobgoblin424 Жыл бұрын
I bet your wife cheated on you when she was healthy
@saravanane1317 Жыл бұрын
Kudos to you
@AccountHolder007 Жыл бұрын
Real man.
@lubaleong9619 Жыл бұрын
Bless your heart and your marriage.
@ulaper6465 Жыл бұрын
You are a real man and not a coward like some people are.
@robert-antoinedenault5901 Жыл бұрын
Now this is what being a man is. Do it for your own self, do it for love without being asked to do it. I raise my hat and bow to this man as he is better than most.
@kaiie. Жыл бұрын
Poetic
@ChristineFisher123 Жыл бұрын
My husband left me by taking his own life. I never knew this love and care. Glad to see it for another though. 👍
@tigrayfirst2261 Жыл бұрын
@@ChristineFisher123 just get you another one.🙂
@ronmartin1375 Жыл бұрын
Truly an amazing man that is inspirational. He must sleep very well at night knowing she can’t run away.
@JK-vy8vh Жыл бұрын
Yeah but this was a woman who actually loved him and stuck by him… dangerous attitude to have unless your actually lovers with a proven and trusted loyalty.
@kaiajackson8538 4 ай бұрын
An amazing but necessary sacrifice. He loves her so much. You never know the kind of abuse disabled people have to endure its amazing to see someone car for their disabled loved one so dearly
@nanidominika7766 3 ай бұрын
😭this is unconditional love. What an angel-husband 🌼🌻
@orethaateboh7312 4 ай бұрын
Mehn I’m tearing up,he didn’t abandon her . I’m genuinely happy for people I don’t know
@5.55lucky 4 ай бұрын
rare for a man
@chuckscott-cy7iq 4 ай бұрын
@@5.55lucky I agree. He should divorce her.
@BarkerVancity 4 ай бұрын
woman abandon, men dont
@stevezy4772 4 ай бұрын
You realize women are hard to find in China due to the one child CCP policy.
@koray6261 4 ай бұрын
@@5.55lucky Rare for a woman*. Not man.
@tioswift3676 Жыл бұрын
This man has a huge heart, much bigger than mine. I have the utmost respect for what he does for his wife.
@nghiatran-yx4ff 4 ай бұрын
protect this wonderful man at all costs, he is an angel. she is very lucky to have him
@Starrynite777 3 ай бұрын
Wow! People these days don't understand unconditional love like this. Bless them both. ❤❤❤
@fred6907 3 ай бұрын
Kinda hard when women are told to hate men throughout academia and elsewhere. You wanna support a woman like this when you are told women don't "need" men? Feminism hasn't hit eastern Asia.....yet.
@meli3593 2 жыл бұрын
This is worth to be in a video "MASSIVE RESPECT". I can tell he willing to even sacrifice himself to protect his wife
@marvelcomiks8078 Жыл бұрын
You'd be surprised how many men are willing to do this for the right woman in their life. There are many, the problem often lies with the women. Obnoxious, lazy, not caring for the family, expectations on husband, demanding, contemptuous or condescending to the working husband or worse betrayal. Listen to what he said...he recognized her dedication and hardwork for those 10 years. Her hardwork and devotion did not go un-noticed (he had been watching). Marriage is about sacrifices, not about what the other person can do for you. If you go into marriage with this kind of mind-set, I am confident 80% of the husbands will even die for you.
@thesecretlifeofbuns4336 Жыл бұрын
@@marvelcomiks8078 the problem is always the woman to you, isn't it
@Berryman6784 Жыл бұрын
@@marvelcomiks8078 same how many women willing to take care of paralysed husband
@marvelcomiks8078 Жыл бұрын
@@Berryman6784 Very few. 1 in 10,000 perhaps. You will need to dig very hard to even find one and then once you do, quickly use her to boast of the dedication and sacrifices of the modern feminists, who otherwise have contributed nothing to humanity except problems and shames. Vast majority of women will leave their partners when their partners become a vegetable and go broke. That is fact.
@stevieb931 Жыл бұрын
When you think true love doesn't exist in this world.
@brendadickson9583 Жыл бұрын
It does this is a proof of it I pray for such unconditional love
@stevieb931 Жыл бұрын
@@brendadickson9583 Amen!
@kss8866 Жыл бұрын
Did it say what happened to his wife?
@dcryptospace1284 Жыл бұрын
Wow. I know. Speechless.
@allanverdadero8082 Жыл бұрын
@@kss8866 yes, she suffered a brain haemorrhage in 2020 as per the video.
@lisawhitney9978 3 ай бұрын
i started watching this only for a few seconds and immediately i was swept away in tears for this man and his wife. This is what it means to be loved and to have love in your heart.
@blessdatrack4masssoundprod773 4 ай бұрын
thats a real man taking care of his wife by any means necessary im happy to see she is getting better
@alanwade2962 Жыл бұрын
This man is 1 in a million, what an incredible human being. I hope that his wife continues to recover and that their lives get easier.
@pummyy Жыл бұрын
make it 1 in a billion in this era
@SUN-kc9zy Жыл бұрын
@@pummyy nope every where
@deletdis6173 Жыл бұрын
Most men are like this low key.
@roems6396 Жыл бұрын
@@deletdis6173 What are you talking about? No they aren’t. The vast majority of people would not do this.
@deletdis6173 Жыл бұрын
@@roems6396 You sound bitter af.
@hobsonbeeman7529 Жыл бұрын
Now that is man’s man! Dedicated to his spouse, for better and worse. My respect goes out to him!
@michaelperaza1079 Жыл бұрын
Brother perfect words - It's amazing how today's youth thinks.
@fullmindstorm Жыл бұрын
Men are great creatures, most wemon wouldn’t do that for a man, some would but its rare in this day and age, and to michael, he is 40 and she is too, youths now a days wouldn’t do that. He is a man from a different time and so is she, a time when marriage was taken more serious.
@brucewayne6590 Жыл бұрын
@@dimitar297 you need help
@fullmindstorm Жыл бұрын
@@dimitar297 She is doing her part and working through rehabilitation, and successfully might I add. Its only a matter of time until she fully recuperates.
@Theoneandonlybish Жыл бұрын
@@fullmindstorm you need calm tf down my guy Have you met most woman I would argue that woman are more loyal than men
@jefferypitts343 3 ай бұрын
This guy is pure gold, his devotion is without compare, if you really mean the words " I do" ,this is what you do !
@shannonbeazer1268 4 ай бұрын
WOW! that is such committed love and I am blown away by their relationship. How he cares for her is amazing and she is such a beautiful person and so is he. I love it.
@4and20blackbirdsbakedinapi6 2 жыл бұрын
This is the embodiment of the wedding vow, “to love, honor, and respect, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, til death do us part”. What an inspiration this couple is to the rest of us.
@lloydwalters4252 2 жыл бұрын
It's love, honor and obey, not respect!
@thumtlnguyen3626 4 ай бұрын
I know a similar case. There's an Ukrainian woman who got married to a Vietnamese man. They moved to Vietnam to live. Her husband is paralyzed after an accident. She went back to Ukraine to sell her house and everything she owned and return to Vietnam to take care of her husband. She opened a restaurant to make a living in Hanoi and she has been taking care of her husband for over 20 years without complaining. When asked how she can take care of her hubby for a long time. She replied because I love him.
@EpicBunty 4 ай бұрын
Hella beautiful. I need true love like this in my life.
@user-qk2pv7uu5g 3 ай бұрын
And because she was fit to do so and no other choice then To put him in a home I got chronic back arthritis If some happen to my husband there’s no way I can look after him love or not
@ayurbadmaev7174 Ай бұрын
Could you give her name or the link to the article with her story?
@thumtlnguyen3626 Ай бұрын
@@ayurbadmaev7174 She's from Kyiv. Her name is Svetlana Nguyen. All article and videos don't reveal her full Slavic name. Copy and paste this phrase " phụ nữ Ukraina nuôi chồng bại liệt 20 năm" in youtube and google search, you can watch and read articles about her life. This Vietnamese phrase above means: An Ukrainian woman taking care of her paralyzed husband for 20 years.
@purplebunny7220 3 ай бұрын
BLESS THIS MAN. I LOVE YOU.
@HeatRaver 4 ай бұрын
That's a real man there! Hard-working, while still tirelessly devoted to his wife. I wish all the best for them.
@ridhamatri9447 3 ай бұрын
We need more women devoted to their husbands.
@m.haslam8495 Жыл бұрын
This is what true unconditional love is. Totally unselfish. The wife is on the road to recovery. She may not reach 100%, but is in the right direction. Undivided love and care for each other. I'm not totally disabled. However, my wife has looked and cared for me and I could never pay her back. She's amazing and I feel really blessed every day.
@BirdsTV4U Жыл бұрын
❤👍.. May Allah swt give you and your wife happy, healthy long life. Aameen
@lindahandley5267 Жыл бұрын
That's what true love is all about. Blessings to you both! ❤ Throughout my life I witnessed my precious Aunt give that kind of dedicated care to her husband who sufferred with crippling rheumatoid arthritis. She worked for several years in a factory, getting up super early to get him bathed and ready for the day, while another Aunt and my dear Grandmother took care of him until she got home in the afternoon. I don't know how she did it. I loved her so dearly and I believe she's my guardian angel.
@Wumbology378 Жыл бұрын
Very True, there are not many people who have relationships that can handle this. If you got someone like this in your life don't take them for granted.
@lindahandley5267 Жыл бұрын
@@Wumbology378 So true. Many leave for a lot less than this.
@honeybadger9425 Жыл бұрын
I hope i have that kinda relationship someday it not easy to find
@cccatch-js8xb Жыл бұрын
In sickness and in health.... this man is an inspiration.
@sanaqamar1 Жыл бұрын
Yes many people don't compromise and sacrifice and that is why they break their marriages
@brucesmith9206 4 ай бұрын
Wow. That is pure genuine love. That man is one in a million.
@fred6907 3 ай бұрын
Helps to live in a country where women don't hate men. China hasn't been ruined by feminism....yet.
@vh448 2 ай бұрын
That's a real man who truly loves his woman. Can't say that about majority of men. Too much fake love and not enough real love in the world.
@ati3armyofrobots 2 жыл бұрын
True love is not about looks ,money ,fame &all its about caring each other .Showing up for one another at their worst. This man has my full respect
@user-vs9db4tj2g Жыл бұрын
Yam chummi vy
@mcmerry2846 Жыл бұрын
👑
@ati3armyofrobots Жыл бұрын
@@user-vs9db4tj2g a manipuri😄 what a coincidence
@ponicorn Жыл бұрын
This is where donations and money should go. To help and assist those who are truly in need of a hand for simple things we take for granted.
@nR-nc8mb Жыл бұрын
You can’t give him donations if he is from China . the government will corrupt the donations . It’s better to give to some poor people in your own country
@patriciaobyrne1024 Жыл бұрын
Yes I couldn't agree more maybe people will open their hearts and start a fund for them to make life a little more comfortable like toilet shower a hoist there are people out there with amazing talents to assist them .
@22Hammy Жыл бұрын
Nah people are too busy donating to twitch streamers
@Bobby-dl6tg Жыл бұрын
Chinese officials will take all the donations
@leesteal4458 Жыл бұрын
Yes
@gravityiskey 4 ай бұрын
That's just beautiful.Their souls are beautiful.
@Brooklynec2 4 ай бұрын
This is so nice how he take care of her
@Tolu1x Жыл бұрын
the makeup part adds so much more to this. Not only does he take time to fulfill her basic needs but he learned how to and applies make up to her on a daily basis to make sure she is pampered and her dignity is as well. This is the definition of living for someone
@MTC008 Жыл бұрын
this is the definition of true love
@keithmoriyama5421 Жыл бұрын
She is also a beautiful woman.
@haroldi.6450 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful story
@Abakaschi Жыл бұрын
This is unconditional, true love. He's a role model for all of us. This is a display of devotion and pure beauty from inside out. I wish both of them a happy and long life, side by side.
@jediahfish Жыл бұрын
1. He loves her because of her personality, what makes her, her. 2. What can she do.. love him? 3. Yes she can, you can clearly see her talking with him in the video. 4. Some may think having to look after her is a burden, but it'd probably bring them closer together. 5. If you think he's suffering, that's fine, you can give him sympathy, but he may not take it. 6. Love is love, if you don't love your girlfriend or wife just because they're paralyzed, you're never going to find a soulmate. Get lectured by a teenager, ya dog
@skyhappy Жыл бұрын
@@jediahfish I'll just reply to your first point, that is sufficient. You know absolutely nothing about her personality. He didn't even say he loves her because of her personality. You made a baseless assumption and this means your thinking was illogical. Making statements out of thin air is just dishonest.
@jediahfish Жыл бұрын
@@skyhappy kzfaq.info/get/bejne/p7VkqJCe0sCmhoU.html
@inayaisaac1824 Жыл бұрын
@@skyhappy she could've said the same thing when she was raising their kids alone at home, when she was home making, when she was cooking & cleaning & waiting for her husband for 10 long years. She was dedicated to him now its his turn. Besides, they are in love & she is getting better.
@E-A-Z-Y 4 ай бұрын
@@jediahfishDid you reply to a deleted comment?
@brandonhansen7998 4 ай бұрын
Love in its purest form. I know of a story of the complete opposite of this. I know a lady(used to work with her many years ago) her husband was in a bad car accident and became very dependent on others and she left him for someone else
@luisreis3202 4 ай бұрын
Wow, this is one if the best examples of love and humanity. I am 71 years old and tears come to my eyes. Long live for this couple
@ronnie8317 Жыл бұрын
As a married man this brings a tear to my eyes. That's real love from a real man!
@salahuddinayubi5162 Жыл бұрын
Do this to ur from now... Ok
@ronnie8317 Жыл бұрын
Either of you married? Been married 5 years and it still feels like we just met. Do you say the same?
@manumaster1990 4 ай бұрын
guess wat if the gender where flipped she will never to the same. not even close.
@ridhamatri9447 3 ай бұрын
No.
@ridhamatri9447 3 ай бұрын
Ever seen women telling women what it means to be a real woman ( to selfless love their man)? No, right? Then shut up, ok.
@wheniwatchtheworldburn3184 Жыл бұрын
People often brandish the word 'King' and 'Queen' around but I think that man truly deserves to be called that
@Mario7p Жыл бұрын
To me he is a real man, because kings and queens are just moochers 😂
@wheniwatchtheworldburn3184 Жыл бұрын
@@Mario7p that's very true, Kings & Queens live lives of luxury with servants whereas this man works very hard
@camaroman101 Жыл бұрын
How do you know he identifies as a man? I would ask him his pronouns first.
@Mario7p Жыл бұрын
@@camaroman101 I dont think he cares about american binary culture
@Nonyah123 Жыл бұрын
Kings and Queens mean nothing. He is a man. This is what it means to be a man
@shazanakhan9807 3 ай бұрын
Thats exactly what love and marriage should be. Hats of to this man, i am proud of you, every womens dream to have a loving caring husband like u 👏
@franklinviele2399 4 ай бұрын
Thanks for the willingness to share parts of your story! Blessings, Joy & peace on the journey as you both continue to get stronger in & out 🙏
@milanimorales2645 Жыл бұрын
She has a better caretaker than most people in care facilities in the USA. In the USA the nurses are short staffed and frustrated so the quality of care is lower and lower everyday. But even in the truck she has an amazing person looking after her. Very inspiring.
@xymzk Жыл бұрын
There are staffing shortages and issues with the staff. I've seen staff neglect and torture patients. Though there are also amazing staff.
@Me-ds3nm Жыл бұрын
Oh yes the CCP is great.
@Joooo89 Жыл бұрын
@@Me-ds3nm This has nothing to do with politic.
@johnwig285 Жыл бұрын
@@Me-ds3nm typical reply of a "patriot" aka one who doesn't like it when flaws within the system are pointed out
@masterclass3941 Жыл бұрын
@@Me-ds3nmcringe asf what does it have to do with ccp?
@jamescaneda9515 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been married to my wife now 39 years. She scares me when she says she’s ready to go. I don’t know what I’d do without her.
@Bert_de_Wit Жыл бұрын
Don't be afraid James. Cherish and live. Life is short for all of us. Don't waste one minute in fear. Hold her close and feel her love. Live now and don't think about tomorrow because that's tomorrow. Bless you, my friend.
@neerajshukla2756 Жыл бұрын
Just dont show for likes that you are also like this man.
@RakeshKR10 Жыл бұрын
@@Bert_de_Wit Christ are Mostly lovely boys
@Theoneandonlybish Жыл бұрын
@@neerajshukla2756 why would you comment trash are you jelous
@cynthiaholland13 Жыл бұрын
I'm praying for you and your wife. Enjoy every day with her and know that all will be okay one day at a time
@j.m9189 2 ай бұрын
May the Lord bless this man and give him more strength to do what he is doing . This made me cry and this is the real meaning of in sickness and health 🥲💕💞
@PS3PCDJ 4 ай бұрын
Might be propaganda, but this is what true love is.
@sherring7074 2 жыл бұрын
An amazing husband. So selfless and loving to his wife. We should all be so lucky to have such a person in our lives.
@vennsim71 2 жыл бұрын
She would be so lost and dishearten with life, if not for him. She knows he’s always around, and can fully focus on getting well again, instead of thinking about negative thoughts. No doubt at times she will experience that. Pretty sure he minimised that greatly
@thepipun 2 жыл бұрын
True, but first and foremost to ponder .. . Can we maintain those high standards ourselves before expecting someone to be so loving and dedicated towards us... many will simply say 'Yes', but its not an honest answer.
@vennsim71 2 жыл бұрын
@@thepipun I wish I can reply something sensible to you. But I think i don’t have an answer myself. Being someone going through a rough patch, I wish everything turns out well and i can give my all. But there’s a lingering thought if that is at all worth it. But I still do what I ought to do, what I want to do for the other half. But I just can’t say that ‘yes’ resoundingly.. that’s just for me
@daisukeyuki1215 2 жыл бұрын
Don't many just enter a relationships expecting people to change?
@chetansood1178 2 жыл бұрын
@@thepipun 🙂 i can't ... This kind of loyalty needs real high level morality ... Where is that in me.. i hv this question to myself
@petraeason2602 Жыл бұрын
I have more respect for this man than I ever had for anyone. This is TRUE love.
@durkskuntunemun Жыл бұрын
I respect my parents more and you should too
@petraeason2602 Жыл бұрын
@@durkskuntunemun and you should not tell me what I should or should not do. My parents are dead you Genius.
@randyjohnson8366 Жыл бұрын
All parents don't deserve respect
@blackbeltjones2903 Жыл бұрын
@@durkskuntunemun speak for yourself. You don't know what other people have gone through in their lives in regards to their familial relationships.
@crisalcantara7671 Жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭
@Killjoymain 4 ай бұрын
Definition of a great man 👍🏼
@lawrenceslsko1391 Жыл бұрын
Really touching. He never forgot the "for better, For worse" vow.
@supergobgoblin424 Жыл бұрын
If the paralized was the man , he would have been discarded. Vvomen are trash
@newyardleysinclair9960 Жыл бұрын
They're Chinese. Do they make the same sort of marriage vows as we do in the west?
@ntz752 Жыл бұрын
@@newyardleysinclair9960 Even if they were not spoken by the mouth,they were by the heart,this man does more for his wife than most westerners who take a vow.
@samuddin873 Жыл бұрын
In this selfish world that Vow is just a word for many..
@ko-Daegu Жыл бұрын
We don’t have those vows The vows are stuff in western world mainly
@debbieanne7962 Жыл бұрын
A wonderful husband, sleeps in a tiny 10 centimetre space, looks after his wife's personal hygiene, doesn't complain once. A true man. Wishing them both better times ahead and hope his wife will make a recovery however big
@flanthief 4 ай бұрын
Truckers are already pretty incredible workers. This guy just took it to another level
@decafmocha211 3 ай бұрын
Heartwarming. This man is a Saint.
@Tory-JJ 4 ай бұрын
She's beautiful. He's beautiful. Their souls are beautiful. The way he looks at her even when they're being recorded.. I can tell. Makes me cry.
@ting-ting7001 4 ай бұрын
I’m crying. My best friend’s dad and her mom are like that. Her dad has stuck with her even after my friend passed away. He’s always there for her mom.
@errorsk2188 2 жыл бұрын
The fact she is getting better is amazing, both to get the life she used to have and for the husband to have less stress. Best wishes.
@Chrissy358 4 ай бұрын
He's a great man that truly loves his wife. I am truly happy to see the love he has for her. I wish them all the best. ❤
@Shannon-tn2vm 4 ай бұрын
Such love and devotion. Bless you both
@ry-gaming4964 2 жыл бұрын
This is the real definition of a real man, not the man that go out and fights 10 guys alone but the one that has golden heart and loving.
@DipsyMum29 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@roberthertel5565 2 жыл бұрын
Agree 💯
@chaxologist2961 2 жыл бұрын
Love the Ip Man reference! Yeah, Ip Man not a real man at all going out like that and also slapping his defenseless friend all because the latter colluded with the Japanese to be a translator. This one's a real man without over the top Chinese patriotism!
@aokiji5888 2 жыл бұрын
@@chaxologist2961 Dont disrespect the goat Ip man
@mrdeepwebinsider2197 2 жыл бұрын
This comment deserves 7 billions of likes 👍.. thank you for pulling this out..
@euclidelmore8379 Жыл бұрын
This mans love for his wife is on a level I can't even begin to fathom, when he said "for better for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and cherish always." he meant that!
@martuuk8964 Жыл бұрын
Chinese weddings don't have those vows. That's a western thing.
@euclidelmore8379 Жыл бұрын
@@martuuk8964mb not verbatim as i put it, but there are vows exchanged at a chinese wedding(atleast at the few i attended both at the ceremony and Gov offices). But my point is whether Western or Eastern cultures as husbands we do make a vow to our partners to do what this gem of a man is doing for his wife. Most don't stay true to that vow. This man right here? Exercise love not only in word but in deed n he is a legend for that. We can learn from him no matter the cultural background.
@KFC431 Жыл бұрын
@@martuuk8964 verbalization is meaningless if you don't mean it. Take action instead of talk or promise. I think it's kind of the meaning. His whole way of living/actions and intentions/ambitions are saying that on it's own.
@Jackiecarlet 4 ай бұрын
I’m so glad she’s doing better too. She’s regaining some strength and movement. Absolutely beautiful❤ bless them both
@Andrew.PJMsia 4 ай бұрын
This! This here is the definition of true, unconditional love between two people. This is amazing!
@JT0007 Жыл бұрын
Utmost respect from 🇺🇸. This man is what we should all aspire to be.
@sillyrukus Жыл бұрын
100%
@RakeshKR10 Жыл бұрын
Cold war Usa china 🥶
@itinensanzen Жыл бұрын
@@RakeshKR10 Cold war is created by the "rogue state". Search for William Blum's books.
@JT0007 Жыл бұрын
@@RakeshKR10 🇨🇳 & 🇺🇸 have many more reasons to not go to war than to. Stop believing everything you see on tv.
@martiniskandar8764 2 жыл бұрын
This is wht u call unconditional love! So proud of him and hopefully his wife back to normal someday
@petedoze6643 2 жыл бұрын
Very 💓 touching.1in amillion couple.
@circe... 3 ай бұрын
This may be the LAST GREAT MAN ON EARTH... literally. I have never known or heard of any man who exhibits this quality of character, making her THE luckiest woman on Earth. Bless them until the end of their days 💛
@bobhodges858 4 ай бұрын
You sir, are amazing….incredible loyalty
@Follow.Jesus.Christ 2 жыл бұрын
What a man, what a husband, what an amazing human being. Wow
@ramenomirice2767 2 жыл бұрын
More like a descent person
@portraitofablueavatar114 2 жыл бұрын
@@ramenomirice2767 A decent person wouldn't go as far as to take her to his job just telling you.
@0to600 Жыл бұрын
To see her start exercising and her smile is priceless.
@TheRedc0met 4 ай бұрын
she has hope and someone to live for.
@Arunasweets 4 ай бұрын
That smile is what drives him to care for her day in and day out. Such a sweet story.
@jocelynb8935 3 ай бұрын
What a beautiful couple. Love truly conquers all. I wish them so many blissful years full of happiness and more love.
@qanzap3313 Ай бұрын
While millions of spouses divorce their partners for even petty issues. I salute this man!
@Garygarygary24 Жыл бұрын
As a 31 year old man that is sometimes skeptical about life and love, seeing things like this give me hope. Is it so hard to find someone that you want to be completely loyal to, care for, help grow along with you and start a family? Anyone that has found that in life is truly blessed. And these two are definitely blessed! I wish them nothing but the best
@Nonyah123 Жыл бұрын
You can't be picky and you have to see past people's looks to find such a person. Amazing women like this exist but they're not glamorous or beautiful. It doesn't matter though, their beauty grows as you get to know them. You probably have a woman like that in your life that you've overlooked due to physical appearance
@wakeupthisisntreal8168 Жыл бұрын
@@Nonyah123 you have spoken incredible words my friend. I am sure you have so much wisdom to share
@kireccielmas8727 Жыл бұрын
My husband Was like you. It Was really heardworking to Show let him believe that he can trust me and i love him and he can trust me. He ex hurt him so much. Now he is believing and happy. And me too because to give work even not easy everytime showed me a wobderful husband. Wish you the same ❤
@eivor319 4 ай бұрын
@Jay-bs4qw bro as a 30 year old guy i can feel u i have been single since my whole life and its obviously due to my flaws of being an introvert and low confidence but slowly i grew up to be really loving being alone maybe or maybe not i cn find someone for me someday but for now i feel that its fine to be alone.
@gazzy9136 4 ай бұрын
Women are stress most the time. They’ll make you question your psyche, through psychological abuse. They are regarded as psychos for generations and generations for a reason.
@angellee5108 2 жыл бұрын
My Dad did this for my Mom……what a lovely thing to do for someone you love. It’s hard, but not as hard as living without them.
@georgieburchill7672 3 ай бұрын
This is the most beautiful thing I have heard and seen in a long time❤️❤️
@rvnmedic1968 4 ай бұрын
Beautiful wife, super caring Husband. She has made amazing progress thanks to his total care. Best wishes to both of you! Bob, Syracuse, New York
@Valhalla_Heathen 2 жыл бұрын
Mr. Nie is truly living up to his “In sickness and in health” vow he took at the altar! Much respect sir 🙏🏻
@AutodidactEngineer 2 жыл бұрын
Why do you asume he did? Asians have their own religions, it's selfish to say things that correlate to your religion. There are better religions out there.
@Tooill4daIRS 2 жыл бұрын
@@AutodidactEngineer lol
@serixirose7575 2 жыл бұрын
@@AutodidactEngineer heh ?
@arch4916 2 жыл бұрын
you high?
@59Lemony 2 жыл бұрын
@@AutodidactEngineer You have the brain of a 15 year old atheist, congratulations
@pixyfirestudio3848 Жыл бұрын
This guy should be a role model for every human being.
@allah-is-a-slavemaster Жыл бұрын
For every man.
@mulloman250 Жыл бұрын
@@allah-is-a-slavemaster As well as woman, unless you're a feminazi who wants every man to the same.
@xxyyxx2861 11 ай бұрын
@@allah-is-a-slavemasterwhy not for women?
@MsAlmaygaw 4 ай бұрын
So heartwarming. Thank you for this story of love.
@elusiveaqua 3 ай бұрын
This is so beautiful 😢 Humanity and love at its finest!!!
@RGTFLA85 Жыл бұрын
That is what a real man is. Around the world there are very few men that are mentally and emotionally able to be anything close to him. Blessing on their family and her rehab/ recovery.
@nd-mk8pp Жыл бұрын
Stereotypes
@Chet_Brinkley Жыл бұрын
Oh yes, yes, SO right . Beautiful person.
@jeradblazek677 Жыл бұрын
There are very few women who would take care of a man like that as well.
@ommanipadmehum4975 Жыл бұрын
Young generation has to know what is true example of heroes in this world. Like both of them. Watching that video is a thing, but be deeply touched is an other. The Generation of zapping doesnt take enough time to understand how the situation they live is an profond accomplishment. Im really sad to see most of young people have lost faith in the power of love built by effort over time. Like all has to be fast and without strong commitment..
@santiagoastengo8176 Жыл бұрын
100% agree.
@thomasandsonsplumbing1282 2 жыл бұрын
He loves her and you can tell that. Just by the way he cares for her. I would do the same thing for my wife and I feel she would do the same. It says a lot about his character. When you take a vowel in sickness and in health. You are supposed to mean it or you shouldn’t say it. I believe that is the problem in today’s society. People only caring for themselves and saying things that they don’t mean.
@hannesRSA 2 жыл бұрын
I would do the same for my wife, she wouldn't even bring me coffee. Not that it means everything, just personality. But she wouldn't cheat on me.
@overlordborn6131 2 жыл бұрын
Dude if a man got bedridden then his wife would dump him or take divorce. Just look at Steven Hawkins life .
@mattiaslp9645 2 жыл бұрын
she wouldn’t trust me
@wan1234567890 2 жыл бұрын
Men loves idealistically, vvomen loves opportunistically.
@elizabethlau5152 2 жыл бұрын
That is "extreme" taking care of a loved one. Personally, i wouldn't be able to do that! That shows true love..
@meenam300zx 4 ай бұрын
This is so inspiring and heart warming clip that deserves billions of thumbs up and I hope you can help this man and his wife financially.
@garnetz1731 Жыл бұрын
That's what I call a true lovable husband. This puts tears in my eyes to see such a devoted, lovable family sticking together.
@GabrielGriffin82 Жыл бұрын
All "Husbands" are loveable. Men that are not up to this level are not "Husbands" in the truest since of the term. I would have no objections to doing this for my wife who I love dearly. Titles have honor we must not diminish their distinction.
@andytjhin7670 2 жыл бұрын
Hope his wife got a full recovery 🙏🙏.
@leotrace9158 2 жыл бұрын
I really hope so.
@vennsim71 2 жыл бұрын
Sincerely so too.
@fadhilsyarif5374 2 жыл бұрын
I'm still searching for their update, but one website is full of chinese characters and I can't read them 😆🤣
@b34k8 2 жыл бұрын
@@fadhilsyarif5374 send if to me pls
@CyberMew 2 жыл бұрын
Please keep us updated!
@ccerca 4 ай бұрын
You have my total RESPECT! 🙏
@mccoy922 4 ай бұрын
That’s what you called love and faithfulness to each other. Love it!!!! Bravo to you Sir, and wish you all the best in life……..
@AK-ml7dg 2 жыл бұрын
A lot of people would’ve felt overpowered by expressed emotions and tensions due to disabilities, accountabilities and responsibilities. To fight through that demonstrates true love.
@tammystewart10 2 жыл бұрын
A lot of people would treat their dogs and take better care of their pets better than their own wives.
@omkazn 2 жыл бұрын
We can all learn something from this man. It’s easy to say love when everything is fine, but much harder when faced with adversity.
@bb-yk5cc 2 жыл бұрын
Ccp scam
@notagain2856 2 жыл бұрын
@@bb-yk5cc shut up, bot
@ntz752 Жыл бұрын
@@bb-yk5cc You can hate the government but don't hate the people brother
@Sunriru 3 ай бұрын
thats so sweet and heartwarming. thats true love right there
@williamwoo866 Жыл бұрын
Amazing when a person doesn’t complain and stand by her side no matter what. That gives the meaning of in sickness and in health a true meaning.
@TheBajanMan Жыл бұрын
For someone with a spinal cord injury I can respect his efforts 1000%, this is what we call true love for another human being! If you don't feel teary-eyed watching this then it didn't hit you like most of us. This is the kind of love the world needs right about now ❤️❤️❤️👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
@OneTrueWord1988 Жыл бұрын
Amen!
@TheBajanMan Жыл бұрын
@@SpecialSalads fixed it thanks 🤗. The video had me emotional and wasn't paying attention to what I was writing.
@OneTrueWord1988 Жыл бұрын
@@TheBajanMan We all knew what you meant. 😊 No worries; it is a great comment! 💐
@tomsd8656 Жыл бұрын
Yes, romantic love, which most women crave and would leave their husbands to chase it, is not love. Love is like this right here.
@OneTrueWord1988 Жыл бұрын
@@tomsd8656 Very true Tom! 💐
@coolrider1177 3 ай бұрын
Shame on those who are unable to give respect and love to their healthy and well behaved wives while they are alive. Love is not complete by just talking. "100 salutes to this guy" 🙏💖
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