When you can see the blessing behind the “loss” because the blessing to begin with was that you “had it to lose.” WHEW. Your spirit is God-ordained and I pray that you celebrate 40+ more years of this life ! With Love, may everyday feel like your birthday ❤️

I almost teared up at the beginning but that spirit you have on you is AMAAAZING and contagious. I always feel lifted after watching you. Such a beautiful trip. Happy birthday!!

Sis! Your videos just keep on blessing me! Thank you for being so transparent and sharing your story! I pray that you receive the money that was taken from you multiplied by 750! Keep shining sis! Much love and happy Birthday!❤️❤️❤️

I don't know how I happened upon your channel but I LOVE YOU ! Your spirit is amazing.

Your perspective on your loss is profound. I cried when you said "the money will bless them too and their family" God works in mysterious ways, u will get that money back in doubles coz of your compassion and innerstanding. I stan a real queen 💫🙌🏽💐😇🦋🌻 Happy 40th again 💛💚🤍

The first 14 minutes had me on a roller coaster ride of emotions. I must say I shed a little tear but also can tell you as you well know, the victory is yours. I’m so glad I went down the KZfaq rabbit hole and discovered you. Besides your exquisite taste, you be preaching and blessing us. And for that reason as I said earlier the victory is yours. You’ll recoup what was lost, so much so it will seem like a pittance. Enjoy young lady! 💜

Yes hunny, you're in Tulum, Mexico crying....that says it all! Blessed 🙌🏾 You will get more 10x fold!

I don’t know you but I love love love your spirit. Such a display of grace. May God continue to grant you favor which is evident in your life.

Happy Belated Birthday! Sis, you have got to be one of the most prolific, linguistic and stylish influencers on the planet! You way with wordsong is political in and of itself. So so glad I found your channel last year! Please know that whatever you have done and whatever you do will bless multitudes; 'cause it's gonna be a vibe. Trust me when I say, "Your loss will be your GAIN." We love you, honor you and support you. Keep on moving; ya hear? 💞

Lady, you handled it with CLASS! Many happy birthdays to YOU!!

True story …I press another video for fashion not paying attention it was your video IM SO GLAD I DID UNDERSTAND NOTHING IS ACCIDENTALLY . This video omg your content 👌🏾I never watch one video and was sold but honey you bought me ❤️your personality you’re already my sis in my head . Last but surety not least a word was spoken 🗣 “ I HAD IT TO LOSE 🙌🏾 I felt that !!! May your cup continually to run over #OVERFLOW

Come on now Shi, preach that thang! You are such a beautiful person inside and out!

You are SO GRACEFUL. Such a beautiful spirit. I admire that. TY so much for sharing this experience with us.

Happy 40th birthday! Praying that God restores all that you lost, and then some. I think it's beautiful that in spite of your loss, you still sent the thieves a blessing. That speaks volumes about your faith and your character. “After Job had prayed for his friends, the Lord restored his fortunes and doubled his previous possessions.” (Job 42:10)

Listen..your spirit is palpable and it resonates off the screen...I laughed, I cried, I commiserated, I communed, I reflected and all that happened in a mere 31 mins and 32 seconds. Keeping doing and being you!!

Your positive energy is so contagious and it makes me smile 😃 from ear to ear!!! I’m so glad you didn’t let the devil steal your joy on the trip as I was told when someone takes something from you let them have it and you will be blessed 10x over😇! I’m glad you had a wonderful time as you deserve it 🤎!

Thank you for introducing me to Tulum. I’ve never heard of it before. I’m sorry for your loss while on your trip. I’m sure because of your attitude, God will give you double in return. God bless, and take care.

I could listen to you ALL day!

YOU GONNA GET THAT BACK 10 FOLD! YOU HAND THAT EXQUISITELY🙌🏽🎂🎉🥳🎊🎁🎁🎁🎁🎁🎁🎁 HBD 2 UUUUU😘

I'm glad you had a wonderful time, despite the unpleasant beginning. But I loved your "we move" attitude in response to it 👌🏾😊. You go sis!

Gratitude. Yes! Love that " I had it to lose". Touch my heart. God is working in FAVOR.

You are so funny, classy, beautiful and very inspirational person. I could watch your content all day! And “No “ that was not water you were drinking 😂. Really I love how you included your loved ones. When you some of you don’t know how to swim😂😂 I can relate. You are my “go to” on KZfaq!🙌🏽

Wow, I really enjoyed watching this video. You had me laughing and almost crying. I'm so happy the trip turned out to be fabulous and Happy Birthday to you!!!

Sis, Tashira! Whoever stole from you only made room for God to bless you further!!!! This is God’s battttttle!!! In the interim, look at how lit your trip was! Thank you for allowing Black women to know that this is possible for us! ❤️Happy 40th, once more ❤️

‘Here’s the lesson i had it to lose’ come ooooooooooon 🗣👏🏾🗣👏🏾💯💯💯 yaaaaasssss i love that! Growth ✨ I ain’t mad at your neighbors either turn uuuuuup in Tulum!!! 🥳🤣😎

God is good! Thank you for sharing your testimony. This is a reminder that we STILL have something to be grateful for at any given moment. The blessings are coming back you 10 fold! Happy Birthday to you 🙏🏾✨🌹

LOVE LOVE LOVE YOUR Hindsight on what happened. Blessings

Happy happy belated bday my dear . So glad you had a fantastic time . I am so sorry you had your money stolen . But what is is , you did not let it stress you . You all look like you had a great time . Love the vlog totally. 😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️❤️👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿🎂🎂🎂🎂🎁🎁🎁🎁🎉🎉🎉🎉🔥🔥🔥🔥🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

You have blessed US with this video. The messages, the scenery, the energy, the positivity, the LOVE. 40 more of everything good, 40x of the best for you, 40 more way opportunity with come to you, 40 more and more and more is wished for you!

God will restore a that was taken from you. I love your spirit. God Bess you sis🙏🏽❤️ 🥳 🎂🎈🎊🎁🎉

Happy belated birthday doll, just discovered your channel yesterday 💖 so far. Murphy's law btw

Wow! You are an inspiration! Your perspective on what happened to your money was eye opening. Thank you! I strive to have that kind of gratitude in my life. Happy Birthday! Wishing you all the best!

Hey!!! It's cousin🥰 Happy birthday SiStar!!😍

Amen and amen. I understand that gratitude. I was about to complain about something and My mother reminded me that I own my home and everything in it. So even if the hardest times come, I always have a home. A word. Grateful.

Aries in the house with you. It is obvious that you have a giving heart. So characteristic of our sign. God is blessing you right now in spite of your loss. So glad you enjoyed your birthday. Continue receiving your blessing SIS. Much love 💕.

Happy Birthday🥳!! I enjoyed your vlog, first watching your vlogs. Loved your positive outlook on the situation, i would have stressed over it obsessively to which it would ruin the trip. But you handled it so gracefully ❤️

Sissssttterrrrr this whole vlog ✨✨✨ #ihadittolose is a WHOLE WORD!!!! Thanks so much for this AMAZING experience 🫶🏾🫶🏾 Love you so much!!

I clapped when you said you had it ($) to lose! It's truly a blessing, even though it was a violation. Your next collaboration is going to be enough to cover that loss.

Sis your spirit is amazing, they took your money but they cannot take your spirit and God will provide for you more than you lost

So nice meeting you in Tulum 😍 I hope your birthday celebration was everything you wanted and more ❤️

Hello Tashira, "sometimes we neglect celebrating ourselves ", you are correct. Thanks for sharing your celebration! A recent theft tried to also destroy my vacation week, also celebrating my birthday. Thanks for putting it in perspective . I appreciate you! This is why I watch your channel for these relatable gems. Thanks girl! Happy belated birthday! Great vlog! Peace and Blessings!😎🙏🥰

Happy Birthday my lady and many more. Great trip.

The scent is copal! It’s a resin. Love this

Your the real MVP! You didn't let the Devil win! You clapped back and made him mad. What more could we ask for...your inspiring, smart, and positive. Where ONE can come to your KZfaq channel and experience politics, fashion, and lifestyle. PERIOD!

40 and Fabu! HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

Sis I felt that praise all in my spirit. Look at where God has brought you and me. That was a wake up call for me as well. When they say you don't go through things just for yourself, it sooooooo true. My heart was opened thanks sis for sharing💜💜💜

Happy belated birthday my fellow Aries sis'. I just wanted to drop in to recognize your beauty, kindness and intelligence! Enjoy! 💜

"Shondo honda ah-bbb" You are hysterical! 🤣I love you! Such a beautiful spirit❤ Happy belated Birthday!

What a big heart you have! Sometimes the gut pain and tears block the lesson. Hoping the person who took the $ needed it was... Halamushunda! Hobo bobo... a praise moment sis!

Your spirit and energy is just unmatched! JUST BEAUTIFUL! 💫💞

Money comes in, money goes out.Bless that money and send it away..it WILL come back to you in INFINITE quantities another day. T you truly understand. Dammit I know it was hard having your Tulum experience start that way...and the fact that you blessed that money and the person who took means it’s coming back to you. Bravo for not letting that ruin your birthday celebration❤️❤️❤️❤️

I empathize with you and the loss of your money! I pray that God return it back to you 10 fold! Enjoy your birthday T!

I'm so sorry about your violation, I too have been the victim of robbery via an apartment break-in and there is nothing like knowing that someone has gone through your personals and just had the audacity to even touch what was not theirs!!BUT Like you said so powerfully I could afford to lose what was taken and I have continued to be blessed!!! The imagery was beautiful thank you for sharing and happy bday all over again!!🤍🤍🤍

I am so sorry about the money, but it is so beautiful to hear how you worked through your feelings and were supported by loved ones who came to celebrate you in all of your glory! You are truly blessed and I am in awe by your joy, reflection, and gratitude. God is good & you will continue to be rewarded ten fold. Happy 40th! Welcome to the club sis!

My badd. I was so madd that they took your belongings. Happy Born Day! So glad you had so much FUN!

Ohhh nooo sis!!! So sorry so much was going wrong! Even your money!!! Wow! But great come back! Thank God indeed! ❤❤

So sorry that happened to you Shi! Hiyyyahhhh shondo for the "I had it to lose" Here's to your best year yet!

Sis I'm glad to see you had such an amazing time for your birthday, with family and friends there's nothing better. Just keep doing you cause you are such an inspiration to us all. God bless you.

I’m so sorry someone stole from you, that is such a horrible feeling….but your perspective on the situation is incredible! Very powerful state of mind ❤️

You are such a sweet spirit! Have now moved up my list to favorite KZfaqr. The way you’ve handled your interruptions with grace is such an inspiration. May what was taken be double & tripled back in your life more than you can imagine.

Happy belated birthday!! I enjoyed your video and I could have cried when you were talking about the money that was taken from you but that word you spoke right after was right in time!! I’m glad you had a wonderful time😊 #noweaponformed

Very Nice Tashira. May God continue to bless you and show out over your life for you to be a blessing to others.

Happy 40th🥳🥂🍾 Sorry to hear about your lost $,but you rose above it and was transparent about it’s significance/your plans…but didn’t let that ruin your occasion or quality time w/family & friends. You dealt with it,what was in your control-great character & growth🥰 Thank you for inviting us:) and sharing Tulum spots! Continue enjoying your April bday in May😂🥰. HBD Morgan!

Just stared following you, you are a blessing. Love your spirit👍🏾

We are birthday twins!! 💙💙 Great Vlog!

Thank you for that message & lesson.

So thankful to you for this. Wow, it really made me think about just how wonderfully God moves in our lives. What could have been intended to derail your plans and diminish your faith had the exact opposite effect. That is major growth and grace.

Congratulations! This was an amazing trip and the video is very emotional. To many more years of you and politics and fashion 🥂

A PHENOMENAL woman … that is YOU! You are a, simply, a LIVING INSPIRATION! WOW … You have blessed me (and so many others) SO MUCH! Continue to shine, Queen! Birthday blessings!!

👏👏👏happy celebration👍👍👍✊✊✊

love this... this is such a word! Tashira, u keep me going! I love ur videos!

Here I am looking for suggestions for Tulum and here you are blessing me with your spirit! Happy belated birthday! Just found you and subscribed

This message was worth the wait. You are blessed and highly favored T✨Thank you soooooo much for sharing👊🏾🔥👊🏾

Happy Belated birthday! Your spirit is absolutely beautiful and I love how you were able to look at that violation as just a blip...even hoping that your money blessed someone else. you will always get 100% of that energy back to you X times! And, we must all remember to celebrate ourselves!

Happy birthday! AND SO HAPPY YOU HAD A GREAT TIME DESPITE THE NEGATIVE HAPPENINGS EVERYBODY AINT ABLE! BUT YOU JUST HAVE THIS POSITIVITY ABOUT YOU THAT JUST IGNITES AND IM SO GLAD I FOUND YOUR CHANNEL!

Just started watching the blog ….. ‘ THANK YOU FOR THE LESSON ‘ ….. you are blessed exceedingly abundantly and above girl keep doing what you do 🙏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

Speak that word sis!! Humble awakening! You were always COVERED🙏🏿🙌🏿 #Blessed&Covered40! HBD!

AMAZING AMAZING AMAZING ...... Thank you so much for sharing ♥♥♥

Happy birthday and many happy returns of the day! ❤ "It is better to light a candle than to curse the darkness." - Chinese Proverb "Wear the world like a loose garment." - St. Francis of Assisi

SHANDO!!!!! You had it to be taken. WHEW and YES.

Happy Belated Birthday! I’m so sorry that happened to you. May God replace what was taken tenfold.

Drinking water ? Ohhhh I hope not, ur in Mexico. Lol. Your spirit and heart are as epic as that location. Xxoo

Wow, you have such a positive attitude. I just subscribed. I am so glad you enjoyed your birthday vacay! ❤️

By far, this is one of the best videos I've watched in a while. I always love your content, please don't misunderstand me. But this video gave everything!! It was inspiring for both my mind and my spirit. I loved every minute of it. I loved to see you celebrating, making memories, spending time with the ones you love, all while giving glory and honor in such a beautiful way to the Almighty that made it all possible. Your views are going to go up, because I plan to watch this one again Girl! 🎈🎈Happy Belated Birthday my Sister, in spirit!!🎈🎈

“Happy Belated Birthday!” This trip seemed so nice and just a great getaway. Let me tell you how you blessed me with your take on the theft you had. What a GREAT way to see and accept it, “you had it to lose.” Girl! Continue being an example for us.

40 where?! YES, I hope I am looking as beautiful as you are at 40. Happy birthday!

Now I can’t believe what I was hearing too but huh they on vacation 😂😂😂😂 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

Sis…I am so happy for you! To have such an amazing time with your family and friends is a blessing! That boat ride! Gold swimsuit came through! I am in my 60’s but when I grow up…I want to be like you!!!!🔥🔥You are a gift! Enjoy your year!

May God continue to bless you, sis 💕

I just started traveling internationally last year so this was very helpful… the lesson I learned was to travel with carryon and put cash in carryon only… thank you for sharing and the way you treated your love ones is goals

Your vlog was everything!! Looks like a lot of memories were made. Nothing like a good time surrounded by the ones you love!!! We only have one love to live; we should live it to the fullest, with joy and peace!! Sorry the evil doers stole your money but they didn’t still your grateful and thankful heart!! As Fantasia sings it so beautifully 🎶sometimes you got to lose to win again”🎶 oh baby you winning!!! Will add this beautiful excursion to our next girls trip!! Thank you so much for sharing!!!!

Ooooh Sis, you betta preach a WHOLE sermon! Thank you for the favor you spoke through KZfaq to/for all of us; you brought tears to my eyes. Many blessings on your 40th year around the sun (I recently celebrated mine!!!). Sending you blessings and love 💕 HAPPY BIRTHDAY

Y’all were turnt on the boat 🍾

So sorry that happened but you handled that so well and when you said God took it from you and showed you, you didn’t even need it-i spoke in tongues with you🙌🏽 Glad you were able to continue and have an awesome trip!

Happy belated 40th Birthday 🎉 what an amazing Vlog one of the best I’ve ever seen! You are a Boss!! Blessings to you!

🥳🥳🥳🥳Happy Birthday to you...happy birthday to you Tashira!!!🥳🥳🥳🥳 The trip was filled with Love Joy and peacefulness!! Tulum is beautiful so happy for your amazing turned up celebration. Im so so sorry for the trouble you experienced but you rolled with beauty and grace! Love your politics always!

Awesome birthday turn up, Aries people know how to turn up down and all the way around💃🥳🎊🎉your fam bams and friends seem like such a fun happy amazing tribe. Blessings and best wishes i am here for the fashion,fun and the politics i am really interested to see and know what's going on with the whole trying to steal away womens rights to have an abortion, thanks for taking us along for this incredible journey❤👍👏👌💯

I am CACKLING at the neighbors having their lil moment

That whole segment about “atleast you had it to lose”. Omg brought tears to my eyes

Wonderful "real" content. Same thing happened to me in Mumbai. It was a few pieces of jewelry that I know got taken in customs. But as you said you are blessed to have the ability to adjust and God has let you know how blessed you are. Well it was hardship learning and you will have a money belt the next time, just as I wear my jewelry when traveling. Love Tulum and I must get back there.