Txiv​ neej​ tag​ lawm​ los​ hlub​ cov​ me.​Nyiam​ thiaj.​Kav lais​ mog

Young Love is not the same as Mature Love. At a young age, we accept too easy, love too deep, and hope too high without considering the complexity and challenges of relationships. it's not too different from a fantasy like a love story or move where we decide all of the drama all the way to the "happily ever after". We fall into this trap with the lack of education or practice. Safeguard yourself: learn how read and understand personalities, improve your own, and know that it takes time to see compatibility.

His behavior has nothing to do with the fact that you two didn’t get each other when you were young. A bad person with a bad heart; no matter when you get him; it wouldn’t work out.

Something I’ve learned from listening to all these old lovers story. If it was meant to be in the beginning, life would’ve been great, but it wasn’t meant to be from the beginning and it won’t end well at the end. Lesson learned.

I’m proud of you for making the decision to choose your kids over this foolish ex. You are a great mom.

Niam laus aw cas zaj neej neeg no yv raug kiag li kv lub neej o

Cias kom txoj kev hlub mus li no, es thiaj li tsis khuv khuv xim lawm. Pom Dej dag es siab thiaj nqig.

Ua tsaug os tu niam tsev aw koj qhia. Ua rau kv hlub kv tu txiv dua qub lawm os yog li koj hai lawm os yu tu txiv mam mu dab tsi lo xwb yu twb paub hai tia yog yug tu txiv no kv nyiam koj txoj neej neeg no heev

Yog lawm os txhob cia siab lawm os hlub tus yus tau xwb es thiaj zoo os

Txhob ntseeg nws nawb txiv neej cia nws khuv xim u mus ib sim neej xwb txhob nrauj nws dag kj lawm xwb mog

Good for you sister. I’m proud of you for choosing your kids over your ex.

Tus txiv zoo li no nrauj 10 tus los kuv yeej zoo siab hlo nrauj

I wonder how many hopeless hearts out there listening wondering if the one that got away is waiting to hear May tell their love stories?

yog lawm nawb yog leej tws nco qub nkauj qub nraug no tso cia nawb tug tswv haig neej nees no haig tau zoo tshaj plaws li os ua tsaug mos yog li lawm os tus tswv thiaj li txawj haig yog lawm mos tu siab tshaj li os quaj luas quaj luas xwb os 😂😂😂😂😂

Nyob zoo nawb me Nyab aw peb mloog koj tag li xwb os

Noj qub zaub ces kawg mob plab li ko xwb tiag.

Tsev dev laus dab ntxaug zoo li,

I’m a believer of an Ex is an Ex for a reason. When my Ex BF tried connecting with me. I told him love your wife a lot, treat her well, spoil her rotten. So when I see how happy she is, I will cherish how great you are. I never responded to him or checked to see how is life is. (Keep moving forward. The past is a lesson, the future is your life.)

Yog kawg kuv xav li ko thiab os

Leave him. This is my second marriage too. He wouldn’t stop me from helping and loving my children.

There is a good reason that God won’t let you both be together at first…now you know the truth about your ex…you should never marry him then and now…!he has small heart! Go and be with your kids. Man comes and goes…😩🤠!

tus txiv neej yog muaj tseeb li koj hais ko mas tus txiv neej ko siab me dhau lawm g yuav los tau lawm nawb

Ntsej muag txiv dev, siab luaj pim nas xwb

Definitely proud to did what you had to as a mom. Men come in go, but our kids don't so do depend on them. If you know you raised a bunch of good kids, you know they will be your back bone once you get older.

Koj ob tug txiv ko ces muab tso plig tag nrho xwb cas hlub koj kawg li os sister aw

Your second husband is a selfish fool who only want you to love his but not the other way around. You don’t need a selfish fool like this guy. Koj yuav nws los yeej tsi ntxi koj qhov twg nawb yog ib txiv neej yawg siab me npaum li no na.

Kiddos to you for being a strong 💪 mother to your kids. Ex’s are just history and people can’t change.

Thank for being a strong mother. Im proud of you! 👏👏👏

An ex is an ex for a reason! It's your fault you accept him back into your life, lady. I don't feel sorry for you. Problem is that 20 something years people forget who they were then. I'm sure you regret connecting with him. Best of luck to you don't trust men easily. And no I didn't finish the story...

Qub ces tsuas zoo thaum hluas xwb. Tsawg2 tus thiaj muaj ib tug xwb

Ua li cas kuv yuav nrog koj tu siab rau lub neej mus rau ob tus txiv tib neeg siab phem zoo li no vivncaus aw tabsis ua siab zoo rau yus cov menyuam thiaj li tau txoj siav mog.

Tsis txhob rov qab mus yuav cov qub hluas nraug li os peb cov viv ncaus tseem phem tshaj plaws li

Kuv muaj txoj kev lwj siab li koj los kuv ua tiag uv vim kuv ntshai cov kev lwj siab li ko kuv tus hlub twb mus nplog twb 9 zaus no lawm los kuv muaj 8 tus me nyuam kuv tseem uv nyob os sister aw

Menyuam yeej ntse dua, leej twg hais tias yuav qub hluas thiab yawg nrauj, poj nrauj es lub neej yuav kaj siab lug na.. 100 tsuas muaj 10 couples thiaj zoo xwb, li no es thiaj hais tias cia nco thiab khuv xim thiaj kav tag ib sim no ne..

Txawm yog li es peb thiaj tsi nco cov qub hluas lo ma sister aw txoj ke qub nkauj hluas ces cia muab pov tseg puag nram qab hag es zoo dua mog

This man doesn’t deserve you, back then or now. I’m happy you left him on the wayside. Love yourself first.

I can't finish this story, tus txiv tsev no phem tshaj dab.

Qub nkauj qub nraug ces xum ntxhoob si nco lawm sib tso tag tsi sib tau ces kav tsi fooj kom nwg lub neej tsi muaj hnub zoo kiag

Nej cov pog laus uas pheej hais tias nim khiv khiv xim tej qub hluas nraug os yog tsis yog . Yog koj ntshaw qau xwb ua ces tsis nyob twj ywm xwb thiaj Tau ntau yog koj ntshaw ib lub neej kav tsij nrog koj tej me nyuam nyob xwb koj thiaj muaj lub chaw tuag yog xav Tau ntau rab nyob ua xwb thiaj Tau ntau yog xav Tau lub neej kaj siab lug tsis muaj tus txiv lawm tshuav cov me nyuam nyob twj ywm thiaj yuav zoo rau yus tej me nyuam.

Same here sister ua in tug poj nrauj ces yeej very hard li kom tiag. N that’s why I don’t go back to the win hluas

Sister, just be strong for your kids. Your kids will be part of your life forever. Your spouse or partner is just there temporary. He/She can be replaceable but your kids are not. Be strong, it's a rough road but you will get through it.

Wow li ko ces nrauj os. Ur kids means the world to u. Niag txivdev zoo li ko ces tsis zoo dabtsi li os

Cas nyob hauv qab Ntuj nov es txiv Neej tsis muaj tus uas muaj lub siab zoo li lawm lo...? Txaus tu Siab dhau lawm lau...ntshe txhob yuav txiv neej hmoob ntxiv lawm o lawv...

Kuv xav kom cov poj niam ruam ruam tsab ntse ntse cia cia siab rau hmoob tej txiv qau tawv tawv koj puas xav sim yog tsis txaus siab hlub lawm ces sim seb yuav tuag qhov twg nej poj niam cia siab diam mag tsis mag puas paub qhov zoo nyob tshaj yog li no xwb tiag

Augh the 2nd husband is a jerk!! Makes my blood boil listening to this story!

Peb cov niam tsev yog peb yug tsi muaj ib tug me tub menyuam ces mus yuav txiv los tau yog peb twb yug muaj tub muaj ki ces ua ib siab zov lawv os kuv li kuv xav tias yog kuv ces kuv yuav zov kuv cov menyuam os kuv khwv rau lawv noj tu lawv kom loj lwm hnub lawv tsi hlub kuv los kuv yeej tsi tu siab os lawv

Tus viv ncaus aw!! cov txiv tshiab uas zoo li kos ces peb yuav txiav txim siab nrog peb cov menyuam es lwm hnub lawv tsis hlub peb los peb mam mus tsev laus yuav dua li peb hlub luag tus xwb mog es hlub peb cov menyuam zoo dua li koj mus luag tus mog .es txhob ntsaws tej tug tsis dev zoo li no mog .

Koj yeej cia2 siab rau news es koj tus txiv thiab tso koj pob?

Koj tus txiv ko tsi tas yuav li o siab me ua luaj.

pojniam hmoob ntshaw qau ces zoo li no ntag… ib tug txiv tsis pub yus hlub yus cov me nyuam ces muab nws lawb xwb qau tas rau rab qau no lawm lov ?!

Qub khiav roj ces tawv22 tsis zoo noj lawm mog txhob khaws rov los noj Tsam mobplab

Sometime this is the kind of closure we need

Muaj ib txhia txiv mas ho tsis thub cov nws yug tab sis homus hlub niag niam yau cov dua laiv

Tus viv ncaus aw syov nej xav nej li cas nej pheej yuav khuv xim tus qub hluas nraug cas koj yuav ruam ua luaj thaum hluas twb tsis tau lawm thaum laus lub neej tsis kawg mus nrhiav tus tshiab xwb os sim neej no tus qub hluas nraug tsis ntsia txog twb tig tsis caj lub zos muaj nws nyob kuv yeej tig tsis caj li os cas koj yuav ruam ua luaj pheej xav txog tus qub hluas nraug xwb ruam tiag tiag li os

Life is not fair in many levels of being a women…most of these problems are the issue from the man 🤔

Good you got smart in the end. Children first nonghee last.

twb yeej tsis zoo es.thiaj li tsis tau es txhob cia siab. lawm os tau los yeej yuav sib nrauj los yeej yuav tuag xwb os

Kuv xav tiam ntshe tiam no kuv thiaj tau tus txiv tsis hlub kuv xwb kuv tu siab kawg tab sis cas kuv hos hnov nej tau tus niag zoo li kuv thiab

This is the reason why maybe in first place you both couldn't be together is because wasn't meant to be. They always say history is the past, just leave it there because it won't make a difference in the future. Luag yeej hais txhob khum xim lub qub neej , qub hluas nraug vim yeej tsis yog yug hmoo tiag.

I can't believe you chose your husband over your children knowing his heart is not good.

🤩🤩🤩🤩🌷

Men like your 2nd husband is the most cruel, selfish & small minded beings. Men who expect you to love his kids but can’t even love yours the same is not worth it, you don’t need losers like your 2nd ex-husband.

Sister you absolutely right and exactly as I learned from too many cases. I was telling too many time to the people in the hmong radio conference as exactly as your story, don't even trust your qub kiav roj they never be the same any more. As I saw at my own eyes too many cases were divorced one by one cases again and again every day now, don't be sad.

Pojruam, yus tham yus lub neej ruam xwb. Koj tsis hnov May Vang twb tham ib cov riv sib tau twb sib sib hlub. Koj tsis muaj cai hais tias txhua tus liam li koj. Yus txhob tham cuag li txhua tus xuab li koj

Cov pojniam ruam es pheej niag hnub xav tej niag qub hluas nraug es ua ua neej puas tag nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb os

Koj tus tub hais yog lawm ....

The old boyfriend has insecurities and is selfish. A true spouse will not make you block your children out of your life. Throw that 2nd husband in the trash!

If he was a good person, he wouldn't have been divorced. She should have found out why he was divorced from his first wife. He was an immature, petty and selfish person from the beginning. She remembers him with rose coloured glasses, that was her mistake. It took her long enough to pick her kids but all in all, she finally made the right choice.

Tus niam tsev zaj kev hlub tom1 ntawv Muab hloog los mas yog tim Tus niam tsev pheej twv2 thiab seev txog tus thawj zog ntawm kev hlub es thiaj tsis uv tus txiv thiaj twv2 xum ua poj nroj los tau tus qub hluas , Tab sis vim nws tsis ntse Yog nws ntse Txiv neej muaj ntau hom, Hom nws tus txiv thib 2 ntawv yog cov neeg ruam tsis puv 100 . Cov txiv ntse luag hlub 2 cag .

Ohyo qub hluas nraug cas koj yuav khuv xim luaj na kuv tus txiv twb yuav niam yau tsis hlub kuv los kuv yeej tsis nco tej qub hluas nraug me me li as koj mas yom nco ua hnub ua hmo es ntuj thiaj muab koj mus kom txog ntua thiab yuav kiag nrog nws koom neej es koj thiaj pom thiab paub nws lub siab phem phem es koj siab thiaj nqig thiaj tsis nco nco nws lawm os nawb

Qub zaub,, zaub lwj mov qaub koj yeej paub tias noj tas yuav mob plab cas tseem yuav noj ua dab tsi?

Leej twg tias noj qub zaub tsis mob qub plab? Leej twg tias hais qub lus es tsis mob qub sab?

The first mistake you did is not to love yourself first. Marriage is about harmony and commitment, I don’t know why you put up with your husband for so long. At the end it’s all your fault because each one of us are all responsible for our destiny. Never let anybody treat you like garbage

Sounds like your 2nd husband was trying to compete with your kids. Glad you chose your kids over him because he is chauvinistic and selfish. I would be so exhausted from fighting with him about my kids. Hell, I will always defend my kids from their own father. No man will ever win over my kids.

ua cas koj yuav ntshaw koj tus ko ua luaj os niam laus txawm tsis muaj koj tus txiv ko los tseem yuav tau lwm tus hos koj nrho ib puas txhiab mus yuav tsis tau koj cov me nyuam nawj kav tsij hlub koj cov me nyuam xwb os

Yog yuav tus txiv zoo li kos ces yus laus laus lawm los tsis txhob yuav zoo duas lawm os tus me niam laus aw tus kawg hlub yus tus me nyuam xwb os mog 😢

I've listened to alot of these old lover or ex flames that didn't get together and later on try reclaiming a past that's long dead and buried. If it was meant to be, it would have been. You would've gotten married and spent your life as a married couple. But remember, fate has its own story. You cannot rekindle what is passed. Life has moved on. You're living and loving something that doesn't exist anymore.

He is an evil man, leave him while you can.

Ncaws thaub bmoob no tawm ces teeb meem tiav xwb

Viv ncaus Aw vim li cas koj tseem yuav ntshaw tus txiv ko ua luaj na txiv xwb yeej nrhiav tsu u tej me nyuam yuav tsis tau nawb niag txiv zoo li tus ko xwb siab me dhau lawm muab tso pov tseg u tej me nyuam tseem ceeb dua tus ko os ,

Oyo cov niag txiv dev lim hiam li ko nrauj los zoo os!! Ua neeg nyob es nws xav kom yus hlub nws li 100% xwb hos yus li ces nws txiav tua cog riam mas siv tsis tau lau! Qub nkauj nraug txhob sib yuav os ua neej lwj siab heev.. kuv yog niam tog txiv nta tabsis kuv tus txiv wb tsis muaj kev sib khib li os nyias pab rau nyias cov menyuam qhov loj ces ob leeg pab uake xwb peb lub neej kuj tsis mob hlwb thiab os…

It was a one sided love at first because if he really did love you he would’ve married you

Marries someone understand you how life..n future? Equal..n fair

Tus qub lawm mas kuv yeej tsi ntsia li lawm os

Wishful dream that will never last...good luck on your next marriage.

Pog Hmoob ruam! Why you give $$ for his own kid? I wouldn’t put a penny down.

Sister kuv mloog mas koj nyiam thiab nco koj niag qub hluas nraug tshaj nws nyiam koj nco koj na Peb ua neej nyob xav Tsi nrog xav nawv mog

Tus txiv coj li koj tus qub hluas nraug koj ces muab lawb dab kiag xwb os. I rather choose my kids over this hateful man.

Pojruam, Koj twb khuv xim, koj pheej hais kom sawv daws txhob khuv xim. Cov vwm li koj thiaj khuv xim tus yus tsis tau thaum hluas. Peb li peb tsis vwm rau lub neej thaum hluas li koj. Yam yus twb ua ua, txhob ua txuj kom lwm tus txhob ua. Dev tsis muaj cai haiv neeg, koj yog dev xwb. Koj yog neeg vwm.

I don love him, six kids later. The kids, the parents I’ll stay. Same story over and over.

Cas zaj no es ntshav yuav nce hla taub hau ua luaj li… Vic ncaus muab pov rau hauv khib nyiab os. Tus neeg siab pem li koj tus xwb muaj coob thiab tsis zoo ua neej nrog lawm. Xaiv yu cov menyuam xwb.

That’s why we need wisdom from God instead of your opinion vs my opinion/how I feel vs how you feel etc

Niam tais kom hlub tus txiv ntawm xub ntiag txhob cia siab rau qub qhab noom, es txiv ntawm xub ntiag nrhiav rawv cookies tom kev noj xwb ne?

Tsis yog txhua tus qub hluas nraug txawm yuav phem li koj tus qub hluas nraug thiab tsis yog txhua tus qub hluas nkauj txawm yuav phem li koj. Koj tsuas hais txij koj thiab koj tus qub hluas nraug nkaus xwb thiaj yog. Koj los ham tsis phem xws nkaus li koj tus qub hluas nraug thiab xwb. Feem coob ntawm lawv yuav tsis phem li koj thiab koj tus qub hluas nraug thiab.

Ua cas tus niam tsev no tsis tau nov Lwm Yaj zaj nkauj hu hais tias tus tsi tau yeej khuv xim.tsi txhob nco os mog,vajtswv twb yeej tsispom zoo thiaj ua rau neb tsis sib tau nav.

Koj niag qub hluasnraug ntawv ces yog cov niag txivneej Hmoob DEV es lawv xavtias lawv yog Huabtais xwb os. Koj ob niag txiv DEV nov ces, tseem tseem yog Hmoob li os.

tu me niam tsev aw tu niag neeg siab me thiab saib phem li koj niag hlua nraug ko ce koj txawm yuav thaum nw hlua2 koj hlua2 lo yeej tsi txog twg li os

Ntse zog! Khuv xim los tsis muaj qab hau! Moved on---

If it don't work out the first times ,it not going to work out the second time around because it wasn't met to be.....

An ex became an ex for a reason.