hmm great quote...I love it. and thank you very much for the encouragement!!

Yes women have self obsessed sexual fantasies, often they are just attracted to themselves and hardly men at all.

+1

An Artistic masterpiece or painting is to a womans expression just like the stylized strong wooden frame of the painting is to a mans desire to caretake, enjoy or display the artistic masterpiece of the womans beauty & orgasm externally, in the comfort of a private bedroom exclusively for two.. Just like a male ballroom dancer displays or “frames” his female partner as the focus of the art of the dance 💃🏻 so the desire of the male gaze frames up the focus towards the beauty of the feminine muse on display by stares of approval & intoxicating glances towards her..

Betaaaa 🤣

Send her your money since you're pedestalizing her you Woman Worshipper!

@@AXharoth League player sup man im happy to see ppl from gaming here

well make sure the look is attuned to the situation. Like the look i'm describing will be best for the bedroom and women will most likely feel uncomfortable with this kind of inspection from a stranger in a public place, which is not to say it still doesn't hold power tho...

@@mynonleatherlife I get it. I’m more saying that I used to try to make eye contact that showed I liked her but now feel it’s breaking new moral codes. Even though, I’m quite sure I come across as harmless. Come to think of it, that may be a problem. I always enjoy your videos.

ye dude dont stare at random womens stomaches in the shopping mall haha. only joking.

@@agee7777 and butts!

@@mynonleatherlife mam, when you will wake up, you have to live life like the Princess of milky way galaxy

Thank you for your perspective as a woman 🙏🏽 Victoria is really an observer of her own feelings and emotions which is something pretty rare

@@renaldsunset hey no worries, yeah Victoria is brilliant, I love the amount of self awareness she has ❤️

I am very glad to hear you understand as well and I love the part you wrote at the end cuz I didn't think of that but I so agree that is a hugely important part of this--a man showing he is not scared of his own sexuality

@@mynonleatherlife Victoria - you could make incredible videos on that topic alone. So many men are literally terrified of their own sexual power and actively repress it around women.

@@teddybeartears88 so you don't have any body shame or insecurity? If not that is really amazing and you could make a killing off teaching your secrets

Absolutely !

That’s wonderful I love it thanks for sharing that quote

thank you!

gaze game i love it

Thanks Nile!!!

Thanks covermedown I’m glad u liked it

wow thanks so much Frank, so kind of you to say

thanks Ivan!

thank you Matteo!

i love the conclusion you came to. perfectly said. it's true, some girls just can't handle any expressions of male sexuality. It takes a lot of strength as a woman to deal with it in my opinion and it's not easy. I used to not be able to handle much myself. It was only when I got over my fear of men was I able to gain the strength to know how to respond without crumbling basically and trying to prevent that from happening by being very defensive around men at all times.

@@teddybeartears88 didn't you say you weren't straight tho T? I am talking about heterosexual women who are attracted to men thus their sexual orientation

@@mynonleatherlife It's definitely a complex issue, and I would like to learn more about it from women's perspective. I think a lot of guys struggle with expressions of female sexuality as well, which is why there's shame and judgement perpetuated on both sides. I grew up around a lot of women and empathized with them so I was hyper fearful of accidentally making someone uncomfortable, but operating from that frame also makes it difficult to even make healthy sexual connections. So you just have to accept that some people will judge you no matter what. I'm guessing you've probably dealt with this even more that I have given your past with erotic dancing! Your story about wanting to try out then hesitating actually reminded me of the mental gymnastics some guys go through trying to approach women then hesitating. The shame we have around sexuality in this culture is insane.

thank you Steven!!!

thank you so much

thank you Mitch!!!

Thank you Professor

tbh I am not that young but thank you for that!!

Wow what a fantastically wonderful thing to say I appreciate that very much. I think I have broken thru mY perfectionism and I have some other big topics like this to share so thank u so much for the encouragement and support. What other people or books in ur studies of attraction did u get the most from, sounds like u really have studied the field deeply

Thanks a lot for the very kind words 🙏

yay kevin thank you for the kind support...I hope I didn't already ask u this in another comment, but I am always too curious to not ask...how has it changed the way u think?

@@mynonleatherlife Honestly, just getting kind of a behind-the-scenes view of what goes on in a woman’s mind brings a lot of clarity to the ways men should interact with women in a dating/relationship context. You’ve said before that the majority of women are not able to articulate how they think/how they process the world in terms of their sexuality. Other channels such as JustPearlyThings also go into detail about how women process the world. Pearl said that women are driven by their emotions and many times can’t put into words what is so attractive/unattractive about a guy. This I think is why women talk so much about a guy’s “vibe”/“energy”. She said that she’s had times where she’s lost attraction for a guy and she can’t explain why. This could be the reason why a lot of women flake on dates if they don’t have a legitimate reason to cancel. She actually reacted to your video, you should definitely do a reaction to her reaction! Here’s her reaction: m.kzfaq.info/get/bejne/bL6nmtmjvtTPYnU.html

Thank you that means SO much to me. That is my goal 100%

aww thank you so much limeguy wow 😃i really appreciate your comment

thank you Peter

thanks Delano

thank u D W!

oh my gosh that is so wonderful to hear, can't believe you share the vids with them and they like. That is awesome. It took me a long time to understand what I was feeling too...when i was younger and dating I felt the same things but couldn't see the patterns. thanks for your very supportive and kind comment it really means a lot!!!!

@@mynonleatherlife much love and understanding to you and yours champ!! Stay healthy, Stay Feminine!!!

@J King wish I was but closer to 70 the rules vary a little for crusties!

thank you very much but I do see women expressing themselves like this or way better on tiktok and youtube al the time. Guess you just have to know where to look tho

thank you so much and what way do you think they live a lie

thank you Lerone!

Well I think Its quite pc and does fit the current trends…why do u think it doesn’t…other things I agree might not fit current trends that i talk about but this one is quite common sense and pc imo but thx a lot for the kind words

@@mynonleatherlife I guess what I mean by not PC is that you hear so much today about challenging gender norms and about how men and woman should be almost interchangeable despite thousands of years of evolution saying otherwise. We should all be treated with respect and fairness but we're still very different on a lot of basic physical, mental and emotional levels and I'm thankful some people like you still remember that.

Should of never addressed them in the first place

yay chris I am very glad 2 hear that and ur very welcome

thank you!

Oh good yes it is such an intimate experience that mixed emotions like discomfort pain shame disgust fear and many other emotions will come up as well so it can be a confusing mix but in that moment everything g is exposed and can be healed as well with acceptance and praise or u can simply just allow it to intensify the eroticism of the moment by using it for erotic domination …with her erotic pleasure in mind of course

So happy you understand what is going on better and if u can report back on how it goes cranking it up I’d love to hear!! But I understand if this is very very personal stuff

​@@mynonleatherlife : Hi Victoria, I appreciate you commenting on what I wrote a week ago. I would like to give you an idea for an additional video that might help guys understand the "examination kink" even better. As heterosexual men, we are all fascinated and extremely turned on by the visual sight of a woman's body. There would be no such thing as girly magazines if this were not the case. I think every man has fantasized about being the photographer in a nude photo shoot. Directing the woman on how to pose from one position to another. In doing so, we sometimes like to focus completely on one area of her body. Perhaps our favorite. For the sake of this example lets just say its her vagina. Men are never satisfied with just one look at it in one position. We are so captivated by her sexiness and beauty that our eyes just seem to scream for multiple views from all angles and in different states of spread. I have noticed that as the man's intensity to look increases, so does a woman's willingness to show. The back and forth energy between the two sexes seems to take on a life of its own. It is, however, necessary to build up slowly to this level of excitement for both parties. And depending upon how comfortable a woman is with her body determines how far she's willing to go. If you make her feel loved and comfortable enough the sky is the limit. But as you say, there can be no criticism of any kind in this scenario or it will completely destroy her confidence and the intimacy she shares with you...probably for good. Am I wrong in saying that its the coaxing and the level of excitement a man displays in his eyes and words that gets a woman to this heightened state of arousal? Once in this state of arousal, and she's completely open and vulnerable, the man can introduce additional word kinks into the equation to intensify it even further. For the sake of brevity I won't go into the wording but I wanted to give you this "Photographer-model" scenario as a way to help men further understand the examination kink. All men understand how it excites them to see a naked woman on full display but perhaps they don't fully understand how it excites the woman to be the subject of such admiration. I wish all men could understand this because it leads to a much deeper more soulful relationship with your woman. Anyway, just a few thoughts I thought I'd share. Thank you for being so honest and open. I truly believe you want to help men achieve the best possible outcomes with the opposite sex. Take care Victoria and keep doing what you're doing!

oh wow I am so honored!! how did u find my channel?

so happy to hear that they helped u and ur doing very well with women right now! absolutely fantastic!! did anything in particular from the videos help u out more than the rest?

@@mynonleatherlife David said in that interview that he will tell how much he likes that women directly to her without any fear and how he don't go with the SMV thing. That's where it all made sense for me. And the video where you talked about the vortex pull is just something else. Whenever I am talking to a girl I can sense how the whole mood of the girl changes when I am pulling the girl into it sometimes knowingly and sometimes unknowingly. It's just a great feeling overall.

@@prasathviswanathan267 oh wow incredible!!!!! thank u for sharing that

thanks kim

thank u for that amazing compliment Adam!!

yes this is more for the bedroom. A strong gaze from a stranger is usually quite risky and can come off quite creepy if done in the wrong setting. As I said in the video it's a very intimate thing...not something that is really appropriate from a stranger. However if you're at the club or in a location appropriate for romance it could be ok. what do u think

@@mynonleatherlife Yes, I'm trying to balance it. I'm going for a more subtle look. I don't stop and just stare at her body. What I try to do is look into her eyes (like if we're walking past each other) and just get her to hold eye contact with me for a few seconds. Kind of smiling with my eyes more than my mouth, if you can imagine that? Like, i see you and i like it, do you see me? I used to avoid eye contact a lot in non-intimate settings, so this is a little bit different for me. So far the reactions I get seemed to be mostly indifferent, or a couple look away quickly. I have had a couple lock back with me and seem to enjoy it, so.. 🤷‍♂️ lol Glad to hear from you!

Happy new year!!

thanks corey!!! I really appreciate that!!

you are so right, never lie because they will read it in your tone 100%. I know I would and it can make things much worse.

@J King Sometimes people are insecure about a body feature cos actually it is not attractive. Still you can find the person overall hot physically. And i think most people have atleast one body feature they are slightly insecure about. My comment was about this situation.

Excellent!

Very wise comments

thanks h rock!