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@reshyrhee513 жыл бұрын
Thanks to Ruth may God continue blessing her
@phamineserica3 жыл бұрын
Am just here rolling my eyes😂😂😂😂😂coz am dating my best friend 🏃🏃🏃🏃
@Remodaniels3 жыл бұрын
@@phamineserica me too lol
@bettyshii7063 жыл бұрын
No I would feel like I'm dating my brother
@blessedmama53673 жыл бұрын
Nope ! I wouldn't be happy to know that he has been seeing mead a woman not a person .
@ireneatuke15813 жыл бұрын
Team single with no stress weka like ukipita
@evanatukunda25383 жыл бұрын
This is painful. I pray 🙏God gives you the strength 💪and the healing hand over your baby 👶
@ireneatuke15813 жыл бұрын
@@evanatukunda2538 Amen
@fl0rencemutuku403 жыл бұрын
🙈🙈🙈Sometimes I just ask myself more questions than answers
@positivesoul.94903 жыл бұрын
@@fl0rencemutuku40 why? 😅
@chntymnemo39643 жыл бұрын
@@fl0rencemutuku40 on my side I'm stressed more because I work had but still I cannot do the best for my Kids💔
@iamrubyandrew50433 жыл бұрын
Thank you everyone for your kind word's. It's very encouraging. You give me strength
@mswaithera53073 жыл бұрын
Anytime girl🥰such a lovely soul.
@whatagoal81153 жыл бұрын
Hello Ruby take heart my dear you an amazing soul indeed you are heading new heights, I have a question for you how can I find you?
@paulinenyambeki77883 жыл бұрын
Ekiababa be strong for the sake of your kid,This son's of pharaoh wako everywhere.
@amoskipkorir8243 жыл бұрын
Be strong my sister, it's well
@Mo-kei-rah3 жыл бұрын
It is well vava, things happen in life with a reason. God is with you and your Adorable baby
@lovethildah73403 жыл бұрын
I'm I the only one who finds her kid Adorable 🥰🥰? Every kid with disability is a special blessing from God,, their lives matters💪💪
@mumcounty3 жыл бұрын
Hoo yes , I have a son.who is physically challenged and God has blessed me alot through his prayers
@iamrubyandrew50433 жыл бұрын
@@mumcounty you're not alone my love
@phoebenyanje69313 жыл бұрын
For the first time seeing someone from Us 🇺🇸, very simple, humble, polite with normal English. God bless you n your baby🙏 ❤
@iamrubyandrew50433 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 English tungejulia wapi tukiwa indoors
@hellenkeesha43933 жыл бұрын
@@iamrubyandrew5043 I am impressed as well,, people go there and fake accents yet when white people don't change theirs when they come here.Ruby you are so strong,God bless you and may his favor always be with you and your daughter.
@getinspiredfeelmotivated3 жыл бұрын
Hukuona mercy atis?
@Pro067353 жыл бұрын
@@iamrubyandrew5043 lol
@susanathiei49853 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@paulinenyambeki77883 жыл бұрын
Kwani Lynn mliambiana outfit of a day. Likes za Lynn tukiendanga for the great work.
@iamrubyandrew50433 жыл бұрын
Lol😂
@annblessing55853 жыл бұрын
By the way outfit
@user-bu2sg7di3r6 ай бұрын
Yeah they look beautiful in same same outfit
@Wakinyua3 жыл бұрын
Narcissists are like brothers...all Stories I hear about them are alike.
@DrMaryMugo3 жыл бұрын
Hapo anaacha yeye akiwa mgojwa wanalala kwa floor na mtoi I couldn't help shed a tear.If you have faith let's lay hands on this child and she will be healed.
@kaytewambo31513 жыл бұрын
People hide so much while dating when you get married now you start seeing everything slowly by slowly....dating long doesn't mean you know the person well
@mercynyawira57193 жыл бұрын
That true
@MsNyongesa9813 жыл бұрын
True
@mercedes-benzbentleyranger10703 жыл бұрын
How can someone pretend like that???!!! Even an entire relationship they can pretend everything. Isn't it draining???
@emiejacktv28893 жыл бұрын
True!
@lite-ck5mj3 жыл бұрын
Woiiii soo true I have first hand experience... You can't know everything in a coffee date aki
@pendoonyango66763 жыл бұрын
For sure don't judge any woman who left her home to stay alone ,we go thru a lot some we don't say ,pipo are out there ready to judge and insult us without knowing what really inspired .May God give all single mothers strength to move on n way to provide for our kids n ourselves .Hugs dear God has a better plan for both of u .
@marymusyoki20453 жыл бұрын
Pendo I love your comments. Tumekiona and that's why one makes a way forward decision.
@pendoonyango66763 жыл бұрын
@@marymusyoki2045 Absolutely dear
@hairdoctorsalon17803 жыл бұрын
Amen
@gracenazi97243 жыл бұрын
Never quit your personal goals for a man...that screams trouble
@GO-wr3de3 жыл бұрын
Likewise for mean too...🤨ask me
@rkim39283 жыл бұрын
I think a controller will be one whether in Kenya or the US. A man who doesn’t want his partner to better herself is insecure, regardless of geography.
@delphnwach29503 жыл бұрын
This gal was my primary school classmate n friend..Ruth Bosibori😍God will see you through.
@mamanyamiraKemmy20273 жыл бұрын
Yes her names are Ruth Bosibori Omari.
@fiderismwenderichard97883 жыл бұрын
Who noticed they are matching, the outfits zimeweza
@Nyar-Karateng_TV3 жыл бұрын
Haha
@naomogwangi98433 жыл бұрын
kwani wali dress pamoja
@fiderismwenderichard97883 жыл бұрын
@@naomogwangi9843 ni kama
@zipporah.57143 жыл бұрын
Hahaha 🤣 you are funny.
@fiderismwenderichard97883 жыл бұрын
@@zipporah.5714 really?
@MishenOnMission3 жыл бұрын
Things went wrong when she left her life back and started living somebody's life (school and work) . Again hi anxiety ya kwenda USA is bad.. if he was a true friend and a good future man... He could be petient afanye exams then transition ya kwenda US ikuwea open and clear. Anyway pole Ruth... If the road could only talk. It could have told you what the future holds.
@winniegathura33773 жыл бұрын
Marriage only works if both parties have the intention that it should work. Lately, it’s a whole different story. Pride, ego, paranoid partners etc. Marriage should be a humble institution but it’s no longer that.
@maranguhillssecschool90943 жыл бұрын
Exactly Winnie
@fredrickkoech83963 жыл бұрын
Mm
@stellahmarriswambuwah99193 жыл бұрын
THERE IS SOMETHING WORSE THAN BEING SINGLE!!!MARRING THE WRONG PARTNER🔥🔥🔥
@pattiwanyeki4363 жыл бұрын
Well said
@veronicamakokha49923 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭
@stellamwali62643 жыл бұрын
Correct
@hairdoctorsalon17803 жыл бұрын
Point
@christinelihavi77143 жыл бұрын
Only God knows our lives wapiii likes za Lynn na guest for matching clothes
@jenipherachieng98373 жыл бұрын
One thing I've learnt about this stories za marriage; 1.Never leave your career to go settle unless you know you have a back up plan. 2.Joint account is okay but as a lady have your own backup account just incase. 3.Dont leave school so that you can get married utalilia kwa choo. And above all mothers going through such situations may God restore everything thats lost and Happy Mothers day in advance,we love you and cherish you.
@victorioussuestar31313 жыл бұрын
Learnt this first hand Noone should give up their life for marriage,everything should continue be it work, studies.....
@jenipherachieng98373 жыл бұрын
@@victorioussuestar3131 true
@roselinechuku40103 жыл бұрын
Exactly. These points are what I live my life by.
@estheresther80903 жыл бұрын
Keep praying for the baby too..I believe God can heal her completely...fasting and prayers works
@123keniakiki3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣prayers & fasting hasn’t worked for covid19.
@lbelieveinjesus61983 жыл бұрын
@@123keniakiki have you got it yet or lost a loved one? Maybe someone's prayers has kept you could be your parents prayers or siblings or God's grace has kept you dear, please, have an attitude of gratitude
@FavouredEunice.3 жыл бұрын
@@lbelieveinjesus6198 so true. Mostly our parents back at home pray for us every single minute. Huyu hajui anachosema
@estheresther80903 жыл бұрын
@@FavouredEunice. some People dont know they stand because of someone in the family Praying for them...life is spiritual, nothing just happens
@user-bu2sg7di3r6 ай бұрын
@@123keniakikiwe kwenda
@pamelaodede49573 жыл бұрын
I left mine also in Europe because he didn’t even want me intergrate to a foreign language. This men who bring people to the world of milk and honey ni Narcissists.the different is he was not a best friend but a stranger.
@phillipsidhojapap14613 жыл бұрын
Wewe uliendea pesa.. hiyo ndo shida. Yeye akaona wewe ni dependent, so anaku treat kama mtoto. That was part of the bargain when you enter such relationship. Hakuna cha bure
@LindaTinahTV3 жыл бұрын
The red flags, the red flags, the red flags, we always ignore them thinking it's going to be different for us.
@paulinekimanja81773 жыл бұрын
True
@mwindanji67143 жыл бұрын
Very true. If you cant stand something about your partner, find another. A leopard does not change his (or her) spots.
@ndutak56903 жыл бұрын
True...we ignore red flags for red roses.. im 30 years old and very okay being single, yes it sometimes sucks cause I want to get married and have kids, but I'm patiently waiting.
@user-bu2sg7di3r6 ай бұрын
@@ndutak5690me too dear am afraid of getting into marriage
@culateemma3493 жыл бұрын
Imagine going through all this in foreign land alone 🤦🏾♀️God is your strength Ruth all will be well....
@gracewambui65243 жыл бұрын
Sasa we are told to marry our best friends ...then boom!!Ruth gives her story 😪😪😪
@Gracia_Habibi3 жыл бұрын
I don't want to marry anymore I kif up
@sarahngwono45113 жыл бұрын
Everyone has a story, create yours and testify of its goodness
@ruthkonana87953 жыл бұрын
And we decided to go back to factory settings
@rosemutua97613 жыл бұрын
Dating or marrying us best friend is a suicide am a witness to this.
@sultanmswahilitv48643 жыл бұрын
Mtajua hamjui
@lucywangari67643 жыл бұрын
Getting married nowadays is like adding a problem in your life.Naishi single roho Safi.
@mercynjogu40273 жыл бұрын
Volume
@auntiemylee31573 жыл бұрын
Ongeza volume
@nyongesassafespacenss35183 жыл бұрын
So true.personally even a guy just saying hi to me irritates me.
@allan45283 жыл бұрын
Who hurt you, guys.
@Wakinyua3 жыл бұрын
Not always
@nimuyreemu37233 жыл бұрын
Am happy the baby is a US CITIZEN.....her medical future is in good care
@dorenmiramar45973 жыл бұрын
Not necessarily as a black child it's bleak in the white pple land
@mumbualove3 жыл бұрын
There's no universal healthcare in the US.
@julielilote34963 жыл бұрын
@@dorenmiramar4597 Not in France and Germany we have universal health care which free but pay through taxes. My kids are Germans,i am a french citizen. We have better health care than Germany.
@immanyathira68283 жыл бұрын
MARRY YOUR GOD ORDAINED HUSBAND:HII MAMBO YA BEST FRIEND NI KUTUPA...RAFIKI WA KWELI NI YESU..
@stanleywanjiru65563 жыл бұрын
How do you know who's God ordained?
@immanyathira68283 жыл бұрын
@@stanleywanjiru6556 the spirit never deceives, you will always see red, yellow or green flags,,kaa macho
@manchesterunitedakamrtread83173 жыл бұрын
Those are the worst
@janemwaura33193 жыл бұрын
@@immanyathira6828 am leaning towards that and full discernment coz nowadays fake is allover
@ambersmith77413 жыл бұрын
@@stanleywanjiru6556 God Doesn't Speak Much but Answer Much Many do people do their own Will But not the Will Of God Jeremiah 29 says When you call out to me and come to me in prayer, I will hear your prayers. When you seek me in prayer and worship, you will find me available to you. If you seek me with all your heart and soul, 14 I will make myself available to you,’ says the Lord.
@jom.89383 жыл бұрын
Maneno ya kuoa watu wa Diaspora- be very careful mtu ameka diaspora anakuja kenya anatafuta bibi ama bwana- trend carefully kwa sababu- when you are in Kenya you think kwenda majuu is the ultimate - your life will be made etc. BUT before I break your heart - 1. Never ever rush to marry someone who has lived in the diaspora esp.USA before you investigate vitu kwa ground- its so easy to love bomb from majuu - many are the exported spouses who are here crying, being treated like trash, isolated and humiliated. 2. Discuss in length vile utakuja kufanya- kama unapanga kwenda shule....discuss its possibilities before you even fly out of kenya and don't back down before you get to go to school. Keep your FOCUS and save yourself heartbreak. 3. Under no circumstances - get pregnant ***if you are stuck with an abusive or narcissistic person- they will torture you most when you are down plus adding a child to an already crazy situation is a no no. Listen some mad men will insist that wanachelewa and get their newly arrived wives 3 kids in 2 years- unajua this is suicidal in the diaspora- childcare is crazy, you are bound and isolated- some have commited suicide due to torture. So no pregnancy until you know your way around and make other friends. 4. Watch out for isolation- people don't want you to meet other Kenyans, start talking bad about anyone you talk too.....restricts your movements and/or your finances. Before you leave Kenya, make sure you know another kenyan number- it doesn't matter if they are your villagemates from the other ridge whom your mother knows. Get their # and as soon as you land call & say hie- you never know when you may need them or their input. You don't have to post anything on social media but anyone telling you to cut your social media etc- watch out. Best wishes
@vivianmaina45153 жыл бұрын
Out so true
@sandratolle3 жыл бұрын
Everything you have written is spot on and so true. Those with ears will listen.
@freeasabird52393 жыл бұрын
That is my husband is one sentence. Thank God i took myself to school even though late than i had planned.,i understand his Narcissistic tactics.. Someone can trash you one second and love- bomb you when they need something (money) from you in the name of investment back home that are not even in his name. When i first came here (USA) mine used to call everyone that was close to me even his own family members, not to ever call me ...anyone that is willing and ready to orient me .I stayed for 6 months with no phone only landline ya nyumba. Hata nikitembea kwa street i can't call nobody.
@jom.89383 жыл бұрын
@@freeasabird5239 pole sana my dear. Let us educate our dear sisters at home......hawa diaspora fiance's na hata wazungu pia ni mtu awe macho. Wengine wamezunguka, ni ma alcoholics, hakuna mtu in diaspora in their right mind who can marry them- then wanaenda home kuchukua fiancé who is so in love (love bombing manenos & foolishly falling for "love is blind") mtu akifika 🇺🇸 blinders Zina anguka- ndio unajua even in your lowest ukiwa Kenya 🇰🇪 hungeongea na majamaa wengine, hujawai starve ama lala jaa.....imagine. Have heard of many stories in the states. Glad you survived
@cheronolinet41603 жыл бұрын
Now we can put this way,let people in Diaspora marry their own if they are kenyans let them marry themselves,and that's how they are doing nowdays since they complain bringing someone to U S A reaching here they start Drama 😅
@leahkemunto93993 жыл бұрын
Men who import wives from Kenya 🙅♀️🙅♀️ they are the sweetest lakini fika tu US....... one day I’ll tell my story... pole Ruth, I’ll reach out we are neighbors.
@emiejacktv28893 жыл бұрын
Many women are going through really tough situations and are suffering in silence! I pray that we all find some respite, someway somehow... 🙏Happy mothers day to all our gallant women out there🌹❤️
@narcissisticabuseawareness36073 жыл бұрын
It’s sad!
@nyongesassafespacenss35183 жыл бұрын
sadly many wont walk out coz of what the society will think of them.Nothing as important in life like happiness and peace of mind
@emiejacktv28893 жыл бұрын
@@nyongesassafespacenss3518 hmm. Sad.. But really the ''how'' always, is the problem..
@jamesg82863 жыл бұрын
And men as well. They dont talk about it. I know so many
@phillipsidhojapap14613 жыл бұрын
Tough situations are not unique to women
@joskyshams47583 жыл бұрын
Who has realized she don't tweng? Mwingine ameenda USIU juzi and we can't breathe.
@setapartforhisglory19253 жыл бұрын
🤣
@bekaogoro70713 жыл бұрын
😆
@lilyanekageha65813 жыл бұрын
Hahaha hiyo ni kali
@lynnmdavid3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@lydiakirigia84693 жыл бұрын
Ukweli uwesi send ametoka uko....kiswahili pia ako sawa
@angel.----3 жыл бұрын
Wee sasa Mimi mambo nimekuwa nikijionea ni kama marriage ni scam...I think the best thing ni God anipatie job nilee watoi wangu coz men aaaiii anyway may God see you thru dear lyne😍😍😍
@krystynaha24553 жыл бұрын
I want to be strong like ruth and other women who are father and mother to their children.....it's not easy but with God it's easier.
@nyabokethehoneybee89123 жыл бұрын
Amen
@nancymusungu37033 жыл бұрын
Same category
@nyongesassafespacenss35183 жыл бұрын
Thinking of being a single mom coz i can comfortable provide for a child...i just cant stomach men anymore
@gracenzuki12983 жыл бұрын
N may the Lord give us strength
@liliannthenge89603 жыл бұрын
You can do it.... trust in God always 💕
@perezali46513 жыл бұрын
Kind of these things is why some of us are single. I don't understand why people hide their true character while dating, Ruth you are blessed in a special way the lord will see you through together with your baby mothers are special in the society let's us adore and celebrate 💖💖 💖 mothers outside there
@aokookello55643 жыл бұрын
When you are told marry your best friend, it doesn't mean someone you have known for a while, it simply means someone whom you date like friends.
@daizymonnie95883 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@auntiemylee31573 жыл бұрын
U r right
@abedi60883 жыл бұрын
Take heart..People do change but God never changes..When people turn their backs on you, remember the Creator can never leave you..May your sorrows turn to Joy and happiness
@wlkmwlkm33813 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@thecomingmessiah78863 жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@thecomingmessiah78863 жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@CherieDeDieu3 жыл бұрын
There is something spiritual behind this. Pray, pray, pray....there is a reason God brought you to Kenya at this particular time.
@thefarahatlifestyle3 жыл бұрын
When you got married that's when you know the true colour of your partner.. I can tell this with confidence.. Marriage is not a must thing in life.. God will lift you up Ruth for the struggle. Never choose Marriage over everything.. Your best friend a times turns to be your nightmare. Hugs Mums 💖💖💖
@iamrubyandrew50433 жыл бұрын
Thank you Noor. Allah bless you 🙏
@thefarahatlifestyle3 жыл бұрын
@@iamrubyandrew5043 Allah Grace is Always sufficient.. I love you mama and that spirit you have God Bless you my dear,, one day will shine here in TUKO when you come back to speak about his I mean God blessings.. Love and Hugs Ruth 💖💖💖💖
@thecomingmessiah78863 жыл бұрын
True
@faithmbithe11553 жыл бұрын
Well said gal.mambo mirriam
@dotdots78683 жыл бұрын
Marriage is accomplishing half of ur deen and prevent u from zinah
@mbotemary16813 жыл бұрын
Hapo kwa shule. I lost my man since i decided to go back to school and he was so insecure thinking naenda shugli zingine instead of him supporting me all he could do was oppress me and it got to a point i had to walk away. Ruth you're a strong lady may God bless you
@lizmamaina81253 жыл бұрын
Insecurity....will kill them....
@chasingclouds71013 жыл бұрын
Me too. He left because I went to do my masters. Saa hii niko PhD and going strong.
@zuhurakinyanjui77313 жыл бұрын
Why are men so jealous of women?
@tenge5293 жыл бұрын
Most ladies pay attention to superficial attributes like height,whether he drives or not,etc instead of looking at the quys character and heart.
@marywathoni9013 жыл бұрын
Shes so beautiful , calm n composed thanks Lyne
@johnkubondo86613 жыл бұрын
My baby died through that condition, me and my wife we stayed and believed in God. Nimeona hiyo story inauma sana n am saying if have a kid like that treasure the baby
@mercye.42773 жыл бұрын
POLE SANA SANA. MUNGU AWATIE NGUVU. NAWEPENDA BURE NA MKEO. MAANA MLIJUA SIRI YA KUACHIA MUNGU.
@kanungoetieko85623 жыл бұрын
Pole John.
@mariahcarrey77803 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that
@joskyshams47583 жыл бұрын
Hugs pole
@ireneabuya72313 жыл бұрын
so sorry
@Maryblessedgirl3 жыл бұрын
Be strong mama, he has a void in him and don't know what to do with himself to fill it in. Narcisitic people derive pleasure in hurting others. Jijenge mamii..
@achiengcaroline59203 жыл бұрын
I agree, all narcissists are climbing out of the woodworks. They are the devils children.
@tenge5293 жыл бұрын
Most ladies pay attention to superficial attributes like height,whether he drives or not,etc instead of looking at the quys character and heart.
@anitahdarling72333 жыл бұрын
ladies learn to love yourself na kama it's not working just walk out. some marriages ni scam haki. God give you strength woishe Ruth and your baby is adorable. Doha mko well represented team hamam kama kawaa
@rispathequeen3 жыл бұрын
Yes Doha🇶🇦🇰🇪
@anitahdarling72333 жыл бұрын
@@rispathequeen yes na tu nakazana tu
@ambersmith77413 жыл бұрын
I will say this From Joshua Selman,,, Don't Marry your Best friend Or Someone You Love First Of All Seek First Thy Kingdom of God and all things shall be added unto to you that is Marriage, Businesses, Family etc we can never Know someone's heart or Intentions it May all look soo Good at the Beginning but in the next 5 to 10years you will be Crying reason being you didn't Involve God in your relationship or asking him if he's the one or Not because our heart are so deceiving.
@itsdemidy54393 жыл бұрын
DON'T GO INTO MARRIAGE GUYS. STAY SINGLE AND ENJOY LIFE BY YOURSELF. Am 26 yrs old Just got my first job as a lawyer 1 year ago in Nairobi.. i go to vacation alone and support my family home . Single and happy. I wish people could embrace single life.
@christineatieno3 жыл бұрын
Le people try marriage life even for few months and find out what exactly it is. Give it a trial mamy
@itsdemidy54393 жыл бұрын
@@christineatieno my friend. Let me tell you. 7 out of 10 cases that we handle here in court every week is about MARRIAGE. people are really suffering in marriage..mostly women. I would advise people to first be stable financially before going into marriage. Or second best option is NEVER try Marriage. Look around you and judge by yourself... 80% to 90% of marriages are not happy so why should you get into one.
@nimuyreemu37233 жыл бұрын
@ITS DEMIDY very true...
@geeglow82693 жыл бұрын
@@christineatieno ndio mtu akufe na depression ama uuliwe
@sarahraymond77193 жыл бұрын
Me to i don't even wish to get married one day i don't even want to know how marriage life is let me enjoy my single life
@magnam68073 жыл бұрын
I'm impressed that she's not developed that irritating American accent (with a loud African accent clashing with it😉). May God come through for her
@Isaiah--vj2xu3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for giving words to my irritation.. Well explained 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@annaondara30213 жыл бұрын
Thank you for saying it. So irritating when people do that! I leave in America for several years now but I can never imagine forcing myself. I actually embrace my natural tongue
@teckie__songsofworship66803 жыл бұрын
Ruth your kid is a blessing,may God locate destiny helpers to you.
@iamrubyandrew50433 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭 thank you
@lucyjuliana73453 жыл бұрын
@@iamrubyandrew5043 God bless you
@teckie__songsofworship66803 жыл бұрын
Wapi likes za Ruth and Lynn apart from sad strong they look gorgeous💞💕💕
@marykariuki73813 жыл бұрын
Compare the healthcare systems in the US and Kenya. In Kenya I am sorry to say the baby would not be here today. And then getting some support to take care of a child with special needs in the USA compared to not getting any in Kenya. I feel sad at the state of healthcare in 🇰🇪
@julietmutiso80913 жыл бұрын
Imagine you call emergency and they respond in four minutes. Kenya is one for himself God for us all
@marykariuki73813 жыл бұрын
@@julietmutiso8091 I know... my cousin collapsed and died a few years ago. I always wonder if there was better healthcare she would have probably lived. It’s a sad state of affairs
@esthergitau7773 жыл бұрын
I am also liking the fact that 911 responds that first 4 minutes!
@marykariuki73813 жыл бұрын
@@esthergitau777 nice 👍🏿
@maryannekimani37483 жыл бұрын
I have never heard about "shock" in Kenya u don't breath u r dead nothing more
@jemmyshiko35273 жыл бұрын
Karma will caught up with him,but God is the Judge..Our God is faithful.Ruth from Us simple,humble and kind speaking normal English..Woow she is the best.wapi like za Ruth.
@rozabellkigotho27253 жыл бұрын
Huyo mjamaa ile itamkuta ata kukumbuka Ruby, God is seeing all he has done to you and his daughter. Ruby God bless you and give you strength.
@Cheezyb34tz3 жыл бұрын
Pole sana! Nilipitia hayo yote kama wewe. The minute i walked out of the abuse, I got my life back na mwanangu yuko salama. Ahsante Mungu
@denilsonmecha23703 жыл бұрын
Marriage nowadays is full of drama and heartbreaks is same as being an Arsenal fan
@suekimberly57983 жыл бұрын
Unachomaaaa😁😁
@denilsonmecha23703 жыл бұрын
@@suekimberly5798 wapi dear😂
@suekimberly57983 жыл бұрын
@@denilsonmecha2370 Fans wa Arsenal😰
@denilsonmecha23703 жыл бұрын
@@suekimberly5798 haha mtakua sawa soon
@suekimberly57983 жыл бұрын
@@denilsonmecha2370 Mimi ni wa ManU
@nairobae3 жыл бұрын
She didn’t lie. Life in America is not as sweet as everyone thinks it is. Huku ni kazi. Yes, it has opportunities but before you get there...wah the struggle & suffering is real!
@saharodon10873 жыл бұрын
I feel like he had the red flag when he was dating you but you were too busy to see that . I can’t believe she was Oky with him when he says he will be the one going to the school instead of her . I would be mad 😡 if someone says don’t do this i would be the one doing it .
@yumrecipes44613 жыл бұрын
In life don't listen too much of relationship advices one should listen to what God is saying
@tenge5293 жыл бұрын
true
@janechomba21133 жыл бұрын
Those suits looks alike and are so beautiful. Hit likes za unplanned similar suits. 💕👍
@ksgrmdsdl23833 жыл бұрын
feminist coats
@annyjoyceungelle17113 жыл бұрын
Dada Mungu akutie nguvu, when you have a physical challenge kid,always men run away, the burden of taking care of a child is for mother,please siz keep on praying, take the child to men of God, she will be delivered in Jesus Name,i love you from 🇹🇿
@theceefamily77643 жыл бұрын
Infact she will get back to her normal an walk again,talk an enjoy life as other normal children,GOD works an I know Ruth u are a strong believer ❤️💪 🌞🙏🇰🇪.
@catherinenaswa50283 жыл бұрын
Very true mine married secretly because my son has Cp nilimuwachia Mungu
@seraphinegudo70753 жыл бұрын
"Be still and know that am God." Psalms 46:10
@monicahlishiarwangendo31783 жыл бұрын
Katika Maisha tunakutana na watu tofauti .ata ndughu wa toka ni toke hukosana ila kwa yote tisa Chuki Ni Ngumu Kubeba Samehe Ili upate Amani .Yarabbi akubariki Ruth na Lynn pamoja na familia zenyu
@anitaonyango40733 жыл бұрын
I feel Sis (Ruth) needs to engage in fasting and prayer, all this is not normal. From her baby suddenly getting cardiac arrest at that tender age, to her marriage falling apart suddenly. All this calls for God's intervention for God to expose the enemy working against her life and to restore her life.
@nzingomazera92143 жыл бұрын
True
@mamachloe103 жыл бұрын
My thoughts at the beginning because he hates her! Something spiritual is a miss!!!!
@beatriceletting85403 жыл бұрын
There things in life that happen and only God knows why.. most people will think having a child with special needs is a curse or having a broken marriage is a curse..no it's not I see it being a blessing..they say God cannot give you what you cannot handle.. it's all planned shes making a difference by helping other families in need when herself needs help..its amazing and I'm inspired by her story.
@teopistorsind98743 жыл бұрын
@@beatriceletting8540 Get real. Marriage is God ordained. How then can broken marriage not be a curse? The Bible says our war is not of flesh and blood but spiritual. So it is true what others are saying, she should engage in a spiritual warfare. Prayer and fasting.
@Xixoz3 жыл бұрын
Stop conspiracies, anyone’s kid can get sick and marriages break angetaka she could stay ateseke but she was wise..this life anything bad can happen to anyone
@teckie__songsofworship66803 жыл бұрын
I really feel so sad ,many people think having kids with disabilities is a burden,,,but truly u never know his/her ability ;God has good plan for each other and we should appreciate the God's work
@victoriamali52493 жыл бұрын
It takes a special and a great person to have a special child.. the lady is a beautiful lady with a beautiful heart
@maasaimkisii90893 жыл бұрын
Be blessed Ruth and those who are here seeing this "you're adorable just the way you're" God bless you and your beautiful Family
@iamrubyandrew50433 жыл бұрын
Thank you Maasai for your support 🙏
@teddybusima3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for being strong for your child, never give up
@pendop16623 жыл бұрын
Life has no manual..if u try to script it, it proves you wrong..yule Mungu amepanga utazeeka nae it doesn't matter whether ni stranger, enemy ama friend
@hopeinallah51123 жыл бұрын
Lol hapo kwa enemy
@shikohmuriithi52163 жыл бұрын
When you think you married your bestfriend,then things fall apart😥😥...Pole Sana Ruth
@iamrubyandrew50433 жыл бұрын
We will be okay. Thank you Shikoh
@gladokeryy4993 жыл бұрын
All this stories of Tuko talks makes me know that be still in God and know he knows our sorrows and problems we under go through in marriage.
@Amicus.Curiae4113 жыл бұрын
Sasa tuhamie wapi?Mara marry your Best Friend haiwork 💀,ukipenda mtu hapendeki 😱😱Wooi God remember these marriages 🙏🙏
@summerrose84393 жыл бұрын
Tasha Ray, tujioe tu imagine huwezi kujipatia stress. I have already started saving for my dowry because my dad has started ironing his kaunda suit and building stables for cows. Tasha this sijui nini, is not making my teeth go yellow because of stress.
@summerrose84393 жыл бұрын
@Kaye Ti if you marry yourself you are safe, then you can divorce yourself when it's too much and just give up with your dignity intact. Some of these men are heartless.
@Amicus.Curiae4113 жыл бұрын
@@summerrose8439 mimi nimeamua kujipenda kabiiisa kama matokeo ni haya 💀💀
@eunicewairimu50153 жыл бұрын
Tuambie mungu atupee husbands
@summerrose84393 жыл бұрын
@@Amicus.Curiae411 100% usipojipenda hakuna ataekupenda sis, mapenzi ya sikuhizi ni fake. Stay blessed .
@phyllismagunde58443 жыл бұрын
What really pained me is, even if you had differences, how could a father abandon his child when you were so sick that you couldn't even cook for the baby? Even suggesting that you take 100% custody of the baby? He should never have turned his back on his own child. May The Lord see you through. May you never lack anything in your life, in JESUS name. Continue to acknowledge God's presence in your life. He will carry you through.
@laurachepwogen8002 Жыл бұрын
May her and the baby live long to testify the goodness of the lord in the land of the living
@annmuthemba88753 жыл бұрын
Happy mothers day to all Mothers in all universe
@wanjirungari57813 жыл бұрын
Happy mothers day to you mama ngotho
@teresianjeri45443 жыл бұрын
Happy mother's day to you to
@thatsreality11773 жыл бұрын
Happy mother's Day 🏵️🌹 to you all
@annemary81823 жыл бұрын
Happy mother day to you too!
@proudgakware77993 жыл бұрын
Happy mother's day to you too
@samuelchege92313 жыл бұрын
Wow! this lady is very beautiful. May God bless all the single moms with pure intentions and give them strength every day.
@carolynbosibori34033 жыл бұрын
This is my long time friend from high school a great and strong lady .My dear you're an inspiration to many.May God use you to change many.
@mercymackey48463 жыл бұрын
She was my classmate a really strong woman
@noniotalexas83843 жыл бұрын
@@mercymackey4846 which school?
@gracemugoh14173 жыл бұрын
Yaani Lynn youre always matching with your guests ! Unplanned!! This show is from God
@victorioussuestar31313 жыл бұрын
😂Gives me doubts sometimes
@modikiramaisa46193 жыл бұрын
I love what she said at the end that as a woman don’t get too comfortable and despondent make sure u can drive , work , study even if it’s online
@achiengcaroline59203 жыл бұрын
This happens to all weather highly educated, employed and well established, a narcissist or an abuser will do it do it regardless.
@modikiramaisa46193 жыл бұрын
@@achiengcaroline5920 true my point was if you get too comfortable if or when the man changes you’re not completely left vulnerable
@juliagichs13 жыл бұрын
@@achiengcaroline5920 true.
@jessandsons.81532 жыл бұрын
Very true...character development has made some of us realize this.
@damacklinelaban77703 жыл бұрын
Ruth, you are the strongest woman ever, every woman wants the best for her children.
@hazelimali6543 жыл бұрын
Thank you for saying Marry your best friend at your own risk😂😂 watu waku marry best friends how are you?
@liliankemunto31243 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@risperngetich21943 жыл бұрын
Here we are
@keishycutie95263 жыл бұрын
Marriage is like a scam , I better stay single also remembering how my ex husband destroyed our marriage bringing another lady in the house at night and throwing me out like a dog I slept whole night in the streets rained on and no where to go but I'm thankful I'm somewhere now with God grace. Take heart dear with God everything is possible God has a reason for everything and I believe your daughter is a hero
@kevookila9223 жыл бұрын
and you are strong also
@keishycutie95263 жыл бұрын
@@kevookila922 yes I am
@eleanorayebare14063 жыл бұрын
Point to note: Its not the tribe or religion that makes someone good.
@patiencemwende38413 жыл бұрын
Very true
@iswinfred86313 жыл бұрын
May God give you strength to keep on going Ruth I really shed tears 😭😭😭Some marriages are scam really scam .....I think these people who are disliking this video ni shemeji ya huyo mmbaba 🚮🚮🚮
@keepingupwithvancey3 жыл бұрын
You will alway be my best friend Ruby. I’m glad you were able to share your story to inspire many people out there . Love you 😘
@faithmunyaka36293 жыл бұрын
Na mlituambia we should marry our friends something's need God's intervention.
@julietprettyakoth30193 жыл бұрын
Haki surely
@sultanmswahilitv48643 жыл бұрын
Ni mungu tu
@MissKabugarah3 жыл бұрын
Listening to this story is just making my heart weep. Being in such a situation myself. Ethan didn't make it but in all God will restore all that I lost in my years for lack of better words. Take heart sister. Jesus loves you and you are worth to receive all good things in yours and baby's life.
@akiaikamar68133 жыл бұрын
My dear Take heart, this moment will pass away. All I can say it will not take a day, a week or a month. Read acts 4: 23 to the end Prayer for boldness to go through everything.
@kbanda31483 жыл бұрын
Amen
@queengracenjeri1673 жыл бұрын
I take care of my different abled sister since 2015 when my mother died (rip) after everyone rejected her, and for sure God is faithful, we never lack food, shelter, school fees or money for her nanny, she is a blessing and my first born and a special gift mum left for me.
@abigaelpeace50583 жыл бұрын
God bless you abundantly 🤗. May you never lack in Jesus Name 🙏
@sheilawangari65483 жыл бұрын
God bless you n increase you in Jesus mighty Name
@truphymaya55173 жыл бұрын
Pole sana ruth im so sorry i never knew you had passed through all this..pole sana praying for you and baby.God bless you.singeweza kua kwa wedding but my family was there..will call mama.much love and hugs
@halimashaban76373 жыл бұрын
Hugs mum🤗, raising a child with special needs ain't easy but God gives strength..I got disability @ 23years, that man will realize later Hujafa hujaumbika..
@iamrubyandrew50433 жыл бұрын
Thank you Halima you're too kind. We're here together
@martawambua65563 жыл бұрын
To answer your question Lynn, YES.. been married to my childhood friend ( friends since class one ) for the last nine years . We are blessed with two adorable daughters and my only regret is not having married him sooner . It's been worth everything
@lucilleomwodo99853 жыл бұрын
Lynn is asking some legit questions? Good job Lynn and Tuko team!!
@terrygolda45253 жыл бұрын
Exactly. when something is not clear she just interjects to ask like she has read my mind
@nectarblue3 жыл бұрын
Nothing wrong with marrying your best friend but remember, we have all kinds of friends. We know their weaknesses and shortcomings. The lure of going to American perhaps made you ignore all the Red Lights. I have had many male friends but l know for sure lbwoukd never marry them.. Marriage can be a bed of Roses or Thorns depending on who is in it.
@thetekellyfamily3 жыл бұрын
THE TEKELLY FAMILY 💕❤️ today we are late but we never miss ...tuko geng ❤️❤️ al the way.... This is another sad 😭 story we lack words... And the way people say "marrying your best friend is the sweetest thing" it's always different we guess .. take heart mamaaa ❤️❤️❤️
@justineakyusa65113 жыл бұрын
I know the stress of paranting abroad wen ur spouse is not caring i almost lost my life till i gave it abreak
@barbrabarbra62083 жыл бұрын
Marry your best friend at your own risk, thanks mama and much love lynn mungu akubariki sana
@sophiaafrah35303 жыл бұрын
Oh my God so hard to believe but it could be true
@novelettewilliams5273 жыл бұрын
Lynn,this Tuko is all around the world please, when the guess don't speak English, please add captions
@tenge5293 жыл бұрын
Most ladies pay attention to superficial attributes like height,whether he drives or not,etc instead of looking at the quys character and heart.
@tenge5293 жыл бұрын
@@sophiaafrah3530 Most ladies pay attention to superficial attributes like height,whether he drives or not,etc instead of looking at the quys character and heart.
@judynyarangi69963 жыл бұрын
That was a narcist. Gal move on. God grant you strength and wisdom.
@lydiakusimba72663 жыл бұрын
Single forever Wacha nikae na watoi wangu
@esk1473 жыл бұрын
Single mothers mnakuanga bitter...
@djzezeman27153 жыл бұрын
Better wee uko single na watoi, how will others be single without a child?
@gracewambui65243 жыл бұрын
@@esk147 we are not bitter...the things we have experienced.only God knows
@bettychepchirchir56713 жыл бұрын
I second this dear
@givensnamuduma44723 жыл бұрын
Same here dear acha nkapambane na mtoi wangu tu
@saharodon10873 жыл бұрын
I feel like he didn’t love you from the start but I wondered if you ask him what was his intention to marry you. I have had many stories of women who got bad married bu I happy that at least you stood up for yourself and i hope every women in the world Would stood up for themselves and never ever let any man to control their lives . Every women 👩 is special, and they are gift . They deserve happiness more than the men who treats them bad .
@teckie__songsofworship66803 жыл бұрын
God bless those doctors at least they never give up on helping Ruth💞💞🙏
@irinetongoi52173 жыл бұрын
I wish may future husband could be listening to this tuko😌😌...my you tube without tuko is like Kenya without corruption😂😂.. thanks so much team tuko you have really educated me and so many people,,,without forgetting hiyo outfit yenu Lynn mko👍
@aura-pp4ml3 жыл бұрын
Be patriotic nah 😂😂😂
@irinetongoi52173 жыл бұрын
@@aura-pp4ml Ok fine😄
@user-bu2sg7di3r6 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂wewe nawe
@shiishii69483 жыл бұрын
This story hv really touched me, may God continue add this gal the favor
@njokistockinger18373 жыл бұрын
Very true mtu akikutoa Kenya they kinda think they own you and need to control you,not only Kenyans but pia Wazungu from experience.
@oobrowyeonarm33393 жыл бұрын
Hey Ruby, so sorry you’ve gone through emotional, financial and psychological abuse in the hands of that awful man. You are strong with a lot of tenacity and with time you will I reckon you’ll find yourself, break boundaries/stigmas as you keep advocating for your little miss fighter. God picked YOU, just you because he knew you had it in you to look after your little precious girl. I believe through networking you can find a friend who understands CP to assist your little girl and willing to help you then you can go ahead and fulfil your career/study goals. Go Ruby, you’ve got this!!!