Bravo sis! Only strong women like us can stay single and live alone. I love my single life. I isolate myself from the Hmong community so I can live life peacefully and love myself fully without Hmong toxic words. God bless you and continue to stay strong!

Good job sis! You picked yourself up and became independent. I rather be single than be with a cheater or a lazy bum. Marriage is a partnership that helps you carry the weight. If your partner holds you back or becomes dead weight, better to kick him off and keep moving forward. 👏

I am twice divorced. Lub npe pujnrauj yeej ua rua yug nyuajsab kawg. Txawm tsi xaav tau los tau lawm. Tseem nrauj 2 zag lawm hab. Ib tim puab 2 tim yug. Txawm tsi muaj leejtwg yuav kuv lawm lov kuv yuav tsi tu sab lawm hab. Yug laug2 lawm yug yuav hloov tsi tau rua lwm tug lawm. I'm set in my ways too far and too deep. It just irritates me now. Raising my 7 grandkids is ENUFF for me...head ache txaus lawm os. I don't want to worry my parents anymore either....but sov tej laug tes yeejj tseem naj nub myuaj sab rua yug le os. Nub kws yug qe hlo qhov muawg tsi ncu txug nplajteb tej kev nyuaj sab lawm txha le yog nub dlim lawm xwb os.

Being single is great, no one to tell u what to do, u can do whatever you like. The only bad thing is when u are old you will be lonely.

Ntuj os teb.....cov viv ncaus kuv es yuav ib zaug txiv xwb twb txaus lawm. Raug cov dev lwj kas no tsim ib zaug xwb txaus lawm. Kuv dim plaws kuv niag txiv dev ces kuv yeej tsis ntsia ib tug txiv neej los Tau 10 tawm xyoo no lawm os. Thaum kuv dim plaws kuv muaj 28 xyoo xwb nawb..nim no kuv muaj 43 xyoo los kuv yeej tshem tsis tau txoj kev ntxub txiv neej li. 😢 pom txhua tus txiv neej hmoob mas zoo li tus dab lwj kas rau kuv xwb.

Totally can relate to the bills part…I feel you….stay strong…thanks for being a good role model

Love this story. You speak for all of us! ♥️

Sister yus 2 lub eyeballs zoo li cas ces yeej xaiv tus zoo li niag qub xwb os.

Yes ! We love an independent Hmong queen!!! Thank you for teaching our Hmong women that we are worth it!

Never give up searching for a good man. He's out there some where.

I'm glad you living for your own happiness.

I feel you sister. Everything you say is correct. I tell my husband everyday that an independent Hmong women don't need a man.

Good for you lady..learn to love and respect urself..forget the pathetic hmong culture and beliefs..we need more people like u

My sister, you are a very smart woman , I’m proud of you. As one of you brothers, my wife has been through the same situation with her X. She went back to school after her divorce and got her masters as a nurse practitioner. We both are working, her field is medical, and my is law enforcement.

So true! Good for you for showing those people who you are, and standing up for yourself!

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There is nothing wrong with being a single independent woman. Life is less stressful without all the bs from horrible toxic men.

Dayam! Love ur final message to the Facebook troll!!! ❤😂

I’m so proud of you, sister ❤ you are such a strong and independent woman. I’m glad you stood up and fight! Stay strong and yes!! Love yourself ❤ Thanks for sharing this inspiring story 😊

Good job 👏 ❤🎉!!! I’m proud of you as a single Hmong woman who has become strong for yourself and your children. Wishing you all the . Best!!

Zoo kawg !!! Nyob li koj xwb thiaj kaj siab niam Sayao!

So proud of you. You're an inspiration.

Good story!!

One strong lady…standing up for herself! Bravo!!!

Amen sister! I have the same mind thinking like you. ❤

Mi ntxhais aw koj txhob me siab os tus txiv neej zoo 2 tseem muaj thiab ov , koj ntsib cov niag phem xwb tseem muaj cov zoo thiab nawb ua zoo saib muaj kawg

Koj hais yog lawm os tus viv ncau yus nyob yus kaj siab dua os kuv ces lub neej yeej zoo tsis txawv koj li lawm dhuav dhuav txiv neej heev lawm thiab os

Koj mus hlub hlub niam pog txiv yawg es koj hlub li cas nas? Hlub plws taub hau los? Hauj lwm los tsis ua, tsav tsheb los tsis txawj, nyiaj los tsis nrhiav, tswv yim zoo los tsis muaj, es koj hlub hlub leej twg tau li cas, koj twb hlub tsis tau koj tus kheej.

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Love this life story! Very inspiring. Marriage life ain't for me anymore as well. Life is so much better & stress-free without a husband & in laws etc. Love ourselves sisters! We can do anything without a husband as well! ❤❤❤

Koj paub txog peb poj niam zoo kawg li lawm os

Wow! What a strong woman you are! Kudos to you. A Nurse Practitioner, it is!!

We all desire a good man or woman, but don't know what that is. Reflect on yourself. What is it that you enjoy doing that is not self destructive? Look at your good habits, and the bad habits you want to rid yourself of. From there, you can clearly prevent undesirable individuals from coming into your life.

Good story ❤

Wow! I’m a man myself and I like your thinking

Happy for you sis ❤

That's right, people who don't work are people who don't have responsibility.

Stay strong sister- sometimes being single is better then a unhealthy marriage

Good job girl!👍👍👏👏❤❤❤

We love a strong, independent woman! 👏🏻

I prouded to you girl be happy for yourself.

Sweet story. I can relate to you.

This story hit me hard

True No more stressful 😣 Life is bills No working hard No money

Koj yog tshaj plaws li os viv ncaus aw!❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉

If you don't ever walk into her shoes, you'll never know. Keep on going, sister, loving yourself and your babies.

Yog tshaj

คิดว่าในโลกใบนี้มีแต่ฉันคนเดียว

Koj ua Yog kawg li lawm os tus me viv ncaus aw. Yog Kuv los yeej ib yam nkaus thiab.

Facts! 💯

Koj yog ib tug Muam zoo, tu siab koj ntsib cov yawm yij tsi kib cuab.

So true I'm agree with you sis...!!! I'm in ur shoe.

You’re my role model!

Yg lm poj niam thiaj nkag siab xb o❤❤

Sounds like you’re telling my life story. 😢

Sister Muaj txij nkawm zoo dua hos….but you can be whoever you want that’s your choice

Yog koj nqhis nqaij ces tuaj peb mus noj tom Lab👍hais raug siab tiag koj ua yog lawm Thanks for sharing

Peb cov poj niam yeej raug tsim li no

Best to be single and be independent on your own! Who needs these lazy and cheating men! Good for you for realizing you’re worth more than that & will never settle for less again.

Kuv txoj kev ces zoo li koj hais ko mi niam tais ua lub neej tuag tsis tu siav es tuag tsi lwj xwb os mog😂

Tus zoo niam tsev kuv yog txiv neej. Tab sis kuv thov tuaj tog vim koj ua tau zoo heev lawm

koj xav yog lawm os tus sister aw. Xav kom peb cov poj niam muaj peev xwm thiab muab lub siab tawv es ntxawj hlub lawv tus keej li koj hlub koj thiab os. Thov kom koj tau ib lub neej zoo siab thiab rog kev hlub rau ib tug es hlub hlub koj thiab cov me nyuam os.

Yus nyob yus kaj siab khwv nyiaj coj yus cov menyuam mus vacation xwb kaj siab tshaj os !

Niam lau aw ca kuv txoj kev nyuaj siab txij nkawm tsi pab yuav zoo nkaus li koj thiab os luag tus txiv pab2 luag ce luag twb tsibnkag siab yus txoj kev xav li os

Nyob ko thiaj g mob hlwb os..tiam tshiab no g nuaj txiv zoo lawm os

Nyob li ko thiaj Kai siab os me muam vim koj Yeej coj Yog lawm tab sis koj tseem Yuav los rau Tom ntej no os mog Txhob qaug zog thiab Txhob tag kev cia Siab nawj💖💖

Stop blaming others. Take responsibility for your own actions and life. Only you can live your life.

Sister aw yuav qhov yus muaj nyiaj xwb thiab yus kaj siab xwb muaj txhua yam zoo xwb.

Tu me niam laus aw....ca kj yv hais yg tshaj plaws li os kv ce xav li koj hais thb o kv ce g k txiv neej lm thb o

Kuv Kuj yog ib tug ua lub neej zoo li koj lub thiab tsis yog yus ib leeg xwb..

Cas zaj dab neeg no yuav zoo li yus lub neej thiab os

Tus txiv lim hiam zoo li no tsis tas yuav li os Zoo kawg qhov koj nrauj tau lawm thiab koj ua yog tshaj plaws lawm.

Koj xaiv yog lawm os vim koj thiab kuv ces tsis muaj hmoo yuav tau tsawg tus los zoo li qub xwb yus nyob yus thiaj tsis muaj neeg cem yus os cia yus hlub yus xwb txhob tos lwmtus hlub yus

Good for you

muaj peev xwm npaum kom. koj haig yog kawg.tug thuam2 koj kom. tsw ntev tau ua yawg nrauj mas 😂😂😂

All the independent women need to learn how to do everything a man do! Stop depending on them helping you or do stuff for you!! Fix your own car, cut your own lawn, shovel your own snow, carry your own weights, fix your own house! If you don’t need a man, do it yourself and stop whining!

Tus Viv ncuas ib tus txiv neej Zoo li koj xwb ces txob nyob lawm os

Zoo kawg uas Koj muab nws nrauj lawm

How do you keep finding guys that are the same. Gotta change your tatse. Lol

Ua cas thaum yus nrhiav ib tu poj niam zoo zoo ces yuav nrhiav tsi pom tsi tau ua cas thiab no kuv ho tsi myaj mloo tau ib tu hlub hlub yus

Txiv ruam siv neeg tso tseg zoo dua.

Sister you work and go vacation with friends is ok.

Txaus siab kawg pov khawv kawg nkaus lawm lau leej twg yuav ua pojnrauj lub siab yuav tsum loj los loj tawv los tawv heev los heev li tus sister no mas kuv tsuas hais tias pov khawv kawg no nawb vim kuv twb yog ib tug ntawm ntawd thiab kuv tshwm sim tuaj nyob lub tebchaws miskas no kuv twb 3 tug txiv lawm tiag tab sis tsis tau muaj ib tug txiv es yuav cev ib phav rau kuv sab tes li nawb ib phav mas yog qhov ntau 500 twb tsis tau txais los ntawm ib tug txiv na es tsuas yog tau nws niag yob xwb na yog li kuv ham tsis ua kiag li tus sister no zaj los mas lawv

Tus txiv dev zoo li tu no ma said phem kawg txiv dev xwb os

Hate the commercial

Research shows that women lives longer without a husband!! lol I believe it!! Men lives longer having wives and you know why! 😅

Tus txiv neej ntawv ces ntshe nqs yog ib tug yawgneauj tab koj tsi paub nws xwb os..

Ua cas tus niam tsev no yuav ua lub neej ib yam os

txiv neej hmoob 1975 ces uas dabtsi los tsi haum lawv siab li os ntse ib zaug los ntxub ruam ib zaug los lawv ntxub cia rau cos niam mos ab muab lawv tsim thiab zoo xwb

Sister kuv los xum ua pauj nraub thiab os. Kuv twb Nyob tau 14 lub Xyoo no kuv twb tsis mus thov leej twg noj

Hais yog tshaj is sister kuv regret hais tias ua cas kuv tsis ntxov nrauj xwb

Yus nyob yus xwb zoo dua os txiv neej hmoob siv hwj chim dhau yuav 3 cov poj niam ua qhev xwb tsis yuav lawm

vim hais tias yus pheej xaiv tus yus nyiam ces yus thiaj li xaiv tau tus liam liam yus pheej xaiv tus yus hlub hlub ces yus thiaj li xaiv tau tus tub nkeeg li qub.

Lub neej nim no yus khwv tau txaus yus thiab yus tub yus ki lawm ces tus txij nkawm uas TSIS los ntxiv tsuas los rho xwb ces tsis need li lawm os. Ntov ntoo, txiv nyom, kho vaj tsev, kho tsheb, ua luag (bodyguard) muaj ntiav pawg lug. Nyiaj ntiav ces services tiav. Tuag ces kawg faus los hlawv, nyiaj txog ces tiav. Zoo tshaj muaj niag txij nkawm lwj kas

Tsis hais tus poj niam los yog tus txiv twg tias koj tsis txhob cia lwm tus (including koj tus spouse) take advantage on koj heev. Yog koj pheej cia nws ua li no ntau rau koj, nws yuav ntsia koj qes thiab tsis muaj chaw cia siab ntxiv rau koj lawm.

Hlub yus tus kheej zoo dua yus lub neej thiaj li kaj siab tsis nco mob siab lwj siab li cov muaj tug nawb mog ib tsoom me viv ncaus. Kuv twb yog ib tug nkauj nrab los tau 6 lub xyoo no kuv tseem kaj siab dua muaj tus txiv nyob ntawd twb tsis hlub tsis pab os..nco qab ntsoov tias yus khwv tau them tau nuj nqi yus nyob tau yus ces yus xum nyob yus xwb zoo dua nawb mog..txhob cia ib tug txiv neej twg los cem yus hais lus saib tsis taus yus os tsoom me viv ncaus. ❤

Hi kv muaj ib zaj dab neeg xav muab rau kj hais rau saum youtube es yuav xa thiab kaw lus li cas thiaj tau rau kj o

Vim txiv neeg zoo li no, peb thiaj tsis xav yuav txiv li lawm. Everything is you, kids los you li sov li lau. If you can do everything yourself, then you dont need that useless man. They thought they brought you to be their moneypocket. SMH. Show them, MEN, what we got! 😎

Your 2nd husband is nothing but a gold digger. All he does is spend your money. He doesn't do anything to help you nor contribute to the household. He only cared about himself. Y'all need to stop giving them access to your assets and money. You do not need a man. Good for you. Keep your finances separate.