I was his punching bag for four years and he tried circumcising me with his teeth- Carole

I was his punching bag for four years and he tried circumcising me with his teeth- Carole | Tuko TV

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I was his punching bag for four years and he tried circumcising me with his teeth - Carole | Tuko TV
When Carole Maritim eloped with the man she thought was the love of her life at 21, no one would have told her the same "Tall, Dark and Handsome" man as she calls him, would turn heartless and openly beat her mercilessly in front of her children.
At one point, he even wanted to circumcise her using his teeth saying she was not a "proper" woman. But one day she decided enough was enough
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@Tuko 4 жыл бұрын

What message do you have for Carole and for anyone in an abusive relationship? If you would like to share your story with us, please send us an email at news@tuko.co.ke , lyn.ngugi@tuko.co.ke or Whatsapp us on 0732482690

@caroleobadha681 4 жыл бұрын

Strong girl...it is like she was narrating my story. I left 10 yrs ago and am now happy.

@sarahruth1718 4 жыл бұрын

I can Relate at 25 in abusive relationship i looked 50. Left for 20yrs ago. Am Almost 50.. and i look 20. Glory to God

@Fm-MornStar2014 4 жыл бұрын

I'm a Sociologist and I can feel & understand this lady very well. This 'soldier-husband' might have some psychological condition resulting from not getting 'war-aftermath' counselling. I wish Tuco could bring the other side of the story.

@christinegakure882 4 жыл бұрын

@@Fm-MornStar2014 stop making excuses

@Fm-MornStar2014 4 жыл бұрын

@@christinegakure882 re-read my comment. Just a speculation, no bad, that's why I requested to hear from the other side.

@janicerobbie1768 4 жыл бұрын

Wale wa Kilimani tuwache like hapa😍she is so pretty

@vitsalu4294 4 жыл бұрын

Kerubo Janice tuko hapa 😆

@scholahmghoi5872 4 жыл бұрын

I can remember her story in kilimani group ,kudos to her

@salmanamianga9868 4 жыл бұрын

Niko hapa

@lizzienabiswa 4 жыл бұрын

Very

@tonyamara4563 4 жыл бұрын

This channel is brainwashing women into modern feminism. Always painting men in the bad light. We very well know there is always two sides of a story. Women are great liars she will narrate how she was mistreated yet can't say even one thing she did wrong. Ohh so let's assume this lady here is an angel she has never hurt a fly..all this is bullcrap. I was raised by a single mother and I hate my mum for not letting me get fatherly love from my dad. This woman reminds me of my hypocrite mum who used to torture my dad both verbally and mentally till he hit her. My dad once told me my son one day you will be a man and you will know the truth. As we speak I got a job and it's my dad who connected me to it. On the other hand my mum dated many men after my dad and all her relationships failed. She was always sad and miserable always resentful. She tried to poison us into hating my father but deep down I knew she was an evil woman. My dad re married and looks younger than my mum who is still miserable and ill. I was glad to move out of that house it was so toxic all the women who congregated there after my dad left talking I'll about him. I hate AL my aunties from my mums side, my small sis has also moved out of that sad house. I want to tell this to all women,once you leave your husband the happiness will be short-lived all the friends who supported you to leave your marriage will leave you and you will die miserable and alone. KEEP ON WITH YOUR FEMINISM AND DIE ALONE AND MISERABLE

@faithmemo1 4 жыл бұрын

Don't misunderstand single mother you don't know what they comes through before they decide to be single

@mwariwanjeri9391 4 жыл бұрын

Well said

@judynyambura8889 4 жыл бұрын

Kabsa tulipitia mengi

@janenjenga5639 4 жыл бұрын

Very true

@hellenahjohnson9661 4 жыл бұрын

Tell them ooh

@inspiremotivatekenya2286 4 жыл бұрын

True only the wearer of the shoe knows

@thenetwork1045 4 жыл бұрын

Lyn kindly be showing people the pictures of those men so that other women would avoid them kama unaagre gonga like apo

@everlynengoto1793 4 жыл бұрын

I agree

@joycegatambia5733 4 жыл бұрын

It would be unfair bcoz we have not heard the man's side of the story.

@oniekurira6588 4 жыл бұрын

Joyce there is really not much to hear from the man really, no excuse whatsoever for bashing your wife, he even was reported to police, he is just a jerk period.

@teshthemjs6554 4 жыл бұрын

Yeah I agree with you

@jacobmalova4891 4 жыл бұрын

Not really necessary, pple change 'mui hua mwema'...if the man can change then he will be couragious enough to come out & tell the truth

@drazenmusichi4563 4 жыл бұрын

Wueh, that guy must be regretting how beautiful she has become after the break up, sahii anatamani re match lkn ataionea Viusasa.

@wanjirukarago9308 4 жыл бұрын

She's so beautiful now than when she was in marriage...peace is expensive only you who can go find nobody will bring it for you....she is now at peace one can see .

@janenjenga5639 4 жыл бұрын

Kabisa

@sophiespira6367 4 жыл бұрын

I hope he doesn't come back to kill her the way soldiers kill their wives and they are never sent into the gallows... They go scot free. Girl should be careful. Praying for her.

@neemakrekamoo4789 4 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@sylviemorgan9770 4 жыл бұрын

U notice that too😀👍🏿

@dorcuskencey6816 3 жыл бұрын

I can relate to you! I was raised with a step mum,dad and my step siblings. I got pregnant at the age of 17, *I admit I made a mistake at that time* my dad didn't want to see me at all,no one wants to defend me or talk on my behalf to my dad so that he could allow me to stay. I ended up marrying the father to my kid who was going on with his studies in high school. At there homestead, I became a maid,I used to work so that I could please everyone....😔, And I learnt how to cook over there..... later as months goes on my kid were also growing up and I decided I'd leave there and better myself.....I didn't want to look like 30's or 40 when I was still under 20's *back then......* Then the worst happened, when the father/that guy forced himself on me,,,😢 they know you have no where to go...... they'll take advantage of you at any given time.......you feel 💔 and down but you have no one to talk with so you just zip it in and eats you up..... *People always ask,how can husband rape his own wife?* They do,I can assure that,I've gone through that and worst... is when you end up getting pregnant from it💔😡 After that,I planned how I could leave that homestead, *I was done with everything,maid thing,being used as garbage pit,* my kids were both walking and I knew it was fine for me to think about myself....but before that I was kind of hesitating many times until we had a fight..... *That fight really OPENED my eyes wide* I left my kids for a year,got stable job and I took my 2 lovely girls who are now teenagers...... since 2007 I have never seen him (the father to my kids) and I'm very much ok with it,,he moved on with his life *(After trying to do the impossible to get me back which it couldn't even happen, I had decided and that was it)* *As single mum of 2 teenage daughters,we are very happy with our 3 family,I work hard for them, pay all bills on my own, both kids are studying in boarding, currently they're being home schooled,I bought a piece of plot in kondele, kisumu,I'm from Western Province,my biggest wish is to see that I've managed to built on it, which I'm planning next year God willingly.* *PROBABLY IF I COULD STILL BE IN THAT STUPID MARRIAGE, I COULDN'T HAVE KNOWN MY OWN WOMAN STRENGTH AND BE ABLE TO BETTER MYSELF THIS FAR*

@onlythebrave4655 3 жыл бұрын

Bless you darling

@ngaiziwezebbykatuuo3314 3 жыл бұрын

Brave mama

@elizabethmwaura5954 3 жыл бұрын

You are a brave woman and you will build and even do more

@inspireasoulchangealife6198 3 жыл бұрын

Iron lady! May God keep being present and your biggest support system in life. Congratulations

@Haustine3507 3 жыл бұрын

Mungu akulinde

@magarematara8919 4 жыл бұрын

She looks young and beautiful than when she was in marriage.

@ifgodsayyes.nobodycansayno1796 4 жыл бұрын

KABISA UMEGONGA NDIPO

@santakironji9054 4 жыл бұрын

It just reminded me of my past.the day i decided to walk out that was the beginning of new things in my life. I was called barren now am a mum to a three yr old handsome boy..Mungu aitwe Mungu..

@isabellakarimiwilke7806 4 жыл бұрын

Amen Siz

@santakironji9054 4 жыл бұрын

@Cathie Kahura nop

@inspiremotivatekenya2286 4 жыл бұрын

Woow congrats

@fabyscarl 4 жыл бұрын

Amen 🙏

@marykalondu848 4 жыл бұрын

Wow....congrats dear

@WanjiruMuya 4 жыл бұрын

Nobody talks the pain children go through when their mother decides to stay in a toxic marriage😢😭kids hurts the most💔💔

@nancyruoruo1025 4 жыл бұрын

Their mind get destroyed and can affect they future choices

@chocolateblended 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this comment. I grew up in such a home. My dad would beat my mom for no reason. My brother was the one to try and separate them when he was around. My father would beat us kinyama for something so small. When he wasn't around it was like, now we can finally exhale. School was my solace. I hate my father for being abusive and resentful for my mother for never leaving. My older sister is now enamoured by abusive men. No one talks about the kids how it affects us. Living in a house with a terrorist

@princessshamim6539 4 жыл бұрын

@@chocolateblended my father was abusive too 😭😭😭

@chocolateblended 4 жыл бұрын

@@princessshamim6539 I'm sorry to hear that sis.

@carolinenjoroge9351 4 жыл бұрын

@@nancyruoruo1025 am one of those children! I got cptsd! Am 30, my dad is a malignant narcissist

@krystynaha2455 4 жыл бұрын

I went through the same relationship but I felt guilty coz the guy was an orphan..... mine used to tell me "Beba zako uende kwenu.... I decided to become stupid not until he hit me with a kettle which had hot water that I was boiling to make my kid's porridge , I was lucky that the electricity was deem .... ni mungu tu , sometimes I ask myself what if the water had boiled???? I still stayed while planning to move on until one morning when he slapped me just coz my kid misplaced the remote .... nilitoka bila kurudi nyuma ....am now a happily single mum.

@jessibaraza9238 4 жыл бұрын

Krystynah A pole sana dear 😢

@jacklinendinda6571 4 жыл бұрын

Strong woman

@santosodhiambo1240 4 жыл бұрын

Pole sana

@cskinny1864 4 жыл бұрын

You strong

@beriahbarua2152 4 жыл бұрын

Pole sanaa u r a strong lady, u made a good decision by stepping out

@ms.selina65 4 жыл бұрын

I saw her on fb and thought it was a scam..I actually thought she was using her mum's pics as her Before...Woi marriage issa scam...She's so pretty

@masibosvlogmasibos9738 4 жыл бұрын

Never be a slave in the name of children

@DK_Burner 4 жыл бұрын

You're very right but sometimes it happens and i feel sorry those who"re in that position now and those who were before

@janenjenga5639 4 жыл бұрын

Very true

@kinglemuel8241 4 жыл бұрын

Kabisa

@dellakenyangirl5271 4 жыл бұрын

Agreed

@olivianamureme9363 4 жыл бұрын

Amen

@naomiakoth2958 4 жыл бұрын

Even me my husband could tell me Sasa wewe ukitoka hapa utaenda wapi, one day I decided to call it quit and here I'm I thank God for this far he has brought me

@carolinenjoroge9351 4 жыл бұрын

They're like demons

@lilianchybire9610 4 жыл бұрын

Pole Naomi, God is faithful through it all.

@inspiremotivatekenya2286 4 жыл бұрын

Pole jaber

@happysoul5356 4 жыл бұрын

@simply pash you think everything comes on a silvery Plate

@motshedisimohlahloe1018 3 жыл бұрын

my name is mpho from south africa,im in a process of divorce with my abusive husband,we were married for 7years,the day he broke my nose thats when i started planning to leave him.and i thank God that he blessed me with a job a week after he moved out..he is also a soldier by the way

@nancygatitu7715 3 жыл бұрын

Move on dear, God has a good plan for our lives. You will make it, with God all things are possible

@winnieachieng2764 4 жыл бұрын

Most women who look aged they r not old at all. Frustration n stress can beat life out of anyone..... People r just breathing... Not living life to the fullest.

@rodahndulu5924 4 жыл бұрын

Mother's in law !! Rem that if you have a girl child one day she will get married what u do to ur daughters inlaw expect same to be done to them and may be worse

@maureenmamagift 4 жыл бұрын

True

@nyamburamatanda 4 жыл бұрын

Sp true look at her before. Two different people!!!!stress huzeesha wamama

@terrynjamiu908 4 жыл бұрын

Hapo umenena

@gruendlichmummy4083 4 жыл бұрын

Aki you are right I've seen many and when they get comfortable and meet them again you can't believe it

@marylisabobo7113 4 жыл бұрын

Please be tagging pictures of those men so that no other woman goes through the same thing

@kisembosafina4209 4 жыл бұрын

yrscof course

@damamom6868 4 жыл бұрын

Yes

@joanmwangi5624 4 жыл бұрын

No need coz some women will say u failed as a woman, n they think they are the best

@jkkamonya 4 жыл бұрын

@@joanmwangi5624 thats when you let then go and see if they have the magic wand. They can say you failed; you failed to live your best life, but never failed to save your life. I think thats an great fail Joan, right?

@VanNyaimbo 4 жыл бұрын

Marylisa bobo no need, remember he is the father of their children.

@blatherbosire5638 4 жыл бұрын

Lynn you really have good journalism skills, letting someone speak out her heart .

@tedigital6328 4 жыл бұрын

True. She doesn't try to outshine the interviewee unlike other socialites. And she is so relatable and empathetic

@Probity100 4 жыл бұрын

Best Kenyan tv interviewer. The rest just ask questions then don’t give their guests time to reply and talk over them. Kelele kama empty mikebes. Lynn keep it up.

@freestaressymusic 4 жыл бұрын

She must have done some Counselling...

@LeshaoL 4 жыл бұрын

I agree .. her skills are out of this world .. so humble

@keyjoh2971 3 жыл бұрын

This should be a tv station....we should have our own citizen tv

@terrynjamiu908 4 жыл бұрын

Parents please accept ur divorce daughters from their marriages.....better divorced than a dead child

@consolatawamatu4549 4 жыл бұрын

That's true,

@ceciliakaari782 4 жыл бұрын

consolata wamatu but the problem is pressure from the society..the way they view you after you run away from your marital home due to abuses and torture. Some women opt to die at home rather than face the societal pressure.

@consolatawamatu4549 4 жыл бұрын

@@ceciliakaari782 do not worry about the society each and everyone has his/her own life. The society will talk where we like it or not, and a time will come they will keep quiet when they see your life has changed to blessing, it's better to quit because that's not the end of the world, go start anew life,

@sharonmakungu9185 4 жыл бұрын

@@ceciliakaari782 u didnt get married bcoz of the society.furthermore these things do happen everyday everywhere .so u wont be the first nor the last.rem also if u r killed u will be blamed for staying in that relationship .so its your life and only u know what u going thru.

@terrynjamiu908 4 жыл бұрын

@@consolatawamatu4549 pamoja

@KidCrowder 4 жыл бұрын

Domestic violence should be declared a national disaster in Kenya and dealt with accordingly

@janenjenga5639 4 жыл бұрын

Really

@KidCrowder 4 жыл бұрын

@@janenjenga5639 Ooh so what happened to her was a good thing? and you hear so many cases like these families fighting and killing each other yet the perpetrators get away with it...

@nm90halisi 4 жыл бұрын

How will it be declared when the dimwits are concentrating with bbi

@mariniafrikamashariki5455 4 жыл бұрын

@@nm90halisi sad

@tsongamadetheowdenburg3085 4 жыл бұрын

KidCrowder Not only in Kenya, in Tanzania and the USA too.

@veronicahkelvins1137 4 жыл бұрын

I remember wangu pia aliniwekea 1k kwa meza ati niede but sikueda hio siku vile alirudi akaniuliza sasa wewe unaweza eda wapi Lakini siku moja nikasema enough is enough Since 2006 hadi leo tuko poa na waschana wangu wawili I thank God

@abdullmalik7847 4 жыл бұрын

Wapuzi sana wana ume

@dorcuskencey6816 3 жыл бұрын

Hata mimi since 2006,I've never seen my kids father,my girls wako poa sahii they're teenagers.

@eunicendungu8868 Ай бұрын

Huggs mami

@gracekuria5053 4 жыл бұрын

God, you look old caro while you were in that marriage ,but now it's like you are on early 20s. Wacha Mungu aitwe Mungu

@janenjenga5639 4 жыл бұрын

Very true

@muiruridayo 4 жыл бұрын

that is what stress does to people.

@derrickakala802 4 жыл бұрын

Na shetani aitwe shetani

@yeawhatever6178 4 жыл бұрын

And there are people out there who judge single mothers...

@achatwithgoitse 4 жыл бұрын

At least now things are coming into the open. We must really TAKE OUR TIME to get married like she said, and never be desperate for it. Amen

@marisafaith9975 4 жыл бұрын

Mostly a hidden form of misogyny always the women's fault. Don't listen to those guys they just have issues with their mom it's quite funny. Instead of moving on, here they are....

@nm90halisi 4 жыл бұрын

25:39 never rush into marriage. The wisest statement ever made. I always hate how the society keeps forcing people into marriage as if it is the paramount thing.

@nampijjanazifah6358 3 жыл бұрын

No one forced her but just she go a wrong person. I have seen those who marry at 30+ but still divorce... so it's about who you meet. Am happy she moved out that hell.

@roseletsworkinpjs1427 4 жыл бұрын

Aki she looks so happy and confident now. Plus she looks much younger.

@Michaeljj2 4 жыл бұрын

kzfaq.info/get/bejne/qL94YJeQnqrVaZs.html check this one

@berylmoige4521 4 жыл бұрын

She is the reason why am still strong today, I love you my friend, So sweet,so pretty amd intelligent, wishing you all the love and hugs. WOMAN OF STEEL

@ibraqhimosman8670 4 жыл бұрын

Those people in the comment section saying aty she must have deserved what she got I say shameee on youuuu There is no reason to raise a hand on a woman No excuse for domestic violence

@muthoniwanjohi1842 4 жыл бұрын

Nani hao aki.. I've come to learn of the power of the toungue. Some things you don't speak about aimlessly coz you attract them.... Have empathy

@rahmamohamed1253 4 жыл бұрын

Very true

@A28CB 3 жыл бұрын

Many of these individuals are victims of domestic violence or they are the abusers. They don't know any better.

@eunicevwamula8545 4 жыл бұрын

I was also a punching bag for 11yrs before i opened my eyes. In the name of my kids and what society will say

@cskinny1864 4 жыл бұрын

Sorry, stay strong dear

@MM-gv3dz 4 жыл бұрын

Your kids will thank you for having the courage to leave an abusive marriage. I always wished that mother would have left my dad. And society can go to hell.

@kevinwachira4617 4 жыл бұрын

Real men don't hit women that man was a coward.

@Godschild1277 4 жыл бұрын

Very true... We need more men like you Kevin... Big up...

@winfredwanjiru4638 4 жыл бұрын

True just look at the way she is beautiful aki,that guy lost a gem

@nanimkenya1015 4 жыл бұрын

it depends

@mimsbaibe6mimsgul737 4 жыл бұрын

Double sure

@nancyruoruo1025 4 жыл бұрын

Wachira big up

@nyarombejoan2600 4 жыл бұрын

That marriage was toxic she looked so old but now she looks so young and beautiful

@rechoshaby3843 4 жыл бұрын

Hahahaha

@BillysFamily 4 жыл бұрын

That mother in law will reap what she did . May the Lord give you a heart to bless them . Even though they did you wrong . Thank you for so much inspiration

@Ijusthavequestions 4 жыл бұрын

Billy's Family I was looking for someone else who was going to comment about that part. Phew! I just needed one person to mention that lol.Thank you. I was hoping I wasn't the only one who considered that angle of her story because that aspect is an underlying trend with many domestic abuse stories that I have heard.

@judymwende6712 4 жыл бұрын

Mashetani za watu

@nicholasotieno4666 4 жыл бұрын

my mum always reminds me when I decide to marry never in my life lift my hand on a woman but when frustrated take a walk, find your space and cool down when you get back assume nothing happened, this will always leave the woman with lots of guilt, s that she learnt this from late dad for the 45 yrs they stayed together.

@wangash6144 4 жыл бұрын

Same here Mimi husema My son ntamshow Mwanamke hapigwi na kiboko, cz I know the pain nishai chapwa mbele ya side chick so painful

@nicholasotieno4666 4 жыл бұрын

@@wangash6144 bitter truth dear.

@Ijusthavequestions 4 жыл бұрын

Nick Niick please elaborate. What if you the guy/man/husband was on the wrong? Should she feel guilty for your mistakes as well or just hers? How is this effective in conflict resolution?

@nicholasotieno4666 4 жыл бұрын

@@Ijusthavequestions for sure it cost nothing to say am sorry that it won't happen again , any human being with sense will understand this.

@Ijusthavequestions 4 жыл бұрын

Nick Niick I know and got what you meant from the first comment. Was just curious to see if it's a balanced system of conflict resolution and not just one sided.

@Tuko 4 жыл бұрын

When Carole Maritim eloped with the man she thought was the love of her life at 21, no one would have told her the same "Tall, Dark and Handsome" man as she calls him, would turn heartless and openly beat her mercilessly in front of her children. At one point, he even wanted to circumcise her using his teeth saying she was not a "proper" woman. But one day she decided enough was enough

@yvonnegoodgridge6693 4 жыл бұрын

God bless and protect her and the kids

@ednahkemunto5086 4 жыл бұрын

Carole... I purely agree with you This Counselors who tell you about reconcile with a violent man ARE VERY SICK. Walla.... Congratulations dear, you made the right choice

@lizziepalmers7561 4 жыл бұрын

This reminds me of my ex boyfriend, abusive, violent, rude 😂😂😂i had to quit though bado ananifuata na matusi ndogo ndogo..... Currently I'm happy

@immahnyambuh9244 4 жыл бұрын

Same here

@henryzayef9650 3 жыл бұрын

Ati bado anakufuata. Mbona unamuachia mamba yako.

@nancygatitu7715 3 жыл бұрын

Stay happy Liz

@heartsatry4280 4 жыл бұрын

I started a group on marital rape on Facebook didn't get a good feed back so I went m.I.a the courage she has of telling her story is incredible,most of us just sink into depression and later die

@achiengcaroline5920 4 жыл бұрын

Kenyan women still suffer in silence just to stay in marriage.

@lornawamuyu7603 4 жыл бұрын

Don't give up, maybe someone was encouraged or related to your story. I pray you find your healing 😊

@easeuprelaxationmusic4590 2 жыл бұрын

What's the name of the page I join

@fabuloussham1139 4 жыл бұрын

Ladies in abusive relationships please after watching carol's story pack your bags and leave, there's a huge difference now btn a married carol of those days and the single carol now. Its a pity and pain for what men do to people's young beautiful daughters.

@sankarakabala74 4 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣😁😀😀😀😀😀

@marisafaith9975 4 жыл бұрын

@@sankarakabala74??

@zoey2635 4 жыл бұрын

"Curse is a man beating his wife daytime and at night wanting to sleep with her" prophet Mohamad

@zoey2635 4 жыл бұрын

@T C goes either ways

@marjorierushie7737 4 жыл бұрын

And on the other hand he married a child. Hmmm......

@zoey2635 4 жыл бұрын

@@marjorierushie7737 so

@mariniafrikamashariki5455 4 жыл бұрын

@@zoey2635 he was a fool

@amiinanas8120 4 жыл бұрын

Pbuh

@kelvinmarsh2249 4 жыл бұрын

some men though the photos shows like she is 100yrs, kuna mdada fulani alipitishwa manyanyaso akiwa 23 alikuwa anakaa 70, men lets change.

@anastasiamainaministries2700 4 жыл бұрын

That's me 🤫

@kelvinmarsh2249 4 жыл бұрын

Anastacia Maina if it's true then am sorry on behalf of that person who did that.

@dianaamojong7191 4 жыл бұрын

Me here 😭😭😭 but I thank God for everything

@dolphinakinyi9511 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@nimoras 4 жыл бұрын

I faced the same for 3yrs but when I made the decision I applied for passport n came to gulf n tht how I was able to heal 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿I remember he helped pack my things n told me that najua utarudi tu 😢 but I thank God hady WA Leo 7 yrs down the line am stronger everyday

@marggiewangigi7811 4 жыл бұрын

Keep strong dea💪💪🔥🔥👌👌 hugs from Qatar.

@richmontanna7934 4 жыл бұрын

I really hate my fellow men when they torture a woman, ts hard n tough to stay in such relationship. Poleni wanawake

@nimoras 4 жыл бұрын

@@marggiewangigi7811 thank swthrt ❤️

@nimoras 4 жыл бұрын

@@richmontanna7934 thank you 🙏🏿

@westheraystar589 4 жыл бұрын

Mamake ras..ata mimi nlisaidiwa kupack thinking i will come back crawling..never looked back

@Tuko 4 жыл бұрын

I was his punching bag for four years and he tried circumcising me with his teeth - Carole | Tuko TV

@giftdandb8463 4 жыл бұрын

Nice story but it would have been more interesting if only she could explain more in English for easy understanding.

@giftdandb8463 4 жыл бұрын

Or better still subtitle the part she speak in ur native language

@jeicollins1673 4 жыл бұрын

@@giftdandb8463 in kenya, swahili is national language and english becomes optional

@phylliswangechi9003 3 жыл бұрын

Hatutaki hio music

@blackbeargrace9286 4 жыл бұрын

I really Like Lynn Ngugi ❤️❤️💪🏽 as a host She gat those vibes

@mbabazimichelle5155 4 жыл бұрын

I think I need to become a beautician in future. She really looks good.

@mariniafrikamashariki5455 4 жыл бұрын

I wish you well

@raychelleinjete4024 4 жыл бұрын

I've enjoyed this interview. .Carol is a fighter. .I like the way she says "nilimuama". . "tulichapana". Carol is smart, strong and articulate...She's a strong woman... doing well to help other hurting women. .

@worldpetscocktails 4 жыл бұрын

Lynn Ngugi is a great journalist

@Mdalasini 4 жыл бұрын

Very patient, empathetic....Simply great

@nancyruoruo1025 4 жыл бұрын

Navumilia juu ya watoto😭😭😭......he use to mistreats me to because I was an orphan to😭😭😭😭😭but orphans is better tujikubali in any situation comes in our lives

@bancynthei4301 4 жыл бұрын

Wow from kilimani udaku zone to tuko

@jaccyfigure8845 4 жыл бұрын

Ndani kabisa😂😂😂😂

@josphinesherry5511 4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂 kilimani

@conversationwithanna 4 жыл бұрын

Kilimani ndani kabisa... pls support my channel wanakilimani💃💃 subscribe

@eunicewairimu5015 4 жыл бұрын

Kmdu is everything

@agneswanjihia1383 4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@evalineakumu1851 4 жыл бұрын

🤔🤔 I always wonder what men really want,she is beautiful,jovial and much more......and after that unapata single mothers wanadharauliwa tu bure na haujui ni yapi walipitia ndo watoke kwa ndoa zao,waheshimiwe jameni

@constantdealeu2862 4 жыл бұрын

I am really sad, how did women circumcision becomes a culture in Africa.

@yvonnegoodgridge6693 4 жыл бұрын

MOST OF THESE PEOPLE ARE BACK WARDS EVEN WITH SCHOOLING AND EDUCATION THEY STILL LIVE BACKNIN TIMES. THEY WILL DO ANYTHING TO MAKE A WOMAN AND KIDS LIVE IN FEAR . THE MOTHER IN LAWS AND FAMILY MEMBERS ARE 12 TIMES AS BAD. RELIGION AND SOME CULTURES ARE THE DEVIL SATAN

@achatwithgoitse 4 жыл бұрын

@@yvonnegoodgridge6693 looks like this narcisism thing runs in families

@lmashua 4 жыл бұрын

C C D it originated from Egypt Pharoah used it as a way of punishing women and controlling their sexuality

@jeicollins1673 4 жыл бұрын

@@yvonnegoodgridge6693 BS.. take your medications..

@jeicollins1673 4 жыл бұрын

it has been a culture for centuries just like any other culture out there..it had a reason and a purpose but in modern times its not useful. some cultures still do it, for their own reasons.

@jayblac8280 4 жыл бұрын

It has come to my realisation that every total orphan passes through all this just because they don't have anyone to lean on...so sad 😭😭😭😭I have been through this too.

@ruthmusau3997 4 жыл бұрын

jayne blac may God remember you,He is the father to the fatherless.

@KKE1978 4 жыл бұрын

She aged really well even though she has gone through hell. She is gorgeous. Good for her.

@janewanjiru715 4 жыл бұрын

I thought ni jokes vile niliona kilimani but thnkx God u are now a new lady .aki heri kuishi single forever

@rehemaogweno7013 4 жыл бұрын

Lynn your so polite and professional. Good listening skills and very empathetic for your guest. Keep it up.

@ingazi4588 4 жыл бұрын

Please have tissues whenever you are having the coz most of the time the conversation is so emotional. Otherwise you are doing the great work. Love from Rwanda

@happyumurungi9314 4 жыл бұрын

Hey aba bantu barafasha. Ninaha iwacu ibi bintu birahaba

@ericndungu3216 4 жыл бұрын

Umenkumbusha mbali,I used to be abit violent on my wife after we had our son.unfortunately we parted.thanks be to God I matured up.Av neva done so again.Nothing justifies violence against women.100%respect.

@Honest_Man 3 жыл бұрын

Are you taking care of your son?

@magnumquantana2223 4 жыл бұрын

What most women/ladies pass through in this world 😭😭😭oooh God ni machungu mno woii!what an inspiration story dear,God bless you n ur kids

@MwariwaMukurino 4 жыл бұрын

Ngai!!u look more gorgeous kuliko wakati ilikuwa na huyo mnyama

@janiceshariffa1973 4 жыл бұрын

What ladies go through only God knows 😭

@luckydubebello1131 4 жыл бұрын

Wah sorry my friend I passed the same thing I'm a orphan too I used to receive beating kunyongwa matusi naambiwa nikafufue wazazi wangu this happens for the whole of 2014 one day I received a punch ya masikio nikazirai before niamke nilipata hio nugu haiko.nilikonda mpaka watu wakasema niko na ukimwi I used to b beaten everyday but I thank God I'm ok ikifika mahali mtoi akimuona Analia tu only God knows my life ile nilipitia na my neighbour Mike mwangi mungu akusaidie

@shaikhazowayed2534 4 жыл бұрын

Ghaai athuri amwe ni gute waede kuzimu.

@inspiremotivatekenya2286 4 жыл бұрын

Waaa..yaani this things truely happen aki

@abdullmalik7847 4 жыл бұрын

Pole xana dadangu

@Justbarbara.B 4 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry, I hope you healing

@andesoleonidah8589 4 жыл бұрын

ooh so this is true....i thought it was one of the making fun pics in kilimani....a strong woman u r

@fatmamacharia3593 4 жыл бұрын

I went through this for 3 years and I decided to came to saudi am a happy woman taking care of my 3kids, sahii naona inbox zake na mblock, juu alisema nakumiza usiwahii tamaniwa na mwanaume Alhamdulillah Mungu niwetu sote

@reginawambua7433 4 жыл бұрын

This is what I went through in marriage but thanks to God am out and I live a very peaceful life with my son,my bby daddy was very worse ,hakuna kitu sikuwa naambiwa and that moment u have no home to go and no one to fight for u ,its only u and God

@golichadidjattani3202 4 жыл бұрын

Sorry for what happened to you. You are beautiful, eloquent and intelligent woman. I believe you can make a very good company in life. According to your story, the man was unable to manage his love for you. Its good you have made it in life. Carry on.

@lynnkesh254 4 жыл бұрын

Most soldiers who have gone to war come back with PTSD and are usually abusive...Even after counselling

@mionrugheart2340 4 жыл бұрын

Some take advantage of the situation and do such things....

@tedigital6328 4 жыл бұрын

Eeeh most Kenyan men are just like this. Hakuna PTSD hapa bwana....hii ni ujinga

@wanjirukarago9308 4 жыл бұрын

True

@Fm-MornStar2014 4 жыл бұрын

@@tedigital6328 how many men? Kenya compared to where? I think even 60% of the cases can't justify all. It's just a matter of dealing with particular cases, otherwise we'll be comiting the Fallacy of Generalization.

@tedigital6328 4 жыл бұрын

@@Fm-MornStar2014 The key word was MOST not ALL. SO 60 percent is MOST. So what's your point again?

@truezladye1893 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for telling your story so eloquently. Your natural beauty shines through. If anyone knows someone going through pain and violence speak up and help especially if there are children involved.

@nonenone5247 4 жыл бұрын

Lord does this lady know how beautiful she is? stay strong sisi you are enough. and you made it out in one piece also your beautiful babies.

@marggiewangigi7811 4 жыл бұрын

So sad how human beings treat others haki, the first time a man lay his hands on u,just walk away,that is enough sign that u got married to a killer,a beast a murderer. Violence should stop.

@susuilu 3 жыл бұрын

Emotional abuse and lies should always be a red flag too

@RaymondKIMATHI 4 жыл бұрын

Marriage has one of two outcomes, #Bliss or #Misery

@godisgood2675 4 жыл бұрын

True

@bossb8989 4 жыл бұрын

Raymond KIMATHI Bliss inakuwanga upande gani jamani? Must’ve gone another way😢

@susanmuthoni1167 4 жыл бұрын

Or even both Misery & bliss

@RaymondKIMATHI 4 жыл бұрын

The best bet is in a godly marriage. Where both partners are submitted to God. ... It's still a bet coz if you slip a bit the devil will finish you !

@RaymondKIMATHI 4 жыл бұрын

@@bossb8989Humility

@noxolosakang6547 3 жыл бұрын

I liked it when she said marriage is not a solution, one has to fix herself first of all the baggage before engaging with someone. A successful marriage is made of two emotional successful individuals.

@hudsonanika6114 4 жыл бұрын

Very moving story, thank you Carol for sharing, there are no dry eyes here- just so emotional !! God bless you and the Kids and everyone who has helped and supported you.

@silvershsadow2045 3 жыл бұрын

For all its worth I can never thank Lynn Ngugi and Tuko Talks enough, from my Ugandan viewpoint , for the great exposure and transformation work she does , because these are real daily issues many of us ordinary people go through but have no platform to admit because we self blame (our culture) and so too shy to disclose cause others call you a failure . Lynn has made us realise that these things are not only common but also not ashaming to disclose and even escape from . Its not a prison for us to suffer in silence . Its especially harder for us men to admit but happens to many of us .

@violetmageto7134 4 жыл бұрын

I went through the same i wanted to stay because of My kids but one day I was taken to the chief's office that have stolen the certificate of mechanics of my husband.... Nilienda kama ambulance I thank God they prophecied for me I went back to college and now am raising my two kids it is a point of no return🖐️🖐️🖐️🖐️🖐️

@winfredwanjiru4638 4 жыл бұрын

What a story,very touching,you are in deed a strong Lady, God bless you.I love the transformation

@millyadhiambo238 4 жыл бұрын

I love when u allow God to move,He's the God of the 11th hr,marital violence is real,especially physcically. The first miracle is to 4give n move on completely .

@anneanji4818 4 жыл бұрын

Milly Adiambo please ..I've been looking for you..

@millyadhiambo238 4 жыл бұрын

@@anneanji4818 Tell me my dear?

@chepkemoijoyline358 4 жыл бұрын

Caro I saw your post on Kilimani, I am happy for you. you looking good my dear.

@ericmwendwa5257 4 жыл бұрын

Sad but real - when you are "in the water" and cannot feel the bottom, the extended hand of your abuser can be very inviting.

@TREASUREZION8 4 жыл бұрын

Very inspiring thanks a lot for sharing your story Domestic violence has destroyed many lives ....women don't die in the name of marriage seek help😍😍😍

@yamab5723 4 жыл бұрын

Am so proud of her for up lifting women, thank you for sharing your story by the way I like her hair.such a great transformation🙏🙏🙏💕

@jackiekeya123 4 жыл бұрын

Wanakilimani are you there?

@kevohwapipelinetransami4351 4 жыл бұрын

The best channel ever changing many lifes of us and bringing different stories.. thank you #TUKONEWS

@lisakanyambuu5550 3 жыл бұрын

I remember this lady trending on Facebook. She is beautiful n talented and the most beautiful thing in all this stories is that everyone is rising from situations of failure and re inventing themselves. Thanks lynn

@fabriziammanuli1672 3 жыл бұрын

Amazing! I love Carol's transformation, She's more beautiful than she were. God bless you. Lynn,Good Job.

@mibeychepkemoi1663 4 жыл бұрын

1998 ,already done with the high school, fantastic @''''', she looks young. whoops by then i wasn't even know how to put on my chupi, and am already finished. Baby girl ,God loves you. Some of us we are younger than your first bone ,na tumachapa tayari.

@alicenyambura1130 4 жыл бұрын

What a beautiful gal!! It's good you left that miserable man! Someday you will get your match.

@marynjuguna60 4 жыл бұрын

Good advice I have learn something God bless you all.

@molynenyanchama1437 4 жыл бұрын

Have really loved this story"transformation"today many realized I was not old but because of hard life.

@deeppenetration100 4 жыл бұрын

without further ado... you really like this phrase ... i guess hata iko kwa ID yako

@Lifeisgoodkitty 4 жыл бұрын

Wow.. In her words .."the things women have to go through to please society".. Wah! Asanteni Tuko kwa kusimulia story hizi. It's wonderful that ameanzisha group ya kusaidia wengine.. Abarikiwe sana.

@mpendaamani2251 4 жыл бұрын

I've learnt alot from this story. God bless you 2

@doreenkanje9839 4 жыл бұрын

Gaiiiii Jesus huyu n mwenye amebeba mtoi woiiiiiiii wanaume wengi n devil wanafanya mtu anazeeka anakaa mzeee , me huogopa walai

@janenjenga5639 4 жыл бұрын

You look 80yr en you are at 30yrs

@doreenkanje9839 4 жыл бұрын

@@janenjenga5639 true 😄😄😄😄😄

@irenemuteti713 4 жыл бұрын

@@doreenkanje9839 Hallow where will I get doreen contact ?

@irenemuteti713 4 жыл бұрын

You are wonderful woman

@marblenana462 3 жыл бұрын

I can feel u swry 70% of marriage in Africa is a living hell

@tidittii4383 3 жыл бұрын

Not really

@nancyawuor6644 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks lyn i have learned alot thanks for the vedio cz i have been going through the same Exacity no difference bt niliamuwa kutoka .

@justmo6896 4 жыл бұрын

Oooh boy cannot believe she is the one😱she is really beautiful👍thank you Jesus for saving her.....so many people going through this,may God help them🙏

@Mlmfirestraikegmail. 4 жыл бұрын

The first one here !! Yeigh !! for the very first time

@KK-itiswell 4 жыл бұрын

He sounds like a narcisstist.. we need to not just run away from physical abuse but also other forms of abuse- psychological, emotional, verbal, financial etc. If after many attempts the relationship does not improve, please walk away. They are equally damaging.

@easeuprelaxationmusic4590 2 жыл бұрын

Very damaging been through all physical,emotional n verbal...

@amirenemwinzi8315 4 жыл бұрын

The strength of a single mother. I respect them, they have a story behind their singleness

@ruthmimsy1553 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you Carol for sharing your story.I went through the same like but after 27 years I calmed it enough is enough

@sarahruth1718 4 жыл бұрын

Wau a lesson to women, dont allow a man to put his hands on you

@carolinenjoroge9351 4 жыл бұрын

He is a malignant narcissist. He found a very good candidate in you, looking at how you were raised and also been young and naive, you suffered from codependency and also trauma bonding. He's family is also dysfunctional and pretty much narcissistic and that's where he got it from. You're so great now. My dad is also a malignant narcissist and my mom never ran away, I am his scapegoat. He abused me for 2 decades. My brain struc changed, am here at 30 learning the science behind my predicarments. My mom never defended me, I hope I heel as have come to realize being raised by a narcissist makes you a good target for narcissist in adult life, that coupled with chronic illnesses as well as mental illnesses is one sad painful life. Thank you for taking your children out of pain and thank you for sharing your story. On this comment section there are a few narcissists looking for supply from comments, leave them alone these humans thrive on the energy of innocent beings.