So happy for sister that you have found love at last. A lot of the comments here were blaming you for studying, but they would not understand you unless they walk a mile in your shoes. ❤

My Hmong sisters, stop thinking divorce will ruin your children. You will ruin your children by choosing to stay in a toxic and or abusive marriage. Please find the courage to leave. Paub hlub yus tus kheej thiab ma, cov vivncaus aw.

To our Hmong woman.. Need to remember u are in control of your life. If he isn’t supportive spouse. It’s not bad to leave. By leaving your are surviving life.

You are not close to being brave. You stayed till he divorced you! 😅😂

Our community, our culture...we need to do better than our parent's generation. We need to teach our daughters that daughters are as valuable compared to our sons. We need to appreciate our daughters. We need to teach our daughters to leave an abusive relationship, an abusive spouse. We need to assure our daughters that our arms and our doors are always opened to welcome and accept them back. As men and fathers, we need to do better for our families, for our community. We cannot preach words and expect others to live by our standards, when we are doing the opposite. 🙏🙏🙏

This one should be titled, "Txhob Cia Qub Poj Niam Yuav Txiv Es Yus Mam mus Quaj Vwm Loj Vwm Leg!" 😅😂

Why stay married to a person when you are practically on your own? When you accepted and approved of his niam yau, you became the doormat. No wonder others step all over you. You have no love and respect for yourself. Koj yog ib niag neeg tsis muaj siab muaj ntsws. Lawv tsim thiab ntxub koj npaum ntawv los koj tseem muaj kev cia siab. You could've called the police for a stalker, but you let him hung around and peeked at him all night. The right response is move on when someone treated you like trash.

nrog koj zoo siab mog txhob ntseeg tus ub no cia siab rau koj tus txiv hluas nraug xwb mog.

Even if you go with your ex-husband, remember that he hasn't divorced his 2nd wife yet, too.

I don’t get you sister. You said that you don’t want your kids to be like you an orphan but they are like you. Your husband is not even there. So what is the different?

Yog kawg! Nrog koj zoo siab thiab koj nrhiav rau tus ua hlub, hlub koj lawm os. Peb cov txiv tsev thov nes hlub hlub nes cov niam tsev nawb.

What the hell sister, you have endured enough pain, heartaches, disappointment and suffering, and sacrifices. You were sister, mother, father, best friend, to your brother's. Your husband never truly love you. You were nothing but just a doormat. He lied and cheated during your whole marriage. He deserves and belongs in prison. He married his affair mistress and abandoned you and your children. What the hell do you still want him for? Why the hell did you bail him out of jail for. Do you not have children or better things to do with your money than to used to bail that S.O.B. out. You should've listened to your brother and divorced him.

Vaug koj Mas siab tiag cas yog kuv, tau koj,hlub,os

Xh tshaj lug twb haistias, txiv neej tau ntsej muag vajtswv tab sis tau siab dev hos pojniam tau ntsej muag dev tiam sis tau siab vajtswv. Txiv neej lam tau ntsej muag thaum tseem muaj pojniam khov kho xwb, hnub twg pojniam khiav kiag rau neej tsa lawm ces txiv neej tau kiag ntsej muag dev. Pojniam mas thaum tseem muaj txiv ces tus cem thiab ntaus npaum li cas los ua dev leg los chawj tus txiv, tab sis hnub twg nws txiav txim siab kiag lawm ces nws tsis quaj tsis thov tus txiv li lawm.

U did what u did. As long you're happy at the end.

Hlub tog nrav xwb ces tsis txog txij twg.

Hais rau cov txiv dev pheej hais tias nej cov niam yau momo ab no, lawv hluas dua tej zaum ! Tabsis dhau txiv neej petsawg tus lawm ? Tsawg kawg ntshe 10 tus lawm pob thiaj txawj 2 qoj nej thiaj nyiam heev os.

I should feel sorry for u but I dont. U grew up in America & have a choice but chose to stay in that toxic relationship & let him coninue to abuse u. U stayed for ur kids was ur main reason, but how is this better than what ur parents did? Even after u divorced, u continue to let him control u. Ur children are the only ones suffered.

Tus me niam tsev aw!! yus nyob yus tsis txhob ua siab zoo2 es tseem yuav zov niam yau tus me nyuam thiab tsis txhob zov2 es niam yau hos koj kaws thiab os mog es yus hlub yus tus kheej nawb mog .

If I were your boyfriend/current husband, I would have dumped you when you couldn’t make up your mind about your ex-husband. Tsis yog Koj lub siab tawv, yog koj tsis muaj siab xwb. You are very confused and absent minded. I got frustrated listening to this story. 🤦‍♀️

You're so pretty Niam Ntsuab Teev.

🥰🥰

Tus me niam hluas cas koj txoj hmoo yuav phem li kuv thiab os me niam hluas cas yuav tu siab rau wb lub neej ua luaj li os los

Cas ruam tshaj ruam!

Peb los ib yam thiab os mog. Nyias hlub nyias tus kheej xwb mog me sister

Ua li cas mloog kj coj dad neeg txiv siab phem no es yuav tu siab ua luaj li os niam lau ,kv tu ua ib zuag neeg tsis zoo es rov mus ua zaub ob lov cas tseem ham yam tsis zoo thiab os tu2 😢kg li os

At least, you have a happy ending

Poj ruam os poj ruam aw.....! Yog ruam li koj ces yeej tseem yuav mag ntxiv os

Tus niamtsev aws pab koj zooplawv kg yom! Cias nws khuvxim thb es xaj tsimnyog qhov nws tsislhub koj os.👍🏻😄😄

Tus niam tsev aw....niag txiv dev ko thian nws niag maum dev nkawv ces sib phim xwb os....kav tsij muab nws tso mus es mus nrhiav tus tshiab los hlub koj lawm xwb txhob quav ntsej niag dev thawj thiab ko lawm.

Peb pojniam yuav tsum tawv thiab khov hos.😊

Cas yuav dhuav cov niag poj niam ruam zoo li no ua luaj li lau. Zaj tas zaj tuaj li os. Tsis txhob tuaj nroo nroo txoj nej tej niag kev tu siab ko li os. Yus nros yus txoj kev ruam ces kav tsis nyob raws yus txoj kev ruam. Txhob xav hais tias yus ua tus siab zoo zoo kom kwj twj neej tsa qhuas yus no os. Luag tsuas nyhos yus xwb vim luag tsis ruam li yus. Lwm tiam es mus thov ntaub thov ntawv los ua neeg kom ntse mi ntsis thiaj tsis nkim niam txiv lub zog tus hlob.

Niam laus kv pom mj ib tug KZfaq pheej tso koj cov dab neeg es puas yg koj tus lm thb na

OMG🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Yog kawg,zoo heev me viv ncaus pab koj siab mog👍👍

Cas yuav muaj nqi ua luaj li os puas yog hais koj sab xwb na

Hahahaha neeg siab phem ces zoo li tiag

Your dad was paying child support therefore your mother and stepdad should paid for your brother’s wedding. ncawv muab nyiaj child support noj tas nkawv tsis xav them nqes nyab tsis yog lawm nawb.

Koj ua tau zoo kawg tab sis koj khav theeb heev lawm tsis tsis paub tag kis li os txhob khav tsam txiv tub hluas muab koj tsim duab nawb

Tu siab tag npaum no ntshe yuav tau nrauj thiab los ua cas.

This dude is just mad because he knows he threw someone nice away. Now he got to lay in the bed he made. "A man's trash is another man's treasure" which is true.

That ex husband doesn’t love anyone but himself. When he realizes he lost you, he used his tears to guilt trip you. Glad you didn’t fall for his tricks. He got what he deserved

I’m glad you found your happy ending. I hope your second husband stays true to you. But don’t do too much for your children. Take care of yourself first so you can care for others.

the road of love leads to darkness. live and learn.

Glad you found happiness while your ex is living with regrets .

Today we really dont need each other if not true love.

What a POS! Tell him to xuas tswg npuj nws lub qhov quav es tuag mus xwb mas!

Tu poj niam no cas yuav khawv xim tu txiv neej no ua luaj li na

I will never understand Hmong men who have no money, barely out of high school and want to get married. Does not make sense!

He got what he looking for.

Txiv neej taj tiag2

Hai ib zaj ruv pua Tau os

Karma at its finest!!😂😂

Just because you came from an ugly toxic family doesn't mean you should tolerate your ex-husband as well. He was emotionally abused you, manipulated, mistreated, cheated on you, etc. the whole marriage. You couldn't love yourself properly because he didn't do a good job at taking care of your well-being. Your ex-husband left you for another version of himself, lol. Thank him and his wife for letting you go. You deserve a love story of your own!

The part he said "my wife make my eyes red and green. Knock me out peaceful". What does that mean? Lol. 😂😂😂 what kinda method is she using?

Ntshe koj yog tus poj niam uas lucky xwb os

Pojniam Hmoob yeej ruam li no tiag lov.

Cakojmuaj hmoo ua luaj

Ua tau zoo kawg li os sister

Sister, koj ua zoo rau nws txaus dhau lawm. Nws thib mob twb tsis npaum koj, vim thaum nws tau tus tshiab koj twb tsis muaj 1 tug li nws hnub no koj mus. Kavtsij mus txhob tig saib qab, tseem yuav lov pos tsuab kom txhob ntsib lwm tiam.

Koj ruam dhau es tseem mus tso cawm koj niag txiv tom jail thiab nawb

Wow another txiv neej hmoob ruam noj quav loj...

This story makes my blood boil

The title is incorrect, tsis yog poj niam siab tawv os. Twb yog poj niam tag kev lawm vim tus txiv mus yuav niam yuav lawm. Kuv paub tias tus niam tsev didn’t want her kids to go through what she and her siblings went through. Being so weak with no confidence, her ex husband trampled on her pride, love and loyalty. At the end when he divorced her, she has no choice but to move forward. Ultimately I’m glad she found someone that loves her and happiness.

Yog kuv tau koj ma yuav hlub koj tsaj li os me muam zoo hlub aw

Your trash, somebody's treasure

Not worth my time listening. Please choose better stories to tell.

I guess I thought you'd be here forever Another illusion I chose to create You don't know what you got until it's gone And I found out a little too late I was acting as if you were lucky to have me Doin' you a favor I hardly knew you were there But then you were gone and it all was wrong Had no idea how much I cared Now being without you Takes a lot of getting used to Should learn to live with it But I don't want to Being without you It's all a big mistake Instead of getting easier It's the hardest thing to take I'm addicted to you, babe You're a hard habit to break You found someone else, you had every reason You know I can't blame you for runnin' to him Two people together but living alone I was spreading my love too thin

No self respect, love yourself first

Kojzoontximsiabkawg

ໍຈຟຖ😊,😭😭🤤😭😭😭😭😭🤪🤪😭😭😭

Kojtseemhluasmuajzogsibdo

Sister, you allow this to happen to you. You accepted his behavior and have no respect for yourself. I have no sympathy for you.