Understanding Emotional Manipulation: BK Shivani's Eye-Opening Talk

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It's important to recognize when someone is trying to manipulate your emotions. This can be done through guilt-tripping, gaslighting, or other tactics that are meant to make you feel a certain way. It's important to set boundaries and stand up for yourself when this happens.
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@user-gf7nn5jc1i 6 ай бұрын

I came across your video last month and I am hooked. You have answered all my questions in my life. I’m taking notes and reading it every night before I sleep. You are God send to me. I wished I had seen it sooner but I guess there’s a right time for everything. To everyone who reads this my blessings to you all. Words cannot express how much and how grateful I am to you. Om Shanti.

@rudranijana8205 6 ай бұрын

Same here I also do the same thing dear...❤

@kidsstoriesbypoonam3417 6 ай бұрын

Peaceful listening

@amiyamitra3251 6 ай бұрын

Gyanjyoti Debi Saraswati Didi Shivani 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

@chidanandakrishnegowda4028 6 ай бұрын

Very happy to know about your thoughts. 🤝

@ramprasaddas948 5 ай бұрын

Very lovely discussion

@JM11423 3 ай бұрын

Recipe for Peace 1) watch bk Shivani ji's videos every morning and before sleep consistently. 2) Absorb the messages 3) Take every situation as practical sessions for what you have learnt 4) Note and Acknowledge the positive transformations in you. Congratulations you are on the path to peace😍 Based on my experience😍 I watched her videos from 2018 religiously then stopped & started practicing. Now i am unaffected by others behaviors. Even if i get affected i shift as soon as possible.

@sreevidyavenugopal5352 2 ай бұрын

U said it❤

@rosepham3001 2 ай бұрын

Congratulations.And I am really happy to hear that. It's the same experience for me as well.

@rosepham3001 2 ай бұрын

That's the recipe for happiness, for being powerful... And actually it's a way to find our own self, to get back to our nature of peace, love, happiness, power, bliss, knowledge and wisdom.

@cinthaa1 2 ай бұрын

You are SUCH an inspiration ❤😊 🙏🏽

@alpsalangad2898 2 ай бұрын

Your Words are So Precious 💞 💕 Thank you so much ❤

@sanjayarora856 6 ай бұрын

She is a blessing to human kind. Pure bliss. ❤

@ranupushpargha3977 5 ай бұрын

I love you....

@user-gf7nn5jc1i 6 ай бұрын

Thanks for your reply. I have seen some improvement on my daughter. This is what I am sending to her everyday. I’m sorry for the pain that I have caused you in the past . I’m sorry for all the critical and the judgmental thoughts I had about you. I forgive you for what you did to me. Past is past and it’s over. My past karmic account is over, never ever to come again. From now onwards my thoughts for you are love, respect and blessings. I understand you, I accept you, I bless you and I heal you. You are a pure and a powerful soul. You are peaceful, lovefull and a confident soul. You are changing to be your best. This is what I summarised after listening to her so many videos. I’m changing also and I’m at peace. Sister Shivani you are Godsend to us. Om shanti.

@deepalideshmukh456 5 ай бұрын

Such great thanks

@user-ci1eh3ip7s 3 ай бұрын

When a mother has damaged her kid beyond repair ...their is n should be no forgiveness hence if u r not mature enough to be a good mother then don't be at an age ....my mother destroyed me even though I was gud in everything n she made me doubt myself every single day ....my talents were curbed n they spend 40 lakhs on some1 who was aggressive n manipulative n still support the bad one over the good one ...some women should never be mothers

@shilpar4848 2 ай бұрын

@@user-ci1eh3ip7sEven I have had the same experience.

@ananyachakraborty4665 6 ай бұрын

According to me, She is a guide for positive culture not for abusive culture. SO do consciously whatever feels good to you. Forgive and Forget practice is great when the abuser takes accountability for their abuses not for the repeatance of their abuses. This affirms them that whatever they do will be considerable! Therefore they gets the confirmation and validation for their victim card playing to their next target and thus it goes on. SO choose wisely where to give your positive aura and where to not because there are energy vampires who will suck all out of u and will still blame you to be a dracula... 😊❤

@shaziakhawar4154 2 ай бұрын

Yes this is true

@padmajasalkar2358 3 ай бұрын

Sister Shivani....the universe sent me this video of yours in the middle of a crisis in my life, to keep my unnecessary needs and desires aside and to have peace back in my life. I have truly blessed to receive so much awareness and knowledge from you 🙏 ❤

@ravzp 6 ай бұрын

Use the “POWER to CHOOSE your right way” : The right way is - that will increase my inner strength - that will increase my flexibility - that will allow me to be the master of my mind not dependent on other - that will radiate good vibrations in me and keep me healthy - that will keep me happy always Now choose your right way. If you do not teach yourself the right way over time, you will loose the power the time when things go wrong, when the positive energy is needed must; you lost your power; when you change yourself to the response of ‘the obviously’ negative energies from outside. 🙏🙏

@kirtinarang6994 5 ай бұрын

BK Shivani is so much like a faithful teacher I ever had in my life..I am now going through a very emotional trauma these days and want my parents to support me ..I dont know why my parents dont have time but yes BK Shivani sessions helped me a lot to overcome the anxiety and depression..I am grateful to you mam...Om Shanti...

@lavi_arun 4 ай бұрын

We r with u…don’t worry, God bless you!

@vipulaahuja8042 3 ай бұрын

So true!!! Thanks, sister Shivani.May God always be with you🙏❤️

@user-fr6qt6qf7h Ай бұрын

Absolutely true. What we do quite often is what you've said. So much to learn from this. Thank you❤

@rashi2044 5 ай бұрын

Thank you ma'am I needed this so much.

@ulrikehohn6707 4 ай бұрын

Fantastic reminder ! Thank you so much 🙏

@asmasheikh5001 4 ай бұрын

Allah aap ki hifazat farmaye. Ameen keep up with the great work

@bhanugopal7132 2 ай бұрын

Came across this thoughtful video just when I needed some guidance and thank you so much Amma for your inputs. 🙏🏽

@bkharshn 6 ай бұрын

Beautiful!

@jessicahou8340 6 ай бұрын

I can’t change people! They themselves when they want can change them

@rajasekharvenkataswamy3163 5 ай бұрын

A great insigt of life to change ourselves to have all the lost things back again.

@aditiprasad8961 4 ай бұрын

Dhanyawaad mata jii for bringing BK Shivani in our life.

@RadheyRadhey108 3 ай бұрын

Shivani Didi a blessing to all the Sanatanis !!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🕉️☮️💟💞💕🍀🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸love ❤and light 💡 ❤❤❤❤

@indirakb6163 6 ай бұрын

Absolutely inspiring message ❤️

@wordsrevealed2784 6 ай бұрын

Thank you ma'am. What a wonderful phrase " Take charge"

@tomicafrance9515 6 ай бұрын

I love her so much

@JyotiShivaShakti Ай бұрын

💯Accept how it is. And don't rely on anyone. No you have. Yes you can get.

@saundryakaushal 3 ай бұрын

Seems like all my questions are answered today.. baba always shows me what I need to see when in confusion without even expecting. Om Shanti

@surindercheema5663 3 ай бұрын

Blessed to have sister in my generation.Waheguru Satnam 🙏

@rajashreesharma4067 6 ай бұрын

Such a precious wisdom didi.if all of us were to follow it,world will be heaven.God bless you.

@shellyedwards2875 5 ай бұрын

Love you for this ❤

@chandneeramsaroop7101 6 ай бұрын

Really words of wisdom

@hemavathislreddy1725 6 ай бұрын

Om shanti ❤

@aditisheoranc Ай бұрын

Absolutely amazing lessons ..thanks Sister Shivani for these precious nuggets

@mamtabhattacharyya73 6 ай бұрын

It is a tough proposition. Duty and compliance can be misconstrued as weaknesses. The time when I spoke up or made them aware then sometimes the behaviour changed. So it got me thinking if I had done this earlier I would have enforced changed behaviour long before.

@ushareddy3237 Ай бұрын

Thank you BK Shivani

@lankankeys8310 2 ай бұрын

Sometimes we seek profundity in complexity. Her message is so simple and straight to the point, which leaves no room to decipher words, but understand her wisdom. Blessings upon her and all the people her energy affects, each day.

@geddadavijayalakshmi489 6 ай бұрын

Excellent motivational guidance 🙏

@eeman_ali 4 ай бұрын

Really needed to hear this today! Thankuuu

@kayvanshah994 17 күн бұрын

Words of wisdom. Can save one from emotional manipulation...

@MrFelipefelop 4 ай бұрын

Put this on double speed,you got this,thank you for your point of view 😢

@ClassesMANI 5 ай бұрын

I had been through this. Someone manipulated me like hell. I cried all day and all night. Finally took step , got touch with you on one random reels. The world is changing!

@positiveMindset665 4 ай бұрын

Sorry that you had to go through it. One thing I’m trying to learn these days is the reason we allowed for ourselves to be manipulated and work on myself, so that I have the knowledge and cannot be manipulated by anyone easily, or know when someone is trying to manipulate me. Take care.

@charissastella8920 2 ай бұрын

How did you come out of the manipulation? But their toxicity affects you? Though I'm far away from them in very irritated by the thought of the.

@drfouziayasmeen066 6 ай бұрын

Very beautiful talk

@AnilGupta-mn2iz 6 ай бұрын

It's Global implications of your religiously spiritual discourses which affect one-in-all & all-in-one,alike.❤🎉THX.

@vdubey-co2eo 22 күн бұрын

Hi Shivani I have heard your thoughts /videos many times however this one has changed my problem which I was facing since last two year, I tried all m best however one person who was very very imp to me has manipulated and left me like tea bag , I was not able to digest it and was in pain long time but your this Video has given me a light on road and I think I can improve my emotional level and would live normal life . Thanks a lot 😊

@sidduhiremath2866 4 ай бұрын

Sister you are right,we can't change people instead of that we should take control of our mind,if we are an emotional person then people will make us weak emotionally, mentally unstable better we should create positive thoughts which make our mind strong and emotionally stable.thank you sister.

@aditiprasad8961 4 ай бұрын

God bless you maam, thank you🙏

@SenthilKumar-cr3ql 14 күн бұрын

You are my God. You are giving positive vibrations to me. I am starting to see the positive side in everything. The world is changing good for me. Thank you.

@anamei9923 3 ай бұрын

Thank you.🙏🏽💖

@peacockLife 4 ай бұрын

it is really a breach of trust .. i think those relations will never last too long. have to be careful that in changing ourself we don't change for the worse

@ratnamaissin80 6 ай бұрын

Om Shanti. 🙏🙏🙏

@geethpriyasaravanan8460 4 ай бұрын

Thank you🙏

@inspirationalwomandebasree1080 6 ай бұрын

I dont miss any of your videos didi. Every morning after meditation I listen to your speech and takes strength. I am inculcating slowly the teaching of yours. Om shaanti

@user-zb2rp1he5h 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so much 🙏

@furhananoordin9392 28 күн бұрын

Thank u your message is amazing

@carolannburke5450 Ай бұрын

Wow....life-changing. Really great, xo

@parathuvayalilayurvedaclin2056 5 ай бұрын

Great thoughts......

@jessye5418 6 ай бұрын

Very much practical and factual remedies to be broad minded and peaceful in society..... I really like many of your videos. There's a lot of suffering behind to give a courageous remedy to problems.

@Manraji 5 ай бұрын

Sister, you encourage me to be a better person with all your wisdom! 🙏 Your guidance is much appreciated!

@divyaaggarwal9860 3 ай бұрын

Thank you Didi❤❤❤

@mythreeshagowda6535 6 ай бұрын

Forgive and forget them. Next time greet them with a smile with out any expectation.

@penny6921 4 ай бұрын

Om Shanti Sis.🙏

@TakJhalMishtiMB 6 ай бұрын

Om Shanti

@monikasingh5799 4 ай бұрын

Heart feel the pain mind forgets

@erinjayawickrema7204 3 ай бұрын

Much merits ❤

@rajendraprasadsharma8807 6 күн бұрын

Ok all right🌹🌹❤❤om shanti👏👏

@user-fn1qd1hl6x 6 ай бұрын

God bless u always

@neeturaj3317 2 ай бұрын

Om Shanti sister you are my Real Angel 💓

@lizbethbautista4781 5 ай бұрын

Bk Shavani you are getting me through this wave in my life they ask me how can I be so positive and I say because of you!!

@positiveMindset665 4 ай бұрын

This is amazing to hear 😊 Good on you.

@doolariesingh2502 2 ай бұрын

Thank u 🙏🌺

@faridafahrtash1617 Ай бұрын

Om Shanti Peace / Joy Shivani

@deepapradeep876 6 ай бұрын

Ohm Shanti🙏🙏🙏

@praveennov 6 ай бұрын

Gautama transformed Angulimaala through his sheer presence. Atleast according to the Buddhist folklore.

@Doyel2808 17 күн бұрын

Yes at times we all go through this! But if once a person manipulated you he will always try that! This is a big red flag! True friends donot hurt. Who could hurt will try multiple times the same things.

@anjalinicholas4441 5 ай бұрын

Great🎉🎉

@drsuruchiupadhyay9375 3 ай бұрын

Superb ❤

@neelamkankariya1680 6 ай бұрын

Superb

@KChakravar 26 күн бұрын

Om Shanti 🙏

@avijitransingh4413 6 ай бұрын

Om shanti jii

@mandirasaha8400 17 күн бұрын

Omm Shanti 🙏🙏🙏

@amberdays3499 Ай бұрын

Wow so good❤🙏🙏

@malikasingh09 15 күн бұрын

Let's all make a beautiful community😇

@StarLightPlanets 4 ай бұрын

Your Own Mind You Have Power Over, Once You Conquer Your Own Mind , Then One Can Conquer The World.

@jnuisahadas5916 3 ай бұрын

Om Shantii Sister,,🙏🙏🙏🙏

@Fawkes021 17 күн бұрын

Shree ShantaDurga Vijayate 🕉 🙏🏻

@wamanbhide4410 6 ай бұрын

Due to Artificial intelligence, the situation described here can raise in our life. So, human has to be careful against side effects of AI. and has to keep ourselves strong by minds.

@neeturaj3317 6 ай бұрын

Good morning sister om Shanti.

@jhansilakshmi7850 6 ай бұрын

Nice words madam

@sharadakshetry5768 6 ай бұрын

ॐॐॐॐ ओम शान्ति good morning मेरा परंमपिता प्रमात्मा शिव बाबा मे बाबा का बाबा मेरा मिठे मिठे प्यारे प्यारे बाबा शुक्रिया मेरा शिव बाबा नमस्ते नमस्ते 🙏🙏❤️❤️💐💐

@rooba1042 2 ай бұрын

Om shanthi

@q2_20 Ай бұрын

om shanti didi

@user-ko2el7vs9o 2 ай бұрын

Truth

@annapurnasuresh3668 6 ай бұрын

I have watched almost all videos in English. You are really next to God. He sent you as a guru. Please if anyone translates all your videos in all regional languages it will be a great help in better understanding. Hope it comes soon. Jai Ho didi

@annapurnasuresh3668 6 ай бұрын

I'm in Karnataka

@annapurnasuresh3668 6 ай бұрын

🙏

@RamBabu-qb4rg 24 күн бұрын

A one, A class, A all the way.

@jayantakar6678 6 ай бұрын

🙏

@Marywhite-pd1hw 3 ай бұрын

A very fascinating video , this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me , I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t , I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him..

@Marywhite-pd1hw 3 ай бұрын

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

@Bharti_pal 27 күн бұрын

It’ll pass. Focus on yourself, stay busy. Love yourself and your existence. Think yourself as a pure soul , start chanting , walking on grass, take solace in spirituality. Cry as much as you can in front your loved ones. Return to your childhood and your life till now. You’ll heal ❤