Tiam tshiab no npam sai kawg nkau li ...

Get a lawyer! Prove you two are married traditionally! Take him to court, even if you two don't have papers as husband and wife. Take half of all he has! And move on!! Don't let him walk all over you! He made the choice to marry you so hw needs to pay half of all he has, and pay child support! Medical insurance does not mean he doesn't need to pay child support. If he is able to put you in jail, he doesn't love you anymore. Move on.

Grass isn’t always greener on the other side

You were wrong to cheat on your first husband but not wrong to leave him. Don't regret leaving him. A cheating husband is no good period!

Npam lawm mas

Npam lawm ces mam qhuas tus qub txiv.

Your mistake was that you let a man with immoral value thinks it's ok to tell you to cheat/leave your husband for him to influence you to divorce your ex-husband. As a woman, I would still divorce both of them because I can never tolerate a cheating spouse. Yet again, you have to love yourself first, get higher education, and get a well paying job. Once you respect yourself, the right person will come knocking on your door. Don’t be too hard on yourself. You are right that a sexual relationship is the most intimate part in a relationship. You couldn’t tolerate it and no one could. Don’t live to regret. You should live to improve yourself and love yourself.

Lots of good advice. Yes, never tolerate cheating. You just met the wrong men in your life.

OMFG sister, you made the decision to marry him and to accept his bs and to stay with him. You do not need a man to be happy or to have a life. Hell, you're better off without a liar and cheater. You are foolish to believe that you cannot be happy without a man.

You gave your first husband many chances and he still continue to cheat. So not sure if staying would have made a difference. Your mistake was having an affair. A person that cheat with you will cheat on you. It has nothing to do with you being divorced or anything. Those are all excuses. The fact is he doesn’t love you anymore and this can happen to any couple, any time.

Vim koj ntxeev siab rau koj tus txiv thib ib koj thiaj tau txais txoj kev phem uas koj ua los mloog koj zaj neej neeg no koj yog ib tug miam tsev muaj lub siab phem dhau los koj thiaj tau txais txoj kev koj ua

Don't regret the old husband too. You just need to move forward from both.

Npam lawm lo koj na

Tus viv ncaus aw!! tsis txhob ntshaw txiv lawm os mog yus tsis ua siab ntev rau tus yus xub yuav lawm ces cov tshiab no haj yam pauv tsis tau tus qub os mog es tsis yuav txiv li lawm os yuav zoo dua peb nyob peb os mog yuav ces kev nyuaj siab xwb . Twb tsis pog npas yawg npas tuag nyob qhov twg es tsis txhob txhawj os mog .

Mloog ua kev kawm nawb Peb cov poj niam ua pheej nyiam22 dev hluas nrauj ua ntej mam nrauj txiv na. Mloog saib luag cem mob npaum cas nawb

Koj tus qub zoo li kuv tus thiab ntshe kuv lam uv os viv ncuas aws

Nrog koj tu siab uas koj tau lub neej tsis raws li siab xav. Tab sis mloog koj yog tus tsim tus pib ces koj thiaj yuav tau xaus. Qhov 1, koj Yuam kev yog koj tham hluas nraug thaum koj tseem muaj txiv. Qhov 2nd yog koj yug coob tus menyuam. Qhov 3rd koj uv tsis taus/ua tsis tau siab ntev cia koj tus txiv uasi. Pab hlub koj thiab khuv xim koj lub cev nkauj xwb, pab hlub koj taug tau txoj kev nqes hav. May god guide and bless you ❤️

Me viv ncaus txhob ruam2 os mog. Txawm yus yuav nyuaj siab npaum li cas los txhob cia leejtwg los dag tau yus yooj2 yim lub sij hawm yus muaj kev nyuaj siab. Vim yus siab luv, yus tswj tsis tau yus tus kheej ces yeej yuav yuam kev xwb. Sawvdaws yeej txawj yuam kev tabsi hlub yus tus kheej. Txawm tsis muaj txiv los yus yeej tsis tuag. Yog luag tsis hlub lawm ces ua ib siab. Cov poj nrauj mus ua tau ib lub neeg zoo lawv tsis yog cov poj niam siab muag2 niaj hnub quaj thiab thov lawv tus txiv nawb

Yep... wow another hmong noj quav nyuj laus xwb!

Ruam os, nrauj tus 2 kiag xwb mas.

U advise women to stay in cheating relationships, but maybe u should’ve thought about how u’ve never been without a man. U never took time for urself to get to know urself. It usually doesn’t work out when u jump immediately into another relationship.

What made you think that a man who has no problem encouraging you (a married woman) to have an illicit affair with him is a good man?! Men like your second husband are obvious cheaters, but you chose to close your eyes to this truth because you were desperate for "loving words". As the saying goes, you "jumped from the frying pan into the fire." Everything that went wrong in your life with your second husband is 100% on YOU! Yes, he cheated on you, but you willingly married a man who had no morals...so what did you expect?! Desperation tends to make people stupid!

Don't stress yourself with useless people who don't even deserve to be an issue in your life. Never invest too much, emotion at one thing because if you do, you will end up hurting yourself. The truth about your heart. Your heart will fix itself. It's your mind you need to worry about. Your mind where you licked the memories, your mind where you gave kept pieces of the ones that hurt you, that still cut through you like sharps of glass. Your mind will keep you up at night, make you cry, destroy you over and over again. You beed to convince your mind that has to let go... because your heart already knows how to heal.

Kuv tab tom mloog pimmejcab navlee zaj neejneeg sav los

Txhob tu siab niam tshiab yeej hlub tsis tau koj cov me nyuam li os tsis ntev koj cov me nyuam yuav poob lo rau koj xwb

Tus niam tsev aw koj ruam dhau lawm os, koj xav li cas thiaj ntxeev siab rau yus tus txiv na

You’re not at fault for leaving your first. Your first was no good. You just need to leave the one now too and love yourself so you can find someone who will love you in return.

You eat your own medicine tast so good.

Koj tsis tau nrauj koj tus txiv los koj twb cia lwm tus txiv neej muab koj tsa ceg thiab nqa koj lub pob tw tshoj loo thov ntuj yam tsis ntshai npam rau lub ntuj thiab daim av lawm ces koj yeej liam txaus nkaus. Zaum no koj txoj kev npam ntawv thiaj rais loo los rau koj ua tus ris rawv.

Vim koj mus ntshaw tus hluas thiab luag tej vaj tej tsev ne. Yam khoom twg yog yus khwv thiaj yog yus li. Saib mas zoo li koj muaj kev npam lawm.

Peb cov poj niam aw Li no ntag lau G txawj sib hlub sib pab li na Paub lig22 Don't let them stepping all over you girl

Sister we all have choices to make. To stay in a relationship that has two wives - that’s a choice you made, or it was made for you but you still have the chance to live that life of pain. You MAKE a choice to stay or leave. Don’t settle for 2nd best. There’s mica men that’ll treat you a thousand percent better than these loser Hmong men.

Txhob nyuaj siab cia nws noj nws tshuaj ntau2 ib hnub twg nws lub raum tuag xwb2 hnub ntawv nws ces yuav yog nws hnub npam os Viv ncaus😂

Nej cov poj nrauj cas pheej ntshaw cov tub hluas ua dab tsi nas txhob ntshaw tub hluas thiaj tsis mob siab 😢

No unfaithful spouse is worth the tears and stress. If you stress yourself until you die, they would just be happier. Learn to love yourself and accept the fail marriage. It's better to begin again than to live a painful life.

Leej twg kom kj mus yuav tub hluas naw . Nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb

poj nrauj muaj ntau hom kev nrauj yuav hais tsis tau cheem tsis laib kom lwm tus txhob ua poj nrauj, ib hom poj nrauj luag lub neej yeej mus tsis tau uv tsis dhaus lawm ces nrauj hom poj nrauj no yog hom tsis nrhiav txiv ntxim. hom poj nrauj es cheating nrauj thiaj raug kev mob xwb os

Good Morning all. Please DON'T take any advice from this old sweet lady okay.

That’s good for you. You deserve that lady.

It’s better to be single, then live in misery with a cheating spouse. Divorce him and move on. He’s not worth your heartache.

Nrhab rau dub ces hauj lwm ntseg!!!!

Qhov ntawd koj yeej xaiv koj.

Hahaha!!! Tsawg sawm!!!

Txiv neej hmoob mas siab phem lim hiam tshaj plaws lawv yeej hais tias lawv muaj xiv tshaj qab ntuj no lawv ua li lawv siab nyiam Txawm mob pojniam npaum li cas los lawv tsis care li hos yog cov pojniam ua mas lawv yeej tsis zam txim li,,🙁 Yuav tav twg es hmoob thiaj li vam meej ? 😢😢 Pojniam hmoob mas yog cov poob peev loj tshaj plaws…. Yog tsis xav sib yuav lawm los ua zoo sib hais es tsis Txhob sib 2 tsim…

Nyob ntawm koj xaiv seb koj puas xav ua niam loj ntxiv lawm yog txaus koj lawm ces yus nyob yus xwb los yeej tsis tuag nawb

Yog koj twb muaj txiv koj tseem ntxeev tau siab tham nws ces xyob txhiaj koj yeej yog tus nqa los li nws hais txawm ntseeg vajtswv los yeej pab tsis tau

Vivncaus awssss I’m, uv tiag2 yuav tuag tiag2 li o, luag ntxeev siab rau u lawm ces u phem txhua2 yam, uv2 ua kiag ib tug mob rau u lawm osss, nrauj kiag ua ib siab hlo lawm xwb

Cas koj hais nws tus txiv thib 1 yuav zoo li kuv lub neej kiag os. Tus txiv mas txawj zais tus hluas nkauj kom koj txhob. paub kiag

Li koj ce yog npam lawm ma😂😂😂

Zoo li kuv twb paub khub niam txiv no And Koj yuav tshum zoo siab tias Koj tau ib hluas ua Koj zoo nyob ib ntus xwb no ma

Ua poj nrauj tsis zoo tab sis zoo dua nyob Nrog ib tug txiv uas koj niaj hnub niaj hmo mob siab thiab raug tsim. Ua poj nrauj zoo dua niaj hmo sib txeeb ib tug pob txha. Koj ua poj nrauj tsim txiaj nyob ua koj tej me nyuam niam rau ntawd tsis tas koj yuav muaj ib tug txiv niaj hnub niaj hmo tsim koj ea koj lub neej thiaj muaj nqi.

This isn't karma. Do not blame yourself for your ex-husband and current husband's poor behavior. Even if you didn't cheat and stayed with the ex, you would've been miserable. Plus, the current husband has no business calling you out for cheating with him. He will do the same cruel thing to his new wife. Both husbands are jerks and you're just too giving. Love yourself first and work on healing.

Koj yuam kev loj kawg os! Koj mas tsis yog nrauj tag mam yuav hos koj twb tham tau koj mam los nrauj ces nov yog koj txoj kev npam xwb os! Yus nrauj tag los yus nyob yus os sister tsis need cov niag txiv dev hmoob lwj kas lwj siab no os..

Qhov loj yog koj tus txiv pe koj thov koj lawm ces koj tsis zam txim rau nws ces koj rov los mus them lub txim xwb MOG, ces koj yov tau lav paub nawb

Ua cas koj twb yug me nyuam txaus rau koj Tus txiv tshiab lm cas ho tsi mus kho koj Tus kheej koj zoo 2 nkauj es koj Tus tsiv thiaj Le hlub koj zog naj me Vev ncaug aws

Another example of "if he cheats with you, he'll cheat on you."

Thov hais 2, 3 los lus rau tus niam tsev no nawb koj ces dhau lawm tab sis hais rau cov tab tom yuav taug koj txoj kev na thov ua zoo txhob tham hluas nraug ua ntej koj nrauj koj tus txiv ua qhov zoo es mus tom ntej koj thiaj tau lub neej zoo vim koj twb ua zoo lawm hos yog koj twb tham hluas nraug ua qhov phem ua ntej ces kawg tau lub neej phem xwb ntuj nyob qis qis lawm koj ua rau koj tus txiv yuav muaj lwm tus ua phem rau koj xwb os

This story is so sad. I feel sorry for you. I hope you move on and find help. Sounds like you're a believer too. Know sin leads to destruction, seek forgiveness and focus on God.

Tus mes niam tsev txhob tusiab yus thws yus txoj kev ruam xwb mog

Ca yuav tu siab ua luaj os mhoog ca yuav tu siab ua luaj😢

Once a cheater always a cheater. Never trust a cheater. Sister, you should live yourself and live happy with yourself. Don’t remarry. Most men are the same. You’re too desperate.

Lady you got no one to blame. You open the door to your life. That is why your second husband abuse you bec he already know your weakness. The old people say don’t share you bad problems to strangers. Because you just asking for trouble. So that is why you got hurt.

Karma baby! lol don't cheat no mater what your situation is.

No body can not love your kids the way you love them no one if they do they have no choice no on wants him too

Zoo heev li o

tejlaus hais tias npua yeem noj xua es dev yeem noj quav no ces yog koj ntag mas, cia cia siab rau tub hluas zaum no ces yus mag xyuas.

What you expect? You cheat on your husband without dealing the problems. Tsis yog tim yus txoj hmoo nawj.....tim yus txoj kev ruam vwv rau luag txoj kev hlub dag. Never expect any man love you since you can't fix your marriage. He just used you you to have kids for him since he is single so long. You got no brain. You better not divorce again or cheat again.

Nrauj koj tus txiv es mam mus yuav meka xwb ma.

Koj ua g yg lm ne ce ntuj thiaj rau txim rau kj o

Look in the trash can and guess what you’re going to find?

Khiav nab ntsib nab “quav twm dub” = black mamba ces kawg tuag ciaj tuag ciaj! Sib npaug lawm. Ua zoo tau txais zoo. Ua phem pauj phem, ces tau txais phem xwb tsis muaj zoo

Txiv neej hmoob ces yuav luag 90 % yog zoo li koj tus xwb os mog tus sister aws

Koj hai yog tshaj plaw li lawm os mog

Tsis txhob hais ib zaug Tias peb poj niam no .? Koj tib leeg thiaj xuaj tshaj plaws xwb . Cov poj niam xuaj Li koj tsuas yog tsawg Tus phem Li koj mas tsawg tug no.

Tej zaum koj tau txais kev npam thiab puab yom...Vim txoj kev khav theeb es yus uas tsi tau los yus pheej hais ces kawg mag xwb tiag.

Karma!

Koj siab phem rhuav koj lub neej thaum koj tus txiv thov2 quaj qaws koj tsi yuav npam koj xb UV TSI TUAG NB

Sister, just come dawn n clean ur ears n open ur eyes watch him he’s going no where, someday he’s young wife will do to I front of you

Viv ncaus aws, maj mam nrhiav tus zoo, zoo mam yuav thiaj li tsis yuam kev mog.

Yes, koj yog tus npam.

Vim Li koj txoj Kev Npam xwb .

Tu siab ua luaj li os 😢

Ua Tsawg zaus pojnrauj los tsis ua cas yog thaum koj yuav tau tus cheater tsis hlub koj txog thaum kawg nas. Move on and live your life. Just stop having babies to every man that you're with thiaj tsis nyuaj

Just because you made a mistake, DONT encourage other women to tolerate their husbands after they cheated! No, lady, you’re very wrong. Your mistake cannot justify for other women! Women should NOT tolerate any man’s cheating affair regardless they are the first or second husband PERIOD!

Koj twb mloog2 May Niam Ntsuabteev hais neej neeg es tsis kawm mus ua neej li los? Txhua2 zaj neej neeg yeej muaj kev kawm ua neej nyob hauv. Ua zoo mloog lub ntsiab lus thiaj totaub, muaj txiaj ntsig.

It ain't karma sister. You should never tolerate a cheating husband! Be smart, love yourself and move on.

Just stay single. Don’t need a loser to be in your life

Koj txoj kev npam los txog koj lawm xwb

Kuv xav tia yog koj npam lawm os tsua qhov koj tu qub txiv twb tsi tau nrauj koj koj cia li ntxeev siab mu tham hlua nraug thaum koj tseem muaj txiv ne yog koj tu qub txiv txawm tham hlua nkauj lo koj nyob koj zoo2 xwb ce yuav npam lo npam koj niam qub txiv xwb koj yeej tsi muaj kev npam li os 😂😂😂😂

Viv ncaus Aw tsuas nrog koj txoj kev ruam txoj kev ntshaw txiv ces kawg li ko xwb tiag koj xav tias koj hawv kom nws ntshai tab sis koj tsis nco qab tias yuav mag kaw no los!

Koj muab ntshaw nw dhau lawm xwb thawj tug twb yooj yim nrauj ce tu ob haj yam yooj yim nrauj

Txhob huas tus txiv tsis hlub koj... huas koj cov me nyuam xwb... yog koj zoo lawm koj cov me nyuam yeej xaiv koj xwb...

Sis, a cheating spouse is no good. Yuav nrauj tsawg tus los yuav nrauj li.

Damn sister, you went out to eat. Sometimes, when you've had enough, it is time to let go. You should've just gone ahead and divorced your husband before you moved on. He was unappreciated and ungrateful and took you for granted, and mistreated you for years. Now that you have had enough and decided to leave and move forward, he wants to hold you back. He'll never change. He's selfish. He just wants to be the one to be in control and wants you to stay to catered to him. It's a good thing you stand your ground and let him go. But sister, you divorced him not for you but because you found a replacement. You jumped out of one relationship right into another one. Not only to mention a single man who has never been married. His love isn't going to die with you. You made too many mistake. You let him manipulate you.

I'm sorry but I can never accept such advice as that. No one deserves to be treated as such, no one deserves to be cheated on. I would rather be twice divorced then accept such a faith. You only live once.

Cov ruam tsis meej pem cas pheej cia li lus tias > paub li lPaub li no xwb.

Tsis yog npam, yog tim yus yog ib tus neeg who choose to make one bad choice after another. Your choices have consequences.

I'm sorry but if you left your husband because he cheated, why would you be with a person who knew you were merry to someone else and still talk to you. You should of divorce your husband but should of never settle for the other guy.

She deserves what she gets! Congratulations,cheater of your ex!

Love yourself and move on. Cheating spouse don’t get u anywhere.