Happy Sunday my lovelies, hope you are all so well? Have an amazing weekend :) hope you enjoy this video! All items linked under the video and I've updated some recent outfits here: liketoknow.it/emshelx LOVE YOU ALL! xxxx
@myg73803 ай бұрын
Just a word of advice, weddings are not to be compared. I got married in the south of France 7-years ago and people would say to me “your wedding made ours look awful”, or “urgh, you must look down at our wedding plans compared to what you had” and it honestly upsets me. Each wedding is unique, brings a unique group of people and vibe and whether it’s a town hall and a pub or a lavish 3-day event, it really doesn’t matter when you care about the people getting married and get to be part of their day. So drop the chat about your friends wedding, really, you shouldn’t care less and should concentrate on your own happiness and journey.
@Emshelx3 ай бұрын
Thank you! Yes don’t worry I’m just joking - it goes without saying their wedding was amazing but mine will be too, totally unique to us & individual! Thank you!
@michelleluvbeachsunsets45293 ай бұрын
I have been married for almost 35 years. Don’t wait for more money, expensive wedding dress or elaborate wedding. Just make sure whom you marry is your best friend and loves you just a little bit more than you love him. It’s about being a great team and supporting each other through the good and bad.
@maneskinnnnn71903 ай бұрын
why should you want him to love you more than you love him, thats a bit narcissistic, plus how can you ''make sure'' he loves you more, he might say he does but you dont know unless you are in his head lol
@JennyAmponsah20 күн бұрын
I know that whenever the big day comes around for you, you will look INCREDIBLE and you’ll be a true princess on your special day 😊😊😊😊😊😊 you’re a lovely girl both inside and out!
@quitesimplyemma54373 ай бұрын
Em you’re not annoying! You’ve apologised for being yourself so much to other people in the comments. People watch you because you’re a breath of fresh air, kind, funny and a genuinely lovely person. Never apologise for being yourself and you’re not annoying!! Be kind to yourself ❤️❤️❤️
@Emshelx3 ай бұрын
Thank you for being so kind 💗 if people want to be annoyed at me for saying the same word then honestly there are much worse things people could do! I won’t be everyone’s cup of tea and that’s totally okay! Thank you xxx
@semicountryliving30953 ай бұрын
Em , if you wait until your marry, then you're going to be your mother's age her second time around. You two have been dating for 10 freakin' years. A decade. No ring. Just sayin!! Also, never compare your wedding to Josie & Charlie's. That was a perfect wedding for those two who have completely different personalities and who adore their home and has made it a part of them. If you two do get married, but hey, there's no rush, I mean why not wait until your 40,-- then consider what it is you two have in common and create the wedding around that. Maybe a destination wedding, or a nursing home wedding if you continue to wait! 😜 I know you will take this lightly and that's the beauty of who you are. But seriously tho, just don't wait too long, or if he's not the one, then you two should owe it to each other not to stick around with each other and lead each other on OR if you just want to live together, that's fine too but then don't even go near bridal salons.❤ I know you don't want to feel like you're pressuring Matt, but you two really need to be honest with each other. Better Help!!
@Emshelx3 ай бұрын
Haha thank you for this 😆 it’s not about pressuring him, I genuinely don’t want to be married (to anyone) right now. I feel too young, there’s no rush and there is something else which is huge that we’re both working on behind the scenes first. I appreciate your advice I really do but we have had lots of conversations and I really am good with where we are at 🙌💗 ps it’s been 8 years, 9 in winter - we’ve got a while before 10 x
@Sky474673 ай бұрын
Why does a ring and marriage have to be the goal in every relationship? I’ve been with my partner 10 years and we have no plans to marry but we’re no less committed to each other and in it for life but we don’t need a piece of paper to tell us that.
@adventuresforthecurious3 ай бұрын
Lovely day! Thanks for taking us along. You always have such a fun time, no matter what you are doing, that you really are such a positive person to start a day with. Have a wonderful week!
@Emshelx3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! Such a lovely comment. Have a gorgeous week xx
@lisaconway23073 ай бұрын
Word of the video …. “Exciting” 😅laughing so much at how many times this is said in the first minute and a half x
@Emshelx3 ай бұрын
Haha sorry!
@lisaconway23073 ай бұрын
Don’t apologise!! 😂❤️ I was genuinely sat laughing 😆 At least we know you’re authentic 👌🏻 xx
@patw61583 ай бұрын
"Thou 'dust protest too much."😘
@Emshelx3 ай бұрын
You’re wrong!
@kaylheecarroll31863 ай бұрын
Em,when you and Matt are ready for marriage, it'll be special for you both and you're going to be a beautiful bride 👰♀ and you look gorgeous in the wedding dresses ❤😊!👰♂
@georgiaemery50083 ай бұрын
So true what the people in the shop said, you think you know what your dress will be like and then when it comes to choosing it it’s the opposite!! I went in with a vision I thought I knew, and the dress I chose and got married in couldn’t have been further from what I thought and even now when I look at it I cry with how perfect it was!
@Badluckblueyes3 ай бұрын
You said 'exciting/excited' 11 times withing the first 2m 28s. I mean, Em, youre a university educated woman, please , buy a thesaurus do us all a favour. Find some new words. And on a positive - your hair looks great tied up in the first part of the vlog.
@Emshelx3 ай бұрын
I’m going to start a game where we all take a shot every time I say excited / exciting or obsessed 😉 good counting! I may be university educated but luckily KZfaq is not me writing an essay! Sorry though haha. Thank you!
@Badluckblueyes3 ай бұрын
@@Emshelx no it's not you writing an essay, but this is your profession?! You're getting paid to do this for a living. I just think if you listened back before you posted it, surely you'd also notice it's too much. Anyway no hate, I'm a long time subscriber, just food for thought x
@Emshelx3 ай бұрын
I appreciate your feedback, I am a very excitable person and I’m sorry. KZfaq isn’t my job / I don’t really get paid to do it at all, I love it because it’s unpolished and fun / I can be myself - if that’s me saying excited / exciting 100x in a row then so be it! I think the fun goes if I start to second guess every word I say but I’ll be more aware in the edits and I’ll grab a thesaurus next time 😉 thanks for sticking around even though I’m annoying haha
@maneskinnnnn71903 ай бұрын
its her channel and she can say what she wants how often she wants. you're a fully grown woman, please focus on your own problems, stop being a keyboard warrior and do us all a favour.
@maneskinnnnn71903 ай бұрын
@@Emshelx em dont say sorry to these losers, do what you want, say what you want and ignore what these judgemental people on their high horses think, they should focus on working on themselves they clearly have enough problems
@stephaniesmith51413 ай бұрын
I'd agree entirely in not trying them on. Yous will get married when the right time comes. No need to rush ,as yous both say yous are happy how things are atm. Enjoy living life. I've been married, I've also lived with someone, there's no difference apart from one heck of an expensive day!😂😂😂 when the times right it will happen ❤❤❤
@maneskinnnnn71903 ай бұрын
but how long do we wait for a man to propose?
@danishpastry61373 ай бұрын
I'm so with you about big proposals - imho they are a bit tacky, especially when they happen on a big screen at a sporting event (does this even happen irl?), a big proposal in front of loads of people means its harder to say no, and makes me feel that the person asking is trying to remove that possibility. A small intimate proposal, with either just the couple themselves, or a few selected close friends and family is much more special and intimate, and a moment to treasure.
@deborah9723 ай бұрын
Happy sunday em great video ❤🎉😊 xx
@Emshelx3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much xxx
@ClareJo26053 ай бұрын
I'm with Matt, not to suggest that you are weird but always when eating a meal like a Sunday dinner I eat the meat with the vegetables, never on their own or separately.
@Emshelx3 ай бұрын
So intrigued by this!! Thank you!
@StayGold_Michele3 ай бұрын
Some people have nothing better to do than to come here and criticize you? Great Ghost of Caesar🙄 Anyway, fun video as always.... I don't watch all of your videos but whenever I do, it's always fun to go on your little adventures.... that's why I follow you because I like you and I actually enjoy it. Anyway, have a great weekend!❤
@Emshelx3 ай бұрын
I can’t imagine being annoyed at me using a word a certain amount of times etc haha it’s not that deep haha. I really appreciate you watching my videos and supporting, thanks for being so kind. Have a gorgeous weekend xxx
@StayGold_Michele3 ай бұрын
@@Emshelx but of course, you make it easy, because you're so likeable! Enjoy your day!! Xo
@susannebyrne74883 ай бұрын
How many times do you have to say that you are not engaged and can’t try on wedding dresses because it’s unlucky. At least 10 times.
@Emshelx3 ай бұрын
Just have to make it clear because I get so many messages asking if I’m engaged - it probably wasn’t ten times maybe an over exaggeration but to be honest if it was then oh well! I apologise - I’m very annoying!
@janaculbreth0073 ай бұрын
You’re the best Em!!!! Never ever annoying!! 😘
@Emshelx3 ай бұрын
Thank you lovely xxx
@JustAGirlThatLikesPurple3 ай бұрын
I know right.... She seems so insecure
@Emshelx3 ай бұрын
@@JustAGirlThatLikesPurple womp womp 🤣
@jackharrington6973 ай бұрын
Happy Sunday lovely Em hope your doing well!! ❤❤
@Emshelx3 ай бұрын
Same to you hope you’re well lovely xx
@Emshelx3 ай бұрын
Same to you hope you’re well lovely xx
@Shopaholic20003 ай бұрын
How weird to try wedding dresses when you're not even engaged whats more trying dresses you wouldn't wear!! If you fake more tan you'll resemble an umpah lumpah - not a good look😄
@Emshelx3 ай бұрын
Yeh we did say it was weird but we were invited by a friend and wanted to support her and do a girlie day, a lot of the girls there were single - who cares, life is short!
@jeanettenfreeland14083 ай бұрын
Happy Sunday fun day Em lol!!
@Emshelx3 ай бұрын
You too!!
@tinacarrol67023 ай бұрын
Morning Em. Loved The Lace Dress, Just Packing For My Holiday Tomorrow For 2 Weeks,Have a lovely Bankholiday Monday, Loved This Vlog. Xx 😘😊
@Emshelx3 ай бұрын
Have fun! How amazing! Hope yo have an amazing time and thank you so much for watching me whilst you pack lovely! Xx
@maneskinnnnn71903 ай бұрын
single childless women are the happiest and healthiest demographic, js
@mrmrsc71853 ай бұрын
Stunning in the dresses,how amazing!I just wondered have you bought a Abercrombie Emerson dress before,I'm sure you mentioned or maybe I imagined it🙈trying to find it on your KZfaq,anyway I've just ordered one so hope it looks and fits nice!xx
@Emshelx3 ай бұрын
Hey lovely! I did an Abercrombie haul maybe check if it’s on there? Xxx
@JosieIrons3 ай бұрын
Thank you for your kind words my darling!!!!! ❤❤❤❤ Also you’re a mad woman and eating bits separately hahahahah gotta have a bit of everything in each mouthful 😂😂
@Emshelx3 ай бұрын
Hahahahaahhs 🤣🤣🤣 the queen has spoken!!!!
@straycat14033 ай бұрын
Happy Sunday Em! Agree that you should not hurry to get married. My nephew just got married in January after being with his wife for 12 years. ❤
@Emshelx3 ай бұрын
Happy Sunday! Ahh that’s so lovely! 💗💗💗
@kj76343 ай бұрын
Hiya Em, lovely video😊 get married when you're both good and ready. You seem to have a lovely fulfilled life, great career, friends, long term partner and family, ignore the negative comments and keep on living your best life! Xxx
@jennifer68333 ай бұрын
I eat my steak first, combine my peas and mashed potatoes, eat the carrots separately. I eat like a child to Em.
@geordieinca98343 ай бұрын
2 words for the boyfriend, proposal planner!😂
@janaculbreth0073 ай бұрын
Let me say~ Matt is the one that should be honored if you ever accepted his proposal!!! ;)
@Emshelx3 ай бұрын
Hahahaah exactly!!!
@KatieCollins43 ай бұрын
Great stuff!
@Emshelx3 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it
@maneskinnnnn71903 ай бұрын
what was matts reaction when you told him you were trying on wedding dresses hahah
@calvinliu63043 ай бұрын
Happy Sunday!!! Looks smart for the wedding
@Emshelx3 ай бұрын
Happy Sunday! haha there is no wedding!
@Darkshade_013 ай бұрын
Happy Sunday lovely
@Emshelx3 ай бұрын
You too lovely!
@Darkshade_013 ай бұрын
@@Emshelx I hope you have a wonderful day today 😊🥰
@michellemccormack54153 ай бұрын
God your friend is so annoying on this vlog over talking you.just wondering who's vlog it is .
@Emshelx3 ай бұрын
I’m the annoying one! 😂 she’s great!
@JustAGirlThatLikesPurple3 ай бұрын
I agree. She's not a very good friend. She's so full of herself and just loves the sound of her own voice omg 🙄
@maneskinnnnn71903 ай бұрын
@@JustAGirlThatLikesPurple lol you dont even know her, clearly she's a good friend to em or she wouldnt be with her
@tamikajeanmarie3 ай бұрын
Hi Em, I'm new to your channel, and watching your videos and reading your comments has got me thinking. # One, KZfaq comments are rough; # Two, you spend a lot of time being Nice. But as someone in her mid-40s and in no way saying this to be mean or rude. I've learned that I would rather be Kind than Nice. When you are nice, you spend a lot of time trying to please others and apologize for being who you are. When you are kind, you speak the truth and have the courage to be disliked because it's for the greater good of others and yourself. Keep up the good work, and I look forward to watching future videos.
@Emshelx3 ай бұрын
Goodness what an amazing comment! Firstly, thank you for being here and finding me. This comment really really means a lot - I think I may need to start practicing that. It’s exhausting constantly apologising when I’m not harming anyone haha. Thank you 💗💗💗
@sarahm60993 ай бұрын
I feel like people put too much pressure on getting married. If youre in a great relationship together and talk about growing old snd your plans, then you dont need a ring. Ive had friends get married before me and they are alteady over. If you and Matt have a good relationship then dont focus on marriage so much. Live for the moment and if it happens in 5 years or 10, then you can just enjoy it when it comes. X
@Emshelx3 ай бұрын
Love this and totally agree! 💗
@spiky100003 ай бұрын
They always recommend not wearing tan when you try on dresses as they are white and it could transfer onto the dress 😢 My bridal salon asked me not to wear tan xxx
@Emshelx3 ай бұрын
Someone else said this to me! I guess if you have a natural tan or had a spray tan a few days before it wouldn’t transfer? 💗🤞
@drangonfliepink793 ай бұрын
I swear thouse croissants rival tescos a crosssant there is 1.15😮
@Emshelx3 ай бұрын
Hahaha i love this!
@lease93 ай бұрын
Em this video looked awesome Looked like you had fun supporting your friend by trying dresses on even though your not engaged was so kind of you. Sounds like your super excited for your mums wedding! It sounds like it will be amazing ❤ You dont have to be married to be in a solid happy relationship like you guys seem to be, when your ready it will be epic no matter how long it takes
@eimeare073 ай бұрын
Would they not be really annoyed in the Bridal Store if you stained the dresses with makeup / fake tan?
@Emshelx3 ай бұрын
You’d hope people wouldn’t get it on the dresses! Aka get a tan and go in a few days later so it doesn’t transfer!
@bojan783 ай бұрын
Hi Em. It seems like you’re the type of person who enjoys attending and hosting events. Big events. Seems that you might want the big fabulous wedding more than the actual marriage. Maybe? As you mentioned you feel like you’re already married. You and your guy don’t appear to be on the same page. Wish you all the best.
@Emshelx3 ай бұрын
We’re totally on the same page, both want a huge party for everyone we love but already feel ‘married’ 💗
@maneskinnnnn71903 ай бұрын
lol what happened to emily at 14:20 you forgot about her
@RiveraLeon-pp1bq3 ай бұрын
cool
@akilabraham24542 ай бұрын
❤
@maneskinnnnn71903 ай бұрын
why do you say when you ''hopefully'' get married? and 'one day maybe future husband '' i thought you said you and matt already agreed you would be getting married?
@Emshelx3 ай бұрын
Haha we’ve spoken etc but obviously things may change! We hope we will continue to be happy and stay together :)
@maneskinnnnn71903 ай бұрын
@@Emshelx you mean you dont fully believe matt when he says he will marry you?
@Emshelx3 ай бұрын
@@maneskinnnnn7190 oh no, I do! 💗💗
@maneskinnnnn71903 ай бұрын
why are the men always the prize??? it should be the man waiting for the woman to want to marry him!!!! he 's the lucky one!
@Emshelx3 ай бұрын
Haha love this
@SallyAlexandriaAlexParakeets3 ай бұрын
Hello from California. Hair looks fantastic, Em& Emily. Congrats from our channel * Sally Alexandria & Alex * Australian Parakeets Stars 🎉
@Emshelx3 ай бұрын
Ah thank you so much!!
@gerk72383 ай бұрын
Em, you never told us about all the cute boys you smashed in LA! Did you get the full American experience??
@Emshelx3 ай бұрын
Nil 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@gerk72383 ай бұрын
@@Emshelx Well excuse us then..not very hospitalable of us, is it! Could you fly me out to Sri Lanka or wherever you are from.. so we can…rendezvous🤤?