Twins, One Adopted

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Twins, One Adopted

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Күн бұрын

This woman's family is refusing to help with her twin babies until she reveals which one is adopted. #familydrama #adoption #twins

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@Happyearth1 Ай бұрын

Seems the 20 year old is far more mature than her family members.

@theotter1113 Ай бұрын

Planning to treat them as equivalent is beautiful. Adopted or blood should not make a difference in care or attention.

@barbaracarr4290 Ай бұрын

That's not a family I would want. She may be better off without them

@robertunterzuberii8122 Ай бұрын

Shame on her family

@jeannehusson8493 Ай бұрын

Why so they can treat them differently

@elizabethgallagher556 Ай бұрын

Shouldn’t tell. . .

@nf4866 Ай бұрын

@@elizabethgallagher556 shouldn't even let them be involved. They seem to have no respect for boundaries.

@kaileycash3431 Ай бұрын

She shouldn’t tell them bc they will treat the adopted daughter different from the biological daughter. It shouldn’t matter which is which..

@devingimple Ай бұрын

Yes and no. It’s only natural to lean towards your own blood. But morally yes it shouldn’t matter.

@Flamingtac0 Ай бұрын

That family should never be let be let near either child. They are prejudiced and toxic.

@joyfrazier1502 Ай бұрын

It shouldn’t matter. If you take children into you family, they become a part of you. Shame on the family for being this way. They are missing out on so much love and joy of two wonderful babies. So sad

@janjames6168 Ай бұрын

Good for mum. Prayers going out to her that she gets the support she needs.

@leaannreese3344 Ай бұрын

Mom is right, they are BOTH hers. The fact that the family responded this way shows they would end up playing favorites with the bio daughter and even possibly being hateful to the adoptee. Mom has an amazing huge heart!

@agentmaryland1239 Ай бұрын

Why the hell does it matter which one was adopted? They're a part of your family now, all you should see is a child who wants your love and attention.

@BereniceWhittington Ай бұрын

Her family really to be given a severe reality check. If they ever wish to have a decent relationship with their daughter and her girls.

@user-cf2of6tg3c Ай бұрын

What does it matter????? They planned to discriminate, making them dislike eachother..... She is right not to tell them...... Disgusting 🥰🥰🥰

@equilibria74 Ай бұрын

Dont tell them. This ensures they both get treated the same!!

@aliciasteffey2964 Ай бұрын

I hope she never tells the family because the way this started sounds like they’re going to make huge differences between the girls

@ceciliaramos2280 Ай бұрын

Why is a 20 year old adopting a baby and who approved this is my question. Seems there is more to this story.

@ChalaseP Ай бұрын

When you adopt a child, that is your baby. When that baby was created, God had you in mind as their parent he just chose a different vessel. And adopt a child is no less yours than one of your own biology. That’s just my feelings, thank you for coming to my TEDTalk.

@bridgetteknowles8937 Ай бұрын

She doesn't need them

@TopGJP Ай бұрын

How horrible that must be to even deal with…I feel for her. I’m just so disappointed in humans these days.

@hyperswain Ай бұрын

The moment the other baby was adopted it was her child. The Family is showing its true colors, unfortunately

@mattyfrancis797 Ай бұрын

WOW, and why do they need to know? Hmmmm, what were they going to do with that information?, unfortunately you can only choose your friends but not your family, just selfish and horrible. Wouldn't be surprised if one of these family members exposed the info publicly behind the mom's back.

@doomergateblazze5030 Ай бұрын

Good for you mom

@rondag3569 Ай бұрын

I’ll help her, what town does she live in

@ClittoralWombatShits Ай бұрын

That’s not a family, treat them as such.

@Rosalyahia Ай бұрын

Thats not a family I would want around my children.

@elleniasiello6271 Ай бұрын

Mean family 😢

@lenagiaee174 Ай бұрын

Petty family.

@doomergateblazze5030 Ай бұрын

Wow How can the daughter come out of the family that thinks that way that's just mindful made it one comes up thinking 1 way in the rest think different way interesting

@shoes40cal Ай бұрын

Is this her side of the story? Always thought there were two…..🤔

@DexyD20 Ай бұрын

Yeah, but this is the Internet, where people can only put down their own personal experiences of something or someone, so what's the use in pointing out the obvious that isn't going to change because it's in our human nature? if you want both sides of an Internet story go find the other side and make them post their side. I'd love to hear their story too, but alas the Internet doesn't make people give their side of things and make that side easy to find right next to the original story...

@laura6063 Ай бұрын

o. m. g.

@empyreann1 Ай бұрын

Harder to tell which was adopted when they are infants...but as they get older it will be clear. It looks to me this mother is the queen of virtue signaling. Stay away.

@janettewebster2151 Ай бұрын

Im a qualified Counsellor. Since when do 20 year olds get to adopt a baby themselves, whilst they themselves are pregnant? Is she single, in a relationship or married? Negative mental behaviors exhibited by the mother: # controlling # manipulative # deceptive # selfish # & narcissistic behavior These elements are shown by the following: # Holding off introducing her babies to her family, to days after the birth & adoption # Keeping the babies actual identities secret to family # Purposely lying to the babies about their birthing situation, until "they are older" I believe that the families' refusal to help the mother with the babies under these circumstances is justified.

@aliciasteffey2964 Ай бұрын

Then as a qualified counselor you should know that it’s extremely bad for their mental and emotional health for the family to make differences between them just because one’s adopted family doesn’t deserve to know and also don’t deserve to meet them. Plenty of families won the first week or two to their selves to get used to it and bond and heal

@janettewebster2151 Ай бұрын

@@aliciasteffey2964 Your response is highly subjective. You "assume" that narrative, with the little information given & totally ignore the mother's age, behaviour, lack of knowledge of her marital status, possible impacts on the children & so much more.

@nf4866 Ай бұрын

As just a regular person with a brain in my head I disagree totally. Adopting a baby 3 days prior to giving birth makes me think this is probably a fake story, but... Asssuming it's real I see nothing wrong with 1: a woman who just endured the physical trauma of birth as well as the mental stress of an adoption claiming some time to recover before dealing with a family that would imply one of her children is not real 2: she's not keeping the identities of the babies a secret. They're newborns... They don't even have identities yet. 3: (as an adopted person I can use the same argument from authority fallacy you did) whether or not you should tell a child they're adopted is nowhere near as black and white. There are a million valid reasons a parent might want to avoid telling their child something that would alienate them from their peers or family. Especially with the type of family described. Life is not a disney movie.

@gknight1 Ай бұрын

Your words are a dime a dozen. Blah, blah

@tomriddleson7326 Ай бұрын

So? Stupid for the mother not to tell. Seems like she likes the drama.

@nf4866 Ай бұрын

@@tomriddleson7326 its not stupid at all.

@LouiseLynam Ай бұрын

She didnt have no one i the room when she had a baby! Then she managed to adopt a child straight after having a baby (prob while she was still in hospital) then he family met the baby asking what babys hers 😂 both of them are 😂 all while shes 20 years old 😅 furthermore these are stories are put together to keep us engaged in foolishness 😢 our energy is the most valuable thing in this world we need to stop wasting it entertaining these storys instead of true wisdom and knowledge that can actually inpact our lifes in a positive world! This story has done nothing to enrich my life is anything i have wasted my energy 😂😂😂

@ima_jokertho8884 Ай бұрын

Bro no family members, not no one. And it literally says in the video she adopted the kid three days before the birth, what are you going on about

@LouiseLynam Ай бұрын

@@ima_jokertho8884 it sounds made up! Like someone's story telling 🙄

@dankirk6452 Ай бұрын

You do realize you talked about wasting energy on these videos while writing a hardbacked novel in the comments......strange lol

@sethstaley17 Ай бұрын

@@LouiseLynam You created such a positive impact from your incredibly philosophical comment. Thank you so very much. 🤡🤡🤡🤡

@LouiseLynam Ай бұрын

@@dankirk6452 ok well we gotta admit my novel is more fitting them the story being spoon feed by the media 😭🤣 and stating the obvious really ain't going to change any of my energy I'm wasting on this nonsense coz none of it makes no- sence 🤣🤣