Amen! What goes around comes around. We all need to be afraid of karma.

Koj siab zoo dhau tos koj raug siv tag siv dua os! Lawv li kev npam twb tsis cuag koj txoj kev txom nyem kev lwj siab quaj quaj thov lub ntuj os mog..

Nej cos ua phem phem rau ib tug neeg twg, xav zoo zoo nawb.

Yog lawm o tus me viv ncaus aw koj twb sau tau koj txoj koob moov zoo2 lawm o lwm tiam koj yeej tau zoo dua li tiam no lawm o thov vaj tswv foom koob moov pub rau koj thiab o

Zaj no tsis yog hais txog neeg ua siab zoo…zaj no yog ua ruam tshaj ruam!

Yog kawg os txoj kev yus siab zoo qev nyiaj rau tej kwv tej tij mas kuv zeem lawm os yus hlub lawv yu qev nyiaj rau law tab si lawv tseem muab yus xyav tsi zoo rau luag tej thiab thaum twg yu tsib nqe xwb cav zoo li yus tshuav nws nqe thiab ov

Nrog koj chim kawg li thiab mog peb noob neej ces yeej tos lub ntuj txiav txim rau sawv daws xwb.

The title to this story should be “Ua Kev Ruav Thiaj Kaj Siab.”

Sometimes you just have to learn to say "NO" even if it cost your relationship with them. My Brother in law until this day is very angry with us because I, the sister in law, refused to loan a hundred thousands out of our home equity to him for a business that did in fact failed. I truly believed that if we have lend him the money, our relationship would have been even more damaged! A different brother in law said to me once and I will never forget, "people borrowed because their intention was 'never to pay back' and again, I believe that this statement is true because most of the time, my in laws have tried to borrow even when they DO HAVE THE MONEY. We have lend money out to family but only in the amount that we are willing to forgive and a hundred thousands was a bit too much! The most we ever lend out was 30 thousands and thankfully, it was paid back.

Yog kawg sister, tug neeg zoo yeej uv tug neeg phem xwb. Yog leej twg iua ysi zoo rau yus lawn txhob tos cia mam pauj rau lwm tiam. Muaj tsev hais plaub kav tsij hais thaum yus tseem chim tseem mob no ntag hos.

Muaj tseeb kuwg li os

Vivncaus aw Nrog koj tu siab rau koj lub neej raug neeg siab phem tsim txom. Txoj kev ua zoo yuav tau ua zoo tab sis muab ua zoo dhau heev lawm ces luag ho saib tsis taus thiab os. Ua neeg zoo ib txhia los yuav tau hlub yus tus kheej thiab txhob muab ua zoo tas tas rau lwm tus. Dhau ntawm yus niam yus txiv yug yus thiab yus tej me nyuam ces tsis muaj neeg hlub yus lawm ua qhov twg los saib tsim nyog mam ua.

Tus niam tsev no mas siab zoo kawg koj yog ib tug ntxhais ntsuag los tseem tau tus txij nkawm los tseem tsis hlub koj thiab os pab hlub koj kawg li os mog

Never loan $ to anyone especially friends and family. If you do never give it to them in cash. Write a check and in the memo put “loan” on it so if they dont pay you back, take them to court. Thats one thing about Hmong OG’s is that they always borrow in cash and too nice to put it on paper. I would never borrow to anyone.

Tais….. I’m so happy to hear your story and the people did it to you also got what the above give it to them! In my case more than 20 years no KARMA happens to them at all. Mine is heavy than your story but different way ( according to your story) now they are all happy live with big houses travel every where. Me!!!! I see nothing change on them. I only WISH and PRAY for my justice serve… wish me a luck……😢

As a child you’re helpless but as a women - you can use your voice and your power to never be controlled by those who abuse and are cruel to you and have no regrets about it as you improve your own life. Do not ever lend out money to anyone without papers, proof, a plan, timeframe for payback. Especially 40k, wow. Have them go to the bank. You know you won’t see it back. Be assertive, be powerful, be what you’re meant to be. Speak up for yourself and some people you don’t need to be so nice to especially if they think you’re a rug they can just step on and your passive to not ask back. Banks have money - go there.

I don't understand why these ppls who borrow money thinks it is ok to not pay back...... its not easy to save....

I’m so sick of these people borrowing money and don’t pay back. Why can they go to the bank to loan it from the bank instead?

I’m so frustrated hearing these generational trauma stories. This lady seems to have lived her life already so there’s not much to say here but I sure hope that our younger generations can decipher between a healthy loving home and put themselves first before being so afraid that their kids will follow the same fate as them. Be a strong woman and be the mom that your dad/mom wasn’t for your children and leave that man who doesn’t love you. Love yourself and give yourself what others aren’t willing to give you. You deserve everything the world has told you you don’t.

Vam thiab cia siab tias cov neeg uas tseem ntshaw ntshaw txiv mos ab,,niam mos ab thiab cov neeg txais txais nyiaj g them na, mloog tas no ho muab mus xav txhob ua li zaj no nawb, ua tsaug thiab thov txim os

Koj tus txiv tsi nco qab nwg lub neej txom nyem nyob tim thaib neb sib tau es nwg lub neej thiaj hloov lawm txawm li cas los nwg twb txais txoj kev npam nwg lawm ces zoo maj.

Peb hmoob cov siab zoo ces yog neeg ruam rau coob2 leej cov siab phem. Peb yuav tau tuaj kawm kev txawj ntse nyob teb chaws no es xyaum nawj vim kev sib pab yog thaum peb nyuam qhuav tuaj teb chaws no tshiab2 xwb. Tab sis peb twb tuaj nyob teb chaws no tshaj 40 tawm lub xyoo lawm, nyias yuav tau pab nyias tus kheej. Ncov ntsoov peb hmoob lo lus tias, "THAUM NYIAJ MUS NYIAJ LUAG2, THAUM NYIAJ ROV CES NYIAJ DUB2 MUAG".

Niam ntsuab teev koj tus phooj ywg neej thooj thoj ntawm koj na nws dag kuv 65k. Nws g them kuv. Kuv hais Rau Koj paub li no. Kuv g dag li nawb kuv nyob Sacramento thaum nws dag kuv nyiaj. Kuv thov2 ntuj kawg li tag sim no thov kom npam nws sai2 tom ntej no nawb. Li no os nuam ntsuab teev yog thaum twg ntuj txiav txim rau neej thooj thaum twg no ces koj pab qhia kuv os

Cas tej tus poj niam hmoob no lam qev tau rau peb cov hmoob nta hneev no ces peb qhia tau tus poj niam hmoob no los tab cuab vij zeej, yeej qhia tau nws los mloog tus txiv, peb cov hmoob nta hneev no mas coj li no nawb.

WOW sister happy ending. Glad you are healthy and happy now. Dang the Txiv, can't see or hear and broken leg too. He prayed for and he received it right away. LOSER.

Cov neeg tsab muaj ces kawg li no xwb tiag.

Peb nrog koj tu siab tshaj plwas mi viv ncaus

Viv ncaus koj ua tau yog tshaj plaws thiab koj cov me nyuam lo ua tau yog kawg li lawm nawb

I Agree! Rich People Always Mean To Poor People But What I Encounter Is So Extreme! My Landlord Probably Has Money & They Steal From Me; For Example., A Fire Extinguisher; A $20 & He Couldn't Afford One & Stole From A Tenant Either Poor or Have Money ... All My 15 Years Living In Their Home They Treated Me Like A Kid & The Man Landlord Stole From Me Right In Front Of My Eyes! Agree, Rich People Hurt Poor People, Someday If I Become Rich I Don't Know What Happens To Some Of Us Who Was Bullied All Your Life, Do We Still Have A Good Heart Left In Us ... But, A Good Heart Will Always Be A Good Heart!!

My question is, HOW DO YOU HAVE SO MUCH MONEY?? Loan me some too, holy cow! $10k over here, $5k over there, $20k here like money is nothing to you. So crazy. Born to be a doormat indeed.

Wow !! Vim li koj kua muag ntau ua luaj ? Cas koj siv kev quaj2 tas li ? Peb hmoob tseg qhov koj txais nyiaj es tsi them Tseg kiag txoj kev txais nyiaj rau cov txheeb ze .

Too sad 😢 I have been this shoes I understand how painful 😢no one understands

you get what you did, it’s a lesson to learn.

Wow, this lady born to be a doormat. I am so frustrated with people who refuse to help and protect themselves. This story gives high blood pressure.

Vim yog koj txoj niag kev ruam dhau lawm os

Ua kev ruam thiaj tsis mob siab...koj yuav tsum hais li no thiaj yog

Stand up for yourself. This is america you are only homeless if you choose to. Clear your own path and walk it proudly you are a hmong women be strong. You walked the hardest path in the jungle of laos.

Anyone needs money??…I only charge 0 interest for 5 years…

Never loan money to anyone.

Yog tshaj plaws, ntiaj teb hloov ces qaum ntuj hloov lawm. Soob Ntxawg Thoj twb tau hais ib zaj keeb kwm uas yus yog tus coj tsoom kwv es luag tej niam txiv tsis sib haum khiav tuaj txog hauv yus los yus tseem muab npluas nyiaj kho yus tag yus mam li kho nkawv cov lus thaum yus mus txog qaum ntuj yus muaj txim no nawb. Tus niam tsev no cov kwv tij ces lwm hnub mus txog qaum ntuj ces yuav raug txim vim yus nrog tus txiv hais kom poj niam muab nyiaj rau tus txiv tab sis yus ho tsis hais tus txiv kom hlub tus poj niam ces kev txhaum yog tsoom kwv tij nawb.

Koj mas Ruam dhau lawm lau

tsim nyog tus npam loj ces yog koj tus txiv na hehehe, hais tau ua tsis tau thiab npav dag noj ces kawg ib hnub yuav tuag yuav ploj.

Tus niam tsev no es pheej kawm tsis tau qhov tias txhob txais nyiaj lawv yeej tsis them yus. Tsawg zaum los pheej txais nyiaj.

Aib pog awsss...tsis them ces ua koj zaj hu ntuj kom lag luam poob es nws kaub huam xwb

Yog kawg os me viv ncaus aw

tus niam tsev, sawv daws yeej paub lawm tias niam tshiab t I've tshiab ib cov phem heev. tiam sis hais li koj hais tsis yog tias cov neeg muaj tsim cov neeg txomnyem. ib cov neeg muaj yeej hlub cov neeg txomnyem thiab

Tus niam tsev koj ua tau zoo kawg nkaus lawm koj yeej muaj hmoo xwb

Ruam dhau lawm Ces kav Liam mas

It doesn't sound like this lady is a kind hearted lady, sounds more like she's a fool. Someone can only fool you once, if they can fool more than once, you are the fool. Keep your money for you and your kids, whomever is successful with your money, they won't remember who you are and will never do the same to you as you did to them. If your relatives need money, tell them to go to the bank! This way you don't have any heartache and have to beg the heavens to punish anyone. I think that's a more peaceful life than all these dramas with these loser relatives and husband.

Thov kom lub Ntuj yeej muaj kho muag li koj hais os tus niam tsev aws. I believe in Ntuj and I believe Ntuj will bring me justice one day too.

Mloog tej zaj no mob hlwb, vim muaj tej tug poj niam paj hlwb npaum ruam npaum li no os ntuj awd! Vim koj yog neeg ruam paj hlwb pam lem tsis yog siab zoo os yog neeg tsis muaj siab ntsws.

Luag twb saib tsis tau koj es luag thiaj tas zog tuaj txais koj nyiaj los mas cas koj tsis paub li nas. Bank ntau ntau kom mus txais ntawm bank los paub. Yog yus ntse ces luag yeej tsuj tsis tau yus li os vim yog koj ua tsis tau niam ne. Tsis kam ces tsis kam xwb nawb. Peb hlub koj thiaj qhia li no rau koj tsis yog cem koj ov.

Karma at its finest!!

Peb nyob rau lub teb chaw no ib tug txhais ib tug nyiaj tsis them mas ua li meskas hais os lower than low

Tus xeeb ceem koj niam coj nws yog peb hmoob cov niam tshiab tus cwj pwm 60% av lim xwb thiaj hloov tau🤣👍

Sister, maybe cov nyiaj uas cov kev tij tuaj txais yog koj tus txiv li tswv yim xwb pob

Glad you got justice. But my luck I'll never see justice.

It's frustrating to hear about weak parents who can't stand up for their kids against their new spouse. SMFH.

tus niam tsev, koj raug tsim tas lis raug tsim ntxiv vim koj cia lawv tsim koj. nyiaj yog koj nyiaj tsis muaj leej twg yuam koj muab nyiaj txais rau lawv. cov neeg zoo li koj txhob tu siab rau lawv tu siab rau koj txoj kev ruam xwb

Is okay if he dont love you, he doesnt even love himself lol. Hes broke and heartless. Smh. You cant be a good person to nasty people. They dont deserve it.

There's a difference between being good and being stupid. You can still be a good person by standing your ground and saying No.

😮 karma hit hard for these people. Mama please love yourself. No more borrowing & loving others

hai tia neeg mj tsi hlub neeg pluag kuj yog thiab kuj tsi yog thiab kuj mj tu phem tu zoo thiab vim kv twb tau hlub tau cawm tu neeg plua tu neeg tsi mj chaw nyb nw tau txeev siab tua kv nyoo lo yog tu neeg pluag txom nyem ntawv ce kuj mj tu phem tu zoo ib yam thiab tu neeg lub siab phem ma li ca lo yeej phem vim lub ntuj twb rau txim txog qhov tsi mj lub chaw nyb lo tseem ua phem quj qee thiab o hmoob aw I'm

My parents passed away when I was very young and my aunt abused me with physical and emotional. I hope karma will catch up to her as well, if there's such things as karma

Neeg tsis nyiam zoo cia ntuj muab u ua txom nyem tas mam lees cia nyuam qhua haum xwb mas

Tus Niam tsev ko kom nws Txhob tuaj khav rau yus tus kheej ma!

Ntuj aw koj yog neeg dab tsis es twb poob pes tsawg zaus lawm los tsis ris siab li na tsis paub koj lawm thiab os yog kuv ces twb tsis ntsia lawm na

Ntuj aw.....niam tais aw, koj yog tus npam os. Learn to say NO!!

Nyag ua nyag aub xwb

Muaj nyiaj npaum koj cas tsis cia pab koj tej me nyuam xwb omg

Koj niam ua heev npaum ntau es koj txiv ob lub acorns mus twg lawm na.

Idk why people burrowed money act like they are the victim. Shouldn't they be embarrassed?

I will not let ppl take advantage of me and do bads to me, in hopes that karma will take care of them. If u do that, i don't think u are truly a good genuine person if u keep waiting and hoping for karma to get them.

Zaj lus no mas rhuav plhu tiag22 lam tuaj hus kwj tse xwb tus pog no mas nyaum tiag22 yog tsis nyaum cas tus txiv ho faib nyiaj maj, tej laus tias kom hmab nrog ntoo qaug tab sis niaj hlub nim no hmab pheej yuav kom ntoo nrog hmab qaug xwb as vim muaj cov neeg ruam tsab ntse coob dhau hwv lawm yuad.

OMG!! money don't grow on tree so stop borrow money!!

🙄🙄🙄🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Ub ! Uacas es ameka tseem tos tau tibco neeg siab phem phem.... Tuaj tsuas amekas lub tebchaws thiab os ? Cov niag siab phem... Lino ces yog cov niag thaum nyob tim tebchaws nplog es nyob puag pem tojroob hauv tsua khiav tuaj xwb. Twb tuaj nyob tebchaws vammeej ntev npaum no lo yeej kho tsis tau tus kheej li.

I don’t understand why you keep giving your money away! You seem like a person who is easily taken advantage of that is why everyone steps all over you! You need to love yourself and learn how to say NO!! Has nothing to do with you trying to be a good person giving away all that money.

You chose to be blind. You knew how evil your husband is but you keep giving.

I would like to see our Hmoob women be stronger than waiting for karma/kev npam to take care of our stupidity and continue to let others take advantage of us. Whether it be our husband, relatives or the community. Please love ourselves and be smart and do the right thing rather than give give give. There is nothing wrong with doing the right thing and protecting yourself. I have a brother who borrow money time after time to others being nice over and making poor decisions. At the end all the people who took advantage of him didn't get any karma. It has nothing to do with karma/kev npam. It's call poor decision making. Why put yourself through torture when you can protect yourself and enjoy life. Take care of yourself 1st. I'm not saying don't help others but saib qhov zoo pab xyuas qhov yog mam ua thiaj tsis raug teeb meem tas teeb meem dua.

Twg kom yus ruam ces luag tsis them los hais tsis tau luag quav ci noj, koj puas yog lub tuam txhab rau neeg tuaj qiv nyiaj ma lov ?

Number 1 rule!!! Do not do business with family EVER!!!! Koj tsis yog in tug neeg siab zoo os. Koj yog ib tig neeg ruam xwb. Yog koj siab zoo ces koj yeem tsis foom neeg li. Tos li koj hos tos ntsoov ses lawm puas noam los vim koj yog cov neeg ib qlov ob qlov mas foom kiag xwb… Yua txog kev ruam es luav thiab li sis tau yus yoom yim. Moloog koj cov mes nyuam hais es txhob ruam ruam lawm.

Be smarter and stand up for yourself sister. You deserve so much better.

Tiam tas los koj muaj kev npam koj thiaj li los tig neeg nyiaj rau ub rau no. Kuv xav tias kuv tus muam ruam ruam koj tseem ruam tshaj nws thiab.

Pog no ruam dhau li os. If someone can't come up with $10-20 thousands to spend. How will he/she/they repay you back? DIRECT EVERYONE TO THE BANK.

The husband is asking for it! Oh shit!!! 😂 He got what he deserves.

Tus me niam tais aw cas koj yuav tau lub neej txom nyem 1 ntus dhau 6 1 ntus .yus txom nyem yus ua neeg siab zoo ces neeg feem coob yeej saib g taus yus yog cov coob .specially your evils 😈 husband

Tus me niam tais, koj tsis txawj hlub koj tus kheej vim koj yog ib tug me nyuam ntsuag uas luag yeej ib txwm tsis hlub. Luag muab k9j caij tsuj tas li xwb ces koj xyaum muab koj caij tsuj thiab. Thov xyaum hlub yus tus kheej mog. Xyaum hais "no" rau cov neeg uas tuaj kaus koj mog. Please stop trying to buy love by giving money to others. Learn from your children and don't ever loan or give a penny to anyone again. If you have money, use it to go on vacation, to eat a good meal at a top restaurant, or to do other things. Don't let anyone guilt you into giving them money. You are not a bank. Thov hlub yus tus kheej thiab lau.

It's your father's fault for not protecting you. It's your father's fault for bringing someone like your step-mother to torture you. Yes, your father don't want you because your step-mother don't want you but your father let it happen.

Vidncaus, banks muaj nyiaj ntau heev rau sawvdaws txais, kom mus txais bank li. Koj pheej muab nyiaj rau lawv dabtsi? Sawvdaws ua haujlwm 1 yam los txaus them nujnqis xwb, tsis muaj txais rau leejtwg.

😭😭🤣🤣😭😭

You can be kind and generous but this woman is foolish. You can kindly decline to give to others when you know it won't end well. Or, give without expecting it back and consider it a gift to the person asking.

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I don't understand why these husband's can't stand up for their child. These evil stepmom-the father acts like the evil stepmom is the last woman on this planet. Niam tais love yourself, stop being nice to them. Those people don't deserve anything from you. God bless you and your children

This lady so rich to spoil others by lending monies….should learn your lesson the first time you lend.

The evil of Hmong stepmother and stepfather in our culture. We, Hmong people, are savages…we don’t have laws to guide us and punish the evil people in our community in Laos…this evil practice still exists in Laos, Vietnam, and Thailand… Sister, you are such a good hearted woman…God bless you…😩👍🤠!

Koj yog ib tug niam tsev ruam tshaj qhov ruam. Koj lob nrhab rau koj tau hau xwb. Yog ruam txog qhov tsis paub zeem ces cia teeb meem mam qhia thiaj meej. Cai nyob ntawm yus tes xwb.

I hope karma gets her!!!!

Es koj puas kaj siab naws. Zoo li koj twb tsis kaj siab es. Txawm tias lawm neej puas tag lawm los, koj yeej tseem tsis tau kaj siab. Yog ruam xwb tsis yog zoo os.

Stupid tiag2 li os tus pog no. Mloog ua rau kuv piss off. Ruam dhau lawm ces tuag mus es mam thov Vaj Tswv Yawm Saub kom tau diam ntawv muaj siab muaj ntsws muaj brain los ua neeg dua los mas