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Thank you everyone for your kind word's. It's very encouraging. You give me strength

I'm I the only one who finds her kid Adorable 🥰🥰? Every kid with disability is a special blessing from God,, their lives matters💪💪

For the first time seeing someone from Us 🇺🇸, very simple, humble, polite with normal English. God bless you n your baby🙏 ❤

Kwani Lynn mliambiana outfit of a day. Likes za Lynn tukiendanga for the great work.

Narcissists are like brothers...all Stories I hear about them are alike.

Hapo anaacha yeye akiwa mgojwa wanalala kwa floor na mtoi I couldn't help shed a tear.If you have faith let's lay hands on this child and she will be healed.

People hide so much while dating when you get married now you start seeing everything slowly by slowly....dating long doesn't mean you know the person well

For sure don't judge any woman who left her home to stay alone ,we go thru a lot some we don't say ,pipo are out there ready to judge and insult us without knowing what really inspired .May God give all single mothers strength to move on n way to provide for our kids n ourselves .Hugs dear God has a better plan for both of u .

Never quit your personal goals for a man...that screams trouble

I think a controller will be one whether in Kenya or the US. A man who doesn’t want his partner to better herself is insecure, regardless of geography.

This gal was my primary school classmate n friend..Ruth Bosibori😍God will see you through.

Who noticed they are matching, the outfits zimeweza

Things went wrong when she left her life back and started living somebody's life (school and work) . Again hi anxiety ya kwenda USA is bad.. if he was a true friend and a good future man... He could be petient afanye exams then transition ya kwenda US ikuwea open and clear. Anyway pole Ruth... If the road could only talk. It could have told you what the future holds.

Marriage only works if both parties have the intention that it should work. Lately, it’s a whole different story. Pride, ego, paranoid partners etc. Marriage should be a humble institution but it’s no longer that.

THERE IS SOMETHING WORSE THAN BEING SINGLE!!!MARRING THE WRONG PARTNER🔥🔥🔥

Only God knows our lives wapiii likes za Lynn na guest for matching clothes

One thing I've learnt about this stories za marriage; 1.Never leave your career to go settle unless you know you have a back up plan. 2.Joint account is okay but as a lady have your own backup account just incase. 3.Dont leave school so that you can get married utalilia kwa choo. And above all mothers going through such situations may God restore everything thats lost and Happy Mothers day in advance,we love you and cherish you.

Keep praying for the baby too..I believe God can heal her completely...fasting and prayers works

I left mine also in Europe because he didn’t even want me intergrate to a foreign language. This men who bring people to the world of milk and honey ni Narcissists.the different is he was not a best friend but a stranger.

The red flags, the red flags, the red flags, we always ignore them thinking it's going to be different for us.

Imagine going through all this in foreign land alone 🤦🏾‍♀️God is your strength Ruth all will be well....

Sasa we are told to marry our best friends ...then boom!!Ruth gives her story 😪😪😪

Getting married nowadays is like adding a problem in your life.Naishi single roho Safi.

Am happy the baby is a US CITIZEN.....her medical future is in good care

MARRY YOUR GOD ORDAINED HUSBAND:HII MAMBO YA BEST FRIEND NI KUTUPA...RAFIKI WA KWELI NI YESU..

Maneno ya kuoa watu wa Diaspora- be very careful mtu ameka diaspora anakuja kenya anatafuta bibi ama bwana- trend carefully kwa sababu- when you are in Kenya you think kwenda majuu is the ultimate - your life will be made etc. BUT before I break your heart - 1. Never ever rush to marry someone who has lived in the diaspora esp.USA before you investigate vitu kwa ground- its so easy to love bomb from majuu - many are the exported spouses who are here crying, being treated like trash, isolated and humiliated. 2. Discuss in length vile utakuja kufanya- kama unapanga kwenda shule....discuss its possibilities before you even fly out of kenya and don't back down before you get to go to school. Keep your FOCUS and save yourself heartbreak. 3. Under no circumstances - get pregnant ***if you are stuck with an abusive or narcissistic person- they will torture you most when you are down plus adding a child to an already crazy situation is a no no. Listen some mad men will insist that wanachelewa and get their newly arrived wives 3 kids in 2 years- unajua this is suicidal in the diaspora- childcare is crazy, you are bound and isolated- some have commited suicide due to torture. So no pregnancy until you know your way around and make other friends. 4. Watch out for isolation- people don't want you to meet other Kenyans, start talking bad about anyone you talk too.....restricts your movements and/or your finances. Before you leave Kenya, make sure you know another kenyan number- it doesn't matter if they are your villagemates from the other ridge whom your mother knows. Get their # and as soon as you land call & say hie- you never know when you may need them or their input. You don't have to post anything on social media but anyone telling you to cut your social media etc- watch out. Best wishes

Men who import wives from Kenya 🙅‍♀️🙅‍♀️ they are the sweetest lakini fika tu US....... one day I’ll tell my story... pole Ruth, I’ll reach out we are neighbors.

Many women are going through really tough situations and are suffering in silence! I pray that we all find some respite, someway somehow... 🙏Happy mothers day to all our gallant women out there🌹❤️

Who has realized she don't tweng? Mwingine ameenda USIU juzi and we can't breathe.

Wee sasa Mimi mambo nimekuwa nikijionea ni kama marriage ni scam...I think the best thing ni God anipatie job nilee watoi wangu coz men aaaiii anyway may God see you thru dear lyne😍😍😍

I want to be strong like ruth and other women who are father and mother to their children.....it's not easy but with God it's easier.

Kind of these things is why some of us are single. I don't understand why people hide their true character while dating, Ruth you are blessed in a special way the lord will see you through together with your baby mothers are special in the society let's us adore and celebrate 💖💖 💖 mothers outside there

When you are told marry your best friend, it doesn't mean someone you have known for a while, it simply means someone whom you date like friends.

Take heart..People do change but God never changes..When people turn their backs on you, remember the Creator can never leave you..May your sorrows turn to Joy and happiness

There is something spiritual behind this. Pray, pray, pray....there is a reason God brought you to Kenya at this particular time.

When you got married that's when you know the true colour of your partner.. I can tell this with confidence.. Marriage is not a must thing in life.. God will lift you up Ruth for the struggle. Never choose Marriage over everything.. Your best friend a times turns to be your nightmare. Hugs Mums 💖💖💖

Hapo kwa shule. I lost my man since i decided to go back to school and he was so insecure thinking naenda shugli zingine instead of him supporting me all he could do was oppress me and it got to a point i had to walk away. Ruth you're a strong lady may God bless you

Shes so beautiful , calm n composed thanks Lyne

My baby died through that condition, me and my wife we stayed and believed in God. Nimeona hiyo story inauma sana n am saying if have a kid like that treasure the baby

Be strong mama, he has a void in him and don't know what to do with himself to fill it in. Narcisitic people derive pleasure in hurting others. Jijenge mamii..

ladies learn to love yourself na kama it's not working just walk out. some marriages ni scam haki. God give you strength woishe Ruth and your baby is adorable. Doha mko well represented team hamam kama kawaa

I will say this From Joshua Selman,,, Don't Marry your Best friend Or Someone You Love First Of All Seek First Thy Kingdom of God and all things shall be added unto to you that is Marriage, Businesses, Family etc we can never Know someone's heart or Intentions it May all look soo Good at the Beginning but in the next 5 to 10years you will be Crying reason being you didn't Involve God in your relationship or asking him if he's the one or Not because our heart are so deceiving.

DON'T GO INTO MARRIAGE GUYS. STAY SINGLE AND ENJOY LIFE BY YOURSELF. Am 26 yrs old Just got my first job as a lawyer 1 year ago in Nairobi.. i go to vacation alone and support my family home . Single and happy. I wish people could embrace single life.

I'm impressed that she's not developed that irritating American accent (with a loud African accent clashing with it😉). May God come through for her

Ruth your kid is a blessing,may God locate destiny helpers to you.

Wapi likes za Ruth and Lynn apart from sad strong they look gorgeous💞💕💕

Compare the healthcare systems in the US and Kenya. In Kenya I am sorry to say the baby would not be here today. And then getting some support to take care of a child with special needs in the USA compared to not getting any in Kenya. I feel sad at the state of healthcare in 🇰🇪

Karma will caught up with him,but God is the Judge..Our God is faithful.Ruth from Us simple,humble and kind speaking normal English..Woow she is the best.wapi like za Ruth.

Huyo mjamaa ile itamkuta ata kukumbuka Ruby, God is seeing all he has done to you and his daughter. Ruby God bless you and give you strength.

Pole sana! Nilipitia hayo yote kama wewe. The minute i walked out of the abuse, I got my life back na mwanangu yuko salama. Ahsante Mungu

Marriage nowadays is full of drama and heartbreaks is same as being an Arsenal fan

She didn’t lie. Life in America is not as sweet as everyone thinks it is. Huku ni kazi. Yes, it has opportunities but before you get there...wah the struggle & suffering is real!

I feel like he had the red flag when he was dating you but you were too busy to see that . I can’t believe she was Oky with him when he says he will be the one going to the school instead of her . I would be mad 😡 if someone says don’t do this i would be the one doing it .

In life don't listen too much of relationship advices one should listen to what God is saying

Those suits looks alike and are so beautiful. Hit likes za unplanned similar suits. 💕👍

Dada Mungu akutie nguvu, when you have a physical challenge kid,always men run away, the burden of taking care of a child is for mother,please siz keep on praying, take the child to men of God, she will be delivered in Jesus Name,i love you from 🇹🇿

"Be still and know that am God." Psalms 46:10

Katika Maisha tunakutana na watu tofauti .ata ndughu wa toka ni toke hukosana ila kwa yote tisa Chuki Ni Ngumu Kubeba Samehe Ili upate Amani .Yarabbi akubariki Ruth na Lynn pamoja na familia zenyu

I feel Sis (Ruth) needs to engage in fasting and prayer, all this is not normal. From her baby suddenly getting cardiac arrest at that tender age, to her marriage falling apart suddenly. All this calls for God's intervention for God to expose the enemy working against her life and to restore her life.

I really feel so sad ,many people think having kids with disabilities is a burden,,,but truly u never know his/her ability ;God has good plan for each other and we should appreciate the God's work

Be blessed Ruth and those who are here seeing this "you're adorable just the way you're" God bless you and your beautiful Family

Thanks for being strong for your child, never give up

Life has no manual..if u try to script it, it proves you wrong..yule Mungu amepanga utazeeka nae it doesn't matter whether ni stranger, enemy ama friend

When you think you married your bestfriend,then things fall apart😥😥...Pole Sana Ruth

All this stories of Tuko talks makes me know that be still in God and know he knows our sorrows and problems we under go through in marriage.

Sasa tuhamie wapi?Mara marry your Best Friend haiwork 💀,ukipenda mtu hapendeki 😱😱Wooi God remember these marriages 🙏🙏

What really pained me is, even if you had differences, how could a father abandon his child when you were so sick that you couldn't even cook for the baby? Even suggesting that you take 100% custody of the baby? He should never have turned his back on his own child. May The Lord see you through. May you never lack anything in your life, in JESUS name. Continue to acknowledge God's presence in your life. He will carry you through.

Happy mothers day to all Mothers in all universe

Wow! this lady is very beautiful. May God bless all the single moms with pure intentions and give them strength every day.

This is my long time friend from high school a great and strong lady .My dear you're an inspiration to many.May God use you to change many.

Yaani Lynn youre always matching with your guests ! Unplanned!! This show is from God

I love what she said at the end that as a woman don’t get too comfortable and despondent make sure u can drive , work , study even if it’s online

Ruth, you are the strongest woman ever, every woman wants the best for her children.

Thank you for saying Marry your best friend at your own risk😂😂 watu waku marry best friends how are you?

Marriage is like a scam , I better stay single also remembering how my ex husband destroyed our marriage bringing another lady in the house at night and throwing me out like a dog I slept whole night in the streets rained on and no where to go but I'm thankful I'm somewhere now with God grace. Take heart dear with God everything is possible God has a reason for everything and I believe your daughter is a hero

Point to note: Its not the tribe or religion that makes someone good.

May God give you strength to keep on going Ruth I really shed tears 😭😭😭Some marriages are scam really scam .....I think these people who are disliking this video ni shemeji ya huyo mmbaba 🚮🚮🚮

You will alway be my best friend Ruby. I’m glad you were able to share your story to inspire many people out there . Love you 😘

Na mlituambia we should marry our friends something's need God's intervention.

Listening to this story is just making my heart weep. Being in such a situation myself. Ethan didn't make it but in all God will restore all that I lost in my years for lack of better words. Take heart sister. Jesus loves you and you are worth to receive all good things in yours and baby's life.

My dear Take heart, this moment will pass away. All I can say it will not take a day, a week or a month. Read acts 4: 23 to the end Prayer for boldness to go through everything.

I take care of my different abled sister since 2015 when my mother died (rip) after everyone rejected her, and for sure God is faithful, we never lack food, shelter, school fees or money for her nanny, she is a blessing and my first born and a special gift mum left for me.

Pole sana ruth im so sorry i never knew you had passed through all this..pole sana praying for you and baby.God bless you.singeweza kua kwa wedding but my family was there..will call mama.much love and hugs

Hugs mum🤗, raising a child with special needs ain't easy but God gives strength..I got disability @ 23years, that man will realize later Hujafa hujaumbika..

To answer your question Lynn, YES.. been married to my childhood friend ( friends since class one ) for the last nine years . We are blessed with two adorable daughters and my only regret is not having married him sooner . It's been worth everything

Lynn is asking some legit questions? Good job Lynn and Tuko team!!

Nothing wrong with marrying your best friend but remember, we have all kinds of friends. We know their weaknesses and shortcomings. The lure of going to American perhaps made you ignore all the Red Lights. I have had many male friends but l know for sure lbwoukd never marry them.. Marriage can be a bed of Roses or Thorns depending on who is in it.

THE TEKELLY FAMILY 💕❤️ today we are late but we never miss ...tuko geng ❤️❤️ al the way.... This is another sad 😭 story we lack words... And the way people say "marrying your best friend is the sweetest thing" it's always different we guess .. take heart mamaaa ❤️❤️❤️

I know the stress of paranting abroad wen ur spouse is not caring i almost lost my life till i gave it abreak

Marry your best friend at your own risk, thanks mama and much love lynn mungu akubariki sana

That was a narcist. Gal move on. God grant you strength and wisdom.

Single forever Wacha nikae na watoi wangu

I feel like he didn’t love you from the start but I wondered if you ask him what was his intention to marry you. I have had many stories of women who got bad married bu I happy that at least you stood up for yourself and i hope every women in the world Would stood up for themselves and never ever let any man to control their lives . Every women 👩 is special, and they are gift . They deserve happiness more than the men who treats them bad .

God bless those doctors at least they never give up on helping Ruth💞💞🙏

I wish may future husband could be listening to this tuko😌😌...my you tube without tuko is like Kenya without corruption😂😂.. thanks so much team tuko you have really educated me and so many people,,,without forgetting hiyo outfit yenu Lynn mko👍

This story hv really touched me, may God continue add this gal the favor

Very true mtu akikutoa Kenya they kinda think they own you and need to control you,not only Kenyans but pia Wazungu from experience.

Hey Ruby, so sorry you’ve gone through emotional, financial and psychological abuse in the hands of that awful man. You are strong with a lot of tenacity and with time you will I reckon you’ll find yourself, break boundaries/stigmas as you keep advocating for your little miss fighter. God picked YOU, just you because he knew you had it in you to look after your little precious girl. I believe through networking you can find a friend who understands CP to assist your little girl and willing to help you then you can go ahead and fulfil your career/study goals. Go Ruby, you’ve got this!!!