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Hey Cody! I just completed my first supersprint triathlon in Chicago and while I was there I heard your new DJ remix from the speakers at this event . It was such a surreal experience keep doing what your doing!!

I don't think I will.

check out this ratio

would not doubt that the wife doesn't want to sleep in the same bed as him

And can we nominate the girl behind the counter for a nobel peace prize?

Well, they're american...

​@@TheBakuganmaster99it sounds like you're trying to hint at that all Americans are fat

@@GoodTimeForARoll42% of Americans are obese

Truly something someone cursed on your soul from a past life lmfao

Easy to sue

I am a surveyor and the amount of people who argue over 1 foot of property - that don’t even have a lick of dementia - is absurd. Definitely not fun with this lady but I’d rather her than some of the gun toters I’ve worked with.

Cody didn’t watch the entire saga of that old lady being like that. She eventually got charged pressed on her after she called the cops too many times and actually assaulted the guy

⁠@@DefeatingTheSilencewth 💀 yo, i get being frustrated but there is no way any healthy/sane person would ASSAULT you over maybe a foot of “MY PROPERTY!!!11!1!1!1” like, jesus lady, go smoke a bowl 😭

Whenever people are being horrendous to grocery store clerks I step in. You can just see the "I wanna speak to the manager" on their face but I'm just another customer and there's nothing they can do 😂

​@@logan2113they would like to speak to YOUR manager 😂😂

I don't like this comment. May I please have your name???

@@logan2113 This happened once at my store. This little old lady was talking to her customers but also scanning and hitting the buttons, not stalling. This possibly bipolar older man next in line complained that she is talking to damn much instead of doing her job. The next guy in line said that is my friend Linda, so we can go out in the parking lot and talk about it if you want to...Never seen a manager cut in so fast to break something up lol

You can deny service for any reason

She did great. That’s customer service while dealing with a difficult customer at its very best.

@@sarahmcmahon600(edited)

Ikr

OPe, Cody literally brought that up right when I commented this lol

he was def trying to get a bigger suite for the price of the king suite because originally they had booked a more expensive suite which an extra bed and then cancelled it and got that king suite

nah literally, i woulda had to draw it out for him because why was e wasting time being upset over smth that’s not even a problem

Yea that one for some reason got under my skin lol..maybe cus I've fit 6 people in a two queen size bed room cus that was the only one left. A king and pullout would've felt amazing lol

​@@daesjahlewis9933Yep. It was a scam attempt.

I came to comment that, if a man was asking me my name so aggressively I'd be shitting myself, she was bothering him with clearly a negative intent, I'd call it harassment anyday

Moreso passive aggressively I guess but that can be worse sometimes

Exactly

You can kind of see hints of it when Cody said “that’s the best way to deal with crazy people, be chill about it”-there’s this fallacy where as long as you’re being ‘nice’ you’re never the one in the wrong. You can say anything as long as your tone is calm and even-keeled. The idea is for that Karen in particular she wanted to goad him into being so fed up he struck her (as many of us would be tempted to do) since what was on camera was her “asking nicely” and not her running around his store fucking with his employees. It’s all about optics with these people. It’s not really Cody’s fault he’s not familiar enough with the behavior to know that there are ways to harass others without yelling at them or saying a single mean word: for example, stalking is harassment, persistent flirting is harassment, and so on. The key is if you tell someone to get off your property or out of your personal space and they insist on hovering around you, there’s a pretty high chance it’s harassment. When it doubt, record it on video. If someone’s delusional enough to twist a situation as harassment when it’s blatantly not, the public will usually let them know 😂

That guy at the hotel who spoke up was an upstander, not a bystander.

That dude ruined her life by telling her nothing she says means anything to him 😂😂

Right pls i wanted her to do that so fucking bad bwahaha

That girl did the best job and I hope she gets a raise.

@@stares_mthrfckrlyI’m kinda with Cody tho. Dude was being a douche for sure but so was she. You can see it seething

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That's what I've seen people saying on other sites. He screwed himself.

This happens all the time in the hotel business. Ppl book cheaper rooms then make something like this up to try and get an upgrade. Good on this receptionist for holding her ground. I freaking hate ppl who try to pull that type of sh*t.

Yes, it was confirmed that he booked the big room first then canceled and booked that room. It was a scam to make the hotel think it was a mistake on their end and upgrade him for free. I'm sure it usually works out for him, he just didn't plan on the hotel being fully booked and that's why he behaved that way. Not used to not getting what he wants.

For sure. There are people out there that think that harassing service workers will eventually give in to their demands, in this case, he thought she was gonna give him a bigger room that he didn't pay for lol The amount of entitlement on some people 😂

the way the Darren responded to the guy's questioning only proved that he was a shyster

@@SisterliskWtf is that bone apple tea shit. You mean to say sheister?

​@@alexk9646...lol shyster is the correct spelling

The word comes from the German Scheisser, which is a vulgar term for “worthless person.” it is spelled shyster lol I laughed at the bone apple tea though!

@@FukaiKokoro I thought it was sheister, but some quick research proved it was shyster instead, as strange as it looks! I cackled at that person's incredulous tone, though.

YUP! Absolutely harassment. Maybe stalking too, when she followed him?

May I please have your name?

May I please have your name?

Take a shot every time she says “may I have ur name” would be fun

@@terriblevampire6422 I probably only got about 40 miles left on my liver before it gives out, that sounds risky 🤣

That meditation mala was the only thing she knew was keeping the public safe from her outbursts

Omg!! I’m Indian and didn’t understand what she was saying. I didn’t realise she was actually saying our word for necklace til I read this comment 😭 so ironic

Honestly, that makes me understand her way mire because it must have been the only thing keeping her together 😂😂😂

the way everyone clapped for him😭

i watched that part while doing my mascara and i ended up with it all down my cheeks from crying with laughter

I wish I had his patience and good humour.

@@The_Winsome_Pixie He showed a good example how to act when you know someone is unreasonable and you can't get through to them, but they are clearly not a threat to hurt you or others, haha

​@@hollyhaas8224it was just like one of those New Yorkers coming together scenes out of Sam Raimi's Spiderman

​@@CSpottsGamingbro unloaded a whole speech after getting offended

​@@CSpottsGaming bro be fr. are those karens gonna try and physically harm you? being a woman in a situation like this DOES require more careful actions. I'm not saying it never happens to a man. I'm saying its likely worse for women. I doubt you fear for your life as some women do. the 'magical im a man pass' actually does exist, lol. society makes quick judgements on your place and respect you more. I'm not going to get into the whole idea because i'm not being paid for this shit and i have a philo exam tomorrow, but i get where ur coming from; yes, men too likely have defensive strategies for situations like this. There is no excuse to treat people like this, regardless of gender. HOWEVER, we must consider that women are much more likely to be physically harmed than men. It's not an opinion, its a fact. Also the whole; 'you ppl are the reason we cant speak our emotions or fears' is ridiculous. The OP never stated men don't do this. The OP only stated that, as a women, the risks are higher. Don't know why you read into it so far. maybe consider why for yourself.

and it doesn't feel good to stoop to their level

@@CSpottsGaming I agree with you. I think an angry male customer is more likely to shove a male worker over a female worker, if the worker raises their voice and gets snippy.

@@Sisterlisk okay, but your thoughts on this have no basis in reality. women are statically more likely to be attacked in these situations: period. People see someone weaker/more marginalized and think "i can get away with assaulting this person". it doesnt take fucking rocket science to figure that out.

Yeah, that one kinda made me sad because I was wondering

Nah she wants him.

There are so many layers to that one. 1. You booked it through a 3rd party travel / booking site. It's not like people individually look at your reservation. It just comes into their system and is processed automatically. 2. She offered you some options. If none of them work for you, that's not really her problem. 3. Hold the phone. You have 2 adults and 2 kids and you can't make a room with a king and pull-out couch work? Buddy, there isn't a holiday inn in the world that has a solution for you, my guy. 4. The dude jumped in because you're being a dick.

He was trying to get an upgrade for free. He had originally booked a bigger room and then canceled it.

As someone who work at a hotel, I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been in a “I know I made a stupid reservation but couldn’t you tell it was stupid and fix it??” Argument. They do something that doesn’t make sense, like book 1 room for 9 ppl, and get to the property like “but when you saw it was 9 people couldn’t you tell it was a mistake??” No bitch I couldn’t

That one is so wild. Like, call the third party you booked for a refund or a comped room. It's on you and them to work something out. More than enough space to accommodate 4 people. Was he genuinely hoping they'd kick someone out of their room for them?

@@Maya-Hayden Imagine if hotels were actually run that way. I'd hate if a hotel changed my reservation or questioned me about my reservation just because they assume I made a mistake.

they're weak. they wont last the end times

I call it a "mantrum". Much more common than a karen tbh.

This is so real though a lot of the time I got cases where those people have so much rich privilege anything bad that happens can just be fixed at the snap of a finger. A king sized bed and pull out couch for two adults and two children is enough. If he has a problem about his kids sleeping in the same bed together then that’s a family issue that needs assessed in therapy lol

I get the vibe the guy was trying to finesse his way into a free room upgrade lol. Book the King Suite, then turn up and say “WTF?? I booked the(more expensive) Family Deluxe Suite! Where are my kids going to sleep?” .. hoping the hotel will comp them the better room for the ‘inconvenience’

absolutely, that's why he had those long pauses while he was trying to figure out wtf to say next. he wasn't stupid, he was trying it. @@katyalupochev9589

Yea I was definitely thinking that

Like girl u need lithium not mala beads

@@Me-dj2szLMFAOOOO

She seemed like she has some type of psycological disorder!

I think she is wearing it too lol

Idk I can’t laugh at someone so clearly mentally not well. I felt bad for everyone in that one

exactly what I thought this is textbook harrassment "got told no and please go away many times and still asked for his name" yeah that's creepy asf

I kinda feel for her. I had a case when an employee yelled at me and said they could not help me with my sim card (even though a day ago they gave me a faulty sim card and said to return it if it does not work), and made me cry (I am ashamed to admit it, but he was so rude). When he saw me crying (I tried to be discreet, but he saw), he told me to get out of the shop. The other employee then helped me and replaced the card saying sorry. When I asked what was the name of the first because I wanted to file a complaint, he started saying that I was threatening him and that he was going to call the police (I asked once and was not yelling). Maybe I was Karen, but there were other bad reviews about this employee and his coworker said he often reacts aggressively, so I thought the complaint could be the only way to save other customers from such treatment. She was not right for nagging several times, but I think we do not see the whole picture.

@@dorianamalfoywe didn’t see what happened before this, but if you were being filmed when what happened to you happened, it would be a whole different tone than the video shown here. I’m sure you wouldn’t be able to suddenly gain the confidence to sit there blocking him, repeatedly asking for his name wirh a notepad in your hand. I’m so sorry you went through that, I would have cried too and probably sunk into a hole. But this is obviously a her issue in the video just by the tone and the set up. we don’t even have to know what happened beforehand. Whatever happened, didn’t warrant all that from her I’m sure

NPC behaviour fr

Unfortunately, they're in public. That's not really how harrassment works. No one has to respect your "safe space boundaries" in the real world. She wasn't trapping him, he is free to leave.

I mean, he's also a moron. He definitely walked into the bike lane with his dog without looking. She overreacted, but you can kill someone doing that dumb shit.

What a cheapo lol.

And the thing is, he may have gotten away with it if there were vacancies. As a scamer, you have to be able to understand the risks of this happening... right? Regardless, she did her job well.

It sucks bc she got fired for posting this video iirc.

This happens so much at Taco Bell just people trying to get free food when we know what’s up and then getting pissed when we don’t oblige like girl it’s Taco Bell it’s not that expensive 💀

@@evilbananatwinsReally? Any details? I’m curious what exactly happened after the video cut out

I just got a job and I'm stressed abt this lmao

Lmaoo I'd love to see that

Yup and it’s only getting worse. Kill me if I ever have to go back to working with the general public.

I agree with this I've never had to face customers yet cause I'm autistic and get accommodations by just doing a bunch of work by myself in the back organizing things, but my boyfriend does and the amount of weird racial comments he gets from old people astounds me

This is why I went back to school

I also heard pilates 😅😅

What does epilepsy have to do with a leaf blower??? I also heard pilates too, though, lol

@@zvezdoblyat it has nothing to do with the leaf blower lol she said the car is “for my daughter who is epileptic”

@@softballfan015 right, but why does she have to bother the lady trying to do her job? What the fuck does her daughter's epilepsy have to do with the car, and what does that have to do with the leaf blower? It literally makes no sense

I ALSO HEARD AT PILATES

lmaooooo

But they def weren’t clapping for ger

he was such a legend, I'm glad he got himself and his poochie out of there safely

that's nyc for you!

I was so scared the dog and dog walker were going to get hurt I totally would have clapped. It would have woken up my dogs but I was glad no one got hurt

I wanna be friends with him

"you need some medication, lady" sent me

This is how we're trained in healthcare too. You just try and keep things as calm as possible until you get back up.

yeah, and not to mention if you snap, it can very easily get you fired, even if you're in the right

He just meant that when you're upset with customer service he wishes they could talk like normal people instead of giving you a bunch of corporate speak

As a woman working in retail it's amazing how quickly the attitude changes when someone with a penis gets involved. I'm fair game but when my male manager steps in all of a sudden it's model behavior.

exactly, i'd be fucking terrified dude

I had a mental breakdown yesterday and only just started to feel alert again lmao

Same

Same haha. Even a mild argument leaves me needing a nap afterwards.

God what a mood

I’ve slept for 24 hours but never had a mental breakdown.

Technically, she was right. He was putting all three of them in danger by walking in the bike lane. He wouldn't walk into oncoming traffic so, he shouldn't walk in the bike lane.

There's a good chance he booked a cheaper room on purpose and thought he could bully the employee into getting the room he wanted

That’s what I’m saying is that this dude is legit insane 💀

Logic like that, dude was definitely trying to get an upgraded room. Hence why he wasn't full on tired irate. That or get comped. I'd like to think he turned to his wife and said, "watch this... I'll be back in a minute," and came back with no room key. Plus, hotels _usually_ have cots you can get. At least any time I've ever asked at some mid place. That's how we did it so the idea of 4 to a king and pullout not being reasonable is just insane to me.

​@@Samuel-xs2yvhappens all the time, in rental car

@@cctomcat321 Lmfao while he was off trying to bully the concierge, his wife was googling phone numbers for divorce lawyers.

And he asked her to leave him alone multiple times. That’s harassment lol

Plus when she asked for his name and he said no she should have left not continued to ask him ..

The person with the phone could just walk away lol

​@@SMarie5541where? Into the store where she'd follow and disturb his customers and harrass his employees?

@@chaotic_jinks121 You know life existed for thousands of years before phones. What do you think a person in the 90’s or early 2000’s would have done. They didn’t have cell phones to stand and record buddy. They probably leave and alert mall security and let them deal with it like a normal person. Why you think continuing to stand there entertaining someone with issues means you’re probably online too much,

FUNNIEST SHIT EVER

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father in the making

Or the leaning in so far that sometimes he doesn't show on camera is hilarious😭

Reading this as he stares intently is soo funny

especially the hotel video. i was so anxious

you ppl need to touch some grass

True. It's almost too much to bear. I want to tear my face off with the cringe but Cody is brief respite.

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so real fr what im doing rn

I agree but why didn't badly behaved men get labeled with a common male name, like Daren, and get obsessed over as much as Karens? It seems sexist.

@@anarcho-communist11 they’re Kevins!

well i mean karens were initially a huge thing everyone was talking about because it was about the stereotype of like white moms with bob hair cuts or whatever and creating unnecessary drama but then just the unnecessary drama part became the main focus so anyone creating unnecessary drama became labeled a “karen”. then guys doing it became a new topic so naturally people just started using the “guy version” of the name and did daren

@@lovrboi”White moms with bobs” should not have made me laugh like it did 😭

@@anarcho-communist11I thought the male equivalent for Karen was Kyle. Most ppl just call them male Karens tho lol

She definitely needs to taste some asphalt before she learns to calm down, I don't think jail time would do the trick

​@@softgunrulermore like therapy

well as we all say, children deserve parents, and some parents just don't deserve children

@@coolbutnotverycool1440and the asphalt

⁠asphalt then therapy

Okay Karen

@@Mr.PDF_File 😝

Pilates and feces. The bane of our species.

@@edwardsmyth5733 faeces*

@@Mr.PDF_Filenot everyone is British you know

What the Fuck is the CONTEXT for that one??? it legit just. Like did her package get denied???

I don’t think the lady was in the wrong personally. I think the worker was. She was saying she couldn’t figure out how to put the sheets together I believe and that the worker wasn’t helping her. She didn’t seem like a Karen to me. She seemed more like someone who got overwhelmed by the stress and frustration of trying to figure something out, asking someone for help about it, and they just tell you to figure it out on your own. I could be wrong but she wasn’t really attacking anyone but rather venting frustration about not being helped. I will also say I didn’t like how the worker kept egging her on when she clearly agitated. I work in the service industry and we are not taught to make the problems worse and make customers feel bad. If the lady had been verbally abusive, attacking her, etc then sure I wouldn’t blame her but she wasn’t doing any of that. The most she said was why is she acting like that which compared to actual Karens is tame af.

@@ScarletAngleGaara Are you serious? Her behaviour is just way to much and not appropiate

@@leiciKeksfan I’ve heard multiple people say that this happened because the worker did not help her. Older people tend to struggle more with certain things and simply need more help with them. I never said her behavior was justified I said that if the worker truly did not help her like many suspect then I understand the frustration and stress culminating into this.

@@ScarletAngleGaara Well you said she was not in the wrong, which she kinda was because you don't act like that.

@@CSpottsGamingtrue but she only did that when the man started becoming aggressive and cussing out the hero bystander. His family must have been mortified through the whole thing…it’s impressive how neither the wife or the kids say a single word in this whole interaction.

Right? "You saw that and thought yeah 4 people can fit in that room you think that makes sense" like its a receptionists job to interpret whether a room is "sensical" for each person. I don't like...fuckin' change reservations because I personally think you sure got a silly room for four people lemme just override that lil goof for you

And someone else in the comments said she got fired for posting the video.. not sure if that’s true, but it sucks. can’t post videos or pictures from work on social media in many companies

I am legitimately impressed at how many ways she found to rephrase the same answer. A common bullying tactic (which the Darren was attempting) is to just ask the exact same question over and over, in the hopes that the other person will get tired of giving the same answer and relent. One way to deal with that is to give the same response, but worded slightly differently each time. It creates the illusion that you are presenting multiple responses, which shuts down the effectiveness of someone trying to just stubbornly blast the same question until they get what they want. Well done!

I do not have anything even close to her level of patience for dumbassery. I admire her. I would have lost it and quit on the spot... man, the audacity of some people...

I have no clue how she kept her cool and was so polite the entife time, I would have at the VERY LEAST rolled my eyes. She has the patience of a saint fr

Yes like the draft

You can tell the people that haven't. I think everyone should work customer service, maintenance (like cleaning work), fast food and a restaurant, and a hotel. If you work in this industries as a youth you should realize what people go through and how to be a better person.

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literally shapes u as a human being

Or just stop fawning to cumstomers like this.

That and simply persistently bothering someone like that is also harassment, at the very least it could be charged as disturbing the peace.

@@jjay350it’s def harassment bc as employees they can’t exactly leave

True that

And she didn't even have a piece of paper in her hand, who writes in the inner part of their hand like that.

I don't like this comment. May I please have your name???

There is no situation in which Cody doesn’t know this, im pretty sure he’s just saying how awkward and counter intuitive it can feel when you’re in that situation

Exactly If you react the way Cody suggested the unreasonable person would get more angry / will almost definitely make a complaint about you Just would make everything worse

yeah i dont think cody was saying he wished she would do that more that he wished she could lol

Well yeah? But it’s a reaction video and he’s expressing annoyance on her behalf.

fr like it’s best when you’re in customer service to be the calm one because if you also get upset, things escalate so quickly and in the end YOU will be the one to get into trouble

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Bro thought he could trick the system 😂

Wanted a free upgrade

It’s a pretty common scam you see in the hospitality industry actually. They cancel their reservation at the last minute, get the cheaper one, and play like the third party made a mistake they shouldn’t be responsible for. The last minute cancellation ideally means the nicer room is empty. Guess this guy didn’t get there fast enough. This woman would’ve seen both reservations come into the system, as well as the time of cancellation, so she probably knew exactly what was up when the guy would only produce the first reservation on his phone.

Wow, you learn something new every day. People are shitty

my first looking on the comments for this video but i thought the exact same thing lmfaao

Sameee. Idk why but I honestly feel like I would rather be yelled at by an old lady than having someone be faking politeness and being extremely repetitive and not getting out of your face. Something about it scares me into my flight or fight.

My personal opinion about that one is this is a woman who has autism and there's some kind of fixation going on there about rules generally. We don't see the full explanation from the video, but that's my read of her motivations and mannerisms. Not convinced it's "karen" territory either... the only one which fit that criteria clearly was the woman who scared the child on his bike. The rest are untreated mental health issues in the wild and then an angry, entitled man at a hotel. If anything the only real karen was actually the darren.

Reminds me of my childhood bullies in elementary and middle school. 😢

@@RSmith-qd2ukI’m not sure generalizing or diagnosing people is a good idea. Like even if she did have autism, that conversation is not justified. Autism does not give you a pass to follow someone around and honestly assuming she has autism and coping up the other angry people to just being mentally ill does not help the stigma on mental health. Part of that reason is why mental health is so frowned upon. Society’s image of mental illness is skewed to believe we are dangerous while in reality, those dangerous cases are rare. Some people just do not have control of their emotions and it doesn’t necessarily mean they have a mental disorder.

​@@RSmith-qd2uk She stared at that guy right in the eyes the entire time and kept purposefully getting into his personal space to piss him off lol. Like yeah maybe some of us don't avoid eye contact but it's still a thing because it's generally stressing us out. I have no idea what mannerism you're talking about here because none of them feel anywhere close to familiar or autism related. (coming from an autistic person) This person's having a breakdown related to the rules and I think it's best to leave it at this because it's an overall agreeable statement. I know his is not what you said but I'll specify for the sake of destigmatization and to clarify: *This was not an autistic meltdown*

As someone who was off their meds for a year, went into psychosis and just got out of a facility for it and am now medicated....that woman needs meds AND therapy.

​@@Fairygoblin777 to me it seems less like psychosis or mania and more like that's just who she is. I could be wrong, and obviously can't know from 1 minute but she's coherent. I have a lot of people in my family who have bipolar/schizoaffective and when they are blowing up like that it's complete non sense, they can barely string a sentence together and are quickly jumping from one thing to another. Her thoughts are clear, she's making sense (like grammatically), and she is connected to reality. Personally this comes across less as mental illness more as she's just a super entitled nasty person. Which cbt can help, but tbh I don't know how much meds would do.

@@Oliviaandtrina I never once said that's what this person's experiencing. I'm saying as someone who does, even I can see this person needs extreme levels of help.

​​@@Oliviaandtrinanot everyone with the myriad mental illnesses that can cause this behavior presents symptoms in the same way as those you know. My mom is bipolar and my bf (who I've lived with 6 years now) has schizoaffective disorder. I've seen them both behave that way, particularly when they are off their meds and exposed to triggers or if other contributing factors (like drugs/alcohol) are involved. In fact, my bf only becomes somewhat incoherent when he drinks. Ability to string together cohesive thoughts and use proper grammar is not an indication of anything..?? I've also worked in 2 mental health facilities (briefly, for my own mental health, but you don't need long to see a bit of everything esp. during a pandemic!) Mental illness is extremely diverse and what you have seen personally is not a representation of all people and situations.

​@@Fairygoblin777I hope you are doing better and have gotten to a good place with your treatment... And that you were in a decent facility because some of them can be a pretty hellish experience, especially if you were in a state institution😞 I have seen loved ones go through this and it's heartbreaking. At the same time, I really understand why people go off meds. It's frustrating to me when I see the consequences but I can't say i wouldn't struggle with taking antipsychotics too. I hope you've found something that works for you. And a therapist you like, that can be just as hard!

The way I’d fear for my life

And I thought working retail sucked. I would lose my job so fast lmao

I had to keep mace on me at the front desk i worked at.

me as a hospitality major rn

Exactly why I will never work in hospitality again. I was front desk at a spa connected to a resort and the amount of people who would book with the resort and just assume they would get a service in a spa was wild. Like, nowhere in your booking is that a guarantee. We are open to the public and we list on our website that we are usually booked out six weeks in advance. No way in hell would you get in, especially not when you just waltz in and demand I make space for you. What a frustrating job. I only had to do it for six months but the amount of entitlement I had to handle was too much.

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yea she deserves a customer service award, stayed entirely calm and kept to the script. give her a raise

I don't expect you to do anything, it has nothing to do with me

chill

Probably works a lot of the time too, unfortunately. Toothless management is what encourages this type of behavior.

i'm proud of you man. that must have been a lot of hard work to recover.

Ive been sober for two years and Im right there with you. The repressed rage and primal behavior coming out during blackouts is what made me seek help as well. we got this

These people are not necessarily horrible people. Their circumstances, both personal and situational, have led them to act like this. Its uncontrollable and recording them will only make them feel worse when they see the video go viral

@@dimwit3006they should feel bad for harassing people in public, lol what am i supposed to cry bc they’re being shamed for their bad actions

​@@dimwit3006good people don't take their petty anger out on other people, no matter the reason for it.

@abracabadass you might not know what people have been through. They might have grown up in a Foster home and their mental health has suffered drastically because of it. Some mental health issues like uncontrollablr sadness csn make you really emotional and lash out at people

@@dimwit3006 I hear you. I have PTSD, you don't have to read me on lashing out and mental hardships and not taking out on people... Trust me, I get it, but hear me please when I say mental health is not an excuse to treat people terribly.

very wise of her to remove their options of stuff to throw lol

Also id like to add, obviously with a long bed and pull out, you could probably fit 5 people in there and no one would have to sleep on the floor. I can tell that guy seems to be spoiled, probably affluent, and has never slept on the floor, and doesn't even see it as a possibility. I was forced to do that! Screw that guy. I would've been tempted to say, hey why don't you let your wife and kids have the bed, go sleep in the damned car!

maybe, maybe. even then, they should control themselves for lack of a better word. theyre still responsible for their actions, cause in my experience, my unmedicated friends with bpd can handle it very well and one of them has never had a negative attitude(?) towards me

​@@kaitlynmorgan4613sometimes it's hard to control these conditions for some people depending on how bad it is for them

⁠@@kaitlynmorgan4613nobody isn’t saying they aren’t responsible for their actions ffs. they’re saying that people should be more open to getting on medication and working on their mental health issues. OP literally said maybe they should “control themselves” by getting on medication. Also, not everyone struggling with mental illnesses act in a positive nonviolent way. kudos to your bpd friends on being able to self-regulate, but they don’t represent every mentally ill person.