I agree. I have never been pregnant but I thought it's pretty well known that pregnant women cry at the drop of the hat. And the husband saying her crying is punishing him? Like no she's crying and rather than having empathy he's centering himself. I doubt she's punishing him she's just crying and she probably can't help it.

I have had gd twice. I agree with you absolutely 100%.

@@koripeterson7310 Yeah, from what I’ve heard crying tends to just happen when you’re pregnant, even when you might not be all that upset. Although I think the majority of people can’t cry on command so I tend to assume that if someone’s crying (pregnant or not) then it’s probably because of something important to them and that it’s best to ask them if they need anything or if they want to be alone for a minute to collect themselves and not just focus on myself

When you are pregnant cravings are so intense! Its completely different from when you are not pregnant. OP is the asshole, because in the beginning of his post he wrote about all the food that he was eating in front of her. He could have cut back a bit, or from the beginning hidden it. Its like he wanted to make her feel bad, or he really is that dense. When you are pregnant you are also super emotional, and anything will make you cry. Being pregnant and uncomfortable and also not being able to eat any of the foods you are craving is torture! He could have handle the situation better, in my opinion. Its like he was looking for her to come at him, by eating in front of her.

100%%%% I hate their take on it. None of them have kids or have been pregnant. So they can’t know what it feels like to be pregnant and want something you literally can’t have at all. And her crying about it makes sense

This is so precise 👏 plus, she is looking to him as the future dad of this baby to be ready for the chaos and emotional Rollercoaster that comes along with parenting. He is not a stable, supportive person.

All 3 lauren justin n morgan are insane what do they mean he already sacrificed? What did he sacrificed nothing the bad food us still in the home just in anither room n hes still eating junk at restaurants ithink for a couple months he could eat healthy big deal

@@tiffmitch702 and at the point he threatened divorce he literally hadn't given up on anything. The fight was what made them go to therapy and the therapist said he needed to compromise a bit too. The wife might have overreacted bc well, she's pregnant and in physical hell (been there) but it's no excuse to go that low. And to carry that afterwards calling it hate, THAT is unhinged to me

@@j0yfulblessings right? Like, imagine if this woman suffers from ppd. He'll divorce her and tell everyone she's crazy like he's already doing in that reddit post. He's also probably expecting to keep living his life like normal, going out, watching his Netflix even if the mom is exhausted and the baby is crying bc he can't "sacrifice" - god forbit if that child ever has some sort of food restriction. But I bet by that time this woman will realize she has a husband that resents her for expecting him to be supportive during difficult times and will dump his ass.

The husband in the story has the emotional bandwidth of a maladjusted teenager. Also, while we can recognize his trauma, the time to deal with that is before you have children. Too many people leave trauma unresolved, and they don’t confront it, or even acknowledge it until they become parents. That needs to change.

I don’t have the same experience but my mom was a labor & delivery nurse for 25 years so if my mom was to get into waxing I’d probably let her wax me. However I’d probably be kinda uncomfortable with one of my friends moms lol

my lil sister is a waxer. she waxes me and a good chunk of my cousins and even some of my friends. Its a professional experience when in the room. Shouldnt be weird unless they are making it weird. No way waxers are talking about their customers

Right? I feel bad for his future baby. It’s gonna grow up with a father that takes everything personally and holds grudges over petty stuff. The mom is hormonal and pregnant and can’t excited control her body or mind with how extreme she feels. She’s carrying his baby!!! He can’t even support her for a few months with cleaner eating and some empathy? It’s not that serious like boohooo he can’t have cheese cake factory and Netflix while his wife incubates another human and is at risk of getting worse from her diabetes. She’s literally risking her health and life to stay in line to birth a baby

He said his pregnant wife was chubby. I f hope he meant before but even if ….. dude wtffffff!?!?!? His behavior is disrespectful, no matter the circumstances.

@@cierra247 yep. He's trying to blame her for the gestational diabetes even though the placenta actually forms from the make dna so most gestational diabetes actually comes from the man

Right?!

Donut guy sounded psychotic. Talking about his food insecurity as a kid doesn’t make sense. It’s not like his wife made him calorie restrict. She just restricted what he could eat in their home.

EXACTLY

Him I was worried people would judge me proceeds to eat a 6 piece tendy meal dipping off his shirt

Exactly

AND he seemed to think his wife was mad that he stained his shirt and smelled like mustard, not that he was dipping his chicken strips into his shirt mustard 😂😂😂

I fucking loved that he dipped it on his shirt tho, I laughed so hard

I came for the comments looking for this lol

​@@fallingawayfromthenorm me too lol - glad I wasn't the only one lol

I think the last time this came up she got them switched too lol. My brain does that all the time where it flips two things. We knew what she meant though haha

I made a similar comment before I saw this. 😂

This! And it doesn't have to be genitally-involved lol.

thank you for this comment!!! other esthetician here and i felt so disrespected by their word usage the entire time. if OP doesn’t want to whatever boundaries but everyone was a bit judgmental and presumptuous assuming PROFESSIONALS aren’t going to be PROFESSIONAL

@@kayleym7657 that’s how I felt too when writing my comment out!

She was upset her sister was treating her so poorly. She didn't even get to sit with the family. If you read the post op didn't say she wanted pictures of her nursing. The sister was upset because she was excluded from all the picture.

@@sheenabudd925you’re right I forgot about the part where OP said she seated her away “in case she started breastfeeding”. I never thought OP wasn’t the AH, I just think the sister should also be aware and courteous of boundaries. But based on OP’s post (which could be a lie as we only have one POV, and OP being disgusted by breastfeeding is enough motive to lie) the sister likes to push boundaries, and test societal norms. I mean of course she is going to breastfeed during a long ceremony and reception. I wonder if OP even tried talking to her. If OP had a convo with her sister beforehand tho, if the OP asked her sister to breastfeed under a privacy shawl or something, would that have been enough? Overall I think a conversation about boundaries should happen. Based on the post it doesn’t seem like it has, we are just given a general assumption from OP that the sister wouldn’t listen.

@@sheenabudd925she was excluded from pictures bc she was probably breastfeeding the whole time lol the photographer even had to ask the sister if she could just step away bc she's in the crowd breastfeeding away when they're trying to take pictures. I'm sure she would've had pics taken if she wasn't breastfeeding bc that was the only issue about it

@@sheenabudd925 no where did it say she was excluded from all photos. The photographer asked her to leave photos when she had her boobies out. The photographer wouldn’t have told her to move if she was dressed.

​@@aduckofsomesortboobies what are you 12

This. I totally see why one of the commentators brough up "baby boy" thing, it's more so not about OP's behaviour, but his attitude and how he writes the story.

Yeah, but it's like they said, both of then have issues. He could, and should, be more supportive of her, but she is not doing herself any favors either.

Issues on both sides it seems but he is so unsupportive I feel for her realising this while carrying his child

​@@emmapatel2146just asking, have you even been forced to make extreme diet changes while going through a medical event for months?

@@mallorybybee6560 sorry what did I say that was wrong? He is a total AH sounds like she is reacting to his unsupportive nature and I feel so sorry for her probably feeling trapped with him now they are having a child. Not that my medical info really matters but I'm pre-diabetic, eat healthy already but got to cut out more and work on other aspects. I have zero medical support as barely got results back so I can strongly relate to her situation minus the pregnancy but for me it's for life

for me it was really extreme that he wanted divorce on that topic, i really bet it was about other things but yeah really wild

The only reason i can ever see divorcing a pregnant partner is if they had got violent with me or tried to kill me but both them need therapy

There are reasons to divorce pregnant people acting like they can do no wrong is not good they can be abusive and violent cheating and many other things but she is trying to control what he eats and and it being horrid to him when he eats what she wants he is eating out of her sight it's not like he's rubbing it in her face

Seriously how hard is it for this man to eat healthy with his PREGNANT wife for 9 months of his miserable life. I can’t even watch this fking episode beyond the “he’s done more than enough”

@juliedesjardins5910 he has trauma around food or do you only care about woman's mental health he is doing nothing wrong

The title makes it sound so bad, i was so worried it was going to be about a child or younger person being forced to by their parents but if everyone's an adult and cool w it then it's not big deal!

Same, my mom was a nurse as well! When they read the title of this one the first thing I thought was it's only okay if she's a waxer.

If I had a good relationship with my mom and she was a professional waxer, I’d do it.

My mom's a nurse too, and I can talk to her about anything. I even talked to her about intimate dryness when I was changing my birth control.

Yeah i agree, I wouldn’t have an issue with my mom waxing me especially if it was her job 🤷🏽‍♀️ but I guess it really just depends your comfort level and relationship you have with your mom.

Omg yes! If I saw someone doing that AT A RESTAURANT I would be flabbergasted. Like I get we all forgot what manners are after covid, but for sanitary reasons?!?

Literally! Like does Lauren even listen to the pod?

@@Langfaceshe talks about it all the time so strange

tbh i hear a lot of youtubers talk about how they dont watch their own videos (same with actors not watching their own shows, its weird to hear ur own voice back and see urself), like lauren probably doesnt listen to every single podcast, maybe one here and there. i also feel like with adult friendships you arent always that in touch with friends, so its probably the kind of thing where morgan hasnt mentioned to her off camera before or lauren just didnt hear it in an episode. doesnt mean shes a bad friend!

Right?! I’m like is she acting right now because what you mean you didn’t know? Lol

@@LangfaceLauren has mentioned before she’s “bad about listening to everyone else’s episodes” back when Ale was still on.

Forreal!! Just got back from an appointment where my OB is telling me my blood sugars are still too high with me eating a strict diet no cheating or anything AND taking insulin and she’s telling me I could kill my baby if I step out of line at all. The stress on top of not being able to eat ANYTHING I crave is ridiculously difficult. 37 weeks and due any day now but it’s been soooo hard

Oh my gosh! Thinking of you through such a stressful time. I can’t stand the language some OBs use when talking to pregnant women. Its fear mongering half the time and then they turn around and tell you stress is bad too. Like, YOURE THE ONE STRESSING ME OUT! 😅

yes! i feel so badly for her. not to mention his nerve to repeatedly tell reddit how much he hates her.

THIS! My husband stopped drinking in solidarity with me (occasionally I’ve given him the green light to go ahead, like his birthday, new years ect: but he never asks to drink). And we’ve had me eating REALLY strict (all organic, no sugar unless it’s fruit, high protein and high iron, NO artificial food coloring etc.) That being said, he’s living it with me. He drank probably 4 doctor pepper a day prior and hasn’t had one in a couple months. He understands he could never expect me to be so strict on myself ESPECIALLY with everything else I’m sacrificing to grow his baby; and then turn around and eat like crap. WE made a lifestyle change for OUR baby and that’s how it should be. I know I’m one of the lucky ones, and I can’t imagine how hard it would be to have GB and an unsupportive partner on top of it all. I cried for 20 minutes once because it was 10pm and I had to wait until morning for my watermelon. Having to wait until DELIVERY sounds like a new level of torture. And THEN to have her douchbag husband eat her craving and not even be smart enough to hide the receipt is like a slap in the face. Then he bullies her by treating divorce like he even has a CLUE what she’s enduring. Pathetic.

​@juliaortiz6483 Pretty sure he hated her before this.

Yep, I agree. I was quite shocked "revenge" was even brought up...in no way could this be closure, its predatory and vile.

I completely agree. When he first mentioned the ages, I immediately said out loud gross. And this is coming from someone who has a 4 year age gap between me and my partner. And he refers to her as "kid" gave me the ick🤢

agreed. closure never comes from other people. that’s something you find within yourself. 23 years is a really long time to be hung up on this, even if he “wasn’t looking for revenge” like dude get a grip, grow up, and be the responsible adult in the situation. that girl is so beyond damaged and this is only going to make it worse.

yeah, he was a huge pervert and predatory creep. I'm so glad everyone on Reddit chewed him out. Nasty sicko.

@@gabinesureferring to her as kid in the story immediately made me cringe. if he hadn’t said that like yeah it’s weird because of the situation, but the fact that he called her kid is just gross and creepy

100% guy complains about not being able to eat what he wants and how hard it is for him, then has no empathy for her not being able to do that because she could DIE.

Yes! You can tell they've never been pregnant or had to make any actual sacrifices lol

I just kept saying she’s carrying his baby. She’s carrying his baby. She’s carrying his baby.

Hahahaha I’m so sorry!!!! I didn’t realize it was from and during pregnancy I wanted to redo when I realized 🥲😭😂 the live shows were really helpful to have y’all yell real time. 😂

She's literally sacrificing herself for HIS BABY. There are several social media accounts dedicated to the possible side effects of pregnancy, he is lucky that all he has to do is eat his special food somewhere not at home.

I hate it lol

same

I can’t stand when people think just because they and the people in their circle are a certain way then everyone else MUST be too. So annoying.

It literally disgusts me that he wants to see other people nude, meanwhile claiming he loves Morgan?? That’s disgusting. I would rather throw up than see anyone else naked FOR ENTERTAINMENT, and Ive only been with my man for 11 months. I can’t believe he’d want to do that.

Right… in my opinion idk how she can marry him… it would cause so much resentment and distrust for me- yikes

Also I feel bad for lauren, I would not want to be sitting next to my friends bf saying anything similar

Lol why does someone else’s man talking about nudes make you feel any type of way… triggered maybe?

@@Summitofsol bc it’s grody- TrIgGeReD mUcH?

It’s seems like it’s not a big deal for her and to them it might not be meaningful or telling of anything.

Ikr! He seems annoyed doesn’t he? Or uncomfortable.

Maybe he just had a bad day? Like when you hear some info or someone says something to you that just wrecks your whole mood. He seems just a little tired or stressed

also he said he’s not eating dairy anymore. I would be a little sad never eating cheese 😂😂

I peeped that too 👀

He seemed to be in a silly goose mood to me haha

Agreed

Agreed

I think so too, I mean you’re going through so much, a healthy pregnancy is already complicated enough and with the emotional and physical toll on the gestational diabetes, it’s a lot… I can’t imagine being in that position and also having this situation with the person who’s supposed to be there for you the most

I didn’t realize it was only from and during pregnancy at first and that really changed things!! I’m so sorry you had to go through that :(

Omg 100% i was surprised by the responses

Holy crap I just heard the edit…it’s a freaking donut. You clearly have issues around food to be that impacted by her saying you shouldn’t eat it. And it wasn’t just about the donut. It was about the total lack of support up until that points To say you hated her is AWFUL. She at least has an excuse because she’s exhausted and has hormones wreaking havoc on her brain. Is what she did ok? No. I’ll repeat that. What she did was not ok. But your reactions are so out of pocket and your lack of empathy or understanding just communicates how little you support her now.

All I could think through his whole post and update was “cry about it” I know I am lacking major empathy in saying this here if his food insecurity issues are as bad as he says but CRY ABOUT IT. It’s temporary. She’s not asking him to starve himself. She’s asking for support. Ugh he’s a major asshole and baby like that one comment said

THANK YOU yes that's what I thought!!

@@g-racer6683same! and his shameless deceleration of how much he hates his wife. that poor woman.

this!!!!!! their initial reactions were making me so mad bc all i could think the whole time was “SHES PREGNANT WITH T H E I R CHILD”

I agree, he’s acting like the guys morgan talks about hating

yup

She wouldn’t have been diagnosed right away. More than likely it’s like 5 months without something. I personally would give a pass for birthday being a special occasion, but otherwise he shouldn’t have food that she can’t in the house.

Wow so he has to give up his birthday foods? Yeah no

yup. she sacrifices her body for 9 months for both of them. the least hubby could do is suck it up for 9 months smh the bar is in hell for men

OP is TA and I don't agree on takes criticising "baby boy" comment because of the OP's edit. He does sound literally like that, with his hysterical reaction as an answer to his wife's (may also be inadequate, but that's not the point here) reaction. Tbh I've got feelings like they're both pregnant from hearing this. With such an attitude from OP this marriage is just doomed anyway. Its literally "you're NTA for what you're asking about, you're TA though for how you wrote about it".

@@hayamirin6795 there could have been a conversation on the donuts, had he been somewhat supportive before hand. but him expecting a new outcome and reaction when he did nothing to make supportive change in the first place, is crazy- i’m not shocked she freaked over it. also he had options to still enjoy his donut, tell your boss or co-workers you can’t have sweets in the house right now and leave em at the office and eat them there, or leave them in the trunk of your car, really anything.

Yep, their traumas are nowhere near the same, and the way he sees them as comparable makes me nausous

Right he is the definition of a LOSER. If Im ever 40+ and still hung up on a bad breakup from my early twenties so much so that fucking the child of the person I broke up with, also the child I could’ve been a father to, shoot me. Why do men never heal from shit like women will be physically abused, r*ped, isolated and manage to move on for their on good but a dude will keep going on about the girl that cheated on him in HS. But men are the logical ones 🙄 I hate how dehumanized and demonized women who cheat are too like bruh it’s not the moms fault that their community judged her child for her moms’ actions. That never happens when fathers have affairs like ew

This is some r/aretheallosok shit

They are in for a wild ride for sure……..

If you kept listening to the episode, they did change their tune.😅

@@annakursi7069 I listened to it, and I've watched other THT's with Lauren..

If you're not a mom or around many moms of young children, you won't get. It's clear the girls just have no clue lol

This. I was pregnant during my birthday. I love sushi. Guess what I gave up for one birthday. That man is weak.

Honestly I’m still going to eat leftovers and precut fruit while pregnanr

With gestational diabetes on top of that…what are you even eating at this point??

Wait pregnant women can't eat soft serve ice cream? I had no idea 😮

@@zippityzoop1478 It's not absolute - if they are freshly cut fruit in the restaurant (with hygiene standards) it's safe - we're talking about fruit that's left out for hours where flies and coughs might have brought germs to it. And if leftovers are properly heated up they are also safe. Everyone has different boundaries. I was super strict at first and as I researched and learned throughout my first pregnancy, I loosened up some rules and was more discerning as I knew the nuances. :) All the best to you in your future endeavours!

OMG! I’m glad I’m not the only one who noticed that. He seemed annoyed and/or uncomfortable. I still think him and Lauren are having an affair. How did Lauren not know what Morgan wanted for her wedding too.

​​@@zaraheartthey were just messing around. Its not that deep.

@@zaraheartwoah that is CRAZY TO SAY !!!!!

@@Poohbear5560 🤷🏽‍♀️😂 I’ve thought that they were having an affair for months because of two videos where their body language was sketch

@@dhruvbatra9548 I def wouldn’t go as far as saying they’re having an affair or all that 🤣 and yes they were joking I just think he was disrespectful the way he was saying things.

he literally seems like the best partner imo. he completely seemed for the girls. he defended the pregnant woman. he defended the rock collecting. he said to run at the last story bc the husband is abusive.. i think he seemed a little stiff this episode but he def is still for the girlies. he’s one of the most mature men i’ve heard on a podcast fr.

Yes!! And also, he didn't want to waste the honey mustard, but he was ok with throwing out a shirt without trying to clean it first???

@@artisseriechicken dude is clearly unhinged 🤣

I collect bones and rocks I find... so I'm here like, wow this guy sucks. 😂 I'd support her and add to the collection!

I wished there was a way for everyone to send her a rock 😂

Omg the way I also thought of this EXACT story!!

The whole episode!!! Ever since they got a house he’s been very different

he’s showing so many red flags now. Morgan needs to rethink her upcoming marriage.

Can someone explain these red flags I don't see them

Are you talking about the nudes thing? Because Morgan seemed okay with it, she even said she saw them too. Every couple is different and what he was saying isn't a "red flag" unless it's something she's not comfortable with, which she seems to be. Maybe don't prescribe your personal relationship boundaries to other couples, and especially don't tell them to divorce because of it (unless there's abuse or something serious happening)? Some couples even enjoy watching p*rn together or gushing about people they both find attractive. It's their business.

Peeps, it's okay to be uncomfortable with Justin's comments, but let's not psychoanalyse their relationship. We don't know them :')

exactly! who raised that man child?! that is an abusive relationship, he has called you names in front of your child, refuses to accept that watching a violent film which presumably has an age warning in front of a toddler is not a good idea, and then thinking it's ok to throw things at you and tell you he hates you and hope something bad happens to you during your C section, which is presumably planned for health reasons? when you're recovering from that C section, do you think your husband would be able to cope with helping look after you and the baby and the toddler?!

I agree. You call me a b****, that's going to show your true character, you call me A CU*t, we're done.

I hope op and her babies have escaped and are living their best now

Listening to that story gave me instant anxiety. She needs to gtfo he's an abusive POS and who in their right mind wishes that on their pregnant wife!!

I like some violent or scary movies and shows or sometimes it's Too Much, or sometimes just not up for that, right now. Every guy I've known has been nice and polite about this, whether a boyfriend or friend. I thought it was bad enough he badgered her into watching something violent when she wasn't into it but then to find out the BABY was there! Dude needs to lay off the violent shows for HIMSELF, alone, at this point! And the little baby saying "uh-oh" was so sweet but tearjerking... to me JUST HEARING about it. That is clearly a man with no soul.

yep, very icky 🥴

I also think everyone completely glossed over the fact that _he made the first move._ She was venting to him and being vulnerable and he made a move on her that she initially rejected. It’s literally so gross.

@@thylionheart this!!!! I hated that so much because it’s like he totally took a vantage of her and he doesn’t know what type of embarrassment hurt he inflicted on her

He also called her a kid in the post, yuck. "I felt for this kid"

"he had much more time to deal with the situation emotionally. She's just now processing as a young adult. She's vulnerable." this!!

No I agree!! I was combing the comments to see if it was just me - he seems off. It's been a while because the last episode I remember him being so punchy was in the fall, but I'm glad I'm not the only one who picked up on the irritation he's exuding.

I am amazed how little commentary there is about Story 4! I am at work screaming and stomping my feet

the way my jaw is still on the floor..... not the "daddy" comment ajdlfagnloaehgweagjlej

Having it up on his watch shows he’s addicted

A lot do though

that whole conversation in the beginning was so uncomfortable

THANK YOU! I thought that was so bizarre

That was a joke 🤦🏻‍♀️ he didn’t actually have it on his watch

morgan proudly plays the cool girl role all the time tho of letting her man watch porn and go to strip clubs so i think he’s comfortable checking out women around her she normalized it

it is unsettling though he gives me the ick

Some couples have different boundaries and Morgan and Justin have literally talked about threesomes and shit like that on camera multiple times 😭 calm down

I was looking for this. That’s Soooo weird

@@jadynd1237but then he was basically saying all guys look at it even if they say they don’t

I think their age is just showing. They haven't had kids and they have NO idea what it actually takes...just the tiktok moms version of it.

@@HikingTails yeah, I get that and I hope that’s the case. I just hate seeing this rhetoric come from other women themselves. This just kinda feels like attacking the pregnant and breastfeeding women and I always gotta come out to defend my fellow moms lol

i honestly felt the exact same, and i don't think its just their age. its a mindset that allows boys to be boys and women to be kept in line. it's THEIR baby, not just hers, its her body that's suffering but they chose this path together, and if she ended up saying fuck it and had a donut since he couldn't just empathise a little- i'm sure he would be pissed claiming she is endangering their baby while he is literally making his wife sob, and causes unnecessary stress and pain for her. atp if i were in the wife's position i might just take him up on that offer to divorce because he's showing his true colours right now, and he can have all the donuts he wants in peace. its like he (and the podcast) can't grasp that the same way he misses eating in and having snacks its a billion times worse for her, and yet he is still complaining while he DOES still eat all the shit he wants.

When reading it, it really seemed like she is being verbally abusive. In my head it reminded me of another story we read where the OP called his wife out and said something along the lines of ‘being pregnant isn’t an excuse for being abusive’. They’re both dealing with big, important things. I think all are wrong.

I feel like this has happened before and its always just comes down to plain ignorance. Of course this woman looks 'unhinged' when you know not nearly enough about pregnancy and its effects. Its a shame because the husband did not deserve not close to as much grace as he was given.

That is a sweet relationship you two have and absolutely the way that this situation should be handled!! I think both of them in that reddit story are a little unhinged and in need of therapy together and separately

7 months pregnant. McDonalds forgot my McNugget sauce, that's all it took for me to breakdown sobbing and declaring "I'll never eat again!". Husband drove back around to get sauce. I was happily eating my nuggets 10 minutes later. Pregnancy hormones are no joke!

Ive been pregnant and yes it is hard, but it doesn’t mean she has the right to berate him and abuse him over him eating. He didn’t eat it at home, he did it in his car and did not tell her so it wouldn’t hurt her after their therapy appt, per what the therapist recommended and the therapist said she was being unreasonable. She is pretty controlling and borderline abusive to try to control everything he eats. She could easily cause him to develop an eating disorder by acting like this. Jealousy is understandable, but to ruin his birthday or to berate him over him going to eat in his car, which he kept from her and didn’t rub it in her face, is absolutely unhinged. I also raise a diabetic child, and he knows that just because of his condition, it’s not other peoples fault for eating things he cannot, and he is 5 years old…. She only has to deal with this for 2 months, my 5 year old will have to deal with this his entire life. I also had a condition where i threw up everytime after i ate so i aboided it even though i was starving for the whole 9 months and i still did not abuse my husband just because he ate, and she only has to do this for 2 months….

@@mikilynn471Abuse him how? By crying?

So true 😂😂

lots of ppl like justin are gross and addicted to it

oh that went over my head 😭 I took it as him being objective and saying you can’t make anybody do anything ?

I think this whole episode he seems so off. I know I don’t know any of these people at the end of the day but he just seemed so off and like lowkey tuned out… idk

@@alexm3220 i know what you mean, but he was weirdly aggressive about it lol. he acted like it’s an INSANE ask of someone, maybe he’s projecting

There's nothing weird about that. You can't control what anybody is doing when they're by themselves, simple as that.

I feel so bad for lauren having to sit next to him through that convo

It’s weird. Mostly because it seems like a conversation they haven’t gotten into privately. And he’s just there casually talking about how all partners will lie about watching porn like, come on

This is such a weird take to me. He was obviously joking around but he was also responding to topics Morgan brought up - she was the one that mentioned porn.

This!!! The OP in that one had a lot of low-key judgement aimed at her sister in her post

She says at the top of the post she doesn't like her sister.

This!! Story one is giving you have no kids and haven’t breastfed… I’m a bf mom and there’s no exhibitionism or attention seeking it’s actually incredibly stressful,.. very out of touch take here imo

This!! I dont think asking the photografer not to take pics of her breastfeeding is an AH move but being mean with her and calling her a exibitionist just because she's feeding her kid is a lil shitty

It does not sound like the sister is simply feeding her baby when hungry. FFS the photographer didn’t get any photos of her because she had her boob out the entire time. Do you really think the baby was feeding during the entire duration of the wedding and reception?

I get upset with breastfeeding at certain times and places and I'm the only person like this I know in Kenya. A few years back this man stopped a woman from breastfeeding at a trendy cafe and it was on the news for weeks; people were outraged, people were confused.

The issue is not breast-feeding in itself, in this story the issue is that the sister constantly has her boobs out. Babies don’t need to be on the tit 24/7.

Dios totalmente, no entiendo por que tienen tantos taboos

Here on the Navajo nation mothers they breast-feed everywhere and I do agree that here in the United States. It is very taboo. I don’t understand why I exclusively breast-fed my last two kids due to they were preemies, but yeah I mean breast is best and the man should’ve also talked to the sister and said you know I have a child for wedding. She probably would’ve understood. I don’t know.

He was clearly joking.

@@dandotvid I guess I misunderstood

When they have a fight and theres weird tension he shouldint be on at all i feel like morgan forces him to be on after a fight in a few episodes u can tell they had attention between them why go on youtube then let him set a episode out no big deal

Grow up

Yea I was about start sleeping and then popped my head up 💀

Hahaha I knew I just forgot the word carnival 🎡 🤣

Totally agree, the amount of times they have had a story about pregnancy, breastfeeding, or general parenting is so frustrating because they just don't know the reality of it all. They need to have someone on the show with experience for those stories.

Adding the husband’s perspective. I do understand the donuts now after his edit. At first I thought the wife was just used to him bringing in all the craving foods in front of her and was just more angry from all of the build up, but he sounds like it really affected him and was a really bad fight. I think they both handled it badly, him only for mentioning divorce like that, but i can understand if the fight was really bad. I understand what he’s saying about food insecurity and trauma from that, however, i don’t think it should have taken that long to separate the forbidden foods and be more discreet with eating it. If it was really upsetting your wife like that i feel like the natural response is to be more discreet and to just think about how hard it is for her to have to see it all in their pantry and fridge and have to actively avoid the temptation. I feel like in the beginning from how he described it and how he worded things, he was like fighting so hard for his ‘right’ to eat the junk food as if it was a hill he was willing to doe on. Idk it feels hardheaded and like he fostered an environment for the emotions and tension to rise in such a way that it’s world war 3 if that makes sense? Like a self fulfilled prophecy. This is the hill he choose to die on, and now he’s surprised the fight in response to his seriousness of it, got so serious the marriage might die on it. Im not trying to victim blame, because it sounds like he’s going through some stuff with food rn, but I’m trying to say that this seems like a natural escalation of events to his response. His wife is going through a lot and can’t necessarily control her emotions or reaction (that’s never an excuse for abuse though) so she’s on more of a rollercoaster than he is, when one person in a marriage spirals, the other needs to get off their rollercoaster and stabilize the other and be their support. It’s not a;ways fair, but its how partnerships work, it shouldn’t be one sided, but it also shouldn’t be keeping score either. She, in my opinion from the info we are given, is more vulnerable rn and he has more ability to get off the rollercoaster and be stable for her to keep her grounded and calm through all of this.

I don't care if they are recovering. I will drink wtf I want

Yes, if that wasn't the mom's line of work then yeah weird, but she does that for a living she probably is desensitized to seeing genitals. I would rather have my mom who I know and trust that a complete stranger all up on my business, plus it's free!

right? so you’re telling me i’m weird for getting a free wax by someone i trust? i honestly don’t think it’s that weird for her mom to do it either

My parents were in the medical field and many of their coworkers had kids around my age (small town people what's up), if it was weird for us to potentially have a parent or friends parent take care of something in an intimate area, a visit to the hospital could get really tricky 😂. Also, I would 10,000% rather the context being "I need a wax" than "I need someone who has known me since I was a child because (insert junk related medical disaster here)"

I think some people get weird about bodies. I grew up with a single mum and when it's hot in the summer we'd just be in our underwear. Also the mum has seen it, touched it, cleaned it more times than she can count.

Totally agree! My mom made me and has the same parts. Not weird at all. I think it also has to do with your upbringing. I could understand the weirdness if you had conservative parents who kept things private. But personally, as an adult, I’ve been changing in the same room with my mom or if I had a questionable bump, there isn’t another person I’d feel more comfortable with looking at it than my mom.

Exactly, it’ll be way more supportive if he joined her in her dietary restrictions. Although having a treat once in a while outside the home won’t hurt nobody, it seems like this guy has a serious fast food addiction

Thank you Morgan! ❤

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Typical grifter behavior. It's actually kind of disgusting she only did this months after the situation escalated and it became clear the Internet was overwhelmingly pro-Palestine. She would never support or touch any controversial subject until it became clear she wouldn't get backlash for it. Big ick ew.

@@Yellow_With_Red She did it months ago actually watch her episode where she actually starts with it and talks about how shes half Jewish herself but doesn’t condone the genocide ! So before speaking on a situation make sure you have your facts straight! 😊

⁠@@Yellow_With_RedOh come on? She acknowledged it, go shit on someone else who hasn’t.

If an AITA poster said the exact same thing Morgan would call it out it’s so weird that she acts like that’s okay

his comments are enough to make me never watch the show again

I think thats a bit like demanding someone never fantasize about anyone other than you. Thats an unproductive thing to think about or try to control. Only watching porn and reading erotica are private moments and have no other actual participants. I think it's an unreasonable ask. However, i do think the right thing to do is just to communicate that this is an unreasonable ask for you instead of doing it secretly.

if i was Morgan i would have cut that first part out of this episode because its a little icky. if its something you do it doesn't have to be yelled to the world. also Morgan seems okay about the fact he watches porn but even if she wasn't okay with it he would still watch it just like he said . i got the ick. men should have filters lol

@@johannabarr4071 100% its crazy she kept it in its not funny and quirky like they probably think it is, it was actually really triggering as someone whos partner has watched it behind my back and im still healing

Maybe I’m misunderstanding but I think they did come to a conclusion that he would eat what he wants outside the house

@@anonymouse_EN yeah, if i understood so too, and i'm not saying her reaction is the 'correct' response, but just that it's probably more extreme due to the tension. they did seem to come to an agreement, but the way he spoke about his partner and how he felt kinda came across as resentful and unwilling, despite making a compromise, so it's possible while being very hormonal and emotional, the woman was just overwhelmed.

Yeah that’s what it sounds like to me. It seems it took several months before he caved into the idea of hiding his eating habits from his wife; and this was just the straw that broke the camels back. I think he should be able to eat what he wants outside the home but it’s clear that he has no care or love for his partner

I’ve thought the same. I always skip ones with Justin.

What did he say?

Yeah especially if she does it professionally. They literally see it everyday. I don’t think it’s weird as a woman for your mom to see you naked

If I were someone who provided waxing as a professional service, I’d be fine waxing my daughter if she asked me to (at a reasonable age). In a way, I’d prefer it because 1-she’d be saving money and 2-I would know it was being done properly, not causing her skin injury, and under sanitary conditions. But everyone has their comfort level. Morgan’s family speak very openly about sex. Most families aren’t like that and would find it strange and even inappropriate. But for her family, it’s totally normal. This is no different imo.

Agreed whether it was that or need I someone else to look down there, besides a doctor...I'm going to my mom

My thoughts EXACTLY

I was thinking the same thing lol! Don’t want to waste the mustard but will throw away a shirt before attempting to wash lol

Cleaning/outside shirt maybe???

@@sydney5782he wore a dirty cleaning shirt to a nice restaurant? i would be pissed as the gf

@@shelbylaizure6551 i think they mean repurposing the stained shirt into a cleaning shirt

that’s why i feel like he seemed annoyed, he barely got to speak as much i feel

So I’m learning and so wild!! I’ve only heard voyuerism used in the way exibitionism should be

​@@TwoHotTakes they get switched a lot, but yes, voyeurism is the act of watching, exhibitionism is the act of being watched

Makes total sense 🤯

It's wild to me that a native English speaker wouldn't know these words.

@@IzzysTravelDiariesWtf do you mean? 😭 These are such specific words that you would RARELY use. Plenty of people would go their whole lives never even knowing these kinds of people exist. No matter what language you speak, it’s impossible to know every single word. What a silly thing to comment!

Like she's pregnant and has gestational diabetes both which greatly affects your mood. She literally can't eat those things that she craves because she could loose the baby or her life, gestational diabetes is a big deal!!

It’s been awhile since we recorded but I thought she has said her sister’s actions in the past before having a baby were exhibitionism? Did she directly call breastfeeding exhibitionism!?

@@Lauren-ib3okI believe she was! A lot of people view breastfeeding as a borderline sexual thing (it isn’t) and believe you have to nurse the child in a private setting only.

She said that apparently the sister's husband broke up with her because she was an exhibitionist, but it doesn't specify why he thought so (though it definitely seems like he got this impression AFTER they had children). It's hard to tell whether he got this impression just from her breastfeeding or if it was based on something else, but it definitely seems like the family only thinks that because of how she breastfeeds. OP does say that she doesn't have an issue with breastfeeding in public, but basically that she should use a cover or go to a more private area other than a bathroom (which... Not every public place has a private area besides a bathroom, so I'm not sure what she meant there). I'm conflicted about the story because while I think it's fair to not want her breastfeeding to appear in wedding photos, but the way she talks about her sister is so judgemental and unkind. She's a newly single mom trying to raise a baby and a toddler, and it's fair that she was hurt to be ostracized from the rest of her family at her sister's wedding. Unless she's toxic in ways not specified in the post, I don't see why OP couldn't have just talked to her and explained about the photos. It kinda seems like they're just a really uptight family and that they're judging her for doing a very natural thing.

@@Lauren-ib3ok im not sure but it seemed like op was grouping them together

The two are however not mutually exclusive

And he had the audacity to call her “chubby” she’s pregnant, that’s sort of expected when you’re growing another person!

He made her pregnant? What it sounds like is it was consensual. everybody would be like it’s your body your choice if she decided to get an abortion. But somehow this man needs to change his whole diet because his gf has the issues??? It’s his body his choice! He can eat whatever he wants! Your statement sounds like it’s coming from a place where The relationship needs to be the same during the pregnancy because that’s what’s fair. Sounds toxic.

@@Chem_-jp5emoh my gosh when he called her chubby but he can’t go a week without Cheesecake Factory??? Uhhhhhhmmmm?

It's not necessary. I lived through GD. I didn't make my bf change anything. You need to find other healthy alternatives to eat food you want. Sugar free versions are available that don't spike the glucose levels. Making adjustments for yourself doesn't mean you partner has to suffer.

@@samanthawilson6159thank you. Although I do feel for the woman who’s pregnant, asking you S/O to not eat specific foods bc you can’t seems a bit ridiculous especially if he’s making it a point to eat it away from her.

Why?

and justin saying “if you think your partner isnt watching porn then you’re wrong they are” was crazy like what?? some people aren’t porn addicts?

@@nutalia I thought that part was weird and honestly felt a red flag about him proudly checking out porn on his watch, but that’s due to my personal history. Certainly not everyone is a porn addict but I thought he was really dismissive to the idea of not wanting partners to watch porn.

@@nutaliathat part was super triggering bc my boyfriend and i have that boundary where we don’t watch it or even look at other people like that, it made me really upset and made me second guess my partner bc what if he is watching it even tho he’s told me he would feel guilty and said he would never do it bc it was a boundary i placed even before we started dating :/ i wish porn wasn’t so normalized, it destroys everyone’s mind (it’s very lonely to be someone who is against porn)

​@@steph3853I'm the same. I had an ex who did it for months behind my back and lied about it after i said it feels like cheating before we started dating. Im with my current partner and I dont believe he watches it, but Justins comment really brought up so much anxiety toward my current partner and made me question his honesty for no reason

@@steph3853my partner and I have that boundary as well. Why tf would anyone be okay with their partner getting off to someone else? That triggered me so bad and I feel like I can’t even trust my partner just because of what some guy on the internet just said. And justin proudly admitting it is honestly pathetic. Idk how Morgan can be okay with that.

Me too & this one was especially bad

Exactly!

Exactly. Men getting praised for their “sacrifice” It’s giving unchecked misogyny