Vim koj saib kev phooj ywh kev lom zem loj tshaj poj niam menyuam.vim koj ntseeg phooj ywg dhau

Ok brother, I are wrong! U want ur wife to stand by u through thick n thin. Maybe the first, even the second but u never changed. Cant be mad at ur ex wife. U want way too many things at her cost along with u. Shes smart she left. 10 minutes into ur story n I couldn't listen anymore. Too much ignorance!

Ha! Guys who thinks friends are everything! Nyiam quav txim os!

three times in jail - I won't wait for you. sorry, 3 strikes you are out dude. glad you learned your lesson. live and learn.

I think a lot of family have a sibling that tsis mloog lus. But when they change and become a better person support them and love them. Everyone deserves a second chance. We all are sinners doesn't matter what sin we commit.

You can't blame your ex for leaving you. If she didn't leave you, you probably never change and you will not be where you are today. She had enough of you. You were wrong you expected her to have patience and wait for you like you said, "luag lwm tus es mus yuav niam yau los niam loj tseem nyob tos". Cov niam loj es tseem tos 2 ces yog neeg ruam thiab tsis muaj self-worth. Your ex wrong is that nws ntshaw luag tug. Hnub no koj twb zoo lawm ces just be happy. Don't blame anyone for your situation but yourself. Glad you change and learned your lessons.

Parents think they know everything. Especially those 75 parents. Here we are more educated. Sometimes we make mistakes. As long as you learn from it than that mistake was worth it. You are a great inspiration. Thanks

Cov neeg nws hlub phooj ywg tshaj poj Niam me nyuam nyiam haum xwb os

Peb ua neej nyob ces txog kev quav yeej quav cawv quav tshuaj ces yuav ua lis cas tim yus xwb naws me kwv qhov tias koj tsis xav ua neeg zoo xwb ...

Yog kuv yuav tuag es muaj tus neeg kuv tsis paub tsaus siab pab kuv lub siab dawb paug mas kuv mam hu best friend os

This is who us lady shred tears after tears because we walk from one bad situation into the worst in a different person only.

A lesson for hmong guys because hmong drink at every event, every chance they get and drink way too much. But think about when you get caught and go to jail for drinking and driving will your friends or family bail you out or do your time for you? Hmong people need to stop with these unnecessary drinking. Its causing marriage issues and health issues. You drink and drive, you go to jail no one can or will help you.

Koj tsi txhob tu siab rau koj tus poj niam, koj tu siab rau koj tus phooj ywg, koj tus phooj ywg yog phooj ywg kev noj kev haus xwb tsi yog phooj ywg sib hlub hauv nruab siab tuaj tiag2.koj nco ntsoov hais tias thaum koj tau txais kev txom nyem ti txha nkaus yog tseem hlub koj tus ntawv thiaj yog phooj ywg zoo.

Yog koj tu poj niam mus raug txim lawm koj puas tos....txhob chim rau koj tu poj niam

The unconditional love you will ever get its from your parents!!! A man or womans love can change anytime. Your spouse's love has a "condition" to it. I feel like your exwife was just sick of you third strike and your out. Its ok everyone choose their own path. But just remember only ur parents love you unconditionally and the ones who will love you regardless how you turn out to be.

Lub siab ua laib tsis xyuam xim thiaj mag nkuaj dua

You’re blessed enough to receive only 1 year, few months jail time for DUI 3X. According to my spouse, a first responder within Fire Department, 90% of all traffic accidents they’ve responded to involved “drunk driving” taking other innocent lives. Other cases ran into trees, pole building or canal taking their own lives. There’s no justification for irresponsible driver under the influences. Driving is a privilege, you’re blessed enough the state you live in re issue a driving license to you. Losing your wife and kids maybe the ultimate price you pay for poor choices 3x.

Hais rau peb cov hmoob quav cawv na twb pom xeeb nyiam hauv caw heev use uber or lyft service don’t drive ruin your life n get deport if not a us citizen from now on too!! Cia txoj neej neeg no ua kev kawm thim xav nawb!! Txoj kev haus cawv tsis yog koj tus zoo phooj ywg ua zoo tsam raug xa rov qab rau tim nplog vim feem coob muaj criminal record ua tsis tau citizens tabsis pheej tseem mus phov siav ov!!

Don't ever call your friends best friends. I don't...🙏🍻

It's not the length of time you're in prison, the problem is that you never learned your lesson and kept repeating your drunkard behavior. Drunk driving is a serious problem. You put other people or a whole family at risk. Hmong people need to stop drinking from morning to night at every event.

You're comparing yourself to war soldiers? Lol. What a joke. Those soldiers went to war to protect their country and their families. And u, u went to jail bc of your stupid decision to break the law by driving drunk. Two totally different situations. If my husband goes to war, i would wait for him no matter how long. But if he goes to jail for his selfishness and stupidity, nope. He can stay there forever and i ain't waiting for him. Lol. But I'm glad u are willing to change for the better.

I have always wonder why us Hmong people dont have organizations to advocate and assist "difficult" kids. It's a great thing you are doing!

Koj chim siab rau koj tus poj niam loj heev vim nws tsis nyob tos koj yom. Koj xav yuam kev lawm lau! Yog koj tus poj niam mus nyob nkuaj no koj puas nyob tos nws ma kuv ntseeg hais tias peb cov txiv neej haj yam siab phem os tsis muaj neeg nyob tos li os yawg aw!

Txog txij pojniam tsis tos koj ces koj lam hus koj kwj tse xwb os , koj yeej liam txaus lawm os

A life experience like this is an inspiring story. Good to share your story

I hate drunk drivers. That's why MAD exist and the law. For someone to endanger themself by their own recklessness is their own fault. It's not fair when they take the life of an innocent and ruined another's family.

AIB no ntag yog tus yuav raug Xa rov Qab mus nplog teb nam yog ICE Pom ces NKAG nyab hoom tua Qha nplog xwb nawj

I do agree with you when you mentioned that Hmong people are hopeless & mindless to your business. Most Hmong people are judgemental that's why there's no country to call our own. Instead of motivating each other as a Hmong community, some ppl get jealous & become hateful. It's about qualities & not quantities. I'm glad your business is going well. Never give up hope. 😇

Good luck to you bro! I’m glad you learned from your mistakes and turn that into helping others as well as yourself and your new family. You should NEVER touch alcohol EVER again....really... I have a brother in law who got into some repeated legal troubles with booz until he finally learned his lesson and And never touch alcohol again And he is very successful and has a good life now ...so NEVER touch alcohol again DO NOT anyone pressure you in If they insisted it means they don’t care for you and you should distance yourself from them Good luck By the way...you’ve got a football team Good job I’m glad you have a big heart to love them all Your love will be repaid in excess in the future I’m sure 😀

Good for you bro

No royalty among thieves !!!!! Should of known.

Tsi txhob rawm khav theeb es hais li ub li no rau tus muaj yus cov menyuam mog tsam lwm hnub nws cov niag menyuam tsi xav hlub koj nawb mog..

Yog li tsam no koj kuj yog ib tug uas muaj npe yuav raug xa rov qab mus nplog thiab los paub

Koj yuav tau mus ua ib rooj mov ua koj tus qub poj niam thiab nws tus txiv nkawv tsaug, Vim nkawd ua li ntawd es koj thiaj ris siab hlos ua neej.

Koj kuj mus khaws lawv cov me nyuam coob 2 es twb tau me lawv cov me nyuam nyiaj ntau los thiab ,

Never trust friends

Good work brother

Don’t love your friends too much!! Why don’t people like you ever called your friends to come and bail you out??? They didn’t bail you out of jails!!!!!!!! They will not bury you when you are dead!!!! Everything goes right back to your family! This is why I don’t need friends

good lesson bro happy Ending

Good story. Life’s lessons learned. You are inspiring and thanks for sharing your story.

Wow kuv hnov txhua tus txiv neeg yeej ntshaw nyiaj xwb tab sis koj yog ib tug true txiv tsev ua muaj peev xwm tsis ntshaw luag tug, nrog neb zoo siab kawg

Your best friend should've been your wife. Life lessons, some just decided to learn the hard way & become examples. But hopefully this help themselves & others.

Koj ua yog xav yog lawm yus mam peem yus thiaj yog yus li

Lub neej thaum hluas ces tsis hais leej twg li os mog yeej tsis mloog niam mloog txiv hais kiag li, vim yog thaum hluas lub siab puv puv thiaj li ua tau tej yam tsis zoo rau yav hluas, tus nus tus neeg hlub koj, txhawb koj thiab nyob ntawm koj ib sab txawm yog plaub loj npaum li cas los lawv yeej hlub koj ces yog koj niam koj txiv xwb os mog. Tus phooj ywg zoo tshaj plaws es neb yeej tuag tau ua ke ces tus no txawm yog tus yuav tua koj pov tseg nawb. kuv xav tias koj yeej kawm tau ntau yam kawg ntawm koj lub neej thiab es koj thiaj rov los ua neeg zoo, txhob ntseeg leej twg li yus tus poj niam kiag los txhob ntseeg tas tas thiab vim nws yog tus yuav tua tau yus ib yam. Ua tsaug rau koj zaj neej neeg no nawb mog and Good Luck rau koj lub neej thov kom koj tsuas muaj tawg paj txi txiv xwb os mog.

Koj tshuav poj nrauj 8 tus me nyuam qi os thaub ruam aw. Vuag poj niam tas lawm tsis muaj poj nrauj lawm os

Your life and your future is upon your choices. Thank you for sharing the story!!

Zoo qhov koj tig rov los ua neeg zoo thiaj txawj hlub koj tus poj Niam tshiab ua Lawv tus txiv zoo hlub lawm nrog koj zoo siab ua koj lub neej rov zoo dua qhov qub lawm

Txhob ntseeg tus phoojywg zoo, yog tus tua tau koj povtseg

Tham tau zoo heev li o nia caum koj lawm muaj sij hawm no tuaj nia caum kv thb p py

I see your vision brother and we need more male model like you in our community. Although the elders don’t see how beneficial your program is, but I believed it’ll help young males who are constantly in trouble. Many males needs a good male figure. Please share your business to help others.

Yuav raug deport ces yog cov teeb meem no xwb los mas.

Zoo siab heev koj ua tau lub neej zoo lawm, kuv thov kom muaj 1 hnub kuv tus tub ua tau li koj

Amen! it is a very good lesson for our young men and women to learn. He is also right that not to choose a rich person or family. What you earned is truly yours no one can claim it.

They both got what was coming to them. The guy kept fucking up by drinking and driving and the ex wife fucked up by running off with his good friend. Karma has strange receipts.

Those who doesn't love you during your worst doesnt deserve you during your best! I applaud the husband.👏👏

Yog lawm tuag tsis tuag txoj mi kev uas ntshaw2 luag tug o yom twb yuav luag tsis muaj tsev nyob o

Proud of you got changing your life around regardless for those mistakes. Everyone make mistakes.

Omg!!! Ruam tiag tiag khaws ib tug poj laib 8 tus tshaub. Koj tshuav nuj qi os

Kawm tiav dog dig lawm thiab mas tus khav theeb haus dej haus cawv nas haha

Hmong people have to let go of drinking too much during weddings.

Great job..set up an youth program for teens that needed help them.

Yog kuv los tejzaum kuv yeej yuav nrauj koj thiab. Ib tug Txiv es mus nyob Nkuaj 3 zaug lawm ces uali Hmoob hais qubneeg qub-ntxhiab. Tsis tasli, koj tseem muaj ib qhov pab-vav ua ua Laib los thiab. Ces uaneej nrog koj los yuav tsis mus deb. Vim kevkawm los qis. Neej nyob nyob nkuaj 3-4 zaug los lawm ces yeej nrhiav tsis tau ib txoj haujlwm dabtsi zoo ua. Lubneej yuav poobqab. Tabsis koj tus pojniam yeej txhaum qhov mus yuav koj tus phoojywg. Kuv tseem nrauj kuv tustxiv mus nyob nyob nkuaj 4-5 zaug lawm los, kuv yeej tsis khiav mus yuav nws tus phoojywg zoo. Nov, koj tus pojniam yeej ua tsis yog lawm. Hos, koj tus phoojywg mas tseem phem tshaj koj tus pojniam lawm thiab. Nej piv tsis tau cov Txiv thaum ub mus ua rog es tseg pojniam nyob tos tomqab ov. Tustxiv mus tiv-thaiv Tebchaws ua rog tsis zooli tustxiv es ua Laib thiab ibsij nkag nkuaj ov. Ob qho-no sib-txawv loj. Yog kuv tustxiv mus ua rog xwb kuv yeej tos tau. Tabsis yog pheej ibsij mus nyob nkuaj vim nws txojkev ruam xwb ces, kuv yeej tsis tos tos thiab. How do I not know you will go back to Jail again? You went before many times .... can you guaranteed that?

Don’t be so proud yet! U don’t know what is going to happen tomorrow.

Yes she didn't have to wait for you bc you were in prison for drunk driving... but like you said, if she loved you for real, she would had waited. It's not like it was years and years, but she had other plans. That ex wife of yours is a gold digger, home wrecker, fakeass friend, cheater, and one stupid ass bitch! She got what she deserved. I'm glad that you changed your life around and didn't listen to others when they doubted you and talked negative about your new wife. I HOPE you'll never drive drunk again bc it can be worst next time and someone's life maybe taken due to that stupid mistake. Who knows, that life maybe even your own.

Good thing that you change to be a better person. My husband is like you but now he's a perfect husband and make lots money to support my and our lovely kids.

Nws lub luag hauj lwm zoo ces ua xas cog xas xwb os es g txhob maj ntseeg os lawm neeg nyob nkuaj ntau zaug li nawv lawm mas niaj nub no lo tseem nyob txim os

Very inspiring story. Everyone makes mistakes, either you continue to fail or you learn from it and become a better person. Your recovered mindset is very inspirational to people in your similar situations. Positive thoughts ❤️

You did very well for yourself brother. I'm happy for you. Your ex shouldn't have been that dumb. I understand that she was fed up with you going to jail again, but she shouldn't have done what she did to you. Besides, 18 mos is not very long. so if she couldn't even wait that long then she really didn't love you. Plus, she should've known to call and ask you if you were going to be able to drive back home. I know, it's not like you were just intentionally getting drunk at your relatives, although you still could've stopped at the point of getting drunk. But, it's great that you got back on your feet and did even better than before.

What you did was wrong for drinking and driving, but it is really wrong for your wife to divorce you for that, it is not like you cheating and marrying a second wife?! Bro, you have to think that she did not really love you enough to wait for you, so don't look back, just look for another life with someone else. Good that you have started fresh, bro, and have learned your lesson.

Txhob chim thiab.vim nws twb muab sijhawm rau koj hloov 2 zaug lawm thiab.nej cov txiv neej peb cov poj Niam hmoob tsis UA ib txhaum li koj UA ntawd peb twb mag Nrauj thiab .thaum luag tsis hlub yus lawm ces zam Kev rau xwb o.nyib UA ke lub Siab txias tag .tu Siab lawm thiab o

Vim yug khiav lawm nws thiaj ua zoo los twm yug xwb os yog yug nyob tos nws ces nws twb tsi zoo thiab nawj

Peb cov poj niam hmoob meskas ces twb tos tsis taus tus txiv mus ib txoj ke twg twb deev hluas lawm nawb cov kwv tij hmoob aw........

Lol getting lock up for dui is not as bad as a home wrecker. She should be ashame of herself. Such a gold digger!! Anyway, sometime the worst thing taught us the best lesson in life. Glad you change for the better.

You are the .01% people that must have more luck then most people around the world.

18 months in jail your wife can’t wait for you cuz she really need some one to chopping bamboo amen

Neej quav cawv nyob 3 zaug hauv nkuaj ces kuv los yeej g yuav thiab vim koj tus ex tag kev cia siab lawm .yog koj g muaj xamxaj ces ntshe tseev lag luam zoo tsam trump g zam txim xwb hehehe

DANG reading a few of these commit my hmong sisters b hating on this brother. X wife "her" choice leave him n steal another hmong sister husband n ya aint saying nothing about her. n hmong ladies be same ya get treated different. lol

Once a cheater always a cheater, ex wife got what she deserves

May God bless you and your wife(wife #2)

Peb ua neeg nyob thaum muaj kev chim22 lawm ces peb yuav ua lub neej thiag22 thiab ris siab hlo vim muaj kev chim hos tsis chim ces twb tsis paub mob siab ua neeg ces lub neej poob qab.

kev ua tsov rxawv niag neeg ua kev phem kev liam...cas pab txaj muag luaj li os ntuj aw!!! cas nyias yuav pom nyias tus zoo xwb os.

This thinks he should be forgiven... not. Also it's okay for men to do it but when women decide to leave it's her fault. This man is annoying.

Kuv nrog koj tu siab tshaj li os tu mi nus 😭😭😭😭

No, neeg phem tsis muaj cai qhia neeg zoo. Koj txawj tham xwb, neeg ruam ces txawj tham xwb. So don't say you did wrong and that gives you the right to give advice. We never listen to a criminal who only knows how to talk. People like you always have excuses to do bad that it's yuam kev. Guy, crimes are not yuam kev. Bad acts are not yuam kev. Talking and giving us advice now with May Vaj is yuam kev too? Maybe your parents gave birth to you yuam kev.

Good story

Yog li tus txiv tsev no xav es thaum kawg nws xav li no txog tus neeg nws yuav thaum kawg. Yuav tus kom txhob muaj7 es ob leej mam los tsim muaj uake thiaj li yog obleeg li.

Good job finally....just don't forget..strike 3 u out!

Kuv ntseeg tias yog koj mus nyob nkuaj 3 zaug li yav tag los koj tus pojniam no los yeej tsis tos koj lawm thiab. Yog koj ntxov ua zoo sib zog khwv npaum li ko koj tus qub pojniam tsis khiav koj. Koj txhob rawm zoo siab rau koj tus pojniam no thiab nws cov me nyuam vim lawv muaj lawv txiv lawv yuav mus hlub. Kj yuav tau ua nws tsaug uas nws tso kj tseg koj thiaj zeem kiag txoj kev ua phem hloov siab los ua neeg zoo lawm yog nws tsis tso koj tamsim no ntseeg tias koj tseem yog neeg ua dejcaw li qub.

You just got real lucky dude...no other comment 🤷🏼‍♀️ The exwife, it’s understandable why you left...unfortunately it didn’t turn out in your favor. Time to move on & better yourself with possibly another man.

You can’t blame your wife for leaving you.... she married you despite your past history.... and you continue to repeat trouble with the law, leaving her to be single parent to your kids! Come on now!! Can’t finish listening to the story. Take the blame and stop blaming your ex wife. It’s your fault.

You still got a lot self growing to do. Be a man and take care of your kids. This makes me angry when people don't fight for their kids. I don't care if they don't want you, fucken go fight for them, as a parent you don't give up on them. And the way you described your second wife as trash, Dame that's not love, that's called settling. I'll be piss if I was her. Be a man and take care of your responsibility. Make time to love your wife, kids, family, friend and yourself. Balance, it's alot of of hat to wear but as a woman we do it too. You got this..

Can't blame your wife since you never learned your mistakes & don't take anything serious.

I'm glad you changed your life around. As for your ex-wife, she's regretting letting you go.

สวัสดีครับน้องเม

Hhhh zaum no poj Niam. Paum tawv tawv heev li lawm ces poj Niam uv g tau vim lub paum tawv heev li ces poj Niam kawg khiav mus ua paum lawm xwb lauv

Xav kom tso advertise tsawg me ntsis peb thiaj zoo mloog

Running a successful business now does not justify your bad decisions in the past. DUI is a very serious issue and unfortunately it cost you your marriage and kids. Though, I am glad you were able to established a new life with a new woman. I don't agree that your ex wife is a bad person since she gave you so many chances, even if she regrets her choices now. Plus, the toll on her must have been pretty heavy as her spouse is in jail, caring for the kids by herself, and working to provide ends meet for the family. The world does not only revolve around you. And, I don't think you're wise enough to understand what you had put your family through. Wish you the best though.

She not very smart. She in a bad situation walk right back into another. Why his best buddy? Same life road in a different person only.

Stop driving drunk people

Ugh he’s annoying. The moral of the story is not “txhob tshawb luag tug” it should be “txhob haus npias thiab tsav tsheb”